***** you sound dumb. 28 people agree with me that having kids when you cant even take care of yourself is a bad decision. Everything has a cost. Sorry you are on welfare
whistle blower sadder yet... I have a college degree... worked in management... I’m almost forty years old work 60-70 hours a week and just got a raise to 11 an hour at one of my jobs and that was with a strong review and a year with the company. My choice is to give my time to a company for low wage or risk debt and homelessness. A few male friends think it’s wrong that I don’t have children... I tell them it’s wrong to inflict near poverty on a child or force tax payers to foot the bill. The world is seriously coming off the rails.
+Diego Lara A credit card debt you can pay back by working hard, cutting down spending by a lot and paying back as much as you can. Once you have a kid it's done.
“She’s smart she hadn’t got a credit card” no I think for once the card company made the right choice and didn’t hand her one. They even saw that one coming. Lol.
The look of shock on Dave’s face when her dad said she’s got 6 kids was pretty sad. This is one of the few videos I’ve watched where he was literally at a loss for words..
So she's a £$@%*?! Was she getting paid to be woth so many men? Is that how she was making her money? Girls need to know their true value. Why didn't he take her children? Is he so emotionally unattached? Maybe that's the reason she began to behave the way she does? But even so, to have 6(+) children and lose them all tells me she is fight some monsters and is also emotionally unattached to her children. Goodness I hope she wasn't using drugs, vaping, smoking, drinks etc during her pregnancies.
Korey Paul A normal hospital delivery costs in the area of $7000 where I live in DE. A home birth with a midwife about $3500. That factors in prenatal care and one or two nights in the hospital. There are a lot of variables of course, but I don't understand why this women who has pretty much nothing wouldn't qualify for Medicaid or free or reduced ”charitable care” from the hospital. Obviously, the hospital knows it's never getting paid. I think with 6 (or so) kids in the foster system from different fathers, she isn't going to be motivated to turn things around by Dave Ramsey or anyone else. Her father seems in denial of the big problems here. I wouldn't worry about my daughter’s bills. I'd be worried where my grandchildren were!
Ben Chesterman yess stay awayyyy from single mothers by all means. They are like a lion. They love to get pregnant again and again to try to make you stay or pay child support.
I’m 26 with no kids, and seeing people like her make me feel so much better about my decisions. Have a paid off car, graduated college, and now bought a truck too.
"She's smart she doesn't have credit cards." Or she's applied for several but got rejected because her medical bills got sent to collection and trashed her credit score... 6 kids with different fathers at 24yo doesn't scream "I shall make the logical, rational decision not to make myself susceptible to the long term financial and emotional ramifications of using credit cards. What poor planning that would be!"
This Dad is full of it. She didn't get this way overnight. She was either raised this way and now Dad has figured things out or she raised herself. Either way there is alot more to this story that Dad is skipping and I'm suprised Dave didn't cal him on it. She started in her teens - mom and dad dropped the ball somewhere.
This is why I want to wait to have kids, I'm 21 and I can't even really support myself at the moment, I have NO BUISNESS trying to take care of a child. I have friends my age who have multiple kids and I see them struggle financially and it scares me, also makes me happy I'm not in that situation
3:01 Dave: "What was the nature of the medical bills, what happened?" Christopher: "Children. She's had about 6 kids." Dave: "......................................." hahahaha
@@alanguages Well, to be fair, I have six children and I’ve been married to the same guy, the father, for almost 36 years. But, yes, when you aren’t sure how many children you have… 🤣
This is heartbreaking and it sounds like this was someone who may have been violated in some way and feels hopeless. I pray she gets the help she needs.
Violated, yes. Possibly by that pos father. What was his contribution to why she turned out like this? Why are the grandchildren in foster care and not with him? So much doesn't add up here...
@@reesecup3ify I think calling the father a POS is a bit of a stretch. As a parent you can raise your kids and teach them right from wrong and provide them with wise suggestions and advice. But at the end of the day, it's the kids' choice if they want to be receptive to the messages and suggestions.
@@Kunyazaforever stop trying to romanticize a victim here based off no evidence, geeze. the girl sounds like shes just doesnt know better on how to make any good decisions
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Brandon Dreher Brandon, I do not believe we should blame this woman rather than nonsense neocons (who happens to be very very well educated white male).
I hope one day this country will change, because health can not be a business, in Europe you do not pay to have children that are a blessing, and even if you receive help that at least serves you to buy milk, I hope one day America will change, In the aspect of child, as it comes in the bible (multiplying each other), does not say, paid to multiply you. God bless you.
