I’m 60 years old and I must say, I’m so proud of these young men because of their boldness and courage to live in their truth. I feel their love for one another and it’s beautiful. Continue the work of encouraging men and women to be true to themselves.
I came out as bi to my family a few years ago, and my mom flipped out so badly that I ended a meaningful relationship with my girlfriend, and envied any LGBTQ person that was able to openly live their lives. It scared me for such a long time that I went back to pretending to be straight just to please them. Later on down the line once the quarantine hit, I was not only forced to be alone with my thoughts, but I came to realize that I was a lesbian, and was even more upset because of my past coming out experience. After coming out to myself last year, I decided not to come out to my mom again, and that she'll get the hint eventually. I decided that my life is my life, and my happiness is something I am no longer gonna deny myself. It's hard because I want that talk with her, but I know it's something that'll probably never happen.
I can’t speak on the subject and say that you have to ever have that talk with your mom and Shy with his dad. From my personal experience though, after telling my mom twice, and my dad still not knowing, i knew in order for me to have a complete peace of mind, i had to tell him. Honestly, when i told him, it wasnt an easy task because we used to get into physical altercations when i was growing up, but him being able to ask what he wanted to know, made the convo alot easier. Since i was grown, i was able to explain and express my feelings better. Once i told him, it lifted a weight off my shoulders that im not even sure how i was able to carry. It made our relationship better, and i think by making the effort to include them and by allowing them to ask questions, they are able to better understand and sympathize with you on how you feel.
I know this may sound mean and cruel, but if you are going to walk and live in your truth, sometimes you have to let people go who will not or choose not to walk beside you. It is very hard to put yourself before others particularly a parent or good friend. Just cherish and use the support you DO have and if no one else will be there then unfortunately you might have to move on. Much love for the both of you. Hugz
I was 19 when I came out to my family and no it wasn’t easy but I knew what made me happy. I’m a proud, black gay man. My family accept it now and they deal with it. I love myself dearly.
HEAR, here...I just wanna' say...I'm glad you're in the world. And this: "When you're different, sometimes you don't see the millions of people who accept you for what you are. All you notice is the person who doesn't, so, be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.” Godspeed, princes.
I literally just stumbled on your channel. I have to say that I have watched many "coming out" videos, and I felt your authenticity. I felt your genuineness. "Coming out" is extremely personal and unique to the individual. I told my parents when I was 23. I know your individual stories will help many, many people and I salute your courage and willingness to show us your vulnerability. Bravo to the two of you.
I came out to my mother at age 19 my mother told that’s on you and you go and live your life , now at age 28 I’m still single , strong independent black man but at times I would love to to have a relationship with someone but it’s slim chances that I won’t but keep pushing and don’t let nobody tear you down
Please don’t give up. I’m 27 and I have not had a lasting relationship in my life but I know that I’ve got so much love to give and it could never be that there isn’t someone out there for me. So I refuse to fall but I’ll keep trying and hopefully one day I will find someone who is exactly what I deserve. So please keep on it🤍
The apology was very important because it allow for healing to happen on a very profound level. As you stated you never really talked about the situation afterwards and that's where we can fall short because. even though you are moving through life and it seems good there are things that are left in the dark that could come out and be destructive to you both individually and as a couple. It's refreshing to see young black men have honest dialogue with one another so that you can life one another up and truly love one another because what we experience in the world can be hard enough there needs to truly be a place of shelter and love. May your relationship continue to grow and evolve and may love continue to be your foundation first for self then for one another. If you continue this line of communication you will be good. I have been with my husband for 23 yrs.
Wow, I had too pause this great video right after Shy wiped Sean’s tears U guys got me crying….and as a very new subscriber too y’all channel I just want to say you guys are loved either way life goes.
Congratulations; two brave boys, even in the world of 2021. Imagine in England when it was still a serious crime in the '60s and all ones friends were the local biker gang. It still takes balls. Good luck lads xx
Another amazing video!! I started to reminisce on my own “coming out” story! Y’all two have such a beautiful relationship!! Stay encouraged regarding the situation with your dad. I know it sounds corny but it’s continued to ring true in my own life, all things work as the should... don’t swim against the tide!
Watching with love from South Africa 🇿🇦. Wow I am absolutely shattered by the authenticity of this video. It’s so genuine and brings so much to light. Coming out is such a difficult concept and we need to be able to do it in our own way. I see the reasons behind everything that happened. Thank you so much for that apology. He needed it and I love that now you both can heal from it.
I just wanna say that you were outed, and your boundaries were crossed that should have been a conversation you had when you were ready to have. I’m so sorry you experienced this
I was thinking the same think. My story was like Sean's. Now, many years later I can see this but at the time, just like Sean, I went along with it (because it was true and things) but I was pushed out there. My parents (who probably already suspected) were upset and hurt. Several events eventually happened, where I just had to move out. Now, I was 22 years old, so it was time for me to move anyway. To make a long story short, he was my first lover, and the relationship was a violence one, build on lies and mistrust. BUT, even though, this was a "betrayal" by someone I loved, and nothing he could say to me could change that, it allowed me to move forward with being my true self and living for me. The apologize from Shy was very moving and required.
