Friendship Envy & Jealousy, Absent Fathers, Dating Older Women & More - The Gents Corner Podcast E56
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ก.พ. 2025
- Welcome to another intellectually stimulating episode of The Gents Corner Podcast Episode 56! In this episode, we dive into thought-provoking discussions that encourage a growth mindset, aimed specifically at young adults seeking deeper conversations. Join us as we explore the complexities of friendships, fatherhood, and dating dynamics.
Episode Highlights:
Friendship Envy and Jealousy: We discuss how envy and jealousy can affect friendships among guys, and how to differentiate between feeling envious and being inspired by friends.
The Role of a Father: The crew opens up about their personal relationships with their fathers, exploring how having an absent father can impact one’s life and development.
Dating Older vs. Younger Women: We weigh the pros and cons of dating older women versus younger women, debating the perception that older women are more mature, understanding, and reasonable, while younger women can sometimes be more challenging.
This episode is packed with honest, vulnerable, and insightful conversations that will resonate with young adults looking to enhance their understanding of important life topics. Don't miss out on these meaningful discussions!
Keywords: The Gents Corner Podcast, intellectually stimulating, growth mindset, young adults, friendship envy, jealousy, absent fathers, fatherhood, dating older women, dating younger women, relationships, personal growth.
Tune in for this deep and engaging episode! Like, comment, and subscribe for more valuable content from The Gents Corner Podcast. Join the conversation and share your thoughts with us!
Tags:
#TheGentsCornerPodcast #Episode56 #IntellectuallyStimulating #GrowthMindset #YoungAdults #FriendshipEnvy #Jealousy #AbsentFathers #Fatherhood #DatingOlderWomen #DatingYoungerWomen #RelationshipAdvice #PersonalGrowth #OpenChats #podcastepisodes
🚨 Operators let’s follow Gents Corner on Instagram and TikTok to be able to request questions and send the Teams some requests
I disagree with fodo on that part where he says guys run away because of they didn't want to have a child with the girl they were with
Personally this happened to me I got pregnant very early the guy knew never told me..he always talked about it,we would joke around about that and I actually found out very late that I am pregnant it was too late for an abortion and gave birth to a wonder baby boy
My point is sometimes guys come to women with bad intentions and interests they only think of themselves and what to gain in the whole situation maybe he saw that as an opportunity to make sure that i seem less attractive to other guys he only knows what he was thinking but
either way he lost me because we had a huge fall out we broke up
He wanted a son,he got a son & hardly sees him
So word of the day "a baby can either make or break a relationship"
I would love to revisit this conversation with the podcast members someday
I THINK WE CAN ALL AGREE THAT THE GENTS CONER SHOULD KEEP LEHLOHONOLO...What a smart guy😊😊...OPERATING FROM NAMIBIA 🇳🇦
Agreed
If we can just stop attacking the dude for his features.. he he's smart totally agree with you bro
Love GC, Hlogi keep cooking my brother, love ur deep thinking, mindset. "A 5's works three tymz, including mkng herself beautiful better than A 10's. "think of a child to tke both parents genes n brains"
Listening to the guy in the middle is hella refreshing he is so complex
❤Lehlohonono is a gem bro I can't imagine gents corner without him
Shout out brother
Guys corner is intellectually Engaging with bro s around the country.....we need more episodes please.....I watch every episode fully ❤❤❤
I used to judge my friends who didn't want to forgive their fathers or cousins who wanted nothing to do with their dads. But now I realize it's okay when people choose not to associate themselves with their dads anymore, because sometimes the violation can be so extreme that it's better to move on with your life than to try and mend things.
I feel what Mtho is saying, a friendship with Dad is always good. My father good man, provider but a friendship would have helped me alot
As long as the content is proper we don't mind the energy Brother Mtho
been watching open chats for some time and i must say, Mtho is a very smart guy with high intellect. He doesnt think like your regular guy you meet often, lowkey attractive
LEHLOHONOLO is Smart Stay in your lane avoid distraction an depression
Over someone's success
Gents corner is the place to be every Thursday 🌟🌟 the episode is so relatable and these are kind of conversations we should have with our boys .
Nah this was a good episode. The topics were a bit more serious and thoughtful and sometimes that’s the kind of chats that need to be had. Can’t always be about gwababa sometimes it gets as serious as talking about our relationships with our dads
Mtho saying this episode is pap😂 what do you mean bro. Each and every gents podcast episode I've watched are good
Wonderful episode on "The Gents Corner" amazing views on all gents, from Mtho, Tlhogi, and Fodo.
The episode was not "pap" as Mtho hand mentioned, the gents tackled a wide range of issues, from Fatherhood, to aspirations of being a father one day, and being a good and responsible gent, such an episode as this one didn't need a sense of hype and noise, because there was an interchange of perspectives between the gents.
On the girlfriend allowance chat, in my humble opinion, there are both genuine 10's and average looking girls who really know how to take care of a gent without expecting anything in return, because they love, and it's in their hearts to be generous and kind.
And there are those gents who are good looking and handsome, and those who are not so good looking looking who have hearts of gold, who treat women very well.
