Falling For A Straight Guy
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 ส.ค. 2018
- I believe falling in love is such an amazing feeling, but there are some situations where falling in love can be very toxic to us. An example of this kind of toxic love would be falling for someone who will never be able to return those feelings. A lot of people will fall for someone who takes time to show them they care about them. But just because someone is there and care about you doesn't mean they can love you the way you want them to. So catching yourself before you fall for someone who can't love you in return is a good way to prevent yourself from going down the road of heartbreak.
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You are right, straight guys can just be nice and open minded. Does not mean they are interested in more than a platonic way. Took me a long time to realize this with a very close straight friend.
It’s inevitable. Most men are straight so it’s more than likely that you’re gonna fall for a straight guy at least once. It’s sad because sometimes I think “maybe if I win him over with my personality, he’ll be open to explore”. NEVER HAPPENS.
Damn, this hit me deep in my soul. I have a buddy that I feel the same way about.
One of the interesting aspects of being a gay man 🏳️🌈. I’ve definitely had my girl friends fall for me and I’ve definitely fallen for my straight guy friends haha! 🤦🏻♂️
Guess it’s the world we live in now. I believe we all fall on the spectrum somewhere when it comes to being gay or straight or bi. But you can’t force anyone to be what they aren’t just because you catch the feels.
I am old enough to be your grandfather, but yet I am learning from you!
I don't think unrequited love exists. when you fall for a straight guy, he loves you back, he just cun't do it all the way so to speak. if you can accept his limitations, it can be a great friendship.
I do loathe the term 'straight acting'
Beautiful video, Drummond!
Guys can come on pretty strong with each other when there's a mutual, physical attraction. I'd hate to get my heart broken by falling in love with a straight guy.
Thanks for making this important video on this delicate subject.
Great topic. I fully support what you had to say. Thanks
I once had a boss who thought he would 'butch me up' by taking me to a strip club. The dancers and waitresses all hung around our table, sensing that I was not a threat. Boss stayed mad for days that they mostly talked to me. He was a perv with roaming hands. I was not. Thanks for sharing.
Great topic and a potential minefield for the unattached. You provided some interesting perspective and certainly some things to keep in mind.
I always went for the fem guys mostly. I think it’s Anima/animus sort of manifesting itself. I think more masculine guys tend to be attracted to their inner feminine and feminine guys seek out their inner masculine.. Ive put a lot of thought into this lol.
I think I had a crush on one of my best straight friends. I appreciate that we are still good friends after I came out to him, especially in this relatively conservative country, but I just cannot quit him. It’s painful and takes time to start over.
Well I hope you can find a way to make your friendship work and you not be in any emotional pain over it!
Just take your time and get out of there
I Agree I Like the video ,i do admit too much compliments can be so akward some poeple just don't like it.
I have dealt with this myself. I have a little bit of both masc and fem qualities. Great video. Liked.
I feel the same way, this is helping me a lot, thanks to you!
Thanks for your comment! Hopefully you find some of my other videos helpful as well or at least brighten your day in some way
@@DrummondCulture Definitely helpful. I was disillusioned by things I can never have. There is no such thing as moving on, just moving forward. Love never ends where heartaches begin. Unrequited love is like stabbing you in the chest without the intent of killing you. Perhaps each of us has our own story to tell. If love is the most important thing in this world, suffering because of love is the most painful thing. But it is a choice. I will move forward.
I feel like we've all been there! It's definitely not fun. 🙃
Also I see you with the consistent uploads and I'm proud haha!
Yeah girl I’m back! I haven’t watched your latest video yet but I saved it in my Watch later folder! But I most definitely will be checking it out because I’ve been wanting to do some meal prepping for a while now.
Aww yay! Hopefully it’s helpful 😊
Very wise words... BTW you ARE darn good-looking.
I think we've all done this. Yes, it's a complete waste of time, and will end up ruining a potential friendship.
Wow you're already on 8k subscribers!! Lol you grew from 6k. Keep going Drummond!
Thanks! 🥰
The worst thing is when he acts gay but isn't, the crash is so hard like put me down like a horse 😂
If the straight guy is a good friend and is willing to help you, you can try talking to him about your feelings - it really helps a lot
I'm pretty masculine but not macho, just normal and tend to date somewhere in the middle or masculine men. I think effeminate men aren't attracted to me lol. Great channel.
