Tips To Overcome Your Phobia of Loud Noises I Nik & Eva

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  • @v6nnyt58
    @v6nnyt58 3 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    My phobia started when I was young, I’m afraid of loud cars, guns, fireworks, thunderstorms, balloons you name it and it’s effecting me so much, I just don’t know how to get it to stop

    • @nikandevaspeakman
      @nikandevaspeakman  3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Please watch the film and follow the tips on the film on which you commented. You can overcome your issue once you address the cause and realise that loud noises keep us safe. They alert us to danger, but the noise itself can never cause any harm.

    • @keishailiahiparker757
      @keishailiahiparker757 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Same here !!! Always with headphones on during New Years.

    • @thunder_reflex214
      @thunder_reflex214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Yes I have the same phobia it's also called phonophobia the fear of sound (especially fireworks).
      This is like a joke to others like people says that " it just a sound take it from your ears " because it feels silly to them . But for once who experience it. It is like they were in a hell . I have this phobia and I know the pain how others feel .it's way too horrible . For example there is one guy who fears to see jokers it was like a joke to us and we tell him that don't worry it is just a common person we sometimes even scold him for that . But the real pain that only he can experience. So now compare your phobia's pain with this one now you understand how this works. You can also compare anyone's fear with it. how much you fear of that is how much they do . I know that my words are confusing. But I experienced it . It's sad but words could not cure this . I am sorry to say this but only if you experienced this phobia then only you could understand the real pain of them.I got many scoldings and bullies by friends for this phobia they also do It in front of my house I am nearly dead for that . I cried and cried but I couldn't change myself then I came to know that it was a phobia but no one believed me I searched for the cure for days and months but nothing seems to work on me . The only cure for this phobia is to stay away from the loud sounds as possible as you can . Especially for firecrackers this plays a major role in this phobia . So stay away from it . I wanted to express my feelings but I can't because everyone's mind is different. That's it if I spoke anything wrong forgive me guys only the people with this phobia can understand me.

    • @UserUnknownUdontKnow
      @UserUnknownUdontKnow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@keishailiahiparker757 me too im 15 yrs old and a guy and its so embarrassing 😭

    • @UserUnknownUdontKnow
      @UserUnknownUdontKnow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@nikandevaspeakman my fear of loud sounds started when i was in 3rd grade is that normal? My mindset is telling me that i have fear of loud sounds that's why i dont want to be exposed that's why until now im in 10th grade and i still can't get over with it

  • @tracalopsitte
    @tracalopsitte 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    "And even champagne corks?" only a few seconds in and I'm definitely staying, I have never heard of anyone talking about this fear when it's been bothering me my entire life. It's become so bad over the years I feel anxious days if not weeks in advance before a big event (bday etc) I've felt so alone all my life and it's so nice to just hear someone bringing it up

    • @nikandevaspeakman
      @nikandevaspeakman  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This is a common fear. You are definitely not alone.

  • @bangtanmurs8122
    @bangtanmurs8122 3 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    Thank you, this helps because I’ve been scared of both balloons and fireworks for as long as I can remember, and I’m the last year because of lockdown it got a lot worse and basically started taking over my life.

    • @nikandevaspeakman
      @nikandevaspeakman  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pleased to hear our film has helped 💕

    • @cheyenneallen4286
      @cheyenneallen4286 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @SweetSxgar YT me too! I’m watching this because I feel sad and not normal, watching every one else enjoy fireworks.

    • @Dusan164
      @Dusan164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      same! right now i cant lay in my bed and sleep, im locked up in my bathroom with my earphones in because im expecting firecrackers to explode, just because few of them exploded this morning

    • @rohinitreddy4013
      @rohinitreddy4013 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi army can u please tell me how did u overcome this fear

    • @themagniranthine
      @themagniranthine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same.. i was really scared of fireworks, balloons, cinema speakers, drum sounds, and thunder sounds. i overcome most of them except thunder.. i don't know why it's so hard to overcome it and it got worse since this pandemic

  • @christiansolis9482
    @christiansolis9482 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    My phobia is triggering during the New Year season, I easily got scared even in popping of the baloons nor the popping confettis, I've been suffering for this since I was a little, before even the slightest pop of bubble gum I'm being scared, and people who saw me being scared will just laugh and think that I'm coward because they don't know the trauma I got by just being shocked by those sudden sounds. Thanks for this, this is a great help.

    • @roxannearellano2840
      @roxannearellano2840 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same i bet pinoy ka cheer up lang satin

    • @analyntiempo9285
      @analyntiempo9285 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Huy same kaya kapag new year sobrang depress ko diko alam gagawin ko grabe 😭😭😭

  • @arika.0_
    @arika.0_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Actually I live in India and I have this phobia and I am scared of both balloons and fireworks. it would not be big of a deal if I was not in India because there is a certain festival where we light fireworks, actually, VERY LOUD fireworks. The festival's name is Deepawali, or in short, Diwali. It's the festival of lights but I don't know which idiot thought it'd be good to light fireworks with loud noises on this day. And my brother just doesn't get it. He scares me with the fireworks every year on this day. And tbh it was yesterday!

