Day 26 and I'm feeling an amazing sensation all throughout my body. Im really starting to love myself and in turn Im seeing the man I love in such a beautiful way. Even with all the curveballs life continues to throw at me, it is now easier than ever to navigate. I choose life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. What a fabulous road to be on! May we all be successful and flourish with such clarity. Simon, keep sharing your passion and knowledge. Thank you for the inspiration sir.
Hi Simon, I listen to you every morning. I joined your Facebook site... The majority of people were wonderful. But there was one person who said some negative things to me, (I think he was drunk, and or just a horrible person). That put me off for a while, I think one of your admin deleted him. Anyway I'm going to rejoin and ignore that negative start... I guess people have their battles and his way of dealing with things was by being negative to others. Keep doing what you are doing simon, you are really helping me xx
Thanks - it’s a shame you had that experience. We try and deal with anyone who is causing issues as quickly as possible. Glad my videos help 😊 you would be welcome to join my programme too - the Facebook group is much smaller and it’s such a friendly community. Details here www.joinbesober.con
I got through the early days by putting a teaspoon of red wine in a glass and just taking deep sniffs of it. Sorted out my cravings and I didn't need to do it for long.
Mad props on the share and video! Personal shares on topics like this make a difference in the lives of others! Subbed and definitely found inspiration here for my channel and vids. Keep doing you!
Your analogy of an assault course was brilliant was the best thing that you have ever said , the thought of starting going to the beginning again really does work ✔👍🏃♀️
Thanks, I hope it helped, make sure you subscribe to my channel, there are new videos every Tuesday and Thursday, I would love you to be part of the community.
New hobbies of sobriety I like that idea! Got my journal 😁 I like the idea about the river I've been in that river I will try and stay on the bank .thank you so much for your wisdom.
I keep going a few weeks then cracking and bingeing heavy. Genuinely can’t imagine being able to go out and not drink and be happy/normal. That’s the problem. Just got to keep going.
Get new friends who don't drink. Stops socialising in places where you and others would normaly drink. What I did was join new social clubs and find new hobbies. Try to find a new passion that doesn't involve alcohol and you will make friends within that circle then forget about your old drinking life. It's always going to be hard if you are going to places that remind and trigger you everytime you go out. If you are still struggling after that, then you may just not be ready in yourself, but don't stop trying. You will get there in the end. it took me countless attempts but when you get to the real one you will know it in your mind right away.
Despite the draw of moderation, it has not worked for me. If there is alcohol in the house, I will drink it. One of the biggest obstacles I face is sleep. If I go to bed sober, I can’t sleep.
I am confused and gobsmacked I joined your group for support and tonight when I went to comment I couldn’t it wouldn’t let me I think my account had been cancelled with the group I’m shocked ,if I’ve commented something that was offensive I’m sorry but can’t for the life of me think what it could be ,can you can light on this simon
Hi Suzanne we would never cancel an account, I’m also confused as I can’t see you have ever been a member of my programme, can you shed some light on what exactly was cancelled?
I can’t remember exactly what it said but it said something like your account is no longer in use and when I tried to join and rejoin thinking that may help it said I’m not a member
been sober for a month now; got real help from guys at the gym
Hello Simon! I have done day 5 today. Eating and sleeping better . Thanks for all your tips
Day 26 and I'm feeling an amazing sensation all throughout my body. Im really starting to love myself and in turn Im seeing the man I love in such a beautiful way. Even with all the curveballs life continues to throw at me, it is now easier than ever to navigate. I choose life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. What a fabulous road to be on! May we all be successful and flourish with such clarity. Simon, keep sharing your passion and knowledge. Thank you for the inspiration sir.
Hi Simon, I listen to you every morning. I joined your Facebook site... The majority of people were wonderful. But there was one person who said some negative things to me, (I think he was drunk, and or just a horrible person). That put me off for a while, I think one of your admin deleted him. Anyway I'm going to rejoin and ignore that negative start... I guess people have their battles and his way of dealing with things was by being negative to others. Keep doing what you are doing simon, you are really helping me xx
Thanks - it’s a shame you had that experience. We try and deal with anyone who is causing issues as quickly as possible. Glad my videos help 😊 you would be welcome to join my programme too - the Facebook group is much smaller and it’s such a friendly community. Details here www.joinbesober.con
I got through the early days by putting a teaspoon of red wine in a glass and just taking deep sniffs of it. Sorted out my cravings and I didn't need to do it for long.
Thank you. I am just beginning my journey😊
God bless you Simon! Your videos are a big help to those of us who are trying to make a positive change.
You're so helpful, God bless you.
Thanks - glad the videos help - Simon
Mad props on the share and video! Personal shares on topics like this make a difference in the lives of others! Subbed and definitely found inspiration here for my channel and vids. Keep doing you!
O>o up
Your analogy of an assault course was brilliant was the best thing that you have ever said , the thought of starting going to the beginning again really does work ✔👍🏃♀️
Ah, I am glad you liked it :) It really helped me and I hope it helps others as well.
I can really relate to the getting through 5-7pm without drinking. Once that’s passed the cravings disappear.
This is amazing
Thanks, I hope it helped, make sure you subscribe to my channel, there are new videos every Tuesday and Thursday, I would love you to be part of the community.
Very well explained … helped me a lot %… thank you so much
Thanks!
New hobbies of sobriety I like that idea! Got my journal 😁 I like the idea about the river I've been in that river I will try and stay on the bank .thank you so much for your wisdom.
Hi Julia, Really glad you liked the ideas, I hope that the videos are helping. Keep on top of the river bank. Simon
Day 10 for me
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Thanks.
I keep going a few weeks then cracking and bingeing heavy. Genuinely can’t imagine being able to go out and not drink and be happy/normal. That’s the problem. Just got to keep going.
Get new friends who don't drink. Stops socialising in places where you and others would normaly drink. What I did was join new social clubs and find new hobbies. Try to find a new passion that doesn't involve alcohol and you will make friends within that circle then forget about your old drinking life. It's always going to be hard if you are going to places that remind and trigger you everytime you go out. If you are still struggling after that, then you may just not be ready in yourself, but don't stop trying. You will get there in the end. it took me countless attempts but when you get to the real one you will know it in your mind right away.
Agree we don't want less and less it's more and more 👍
Despite the draw of moderation, it has not worked for me. If there is alcohol in the house, I will drink it. One of the biggest obstacles I face is sleep. If I go to bed sober, I can’t sleep.
I am confused and gobsmacked I joined your group for support and tonight when I went to comment I couldn’t it wouldn’t let me I think my account had been cancelled with the group I’m shocked ,if I’ve commented something that was offensive I’m sorry but can’t for the life of me think what it could be ,can you can light on this simon
Hi Suzanne we would never cancel an account, I’m also confused as I can’t see you have ever been a member of my programme, can you shed some light on what exactly was cancelled?
I can’t remember exactly what it said but it said something like your account is no longer in use and when I tried to join and rejoin thinking that may help it said I’m not a member
@@besober my fb membership
@@besober I don’t know if I’ve been hacked
@@besober a few days ago I signed into tictok and a couple of other things via my fb account unless I’ve been hacked
I need help quick please help
How you doing?
One of the best channels Could try put the shovel down sobriety videos
I wish I knew this 7 years ago