Ask Steve: Cursing is cleansing || STEVE HARVEY
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- A woman who picked up a strange habit from her dad wants to know if Steve picked up any habits from his father.
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i enjoy cussin too steve! 100% agree with ya!
Alicia Grass I enjoy cussing too.
Alicia Grass Especially it's a great relief when I'm in shock or what I've heard.
Shenice Says yup!
Alicia Grass hi
As a female to another female, cursing is one of the ugliest habits a woman can have-stop it!
Cussing is stress release!! Period!!
Femmefatale32000 Facts
Femmefatale32000 I agree with 100% cussing does relieve stress
Ain’t that the truth! It happens all the time, just let it out!
Femmefatale32000 So true! I cuss all the time!
And sentence enhancers!
First words I learn in every language: Cusses
Same 😂😂
I swear if they taught cussing at foreign language classes...... I’d pay attention.
Sameeeee😂😌
They say it's the best way to learn a new language
It's SOOOOOO refreshing and it makes me feel better. 😊😏 learned it from my daddy and proud of it!!
When he yelled " thank you jesus" lmfao
Steve just keeps it real and that totally relaxes me.😇 NO stress here.
I liked those three Christians. I'm not strong like them! Lol!
They weird as hell
@@adi14293 how sway? Goofy
You joking right lol
Ephesians 4:29 ESV
Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.
Colossians 3:8 ESV
But now you must put them all away: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and obscene talk from your mouth.
Romans 12:14 ESV
Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them.
James 1:26 ESV
If anyone thinks he is religious and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his heart, this person's religion is worthless.
Ephesians 5:4 ESV
Let there be no filthiness nor foolish talk nor crude joking, which are out of place, but instead let there be thanksgiving.
I've never been that strong. I have cussed like a sailor for years. It's a release.
“If they was giving you this check, you’d cuss too” 😂😭😭 had to admit it was true
I read this.... While he was saying that.... At the same time
Your right steve get people off you it really help me people think I'm crazy I say good maybe nowyou won't talk to me you go steve
Steve is damn funny
callistus nonso he's hilarious
Ephesians 4:29 ESV
Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.
Colossians 3:8 ESV
But now you must put them all away: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and obscene talk from your mouth.
Romans 12:14 ESV
Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them.
James 1:26 ESV
If anyone thinks he is religious and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his heart, this person's religion is worthless.
Ephesians 5:4 ESV
Let there be no filthiness nor foolish talk nor crude joking, which are out of place, but instead let there be thanksgiving.
Ooooo you said a wirty dird.😂😋😄
Steve you think it's the cursing that keeps away medication. It is laughter! You're a comedian. That's why
@Sylvia Shyaka
You are so RIGHT!! You made the very statement I was already thinking before I read your comment. When I used to cuss, in my mentality it was a reliever..I've always had a good sense of humor and laughter always hit the right spot at the right time..I've learned how to get my point across without profanity..it's a skill that I've learned AFTER I dismissed the curse words..& IT IS MORE EFFECTIVE..People would just look at me and it appears that they're saying to themselves, "Didn't she just CUSSED me out without saying a cuss word? I know she didn't.." Trust me, cussing is easier, but it takes SKILL to do without it.😉
So basically you start out like this "😤" and end up like this "😇" after a cleansing bout of cussing $%#*% 😌 The "THANK YOU JESAAAAAAAS!!!" was my favorite part 😂
Not reacting is the BEST thing ever. Seeing the surprised look on their face is THE best thing ever.
You can see in his face when he said cussing he was remembering his dad that passed RIP much love to him you can see he felt sad I felt it just by his face I love you Steve wish you nun but the best to you and your family and loved ones man
With the things and people you have to deal with now days, like their attitude, smart mouth, rudeness etc. Cussing is better then doing &/or saying something that will have you arrested and locked up.
This right Blue Diamond either I cuss or I beat your ass lol
Swearing is impactful, gets the attention it desires everytime lol
@@sineadcampbell5147 Not really. Just like the word "racist" the 7 curse words have been used so exponentially often they've lost all their even pretended impact.
Steve is one of he funniest folks I've known in the world of comedy. I used to cuss or curse until I got delivered from it, it is a habit that you start and just like you can start you can also stop. Blessings and cursing should not come out of the same fountain. It's not easy but it can be done. We all need deliverance from something.
👏👏
I agree you can stop anything with God’s help
Amen 🙏
Well tell that to the cussing pastor smh
the OLDER I get...the more I cuss!!!!
LOL ...🤣Me too, its like relieving pressure valve
Yeah. I'm probably going to hold the world record in cussing by the time I hit 35.
Forreal
I cuss like a sailor, and I agree with Steve!! I cuss at work, I cuss when driving, I cuss for fun, I cuss infront every one, I just like how refreshing it feels.........
