Brides Have Told Me “I Don't Want to Get Married” Vishal Punjabi |
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In this episode, Vishal Punjabi, founder of The Wedding Filmer, takes us through his remarkable journey from working with Bollywood legend Shah Rukh Khan to becoming a pioneer in cinematic wedding filmmaking.
Vishal recounts the pivotal moments in his life including his deportation from India, challenges in Ghana, and the creation of his highly regarded wedding films. He delves into the intricacies of wedding emotions, cultural differences in marriages, and the hurdles of capturing high-profile weddings.
Additionally, Vishal reflects on personal struggles like a shelved film, a breakup, and his divorce, and shares his most valuable lesson from Shah Rukh Khan. This heartfelt conversation concludes with insights into his upcoming wedding and the lessons he's learned about love and destiny.\
00:00 The Beginning of a Career and Unexpected Deportation
01:47 The Wedding Filmer: From Concept to Reality
05:23 Challenges and Triumphs in Wedding Filmmaking
13:26 The Evolution of Indian Weddings
29:17 Love Stories and Modern Relationships
32:58 Changing Narratives of Love
33:40 Coping with Divorce While Filming Weddings
35:33 Struggles and Therapy
38:43 Marriage for the Wrong Reasons
40:09 Wedding Traditions and Customs
44:35 Choosing Clients and Filming Challenges
51:08 A Special Wedding Experience
54:33 Personal Love Story and Belief in Destiny
01:02:13 Lessons from Shah Rukh Khan
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This man filmed my very close friends wedding and he shot me dance for her! When I saw the film reel I cried, it was so beautiful! So surreal!
Love this, he really is the best 💛
Ikr really want some one like him but how much does it costs tho?
How much does he charge?
How many people here came after the news on the big bollywood celebrity caught by his wife with another Bollywood actress.
I just want to know what time period is he talking about
If its after 2022 or covid then I can make a calculated guess on who that actor is and with which actress he slept with
Same
@@adimudgal does anybody know the timestamp when he said this in the podcast
Timestamp!
Who could he be talking about ..ranveer ?
Apart from the content of the podcast, it's amazing how softly he speaks.
Hats off to this guy - when life gives you lemons, you make lemonade was the secret of some of his success in rural Ghana.
There's something arrestingly alluring about the interviewer that really struck out for me. Kudos to her, loved the interview.
This man is so pure and the purity is visible in his wedding videos
Having seen too many podcasts by now. I think this is one of the most naturally flowing ones with great followup questions depending on the previous answers and it felt so smooth and natural. Great quality content i would say. Something really calming about shivani and how she frames the questions. Very comforting.
Easily one of the best conversations! So calm, so therapeutic. Lots of love.
Thank you for your kind words 💛
The conversation is so relatable. His voice is so soothing and how he is making sure that he puts his heart out there, makes me connect with it even more. ❤
Ah thank you so much for watching!!
Seems like a nice conversation but his voice is so soft can't hear clearly 😢😢
This feels less like a podcast and more like a therapy session, thanks for this heart to heart ♥️
This is the most heartfelt podcast I've ever seen. For someone who loved love to becoming someone who is now so frightened of it. This video lights a little spark in my heart.
Love is clearly to be embraced and not feared.
Congratulations, @vishalpunjabi, on finding love.
I love this video. Thank you both for having made this. And TH-cam algorithm or destiny or perhaps the Ambani wedding drama that I found this.
Love and light to everyone in love out of love and learning to love again.❤
This gentleman is truly a gentle pure soul, no wonder that quality is reflected in his beautiful videos!!
This man Vishal seems a great guy. Wishes for him, his team, Shivani and her team
The PR team is really coming on strong in this comment section. It was a pretty average interview and the comments are behaving as if some big philospher was talking 😂. Reply to my comment if you can see this and its not deleted.
For sure 😂😂
😅
Agree this guy has no problem throwing people under the bus in his other interviews.