Sean your coming out was like a juicy episode of "Scandal". It was so emotional, I could feel everybody's pain. So glad you were able to come through it and be the beautiful person you are today. Thank you both for sharing your stories.
The fact that we still have to come out is sad. We are who we are. At the same time, I hope people watching your video understand that it’s never ok to out anyone. That’s not the other person’s story to tell. People have been tossed out in the street or worse because their family found out. I hope one day we won’t have to come out and that we can just say I’m dating so and so and that’s just that. I will say that when I came out to my dad, he didn’t take it well. But that was years ago and now he accepts me. But it took a long while. Hang in there.
Thank you both for sharing & standing in your truth! I love how Sean concluded his story, then you both took a deep breath in synch. Although this has been some time I don’t appreciate how the girl told your mum, I understand she was angry & had the right to be but it reflects that she didn’t respect you enough to tell her yourself! However, this video oozes ”I’m here for you” & I enjoyed how soft yet strong you both are in this video & I love y'all.
Well i can beat that. I Came out @t 41. Lol and it was not easy. But I did it. I have seen lot of these coming out videos. U guys are so unique! You made my heart feel like a blanket 💕
It's clear you have love for each other, and i am glad the apology was made. I could see the hurt/resentment in Sean's eyes beforehand, that softened after Shy's apology. Just a note to straight, gay, bi, dl, lesbian, etc that what is done in the dark will eventually come to the light. Hopefully you can control the timetable to come out, but not always. I was outed on the job and was not prepared and depressed for quite a while afterwards. I would still go to work afterwards, but i would come home and sleep excessively until it was time to go to work again. Not a fun time, but I eventually got through it. I think it should be an individual's choice to come out, but sometimes you may be outed and will have to find a way to deal with the aftermath.
Y’all are amazing couple and I enjoy watch y’all videos. Keep putting out the positive energy and love. Y’all are a blessing to so many people including myself. Much love too y’all.
I absolutely love you guys channel. And I will continue to support you guys channel. There is so much emotion in this video. I was literally in tears as soon as Sean started talking. I have mixed emotions about Shy. I'm glad you apologized, but coming from someone who came out later in life, it is no one's place to force anyone out the closet. I'm glad that all appears to be forgiven. This video was a lot but in a good empowering way. Keep the vids coming guys
My little brother just posted about this video and I asked for the link. I love how deep and real you both are and I am now subscribed to this as well as your IG channel. ❤️❤️❤️
You said that's how i came out. Brother you didnt come out your dude outed you, that is a huge diffetence. Not being negative, just honest. New to your channel, it appears you guys have weathered that storm, i wish nothing but the best for you guys. This was special because i had a simaliar situation, my bf at the time ( i was in college) threatened to out me to my mom, i did not want her to find out like that so i was forced to tell her, needless to say it did not go well. My mom loves me but she just didnt want her baby boy to be gay. Turns out my mom and family knew, said they were just waiting on me to confirm it. Man, i really do wish you guys rhe best, keep loving and supporting each other. Now let me check out some more of you huys vids 💕🥰
You, Two, Are Very Special, and young and blessings to you both, because So many people, go through so many people, And Ruin so many lives, before they have the Sense to stay with the same person, keep Together, you two, and OurSavioJesus! Be with you both, ERVIN L SWAN 🦢 III. April 15, 2022. Love ❤️ to you Both... And keep Respect for everyone, and everything in your Surroundings, Always Praying, And I'm So Proud of you both, for Taking Care of each other, and you both Speak, Very Well... ,ERVIN L SWAN 🦢 III. April 15, 2022.
i hate when these situations happen. I love both of your stories, i hate that your family had to find out while you were celebrating your birthday, i dislike when your're in relationship and your partner is pushing you to come out when you both know the deal and have a understanding, Him telling your homegirl, def wasn't a slip up then he says you should go tell your mom. Another reason why i feel like he did it on purpose , if your're already having a moment already why try to possibly create another scene, instead of waiting until you get home and enjoy the rest of your birthday. You went to the room and he saw the opportunity, not knowing if your family was going to give up major backlash, if you wasn't going to do it then he was. Lol his face expressions during your story time is crazy bro..(like hurry up please), . Drinking or not you knew what you were doing, i've been drunk before & i had full control over everything and you're just now apologizing !! I'm glad to see yall made it through it, it was a very selfish move- I wouldn't have had anything else to say to him for the rest of the trip.. I've seen plenty of situations like this, the dude dating a guy and a female and the guy makes his business to tell her . At the end of the day YOU Don't have to come out, if your're in a relationship with someone that's out , they can't force you to be out because that's how they chose to live..
