Love what u wrote. So true. U have to keep your children memories alive as well as still be the best darn mother u can be if u hsve step children. Their is children everywhere and in your family cause life goes on and the little ones look up to the adults. I know it would be a struggle I couldn't imagine. I would just die and hope I would have support like she did in this show. I know in real life we don't know cause of the documentary they shown on him it shown he had it rough but loosing a parent or a child I think is the hardest. Lost my dad a couple years ago he was 58 and my mom is not in great health. Just heartbreaking and it's part of your soul that disappears that u feel gone.
I get that so much more now than ever since my boyfriend passed away very suddenly and unexpectedly back in February. I never got to give one last kiss because I was sick the last time I saw him, but my last words to him were "I love you". I still wish it was just a bad dream and one day I'll wake up and he'll still be here
This is the scene that really made me feel for Cory's parents. Finn's just a Character, Cory's mum really got this bad news and has to go on without him
SkylarRose Mann yes that has been said now but it makes no difference who found out first that’s not the point. The point is Cory’s mom unfortunately had to get the most heartbreaking news a parent can get
She found out through lea. Lea called her screaming and sobbing asking if it was true and his mom had no clue. The whole situation is so horrible :( rip💕
the most heartbreaking about this, its that they dont scream and bawl their faces out, theyre physically having a casual conversation, but their emotions convey this whole scene that makes me bawl.
In my opinion, this is the best scene in the entire glee series. The writing and acting is so rich, pure, and real. I remember crying so much when I saw it for the first time and even today I still get chocked up.
You can see where carol goes off script shes says i always thought when i uh...... Then she launches into a very heartfelt and tear monlouge that i dont think was scripted at all
keri keeney it was not acting most of it is on the spot and it was real ,they went of script on almost all all of the scenes in that episode it was genuine there saying goodbye to the real fin and the shows version of him.😭
The actress CRUSHED this. This is the part of this episode that is guaranteed to make me cry every time. It's right up there emotion-wise with Anya's scene in The Body from BTVS.
@@lemonade507 yeah, but she was right to assume it was him, he wanted it and tried to pay kurt to keep it. I really hated that shue took it, Kurt or Santana should've
I understand that there are many who think that Mr. Shue is a bad teacher, but beyond his mistakes, he and Finn had a special bond. Finn was like a son for Will. They always supported each other. And Finn's death really affected Will because Finn was destined to continue his legacy by running the glee club and yet he had to hold all of it for others and be strong. He took the jacket and it was wrong. But I honestly think Finn would have understood and Kurt too.
I'm glad they only did one take each scene I don't think the actors could have gotten through it with multiple takes. And it makes me happy to hear that. Thank you for posting this comment
Because obviously they didn't submit anything from this episode for Emmy nominations. It would've been extremely disrespectful to use a real person's death to win an Emmy. People would've hated them. So while this is definitely an Emmy deserving episode, if they don't submit a nomination obviously they can't win.
@@SKsaturn agreed. She did a marvelous job (and it was most likely not just acting either), but it would've been super messed up to use the actual death of Cory to get a nomination
Not just that he held it or wore it; he pressed his nose into it, because he missed the *smell* of Finn. Our sense of smell is the one most strongly connected with memory and everyone's smell is slightly different. A simple scent can literally bring someone to life again for us. I don't think it was an acting choice but an instinct on Chris Colfer's part because he missed Cory.
Burt’s feelings about the lamp situation are so real. Because even though we all know Burt was right to make his point, when someone dies every memory where you were hard on them or fought with them feels so much worse.
Same. Even though him, and Finn were the same age, Kurt looked up to Finn so much, and Finn stood up for him. I understand the Superman reference, and it made my heart broke.
@@juanitamorgan5475 That jacket belonged to either Rachel, Kurt, or his parents. I know all of them loved the jacket because it reminded them of him. It was one thing they could have of his.
This was the scene that got me. The line “you have to keep on being a parent even though you don’t have a child anymore.” That was a knife to the heart.
I know that Romy had actually contacted Cory's mom to get her feelings and to display what she was feeling that time and display it on screen which is why this scene hurt so much cause it was basically Cory's mom coming out of Carol and thats what hurt so much. This scene always manages to make me cry like a baby
Our son passed almost a year now. I cried watching this losing a child is THE hardest thing you dont recover from. My heart is so heavy seeing this scene pop in my feed. God bless Cory and the actors
It hurts to watch because it's so raw and real. By the time Lea comes on, I'm already a mess. The episode is even harder to watch after Naya drowned saving her son. I can't. This show hurts too much man.
@@brokenstar6395 and they're just the faces. Did you look into the producer guy or Becca Tobin's ex? Like the people involved with this show have gone out tragically. Glee by definition is about opening yourself up to joy. And joy is one of the last things I am feeling now. So sad.
i asked myself this question when i lost my mom. why am i still breathing, why do i wake up everyday, when life seems like it's a joke without her. everyone got hit by the last line Carol said, but this one hit me the most. i convince myself to keep on living because thank God.. i am her daughter. If i live long enough, i will see her looking back at me the older i got, each time i see the mirror.