Aww..This guy is so warm… I wish I find someone like him ❤❤
This was such an amazing interview as Vishal has shared his life journey it sounded so beautiful. That all pain & struggle seems healed. Lovely conversation the questions were just right to ask the answers were just filled with real deep insights! I thoroughly enjoyed it till the end. Also when he mentioned about the sensitivity about Man that they often get misunderstood and don't really get chances to tell their story. I can feel that pain for a man ❤ Wishing you a blessed and happy married life and loads of success! Great efforts Shivani amazing narrative & work 👏!
This man's voice is so soothing, calm and composed.
Heyyy lovely conversation...he is answering so calmly and frankly.
Thank you!! Yes he’s such a wonderful person! Loved our convo!
Absolutely loved his interview! I loved all the anecdotes! He is so candid! Loved his stories! Wow he does a great work magical videography! A life well lived ❤
He is such a deeep and honest man. RARE. ❤
Loved this interview… he seems so genuine and honest person!
Hey, just wanted to clarify that the song in Deepikas and Ranveers wedding was a Sikh prayer not a song ❤
Precisely, thank you pointing that out.
@@AMPA33Sikhs : pronounced Sikhs or Seekhs please, not Sicks
This gentleman has such a soothing voice! I can listen to him all day!! ❤❤
Always been a fan of this man's craft! What a heartwarming podcast, fell in love with his personality too! So articulate and soft spoken,both of you! It was like a melody.. great conversation! Watched your podcast for the first time Shivani, you're gorgeous!!!! All your reactions were soooo US! haha like id react the sameee way. Thanks for an amazing one hour guys! Congratulations Vishal :)
Lovely message and feedback to read 💛 Thank you for watching
Congratulations on your wedding Vishal. Such a lovely interview. ❤
A very interesting insight into the brilliance behind the man who brings emotions in weddings to life. Also you’re amazing at navigating the interview to bring out his authentic self in this interview.
His family is the most interesting of all😂😅
Lovely podcast…. Apt questions!
And Congratulations Vishal🎉
Suchhhhhh a nice podcast!!!! Amazing listen ❤❤❤ lots of love to both of you 🙏🙏💗💗
I have not watched any interview at the length thus far but this one was truly amazing both the guest and the host were Outstanding!!!
Very interesting conversation and yet he had so much more to say .!
Just when you think you can't love Shah Rukh Khan anymore, he gives you another reason ❤
He's the best there is 💛
He is rapist
Just wondering aloud whether the wedding photographer in made in heaven was inspired by him .😀coz so many things add !
When I was listening to him it was just like going flash back to the made in heaven series.
Totally adds up, yup!
I am sure there are many like that… go to any top wedding page and stalk the different professional pages, I do that as I am interested in the field for a while
One key takeaway...experimenting with something one loves and being good at it...
He says he didnt get a chance to explain as generally men are at fault when theres a divorce but he named his ex wife and said she cheated on him and he was working on the relationship on a public platform. Amazing😂
He also never mentions breaking up with his girlfriend in Ghana.
This was very unique and different for me. Learned lots of new things...which I love to do
Thank you!
Saw this on the reel and immediately came to TH-cam to find the whole video. Really nice. Would love to connect with you some time and I’m too into the creative field !
i've never heard of this guy, but i kept listening to him.
Who is here after that spicy news 😂😂 hit likes 👍
Awesome interview, Congratulations 🎉
His voice his therapeutic...❤❤❤ This video is like a Therapy
Like? I love this chat! I chanced upon this one, this has really taken me by surprise. Never knew Vishal Punjabi has so much of history & geography to his life ;) Entire chat is lovely but the real scoop starts from 52:00-56:00 that blew my mind :))
Btw, Belated Happy Birthday, Vishal! & Thank you Shivani for doing this :)
This man seems to be such a class liar.. I could smell lies when he talked about his ex wife and kind of threw her under the bus for the separation.. and then his first meeting with his now wife seems to be too Bollywood dreamy sequence to be true.. finally, he could come back to India because of SRK and did not even stick around with him for a moment.. that blows my mind !