    • @peachystudio3491
      @peachystudio3491 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Heyy i feel you so much I m from India too it's literally so. Painful, I m even scared to attend weddings cause of crackers too, I just feel thankful that there are certain people with the same life like me

    • @arika.0_
      @arika.0_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@peachystudio3491 omg samee!! In my cousin's wedding there were crackers and I didn't want to go there but I had to, tbh it's scary.

    • @sanskrut9985
      @sanskrut9985 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same with me😢

    • @nirvannaik2086
      @nirvannaik2086 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here 😢

    • @arika.0_
      @arika.0_ ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Diwali has come again everyone!! Good luck to all who have phonophobia and live in India :) (it's tomorrow)

  • @libiiiii
    @libiiiii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I seriously hate the sound of thunderstorms I just watched your other video about it now by watching this as well I feel much better

  • @dixitpatel017
    @dixitpatel017 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I have this phobia since childhood and I am 31 years old. It still creeps me out and when Diwali Festival comes, I feel numb and scare everytime. I want to go out to see fireworks but still inside from my heart, that fear of loud fireworks noises won't make me out of the house. Tell me what should I do??

    • @sinchanakubsad5862
      @sinchanakubsad5862 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same ...in few days Diwali is coming and here i am scared to hell

    • @kissansari95
      @kissansari95 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have this phobia since childhood n tomorrow is diwali.. crackers are bursting here n I'm in my bed with earphones plugged in... These 4-5 diwali days are absolutely nightmare

    • @sonalipetkar9599
      @sonalipetkar9599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yus same here I just hate diwali😭 i am very much scared for tomorrow

    • @sinchanakubsad5862
      @sinchanakubsad5862 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@kissansari95 absolutely gorgeous others it is festival but for us it is NIGHTMARE.... Everyone says to come out of it but only we know how difficult it is 😪😭

    • @poojadhattatriyajadhav8110
      @poojadhattatriyajadhav8110 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too have this fear. Pls tell me a way to overcome this😭

  • @akanshajha7781
    @akanshajha7781 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I am an Indian and 18 years old and since my childhood i am suffering from this problem and because of this i feel ashamed people make fun of me and say that i am such a coward and behave like a Toddler 🥺 that makes me awful!! And my younger brother who is a special child is facing the same and he is even more vulnerable to this !!

    • @UserUnknownUdontKnow
      @UserUnknownUdontKnow ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lol i also have this fear and the saddest part is that im a guy which 17 years old and obviously people call me coward with that and they always say that im not a true man :((

    • @StartPrepWithMe
      @StartPrepWithMe ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@UserUnknownUdontKnowif they say that you are not true man then said to them that send your GF to me for one night then i will show you

    • @veena6182
      @veena6182 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Broo same I'm 18 yrs old Nd From India whenever there's Diwali I get soo scared cuz of the crackers, people be like It's just a sound come outside nd listen to those sounds that way you'll stop being scared " but broo it's the worsttt 😭 I get anxiety nd panic attacks cuz of those sounds 😭

  • @angelinarocchio6315
    @angelinarocchio6315 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    for some reason, fireworks don't scare me but the highest setting on hair dryers, those wind machines that dry your hands in bathrooms, and loud motorcycles make me jump and I tend to avoid them

  • @biljam972
    @biljam972 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I don't really have that much of phobia of loud noises as it stresses me out. Every time I hear firecracker, even if it is not close to me, I feel enormous amount of stress.

  • @p.theodoridoy
    @p.theodoridoy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I have a fear of the thunder sound. Im not afraid of thunderstorms, I literally love rain but this fear of the loud sound is so annoying. I usually cover my ears and put loud music so i wont hear the storm. Its so scary. Theres a thunderstorm happening now and i can barely type because im covering my ears. Its extremely loud.

    • @eun8455
      @eun8455 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same any tips on how you overcome it?

    • @p.theodoridoy
      @p.theodoridoy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@eun8455 Hello! I think I've overcame the 50% of my fear. Let me tell you how. First of all you need to know is that you are NOT afraid of the thunder, you're just afraid of the loud noises. I dont really know how to explain it to you but since I started being more "spiritual" and close to nature my thought about thunder has changed. Maybe its also because im dealing with derealization problems and thunderstorms make me feel alive. I dont know. In other words start thinking things like "this is life" "im safe with nature" and try making yourself believe that you love the sound even if you dont. Say things like "im excited by this feeling" "i love thunders and theres nothing to be afraid of" until you believe it. Fake it. Go outside during thunderstorms and stare at the beautiful rainy view. The sudden sound scares most of the people, but you should not be afraid of it. It cant hurt you unless you are in dangerous places for example in the sea or the top of a mountain. And lastly dont forget to breathe and do breathing exercises to keep yourself calm and dont panick.