Hi guys it’s hard it’s really hard we did enjoy the video well I’m 50 and still not out fully just one or two close friends but nobody else no family members they may question why I’m still not married at this middle age but I think it’s not something they dwell on . What I don’t have is a pardoner I’m from Guyana which is a small third world country in South America. Things are done very different here it’s almost as homophobic as Jamaica they are some changes but still plenty of work there to be done when it comes to the Lgtbq community. I’m sitting here listening to you guys especially the trip in Jamaica I don’t know what I would have done if that was how I had to come out . Don’t know if I would have survived. It sends shivers up my spine just thinking about it. You guys are brave and I admire you for that.
You guys been together for a long while y'all should be completely comfortable sharing y'all story. But I understand society has so much hate and negativity when it comes to the LGBTQ it's sad you can't always feel happy being in a loving relationship. I'm glad that y'all made it through that mild stone continues to enjoy the love y'all have.💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
SHAY, DON'T FEEL BAD. ONLY IF YOU HAD A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR FATHER, YOU SHOULD FEEL SOME KIND OF WAY, BUT IF YOU DIDN'T HAVE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR FATHER, DON'T SWEAT IT. I KNOW FROM PERSONAL EXPERIENCE.
What’s up guys, I’m new to y’all TH-cam channel, I’m gay too, I have cerebral palsy I use walker and wheelchair I’m 32, I’m scared to come out to my family because they won’t like that! Y’all have great coming out stories! I love y’all much
Shy's apology was epic and NECESSARY in this moment. It really is shameful that our whole society demands to KNOW who others prefer sexually, or are attracted to for intimacy. Your bed-partner is only your concern. I honor both of you for your courage!
BEAUTIFUL STORY A LIL SAD TO ME BUT I UNDERSTAND. ITS HARD TO FIND A GOOD FRIEND THAT U CAN TRUST. BUT U GUYS R BEAUTIFUL AND STRONG. U GUYS R GOIN TO BE OKAY. I WISH U TWO NOTHIN BUT THA BEST AND I'LL BE FOLLOWIN U GUYS MORE. KEEP SMILIN AND ROCKIN GOOD LOOKIN 🤔😏😙😘😗😚🤗💖💖💖✌
Here, may this wisdoms leads you to a better life for you and your loved ones:- "See the world not as it is, but as it should be." "Nobody should ever feel belittled for whoever they love". "Religion is about *PEACE* and *MERCY* of God." "When you get to God, He will never judge you based on your sexuality. He will judge and look at you, based on what type of a person you are." "God loves us beyond any and everything else, and that’s who we should love first." "You're entitled to love whoever you want to, the way that you want to, without the judgement of anyone else." "And in the sight of God, *KINDNESS* and *LOVE* are the highest priority."
Coming out is tough and not everyone has the guts to do it and I know for a fact if I were to come out would lose my entire family in a heartbeat so for me its not an option. I will say your coming out story touch me and God doesn't make mistakes and he loves us all.
Guys, after so much time has passed, how far coming out have you gone to date and what is life like now, Jul 2022, as far as being out and feeling confident about yourself and who you are.
Hetrosexual people don't have a monopoly on love. Some hetro people think that they are the only ones that have a right to love and being loved, sexual fulfillment, emotional fulfillment the financial benefits of a bond between two people. Children of tomorrow will stand on your shoulders.
Do not deny yourself. At least you know how those people really feel. Straight people say that all the time not knowing the person they are saying that too is gay.
Haha wow we didn’t even go in depth. Now that you mention that we should’ve elaborated on this more, it was just a touchy topic that we didn’t get a chance to get everything out. Would you like to see a more in depth video about how we officially got together?
@@TheSSShow um yea! Y’all lucky y’all don’t live in Cleveland we would be friends😂but yeah we need a part two! Y’all so cute! I went back and watched one of the first videos and it answered one of my questions y’all known each other for 5 yrs the love is real 😭❤️💕
Sean I really appreciate your story, but Shy that was real dirty of you to do that you knew what you was doing and it was wrong ! Sean again I thank you for sharing. Peace and Blessings...
Please don’t be negative. He’s clear about his wrong doing & doesn’t need anyone to validate it. One of the reasons this video was made was for others to learn from our faults & wrong doings. Thank you.
@@shenellesaunders95 Yeah guys like him you got to watch with a intently, my heart goes out to Sean. All ain't right in the milk there and I'll leave it like that.
I wud have hated to be that girlfriend because she deserved to know way before Jamaica . I’m glad he told her, gay people tend to think about their feelings but not the other person’s feeling just to remain On the DL. I’m Not tryna be harsh but I’m having this issue with my little brother he’s 30 and won’t come out the. but every time he gets drunk he expose his true colors little by little sad 😞 part is he losing friends damaging relationships with people
Honestly I first felt like shooting darts in Shy's face direction but No ! we can't do that ! his gesture is more of courage rather than of treachery : cannot blame him for being that bad bitch that just gets what he wants no matter what ! Sometimes the price to pay is drama : you still have to do what you have to do, like a bad Bitch to get what you want, like you drunk and just don't give a fuck about people blocking your way to succes ... the apology will come after as a coping mecanism if necessary. but you can't apologize for getting what belongs to you! Just get what you want in life period ! Sometimes its now or never despite all barriers: the truth will set you free. Shy was perfectly at his place to do what he did because his futur was concerned as well.