I feel like cussing is therapeutic. I also feel that I can make a sentence out of cuss words I can make things make sense that don't make sense out of cuss words. So you are welcome I love to cuss. That's my go-to that's my number one that's my ride or die
It’s actually a proven fact that Cussing not only reduces stress, but also increases pain tolerance and can take away pain faster if you curse while in pain.
Lol boy science and those studies done by people who want to promote profanity.. smh 🤦♀️ people can lie to themselves and to others.. Satan is the father of the lie..
Really?
Ephesian 4:29 "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouth, but only what is helpful for building up others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen." I dont care if people cuss around me but dont disrespect those who choose not to they dont want the curse that it brings, you may be super rich but you might have been even richer if you didnt cuss
Yes and amen.
Amen
It doesn't fix anything
I love cussing too Steve, but leave them non-cussin' kids alone. :))))
Kimmie33166 there lying lmfao they cuss
@@forever_animated2453 you're just an idiot
@@forever_animated2453 they're* not there.
@@matthewmccone2126 maybe you're the idiot. You never know unless you know them personally then prove me wrong.
How are they kids. In fact I think it shows more maturity that they can get their point across without cussin
Steve's reaction to the non cussing lady...."No" I completely agreed
All kindz of cuss words, all kindz...
I see you've been hanging around the Hodge twins' block...lol
Welcome to the hood.
lmao them hodge twins will have your vocabulary looking right
Cussing is also a helluva lot cheaper:)))))
The Darci 13 Cheaper than marriage counseling that's for sure 😎😂
Been cussing since the age of 8. Im 39 now. Its good for the soul.
Good for the soul? I doubt it.
Thy 72eaper how would you know what his soul likes? You must be one of those non cursers.
@@priyamanobal If one is to resort to always cussing it shows you have bad self control. If you have bad self control then you aren't at peace or understanding with yourself. And if you have great understanding and/or at peace then you have a healthy soul.
There are healthy ways to release stress than cussing at people or yourself. Build a healthy foundation for your soul. Only then you will understand true peace.
Thy 72eaper yeah ok whatever
Exactly
I was dying laughing. LOL
Lmao Steve’s reactions when the three Christians said they didn’t cuss xD I love Steve, man.
I don't cuss, I'm 66 and no prescription drugs either. I'm able to express myself. Ask my students they understand do what I ask or pay the price. I'm grading final exams now and a few will get the message even stronger, all without cussing.
Agreed, health has done nothing to do with cussing. I don't cuss either and I'm totally relaxed living my life👍🏻💚✨
He’s a comedian y’all, it was a joke
@@starryskies9655 he wasn't joking
@@starryskies9655 😂 to every joke there's an element of truth
Your cussing is nothing like mine was. I thank God I do not cuss anymore. After three days of fasting, and allowing God's Word to quench the works of my fleshly outbursts. Three days of fasting, prayer, biblical guidance...when my flesh would like to just cuss people out. I allow Holy Spirit to comfort me before I speak. Love Steve Harvey. Love being cuss free more. 😀. I know you needed to hear this. Let God's Word,do the transformation He has promised. Love you all. Steve is still a great motivator.
just like Gordon Ramsay
I cuss like a sailor...but I never use the Lords name in vain.
mastiff people I do the same thing
Same here.. however I find myself slipping on "godamn" alot
aSmallDot yea well you’ll be in hell im sorry for saying it but better change your life around
aSmallDot the Bible I’m not gonna curse when I have that in my sentence so don’t reply
@@Samer-lx5sz when someone tells you you're going to hell for not believing the bible it shows they don't believe in it they just feared going to hell as kids when they're parents told them
I grew up w/grandma, baptizing u with cuss words up n down, and I don't cuss at all.😊
I agree with the Church lady.
@$#% you. See what I did there? I feel better.
Selim Tuncel 😂
Hell naw
Me too Steve! 🙋 I inherited cussing from my dad as well. A lot of ppl will never understand, but I don't try to make them. Although I do hate it when ppl try to change me. Steve is 100% right it just relieves so much stress. The key is to just know when to turn it off. If you can control it that's all that matters. The problem is those that have no consideration when it matters the most, like respecting your elders.
anointed joan ... You “inherited” it -- but you can control it whenever you choose to... now that’s a contradiction if I ever did hear one 😂
No judgement here, I cuss too sometimes - but I ain’t passing the blame off to anyone for my behaviour.
You either have control over yourself or you don’t - these are mutually exclusive m’dear.
At least own it - You cuss because you want & choose to!
Especially when you stub your toe on something. Oh man, I sound like a drunk sailor at that point.
Steve: cussin'
*WOOOO, YEAH! WOOOOOO*
Cursing is bad. Mr. Steve Harvey, please do not teach wrong. You have been blessed.
Cussing is good
Steve, you're my new idol! I'm a Geordie, a strange tribe from the North East of England, and we cuss like f*@$!