    • @maryjanelillie3361
      @maryjanelillie3361 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Take care, Thinking if you

  • @dsdurga-9788
    @dsdurga-9788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I've been scared of fireworks especially bombs , I am an Indian so we celebrate diwali , so I don't know when the bomb blows up somewhere like it is so sudden that I get scared thank u , this helped me a lot.

  • @Joeyfordayz2301
    @Joeyfordayz2301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have a phobia of fireworks, balloons and stuff like that in witch makes en explosion sound. I got the phobia when I was 4 years old and was on a visit to Disneyland and at night all of te sudden *Bang* *Boom* *Pop* and my heart rate went through the roof when the fireworks started. I told my dad to cover my ears but that felt like it did nothing. Ive been so scared and so fearful of fireworks balloons and any bomb explosion ever since then. My mom understands why I don’t want to go outside on New Year’s Eve and days like that, but my dad just won’t stop repeating the sentence: “Just grow up, get manly” no matter what I tell him he just says “ok, but just grow out of it, man up” and now I’m 14 years old. 10 years after my phobia started. And I’m still very scared. My dream is for people to understand what I feel. Because I’m the “looser” in my class not able to take a balloon pop/firework explosion outside. 😭

  • @EllaGreenwood22
    @EllaGreenwood22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This is really helpful. I had a phobia of balloons/ loud noises until about a year and a half ago, where I managed to mostly ‘get over it’, but because of lockdown, it’s started creeping back.

    • @nikandevaspeakman
      @nikandevaspeakman  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So pleased you found our film helpful. Well done on addressing your phobia.

  • @mxk0.
    @mxk0. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I’m an 11 year old girl with sonophobia, it causes you to be very overwhelmed around loud noice and even maybe panic attacks.

  • @northernking8003
    @northernking8003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I will explain my problem
    When I hear loud noise I shiver 🥶 . When suddenly something happens we tremble it's called reflex action. I don't have any psychological problems. I know it's just a sound 😅 but this reflex action it's the real problem.
    Fireworks+ air horns they are my biggest enemies. Most of the time I try to escape from such situations. During festival seasons most of the time I use earphones 🎧 .
    my best friend once teased me " six foot alpha male acting like a baby" 😭 it was the worst day in my life. I can't even imagine that situation :( This problem started when I was studying in 6th STD
    Now iam doing my post graduation age 23 .

    • @nikandevaspeakman
      @nikandevaspeakman  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What you describe is a normal phobic response however once the phobia is addressed these symptoms will pass to do so seek therapy if needed and do take a look at the tips we share.

    • @northernking8003
      @northernking8003 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nikandevaspeakman Thankyou 🤝

  • @milicaj745
    @milicaj745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My mom said I was scares since I was little, I was afraid of vacuumer, or idk those things that make noise. When i grew a bit in like 6-7 year, I used to go under desk with hands on ears while my brother play with firecrackers, or balloons or gum balloon. I was scared since I was little and that just grew more. I am not scared of regular things from house but sudden door thud or clap make me flinch, those are minimalistic, but balloons, fireworks firecrackers, dinamites awake my panic attack just by someone talking about that. It's really messed cuz no one have it who we know, so they are easy to judge me and scream at me thinking that I overreact a

    • @badeyes6329
      @badeyes6329 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was searching for this comment cuz it relates me perfectly..My fear of firecrackers started when i was 4..I just hate the sound of loud crackers..Im 20 now and still nothing has changed..Now after growing up it feels so embarrassing to get scared of firecrackers..I need to get rid of this freaking phobia😫

    • @milicaj745
      @milicaj745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@badeyes6329 Yesss like you are seeing al children being normal and not affected...I hate that I am scared of every louder noise like balloon, confetti thing and All...I was scared since birth

  • @Catssom25
    @Catssom25 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I flinch at any sudden noises such as dogs barking and fireworks. Even if i stay in the presence of a dog barking my body continues to flinch and i cannot control it. Any tips please? .I remember this starting from being about 3 years old.

    • @snapple6024
      @snapple6024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same I keep flinching every time my dog barks 🙁

  • @johncarlocortezano9111
    @johncarlocortezano9111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank god I found this🥺 I'm 17 yrs old when Im in 4yrs and now Ive been experiencing this every new year my family is bonding together watching fireworks and other firecrackers while me always in the room just to overcome this problem Im always crying and I know Im in trauma but when Im grower like maybe in my last year and this year I know I can face this fears I hope this video will help for me thankyou for uploading this thankyou so much.

    • @nikandevaspeakman
      @nikandevaspeakman  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Really hope it helps. All phobias are learned due to past life events, most often in childhood and this is why they often feel irrational. However the good news is that all phobias can be overcome.

  • @matthewiles5714
    @matthewiles5714 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I've always been afraid of loud bangs like cars backfiring, champagne corks, fireworks, pyrotechnics, balloons bursting. Even if I know that the loud noise is gonna happen, I still put my fingers in my ears and cower. I hate 05th November and New Year celebrations because of the fireworks but my beautiful partner comforts me.