Guys coming out is not easy to do. But when you're ready to do it you'll know when it's time is for your safety and constable to do it on your time. Some come out early and some come out letter in life. Cuz it is really scary out here.
Jamaica. Very deadly place for non-straights. South Africa is about the best place for LGBT+ . Good for your man to apologize to you. Cool your affectionate towards each other. Rarely see it real, non T.V. couples.
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Y’all make a nice couple I’m gay to makes me feel better hearing other gay people tell there stories we need to keep supporting each other
I’m glad the apology was given! 💯
I’m 60 years old and I must say, I’m so proud of these young men because of their boldness and courage to live in their truth. I feel their love for one another and it’s beautiful. Continue the work of encouraging men and women to be true to themselves.
Thank you so much🖤🖤🖤
I came out as bi to my family a few years ago, and my mom flipped out so badly that I ended a meaningful relationship with my girlfriend, and envied any LGBTQ person that was able to openly live their lives. It scared me for such a long time that I went back to pretending to be straight just to please them. Later on down the line once the quarantine hit, I was not only forced to be alone with my thoughts, but I came to realize that I was a lesbian, and was even more upset because of my past coming out experience. After coming out to myself last year, I decided not to come out to my mom again, and that she'll get the hint eventually. I decided that my life is my life, and my happiness is something I am no longer gonna deny myself. It's hard because I want that talk with her, but I know it's something that'll probably never happen.
Thank you for your transparency and sharing that with us! Bless you🙏🏿❤️
I can’t speak on the subject and say that you have to ever have that talk with your mom and Shy with his dad. From my personal experience though, after telling my mom twice, and my dad still not knowing, i knew in order for me to have a complete peace of mind, i had to tell him. Honestly, when i told him, it wasnt an easy task because we used to get into physical altercations when i was growing up, but him being able to ask what he wanted to know, made the convo alot easier. Since i was grown, i was able to explain and express my feelings better. Once i told him, it lifted a weight off my shoulders that im not even sure how i was able to carry. It made our relationship better, and i think by making the effort to include them and by allowing them to ask questions, they are able to better understand and sympathize with you on how you feel.
Fabulous job gentlemen. Keep sharing, learning, and teaching.
I know this may sound mean and cruel, but if you are going to walk and live in your truth, sometimes you have to let people go who will not or choose not to walk beside you. It is very hard to put yourself before others particularly a parent or good friend. Just cherish and use the support you DO have and if no one else will be there then unfortunately you might have to move on. Much love for the both of you. Hugz
I was 19 when I came out to my family and no it wasn’t easy but I knew what made me happy. I’m a proud, black gay man. My family accept it now and they deal with it. I love myself dearly.
Proud of you king!❤️❤️❤️
Wow! You're comment just made a tear come our🥲
HEAR, here...I just wanna' say...I'm glad you're in the world. And this: "When you're different, sometimes you don't see the millions of people who accept you for what you are. All you notice is the person who doesn't, so, be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.” Godspeed, princes.
Omg!!!!! Kevin🥺🥺🥺 This is very sweet & so heart warming to get a beautiful message like this one. We thank you so much 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
I literally just stumbled on your channel. I have to say that I have watched many "coming out" videos, and I felt your authenticity. I felt your genuineness. "Coming out" is extremely personal and unique to the individual. I told my parents when I was 23. I know your individual stories will help many, many people and I salute your courage and willingness to show us your vulnerability. Bravo to the two of you.
Thank you so much!! We hope you stick around.
@@TheSSShow for sure. Anything to support my African American brothers.
I came out to my mother at age 19 my mother told that’s on you and you go and live your life , now at age 28 I’m still single , strong independent black man but at times I would love to to have a relationship with someone but it’s slim chances that I won’t but keep pushing and don’t let nobody tear you down
Thank you and You will get the right person for you. Continue loving on yourself and you’ll attract someone who loves you the way you love you.😄
@@TheSSShow I really appreciate it so much
Please don’t give up. I’m 27 and I have not had a lasting relationship in my life but I know that I’ve got so much love to give and it could never be that there isn’t someone out there for me. So I refuse to fall but I’ll keep trying and hopefully one day I will find someone who is exactly what I deserve. So please keep on it🤍
This video is a year old it’s my first time seeing it it’s one of the most genuine I have ever seen ❤❤
Thank you we appreciate that and hope that you'd watch more of our videos and get to know a little bit more about us.