You are totally right in everything you just said! I f*@%*** LOVE ya!!!
Love you Steve
Just cursed and I feel so good and relaxed 😌 love you Uncle Steve ❤️
The steve harvey's "thank you jesus" is legendary!!!!!
I can't believe literally someone is prescribing cussing for health issues😩😂
But I DON'T appreciate you make the sweet ppl change to someone they're trying not to be
I love how real he is!😂
“THANK YOU JESUS” I died🤣🤣🤣
Completely agree w/ Steve. I hate when people say have a blessed day. I don't theirs or anyone else's blessing!
omg we need this show back Steve made my day :)))). God bless you!!
You are so funny 🤣 Steve I feel so happy looking at your shows it gets me through hard days I have I'd love to be on your show someday I'm from Ireland 🇮🇪 and just love your show
My friend and I curse each other out all day at work. Day sure goes by faster! LOL
Stupid
I love watching Steve Harvey
4:40 the most honest statement
I have been doing real good at not cussing. Unless, my children irk my soul, then it's a different story. My grandmother use to cuss like it was a second language. She doesn't cuss anymore
Steve killed this episode. Hilarious.
Steve sounds exactly my family., especially my late older brother. Keepin it real.
Cussing is so much better than hitting someone
It could be releasing stress, but the Lord said Do not use the Lord's name in vain and cursing any word is like using it which I think we shall concern more about others than ourselves :) Praise the Lord, and love more
He so damn stupid omg. 😂😂😂 I love Steve! I needed this laugh lol
I absolutely love his job on any platform he has , he can say whatever he truly feels... and check this out, gets paid for it. No better job in the entire world mind blown 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯. I would kill to have a job like this 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 . I typed this before he said it .... proves my point !!!
The check part tho!! Everything Steve Harvey said is facts!!
I definitely understand his point about cussing
Steve Harvey and Craig Ferguson are two awesome game show hosts that can cuss in any way, shape or form.
Very therapeutic.
Hopefully steve doesnt retire any time soon. I wanna see him live and hopefully i can do that in the future
When I cuss, people at work look at me like I am losing my mind. I cuss because I think it is better than punching someone in the face. It helps release stress and frustration.
Maybe you need mental help if you get that frustrated.
I love cussing too
Thank You Steve!Best video ever!
I grew up not cussing and realized I was attracting a lot of of built of stress. I started cussing and I felt the release. Cussing in my vocabulary don't exist. The word paper today can be deemed a cuss word tomorrow. And I still have an amazing relationship with Jesus. Cussing doesn't make you any less of a Christian. In fact, it makes you more of a excellent communicator and releases negative tension. This is truth!!!
There's a TIME and PLACE... but I love cussing too!!!
Stupid
"Damn Mike betrayed us"
"MOTHERFKER!"
Cussing is a stress reliever!
I am just like the three guys... I bless them and it helps a Lord
I have no idea how people cuss. We grew up without hearing any swear words. The first time i heard someone swearing, was on TV, on an American show. By then i was a quite grown up. In my culture swearing is just not done..my kids are growing up the same way. They never hear my husband or me cuss. They hear it at school, come home and tell me so and so said a terrible word but i will not say it because in this house we do not use bad words. I have had a hard life, but my mouth is for praising God. No sour words shall come out of it.. I try, not perfect but i try..
Lol take Steve’s advice
Swayy Wavyy true!!!!!
Lmao. My mom raised us all not to curse and now we all do😂😂. Two reason. First, the more you tell people not to do something, the more they want to. Secondly, we're black and have gone to black schools in the hood. You have to curse in that environment or your just gonna get bullied.
"I have had a hard life" that explains it
Just a question, for the sake of knowledge, do you get to use euphemisms from time to time instead of cussin'?
I prefer to Bless and IT Comes Back to me. I know Jesus Loves The Change in my Heart through The Holy Spirit. In The Spirit Bless cleanses The Heart... And cursing blackens The Heart, Just AS The bible says. But when i was Not redeemed i cursed a Lot. Thanksgiving to The father in heaven , No more
Amen
I never believed to kill someone with kindness never and I’m with Steve
True
If we think cursing is wrong then do not do it even if people say it's a stress relief there is other ways to get rid of stress.
Nathan2505 Worshipper Like stabbing somebody? You better let it out or it'll come out another way. Control is key, there's a time and a place for EVERYTHING!
I love this man people will always pretend that they're not doing the things that they're doing but what the hell why are you pretending I like to cost and people do not like me for dogs
😯😞
I love Steve Harvey especially for this attribute of his personality!💪 More Power to him cussing!🤬🤑😇
This man is genuinely hilarious 😂😂😂
there's so many comments here that are just trying to justify cussing and honestly its just quite sad. at the end of the day, you don't really need to do it despite how many years you have been doing it and claim you can't stop and need to do it. cussing isn't necessary nor worth it, its just time to throw out the common old generation misconceptions for justifying life long habits
out with the old, in with the new
technicality000 I wonder if you have to take medication from holding all that mess in.
