How do you deal with a mom who says Allah says obey me as long as it's not haram? Just like there is an entitIed wife who in 1 mistake says you have no good and ends up in jahunnum there are moms like that.
The duties towards mother is service, take care of her, obey Allah, obey mother in service towards her as much as you have the ability. Remind mother politely the rights of wife as well.
Obay her if she is on sunah saying things according to the sunah, and try to be smart win her heart and respect her if she saying something against the sunnah than explain for her in a beautiful manner. You need to educate yourself and take some classes, read and search more , you will get there and make a lot of duaa that is the main point allah allah before fajer that Allah soften their heart Barak allah feek
Motherinlsws can be v controlling and abusive They pretend to look after the dil but they are,so manipulative and have different rules for their own daughters which are lenient but much stricter rules for the dil because that's not her daughter and she doesn't really care about her and that's the reality
But im sorry sheikh alot of men have not been brought up with strong father role models.The father himself is weak,so has weak sons,so it carries on as a generational thing.Society lacks strong men(i mean strength not physically but mentally ie discipline, with purpose)There is alot of toxic masculinity instead.
May Allah preserve our shaykh. Aameen
Touching on a much needed topic especially in asian communities
BaarakAllaahu feek
May Allah preserve our Shaykh and protect him always
May Allah ta'ala safeguard the sheikh..ameen
Asslam alai kum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatahu. Easier said than done. May Allah ease our difficulties. Ameen
Alhamdulillah , finally. Was eagerly waiting for this part of lecture on this topic with context(the asked question) to be uploaded separately
jazakumuLlahu khayra
Alhamdulillah Sheikh
باراک اللہ فیکم
Mashallah brother
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May Allah preserve our Shaykh Abdulwaahid.
The society is run by MEN!
Baarokallahu feekum.
This happens in every house sadly.
Translate his videos in English
Jazakallahu khair
Great excellent ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
حفظه الله
How do you deal with a mom who says Allah says obey me as long as it's not haram?
Just like there is an entitIed wife who in 1 mistake says you have no good and ends up in jahunnum there are moms like that.
The duties towards mother is service, take care of her, obey Allah, obey mother in service towards her as much as you have the ability.
Remind mother politely the rights of wife as well.
Obay her if she is on sunah saying things according to the sunah, and try to be smart win her heart and respect her if she saying something against the sunnah than explain for her in a beautiful manner. You need to educate yourself and take some classes, read and search more , you will get there and make a lot of duaa that is the main point allah allah before fajer that Allah soften their heart
Barak allah feek
اللهم تقبل هذه الكلمة القصيرة وشيخنا الفاضل أبو خديجة عبد الواحد حفظه الله ماشاء عليك رائع
Motherinlsws can be v controlling and abusive
They pretend to look after the dil but they are,so manipulative and have different rules for their own daughters which are lenient but much stricter rules for the dil because that's not her daughter and she doesn't really care about her and that's the reality
7:32 ههه
But im sorry sheikh alot of men have not been brought up with strong father role models.The father himself is weak,so has weak sons,so it carries on as a generational thing.Society lacks strong men(i mean strength not physically but mentally ie discipline, with purpose)There is alot of toxic masculinity instead.