  • @Ann-ub4mf
    @Ann-ub4mf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What if its construction noise? Like drilling or hammering or banging?

  • @chloelambert8770
    @chloelambert8770 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I can relate to this lot because because I don’t like load noises as I have sensory overload, I can’t stand very loud noises such as buses ambulances fire engines people talking. It sends me into having a sensory overload. It’s horrible 😢😣
    I have just brought your book conquering anxiety, You guys are so inspirational ❤️

    • @nikandevaspeakman
      @nikandevaspeakman  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks so much. Hope you find our book very helpful 💕

  • @Ted-E007
    @Ted-E007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Im only really scared of fire works and makes me hold my ears. At one point I made my hands sore for a week and I have told my parents about it but they still make me go to firework shows like July 4th and it makes me scared.

  • @on-yt5493
    @on-yt5493 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have this fear from childhood but as i grew up to 16 in public i feel ashamed so i just feel the sound of bombs during diwali and other occasions some times i get panic attacks some times not its 50 50 but if i know its gonna burst its not a great deal for me i can take it like others do but when i am alone i cant control so i close my ears

  • @fantoomgaming5426
    @fantoomgaming5426 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Please help me i am scared of baallons , fireworks, thunder, how can i overcome my fear please reply

    • @nikandevaspeakman
      @nikandevaspeakman  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is the purpose of this film to share some tips to help. Do please take a look and also some of our other phobia films here on our TH-cam channel.

    • @fantoomgaming5426
      @fantoomgaming5426 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nikandevaspeakman i watched the films of yours it doesn't help 😓😓😓

  • @hermellabest8293
    @hermellabest8293 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So I had this phobia ever since my mom and dad got into a fight. We went on vacation to Ethiopia and since everything was loud there, I kind of started to get used to the loud sounds. When I got back to America It had left but after a few months from Ethiopia It completely came back all over again.

  • @nightmarepokemon1143
    @nightmarepokemon1143 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don't like balloons but it doesn't make me panic just flinch or jump. I normally leave the area if there are balloons around. But I have an extreme fear of fireworks (pyrotechnaphobia I believe is what it's called) I've had it for as long as I can remember and they give me massive panic attacks. My mom didn't believe me until after a large firework went off near by and she tried to stop me from running away I attacked and badly injured her. She believes me now. I've tried many different ways to get rid of it but have had no luck.

  • @Angel_fan666
    @Angel_fan666 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am afraid of many kinds of Loud noises but most firework and ballons Im only 13 years Old and it isnt easy to feel this and i have had it like this since i was 3 years Old and i have no idea how it happend and only 2 years back me and my School Where in theams and we nedad to do tings like ægg run and i came to a place Where i neded to pop ballons and my partner Where Holding the ballon and i needed to pop it but When all the otter theams startet popping there ballons i Got a panick atack i rusht over to a corner an startet crying and Thea i dont remember anything for Maybritt 10 min and Thea i vokse up laying Down in the corner whit a Teacher lokking at me and my best Friend and my partner in the game siting right next to me nothing works how Can i get rid of this?

  • @threea1061
    @threea1061 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    For me it's always been balloons. You just never know when they're going to pop. When they do pop my body makes a sudden movement and my heartbeats fast.

  • @jocider5698
    @jocider5698 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm a 27 year old man, and I have this phobia. I've been frustrated because I can't put a pin on any singular event that would have caused me to have this phobia. My parents and older sister would occasionally jump out and scare me, and my bus driver would honk after I got off the bus because he thought it was funny when I would have my hands over my ears and jump. Right now, I feel depressed because I think my threshold has gone down, even coughing can be anxiety inducing now.

  • @roselong3489
    @roselong3489 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    There’s fireworks going off and I’m so scared :’)

    • @emeryschnick
      @emeryschnick 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same :)

    • @ShortParham
      @ShortParham 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too

    • @roselong3489
      @roselong3489 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I had to go to a firework event on July 4th and I was so close to crying-

  • @om264_45
    @om264_45 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sir/Mam, I am very afraid of fireworks and balloons. As you said it is a sign of celebration, I know it but can you just tell me how to overcome it. Beacause of this fear I can't enjoy Birthday's and many festivals. It's my humble request that you give me tips or share the link of the video in which tips are discussed.