There are many straight guys who really enjoy sexual relations with gay guys even in long term live-in relationships!
Sounds wonderfully confusing.
This video is all my life 😂
I was doing well listening to your story and explanations until I saw this giant bug crawling up on your left shoulder and I started to freak out and then it was gone so I went back to look. what the hell was that ?LOL about 4:10 ish
Interesting topic. Sooo familiar with that. Strange why gay guyz fall for straight visa versa.......CAN be very frustrating......could IT be because we all want to compensate deep internal feelings, we might even not be AWARE of......For example a deep yearning for a daddy type of Guy. Means you are looking for protection......because of intense bullying and those kind of things in childhood......
But you have to be very carefull. Because Every Guy has his feminine side, some more some less......most of the time in real LIFE IT doesn,t work this way. You have to cherish his feminine side, NEVER try to hide IT. IT,s kind of like a second Come out. You can,t be picky you have to love the whole GUY with his whole package......
What if the straight guys flirt with you?
Dont get into it it will hurt you even more. My friend is a beautiful blonde boy who I would flirt with all the time and he would flirt back. It had me thinking we could be together maybe and maybe he is lowkey bi but then today he posted his new gf on an ig story. That shit ruined my day and broke my heart into a million pieces and I cant stop thinking about it I would cry if I could but I cant my parents fucked me up when I was a kid so its hard for me to talk about things and express emotion.
Your not extrovert you are ambivert .. cheers .
I know what you mean. I've been there it sucks really it does
I was loved a straight guy in high school but he has girlfriend.That hurts me so much for a long time .However,can you image that?That guy became my best friend ,lol.So I think it's an another way to deal with falling for a straight guy. :)
I’m not saying you can’t be friends with straight guys. I’m saying you can’t fall for them and then be upset when they don’t return the feelings. But if you’re being friends with them and constantly wishing they would eventually want to be with you it’s a bad place to put yourself mentally. If you’re able to be their friend and not be in a negative place about it then I’m all for you being friends with them!
You are right. In the first period of time, I was really very negative, but then I realized that he could never become gay, so I let go and keep a close relationship with him. But all this are based on the fact that I did not come out.
I’m going to be a bit controversial here. Is falling in love a one way street? Can you really fall in love with someone who doesn’t reciprocate....? I have ‘fallen in love’ with guys who were straight and it is horrible. But is that really love? Love is surely that feeling of security and bonding that you feel with someone with whom your feel safe and when you ‘fall’ it comes back to you, doesn’t it? Isn’t everything else a crush, a hope , a feeling that you want to happen, but until it does it’s not love? I don’t know I’m not sure. For me I always ‘knew’ I was gay but fell in love with a woman to whom I was married for 24 wonderful years until she died last year. That’s just being bi I guess, but I never stopped thinking about men, although I never did anything about those feelings because I loved my wife. Don’t hate me too much!!
I don’t think love has to be returned for you to be considered in love. You could be in a marriage with someone who doesn’t love you and you love them and they leave you eventually but that doesn’t mean you didn’t love them. So I believe you can be in love with a straight guy and they never return the love and it doesn’t mean you’re any less in love with them.
Fair enough , we will just have to agree to disagree Drummond!! I really like your content. Keep on stimulating us with your views and I’ll keep on watching! Great stuff.
Just to add to my previous comment. I’m not sure it can be called ‘love’ when it is one way. Surely (perhaps not surely!!) love is a two way road. Isn’t love when you feel so connected, each of you, that there is such a bond that you both want the same goals, to feel the same linkage with each other. Otherwise isn’t it just lust?, just desire? Love is a very difficult thing to define, isn’t it? Hope this adds to any debate, what does anyone else think?
Interesting point of view. We use the term love so fluently now. I like how the ancient Greeks had a few different words for the types of love. I feel like I’ve loved gay guys and straight guys the same, however, you do bring up some great points 😁
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I’m attracted to gay who is less out and wanted to be his boyfriend and me made him like my girlfriend that’s the set up i like
You’re so cute
Ooooooo we're same
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