I'd be willing to have kids if they can earn 11 bucks an hour. they can all pay me rent and still have plenty of money left over. why are child labor laws even a thing? do they have to be 18 to wash dishes and do yardwork?
YEP. The outstanding millennials that only Dave can find apparently skipped English class (you know, one of those wasteful subjects like German Polka History).
Dave's face when he said she'll be making $11/hour! She doesn't need total money make over....she needs a total LIFE makeover!!! Her life is ruined from the start!
@@keyroncampbell I don't disagree. But my point is that people tend to assume the daughter is the problem. Sometimes its the dad. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
Aww he’s just being a dad. Do you expect him to put her down instead? What’s happening is terrible but I think he does care. We don’t know what people have gone through to be in those situations.
Eh, we don't really know the situation. Maybe he only found out that he had a daughter recently. Maybe he has a job where he's always offshore so left his daughter in the mom's or another relative's care and sends the money home. We don't know.
Zully I’ve seen the opposite too I believe there was a movie about it a decade ago an alcoholic father and an abusive mother and the girl just wanted to study and read
The caller was being very deceptive at the beginning when answering the questions put to him by Dave. Why didn't he just say she had 6 kids from the start? The caller's daughter having 6 kids in foster homes (with multiple men as possible fathers) is obviously a sign of MASSIVE dysfunction. Her promiscuity and lack of regard for the consequence of such actions is an act of rebellion. She's rebelling, because she's seriously troubled. Which is usually a symptom that she's undergone some kind of trauma and is 'acting out' as a means of getting attention and/or self-medication. I wouldn't be surprised if she's also had issues with substance and alcohol addiction.
Ways to not be poor: graduate high school, only have kids with one person and be married to that person, don't have any more kids than what you can afford
This caller is beyond weird. "She has about six kids." About? He doesn't even know? They're his grandkids. Also, unless she is mentally ill, SOMETHING happened in his daughter's background to make her turn out like this.
@James Smith I'm no simp, dude trust me. The woman is clearly not doing herself any favors by making lots of obviously bad decisions even though she's an adult. But you can tell how good of a parent someone was by how successful and healthy their children are. Bad parents raise kids with lots of problems, it's the simple truth.
@@kp782Are your kids disfunctional but you don't want to be held responsible for failing at your sole job of raising healthy, successful, and functioning children? Semi-joking here but I'm curious why you disagree with the idea that bad leaders create bad subordinates.
@@JR-pr1xh i dont have kids. But watching my spouses parents being so dysfunctional I can say that he became a wonderful person who takes financial responsiblities etc serious. Had friends whose parents were loving and caring and their kids (my ex friends) turned out selfish, ignorant and financial unstable. Even though they had everything and he didnt.
This can't be real - " about" six kids, " mostly" medical bills ? Why is Grandpa not more concerned about the 6 babies in foster care - so sad this is not just stupid but very very crazy
I don't think wise money planning/spending should be the big concern for that dad. You can't decide that you're going to be a 'good parent' after the fact. Why are there so many parents that aren't PARENTING!!!???? That child needs, at this point, therapy to find out why she feels the need to keep having children, a hysterectomy to prevent her from having further children, and a mentor who will keep her in check and held responsible for her actions. And her dad is NOT that person. The dad says that "she's had about six kids"@3:05. You're not sure how many kids? Are you not a part of their lives? Why are they all in foster care when there is obviously family available? Good grief.
@@kingkoopa157 Not true. TN is a red state and provides free healthcare for pregnant mothers who may need help with assistance. For instance I have a primary insurance through the company I work for and since I had to go on Short Term for High Risk pregnancy my income was only 50% of what I would usually make. So I qualified for a secondary insurance through TN to pay my copays and the 10% leftt over from my primary insurance. So I will not go into debt from having a complicated pregnancy. I have a great career too and am really blessed that my job has great benefits and TN offered the healthcare.
The income cut-off for pregnant women to get Medicaid is very high in most states (far higher than for a non-pregnant woman). She undoubtedly would have qualified for Medicaid during pregnancy with a $11.00/hr job (and she was probably only making minimum wage before this new job.) The dad isn't being honest about her debts, more likely she ran them up with emergency room visits from drug overdoses or something.
Once he said 11 an hour and 60k in debt, I knew immediately that this was going to be an “life advice” video instead of a “numeric solution” video. One thing I notice about Dave is that he does not give numeric advice on how to get out of debt for people that make less than around 20k a year with debt of 55k or higher. This needs to change. Don’t just help the poor but help the poverty also.