@@Stan__1018 you'll find your answer to that, everyone's different. I for one really hope to get a mother-in-law, not for replacement, but to atone for that mistake. To be able to give the comfort my mother deserved to someone who'll also be, my mother.
Feel the Same way, but kind of brings u back to humanity in a way. We forget to love fully sometimes... Lost my baby sister 3 years ago. N u kinda forget... Not the loss,... That's always with u. But remembering to fully love those that are still there while u can.
@@charmianjames8078 i lost my baby brother almost 17 years ago... its still hard for me... i was and he was only 3 months old. her talking from a parents perspective is different but the same to a siblings perspective just not the parenting part. you wake up and you forget, then it hits you, you no longer have one person in your life that should be there.
@@charmianjames8078 I am so sorry for your loss she’s up there in heaven watching over you and your family I lost my mother at the age of 14 and it killed me I know how much it hurts
@@alanahill13 I am so sorry for your loss losing someone you love never gets easier no matter how much time passes it never gets easier but as cliche as it might sound he’s watching over you
It's never easy to live on after losing a child.. Your heart breaks, and every kid you see reminds you of your child. You wake up in the midle of the night thinking your baby is crying, but then you remember it all over again. It's a pain you can't move on from.. :-(
Michelle Olsen, you're right. What Carol said ripped my heart outta my chest cuz it happened to me. I had a miscarriage in 2000 and that makes me a mother with no child to show for it! But you keep waking up and keep going on. Nothing can totally take the pain but you learn to adapt to it.
This is very true. And the phantom kicks, I remember having those. Waking and feeling her kicking me, remembering that shes no longer safe inside of me. My daughter was three hours old when she died, she would be nine in a few weeks. Not sure why I am inflicting myself with this torment of watching this video =( thinking of you all x
I love and hate this this is every parents nightmare carols reaction broke my heart it's like she was his actual mother and I love how you can tell how much Finn was loved
Romy Rosemont was the best supporting actress Glee ever had. Her work is seriously underrated. I mean, of course this is probably her best (acting-wise) moment, but she had many great moments in ALL seasons!
Auslly Love 1000 I recover each time, but when "Will" broke down... I just couldnt. I already cried when Chris/Kurt broke down... But when he broke down after taking the jacket-- ahh
Today there was a school shooting in Florida and a lot of kids lost their lives. This video broke my heart. Can’t imagine how families are feeling right now..
Diana Le imagining that this is their parents right now. Cleaning out their rooms and saying what they shouldve done more to their child before they’ve gone. It’s just so heartbreaking to think that this is their lives now.
Lots of prayers going out to those family's and it really makes us feel how lucky we are to just wake up everyday and be able to be with everyday be you love. LIFE IS truly a blessing. ❤️
I am not sure why folks need to tell their own story in relation to a tv show but ,and I don’t mean to be cruel but a miscarriage is the loss of the potential of a life what your life might be with it it is not the same as losing a grown child. That leaves a hole in your life like a volcanic crater. A stillborn child would be horrible but I have miscarried it was not the same as it would be as the loss of my 20 year old. From that I would never recover even a semblance of life.
+So Unsure everyone has different experiences and should feel free to share them. maybe this left a giant hole in her life too, you don’t know. no need to be an absolute dick.
emily f I did not mean be a dick really Think that minimizing miscarriage pain is mean but also blowing it up to the loss of a child whom was everything for so long( they were alone for 17 years Finn & carol) is not healthy but your right I could of said nothing. But if at-your adult child’s funeral someone said they understand what You are going through because they had a miscarriage
So Unsure I know you weren't being insensitive and that's why in general I think it's best not co compare grief. Who cares who has it harder? Someone who's child died at 20, a parent who lost their child at 3 could say at least you got to know for that long. Someone who has a miscarriage can say at least you go to hold your baby. It is different losing a child at any stage. Even a mom/dad at 80 losing her 60 year old daughter or son. I'm sorry to anyone on this post who has lost someone regardless of age or who they were in relation to you. Your grief and love for that person are both important and justified.
" You have to keep on being a parent even though you don't get to have a child anymore..." this broke me, in a morbid way i think this will happen to me in the future
Carol’s acting in this scene was one of the greatest scenes throughout the entire show. This episode has some of the greatest acting in Glee history.... RIP Cory Moneith Edit: My love goes out to Naya Rivera’s family..... RIP legends....
Carols acting in this brought me to tears even though she wasn't his real life mom she had to live thro the turmoil of actually being called from either his parent's/agent or from lea Michele herself and to relieve all the moments from that moment and to put it in this one scene and she did have to be Cory's on screen mom
The “should’ve hugged him more” part kills me because it’s so real It’s so painful because it happens to everyone when they lose a loved one. You never know how much you’re missing.