  • @Samantha-ze9ml
    @Samantha-ze9ml 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I haven watched it yet but I hope it helps bc I’m Afraid of thunderstorms, rain on my window, guns(I don’t usually hear those), fireworks, construction, heavy things falling, so I really hope this helps bc I can’t sleep to rain or thunder and I’m up very late bc I can’t sleep

  • @UserUnknownUdontKnow
    @UserUnknownUdontKnow 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When i was a kid i remembered im scared of loud noises but at the same time no let me explain when i was in first grade im not scared of loud sounds and when i turn into second grade i have a fear of loud sounds and when i turn third grade my loud noises cameback again and when i turned fourth grade until now im tenth grade i still have fear of loud sounds

  • @laimawolf6826
    @laimawolf6826 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't get really scared by loud noises like bangs or cars roaring but if someone suddenly starts talking 1 decibal too loud than I expect,or some dishes crash together in the sink or fireworks go off; I instantly jump and get kinda on edge.
    I do still like the fireworks but anytime I'm somewhat near them,my body shakes as if a leaf on a tree in a damn storm. And nobody else does that! I even tried wearing alot of clothes to see if it's because of the cold but nope.
    It's weird and I've been trying to find why that may be

  • @bonniematthews3606
    @bonniematthews3606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have had a fear of loud noises since I was a baby. It has ruined my dream of joining the military.

  • @Asad_Jaffery
    @Asad_Jaffery 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ohh that exact happens with me, what to do ? Some time my friends laugh on my or some time they ignore like not happened with me anything,
    I always scared from unexpected sudden sounds, like fireworks, balloon sounds etc.

  • @justaperson2767
    @justaperson2767 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm 14 and suffer with this phobia, with balloons,probably gun shots (I don't know as don't hear them often), fireworks, cars+motorbikes and more. And I have a special ear device to help solve this issue,they are special ear buds that only block a certain part of your ear, the part that picks up loud sounds when you hear them. I was wondering if blocking the sound out with these is the best or right way to go about this.

    • @nikandevaspeakman
      @nikandevaspeakman  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The best thing would be to overcome your fear of loud noises as then you no longer need a contingency plan.

    • @justaperson2767
      @justaperson2767 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      i will try that overcoming the fear, thank you for your advice, I'm hoping it helps

    • @hopeup7234
      @hopeup7234 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@justaperson2767can you tell me what device you use to block the sounds ? I am 20 but I still put headphones in if I hear any sounds

    • @Essie806
      @Essie806 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What device is that? I am very interested to know?

    • @justaperson2767
      @justaperson2767 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Essie806 The brand is called Calmer, you might get results if you search for calmer noise protection earplugs as well :)

  • @sahasraponnu4417
    @sahasraponnu4417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm 14 now
    My parents and my frnds says don't get scared they are just sounds
    But those sounds brings tears in my eyes In sec😫😫😫😫
    My all neighbors kids blast crackers happily..without any fear
    Only me sitting inside room
    Increasing TV volume
    Closing my ears through fingers....
    Suddenly crying...praying to god
    Some some times sitting Alone crying hardly as I can
    Talking to my self....why only Me??
    Why god is doing this to me😓😓😓😓

    • @Priyadharshini-ik2im
      @Priyadharshini-ik2im 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same problem

    • @sahasraponnu4417
      @sahasraponnu4417 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Priyadharshini-ik2im
      I will cry daily even now too
      I came from school...
      I started crying
      All are enjoying festival except me
      Even 4 yrs children enjoying..by cracking crackers at my home...
      From 3 yrs old I'm suffering with this fear..hope god will show his grace on me
      No one understands our problem
      Instead of understanding they make fun of us😪😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @Priyadharshini-ik2im
      @Priyadharshini-ik2im 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me to sri.which district u?

    • @sahasraponnu4417
      @sahasraponnu4417 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm from rangareddy dist telangana
      Wt about u??

    • @Priyadharshini-ik2im
      @Priyadharshini-ik2im 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm from Pudukkottai district in tamilnadu

  • @ch_yenne
    @ch_yenne ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m scared of everything that is loud. I have this phobia since i was young and it affects me on a daily bases. I’ve told a lot of people at school but they just think i’m making this up and they don’t recognize my fear. Even teachers know but they do nothing about it. It gives me so much stres. I’m scared of balloons, plastic gloves, plastic bags, party poppers, fireworks, guns, chemistry/sience lessons, paper, party’s, loud motorcycles. It doesn’t help that everyone at my school absolutly love popping balloons and plastic bags and that every opportunity they have they will do it. I’ve tried everything to don’t have this fear anymore but it gives me so much anxiety. Every time i see a balloon i get an panic attack and it has made me cry at school multiple times.

    • @ch_yenne
      @ch_yenne ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope these tips will help, thankyou for making this video!

  • @rivkyb7840
    @rivkyb7840 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have a fear of screaming. How do I go about that? Cuz screaming is 90% a negative thing.

    • @nikandevaspeakman
      @nikandevaspeakman  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      The question is why do you perceive screaming as something so negative. Something must have occurred to create this heightened sensitivity? Once you know this, you can then start to challenge this x

  • @lullaby_honeymoon5918
    @lullaby_honeymoon5918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m afraid of only fire alarms. It’s so unexpected.. my fear started when I was a child. I’m now in college, living on campus still afraid of fire alarms. Whenever we have a drill, I grab my cat and leave immediately with fear, when we return inside it takes a long while for me to leave my seat and even difficulty sleeping out of anxiety, thinking the fire alarm going off in my ear. Now, I’m trying to unlearn my fear of fire alarms by believing that fire alarms are good things.