The apology was very important because it allow for healing to happen on a very profound level. As you stated you never really talked about the situation afterwards and that's where we can fall short because. even though you are moving through life and it seems good there are things that are left in the dark that could come out and be destructive to you both individually and as a couple. It's refreshing to see young black men have honest dialogue with one another so that you can life one another up and truly love one another because what we experience in the world can be hard enough there needs to truly be a place of shelter and love. May your relationship continue to grow and evolve and may love continue to be your foundation first for self then for one another. If you continue this line of communication you will be good. I have been with my husband for 23 yrs.
Wow, I had too pause this great video right after Shy wiped Sean’s tears U guys got me crying….and as a very new subscriber too y’all channel I just want to say you guys are loved either way life goes.
Thank you so much!! Tj that means a lot. We thank you for subscribing and hope to see your name more in the comments.
Two beautiful, loving, and kind human beings. This Black woman supports you.
Congratulations; two brave boys, even in the world of 2021. Imagine in England when it was still a serious crime in the '60s and all ones friends were the local biker gang. It still takes balls. Good luck lads xx
Thank you so much for watching.
Another amazing video!! I started to reminisce on my own “coming out” story! Y’all two have such a beautiful relationship!! Stay encouraged regarding the situation with your dad. I know it sounds corny but it’s continued to ring true in my own life, all things work as the should... don’t swim against the tide!
Thank you so much. We love this & appreciate your advice 🤍
Watching with love from South Africa 🇿🇦. Wow I am absolutely shattered by the authenticity of this video. It’s so genuine and brings so much to light. Coming out is such a difficult concept and we need to be able to do it in our own way. I see the reasons behind everything that happened. Thank you so much for that apology. He needed it and I love that now you both can heal from it.
That was so beautifully said and WOW! ALL THE WAY FROM SOUTH AFRICA! That's AMAZING!!!!!!! MUCH LOVE KING.
I just wanna say that you were outed, and your boundaries were crossed that should have been a conversation you had when you were ready to have. I’m so sorry you experienced this
Thank you for your feedback man we appreciate it.🙏🏿
I was thinking the same think. My story was like Sean's. Now, many years later I can see this but at the time, just like Sean, I went along with it (because it was true and things) but I was pushed out there. My parents (who probably already suspected) were upset and hurt. Several events eventually happened, where I just had to move out. Now, I was 22 years old, so it was time for me to move anyway. To make a long story short, he was my first lover, and the relationship was a violence one, build on lies and mistrust. BUT, even though, this was a "betrayal" by someone I loved, and nothing he could say to me could change that, it allowed me to move forward with being my true self and living for me. The apologize from Shy was very moving and required.
Wow we commend you for sharing with us.🙏🏿
Sean your coming out was like a juicy episode of "Scandal". It was so emotional, I could feel everybody's pain. So glad you were able to come through it and be the beautiful person you are today. Thank you both for sharing your stories.
Thank you for watching and sharing your feelings with us.🤞🏾
I cannot with the love between you two!!! Yall are so cute!! Many blessings and prosperity to you both!! xoxo
Thank you! Blessings to you😄😄😄
The fact that we still have to come out is sad. We are who we are. At the same time, I hope people watching your video understand that it’s never ok to out anyone. That’s not the other person’s story to tell. People have been tossed out in the street or worse because their family found out. I hope one day we won’t have to come out and that we can just say I’m dating so and so and that’s just that. I will say that when I came out to my dad, he didn’t take it well. But that was years ago and now he accepts me. But it took a long while. Hang in there.
Much love. Thank you for your feedback🙏🏾🖤
I totally agree with you, LOVE WHO YOU LOVE
Thank you.
Thank you both for sharing & standing in your truth! I love how Sean concluded his story, then you both took a deep breath in synch. Although this has been some time I don’t appreciate how the girl told your mum, I understand she was angry & had the right to be but it reflects that she didn’t respect you enough to tell her yourself! However, this video oozes ”I’m here for you” & I enjoyed how soft yet strong you both are in this video & I love y'all.
🤍🤍🤍🤍 Sending you so much love & appreciation for this beautiful note.😘😘
Wooooow, I'm so glad I found your channel. I am currently watching from South Africa, please keep making more videos. ❤
We are so glad we found you!!! South Africa wow! Welcome King! We are so happy to have you.
Yeah, nice video! I’m in SA too ✌🏾👏🏻
Nice to have you ❤️
Well i can beat that. I Came out @t 41. Lol and it was not easy. But I did it. I have seen lot of these coming out videos. U guys are so unique! You made my heart feel like a blanket 💕
Awwww that means so much! Yes you did it that’s all that matters.🙏🏾
It's clear you have love for each other, and i am glad the apology was made. I could see the hurt/resentment in Sean's eyes beforehand, that softened after Shy's apology. Just a note to straight, gay, bi, dl, lesbian, etc that what is done in the dark will eventually come to the light. Hopefully you can control the timetable to come out, but not always. I was outed on the job and was not prepared and depressed for quite a while afterwards. I would still go to work afterwards, but i would come home and sleep excessively until it was time to go to work again. Not a fun time, but I eventually got through it. I think it should be an individual's choice to come out, but sometimes you may be outed and will have to find a way to deal with the aftermath.