“I always thought how do parents go on when they go on when they lose a child; how do they wake up every morning but you do wake up and for a second you forget and when you remember it’s like getting the phone call over and over and over again, you don’t get to stop waking up you have to keep being a parent even tho you don’t have a child” made me cry
"You have to keep on being a parent even though you don't get to have a child anymore" that sentence ALWAYS makes me cry. Lea Michelle song for him makes me cry to, but this scene makes me sob.
Some of the best acting in all of Glee. Yes, the emotions were definitely very real but the talent of these actors and actresses to channel those emotions through their characters so well is like nothing else I've seen on television.
VeracityLH Me too and it’s Carol’s reaction the most, the actress should have been nominated for an Emmy for this, her heartbreak just broke through the screen
Well this just exploded like a water bomb on my screen. I'm literally wiping the splash residue off my desk...but it just keeps falling. It won't stop...!!!!!!!!
It's obvious everyone's emotions in this scene was genuine. It's the realest thing ever. This was one of the most hardest things I had to watch in a tv series
My sister was murdered almost a month ago. She was a big big fan of this show. We recently went through her stuff and my mom cried for her the way Carol did for Finn. I cried for my sister the way Will did w Finns jacket. Just like Kurt said there’s no time table the same can be said about grieving
I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. It's upsetting and angering that people have to lose people to selfish creatures. I hope the person who did it is rotting in jail, and that you can heal from this. 💕❤️
You know when you feel sad or down and want to accomodate that feeling with sad music or feel like you really need to cry to clear your head and look up sad songs to trigger that? This is my go to. Even not actually seeing it but just thinking of the quotes "how do they wake up everyday? how do they breathe? but you do wake up..." and "you have to keep on being a parent even though you don't get to have a child anymore". Gets me every fucking single time. I've seen this scene so many times but I cry every single time.
The one thing that really hit me was something I heard one of the writers say cuz it showed the love they all had for Corey (Finn). The writer said that the script was loosely written and if the cast strayed from that script, he wasn't going to stop them. None of the emotions were faked and you could see the hurt, pain, and loss on their faces. When Rachel sang to make you feel my love, I cried. When Mercedes sang I'll stand by you, I heard and felt her pain. But Carol said something that broke my to my core. She said, "You go on being a mother even though you don't have a child anymore!" This made me weep cuz it brings back memories of my miscarriage. I was a mother for about 2 months and the loss of my child crushed me cuz it's true. I'm still a mother even though I don't have a child anymore. It's been years since this episode aired and yet it still breaks me everytime!
I love this scene so much all the acting is amazing and I love the small bit of Burt looking at the Finn and Rachel picture just thinking of Finn still having that picture up even if they weren’t properly together at that point .......👼🏼
I'd like to say that was some superb acting, but it all seems so real. When I heard of Cory's death I cried for days and I didn't even know the man. What a terrible loss for his family, for Glee, for the world. There was just something about Cory Monteith. He was not only born to play the role of Finn Hudson, but he was just one of those good hearted people. I may not have known him, or even met him, but you just needed to watch one interview with him and you could feel his authenticity. I still miss him to this day.
This scene is so accurately portrayed especially carols part. It’s like someone took the words from my mouth and put them on screen. This is how it feels. Everyday.
Everytime I rewatch this clip I cry. I am not a parent but I can feel the emotion of the actress. When you lose a partner you are called a widow or a widower. There is no word for a parent who lost a child because it is the saddest thing, and to terrible to think about.
I was to young to see Glee from the very beginning when it first aired, but watching it when I could, coming to this episode, always breaks my heart. He will surely be missed! ❣️
I had a stillbirth in May of last year and I was ALWAYS a huge Glee fan and I vividly remember sitting at a restaurant just days after I lost my daughter and the only thing I could think of was Carol’s speech and it still gives me some bit of strength remembering and watching this clip.
You know.. It sucks to think that, yes, Finn died in the show. Then you go on to realize this isn't acting. This wasn't planned. This wasn't a script that was just another episode. Cory died in real life. And you can only hope it was just his character. You can only hope...
This tears at every string of humanness in my body. This scene was so emotionally overwhelming for me. Carole touched every bit of firmness and stability I had in me, no mother takes it easier than this....this is real pain showcased in a show for us to even get an ounce of what it looks and feels like....but...It's Real...pain is real and it demands to be felt
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"you have to keep being a parent even though you don't have a child anymore" now this is where i officially lost it
Yes, it makes me sob every time I watch it.
Love what u wrote. So true. U have to keep your children memories alive as well as still be the best darn mother u can be if u hsve step children. Their is children everywhere and in your family cause life goes on and the little ones look up to the adults. I know it would be a struggle I couldn't imagine. I would just die and hope I would have support like she did in this show. I know in real life we don't know cause of the documentary they shown on him it shown he had it rough but loosing a parent or a child I think is the hardest. Lost my dad a couple years ago he was 58 and my mom is not in great health. Just heartbreaking and it's part of your soul that disappears that u feel gone.