But really how can you support yourself and pay off debt at 11 an hour it's not possible really. Many other things need to come together before she can start. Plus if you have that extra money to pay off debt should it go towards the kids idk
The math is impossible. Even if you pay 1/4 of yearly income for the debt it will be 12 years before you pay it off. Even just keeping current would be impossible.
@@sirsurnamethefirstofhisnam7986 Do you believe that due to a personal experience? I dont disagree with you. Sometimes they will be rebelious no matter how good of parents they had, but that only happens if they were born with mental defects such as a primary psycopath or antipersonality disorder, autism etc.
It really pisses me off when people pump out kids they cant even take care of
+swagcity poor kids are gonna be worse than her.her dad sounds dumb as well. how are you 24 with 6 kids?
***** you sound triggered. Im guessing you had an unplanned pregnancy also
***** you sound dumb. 28 people agree with me that having kids when you cant even take care of yourself is a bad decision. Everything has a cost. Sorry you are on welfare
You forgot the part where all the kids are in foster care. They don't live with her.
don't make em if you cannot afford em.
But on the bright side, she doesn't have 7 kids.
I think she is thoroughly misunderstanding what Dave means by "baby steps."
I can't stop laughing thank you so much!
SBPS 😂😂😂😂
welll he said "about 6" so he could be rounding down
Yep there's a silver lining to everything.
"She's had about 6 kids"... about 6??...... 😳
ill give her a couple myself, lol.
Yea that's what I was thinking lol
It's really 5.75 children
Maybe she has 1-2 more in her belly, so cant never be sure if its just 6 or more
Amber Dickerson I want to give you the Dickerson!
This guy doesn't need Dave Ramsey, he needs Dr. Phil
Lol exactly
Needs tubes tied.
He needs Jesus
Or Jerry Springer
He needs a miracle
“She’s gonna be making 11 dollars an hour starting Monday” has to be the saddest thing I’ve ever heard.
whistle blower sadder yet... I have a college degree... worked in management... I’m almost forty years old work 60-70 hours a week and just got a raise to 11 an hour at one of my jobs and that was with a strong review and a year with the company. My choice is to give my time to a company for low wage or risk debt and homelessness.
A few male friends think it’s wrong that I don’t have children... I tell them it’s wrong to inflict near poverty on a child or force tax payers to foot the bill. The world is seriously coming off the rails.
😂😂😂💯💯💯
Arika Bush how did you get in this situation??
Arika Bush Lol what did you go to college for
Msny college graduates making less than that....
"So where are the....where is the Dad?"
I KNOW HAHAHAHAHA
So shady 😂😂😂
at 24 you know there's going to be more than one.
"She's a strong independent woman....", Some will say
Thank you. I knew someone else had to have noticed that slip as well. Don’t be judging Dave!
She's smart cause she didn't get a credit card but had 6 kids by 24.
+Diego Lara A credit card debt you can pay back by working hard, cutting down spending by a lot and paying back as much as you can. Once you have a kid it's done.
to be approved for a credit card, she needs credit.
😭😭
Probably never even qualified for a credit card
Those kids can all work and pay her back. She should take a loan and invest it on her kids. And they will grow and refund her back.
When I saw the headline my first thought was: Wow! 6 kids making $11 an hour? That's $66 per hour! Nice!
That is exactly how I read it, too!
James Wear this comment had me crackin up!!!
Why is this not the top comment? :D
Give him a trophy !!!!
Hahhahahh!!!
this makes me mad. imagine having so many kids and forcing them in foster care.
“She’s smart she hadn’t got a credit card” no I think for once the card company made the right choice and didn’t hand her one. They even saw that one coming. Lol.
Lol
The only thing worse than being in credit card debt is being so bad financially that companies refuse to give you one.
@@la-zrider2749 😭🤣🤣🤣
This one lethal😂😂
There's nothing smart about this chick.
According to the title and assuming he can get all six kids to work 40 hours a week that's $137,280.00 a year.
Funniest comment yet! My brain is also very literal like that 😂
I thought same thing for few seconds
Make that 80 hours per week
And more working hours more profit.Its a good financial project.
Lol
The look of shock on Dave’s face when her dad said she’s got 6 kids was pretty sad. This is one of the few videos I’ve watched where he was literally at a loss for words..
I wish I could have read his mind😆
*Well she's smart, she have no credit card debt*
Cmon now
It sounds like the argument from idiocracy about "plants crave electrolites, Brawndo got what plant craves". Crazy!