    • @emilia4516
      @emilia4516 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So am I! I am just terrified that they will go off at any time. I was so anxious during 5th grade about it that my teachers noticed and had to help me. Do you know any ways to cope with this?

  • @leandreigdtan5133
    @leandreigdtan5133 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I want to overcome this 🥲 my family ridicule me and I blame them for not taking this seriously

  • @cosmicmauve
    @cosmicmauve 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I can handle a loud noise, but it's when it's when it is _repetitive_ that I can't deal. I feel rage. I think in part it has to do with the fact that I live alone and I feel very vulnerable and there's no one to protect me. I also feel trapped. My apartment is supposed to be my sanctuary where I can wind down, so I also feel resentful that I have to hear other people who are being, in my view, inconsiderate. I am using hypnotherapy that I found on YT and it sort of helps but I'm afraid of what I'll do sometimes (edit to say: What I'll do to myself, but only because I feel trapped by sound). I feel real helplessness with this problem, I can't tell the whole world to shut up. I can't even stand people repeating themselves over and over. As I write this my neighbour is again playing her piano and it stresses me so much that I think I hear the song now even when she's not playing. I feel very disrespected by repetitive sound that I didn't ask for.

  • @shenbagaveniP
    @shenbagaveniP 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    From where I can watch the film? Kindly help

  • @mehdihouoiry7560
    @mehdihouoiry7560 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    my phobia started afyer my brother popped a firecracker next to me and im still struggling to this day

  • @ROALkanarhi
    @ROALkanarhi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My way of how to not afraid of fireworks:The way is that think about it and then think what it's just in the sky it won't hurt you,go outside look at the fireworks keep calm you will successfully be brave!

  • @sophiesimpson7809
    @sophiesimpson7809 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m absolutely terrified of balloons due to when I was a child, a kid came upto me when I was a child, with the biggest balloon there is, burst it right in my face - never been the same since

    • @sophiesimpson7809
      @sophiesimpson7809 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I also can’t stand fireworks too :(

    • @hollyroberts8307
      @hollyroberts8307 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm terrified of balloons

    • @sophiesimpson7809
      @sophiesimpson7809 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hollyroberts8307 I’m sorry to hear that, i hate how terrified I am of them… it ruins my life - I don’t know many people who have this phobia! I got bullied for 5 years because of it too

  • @BBISMEME.
    @BBISMEME. 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just have very sensitive ears and they have just been getting worse so I have developed this fear and I do not know how.

  • @-uri1414
    @-uri1414 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    About balloons, I'm feeling good, I don't like balloons popping sound but I like them as long as it not pop. However, I have a massive issue with fireworks, even when I'm in my room with music in headphones I’m still feeling a big anxiety attack that even feels painfully

    • @nikandevaspeakman
      @nikandevaspeakman  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your fear of loud noises has an origin. Something has occurred in your lifetime (most likely childhood) which has given you a heightened awareness. Addressing this origin is the start, as when you can alter your perspective positively on this, this will then positively alter you feelings too.

  • @hammadshahid3661
    @hammadshahid3661 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m only afraid of firecrackers and bangs since I was too young I tried to overcome my fear but didn’t get a solution by my self new year parties, weddings etc make me anxious and I always wanna close my ears but I try to face it sometime so I can overcome.
    So it’s a new year night facing my fear will help?

  • @oce4nistheman316
    @oce4nistheman316 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is just the video I was looking for . I have been scared of fireworks and loud noises since childhood this can bring me problems when I join the army . Thank you.

  • @zxck1k702
    @zxck1k702 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Its Christmas and there's always firecrackers and fireworks

  • @shannon150
    @shannon150 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Super helpful

  • @ashleymartinez4400
    @ashleymartinez4400 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Every time my parents mention fireworks I always panic and wear my headphones and blast music and hide in the closet because of how scared I am of the loudness of fireworks

  • @cheyannem9194
    @cheyannem9194 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have fear of fireworks tornado sirnenes thunderstorms loud poping noises the sound of a hammer anything thats loud will startle me or i wil start to cry

    • @chetangamer6366
      @chetangamer6366 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I too have fear of fireworks and I am from India and diwali is near now I am very worried that what should I do.

  • @josyshen2535
    @josyshen2535 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My child is very scared of big truck or big buses noises and we have to go everyday to school through a bridge where there are lots of truck and buses passing by. Any advise please?

    • @nikandevaspeakman
      @nikandevaspeakman  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Do you know how it started? However, do watch the film with our tips and also we have other films here on our channel to help with some techniques to feel calmer. Take a look at the film called ‘Stop Anxiety Now’ as this could really help while in the car.