And who will believe that the foreign minister of the Republic of India intervened for someone who overstayed his visa!
I think ow actor Farhan Aktar hei... & shibani... Because vishal punjabi ki Instagram story highlight mein dono ki weddings picture hei... But koi wedding video nehi hei.... 😮😮 farhan aktar e hoga...
Loved this interview . Vishal is so down to earth and hilarious !!
He voice is so soothing .. listening him can ve good bedtime story
I love his videos. I'm enjoying this interview even more. I think he has amazing personality.
awesome 😍the destiny, the love❤❤
That comment of choosing to be with the person you’ve married even if you want to throw them off a building made by Vishal is so true. Love is indeed a choice and not a feeling. That’s often the mistake that people make. If they don’t feel the butterflies they felt during their courtship period they think they relationship ain’t working. There are genuine deal breakers. However, those who want the marriage to work need to put in an equal amount of work to keep the relationship alive.
I had to stop the video and write this comment. They mentioned love and, religion and customs as separate entities. I beg to differ. A marriage has lots to do with family, values and traditions (because wedding itself is traditions or else live-in works for some).
Also, Kanya Daan is not handing over control, rather lovingly guiding one's daughter to her new roles and responsibilities (like every adult should for the society to continue functioning) and doing so sacrificing a father's selfish love for his daughter. Kanya Daan is considered the pious of all sacrifices parents make. Of course in this day and age and technology everyone is closer and connected. No one really loses touch with anyone and are financially well off and capable to take care of multiple people. But this tradition is beautiful as it signifies the love and sacrifices of parents and also a young woman who is going to take on new responsibilities.
Well said!!
This was an eye opener!.. Didn't knew this man has shallow views for Indian traditional customs that are done in most of Indian weddings. The way he is mocking important customs like Kanyadaan and Gur-chadai only shows how irrelevant he is to Indian weddings. No wonder he himself is divorced and has a playboy history wherever he lived for 2 years.😅 ...Somebody saying having a pregnant girlfriend is not a good enough reason for marriage, only shows what his life principles are.Thanks for showing his real face.😂
Do u know the meaning of Kanyadaan 😅
Sikh hai, kya hi expect karoge,..
He didn’t tell you that there are matrilineal families in Kerala, mostly Kerala Brahmins.
In many coastal communities there is no dowry system.
Dowry exists among all religions actually, as long as it’s an arranged marriage.
Kanyadan is not literally the meaning of it, Pandit ji nowdays explains meaning of every ritual all the rituals are meaningful and pure
Not heard of this gentleman prior to this podcast. What a delight he is. Name me any woman who did not fall in love with him after this interview.
A very eloquent interview...after soo many years
Thank you so much for listening 💛
This was a brilliant conversation ✨
So kind, thank you for watching 💛
Such a beautiful interview ❤
oh my god! such a BEAUTIFUL man he is! RARE!
I couldn’t stop smiling the entire 59 minutes ❤
Awwwww 💛💛💛
@@ShivaniPauPodcast This has to be one the best podcasts I’ve ever watched ❤️
Lv the conversation...
This conversation reminds me of the show made in heaven
Who came here after The Spill Bee??
Present ma'am 😂
@@payalyadav5985 😂😂
I was brought here automatically after the spill bee video ended
A beautiful podcast❤
Kanya daan doesn't mean giving away your daughter.... it means I am doing a favor (daan) by giving you my daughter take care of her.... here daan means upkaar like rakt daan
Congrats Vishal & Niki, great interview.
Thank you so much 💛
Loved the podcast
Kanyadaan is the essence of Indian marriage, its the most misunderstood ritual,it was meant as a "Daan" act of charity to the boys family, because women were given a very high status in Vedic culture, but over centuries has morphed and become a burden, its actually an act of special donation to the groom.