😂😂
In a way its good she doesnt
In order to save water, we use Gatorade to water our plants. Electrolytes. It’s what the plants crave.
Lol. More like she couldn’t even qualify for a credit card.
Dave was flabbergasted but remained respectful and non-judgmental
😂🤣
I think this guy was trying to call the jerry Springer show and accidentally dial dave Ramsey.
"She's had about six kids". What do mean "about"? Was one of them born without a torso?
He rounded down from 8 because 6 seemed less insane.
"About" means that she has more then 6 kids.
😂😂😂😂
🤣
Maybe she's pregnant?
This is way out of Dave’s field of expertise.
This..!
Tom Leykis is an expert at this subject.
@James Horton you sound like a nice guy TM
Zayd AbdulRahman 😂
@@AZURE_ONE 😂 I see what you did
"All her kids are from different people" good lord......
Just imagine how many STDs she must have:)
This is what happens when women dont close their legs
That's how you get that child support money. You can only get so much from one man so you spread it out.
nice girl
a real sweet heart
So she's a £$@%*?! Was she getting paid to be woth so many men? Is that how she was making her money? Girls need to know their true value. Why didn't he take her children? Is he so emotionally unattached? Maybe that's the reason she began to behave the way she does? But even so, to have 6(+) children and lose them all tells me she is fight some monsters and is also emotionally unattached to her children. Goodness I hope she wasn't using drugs, vaping, smoking, drinks etc during her pregnancies.
This guy: sais his daughter has a large amount of debt and 6 kids.
Dave: *sell the kids* then rice n beans rice n beans
Dillon Watson ”she has ABOUT six kids”. I'd worry more about my grandchildren being in foster care than medical bills.
@@MrsEJV So does 1 child delivery cost $1k?
Korey Paul A normal hospital delivery costs in the area of $7000 where I live in DE. A home birth with a midwife about $3500. That factors in prenatal care and one or two nights in the hospital. There are a lot of variables of course, but I don't understand why this women who has pretty much nothing wouldn't qualify for Medicaid or free or reduced ”charitable care” from the hospital. Obviously, the hospital knows it's never getting paid. I think with 6 (or so) kids in the foster system from different fathers, she isn't going to be motivated to turn things around by Dave Ramsey or anyone else. Her father seems in denial of the big problems here. I wouldn't worry about my daughter’s bills. I'd be worried where my grandchildren were!
LOL
😂
Based on the title I thought he had the kids working, making $11/hour each.
$66/hour total ain’t bad!
😂
thats an idea!
Same 😂
I would be too embarrassed to admit that my 24 year old has 6 kids who were all in foster care. How shameful.
and by multiple men, lol.
Yes, how could you let your grandkids go to strangers?
Guess it's not as bad as admitting your 6 year old has 24 kids.
Geneva Toby they are probably babies he doesn’t want for one reason or another.
@@genevatoby2397 He's in a tough spot too though, is he going to take in 6 small children and raise them? It's a bad situation forsure.
"All her kids are from different people."
Of course they are.
I bet she met all of those guys at the club
There's a youtuber whose mother has 10 kids from 10 different fathers
ThePsalms disgusting. They usually do that for child support money. Like
How do you make the same mistake 9 more times
@@thepsalms2806 who is it?
@@Me-Want-SnuSnu dj ghost
That pause Dave gets when he finds out she has 6 kids is hilarious
I thought my screen froze! Lol!
+Jessica Ramirez LOL
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yeah that came out of left field LOL!
This is a fake call by the way
“She’s had ABOUT six kids...” You mean you don’t have an exact NUMBER?!?!
Or she’s just pregnant with 5 kids already expecting 6.
Well, after all: like mother, like children, they’re not all there!
Give it or take 2 more
He might not!
It's good enough for the prime minister of the United Kingdom... ;)
You can feel true compassion in Dave Ramsey’s voice when he hears this girls story. You can genuinely hear that he cares.
Sounds like she has bigger problems than her 60k in medical bills..
between her legs yes
Iheartyoualil She's the reason why the US has so much debt.
Reason I hate single mums . Burden on society
Ben Chesterman yess stay awayyyy from single mothers by all means. They are like a lion. They love to get pregnant again and again to try to make you stay or pay child support.
+Ben Chesterman. some people in general are a burden to society, there are single moms who actually have careers
he said "about 6 kids"
Lost count, I guess.
This was a troll call. He did a very good job. This caller is a friend of mine.
Aw, it's a shame he wasted some time that could have been spent helping someone else.