  • @DorkingEagle
    @DorkingEagle ปีที่แล้ว

    problem is that fireworks for me i rarely hear them outside a football stadium. I can't go in the other direction because there's only a small safe area and it's not vecause i go down there directly under where the bang is which really freaks me out

  • @dannybubalo5656
    @dannybubalo5656 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Could it have started from looking up firework injuries on accident and associating the bang of fireworks with that?

  • @luvlyf222
    @luvlyf222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Idk but I fear alot of loud noises
    Loud cars/motorcycles
    Balloons
    Fireworks
    Any bang sound..
    And when I was little I never had problem with this untill I became 6 and saw a motorcycle and I started crying and holding my ears for some reason..
    But the weird thing is that u mentioned fire alarms, ambulance like those sounds don't scare scare me at all

  • @keishailiahiparker757
    @keishailiahiparker757 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have been scared of fireworks for 23 years. I am not sure what it is but it have giving me anxiety with that and loud cars and balloons. I should get tested for PTSD.

  • @Engene_CONNECT
    @Engene_CONNECT ปีที่แล้ว

    I have always been afraid of vacuums, Leaf Blowers, Hand dryers, etc. I really don’t know why but I feel like a can’t breathe when I’m around it. I hate it.

  • @mahra756
    @mahra756 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm scared of balloon popping I Panic when they pop I avoid going to party because I know there will be balloons
    I'm fine with seeing or touching blowing them but if someone touch the I freak out because I feel it will pop
    And if I was in a room and they are a balloon with someone else all I will think about is the balloon
    And I hate the party poppers

    • @nikandevaspeakman
      @nikandevaspeakman  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for commenting. Yes these are all consistent avoidances and fears of anyone suffering with this phobia. Really hope our film offers some help to help you feel a little better.

  • @lillyanctil7856
    @lillyanctil7856 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video was helpful, I’ve been afraid of fire alarms since elementary school, and in middle school I had to go with a teacher and wait outside when they happened cause I was so terrified. Last year my anxiety got really bad about them happening and sometimes I felt like I could hear the alarm in my ears, and every little noise in the classroom scared me. Now going into 10th grade this year, I’ve been listing to recordings of fire alarms so when the sound goes off I’ll be more calm about it. Sometimes I get anxiety about them and they never even happen. Any extra tips about how to control my anxiety during school?

  • @shale7005
    @shale7005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nik and Eva I'm curious to ask you both why you became interested in schema conditioning as you previously worked in banking? it's a very interesting and helpful subject. Also as children did you have any interest in geometric shapes and tessellations as each surface can represent a different perspective.

  • @hulCAWmanianUniverse
    @hulCAWmanianUniverse 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I hate unexpected Loud Noises... especially jumpscares and i have an extreme fear of Losing My Hearing due to loud unexpected noises... i especially hate balloons

  • @JacobCastle27031999
    @JacobCastle27031999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thunder/lightning, fireworks and balloons.. it’s set to thunder tomorrow and i’m at work don’t know what to do

    • @nikandevaspeakman
      @nikandevaspeakman  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You poor thing. We have a technique here on our channel that could help. It’s called ‘Stop Anxiety Now’ and its a quick technique to help calm you. Take a look and give it ago every time you feel anxious. Hope it helps.

  • @artistfun7630
    @artistfun7630 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much whenever i heard a balloon pop i start crying

  • @depressedidiot5761
    @depressedidiot5761 ปีที่แล้ว

    18 years old, my fear of loud noises would be triggered the most by crowd noises, everytime my fear of loud noises get triggered I would end up crying like a baby, fair to say this can apply for other loud noises as well

  • @jjos77
    @jjos77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    it’s only loud cars and motorcycles that get me so scared

  • @pigeonpig5037
    @pigeonpig5037 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have a HUGE fear of fire alarms they aren't scary but the noise IS SO LOUD I have fallen out of my seat before... and I live in anxiety of fire alarms from the first fire alarm I had in kindergarten

    • @krakenosu111
      @krakenosu111 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      oh my gosh I'm having the same problem! I came here for help, did you fix it any way? My principle refuses to pull me out of class before it happens anymore. I'm beyond terrified, I go back to school soon and I've never been so worried.

    • @emilia4516
      @emilia4516 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Om same!! I am going back to school this year and I am worrying about fire alarms. Do y’all know any tips to help with this??

    • @krakenosu111
      @krakenosu111 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@emilia4516 hi emilia! I have the same problem, try talking to your councelor or the school or something, it seems scary to talk to them at first but eventually it gets a lot better. if they don't pull you out of class or something try exposure therapy!

    • @emilia4516
      @emilia4516 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@krakenosu111 Oh ok thanks so much! God bless you x

    • @krakenosu111
      @krakenosu111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@emilia4516 God bless you too! I wish you the best of luck, I'm still struggling with this problem, but hopefully you won't have to worry as much ♥♥

  • @J3r_z7
    @J3r_z7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Its Fourth of July and im inside right now because of the loud noises so yeah i’m going to watch this YES im very scared of loud noises

  • @kyematthews816
    @kyematthews816 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I used to hate balloons popping I’m a lot better with them now and it started With pound shop balloons popping by themselves sitting on the floor no one was touching them and they just started exploring by themselves

    • @nikandevaspeakman
      @nikandevaspeakman  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gosh that’s unusual. There must have been heat below them perhaps.

