🍽 HOW TO SET A DINNER TABLE. 🥂

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  • @chantalmarie8361
    @chantalmarie8361 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    Auntie Fumi, you are turning us into the most elegant, confident, and refined ladies. Please continue, and may God bless you.

    • @momoe.4075
      @momoe.4075 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      She is! At this point she is truly like family in my mind

    • @blancheappleton9766
      @blancheappleton9766 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And I / we thank her so much

    • @breshaela8955
      @breshaela8955 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes! Thank you so much Fumi & Ole!

    • @vivianeni
      @vivianeni ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We loved it

    • @vivianeni
      @vivianeni ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love Ole's comments and questions during the demo

  • @TheMzTR
    @TheMzTR ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Wow! I haven't set a table in years! At 67 young, I used to help my Mom do this every Sunday! Every little girl started this very young! We were taught how to be a homemaker & the proper way to have etiquette. Even as a little girl, going to church on Sundays, it was required to have gloves, hanky, "handkerchief" in our purse. Also, we as Black Americans aka "Colors" back then took pride in being proper regardless of being poor. We were also, taught that "cleanliness is next to godliness"!
    I don't set the table like this anymore bc I'm in the home alone to eat most of the time or in my room. Maybe I should go back to doing this even though I may eat alone....Tk you & Blessings Fumi ❤️

    • @momoe.4075
      @momoe.4075 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      You should! You deserve the best! Especially living alone you should luxuriate your life 💚 Luxury does not always mean expensive. Sometimes it means intention above everything.

    • @ByteMwen
      @ByteMwen ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Mz TR, let me tell you something. I got myself some table linens and good cutlery so even when I dine alone, I feel luxurious. You are worth it.

    • @satrynahopewell1996
      @satrynahopewell1996 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You should sis, because you have all the beautiful table ware enjoy …do it for yourself you deserve to eat on a beautiful dinner wear, beautiful table for lunch, beautiful for breakfast I mean enjoy all the beautiful things that you have in your home because at the end of the day sis when the Lord calls us all home those are things we can’t take with us….we bought them for a reason so enjoy them because somebody else will when you’ve gone home with the Lord . I love you all have a blessed day

    • @Purpleiciousbabe
      @Purpleiciousbabe ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww x

    • @HarrisPilton789
      @HarrisPilton789 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do it for yourself! You deserve it!

  • @londonbridge4200
    @londonbridge4200 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Whenever the BF calls me posh, I always say "darling that's called manners." I'm from a poor Jamaican family but I learned etiquette as a child (even though we didn't have Tuppence to rub together😂) and that has allowed me the confidence to meet and mingle with anyone in my adopted country of Canada.

    • @dearestlove8581
      @dearestlove8581 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same here. I was taught this at home from a young age and it was reinforced in more detail when I did Home Ec in high school at Manchester High.

  • @letsalltakeawalk6906
    @letsalltakeawalk6906 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    When it is explained, it's not too complicated! Everything makes it's own sense. I do love these etiquette videos. They're fascinating to me and useful tips to have in your back pocket.

  • @Cantetinza17
    @Cantetinza17 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    My mother taught my sister and I at a young age how to set a table (that was our job during holiday meals and special occasions) and then once I got in the Military, I ended up working in the Officer's Mess Hall and they added new place settings to my skills . For our coffee cups and tea cups they would be on the table and we would flip the cup over and then at the end of the meal those that wanted coffee or tea would flip the cup up right and that let us know who wanted coffee or tea without overly disturbing the conversation at the table. The Coffee had a red napkin wrapped around the pot and the Tea had Blue (usually) that way they can keep an eye out for who has what pot and then they flip their cup over as we approach.

    • @DORCASDIASRIESMAKINGMEMORIES
      @DORCASDIASRIESMAKINGMEMORIES ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I went to a Military secondary school, and one thing I learned from there was the precision with which things were done. It really helped me as a Nurse.

  • @lafredasias5286
    @lafredasias5286 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Thank you for pointing out that you use either a placemat or tablecloth! So many people don't know that!

    • @HarrisPilton789
      @HarrisPilton789 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nowadays it’s a style choice. Some enjoy the layered look.