Matt Hannel may be there are some decimals involved. Who knows?, kind of hard to tell lol
@@royalredus true
3:07 I love how after hearing she had 6 kids, his entire body literally just freezes in time LOL.
lol
😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
OMG that was priceless!!!! thanks!!
No way!!!
I’m 26 with no kids, and seeing people like her make me feel so much better about my decisions. Have a paid off car, graduated college, and now bought a truck too.
Good job!
Obviously your life wasn't as F'd up as hers. There is a lot missing from this story.
Literally no one cares
@@chelseahancock6933 I care
@@Flamerocket42069 same here
"She's smart she doesn't have credit cards."
Or she's applied for several but got rejected because her medical bills got sent to collection and trashed her credit score... 6 kids with different fathers at 24yo doesn't scream "I shall make the logical, rational decision not to make myself susceptible to the long term financial and emotional ramifications of using credit cards. What poor planning that would be!"
Yes😊😊😊
This Dad is full of it. She didn't get this way overnight. She was either raised this way and now Dad has figured things out or she raised herself. Either way there is alot more to this story that Dad is skipping and I'm suprised Dave didn't cal him on it. She started in her teens - mom and dad dropped the ball somewhere.
Hello Friend exactly!
I agree. I pray for those kids.
He failed to even mention the 6 kids from the get lol. “Medical bills medical bills medical bills”
wouldn't surprise me if the dad is the father to one of those kids.
It's free will. Some people are promiscuous. Not parents fault
This is why I want to wait to have kids, I'm 21 and I can't even really support myself at the moment, I have NO BUISNESS trying to take care of a child. I have friends my age who have multiple kids and I see them struggle financially and it scares me, also makes me happy I'm not in that situation
Yes but that just makes you a responsible person, congratulations! So many aren't.
It's also not just about money, but at that age you don't even have enough life experience to have kids.
Mef262728 no really it’s just money if you’re set then i say have as many kids as you want but if not then no
Eric Sirias well duh but most of the problems are taken care of if you got money
The kids are in Forster care
3:01
Dave: "What was the nature of the medical bills, what happened?"
Christopher: "Children. She's had about 6 kids."
Dave: "......................................."
hahahaha
Aleks Ulmer hahhaa
I spit my water when I saw Dave's reaction of silence 😂😂
3:07
“About six kids…” To clarify, it was 5.82 children.
Also, her debt is the least of her problems. 🤷🏼♀️
Him calling does nothing to help either , get her on the phone .
Six kids at 24 yrs. old. I would not doubt their were multiple fathers in the scenario also. All six kids did not come from one man.
@@alanguages Well, to be fair, I have six children and I’ve been married to the same guy, the father, for almost 36 years. But, yes, when you aren’t sure how many children you have… 🤣
Sterilization tired of paying for kids i didn't make😢
This is heartbreaking and it sounds like this was someone who may have been violated in some way and feels hopeless. I pray she gets the help she needs.
Violated, yes. Possibly by that pos father. What was his contribution to why she turned out like this? Why are the grandchildren in foster care and not with him? So much doesn't add up here...
I agree since many of her behaviors are typical. And I wouldn’t be surprised if it was from this caller. Such a sad call. 😢😢😢😐😳😔
@@reesecup3ify I think calling the father a POS is a bit of a stretch. As a parent you can raise your kids and teach them right from wrong and provide them with wise suggestions and advice. But at the end of the day, it's the kids' choice if they want to be receptive to the messages and suggestions.
@@Kunyazaforever stop trying to romanticize a victim here based off no evidence, geeze. the girl sounds like shes just doesnt know better on how to make any good decisions
Most likely she has a drug problem.
based on what?
sounds like shes got a thing for them brothas... am i right King Koopa?
She has daddy issues.
Rawdog addiction.
@@dirtysaint5324 Vitamin D
People like her are becoming the norm in America. We're in big trouble.
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Really? The real trouble makers are those old boys in Washington who are happens to be "neocons". Those folks spend us 3 trillion dollars...
Brandon Dreher Brandon, I do not believe we should blame this woman rather than nonsense neocons (who happens to be very very well educated white male).
I hope one day this country will change, because health can not be a business, in Europe you do not pay to have children that are a blessing, and even if you receive help that at least serves you to buy milk, I hope one day America will change, In the aspect of child, as it comes in the bible (multiplying each other), does not say, paid to multiply you. God bless you.
IDWIE kim k needs to go
When I seen this I thought it meant "Girl has 6 kids all of which are making $11 an hour" lol
I'd be willing to have kids if they can earn 11 bucks an hour. they can all pay me rent and still have plenty of money left over. why are child labor laws even a thing? do they have to be 18 to wash dishes and do yardwork?
