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Lost a friend due to finally stop talking and watching him like this hawk. 20 years. This dude didn’t know anything about me. And I knew all about him.
It's very very true. I've begged people to listen to me so many times before and I just stopped. The truth became clear who appreciated what I had to say and who didn't. And also who could care less while they wanted me to care. It's very powerful advice. I've also been the person talking over people and not truly listening. I've become way mkre educated now that I truly know how to activity listen.
I don’t understand how any person could have anything bad to say about that man he’s trying his best to educate everyone and he’s doing a good job at it
Silence is golden. 沉默是金。 Yes, that's my way. Especially ppl who talk over you or interrupt your conversation. I walk away while they continue talking, close your eyes, talk to someone sitting next to you, or look at your handphone. Ignore them. Save my breath for jogging.
One of my closest friends does this ALL the time. He talks incessantly, won't let me get a word in EVER, then if I press on he says , "I GET IT!!" yet he never lets me talk. He's a lawyer LOL
Please have a conversation with him. Sit him down and tell him you need to talk and that it’s important. He will listen if he’s worth it. Take action and get what you want, please!
@@mattjingles5758 No matter what he’s going through that’s her husband and he’s choosing to not speak to his wife . Idc what the reason is that’s not a mature “husband” thing to do . You can’t just marry someone then be like ✌️ ima go do my own thing tho
I experienced the same thing but from my experience it's either cause you scaled up or scaled down.Meaning you improved and are trying to become someone or your dropping below their so called level.Look at what you have accomplished and see if that's not the reason for them feeling a certain type of way.Its also possible they changed because they feel like they left you behind so do some introspection but in the end don't beat yourself up.They were never really your boys.Just place holders for real friends to come fill that vacancy.For now,spend time with yourself, grow and most importantly show yourself some love.They will remember that they lost a valuable friend in you.
My be there's some guy will choose left and not care anything about that ppl who not listen,,that guy prefer serching ants under stone than know what they Wana tell ,
However there is something else important going unspoken here. Sometimes people aren't listening because you're a bad communicator. If you're boring and can't get to the point, don't be so quick to blame everyone else for not listening. Maybe it's more to do with your talking.
Nearly half of conversation is listening,Im reading body language ,gestures,facial expressions ,then theres speaking,reading,and writing. Maybe you not as interesting yourself ,as you think you are the great communicator. If it had to do with your talking I'd 100% be assertive and loud then come off as a threat , how am I gonna get you to conversate with me if your go into defense mode.
@@JoshuaFletcher-c1u The fact you are going defensive here is a self report. Why does the world automatically have to listen to you? Attention is at a premium. Don't assume you deserve it just for existing. Instead, what have you done to earn it? Furthermore, if you are boring and can't get to the point, you squander any goodwill people have given you by politely listening to begin with. Why should you be allowed to trap them like that?
afd mr jorden i has been respecti fof your skol putt you reading med maine ia. reading and weite all what haping youare islam has been preades i kan wesna jpp med kirs na and muslem muslem afoll in saitan
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At least 1 coffee is on its way...
Keep sharing wisdom. 🤜🤛
Done! Coffee donated. When JP gives advices it's always or a little gift or something to elaborate further, that enriches even when you ends to disagree. So thanks for your work that keeps the best of JP in my day. Greetings by a south European guy that simple ignores all news/gossip/agendas in the North America and enjoy the core of humanity in JP.
Lost a friend due to finally stop talking and watching him like this hawk.
20 years. This dude didn’t know anything about me. And I knew all about him.
What he is saying is such power its beyond explanation .
Its to be lived to see
My mother used to say believe everything you see and half of what you hear
I’ve heard a different variation
“Don’t believe anything you hear and only 1/2 of what you see”
It's very very true. I've begged people to listen to me so many times before and I just stopped. The truth became clear who appreciated what I had to say and who didn't. And also who could care less while they wanted me to care. It's very powerful advice. I've also been the person talking over people and not truly listening. I've become way mkre educated now that I truly know how to activity listen.
Ive held these words from Dr Peterson very close ever since i heard him say this.
Brilliant. Whatever they are paying you isn’t enough.
Absolutely the utmost truth. I start doing this and walked away.
I don’t understand how any person could have anything bad to say about that man he’s trying his best to educate everyone and he’s doing a good job at it
Absolutely 💯 facts so very true
Good advice.
Love it.