  • @joannadziokan3267
    @joannadziokan3267 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Even left handed people must have a fork on the left and knife on the right - this is correct etiquette. Very good video, thank you Fumi and Ole :)

  • @teniaosayande6355
    @teniaosayande6355 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Yess we looove Auntie Fumi!🥰 I just looove formal dinners/events. This video reminds me of a special moment. At 19 y/o I was working for a firm & they were hosting a benefit gala. I caught others looking at me throughout dinner but couldn't figure it out at 1st. It's then I realized they weren't expecting a young black girl (I was 1 out of 3 bw & youngest person there) to know these things & be so graceful. It was very empowering & honey I gave them a show 😂 THANK YOU AUNTIE FUMI for sharing. So many young ladies don't have anyone to show them or worse are told that these things are out of date. When in reality this is useful, epsecially in certain corporate or social networking settings. Can't wait for the ettitquette video.

  • @mzlo2057
    @mzlo2057 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you sista. There is a whole generation that don't have a clue!

  • @WONDERFULLYMADE2009
    @WONDERFULLYMADE2009 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I wish I could give this a million likes!!!! I love this!!! Thank you so much Queen. I've always wondered about the cutlery settings . You are the best xxxxx keep em coming mmwwaah xx

  • @GloriousDecor
    @GloriousDecor ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi Fumi, I guess you know, I have never in all of my years used so many utensils during a meal.🤫 But, this is why you are demonstrating for us viewers, right!!!🤗 Yes, I have had people over for Sunday Dinner and now that I see this, I hope they enjoyed it and had the utensils they needed! I so enjoy your videos. Believe it or not I'm learning😂👋🏽

  • @laurenfrancesguerraphd8310
    @laurenfrancesguerraphd8310 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The knife is aggressive!! LOL. thank you Fumi for teaching us about etiquette

  • @Jaya-unlimited847
    @Jaya-unlimited847 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Aunty Fumi, you are truly God sent. Earlier today, it was placed in my Spirit to learn everything regarding Fine dining and Etiquette only for me to come to TH-cam to see you've already started a series on these topics.
    May God continue to strengthen and inspire you as you help and refine many of us to be the best elegant versions of ourselves.

  • @fashionandluxury101
    @fashionandluxury101 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Beautiful cutlery . You can serve water in stem glasses 😊Excellent video.
    Happy New Year

  • @alexisrush91
    @alexisrush91 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I was having Pretty Woman flashbacks the whole time 🤣🤣🤣

  • @caramelsubmerged7426
    @caramelsubmerged7426 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hello Fumi your content is always so relevant and informative. You make things lighthearted and approachable. Thank you! Blessings to you and yours!

  • @gabrielfrancis7270
    @gabrielfrancis7270 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you 🇯🇲Blessed Goddess!🎬when we know we still have to watch you to support your Channel Love Love🍍🍓🍉🍇

  • @gigib2739
    @gigib2739 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Fumi can you do an episode of packing carry onl on suitcase bags?

  • @Abmarp
    @Abmarp ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is coming right on time. I just bought a 70 piece China set for my future home. I am excited. I can’t wait to host

    • @HarrisPilton789
      @HarrisPilton789 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wonderful! Which China pattern did you choose?

  • @zainabal-hassan5723
    @zainabal-hassan5723 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you mama Fumi. Your channel is all-in- one. Love you,

  • @VIsidore
    @VIsidore ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This was fun, Fumi. I set my table for New Years Day. I got it right for the most right. Thank you very much. ❣️

  • @sarahc8862
    @sarahc8862 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Awesome tutorial fumi love it ,I was fortunate to learn most of this when I worked in the dining room of a very nice nursing home, but I know many people don't get that opportunity.

  • @fayette9616
    @fayette9616 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fumi I’m from Georgia and I feel like I’ve known you for years my grandmother has us to do this when I was younger miss her so much. Love ya keep the videos coming helps me relax after work

  • @kikiatl1
    @kikiatl1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this detailed and informative video. I learned so much. You are a beautiful spirit. Peace and Blessings to you and your family ✨️

  • @cynthiagordon3138
    @cynthiagordon3138 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh wow! Thanks for the invaluable lesson. I'm going to practice setting my dining table to cement the order in head. My sister Fumi I'm forever grateful. Happy New Year to you and your entire family.

  • @ppinnock4725
    @ppinnock4725 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello, Mrs. Fumi, it is an amazing display, adored the crocket tablecloth because it reminds me of my auntie with her crochets table clothes, and napkins in jamaica. I love your necklace it's funny you mentioned where you bought it. I was looking at it and was excited to know where I can purchase one with my name or as a gift. Thank you for your time in showing us table settings and principles. As always you bring it.

  • @roki5337
    @roki5337 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I adore you for this video, I truly do and that you have Mommy Vold's extraordinary lace on the table what an amazing heirloom piece.

  • @jacpppp
    @jacpppp ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Just a side note. Sometimes the water glasses have stems. Like the Zalto water glasses. This was a fabulous video!