Same
ME TOO!!😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Same
"Should've hugged him more?" How many times we missed precious moments like hugging your beloved ones?
Yeah like my papa
yeah we hesitate to do it because its "gay"
I get that so much more now than ever since my boyfriend passed away very suddenly and unexpectedly back in February. I never got to give one last kiss because I was sick the last time I saw him, but my last words to him were "I love you". I still wish it was just a bad dream and one day I'll wake up and he'll still be here
Janie Roncali 💔 you're so strong.
I should have hugged my father more
The woman that plays Carol....her grief was so palpable, that it made my heart literally hurt for her...
libra42ful I’m a Libra too 😎
Deadinspanish ** stop. not cool.
She was such an underrated actor in Glee - every time she had an emotional scene I felt it. She’s brilliant - and this cut deep
It was real, she said In an interview that Finn was special to her ♥️♥️
@@Elier272 So am I! 😉
This is the scene that really made me feel for Cory's parents. Finn's just a Character, Cory's mum really got this bad news and has to go on without him
nhlover his parents were not there for him when he first got hooked. Carole was more his mom on the show then the one he really had
Really? I heard an interview that her mom, for a couple of months couldn't look at his pictures beacuse she was too sad
nhlover lea found out first, then she called and later the cops came to her door
SkylarRose Mann yes that has been said now but it makes no difference who found out first that’s not the point. The point is Cory’s mom unfortunately had to get the most heartbreaking news a parent can get
She found out through lea. Lea called her screaming and sobbing asking if it was true and his mom had no clue. The whole situation is so horrible :( rip💕
"you have to keep on being a parent even though you don't get to have a child anymore" I bawled here
Kelly Lamas ... That's what gets me every time
Kelly Lamas me too
Kelly Lamas I still bawl like a baby at that part😭😭😭
Well I mean....technically she doesn't...but what about Kurt....yeah he's her stepson but hes still her child in a way
me 2😭💔
"Seeing him coming through the hallway wearing this...it was like Superman had arrived."
Emily Martinez this was exactly when I started crying
Jocelyn Defex same
that line made me start crying
Emily Martinez Because he was superman..... Now his an Angel watching the ppl he love and protecting them everywhere they go.
That is when I truly broke
the most heartbreaking about this, its that they dont scream and bawl their faces out, theyre physically having a casual conversation, but their emotions convey this whole scene that makes me bawl.
reubs I think that's what makes it so powerful ❤️ I'm drowning in my own tears every time I watch this 😰😰😰
Carol’s short monologue here is one of the absolutely most devastating and heartbreaking on the subject of losing a child that has ever been written.
It's honestly the best acting I've ever seen. This is truly the face of a grieving mother it's heartbreaking
You know, it's really depressing to think that none of the actors had to act for this episode💔
Manasa Valluru Ya😥
Manasa Valluru Kurt (Chris) Wasn't acting he was really crying 😢😭
Klaine lover 😞
Manasa Valluru I'm gonna go cry now....Finn was one of my favs😥
I know its so sad...
In my opinion, this is the best scene in the entire glee series. The writing and acting is so rich, pure, and real. I remember crying so much when I saw it for the first time and even today I still get chocked up.
Jeff Sanders throughout the entire episode only a few scenes were scripted, the rest, like this scene, was improvised.
Its so pure and raw because its their true feelings and not acting and scripted ones. Thats why its so heartbreaking 😭😭
Same every one say rachel and santana where the best parts of this episode and im like did you not here the emotion in carols voice and the love
You can see where carol goes off script shes says i always thought when i uh...... Then she launches into a very heartfelt and tear monlouge that i dont think was scripted at all
Jeff Sanders it was real
Carol's acting in this always make me cry. it's just so real.
keri keeney it was not acting most of it is on the spot and it was real ,they went of script on almost all all of the scenes in that episode it was genuine there saying goodbye to the real fin and the shows version of him.😭
keri keeney I don't think anyone was acting in this episode
keri keeney It is real Corey is dead they werent actibg this actor died
Jose Olegs he did actually die
He hasn't acting dude,anybody acting
The actress CRUSHED this. This is the part of this episode that is guaranteed to make me cry every time. It's right up there emotion-wise with Anya's scene in The Body from BTVS.
And Willow 😭
Michaela Iery this wasn’t acting...the tears the pain it was and is all real.
