I was thinking the same. She always dreamed of having her daughter by her side…at her second wedding? Y’all are old! Just go to the courthouse like most second weddings
Oh honey!! You Two should run, have a small intimate wedding, with ALOT of love and laughter... wear a short wedding dress, a veil, a small bouquet to keep and You two have the best wedding and just go for it!!! Be free and be happy!!!❤❤❤❤
@@daniellemitchell3118 Maybe, but there always seems to be something in these stories d that doesn’t quite gel. They seem to forget what they said somewhere else in the story. It is quite jarring. Sometimes it is as simple as names. They start out with one, that suddenly changes in the middle. These are addictive, but they all almost have the same scenarios. So many work in tech start ups. Hobbies are usually hiking, and an amazing number that rediscover painting. Who knew so many people out there painted? The language isn’t quite what an average Joe or Jane would use writing a post either.I am trying to wean myself off, but you just keep getting drawn in. Easy to listen to while doing something else.
Her dad had a stand selling jams and stuff ( which she continues now ) and also bakes so I'm guessing maybe it was a contract for that or maybe a diffrent job opportunity
I only listen to these little reddit stories for entertainment, but as soon as I heard that this one is partly about someone's Crohn's, it hit different since I have it, too. I never experienced being left out by other people, but I know what it's like having to cancel plans and not want to go anywhere when it flares up, and it's a terrible feeling.
16:26 oof, yknow OP going on about how Alex comforted her just makes me wonder if she has comforted him at all through this. Like sure she's doing the right thing but...seems he's bottling up as OP has not ONCE mentioned how he felt.
I mean, OP is so much nicer than me. Since they started talking about eloping, I would have done it the day before the mom’s wedding and posted about it on social media the morning of the wedding… but I’m petty
15:07 I find it funny that everyone likes to use the excuse that so and so would be disappointed in you when you don't even know if that was the intent of the person at all. You can't say that person would be disappointed in you because you aren't that person and you can't say that person would have done this because you aren't that person. You can't say what the dead would have wanted and you can't say what a living person would have wanted or would be thinking about you because you aren't them you can't be them and you will never be them you can only speculate on what they would have thought and even your would have thought wouldn't even be their actual opinion until you got it from them. If anyone's going to say so and so is going to be disappointed in you or would be disappointed you you might as well shut up because no one gives a damn because you can't speak for the dead or for someone else.
Tell your mom to have fun once she has a medical issue, heart attack, stroke, accident, etc. her perfect man will drop her in a heartbeat and she won't have a daughter to turn to. Your dad would have been disgusted with her.
"[insert name here] has been my rock." Been hearing that phrase many times in other Reddit stories. If you're going to fake a story, at least try to be original.
OP is Just being selfish and stubborn... Wat if her husband had an episode and caused a scene at someone's wedding... She cant impose her disappointing choice on everyone's happy events... Bet would skip husband, to got to friends party and events...
If she’s so stubborn then her mom could’ve simply uninvite her and stop bitching. She’s a grown woman ffs, turning her entire family against her kid because she didn’t like how her mom treated her fiance is childish. That’s like not inviting grandparents because " what if something happens during the wedding " not only that’s a disgusting way of thinking but stupid too. ANYTHING could happen at a wedding. Someone dying is not "making a scene" you’re just weird 🥰🫶
I’m wondering how many flareups he has when there’s something going on in your family how many flareups he had with something involving your mother? Way to go he’s isolating you from your family so he will have a caretaker 24 seven pay attention to the flare up some when they happen I can understand someone not wanting someone at at their wedding to have a flareup and steal the spotlight imagine there’s been a lot of flareups at your side of the family get together‘s or events important to you and your family And no one has the right to try to force someone else to invite people to their wedding. Your family sees the writing on the wall where you can’t I will not.
You bring up a good point, but someone already pointed out a big discrepancy which pretty much reveals this video to be a fake. Example: ops dad was a beloved teacher. Later on, ops mentions that her father turned down a huge contract with a company that wouldn’t hire women in managing positions. Seems really strange that a teacher is making contracts with businesses, doesn’t it?
Dumb comment. If that’s the case, they also can’t force her to come to the wedding. The ableism is just crazy. If someone expected me to come to his/her wedding and specifically told me that I couldn’t bring my girl, I’d pass.
your point of him "wanting to have a caretaker" is stupid af cause she’s literally the one who wanted him at the wedding, at no point he told her to cut her family off, you’re just trying so hard to paint men as villains it’s kinda embarrassing lmfao 😭😭😭😭 Her mom is a grown adult, if she was so stressed she could’ve simply uninvite her daughter from the start. Let’s not enable ableist behavior.
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Being a bridezilla at 50+ and second wedding? Really?
Like Karen you would be in bedridden from how mych you are salty in few years,how about showing gratitude and nice to others.
I was thinking the same. She always dreamed of having her daughter by her side…at her second wedding? Y’all are old! Just go to the courthouse like most second weddings
Not only should OP go full NO CONTACT with her mother, she should also move with her fiance Alex to another state to start their lives afresh.
Oh honey!! You Two should run, have a small intimate wedding, with ALOT of love and laughter... wear a short wedding dress, a veil, a small bouquet to keep and You two have the best wedding and just go for it!!! Be free and be happy!!!❤❤❤❤
What kind of a contract does a teacher reject with a business?
Nice catch. I didn’t even lock on that until you mentioned it.
I was thinking that, too. But I know that many teachers have second jobs, or side hustles. Maybe that's what it was?