You must be one of those non cursers. I curse and it’s honestly refreshing. No one said you NEED to curse the only thing being justified is that cursing is a stress reliever, not that it’s mandatory.
I agree with you. Nothing but excuses to justify the use of vulgarity, it's very sad. Our words have power. We become what we say. Why not speak positive over your life instead of filth? Very sad world!
they're just words, calm down
@@ryanhassan7144
They are more than just words..Words speak volumes of one's character. Never under estimate the power of words or the weakness it can cause..
I go to church but I still cuss every now and then it's just good for the soul
Stupid
Then maybe you should question why you even bother going.
Ohh man, this can be a stressful cure for this. DAMN I LOVE STEVE HARVEY💚💚💚
Steve, you are my spirit animal…
What's wrong with Americans and being against "cussing", i live in England and I don't know a single person that doesn't swear
My family is Norwegian and Danish and they cuss like craaaazy. And talking about sex isn't off the table either. Probably why they're the happiest people. Idk.
everybody swears where I live
It's simple. Its shows no respect for the other person, and it also shows you have never grown up and learned how to control or express yourself without doing it.
ugetridofit because I said a word?! I could understand your point if I was walking round pissing n shitting on someone’s leg. I can control myself but I am not going to be controlled into what I can and can’t say!
@@terrydoherty6696 what's the difference? You're going to die at some point anyway so what does it matter if you piss on someone's leg or you scream profanity at them? Do you think the universe or heck even the very spot of ground you stand on is going to somehow stop of become dull if you piss on a leg?
If there is a award for cussing definitely Gordon Ramsay takes that award every year.
God bless your health..
I h ope that this subscription is free i love Steve Harvey he is one of my favorite
Sometimes, the people that don’t cuss scares me. Cause one day they’ll snap and beat yo aaaaassss 😭😂
😂 i thought she was gonna ask for help about her addiction.
I can relate about the attitudes in the medical community. I am a 63 y/o female, and whenever I go for wellness checks they are always amazed that I am not on any type of prescriptions.
I also find cussing to be a good and harmless release.
Cussing is just a bless 😂😂
It just works...sometimes I cuss for no damn reason
cussin is one of the few things you can do to release your frustration in a situation that can put you in jail
I love Steve lmao
This is so true
I used to swear/use foul language when I was younger a lot. I was lucky because I had a few different people humbly offer me feedback about it. They approached me respectfully and asked me why I swear. I said to add more flare to what I am talking about. They said are you aware of how it can make people perceive you? It can also deter certain types of people from wanting to be around you. I went home and examined that. I also had someone else tell me that I sound like trailer park trash/uneducated. I took that into consideration. And after much reflection saw what they were saying. As the years have passed I have really become averse to it. If I am around people who swear frequently I am totally turned off. When I go on the bus for instance and hear people using that type of language it feels off-putting not to mention there are times where people are swearing at each other and then things get hostile which ends up causing me to feel unsafe. Let's be honest a lot of people use swearing when they are feeling hostile in some way so there are associations between foul language and violence. I think about children and how adults shame and punish them for swearing and how much of a contradiction it is that adults feel in no way that their behavior is in contrast, what message does that send. Like a husband saying I can flirt with other women but if you do it you are a bad wife. Children are our litmus test. If you do not condone children saying those words why do adults feel superior in that way. If I go to a restaurant and in the midst of eating a great meal, the people next to me are swearing its such a turnoff like someone farting or vomiting near me. I am in no way saying to ban swear words but to use them wisely. It is called foul language for a reason.
lamo thats real I do steve
Same here, Steve.
Great advise
I thought she was going to say something like her issue is causing a problem with her husband or something and how she can break the habit. That would have made a more interesting question. By the end of the video I forgot the question and was just listening to Steve turning it into a comedy routine. Does anyone even remember that lady asked a question. And she had such a build up to the question just to ask Steve the simplest thing ever.
KEINOMADDONE Too many people ask that same damn question. "This is causing a problem with my partner...Help me"
What question???
I cuss alllllllll the damn time...
Real swear words? Damn and hell are not swear words. Sorry lady, taking 'the Lord's name in vain' doesn't count either. We need proper words, the R rated words, otherwise I'm afraid it doesn't count, not my rules, sorry. Good luck on your quest.
Bc you're stupid
Well, lets hope you dont have any kids, and teach them that crap. Its morons like you that never learned to grow up and control your mouth. Just like little kids cant.
His dad went from the top 5 cursers to the top 3 cussers😂😂😂
Swearing is a necessity, it clears the soul.
If you truly believe that your totally lost most most other here.