The actor they're morning about is really gone, no acting was needed in these scenes 💔 r.i.p Cory Monteith / Finn Hudson
@@jennajohnson1237 strong like an amazon
It wasn’t acting
kurt deserved to keep that jacket. finn was like his big brother. i hated that schue took it
@@lemonade507 yeah, but she was right to assume it was him, he wanted it and tried to pay kurt to keep it. I really hated that shue took it, Kurt or Santana should've
Yeah Schue is a perv
Finn thought of schue as a father figure, and he was there for Finn when he needed him
In the end Schuster needed that jacket to grieve
I understand that there are many who think that Mr. Shue is a bad teacher, but beyond his mistakes, he and Finn had a special bond. Finn was like a son for Will. They always supported each other. And Finn's death really affected Will because Finn was destined to continue his legacy by running the glee club and yet he had to hold all of it for others and be strong. He took the jacket and it was wrong. But I honestly think Finn would have understood and Kurt too.
And this is why the entire episode was done in 1 take, per scene. It totally ripped my heart out. Carol made me lose it completely. RIP Cory.
jackie pai you can tell where she goes off script her face changes she stops thinks then lainches into a monologue
I'm glad they only did one take each scene I don't think the actors could have gotten through it with multiple takes. And it makes me happy to hear that. Thank you for posting this comment
I've watched MANY scenes from Glee... MANY scenes from this episode... and yet, THIS is the one that makes me lose it.
Becky Lawson same
Becky Lawson I agree. that scene was imo the most gut wrenching to me.
Becky Lawson Same and also the scène after kurt sung rose's turn
hfhfhf hfhfhf ikr Those 2 scenes make me want to cry
Becky Lawson this and when Lea said "he was my person:
I don't know how she's not get nominated for a Emmy for this episode.
Jesús Ángel Rondón agree with you 100%. Think there's something seriously wrong with the selection process for Emmy nominations.
Dalphon Hamilton award shows are just rigged at this point
Because obviously they didn't submit anything from this episode for Emmy nominations. It would've been extremely disrespectful to use a real person's death to win an Emmy. People would've hated them. So while this is definitely an Emmy deserving episode, if they don't submit a nomination obviously they can't win.
@@SKsaturn agreed. She did a marvelous job (and it was most likely not just acting either), but it would've been super messed up to use the actual death of Cory to get a nomination
I think most of this lines and their tears are real. In the end, they are mourning a coworker of 5 years and for some, a true friend.
When Kurt held the letterman jacket I lost my mind 😭
Kylie Nabb same
Me as well. The way Kurt said, "his arms were long" makes me feel sad....
Kylie Nabb I cried at that time
Not just that he held it or wore it; he pressed his nose into it, because he missed the *smell* of Finn. Our sense of smell is the one most strongly connected with memory and everyone's smell is slightly different. A simple scent can literally bring someone to life again for us. I don't think it was an acting choice but an instinct on Chris Colfer's part because he missed Cory.
Hate that Schue stole it so he could sniff it.
Burt’s feelings about the lamp situation are so real. Because even though we all know Burt was right to make his point, when someone dies every memory where you were hard on them or fought with them feels so much worse.
“How do they wake up everyday, how do they breathe” breaks my heart every single time
...crying Rn
I lost it at Kurt saying “It was like Superman had arrived”
Same. Even though him, and Finn were the same age, Kurt looked up to Finn so much, and Finn stood up for him. I understand the Superman reference, and it made my heart broke.
when kurt grabbed Finns football jacket and said " don't donate that.. I want it " I started crying ..
Then everybody starts fighting over to Jackie's when they see Kurt with it Mr Schuster steals the jacket and then blames it on puck
@@juanitamorgan5475 That jacket belonged to either Rachel, Kurt, or his parents. I know all of them loved the jacket because it reminded them of him. It was one thing they could have of his.
This was the scene that got me. The line “you have to keep on being a parent even though you don’t have a child anymore.” That was a knife to the heart.
I know that Romy had actually contacted Cory's mom to get her feelings and to display what she was feeling that time and display it on screen which is why this scene hurt so much cause it was basically Cory's mom coming out of Carol and thats what hurt so much. This scene always manages to make me cry like a baby
Our son passed almost a year now. I cried watching this losing a child is THE hardest thing you dont recover from. My heart is so heavy seeing this scene pop in my feed. God bless Cory and the actors
I'm so sorry for your loss💔💔
Rip💜💔
What's really sad about this entire episode is that all of the emotions it's all real Finn is gone / Cory
So sorry for your loss ❤️
the whole episode is all real tears
Of course, this isn't just an episode, it's a TRIBUTE for Cory!!😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
AnimeFan90 calm down
It hurts to watch because it's so raw and real. By the time Lea comes on, I'm already a mess.
The episode is even harder to watch after Naya drowned saving her son. I can't. This show hurts too much man.
planet devo i swear, this year is cursed..... we’ve lost Cory, Mark, and now Naya...
