122. How To Be More Confident and Calm in Your Communication: Managing the "ABC’s" of...

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  • @davidr4523
    @davidr4523 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +108

    Excellent topic. The best speech confidence/performance advice I received in the past are
    1. Over prepare if necessary for your speech. There is no failure in writing notes or your entire speech out.
    2. Watch great speakers on TH-cam and image you are them. Possibly copy their hand, body and head movements.
    3. Have full concentration when you speak. Try to reach that level of focus that those telekinesis or mentalist do when they bend spoons. Get in the zone.
    4. Speak slower. Great speakers may speak fast one on one, but to large groups they speak slow.
    5. Always smile.
    6. Get your audience to participate in your speech.
    7. Try to be comfortable and loose. If you seem nervous and uptight, the audience will never enjoy your speech.
    8. Have some visuals
    9. Just know that people care less what you are saying.
    10. If you are blessed with ability to be humorous, then use it appropriately and with tact to know who your audience is.
    11. Keep on practicing. The more you speak in groups the better you become.
    12. Go into every speech imaging you are the greatest speaking with the world.

    • @blablablaclaclacla9895
      @blablablaclaclacla9895 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ❤❤❤❤Priceless

    • @davidr4523
      @davidr4523 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@blablablaclaclacla9895 Thank you. You are too kind!

  • @VictorBrunko
    @VictorBrunko 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Confidence is key to effective communication. * Anxiety is a common barrier to confident * The "ABCS" of anxiety management are:
    **A**ffective (feelings and responses)
    *B**ehavioral (physical symptoms) ***C**ognitive (merntal processes) * Techniques to manage anxiety include: * Acknowledging and reframing negative thoughts
    * Seeing anxiety as a signal that you care * Practicing deep breathing * Using physical warm-ups * Adopting a mindset that stress can be enhancing
    * By managing anxiety, you can become more confident and effective in your communication.

  • @zoy8779
    @zoy8779 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Being anxious during speaking especially front people is the most difficult thing all we suffer from but after knowing . FEELINGS ANXIETY IS MORE THAN A NORMAL THING DURING SPEAKING we feel more comfortable ❤❤❤❤ thank you so much for this wonderful episode❤❤❤❤

  • @dharamindia563
    @dharamindia563 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is a gem. Anxiety is real and scientific approaches help

  • @letsRegulateSociopaths
    @letsRegulateSociopaths 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The best technique I have found is to actually in your head say what you will say just before it comes out of your mouth. It regulates everything very nicely.

    • @jukebox419
      @jukebox419 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      how's that even possible doing it parallelly in a less amount of time?

  • @Cardioclin
    @Cardioclin 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Good episode and excellent podcast, "Think Faster, Talk Smart." I believe that stressful situations present challenges for everybody and provide an opportunity to demonstrate emotional intelligence, which is the most important quality we possess. When anxiety arises, I think of positive aspects.

  • @prashantsaini9101
    @prashantsaini9101 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Best advice ever given within this video, beautifully curated on the subject to lower the anxiety, this is going to help us a lots. We can also make communication effective by taking the short pauses while addresses large audiences to avert some anxiety to be clear more before start to the next statement, this would attenuate the fast running nerves to control and come on the same momentum with add on more energies and it could be prove great when use effectively.

  • @MathsHorizon
    @MathsHorizon 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Experience is the key . Speak out , it's ok to feel the anxiety . Gradually over time things will change to the better ,trust me.

  • @samukelonkosi2165
    @samukelonkosi2165 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Great episode. I’ve struggled with confidence communication. I’m definitely going to use the insights shared to create my anxiety management plan for better communication.

  • @clementgavi7290
    @clementgavi7290 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes. Think fast, think smart. I added think ethical.

  • @JonathanSebastian407
    @JonathanSebastian407 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Stanford

  • @banderalkharmi4931
    @banderalkharmi4931 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Many thanks Abrahams, it's really helpful

  • @jiapusun7718
    @jiapusun7718 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +97

    can you please change the color of the cover image? it's so difficult to tell I‘ve watched this video or not. Thx.

    • @mayankkasliwal1925
      @mayankkasliwal1925 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Well then you are not watching it correctly

    • @np494609
      @np494609 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Haha you need a meter to remind you when you fully watched a video?

    • @michaelrowe8115
      @michaelrowe8115 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      You’re in luck, with this video you don’t watch, you just have to listen.

    • @nurcholismadjid4232
      @nurcholismadjid4232 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      That the purposed to make you watch it again 😂

    • @jiapusun7718
      @jiapusun7718 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤣@@nurcholismadjid4232

  • @MTGBOOKSS
    @MTGBOOKSS 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amazing Topics

  • @LeeMaverick
    @LeeMaverick 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great episode!

  • @matthewwoods6318
    @matthewwoods6318 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Appreciate this message! 😮‍💨

  • @EnzoNosis
    @EnzoNosis 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you!

  • @SpeedX0905
    @SpeedX0905 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thanks

  • @kathiravan1902
    @kathiravan1902 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you

  • @norasalah134
    @norasalah134 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thanhs

  • @lancerr7608
    @lancerr7608 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Unnormal is not a word.

  • @sadiyaoyshi5512
    @sadiyaoyshi5512 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I miss the intro music 🥲

  • @ZeroToZenith123
    @ZeroToZenith123 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I want to learn how dale something

  • @vuxuanhuy9079
    @vuxuanhuy9079 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wish I can listen understand video but current I cannt haizz😢

  • @RB-go8ff
    @RB-go8ff 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow...

  • @MaryLee-r2v
    @MaryLee-r2v หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @johannmuster9726
    @johannmuster9726 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Rule number one: don`t waste 2:30 min. to tell people what you going to tell them. it`s 2024