5 KPOP Idols Reveal Their Biggest Regrets

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  • @Gemineyestar
    @Gemineyestar ปีที่แล้ว +660

    It should be a MANDATORY rule that all idols get to go home once a month for a week unless they are on tour. I think it would not only help the idols mentally and give them a break, but also help them not have regrets.

    • @LovelyKissess
      @LovelyKissess ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Or at least every weekend

    • @seungbxrry9449
      @seungbxrry9449 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@LovelyKissess they don't have much time as an idol for every weekend. I think they should at least see their family a month every year.

    • @cardibqueenofslurs
      @cardibqueenofslurs ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@LovelyKissess every weekend would be nice but its obviously very unrealistic with how the industry is

    • @LovelyKissess
      @LovelyKissess ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@seungbxrry9449 That's why they SHOULD let them have a break every weekend. It's not hard at all to make time

    • @LovelyKissess
      @LovelyKissess ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@cardibqueenofslurs It really isn't. The only thing unrealistic about it is that the fans will not be okay with it which is the main problem
      Their desperation to see idols all of the time is the reason the industry is the way it is

  • @ByOwlLight
    @ByOwlLight ปีที่แล้ว +355

    Hwasa didn't get time off for when her uncle died, either. He was her one relative in Seoul, and would check in regularly and try to help her and the other members of Mamamoo with all kinds of things when they were trainees. He died very suddenly in an accident, and they were all devastated, but had to keep working. The song Be Calm on the Yellow Flower album is for him, and about her experience trying to process such a loss.

  • @ryujins.smile.
    @ryujins.smile. ปีที่แล้ว +496

    I feel so bad for all these idols, but I feel bad especially for Hwasa. It must be hard to be in her grandmother’s house, whom she was very close with. She’s so strong ❤

    • @justwatchingandcommenting
      @justwatchingandcommenting ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It indeed is. I don't go in the apartment from my father since 2014, even knowing my brother and stepmother still lives there. I just can't.

    • @himaririku9254
      @himaririku9254 ปีที่แล้ว

      G DRAGON KING

  • @leaxl08
    @leaxl08 ปีที่แล้ว +236

    I feel the worst for Ailee! Oh my god to have both of your parents pass away when you're so young is my biggest nightmare. I have a single mother and she's in her late 50s (I'm 22), and every so often I dread her passing away or her psychological condition decaying from old age. It's my greatest fear, I can't imagine what it'd be like to lose both of your parents in such a short timeframe! She's so strong to still be able to work. I don't know how I'd function.

    • @ariagneerincon2830
      @ariagneerincon2830 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same :(

    • @lizkat1733
      @lizkat1733 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ailee... 😢😢😢

    • @CraXxy
      @CraXxy ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Then you have to become strong too! You need to change your mindset. Does fear of losing someone gonna help anyway? You're feeling that negative energy on all your body and brain which will impact negatively in real life and will attract negativity. So, you must start to feel that your mother is so fit and healthy... that you're so happy to spend your time with her... this happiness is making your mother younger and more healthier. Be brave and conquer your fear and enjoy your life. May god bless you and your mother💕

    • @leaxl08
      @leaxl08 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@CraXxy You're so right thank you

    • @himaririku9254
      @himaririku9254 ปีที่แล้ว

      G DRAGON KING

  • @tonedeaf8688
    @tonedeaf8688 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    For some reason I was waiting for ladies code’s story where they celebrated one of the member’s birthday with choco pie cake as they had a shoot that day but they didn’t eat the cake as they were on a diet and then they got in an accident and lost two of their members. The surviving members regret not having that cake.

    • @mtimm9023
      @mtimm9023 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's such a sad story

    • @BELIEVER78989
      @BELIEVER78989 ปีที่แล้ว

      What?!!! Did two of the members die??

    • @tonedeaf8688
      @tonedeaf8688 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@BELIEVER78989 yeah it happened to ladies code , they have disbanded now but they were going really strong ashley choi was the leader and the tragedy hit them recently after their debut like a few years down the line, one of their famous song is pretty pretty, where the two members who passed away in the accident sang. They were on their way back from a music show recording and the manager driving them was careless. Two members RiSe and EunB passed away in the accident.
      Ashley Choi talks about it on the Daebak show with Eric Nam. She talks about the aftermath and the way the surviving trio coped up with the loss and made a come back and continued music for however long they did

  • @amelxa_
    @amelxa_ ปีที่แล้ว +49

    All of these idols work so hard and to get news that a loved one died is just so sad to think about.