The issue is when a girl demands to be given "girl allowance", like that it's a serious problem, and I wouldn't even entertain that if I am with a girl like that.
Another chat that got my attention was the chat of dating a 10 with no brains, verses a 3 or a 5 who has brains.
I totally agree with Tlogi that chemistry is important because that is what brings people together, and when the element of communication comes into play, that is what determines if people are going to be together or not, so beauty does matter to some degree or extent, however, it is not that important beause beauty attracts the eyes, but a beautiful personality attracts the heart.
So overall, I really enjoyed the gents corner, for me it was an absolute banger 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥 so I really hope for more enlightening and fun episodes.
This was fire episode 🔥🔥🔥🔥❤❤❤💯🚀
Just to clear the air,beautiful,smart, and nurturing women are there. The boring and stuck-up persona is a defense mechanism. Men who truly are deserving will get the perks once they've proven themselves
I’m a lady in my 30’s very much happily married and I must say Fodo is a very matured young man ,his reasoning capacity is beyond his age ,he knows what he wants and understands the method required to get what he wants , through how he conversed one can tell that he doesn’t hang out with guys his age but older men who have had real life experiences and the will be a win for that in future (indlela Ibuzwa kwabaphambili).I’ve also observed how Motho intentionally chooses to misquote him which he then ends up being misunderstood but overall great balance there with Lehlogonolo he is a need to help keep the balance although I don’t like how he ends up finding himself having to mediate between the 2, all I can say in closing Motho needs to let Fodo be and understand that he has his own life choices , 15years from now this young man will teach you a lot about life he is a visionary and it unlikely for a man with such a solid vision at such a young age to not execute only wisdom can comprehend this kind of man I pray he get a woman who believes in his vision.
I think gents corner is kindaa better than openchat because here we don't take things personal... Unlike on the openchat, hence that's why ladies sometimes don't share that much but hopefully the ladies will learn to not take everything personal
The episode was good bro, I liked the father's day chat I almost cried reflecting about my father
Dankoe Gents, keep cooking!!🧑🍳
So much education😭❤‼
Big ups to the operators🔥💪
It seems low because more talks were real. It a wow episode.
This was a great episode gents. We are not here for just energy but the engaging men to men conversations. Don’t make this mistake again gents please.
the last part should be the intro of every episode bafethu😂😂
Truly a Gentleman's corner, I'm just complaining about the consistency. Otherwise these are are wholesome conversations. 👏🏽🍻
We here for Mtho's laugh🔥
Bro lehlohonolo's interlect is on onother level
Hey guys i am half south african (zulu) and Nigerian right..i grew up with my mom and dad ,2 years later my dad left and went to Nigeria and i was left with mommy...my mom toke care of me and my lil sister for specific years ..then years later ,my sister and i stayed in a orphanage for 5 years cause my mom disappeared and till today she is no where to be found ...after time my granny saved us from the orphanage and we stayed with her till today ...my dad showed up ,he is responsible but i don't have that thing in me to build a relationship ..and life tought to me be self depended .....
Haiboo im here after a minute that the podcast was posted, okay wow 🤣🤣 lets go Cheif
Lehlogohonolo u are killing it the topics u bring up😊👌😉😉😉
This episode touched me a lot on the father topic. I am a lady, grew up without knowing who my father is,just recently found him but it's still hard to have a relationship with him coz he's on the other side of the country. I've always wished to have a father daughter kinda relationship. But where I am going with this,I am now a mom of 2 boys,what made me to be still with their father is that,I don't want my sons to grow up without their father like I did. So even when me and my partner fight,I make it a point that we end up on the same page,coz I love him but most importantly coz I love my kids more to grow up with both their parents.
Thanks for this segment, y'all show is mature and addictive 💊 💊
This is one of the best comments, you are an absolutely amazing mother for ensuring that your kid's have a father (women we have so much power in building homes- we are home builders), most ladies would just leave wen fights occur without wanting to fix issues nd not considering kids. You are amazing. 🤍🤍🤍
Shout out to you ❤❤❤❤
This episode really touched on topics that re sensitive.
loved the diversity in opinions 👏 Danko guys
Dankoe chiefff was waiting for this one🎉...2 weeks of no operation was worth the wait
There’s a thin line between wanting to be someone and envy/ jealousy, the genuine thing is to be happy for that person and continue working on yourself know that y’all are not the same.
Everyone has their own path.
I could never want what another person has.
On the other hand you’re kinda right
There is healthy competition between homie we’re he gets something and you’re like I could do better type shii
That’s good
But be genuinely happy for one another.
this was a wholesome episode. we need a lot more of these.
Mind opening conversation 🫡🔥🔥
I enjoy the gents corner you guys are amazing, loving all of you for your different perspectives on things... Big up hey and keep those episodes coming 🎉
Men's conference. You guys keep sharing knowledge, salute to you
That song Mtho Damn🤌❤️🔥
Thanks for the subtitles
U guys are doing the most, thanks for the content
More content like this gents, y’all are really operating on another levol 💎!