Same here.. I thought the dad was calling to check if it was illegal or something.
They do... it's called Welfare.
YEP. The outstanding millennials that only Dave can find apparently skipped English class (you know, one of those wasteful subjects like German Polka History).
iDIMi, 😂😂you made my day!
11 x 6 = 66
$ an hour
Quick Maths 🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀
😂😂😂
Dave's face when he said she'll be making $11/hour! She doesn't need total money make over....she needs a total LIFE makeover!!! Her life is ruined from the start!
She has much bigger problems then just money!
This video started off so funny and ended so sad
Colter Brady OMFG. 😂.
@@ColbraBull wasnt funny at all
It started off sad and ended up funny 😆
Made in AZ so much edge
@@foodmens nah that was funny.
Oh my god those poor innocent children being brought into the world by idiots. A new generation of lost souls.
Hopefully a few of them will break through.
The dads “mmmhmm”s Has me dying hahahhaha
Me too hahaha
I thought it was just me lol
Yikes every dads nightmare of a daughter.
A true nightmare
Horrible
Could just as easily be every daughter's nightmare of a dad.
@@CanoeToNewOrleans not if you understand how to raise them right
@@keyroncampbell I don't disagree. But my point is that people tend to assume the daughter is the problem. Sometimes its the dad. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
This one is beyond recall. She's not going anywhere.
shut up
G0OS3 lol what??
No, she is doomed.
You know it's bad when Dave can't even get upset and rant.
Dave Ramsey probably like ummm Dad you called the wrong show this is not Maury. I'm sorry but the girl need more than financial help.
😂😂😂😂😂lol
If the dad thinks his daughter is smart, I don't know what to say of him.
Im guessing you’re not all too bright either because you’d realize he was joking
@MaGicTOWer can't tell if that was sarcasm. But if it was stocks you can make more :)
Aww he’s just being a dad. Do you expect him to put her down instead? What’s happening is terrible but I think he does care. We don’t know what people have gone through to be in those situations.
3:07 *Dave.exe has stopped working.*
"Operation failed successfully"
"Could not process 24 years old with 6 kids. Please refresh."
I'm not there yet. Can't wait to see that part.
Edit: ummmm
Error 404
😂😂😂 I saw him freeze too.
6 kids 6 different dads she need to give them kids to adoption ant get her life together its impossible for her to take care of them kids properly
Society and the Government enables these people to behave like that.
Look like this 24-year old is a white girl...I am surprised literally..
+LAGEORGE MAURICE why are you so surprised? As if white women can't be irresponsible too?
Lol he's trolling Dave. This is a fake call.
This is sad. All 6 in foster care ):
You can tell his daughter is the type to say “catch me ousside how bow deh”
this guy did a tremendous job raising his daughter.
By the sound of his voice I doubt the four year olds at the local park have any respect for him sounds like he’s been walked all over his whole life
Sounds like she has daddy issues
Eh, we don't really know the situation.
Maybe he only found out that he had a daughter recently. Maybe he has a job where he's always offshore so left his daughter in the mom's or another relative's care and sends the money home. We don't know.
I’ve seen people with the greatest parents in the world turn out like not okay and it’s sad
Zully I’ve seen the opposite too I believe there was a movie about it a decade ago an alcoholic father and an abusive mother and the girl just wanted to study and read
".....she's 24 years old?"
"Mmmm Hmmmm."
I cried.
I literally died and caged at 3:07 when he froze after he said she has 6 kids.
@@taketwoproductions6348 such a great pause hahaha
LOL
Stop. Having. Kids.
It.Takes.2!
The caller was being very deceptive at the beginning when answering the questions put to him by Dave. Why didn't he just say she had 6 kids from the start?
The caller's daughter having 6 kids in foster homes (with multiple men as possible fathers) is obviously a sign of MASSIVE dysfunction. Her promiscuity and lack of regard for the consequence of such actions is an act of rebellion. She's rebelling, because she's seriously troubled. Which is usually a symptom that she's undergone some kind of trauma and is 'acting out' as a means of getting attention and/or self-medication. I wouldn't be surprised if she's also had issues with substance and alcohol addiction.
Kanfachan definitely drug/alcohol problem, for her kids to be in foster care that's a major red flag
She's 24 she's grown... No such thing as rebelling as an adult. She either figures it out or she chooses a hard life for herself and next generations.
The dad could be embarrassed of the situation that his daughter is in
wonder if he even raised her or how he raised her...