Thank you for your transparency. We hope that you stick around and check out more videos on our channel.
Congratulations,to Real Loving Men for Communicating with your inner strength. This took Guts!
Thank you 😃
Y’all are amazing couple and I enjoy watch y’all videos. Keep putting out the positive energy and love. Y’all are a blessing to so many people including myself. Much love too y’all.
Thank you so much 🤗 We appreciate that!
Very good video, Proud of both of you. Stay Strong. Much LOVE!
Thank you so much
I absolutely love you guys channel. And I will continue to support you guys channel. There is so much emotion in this video. I was literally in tears as soon as Sean started talking. I have mixed emotions about Shy. I'm glad you apologized, but coming from someone who came out later in life, it is no one's place to force anyone out the closet. I'm glad that all appears to be forgiven. This video was a lot but in a good empowering way. Keep the vids coming guys
So beautiful. You guys had me in tears😢❤️ I love y’all 😘
We love you😘😘😘😘
Omg what a tear jerker
I don't know you two, but I applaud your courage to do this video. Continue to live in your Truth
Thank you for watching 🫶🏾
My little brother just posted about this video and I asked for the link. I love how deep and real you both are and I am now subscribed to this as well as your IG channel. ❤️❤️❤️
Welcome aboard! & Tell your brother we appreciate him keeping the conversation going.
@@TheSSShow Will do 🥰
Thank you for being vulnerable, love yall
Much love and support to you guys all the way from Nigeria❤️✨🌈🇳🇬
Much love sent back to you.
Your coming out stories were so touching... Shy it was great you apologized
You said that's how i came out. Brother you didnt come out your dude outed you, that is a huge diffetence. Not being negative, just honest. New to your channel, it appears you guys have weathered that storm, i wish nothing but the best for you guys. This was special because i had a simaliar situation, my bf at the time ( i was in college) threatened to out me to my mom, i did not want her to find out like that so i was forced to tell her, needless to say it did not go well. My mom loves me but she just didnt want her baby boy to be gay. Turns out my mom and family knew, said they were just waiting on me to confirm it. Man, i really do wish you guys rhe best, keep loving and supporting each other. Now let me check out some more of you huys vids 💕🥰
Thank you for your honest feedback.
You, Two, Are Very Special, and young and blessings to you both, because So many people, go through so many people, And Ruin so many lives, before they have the Sense to stay with the same person, keep Together, you two, and OurSavioJesus! Be with you both, ERVIN L SWAN 🦢 III. April 15, 2022. Love ❤️ to you Both... And keep Respect for everyone, and everything in your Surroundings, Always Praying, And I'm So Proud of you both, for Taking Care of each other, and you both Speak, Very Well... ,ERVIN L SWAN 🦢 III. April 15, 2022.
We appreciate that.
Sean I like the conclusion of this video. It is heartfelt and came straight from your heart. I truly felt this. Sha - love you guys too.
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Luv the intimacy between you two❤️❤️❤️that is sooo important in relationships 👌🏾#NewSubscriberHere
Welcome Delvon, We appreciate you for joining this S&S Fam!❤️✨
i hate when these situations happen. I love both of your stories, i hate that your family had to find out while you were celebrating your birthday, i dislike when your're in relationship and your partner is pushing you to come out when you both know the deal and have a understanding, Him telling your homegirl, def wasn't a slip up then he says you should go tell your mom. Another reason why i feel like he did it on purpose , if your're already having a moment already why try to possibly create another scene, instead of waiting until you get home and enjoy the rest of your birthday. You went to the room and he saw the opportunity, not knowing if your family was going to give up major backlash, if you wasn't going to do it then he was. Lol his face expressions during your story time is crazy bro..(like hurry up please), . Drinking or not you knew what you were doing, i've been drunk before & i had full control over everything and you're just now apologizing !! I'm glad to see yall made it through it, it was a very selfish move- I wouldn't have had anything else to say to him for the rest of the trip.. I've seen plenty of situations like this, the dude dating a guy and a female and the guy makes his business to tell her . At the end of the day YOU Don't have to come out, if your're in a relationship with someone that's out , they can't force you to be out because that's how they chose to live..
Thank you for the feedback! Stay blessed.
Great job guys. I know this was difficult!
I love it... thank you guys for sharing! 💖 And I’m praying for your mental health while dealing with your relationship with your father Shy 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thank you so much for your support 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
Hi guys it’s hard it’s really hard we did enjoy the video well I’m 50 and still not out fully just one or two close friends but nobody else no family members they may question why I’m still not married at this middle age but I think it’s not something they dwell on . What I don’t have is a pardoner I’m from Guyana which is a small third world country in South America. Things are done very different here it’s almost as homophobic as Jamaica they are some changes but still plenty of work there to be done when it comes to the Lgtbq community. I’m sitting here listening to you guys especially the trip in Jamaica I don’t know what I would have done if that was how I had to come out . Don’t know if I would have survived. It sends shivers up my spine just thinking about it. You guys are brave and I admire you for that.