    • @HarrisPilton789
      @HarrisPilton789 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, my water goblets have stems also.

  • @attyatty3234
    @attyatty3234 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I use to love setting the table as a child

  • @leerivera4464
    @leerivera4464 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was an awesome video. Brought childhood memories having lived in Europe, the Carrib, and USA.

  • @kashataylor6430
    @kashataylor6430 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank You Ms.Fumi 💥🥂

  • @tiffanyblount7560
    @tiffanyblount7560 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for the video and beautiful tablecloth. It's nice when we have things from our love ones to carry with us from one generation to the next.

  • @Mjeni1
    @Mjeni1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just on time. Let me get ideas for my dinner party

  • @debbvideo
    @debbvideo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    FUMI, one of your best episodes. Thank you

  • @Janicemar1
    @Janicemar1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    5:15 omg u made me laugh!! You’re so funny 😂

  • @annettes2879
    @annettes2879 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Beautiful dish setting. 💥

  • @estherarowolo6065
    @estherarowolo6065 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Funmi. Thank you. God bless you 🙏❤ More of His grace and power, strength, wisdom knowledge and understanding of God.

  • @vivisebaccar7986
    @vivisebaccar7986 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    THANk Fumi for your energy, your love and the strenth you give us! Keep it up!♥️

  • @kristenmcclain8800
    @kristenmcclain8800 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for making these etiquette videos. They are much needed ❤

  • @VickieLaSake
    @VickieLaSake ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this video!

  • @GraceGraceAA
    @GraceGraceAA ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Auntie Fumi!!!! We love. We love.❤

  • @judithymwafisheni5911
    @judithymwafisheni5911 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautifully presented. Thank you Fumi

  • @chayannesantiago9384
    @chayannesantiago9384 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey FUMI if it was you, your child, husband and 5 other guests and the food included dinner salad and dessert would you set the table with a total of 24 plates? Of not how many plates? ❤

  • @blessingpeoples3147
    @blessingpeoples3147 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fdv God bless you. This is what I was to #20k in Nigeria about six years ago to learn . But fdv u gave me free of charge. Thanks a billion

  • @Trudloops
    @Trudloops ปีที่แล้ว

    Mummy Vold had some great crotchet skills. Her table cloth is beautiful. My mother loved to crotchet. This reminds me so much of her. Thanks for making table settings so simple and fun.

  • @cosquellemind
    @cosquellemind ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Informative and you made it so entertaining. Thanks.

  • @sheilacowden9238
    @sheilacowden9238 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He said can we eat now 😁😁😁 so sweet

  • @Lyric4L
    @Lyric4L ปีที่แล้ว

    So educational, I seriously enjoy this channel!!!!

  • @ADayWithDeeDee
    @ADayWithDeeDee ปีที่แล้ว +8

    😢This made me miss my mom so much. As a kid I thought setting the table was just fun. As I got older and started attending galas, business dinners and other events I realized the importance of what mom taught me. Thank you Fumi for sharing your knowledge.

  • @lualih
    @lualih ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for sharing ❤️

  • @onthespotwithtaalibah7977
    @onthespotwithtaalibah7977 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi. You look fabulous! Thank you for the training. Stay safe.😊

  • @justdivvy8906
    @justdivvy8906 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Aunty funmi
    This was beautiful to watch

  • @almasparks888
    @almasparks888 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Auntie!!! we needed this in Xmas :) this is great though, and will put it in practice for future Xmas, events and make my house a palace.
    God Bless your heart and your family.🤍

  • @BabyAlexxia6734.
    @BabyAlexxia6734. ปีที่แล้ว +6

    New Year resulutions hello fumination greetings from Italy

  • @matildaatima1073
    @matildaatima1073 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great thanks so much for the training Auntie Fumi.

  • @Truth845
    @Truth845 ปีที่แล้ว

    Welcome to 2023 Fumi..Thank you!!

  • @afiam8510
    @afiam8510 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Fumi. This was very informative.

  • @CulinaryGuide
    @CulinaryGuide 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    We love you Fumi ❤

  • @deannam7681
    @deannam7681 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I live. I love. Thank you Fumi!

  • @yeamaneal5652
    @yeamaneal5652 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love this lesson. You were the topic of conversation at work today. I had no idea my coworker loved your channel like I do.

    • @DORCASDIASRIESMAKINGMEMORIES
      @DORCASDIASRIESMAKINGMEMORIES ปีที่แล้ว

      She's a topic of conversation with my friends and hubby too. Sometimes, I even get him to watch bits and pieces of the video 😂😂

  • @terrastamatakis4341
    @terrastamatakis4341 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Blessings my love 😍 wishing you the best this year.