  • @Nga-1984
    @Nga-1984 ปีที่แล้ว

    I used to afraid of train horn in the middle of the night, thunder and power pole sound in Vietnam which gives me nightmare.. I used to always dream of giant shape light leaning on me and woke up crying.

  • @Itsdasummer32
    @Itsdasummer32 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for this video it really helps

    • @nikandevaspeakman
      @nikandevaspeakman  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So pleased to hear that. Thank you for the feedback 💞

  • @zxck1k702
    @zxck1k702 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm trying its not working I'm terrified😖

  • @zxck1k702
    @zxck1k702 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm 12 years old what should I do

  • @mythicalswiftie6567
    @mythicalswiftie6567 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm not even sure if my fear is valid. It only triggers when someone is yelling, screaming or raising their voices whether through screen or in real life

  • @stevesober76seriesx25
    @stevesober76seriesx25 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a fear of ambient noises coming from neighbors not sure what the root cause is, but it’s controlled me somewhat for a few years now

  • @sampendleton6111
    @sampendleton6111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video

  • @holilih9792
    @holilih9792 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's right because it'$ only a sound

  • @mctutlenugget5123
    @mctutlenugget5123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i want to join the army and i keep over thinking the loud gunshots i havent watched he whole video but if its not in the video is tehre a way to over come that

    • @nikandevaspeakman
      @nikandevaspeakman  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      When addressing a fear of loud noises, its about understanding and then positively challenging the origin. Do watch the film all the way through and hopefully it will make a positive difference x

  • @t1mmy367
    @t1mmy367 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you im really scary im always in the bathroom every newyear

  • @Papa-Anvil
    @Papa-Anvil 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My problem is with noise disrespect. Like people play their rap music so loud you can’t concentrate on anything else, it makes me crazy and it’s ruining my life!!!

  • @mubarik7176
    @mubarik7176 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    At age of thirteen a firecracker blast in my hand near my ears, that thing caught me I always fear loud sound like firecracker and tyre blast etccc

  • @devilblade3722
    @devilblade3722 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I literally cried when a balloon or firecracker burst and my collony's child afraid me from balloons and firecrackers and I am a 11 year old boy

  • @jj_.innggg
    @jj_.innggg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I don’t even care about a dog attacking me as long as it does it silently 😭😭😭

  • @たかし-n3c
    @たかし-n3c ปีที่แล้ว

    Im 12 i hate loud noises fireworks, guns, and just loud bangs in general, I don't know what to do.

  • @EdgyDuck
    @EdgyDuck 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We'll tbh, because of this I cannot join the military, if only this can remove, it's so depressing.

  • @suthag6843
    @suthag6843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    iam very fear of bell sounds in church,temple

  • @Barbariandisks
    @Barbariandisks 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You'll forgot to add thunderstorms to the fear of loud noises, cause to this day and I'm 56 and thunderstorms still bothers me, however balloons or fireworks or even guns don't

  • @Aerolov20
    @Aerolov20 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am kind of getting used to fireworks but i am now ban to see fireworks now because i got a panic attack from extremely sudden sound firecracker

  • @herbacademy5004
    @herbacademy5004 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why say it is a problem reaction -- balloons, fire works, etc. are NOT natural, it IS natural to react to noise and be on guard!!! This includes dog barking, it is NOT a normal social environmental sound, it is a distress and warning sound. With C-PTSD, one has lower stress tolerance. Of course certain sounds can trigger memories of certain situations. Epigenetics might play a role, not copying. One doesn't copy distress by watching.

  • @angelskyplayz4442
    @angelskyplayz4442 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It still dont work💀it hurts my ear it gaves me a fright😩

  • @althaafmohammad8601
    @althaafmohammad8601 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had Astraphobia. Iam afraid of lightning ⚡ and thunderstorms 😫

  • @Krispee764
    @Krispee764 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Im scared of balloons popping so this helped

  • @wesleychristofaro9104
    @wesleychristofaro9104 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have an intense fear of my school fire alarm for 11 years now

    • @kays_games
      @kays_games ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same and I don’t know how to get it to stop

  • @tinascordo2491
    @tinascordo2491 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hmm, you forgot to mention all of the loud noises that come out of all the holes in everybody’s heads. That’s been the big trigger for me for years.

  • @hajuice438
    @hajuice438 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m only scared of gunshots not because I can be shot but the loud sound

    • @nikandevaspeakman
      @nikandevaspeakman  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes correct, a fear of loud noises is due to the noise not the receptacle creating the noise.

  • @Ethanhasnovideos
    @Ethanhasnovideos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ill try this for fireworks