No, in my mother’s wedding her grandfather did kanyadaan and he said to my father that she will always be my daughter first whatsoever, I don’t care how, but when I call and she wants to come back, she should never be stopped. If you honour that then only marry my daughter.
My father kept that promise and whenever we would get call from her father, in good times, in bad times, my father would drive us there without any hesitation….
Congratulations Vishal🎉
You guys needs better mic …poor voice
It's not bad ..he's really soft spoken 😊I can hear Shivani properly but I had to use headphones to hear Vishal n if you hear his other interviews that's how he talks .really softly
Yes, my headphones are top volume
Amazing interview ❤
It was less of a podcast, more of a spiritual journey!
Loved this one so much…. Therapeutic
You're so kind, thank you for listening 💛
feels like watching making of 'mAde in heaven' web series so relatable
what an interesting guest! enjoyed every second, you always have the best conversations
Ahh that's so kind of you, thank you for listening 💛
Wow great podcast ❤
Thank you so much 💛
Your make up looks amazing! This interview rocks🎉
You're so sweet. Thank you so much 💛
So Made in Heaven is this guy’s story 😁
He overstayed his visa. Took it casually! Come on, thats serious. Imagine if it was a US visa and he overstayed. 😮
Mr. Punjabi,you haven't been to a real Goan Christian wedding. We have a beautiful church ceremony with vows and blessings. At the receptionist we do have the cutting of the wedding cake with raising of the toast to the couple speeches and dancing and partying.
Loved the interviewer but sorry to say this guy is not giving good vibes!
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Just one suggestion…keep your wedding intimate and small 🎉😅
something about this man gives off bad vibes
His conversation style and speaking is so much like SRK
Ugh, he is so fake and such a liar.
@Mrwhosetheboss - awwww....how nice to hear about you feom him...
Ih my God, his voice❤❤❤❤❤
His voice ❤
The man has an amazingly soft voice!
Renewal of Visa is a basic rule to follow. And when an individual does not get renewal and they are deported for the same. He says they just made a huge thing about it? Sir, the rules are made for our convenience, you just follow the rules and not make a huge deal about it.
Thank you!
Generally found him just manipulative with his tone. Change of government after 26/11? Visa ban lifted by Pranab Mukherjee? Grooms footing wedding bills?
sound quality so bad
This was a great podcast to watch . Many congratulations to Vishal and Nikki , I wish them all the very best and all the happiness ❤🎉.
P.S. : About Kanyadaan, it's been misinterpreted, Kanyadaan is about the Kanya ( bride) Daan ( donating ) her gitra back to her parents because she is going to adapt her husband's family gotra.
Also , I don't see anything wrong in apologising to the guests that is the groom side if there has been any error in the hosting , we all do in our day today lives infact even the Ambanis did that . If we can see beauty in multiple divorces and yet coming back together , I think the perception has to be applied in our customs as well ❤❤❤.
Best wishes .
Kanyadaan is not giving away your daughter to the other family. It is giving away of the gotra(the lineage you are born under) of the parents' family & accepting the gotra of the husband's family coz you will be carrying the boy:s family name ahead.
People without knowledge have misinterpreted the word Kanyadaan into literal translation of the word. Please be educated about your own customs & traditions.
Nonsense
Who might be the bollywood actor he is referring to
I too came here to know abt it😊😂
Timestamp?
He sounds like SRK
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Is this a new interview or an old one ? I have the feeling that i have seen this before
Brand new! Filmed last week!
Great self marketing, selling by Vishal - his remarks on a Bollywood philanderer has gone viral...
His mic placement is so far, I can barely hear him so i keep cranking up the volume but the girls voice is LOUDER. I wish the volumes for both speakers were matched. I just CANNOT hear the guy.
SRK genuinely is a nice person. Everyone has good things to say about him.
50:00 the ambani wedding?? 😂
Amazing podcast ❤ but voice quality is really poor.