  • @adisajakupovic6184
    @adisajakupovic6184 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    RIP Goo Hara, you will always be loved and never forgotten.
    you will always be a part of KARA. I cherish these memories and moments so much. 😭🤍

  • @skytimely
    @skytimely ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Sunmis story broke my heart.. that’s a strong woman

  • @iishilpisinhaii
    @iishilpisinhaii ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Being one of the Kpop fans who started stanning since 2nd gen, 2nd and 3rd gen idols will always have a special place in my heart. My heart aches for them

  • @franzitaduz
    @franzitaduz ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Every performing artist has to face this at some time, not just idols. It’s the nightmare when you follow the dream.

  • @Verinise
    @Verinise ปีที่แล้ว +24

    My grandma was staying in an house near mine. She was sick but I thought not that much. One day my mother ask me to visit my grandma. I procrastinate and always delay the visit. At least I say to me "I will go tomorrow". That night my grandmother died. I can't give her a goodbye or visit her a last time for my laziness. It was ten years ago but I still regretting not visiting or talking to my granny that day...

  • @wHiPpEdFoRJeOnJuNgKoOk
    @wHiPpEdFoRJeOnJuNgKoOk ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Idols are human, they all have real lives and regrets about things, that's normal but the idols careers do come first and with such busy schedules, they miss out on spending quality time with their families so it's understandable they feel regret about that especially when family members pass away and they are not there for them

  • @SanSan0007
    @SanSan0007 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Stories about losing parents breaks my heart the most cuz I know how it feels . It's the most painful feeling u can experience . Everyone should take good care of their parents and spend time and make precious memories with them .

  • @august9900
    @august9900 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The song that Mamamoo had comeback with at the time was Aya. I remembered I was so impressed at Hwasa’s stage presence and how powerful she was during every stage comeback of Aya without knowing what she had to face at the time. She’s so strong god

  • @stephp3455
    @stephp3455 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    When I saw that episode of ILA with Hwasa I balled my eyes out. Knowing how close she was with her grandma and how she wasn’t able to be there with her broke me.

  • @l-a-u-r-a.
    @l-a-u-r-a. ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I can't be the only one who cried watching this

  • @berlourcastillo8974
    @berlourcastillo8974 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    idk why at the end of the video i'm already shedding tears of sadness

  • @zuleymaflores4275
    @zuleymaflores4275 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hearing this it's really heartbreaking

  • @grec.
    @grec. ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So heartbreaking.
    Who knows of the many other idols who haven't share their own stories of grief or sadness or loneliness. I wish the companies paid more attention to their mental health. Although is not only in this industry that the mental health issues of an individual is often overlooked.
    Sending love to all humans having some kind of m.i. 🙏

  • @shahmd6
    @shahmd6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Yea i watched alot of your videos....and i must say this is the saddest, most heart felt show u hv done recently. Im tearing up....

  • @maidatariq4934
    @maidatariq4934 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I felt so bad for all the idols they came so far just to pursue their dreams and not have enough time to spend with their loved ones and its so sad bcz its really difficult to stay away from ur family and i knkw it must be really hard for them its not an easy journey but they all are so strong and they all overcome it and achieve all the things with their parents support so im happy for them

  • @taethinker1240
    @taethinker1240 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Taehyung' u deserve everything 😭😭😭💜 u r so strong 💪 my boy

  • @JiaPia3
    @JiaPia3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    3:30 that’s not a meal. That’s a feast. I feel terrible for these idols having to fake their emotions so the fans wouldn’t worry.😢

  • @Urfavdianad9
    @Urfavdianad9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I feel so bad for Sunmi, imagien ignoring ur father and then he passes away and three months after u have to debut.

  • @imgonnabeastar1362
    @imgonnabeastar1362 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Jeongyeon and her grandmother as well

  • @Rianna243
    @Rianna243 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I feel bad with these Idols 😔

  • @joelreyes4237
    @joelreyes4237 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That is bad for these idols are going through then and still going through now. They were busy while Sunmi was training to be an idol but passed away before she debut was a bad timing but she have brothers to look after

  • @That_Emily
    @That_Emily ปีที่แล้ว +3

    noo! i didnt know Hwasa's grandma passed, their relationship was so cute on I Live Alone

  • @dangie7735
    @dangie7735 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It seems South Korean people have difficulty expressing their true feelings be it with family, friends or enemies. They are too worried about being this perfect representation of a human that doesn't exist. They rip themselves apart more than the antis do.
    The management companies they are signed to as well have no concept of work-life balance. Sure they are there to make music, etc...but they have families and if family is the most important thing to people and what these companies say, then it is not reflected in their value system. Ignoring what's important will leave you heartbroken and filled with regret, that you can't do anything about when the moment has passed.
    They need to train them to say what they want when it needs to be said and not have fear of reprisal.