@@brokenstar6395 and they're just the faces. Did you look into the producer guy or Becca Tobin's ex? Like the people involved with this show have gone out tragically. Glee by definition is about opening yourself up to joy. And joy is one of the last things I am feeling now. So sad.
how do they wake up everyday. how do they breathe. ong
@Malice Catastrophe stfu
Yo, I know they said it generalizing everyone who had lost a child, but they were specifically referring to Cory's actual parents.
i asked myself this question when i lost my mom. why am i still breathing, why do i wake up everyday, when life seems like it's a joke without her. everyone got hit by the last line Carol said, but this one hit me the most. i convince myself to keep on living because thank God.. i am her daughter. If i live long enough, i will see her looking back at me the older i got, each time i see the mirror.
@@ichieyamato I lost my mother too, and I blame myself everyday for not enjoying all my times with her, and it's killing me
@@Stan__1018 you'll find your answer to that, everyone's different. I for one really hope to get a mother-in-law, not for replacement, but to atone for that mistake. To be able to give the comfort my mother deserved to someone who'll also be, my mother.
Watching this video is self inflicted abuse.
Feel the Same way, but kind of brings u back to humanity in a way. We forget to love fully sometimes...
Lost my baby sister 3 years ago. N u kinda forget... Not the loss,... That's always with u. But remembering to fully love those that are still there while u can.
@@charmianjames8078 i lost my baby brother almost 17 years ago... its still hard for me... i was and he was only 3 months old. her talking from a parents perspective is different but the same to a siblings perspective just not the parenting part. you wake up and you forget, then it hits you, you no longer have one person in your life that should be there.
@@charmianjames8078 I am so sorry for your loss she’s up there in heaven watching over you and your family I lost my mother at the age of 14 and it killed me I know how much it hurts
@@alanahill13 I am so sorry for your loss losing someone you love never gets easier no matter how much time passes it never gets easier but as cliche as it might sound he’s watching over you
I'm so sorry for your lost.
It's never easy to live on after losing a child.. Your heart breaks, and every kid you see reminds you of your child. You wake up in the midle of the night thinking your baby is crying, but then you remember it all over again. It's a pain you can't move on from.. :-(
Michelle Olsen, you're right. What Carol said ripped my heart outta my chest cuz it happened to me. I had a miscarriage in 2000 and that makes me a mother with no child to show for it! But you keep waking up and keep going on. Nothing can totally take the pain but you learn to adapt to it.
This is very true. And the phantom kicks, I remember having those. Waking and feeling her kicking me, remembering that shes no longer safe inside of me. My daughter was three hours old when she died, she would be nine in a few weeks. Not sure why I am inflicting myself with this torment of watching this video =(
thinking of you all x
I'm crying my eyes out😭
Same here
AndreaGomezGuerra me too I couldn’t stop
Who isnt
Same
Think of how good glee would've ended of Cory was alive to finish it. Finn and Rachel would've gotten married.
I love and hate this this is every parents nightmare carols reaction broke my heart it's like she was his actual mother and I love how you can tell how much Finn was loved
ZaraBlovemusic 21 how much Corey was loved. Not Finn
Cory Monteith will always be loved
This still brings me to tears and its even worse because the death was real..
Nominique And all the breakdowns..
"You have to keep on being a parent even if you don't have a child anymore." That line just hits me hard
'I should have hugged him more' that's the moment I broke down in tears
It was the most emotional scence of the glee. Nobody pretended feelings. This episode was a great honor to Cory.
I didn't cry. My eyes were just sweating. And it hurt. So. Much.
Romy Rosemont was the best supporting actress Glee ever had. Her work is seriously underrated. I mean, of course this is probably her best (acting-wise) moment, but she had many great moments in ALL seasons!
after all this time, i cry agaiinnnnn!!! can't hold the tears when Carole start talking
It sucks to think these actors didn't have to fake crying
Every time I watch this episode I can only make to this part then I start crying and I can't stop till end credits
Auslly Love 1000 same
Auslly Love 1000 I recover each time, but when "Will" broke down... I just couldnt. I already cried when Chris/Kurt broke down... But when he broke down after taking the jacket-- ahh
"I should have given him more hugs." Every time I watch this scene, I find MORE reasons to cry. This line is the latest one.
I cry every time when Carol talks in this scene. I can feel people’s emotions and I definitely feel hers even though I’m not a parent.
Today there was a school shooting in Florida and a lot of kids lost their lives. This video broke my heart. Can’t imagine how families are feeling right now..
Diana Le imagining that this is their parents right now. Cleaning out their rooms and saying what they shouldve done more to their child before they’ve gone. It’s just so heartbreaking to think that this is their lives now.
Lots of prayers going out to those family's and it really makes us feel how lucky we are to just wake up everyday and be able to be with everyday be you love. LIFE IS truly a blessing. ❤️
It's been 3 years and I'm still blubbering like a baby😭
Chloe Mangan You are not alone
Chloe Mangan It’s been 6 years..and I’m crying like a baby😭😭😭😭
@@arianakelley6629 Same
I had a miscarriage a year before this happened and every time I hear her talk I break down.
Mayra Jaramillo man I'm so sorry for your loss. I cannot even imagine how hard going through something like that is.