@@daniellemitchell3118 Maybe, but there always seems to be something in these stories d that doesn’t quite gel. They seem to forget what they said somewhere else in the story. It is quite jarring. Sometimes it is as simple as names. They start out with one, that suddenly changes in the middle. These are addictive, but they all almost have the same scenarios. So many work in tech start ups. Hobbies are usually hiking, and an amazing number that rediscover painting. Who knew so many people out there painted? The language isn’t quite what an average Joe or Jane would use writing a post either.I am trying to wean myself off, but you just keep getting drawn in. Easy to listen to while doing something else.
Her dad had a stand selling jams and stuff ( which she continues now ) and also bakes so I'm guessing maybe it was a contract for that or maybe a diffrent job opportunity
@@Rebecca-pi7gd See? S side hustle. That makes sense.
I only listen to these little reddit stories for entertainment, but as soon as I heard that this one is partly about someone's Crohn's, it hit different since I have it, too. I never experienced being left out by other people, but I know what it's like having to cancel plans and not want to go anywhere when it flares up, and it's a terrible feeling.
Excluding someone for Crohn's? Weird af
No invite for crohns? Seriously?
At this point, i don't think a single one of the videos I've watched on this channel has been real, which is extremely disappointing.
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16:26 oof, yknow OP going on about how Alex comforted her just makes me wonder if she has comforted him at all through this. Like sure she's doing the right thing but...seems he's bottling up as OP has not ONCE mentioned how he felt.
I mean, OP is so much nicer than me. Since they started talking about eloping, I would have done it the day before the mom’s wedding and posted about it on social media the morning of the wedding… but I’m petty
Stand your ground!!! That is ridiculous
15:07 I find it funny that everyone likes to use the excuse that so and so would be disappointed in you when you don't even know if that was the intent of the person at all. You can't say that person would be disappointed in you because you aren't that person and you can't say that person would have done this because you aren't that person. You can't say what the dead would have wanted and you can't say what a living person would have wanted or would be thinking about you because you aren't them you can't be them and you will never be them you can only speculate on what they would have thought and even your would have thought wouldn't even be their actual opinion until you got it from them. If anyone's going to say so and so is going to be disappointed in you or would be disappointed you you might as well shut up because no one gives a damn because you can't speak for the dead or for someone else.
Tell your mom to have fun once she has a medical issue, heart attack, stroke, accident, etc. her perfect man will drop her in a heartbeat and she won't have a daughter to turn to. Your dad would have been disgusted with her.
Tell your mom you are not going and you won’t invite her to yours . Just to save her from being embarrassed.
Why is every op not checking before opening doors when mentioning uninvited guest at the front door
Ah, the classic "throwing themselves into work" route to recovery. Works every time! 🙄
Sounds like the mom a the one being "too sensitive" about OP's boyfriends condition😂😂😂
Methinks the mom has some SEVERE PTSD from watching her 1st husband die of cancer. She really should have gone to a grief counselor.
"[insert name here] has been my rock."
Been hearing that phrase many times in other Reddit stories. If you're going to fake a story, at least try to be original.
Or life throws you curves or curve balls,
Or we met at a cafe,
AI: By your command.
All these stories are cheesy 80’s shows scenarios 😂😭🤣
If you can think of a better term someone could use, I'd like to hear it.
@@juliaalexander5788or family takes care of each other
and they're all seeing therapists.
Nice to hear a FEMALE AI for a FEMALE OP for once.
My late mother would have been APPALLED at your family's ableism
Tell these two characters kick rocks
😷 JIM, wait until you get sick🏥👨⚕️
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She blocked her email ? How do you do that ?
It varies for different e-mails, but all of them have that feature.
@@shells500tutubo And what does the sneder sees ? A regular "your email was not delivered" message ?
okay.. this was read by AI, but was this and many similar stories also written by AI. Food for thought.
OP is Just being selfish and stubborn... Wat if her husband had an episode and caused a scene at someone's wedding... She cant impose her disappointing choice on everyone's happy events... Bet would skip husband, to got to friends party and events...
What an ableist and disgusting thing to say lmao
If she’s so stubborn then her mom could’ve simply uninvite her and stop bitching. She’s a grown woman ffs, turning her entire family against her kid because she didn’t like how her mom treated her fiance is childish.
That’s like not inviting grandparents because " what if something happens during the wedding " not only that’s a disgusting way of thinking but stupid too. ANYTHING could happen at a wedding.
Someone dying is not "making a scene" you’re just weird 🥰🫶
I’m wondering how many flareups he has when there’s something going on in your family how many flareups he had with something involving your mother? Way to go he’s isolating you from your family so he will have a caretaker 24 seven pay attention to the flare up some when they happen I can understand someone not wanting someone at at their wedding to have a flareup and steal the spotlight imagine there’s been a lot of flareups at your side of the family get together‘s or events important to you and your family And no one has the right to try to force someone else to invite people to their wedding. Your family sees the writing on the wall where you can’t I will not.
You bring up a good point, but someone already pointed out a big discrepancy which pretty much reveals this video to be a fake.
Example: ops dad was a beloved teacher. Later on, ops mentions that her father turned down a huge contract with a company that wouldn’t hire women in managing positions.
Seems really strange that a teacher is making contracts with businesses, doesn’t it?
Dumb comment. If that’s the case, they also can’t force her to come to the wedding. The ableism is just crazy. If someone expected me to come to his/her wedding and specifically told me that I couldn’t bring my girl, I’d pass.
your point of him "wanting to have a caretaker" is stupid af cause she’s literally the one who wanted him at the wedding, at no point he told her to cut her family off, you’re just trying so hard to paint men as villains it’s kinda embarrassing lmfao 😭😭😭😭
Her mom is a grown adult, if she was so stressed she could’ve simply uninvite her daughter from the start. Let’s not enable ableist behavior.