  • @junkratsdaughter
    @junkratsdaughter ปีที่แล้ว +2

    seunghyun is so sweet

  • @airellecarol5043
    @airellecarol5043 ปีที่แล้ว

    All those lost souls.. may your next life be full of love and light.

  • @Rin-vj4wg
    @Rin-vj4wg ปีที่แล้ว +2

    These story’s or idols being separated from their family’s are far to common I remember when sowon the leader of gfriend lost her father and she was only able to to take a very short amount of time off to grieve before going back to activities

  • @andinkify
    @andinkify ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I didn't know Ailee had lost both parents, and she's so young TT-TT

  • @kww10
    @kww10 ปีที่แล้ว

    2nd gen bg and gg had this bond w each other, and KARA was close w Bigbang just like SNSD. There were many episodes/stories such as Taeyang's "dating" rumor, Daesung's love story in Family outing, etc. Hara was also close w GD too. What makes me sadder eas realizing that Bigbang was also friends w Shinee, Daesung and Onew in particular. Idk, stories around Gen 2 idols hits hard bc it seems like each idol wasntruly friends and close.

  • @munmunchangmai6213
    @munmunchangmai6213 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have also lost someone and I regret for not being able to reply or talk to them at their worst time and last time

  • @geman741
    @geman741 ปีที่แล้ว

    i'm lucky I didn't lose anyone during Covid but regardless if I was going to or not, I would still visit them. Why should I listen to the government when they dont care about me or my family?

  • @beautifulstranger6974
    @beautifulstranger6974 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sulli's mg to her Unnie Luna..
    Unnie, I miss you..
    Luna couldn't reply it. Luna still regrets about it.

  • @alaaanbear8606
    @alaaanbear8606 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i see Ailee so i click then my heart broke

  • @jameskylebarretto6687
    @jameskylebarretto6687 ปีที่แล้ว

    Taehyung, I wish you did not come to our country during that time. We will understand, we would have been happier seeing you smile with her even one last time. She was aand still is a great grandma.

  • @Lupita26
    @Lupita26 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can you do a video showing about the haters of kpop and how they take it to far as engene2/Sunghoon Hater 2 on TH-cam because they take it too far and I want everybody to know about how horrible this is

  • @yunadayuliantari8027
    @yunadayuliantari8027 ปีที่แล้ว

    Now i feel like job as an idol is not normal job. I mean, if you have normal job when your relative passed or some accident happened you can have excused to off work. But as an idol that famous you cant do that. Even durung period idol cant show their pain expression.

  • @uschwitz
    @uschwitz ปีที่แล้ว

    It must be HORRIBLE to have your ethnic group racially displaced by other ethnic groups. I couldn't imagine the pain those people must be feeling.

  • @flaxsikare_forblink
    @flaxsikare_forblink ปีที่แล้ว

    Chuu ex loona 😭😭
    Posted pics for maps magazine for her February issue

  • @SabribriYT
    @SabribriYT ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro I heard that jeon woosuk slapped jyp

  • @-JA-
    @-JA- ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🫢👍

  • @That_Emily
    @That_Emily ปีที่แล้ว +1

    im confused about the Sunmi story. Didnt her dad show up on that running show she did with Hani, Chungha, Yooa & Chu?

    • @Antotonce
      @Antotonce ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Stepfather

    • @That_Emily
      @That_Emily ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Antotonce ooooo I think that was missed in the subs I had then

  • @j.a9558
    @j.a9558 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Nah hwasa situation makes me angry asf

  • @chaejennie7764
    @chaejennie7764 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    early

  • @Corrinet
    @Corrinet ปีที่แล้ว +3

    First plspin

  • @parkpark6976
    @parkpark6976 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Usually this channel does news about kpop, but when BP was chosen as Headline Coachella, you didn't mention, are you embarrassed to admit success?
    Because before that VDO you just said they had a problem.