I am not sure why folks need to tell their own story in relation to a tv show but ,and I don’t mean to be cruel but a miscarriage is the loss of the potential of a life what your life might be with it it is not the same as losing a grown child. That leaves a hole in your life like a volcanic crater.
A stillborn child would be horrible but I have miscarried it was not the same as it would be as the loss of my 20 year old. From that I would never recover even a semblance of life.
+So Unsure everyone has different experiences and should feel free to share them. maybe this left a giant hole in her life too, you don’t know. no need to be an absolute dick.
emily f I did not mean be a dick really Think that minimizing miscarriage pain is mean but also blowing it up to the loss of a child whom was everything for so long( they were alone for 17 years Finn & carol) is not healthy but your right I could of said nothing.
But if at-your adult child’s funeral someone said they understand what You are going through because they had a miscarriage
So Unsure I know you weren't being insensitive and that's why in general I think it's best not co compare grief. Who cares who has it harder?
Someone who's child died at 20, a parent who lost their child at 3 could say at least you got to know for that long. Someone who has a miscarriage can say at least you go to hold your baby.
It is different losing a child at any stage. Even a mom/dad at 80 losing her 60 year old daughter or son.
I'm sorry to anyone on this post who has lost someone regardless of age or who they were in relation to you. Your grief and love for that person are both important and justified.
"How do parents wake up every day? How do they breath?" That really got me. I can't imagine how hard it is to lose your child.
When Carol hugged Kurt, she also hugged Finn's jacket... As if she could still hug her son
" You have to keep on being a parent even though you don't get to have a child anymore..." this broke me, in a morbid way i think this will happen to me in the future
This woman should get an award for this scene. It's so raw, true, emotional and sincere. I cry every damn time i watch it.
This and the Santana scene gets me EVERYTIME I cry EVERYTIME hands down.
Lia Meadows and Puck's one too. And so Mr. Schue
Carol’s acting in this scene was one of the greatest scenes throughout the entire show. This episode has some of the greatest acting in Glee history.... RIP Cory Moneith
Edit: My love goes out to Naya Rivera’s family..... RIP legends....
I MISS HIM♥
Me too.
Me too
we all do
Miss him ❤❤
same here 💔
This is the saddest scene in tv history. “How do they breathe hunny?” Has me in tears.
Carols acting in this brought me to tears even though she wasn't his real life mom she had to live thro the turmoil of actually being called from either his parent's/agent or from lea Michele herself and to relieve all the moments from that moment and to put it in this one scene and she did have to be Cory's on screen mom
I cry. EVERY. SINGLE. TIME
so moving
The “should’ve hugged him more” part kills me because it’s so real
It’s so painful because it happens to everyone when they lose a loved one. You never know how much you’re missing.
“I always thought how do parents go on when they go on when they lose a child; how do they wake up every morning but you do wake up and for a second you forget and when you remember it’s like getting the phone call over and over and over again, you don’t get to stop waking up you have to keep being a parent even tho you don’t have a child” made me cry
"You have to keep on being a parent even though you don't get to have a child anymore" that sentence ALWAYS makes me cry. Lea Michelle song for him makes me cry to, but this scene makes me sob.
Some of the best acting in all of Glee. Yes, the emotions were definitely very real but the talent of these actors and actresses to channel those emotions through their characters so well is like nothing else I've seen on television.
RIP Finn/Cory 😩😢😭
Super EVA I know that sad Kurt have brother Finn I believe them what happened to Finn die and Finn is my best brother very had
Super EVA Three years without him now... We all miss him. I hate it when we lose great people.
elsa1942 Finn is my brother to me and I love him
+sweet puppy McDonald 1993 same kurt is also my brother
Rest in peace finn / Cory
I have no idea how anyone can think Rachel singing is more heartbreaking than this... this hurts my chest to watch.
Why do I torture myself?
I have watched a lot of tv in my50 years, and this is the most powerful scene of grief, ever. Hands down. Brings me to years every single time.
VeracityLH Me too and it’s Carol’s reaction the most, the actress should have been nominated for an Emmy for this, her heartbreak just broke through the screen
No matter how many times I watched this episode, it's always impossible to hold the the tears come down from my eyes.
"You have to keep on being a parent even so you get to have a chil anymore" OMG everytime I cry so so so much :'(((
This scene always pulls my heart strings... This episode is real.. No script but real emotions and feelings of sadness. Pure 100%
i cry so hard in this episode!!!
God I wish Cory was still alive. Glee wasn't the same without him.
Same :/
The parts that always got me were "I should've hugged him more" and "You have to keep on being a parent even though you don't have a child anymore"
The best scene from this show, hands down.
Such an amazing tribute to Cory. That's what he would have wanted! 😢😢😢
"you have to still be a parent even tho you dont have a child anymore!" hit me hard, we love you cotey, and finn you will always be our quarterback
I'm glad Burt admitted he was too hard on Finn, I think many were. He was a gentle spirit searching for strength and peace. God rest his soul 🕊
I lost my brother and my father in the last 15 years... and this scene hits me hard.