Pretty sure I met this girl at the bar.
VGSoundFX hope you are not the father of any of the poor faultless kids
and you remember what dave will tell thos kids in this situation, get out of my house at 18. faultless kids not in daves eyes.
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Mee too!
Saw her too. She went home with 4 black dudes.
This story just got worse as it went on, financial issues are the least of this woman's problems, her father called the wrong show.
Ways to not be poor: graduate high school, only have kids with one person and be married to that person, don't have any more kids than what you can afford
Yep...and college can also help
@Pompeii why’d you dropout?
@Pompeii Go back to school kid
@Pompeii get your GED, then go to welding school
@Pompeii go back to school my friend 😁👍
This caller is beyond weird. "She has about six kids." About? He doesn't even know? They're his grandkids. Also, unless she is mentally ill, SOMETHING happened in his daughter's background to make her turn out like this.
Exactly, on both counts!
He called the wrong show lol
Seriously needs to go on Dr Phil
@@dynamichunter843 *Jerry Springer
The least of his and her concerns should be the money makeover
Six kids, her finances arent the only thing shes ruined beyond repair... 😳
Christopher sounds like he has failed massively as a parent.
@James Smith I'm no simp, dude trust me. The woman is clearly not doing herself any favors by making lots of obviously bad decisions even though she's an adult. But you can tell how good of a parent someone was by how successful and healthy their children are. Bad parents raise kids with lots of problems, it's the simple truth.
@@JR-pr1xh not true.
@@kp782Are your kids disfunctional but you don't want to be held responsible for failing at your sole job of raising healthy, successful, and functioning children?
Semi-joking here but I'm curious why you disagree with the idea that bad leaders create bad subordinates.
@@JR-pr1xh i dont have kids. But watching my spouses parents being so dysfunctional I can say that he became a wonderful person who takes financial responsiblities etc serious. Had friends whose parents were loving and caring and their kids (my ex friends) turned out selfish, ignorant and financial unstable. Even though they had everything and he didnt.
@@JR-pr1xh correct me if I’m wrong:)
this has to be a fake call
"Think about how stupid the average person is, and then realize that half of 'em are stupider than that." George Carlin
I'm so sorry but the way the father says "Mmhmmm" sounds sooooo sassy 😂😂😂😂. It's like "I told her" 😂😂
I just read the title and was like... "JESUS ALL MIGHTY"
Same here 😂😂😂😂😂
This can't be real - " about" six kids, " mostly" medical bills ?
Why is Grandpa not more concerned about the 6 babies in foster care - so sad this is not just stupid but very very crazy
As a father I would be torn if I was in this situation. As a listener of this, I still am saddened to hear this.
+AnObviousUsername I thought the same thing.
Christopher, I'd recommend your daughter try Dave Ramsey's Total Hysterectomy Makeover.
royalredus also she needs Dave's Total brain make over!
LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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perkol8ter I’m rolling!!!! Lololol
There's the comment im looking for
HAHA, Dave starts off saying "where are the... where's the dad?" He was immediately assuming that it was several different men/boys. Good guess Dave.
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If she's not paying for the kids, she sure isn't paying for the medical bills.
didnt mention the kids for a WHILE. it’s like when people leave it out of their bio on tinder. uh, KIND OF A BIG DEAL.
I don't think wise money planning/spending should be the big concern for that dad. You can't decide that you're going to be a 'good parent' after the fact. Why are there so many parents that aren't PARENTING!!!???? That child needs, at this point, therapy to find out why she feels the need to keep having children, a hysterectomy to prevent her from having further children, and a mentor who will keep her in check and held responsible for her actions. And her dad is NOT that person. The dad says that "she's had about six kids"@3:05. You're not sure how many kids? Are you not a part of their lives? Why are they all in foster care when there is obviously family available? Good grief.
I know for many kids are a blessing but for people who aren't prepared or don't have their lives together kids are a burden.
Exactly
Prepared 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Dad asking for help like he didn’t raise the problem
This woman votes. Don't forget that.
That’s how bad politicians get elected.
'The best argument against democracy is a short conversation with the average voter.'
Someone intelligent
I mean, so do all the anti-vaxxers, evangelicals, and flat earthers.
What- do you want us to attach educational requirements to voting?
@@jacob9673 we need to improve our education system. So we can have smarter voters.
@@jacob9673 Net taxpayers only.
She needs waaaaaay more than financial help. He should have called Dr Phil or Iyanla, not Dave.