This lovely man is so
Intelligent
Thank you fo answering. I personally talking from the heart.still hurts but your not broken. Very clever wise men in your life. Thumbs up
❤😇🙏 may the LORD KING bless you Sir 🥰
They literally after some time outright confess everything
Silence is golden.
沉默是金。
Yes, that's my way. Especially ppl who talk over you or interrupt your conversation.
I walk away while they continue talking, close your eyes, talk to someone sitting next to you, or look at your handphone. Ignore them. Save my breath for jogging.
One of my closest friends does this ALL the time. He talks incessantly, won't let me get a word in EVER, then if I press on he says , "I GET IT!!" yet he never lets me talk. He's a lawyer LOL
Most people's conversation are nothing but either nragging,stupid or gossip incoherently spreading nothing but the untruth.
Like always the power of silence always trumps .
Excellent insight Sir,liked it😊
Amen! 110%
Completely get this
If they don't listen to you, expel them from your personal space and enjoy the invigorating fresh air of militant solitude.
Absolutely.
Don't call don't talk.
Exactly how it happened in my last relationship. She doesn't listen
Ty, this is important advice.
Thank you so much unwavering support and I trust in I believe you thank you God Jesus to love amen Amen🙏❤
He’s right
Facts 💯
My husband hasn't really spoken to me for year's 😞 he does his thing and i do mine.
He’s your roommate babe. I been there. It never ends well .
Please have a conversation with him. Sit him down and tell him you need to talk and that it’s important. He will listen if he’s worth it. Take action and get what you want, please!
@@OhhhoneyyyBecause you know exactly what that man is going through, right? 😂
@@mattjingles5758 No matter what he’s going through that’s her husband and he’s choosing to not speak to his wife . Idc what the reason is that’s not a mature “husband” thing to do . You can’t just marry someone then be like ✌️ ima go do my own thing tho
@@mattjingles5758 what do you call living with someone but you both do your own thing ? 😂 🤔
❤truth
This is damn ture
Am far from. Broken 💔
My boys used to listen, something happened and now, i feel like im talking to a wall.
I experienced the same thing but from my experience it's either cause you scaled up or scaled down.Meaning you improved and are trying to become someone or your dropping below their so called level.Look at what you have accomplished and see if that's not the reason for them feeling a certain type of way.Its also possible they changed because they feel like they left you behind so do some introspection but in the end don't beat yourself up.They were never really your boys.Just place holders for real friends to come fill that vacancy.For now,spend time with yourself, grow and most importantly show yourself some love.They will remember that they lost a valuable friend in you.
@@mosesgaweseb9266 nah, recent drama with neighbours ended up in court. Cost 30k.
❤it
How you make it work with your co-worker tht just put you down if you say something?
based af
Now I never speak 🙊
Don't cast your peals before swine
💯
Its also a pathway to let the world get to the state it is...am i rong? :)
Great now how do I convince my wife she isn’t communicating with me anymore..
Why isn’t she communicating anymore ?
@@Ohhhoneyyy She never told me she was a mime.
Don't try this at home 😅
instructions unclear, now addicted to xanax
I'm on day 25 of not talking to my kids.
Cool Story Bro.
kamala voter spotted
😳
Straight from the bible.
My be there's some guy will choose left and not care anything about that ppl who not listen,,that guy prefer serching ants under stone than know what they Wana tell ,
However there is something else important going unspoken here. Sometimes people aren't listening because you're a bad communicator. If you're boring and can't get to the point, don't be so quick to blame everyone else for not listening. Maybe it's more to do with your talking.
Nearly half of conversation is listening,Im reading body language ,gestures,facial expressions ,then theres speaking,reading,and writing. Maybe you not as interesting yourself ,as you think you are the great communicator. If it had to do with your talking I'd 100% be assertive and loud then come off as a threat , how am I gonna get you to conversate with me if your go into defense mode.
@@JoshuaFletcher-c1u The fact you are going defensive here is a self report. Why does the world automatically have to listen to you? Attention is at a premium. Don't assume you deserve it just for existing. Instead, what have you done to earn it? Furthermore, if you are boring and can't get to the point, you squander any goodwill people have given you by politely listening to begin with. Why should you be allowed to trap them like that?
afd mr jorden i has been respecti fof your skol putt you reading med maine ia. reading and weite all what haping youare islam has been preades i kan wesna jpp med kirs na and muslem muslem afoll in saitan
Whats with all this anti swine propaganda
I mean you could call it anti-human too....since it's an analogy; meaning don't hand over gems to people who devalue/can't receive.
Lol...this person really believes in their expertise. What a charlatan.