Hey guys. Thank You for being so open with your lives of coming out.
Look forward to seeing y'all soon. ✌
Thank you Chris we appreciate your support.❤️
You guys are amazing ❤
Thank you.
I love rhis video. How beautiful was the love shown here!? so glad to see it.
Thank you. We appreciate that.
You guys been together for a long while y'all should be completely comfortable sharing y'all story. But I understand society has so much hate and negativity when it comes to the LGBTQ it's sad you can't always feel happy being in a loving relationship. I'm glad that y'all made it through that mild stone continues to enjoy the love y'all have.💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
Thank you.🤍
@@TheSSShow You guys are welcome 💕💕
Powerful video, thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences.
Thank you so much man.. We appreciate it!
Love your story guys stay strong and blessed ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
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I applaud you guys for sharing your story ❤️❤️❤️
We appreciate you!
JUST BE URSELF AND AS ALWAYS KEEP THA FAITH AND PUT GOD FIRST IN UR LIFE
HE'S THE ONLY ONE HAVE TO ASK TO.
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SHAY, DON'T FEEL BAD. ONLY IF YOU HAD A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR FATHER, YOU SHOULD FEEL SOME KIND OF WAY, BUT IF YOU DIDN'T HAVE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR FATHER, DON'T SWEAT IT. I KNOW FROM PERSONAL EXPERIENCE.
Shy* and I appreciate that KING!
Thank you for sharing your story it means a lot to me
Thanks for listening! We appreciate you.
Loved that you apologized ❤️
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Thanks for sharing. I am in tears
Thank you for watching ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You guys have done well.
What’s up guys, I’m new to y’all TH-cam channel, I’m gay too, I have cerebral palsy I use walker and wheelchair I’m 32, I’m scared to come out to my family because they won’t like that! Y’all have great coming out stories! I love y’all much
Welcome thanks for watching
@@TheSSShow y’all welcome 🌈❤️
It’s so amazing to be able to share this guys! I’m sure it will help so many other people in the future. Thanks for sharing your story.
Thank you guys so much for taking the time out to watch❤️
Sending love out to you both. .. ❤
Thank you❤️
Shy's apology was epic and NECESSARY in this moment. It really is shameful that our whole society demands to KNOW who others prefer sexually, or are attracted to for intimacy. Your bed-partner is only your concern. I honor both of you for your courage!
We truly appreciate that Bruce.
Why would he do that though 😢but I’m glad that you are living your truth 😢
I'm amazed that we still live in a world where children have to almost apologize to their parents for who they are. This is astonishing to me.
BEAUTIFUL STORY A LIL SAD TO ME BUT I UNDERSTAND. ITS HARD TO FIND A GOOD FRIEND THAT U CAN TRUST. BUT U GUYS R BEAUTIFUL AND STRONG. U GUYS R GOIN TO BE OKAY. I WISH U TWO NOTHIN BUT THA BEST AND I'LL BE FOLLOWIN U GUYS MORE. KEEP SMILIN AND ROCKIN GOOD LOOKIN 🤔😏😙😘😗😚🤗💖💖💖✌
Welcome and Thank you for sharing your time with us.❤️
Here, may this wisdoms leads you to a better life for you and your loved ones:-
"See the world not as it is, but as it should be."
"Nobody should ever feel belittled for whoever they love".
"Religion is about *PEACE* and *MERCY* of God."
"When you get to God, He will never judge you based on your sexuality. He will judge and look at you, based on what type of a person you are."
"God loves us beyond any and everything else, and that’s who we should love first."
"You're entitled to love whoever you want to, the way that you want to, without the judgement of anyone else."
"And in the sight of God, *KINDNESS* and *LOVE* are the highest priority."
Peace and Blessings to you & thank you so much for this beautiful message you’ve shared with us.🙏🏿 We are so grateful.
@@TheSSShow Thank you, for those kind words of *UNCONDITIONAL* *LOVE.*
@TheS&S Show First off you guys are Amazing an glad to see you sharing your story & living in your truth .
Thank you so much🙏🏾
@@TheSSShow you’re welcome!! You guys are definitely going back places
Coming out is tough and not everyone has the guts to do it and I know for a fact if I were to come out would lose my entire family in a heartbeat so for me its not an option. I will say your coming out story touch me and God doesn't make mistakes and he loves us all.
thank you.
Guys, after so much time has passed, how far coming out have you gone to date and what is life like now, Jul 2022, as far as being out and feeling confident about yourself and who you are.