Shout out to you guyz you really motivating us🔥🔥✌️
Mtho is waaaaaay too smart awww ngeke. Mtho bra you very smart take it as a compliment
Nice one, Gents 👌🏼 yal being real is really what makes the show. @Mtho…have more faith in your work. This is good; def on track👏🏻
could listen to this all day 💯love kenya❤
Been waiting for a drop 🧘🏾♂️, I wish you could be more consistent🙏🏽
wow damn idk whos missing but this session was so mature keep it this way this cast will defiantly reach the mountain tops ... well done gents i enjoyed from the minute go
This episode is the best for me so far 🔥
Gents corner We want more 🏋️🏋️🏋️
Awesome and vulnerable chat the guys had today!!
GNC keep us engaged and kp Cooking.. As a single woman raising a young man now, the father/boy relationship got to me. However we watch together with my boy.
Lets keep talking with young boys so they become better than their fathers.
Lets teach our gals to respect, be honest, independent and avoid pinning paternity to wrong man, it usually ends bad regardless how long the truth comes out.
Overall ❤❤❤
This episode was fire👌👌💯
Fire, nothing but Fire Topics🔥
I don't know whats the name of the guy in black but he said the truth when it comes to intelligence and maturity we mature faster
But you age much faster aswell.
If you see men in their 40s they can look much younger than women in the same age range.
Pros and cons
seskhona early early😂
Surely this is gents corner 🎉
Dankie Bro I feel different right now 👏🏾, keep cookin 🔥
1:07:31 :I hear give her everything so she is not dependent on you or stays cause of what you give her. Now what happens if it’s the other way around. You give her her the opportunity to be independent but she feels like she has to stay with you no matter what cause she is where she is because of the doors you opened for her (like a mini guilt situation)
❤😢Lehlohonono much love from Capetown bro
I actually enjoy both of the segments
I ROOT FOR YOU GENTS🤟I LOVE THE CONTENT
Mtho 's character is more like me, keep episodes coming
We planning on doing fundraising 😴 so that you gents drop episodes more often.😅reply how much y’all want as budget😄.”no offence✋”
Ngl the knowledge Im chowing here gents is too much
This is so relatable😫🥺
Danko open chats ended gwababac with help of last weeks episode 😌🔥🔥
The energy here is too much🫡
okes, id appreciate time stamps on the topics y’all engage on. 🙏🏾😭
Operators, let us mark the register 👊🏽
Loving Gents corner ❤❤❤
Where Mtho is I am there ,keep cooking gents love you guys, Sino must also join, also gents force him even if it's just one day.😂👊
Yeah, I'd like to see how that would go😂🤞
Really loved this episode
i actually called my father after this episode
moreeee gents corner!!!!
1:15:28 "STARING AT HER WHEN SHE IS ASLEEP" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 on some Dahmer shit....maaaan eye candy will be the end of us.
thank you for the beautiful episode
sometimes people need to leave so that you get extra motivation finish you plan
This are the type of conversation I wanna have with my Gents, but we keep on talking abt other people's situations n other dumb things, coz now I've tried a conversation of such now she's talking abt why am I asking that, acting all mad. 😂💔
I love this episode.❤
Favorite episode 🥺❤️🔥🔥
I agree with Mtho, get a young girl that is willing to be taught by you.
This is because as man you will be in a favorable position in the relationship due to the fact that ladies tend to be more attracted to guys older than them and they also look up to them.
As a result, it makes it easier for them to be lead and taught to be better partners/wives.
Much love from Namibia!!!
We picking the 10/10😂 no matter what
Mtho cooked there 1:15:20😂😂🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🤞
Sa wara Mtho🔥👊🏼,you killed gents🔥👌🏼😹
Lehlohonolo our Nota 🙏🏼 very smart gent.
Lets jus say its our nature ...plus as for me life is all about competition 😢
Gents corner is really interesting
To us who like b4 playing cz we knw u nvr disappoints
Lee is soo smart.
MTHO IS VERY WELL-SPOKEN DAMN… DID HE GO TO A PRIVATE SCHOOL?
Fodo, “the devil’s advocate”😅✊🏾
Operation on motion.... There we go 🥂
Fodo you cooking my brada, the Ice boy example is the one... and mostly the ice boys chow mooi huns.
Love the show
Finally danko 😮💨😭😭💯
Operating from Namibia 🇳🇦
Danko Gents❤Real Charts
Let's go keep cooking chief 🗿🤝🏽🔥
Mtho is like bae..that guy hates being asked money 😂😂 but he will give you when he wants to ..but i love that its more often 😊😊..mara when u ask him...woooooo
I relate so much to this😅
My Story and Fodo about his Dad is 100% similar actually it’s 1000%
The way he is describing his Dad, his relationship with his Dad is exactly similar to my Dad and our relationship, I don’t hate the man but I don’t want him in my life or to have any sort of a relationship with him
I actually felt like Fodo is describing my Dad and our relationship
But unlike Fodo I want to be a father so bad bro , I want to be a better version of him in everything
It's about to get down 😂