I‘m sorry 😔
This whole scene made me think of Cory Monteith's real parents
Ok this comment broke me. Thinking that what the actors were portraying in this scene was actually happening with Corys parents
Well this just exploded like a water bomb on my screen. I'm literally wiping the splash residue off my desk...but it just keeps falling. It won't stop...!!!!!!!!
I can't watch this without crying
by far the hardest emotional scene I've ever watched via TV show
Even after all this years i still cry watching this scene, it is just so real, carol’s line was so heartbreaking
It's obvious everyone's emotions in this scene was genuine. It's the realest thing ever. This was one of the most hardest things I had to watch in a tv series
That part about the lamp. Burt is going to keep it in his office to remind himself everyday of that conversation and the guilt he feels....
My sister was murdered almost a month ago. She was a big big fan of this show. We recently went through her stuff and my mom cried for her the way Carol did for Finn. I cried for my sister the way Will did w Finns jacket. Just like Kurt said there’s no time table the same can be said about grieving
I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. It's upsetting and angering that people have to lose people to selfish creatures. I hope the person who did it is rotting in jail, and that you can heal from this. 💕❤️
My brother was murdered 6 years ago. His birthday was the 9th. Grieving does come in waves. I’ll keep your family in my thoughts and prayers 🙏🏻
You know when you feel sad or down and want to accomodate that feeling with sad music or feel like you really need to cry to clear your head and look up sad songs to trigger that? This is my go to. Even not actually seeing it but just thinking of the quotes "how do they wake up everyday? how do they breathe? but you do wake up..." and "you have to keep on being a parent even though you don't get to have a child anymore". Gets me every fucking single time. I've seen this scene so many times but I cry every single time.
The one thing that really hit me was something I heard one of the writers say cuz it showed the love they all had for Corey (Finn). The writer said that the script was loosely written and if the cast strayed from that script, he wasn't going to stop them. None of the emotions were faked and you could see the hurt, pain, and loss on their faces. When Rachel sang to make you feel my love, I cried. When Mercedes sang I'll stand by you, I heard and felt her pain. But Carol said something that broke my to my core. She said, "You go on being a mother even though you don't have a child anymore!" This made me weep cuz it brings back memories of my miscarriage. I was a mother for about 2 months and the loss of my child crushed me cuz it's true. I'm still a mother even though I don't have a child anymore. It's been years since this episode aired and yet it still breaks me everytime!
How do they breath says it all really ..x x as
I love this scene so much all the acting is amazing and I love the small bit of Burt looking at the Finn and Rachel picture just thinking of Finn still having that picture up even if they weren’t properly together at that point .......👼🏼
Why am i rewatching this over and over??! And crying every time....
No matter how many years ago by this ep always make me cry. Even the songs
I'd like to say that was some superb acting, but it all seems so real. When I heard of Cory's death I cried for days and I didn't even know the man. What a terrible loss for his family, for Glee, for the world. There was just something about Cory Monteith. He was not only born to play the role of Finn Hudson, but he was just one of those good hearted people. I may not have known him, or even met him, but you just needed to watch one interview with him and you could feel his authenticity. I still miss him to this day.
The hardest thing of this is realizing they weren’t acting, they were feeling every word they said
This scene is so accurately portrayed especially carols part. It’s like someone took the words from my mouth and put them on screen. This is how it feels. Everyday.
Add the scene Where Santana Flips Out someone took Finns jacket💔
No matter how many times I watch this I cry and I can't stop shaking so i cry myself to sleep because of this
Everytime I rewatch this clip I cry. I am not a parent but I can feel the emotion of the actress. When you lose a partner you are called a widow or a widower. There is no word for a parent who lost a child because it is the saddest thing, and to terrible to think about.
So much raw emotion. It's beautiful in a tragic way
When Carole started talking, I lost it.
The actors in this episode weren’t acting half of the time, It was real, raw emotion.
I was to young to see Glee from the very beginning when it first aired, but watching it when I could, coming to this episode, always breaks my heart. He will surely be missed! ❣️
I had a stillbirth in May of last year and I was ALWAYS a huge Glee fan and I vividly remember sitting at a restaurant just days after I lost my daughter and the only thing I could think of was Carol’s speech and it still gives me some bit of strength remembering and watching this clip.
You know..
It sucks to think that, yes, Finn died in the show.
Then you go on to realize this isn't acting.
This wasn't planned.
This wasn't a script that was just another episode.
Cory died in real life.
And you can only hope it was just his character.
You can only hope...
This tears at every string of humanness in my body. This scene was so emotionally overwhelming for me. Carole touched every bit of firmness and stability I had in me, no mother takes it easier than this....this is real pain showcased in a show for us to even get an ounce of what it looks and feels like....but...It's Real...pain is real and it demands to be felt