  • @AntoinetteChanel
    @AntoinetteChanel ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Auntie! I learned some of this when I was a sorority in college, but you taught me so much! 😍 now I want to throw a dinner party! 😂

  • @ingridgonzales8167
    @ingridgonzales8167 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for showing, I always wanted to know if I have to put out everything whether I'm serving it or not, thank u

  • @torinford1638
    @torinford1638 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are the best Fumi!!!! Thank you so much for this video!😁

  • @gloriajones8661
    @gloriajones8661 ปีที่แล้ว

    This really helped me out before my Valentines Gala. Love you Aunt Fumi, keep up the Great work!

  • @TXPearl1908
    @TXPearl1908 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Fumi!!

  • @eunicelampley1576
    @eunicelampley1576 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent as always Fumi. The table cloth is very beautiful. I am glad you are reminding those who stop by to like 👍🏾 subscribe and share. You have excellent content ❤❤🎉

  • @LoriJSykes
    @LoriJSykes ปีที่แล้ว

    You are such an amazing person. As a fellow Aries, I especially feel your heart! You are such an inspiration, a light! 💚💃🏽🔥🤩

  • @indoora
    @indoora ปีที่แล้ว

    I do not know why but I am obsessed with table services.

  • @carolinendibogeza9162
    @carolinendibogeza9162 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ❤❤love this

  • @alib180
    @alib180 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for teaching us ❤

  • @ValElsie1951
    @ValElsie1951 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Fumi very elegant indeed. Thank you for your teachings. Happy new year to you and your family. May god continue to bless you xx

  • @crownjewel3533
    @crownjewel3533 ปีที่แล้ว

    I will cherish this forever

  • @fabroney5780
    @fabroney5780 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good presentation you made it easy and simple to understand ❤

  • @grettag228
    @grettag228 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy new year! 😊I love episodes like these Fumi. Thanks so much!! You are so sophisticated Fumi, how did you learn all these things? Where from?

  • @eulinjames9403
    @eulinjames9403 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful, I love the lecture.

  • @10noluv
    @10noluv ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you. ❤

  • @toniciabryan438
    @toniciabryan438 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Fumi😊💐

  • @jeanninereed2662
    @jeanninereed2662 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That was awesome!!👍

  • @GodsFaithfulnessMatters2Me
    @GodsFaithfulnessMatters2Me ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very nice Fumi!

  • @tracyb246
    @tracyb246 ปีที่แล้ว

    Uncle Ole is very vocal in this video 😄

  • @wilmadavis1659
    @wilmadavis1659 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the content very informational good and great to know Elegance into the new year

  • @nevertheless5456
    @nevertheless5456 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just ❤ you & all your teaching….

  • @Lifegoeson100
    @Lifegoeson100 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really enjoyed this video.

  • @andreamanning3297
    @andreamanning3297 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved your cutlery. Thank you for the heads up as to where it was from. I need to buy new cutlery. 😊

  • @jacqueline9575
    @jacqueline9575 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love you y beautiful Sister thank you for all your fine teachings ❤️🌷😘😘😘

  • @17thUnicorn
    @17thUnicorn ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent, excellent, thanks!!

  • @charliemarshaii6722
    @charliemarshaii6722 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oola had good questions!

  • @myvornedavis5133
    @myvornedavis5133 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy New year to you and your family 👪. Best wishes for the year ahead.

  • @claudiakhensani2608
    @claudiakhensani2608 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mama Fumi I'm left handed as well 😂😂 thanks a million to you and your husband Ole for all your efforts always appreciated. I needed this I want to surprise my boyfriend with some fancy dinner can't wait 💃

  • @bm11775
    @bm11775 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Elegant thank you ❤️

  • @ChiomaIkejiofor
    @ChiomaIkejiofor ปีที่แล้ว

    We surely love ❤️ 😍. Thank you and happy new year Fumi

  • @shunwilliams6180
    @shunwilliams6180 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for sharing ❤❤❤❤

  • @maureenmagona7818
    @maureenmagona7818 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! Exquisite!

  • @myvornedavis5133
    @myvornedavis5133 ปีที่แล้ว

    We love!

  • @rubyberylgarraway634
    @rubyberylgarraway634 ปีที่แล้ว

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    @trendybytyana2146 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing your knowledge, big sister Fumi.

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    @elainebeason1683 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much sis i will share this video

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    @sherrymayberry6285 ปีที่แล้ว

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    @stephanieburrell3569 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you!