9 times out of 10 a woman with 6 kids gets free health care at least, there is more to this story
not if she lives in a red state
She had 6 kids. She doesn't have 6 kids. They're in foster care so she wouldn't be eligible for any welfare that parents/families are eligible for.
@@kingkoopa157 Not true. TN is a red state and provides free healthcare for pregnant mothers who may need help with assistance. For instance I have a primary insurance through the company I work for and since I had to go on Short Term for High Risk pregnancy my income was only 50% of what I would usually make. So I qualified for a secondary insurance through TN to pay my copays and the 10% leftt over from my primary insurance. So I will not go into debt from having a complicated pregnancy. I have a great career too and am really blessed that my job has great benefits and TN offered the healthcare.
The income cut-off for pregnant women to get Medicaid is very high in most states (far higher than for a non-pregnant woman). She undoubtedly would have qualified for Medicaid during pregnancy with a $11.00/hr job (and she was probably only making minimum wage before this new job.) The dad isn't being honest about her debts, more likely she ran them up with emergency room visits from drug overdoses or something.
Dexter Bentley 😄
Omg was she having one kid a year?
probably making more babies at a faster rate than filling her taxes.
Lol I bet she had two kids by 16 =_=
Could be twins. My nana had 7 kids including 2 pairs of twins.
3:03 That silence... 😂😂😂
Folks, a box of condoms only costs about $12 at Walgreens. Or you can get them for free at your county health department.
FREE condoms?? Socialism!!!1
That woman should be on birth control
Abstinence works too.
This is so sad. I hope she turns her life around one day. Kudos to Dave for being compassionate and seeking to understand
Not sure how as a grandfather you can allow your grandchildren to be sent to Foster care. I wouldn't be able to live with that
Well, that's six kids and probably a seventh in the future....and he's trying to parent the 24 year old.
Joshua Rivera he might not be physically capable or have the space to care for all those kids.
The daughter lives across the country so not much the Grandparents can do about it.
SIX KIDS, not one or two SIX! He is probably retired and just doesn't have the ability to give them a decent home!
She makes a child every year, and the father is expected to take them? He should be a multi-millionaire he could provide foods and hire nannies
She's had "about 6 kids?" You know you have a problem when you don't even know the exact number of kids your daughter has had.
You can hear the disappointment in this dad's voice when he says "ummm-huh".
He apparently expected Ramsey to work a miracle.
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Once he said 11 an hour and 60k in debt, I knew immediately that this was going to be an “life advice” video instead of a “numeric solution” video. One thing I notice about Dave is that he does not give numeric advice on how to get out of debt for people that make less than around 20k a year with debt of 55k or higher. This needs to change. Don’t just help the poor but help the poverty also.
But really how can you support yourself and pay off debt at 11 an hour it's not possible really. Many other things need to come together before she can start. Plus if you have that extra money to pay off debt should it go towards the kids idk
The math is impossible. Even if you pay 1/4 of yearly income for the debt it will be 12 years before you pay it off. Even just keeping current would be impossible.
I love how dad avoids telling Dave about the 6 kids, until the end.
Kids in Foster Care generally mean she has to pay child support. "Mainly Medical" could imply that.
Dave handled that so well 😂😂😂
Her kids have A.D.D.........
All different Dads.
And she has STD's!
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Dave’s silence after the revelation of children was hysterical
This girl needs counseling. The father said she is smart. I would not have used that description of her.
I would struggle to take care of myself with $11 dollars 😭😭😭😭
19 years old, and debt is the last thing I want on my mind....
She is done. She has some serious issues, and they all started long ago in her home being raised by this guy. Wow.
nah rebellious daughters are impossible to raise, ive seen some girls in high school..oh boy
@@zeroday7878 They aren't rebelious when they have been raised right.
@@jimmyfallon2484 no sometimes it really doesn’t matter how you raise your kids some just turn out maladjusted and there’s nothing you can do about it
@@sirsurnamethefirstofhisnam7986 Do you believe that due to a personal experience? I dont disagree with you. Sometimes they will be rebelious no matter how good of parents they had, but that only happens if they were born with mental defects such as a primary psycopath or antipersonality disorder, autism etc.
@@sirsurnamethefirstofhisnam7986 When "regular" children are reered by people who cary little mental trauma, then the kids turn out better.
Yikes a f*cking mess. Judge me all you want but I would never have a child if I didn’t have the means of providing them with a comfortable life.
"she's had 'about' 6 kids.
Wow- that's just sad.
+Britta Witcher i wondered about the word 'about'. Like maybe one time she was a little bit pregnant.