122. How To Be More Confident and Calm in Your Communication: Managing the "ABC’s" of...

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  • @davidr4523
    @davidr4523 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +110

    Excellent topic. The best speech confidence/performance advice I received in the past are
    1. Over prepare if necessary for your speech. There is no failure in writing notes or your entire speech out.
    2. Watch great speakers on TH-cam and image you are them. Possibly copy their hand, body and head movements.
    3. Have full concentration when you speak. Try to reach that level of focus that those telekinesis or mentalist do when they bend spoons. Get in the zone.
    4. Speak slower. Great speakers may speak fast one on one, but to large groups they speak slow.
    5. Always smile.
    6. Get your audience to participate in your speech.
    7. Try to be comfortable and loose. If you seem nervous and uptight, the audience will never enjoy your speech.
    8. Have some visuals
    9. Just know that people care less what you are saying.
    10. If you are blessed with ability to be humorous, then use it appropriately and with tact to know who your audience is.
    11. Keep on practicing. The more you speak in groups the better you become.
    12. Go into every speech imaging you are the greatest speaking with the world.

    • @davidr4523
      @davidr4523 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @blablablaclaclacla9895 Thank you. You are too kind!

  • @VictorBrunko
    @VictorBrunko 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Confidence is key to effective communication. * Anxiety is a common barrier to confident * The "ABCS" of anxiety management are:
    **A**ffective (feelings and responses)
    *B**ehavioral (physical symptoms) ***C**ognitive (merntal processes) * Techniques to manage anxiety include: * Acknowledging and reframing negative thoughts
    * Seeing anxiety as a signal that you care * Practicing deep breathing * Using physical warm-ups * Adopting a mindset that stress can be enhancing
    * By managing anxiety, you can become more confident and effective in your communication.

  • @zoy8779
    @zoy8779 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Being anxious during speaking especially front people is the most difficult thing all we suffer from but after knowing . FEELINGS ANXIETY IS MORE THAN A NORMAL THING DURING SPEAKING we feel more comfortable ❤❤❤❤ thank you so much for this wonderful episode❤❤❤❤

  • @dharamindia563
    @dharamindia563 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is a gem. Anxiety is real and scientific approaches help

  • @letsRegulateSociopaths
    @letsRegulateSociopaths 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The best technique I have found is to actually in your head say what you will say just before it comes out of your mouth. It regulates everything very nicely.

    • @jukebox419
      @jukebox419 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      how's that even possible doing it parallelly in a less amount of time?

  • @Cardioclin
    @Cardioclin 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Good episode and excellent podcast, "Think Faster, Talk Smart." I believe that stressful situations present challenges for everybody and provide an opportunity to demonstrate emotional intelligence, which is the most important quality we possess. When anxiety arises, I think of positive aspects.

  • @prashantsaini9101
    @prashantsaini9101 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Best advice ever given within this video, beautifully curated on the subject to lower the anxiety, this is going to help us a lots. We can also make communication effective by taking the short pauses while addresses large audiences to avert some anxiety to be clear more before start to the next statement, this would attenuate the fast running nerves to control and come on the same momentum with add on more energies and it could be prove great when use effectively.

  • @samukelonkosi2165
    @samukelonkosi2165 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great episode. I’ve struggled with confidence communication. I’m definitely going to use the insights shared to create my anxiety management plan for better communication.

  • @banderalkharmi4931
    @banderalkharmi4931 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Many thanks Abrahams, it's really helpful

  • @JonathanSebastian407
    @JonathanSebastian407 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Stanford

  • @MathsHorizon
    @MathsHorizon 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Experience is the key . Speak out , it's ok to feel the anxiety . Gradually over time things will change to the better ,trust me.

  • @LeeMaverick
    @LeeMaverick ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great episode!

  • @EnzoNosis
    @EnzoNosis ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you!

  • @MTGBOOKSS
    @MTGBOOKSS 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amazing Topics

  • @clementgavi7290
    @clementgavi7290 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes. Think fast, think smart. I added think ethical.

  • @matthewwoods6318
    @matthewwoods6318 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Appreciate this message! 😮‍💨

  • @jiapusun7718
    @jiapusun7718 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    can you please change the color of the cover image? it's so difficult to tell I‘ve watched this video or not. Thx.

    • @mayankkasliwal1925
      @mayankkasliwal1925 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Well then you are not watching it correctly

    • @np494609
      @np494609 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Haha you need a meter to remind you when you fully watched a video?

    • @michaelrowe8115
      @michaelrowe8115 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      You’re in luck, with this video you don’t watch, you just have to listen.

    • @nurcholismadjid4232
      @nurcholismadjid4232 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      That the purposed to make you watch it again 😂

    • @jiapusun7718
      @jiapusun7718 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🤣@@nurcholismadjid4232

  • @SpeedX0905
    @SpeedX0905 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thanks

  • @kathiravan1902
    @kathiravan1902 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @GustavoSilva-ny8jc
    @GustavoSilva-ny8jc หลายเดือนก่อน

    1:00 Part true but you dont want to feel like shit cause you dont have skills or dont do something new cause you will do bad, we need to fix this core problem of misinterpretation and avoidance. This can lead to a preparation frenzy where youre never good enough or cant get out of your confort zone, we need to learn to accept facts like it's natural to make mistakes as a noob and to analyze a situation thinking "what is this? How can i act and even succeed with i already have even if i play differently? I feel bothered by their opnion or how i look? What are those things?"
    We often act on instincts we have no clue how it works its like trying to do medicine without knowing biology. To understand others you need to know how humans think and societies work for example, it's not something you'll learn in 1 conversation with a random person.

  • @norasalah134
    @norasalah134 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thanhs

  • @ZeroToZenith123
    @ZeroToZenith123 ปีที่แล้ว

    I want to learn how dale something

  • @sadiyaoyshi5512
    @sadiyaoyshi5512 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I miss the intro music 🥲

  • @RB-go8ff
    @RB-go8ff 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow...

  • @lancerr7608
    @lancerr7608 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Unnormal is not a word.

  • @vuxuanhuy9079
    @vuxuanhuy9079 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wish I can listen understand video but current I cannt haizz😢

  • @johannmuster9726
    @johannmuster9726 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Rule number one: don`t waste 2:30 min. to tell people what you going to tell them. it`s 2024

  • @MaryLee-r2v
    @MaryLee-r2v 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

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