Life is beautiful thank God and thank you for asking.
good to hear the story good video keep it up guys stay cool
Thank you so much.🙏🏾
Hetrosexual people don't have a monopoly on love. Some hetro people think that they are the only ones that have a right to love and being loved, sexual fulfillment, emotional fulfillment the financial benefits of a bond between two people. Children of tomorrow will stand on your shoulders.
Love it
Do not deny yourself. At least you know how those people really feel. Straight people say that all the time not knowing the person they are saying that too is gay.
I love you guys💕💕💕💕💕
& we love you right back.🤍
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An excellent video!
Thank you so much.
I wanna know what happened for the rest of the trip 😩and did y’all make it official after y’all came back from Jamaica I’m so noisy 😭
Haha wow we didn’t even go in depth. Now that you mention that we should’ve elaborated on this more, it was just a touchy topic that we didn’t get a chance to get everything out. Would you like to see a more in depth video about how we officially got together?
@@TheSSShow um yea! Y’all lucky y’all don’t live in Cleveland we would be friends😂but yeah we need a part two! Y’all so cute! I went back and watched one of the first videos and it answered one of my questions y’all known each other for 5 yrs the love is real 😭❤️💕
S & S .I .give you,ll both much love 💕💞💌💛💝💘💘 it take big b... to sit there and tell your. Story..I,m with you 💯💯💯💯💯
We send you our love back.🤍
Love u guys ur bless
Love you back 😁
Sean I really appreciate your story, but Shy that was real dirty of you to do that you knew what you was doing and it was wrong ! Sean again I thank you for sharing. Peace and Blessings...
Please don’t be negative. He’s clear about his wrong doing & doesn’t need anyone to validate it. One of the reasons this video was made was for others to learn from our faults & wrong doings. Thank you.
I said the same thing in my head he knew what he was doing & he was wrong & I can’t believe he’s just now apologizing he would have been cut off
AWWW.😍
@@shenellesaunders95 Yeah guys like him you got to watch with a intently, my heart goes out to Sean. All ain't right in the milk there and I'll leave it like that.
Thank you for the share
You are very welcome Enrique 🙏🏽🙏🏽
I wud have hated to be that girlfriend because she deserved to know way before Jamaica . I’m glad he told her, gay people tend to think about their feelings but not the other person’s feeling just to remain On the DL. I’m Not tryna be harsh but I’m having this issue with my little brother he’s 30 and won’t come out the. but every time he gets drunk he expose his true colors little by little sad 😞 part is he losing friends damaging relationships with people
We’re glad you aren’t her🙂
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Happy Happy God bless you two Love and Love Life 💋💋✌✌💪💪👊👊🍻
Thank you God Bless you!🤍🤍🤍🤍
You didn't come out he came out for you because how badly he wanted you to himself. Sounds like a very controlling relationship. Wish you the best PJ.
We are all entitled to our opinion. Stay Blessed!
Caribbean Queen are you fo real ?🤣controlling relationship ??🤣I'm dead
Honestly I first felt like shooting darts in Shy's face direction but No ! we can't do that ! his gesture is more of courage rather than of treachery : cannot blame him for being that bad bitch that just gets what he wants no matter what ! Sometimes the price to pay is drama : you still have to do what you have to do, like a bad Bitch to get what you want, like you drunk and just don't give a fuck about people blocking your way to succes ... the apology will come after as a coping mecanism if necessary. but you can't apologize for getting what belongs to you! Just get what you want in life period ! Sometimes its now or never despite all barriers: the truth will set you free. Shy was perfectly at his place to do what he did because his futur was concerned as well.
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This is more hard when you parents are Christians
It usually is not easy for black men.
We absolutely agree!
I never came out, you wanna know come to your own conclusion.... Period
Completely understand.
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So how do you tell your best friend you like them in that way bruh!
Are you asking how can you tell your best-friend that?
@@TheSSShow Yeah
Shy really should have given you the opportunity to let you reveal this to your family. Your apology need only to be accepted by your partner ❤
Did Sean ever explain why he exposed your secret?
I got it Saun just explained Thx you
Shy it was not your place to have revealed nothing about his family Find you place, Know your place, And stay in your place
One who are you talking to? Second you stay in your place BETCCCCHHHHH!!!!!
@@TheSSShow I am one that will go at you any way you want me to go Horeeeeer, Believe me, That was NOT YOUR BUSINESS (PERIOD)
Guys coming out is not easy to do. But when you're ready to do it you'll know when it's time is for your safety and constable to do it on your time. Some come out early and some come out letter in life. Cuz it is really scary out here.
This video was hard for me to watch because you was outed no one should tell anyone story without your permission
Jamaica. Very deadly place for non-straights. South Africa is about the best place for LGBT+ . Good for your man to apologize to you. Cool your affectionate towards each other. Rarely see it real, non T.V. couples.
Sorry to hear that. We appreciate your support.
You should never out someone....
If all men turn gay, what is left for us heterosexual women? This is getting out of control!!!!!
Coming out stories are like snowflakes