My entire family was worried that my sister was gonna destroy our mothers older car if she found out it was being given to me. For context, I'm older, pregnant, and have a 2 year old, and my boyfriend has a 2 door car that seems to be cursed with issue after issue, but we have our own place. My sister had been living with my mother so she was being allowed full use of the car that was promised to me that my mother knew was in bad shape and she knew my sister was making it worse. She continued to let her drive my car instead of her main car because her main one had expired tags and my sister had a criminal speeding ticket so she could go to jail if she got pulled over in the untagged car. The solution was nobody told my sister I was being given the car and the family bought her a car so she wouldn't complain when I was given the one she had already run into the ground after I was told it would be taken away from her. Shes always had that victim mentality and thinks the whole world owes her everything. Its quite exhausting
The second story reminds me so much of when I got engaged. When my fiancé (now husband) and I shared the news with my family, my older sister's immediate response was and I quote "Well, I'm going to go get hit by a bus." Ten she stormed off and refused to talk to us. Later she was pissed that I wasn't including her in or sharing any of the wedding details with her. She has always wanted everything to be about her, needs to be the first, and get the best of everything. If she doesn't get her way she will ruin everything for everyone else. I now live thousands of miles away and it's the best decision my husband and I made.
does she realise why she doesn't have what you have for multitudes of reasons? most sane people are not like the first story's john and will marry you even if you had a bad attitude LOL
OP's friend should have waited to arrest her at the alter😂!!! This way everyone will know what was done to the car and Who did it😢!!! With OP's explanation about the laws in her country, this was probably the best way to go. But that B won't learn any lessons from it, except for "I'm above the law because daddy will always bail me out"😮!!! Maybe daddy can talk to her about how he will eventually die & she will have no one left to bail her out, but also no friends either!
0:08 THE GLOOOOOW THE HAAAAIIIIIIE YES MY QUEEN OF GODDESSES SLAY MG EYES AWAAAAAY 🤩😍👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😍 you are such a STUNNERRRREER 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🥰🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩
No more likely "AITA from banning my sister from my wedding cause she wants her boyfriend to propose during my reception?" Energy Vampires would jump on that shit
Mike screaming "Subscribe!" halfway through totally got me. One of my friends (also a Charlotte fan) likes to scream "Subscribe!" when she wants to end something. Like when she broke up with her boyfriend. She told me the entire story and then at the end said "So you know ...Subscribe!"
@@ArtificialPerson She is! (sweet of you to mention it) Charlotte-isms are perfect to sprinkle into conversation when you need to add levity to any situation. Potato Queen is out here doing gods work :)
I've had an energy vampire as a friend before. They made sure if I liked a guy, that guy was "hitting on them"; if I got a promotion at work, they also got a promotion at the same job; if I was upset, they thought I was mad at them and start to cry; if I liked certain bands, they saw every concert. I was constantly one up every time and it was emotionally exhausting. When I was moved to a different area of the job, they went around saying about how mean I was to them and told other people how I didn't like them. This is still an ongoing issue even though I stopped talking to them 8 months ago.
Why not report them to HR? If you could get some proof of them defaming you maybe you could get them fired and you wouldn’t have to see them ever again 🤷🏻♀️
I can't believe the groom went ahead with the wedding after finding out his bride is completely psychotic enough to destroy a car that isn't hers, because someone told her no.
poor man was probably scared for his life thinking “ if she can do that to car, what the hell could she do to me???” and went ahead with it. ..or he’s crazier than she is 🤷🏻♀️
My husband and I have been doing this 😂😅 whilst talking about our Family Drama in the car yesterday my husband looks at me and Together in PERFECT UNISON Dobre Style we said "HOW ARE YOU NOT EMBARRASSED!!!!" ! (Maybe I need to write an AITA post about all of it bc it is pretty ridiculous and maybe a bit of petty sprinkled in 😉😜)
Yeah and I highly doubt he’s gonna let her be independent long enough. There was even a court trial where a daughter directly caused the injury and then death of her father and he still tried to protect her from fault. He spent his final days trying to protect her from the consequences OF KILLING HIM. I have zero faith in enabling ass parents like these.
Her definition of "engaged" doesn't change the actual definition of being engaged which requires both parties to have knowledge and actually consent to marriage.
I find this part of the story a bit problematic though, because I actually agree with this bit. The whole "oh Where's your ring then" is a bit gross to me. You can totally call someone your husband if you chose never to get married, at least where I'm from, because a 40 Yr old man might not want to be referred to as a boyfriend. Also, the ring is a symbol. I know lots of couples who didn't want rings, preferred to spend their money on something else, or never even did a proposal moment. Doesn't mean you're not engaged. That doesn't take away from the behavior of stealing the attention, that's still weird. But I feel like this is one of those stories that could definitely have a whole other side to them.
@@Ruby-yn5fp You are kind of right about the ring. The couple might want to spend the money on something else rather than a ring . I completely agree with that and being engaged doesn't have to be necessarily with a ring But it should be about the couple wanting to be engaged and potentially married in future. Like if a couple have not agreed or even talked about getting married in future or let's not say marriage but if your partner has not officially asked to be engaged with you ( rings aren't necessary) then my dear you aren't engaged. Doesn't mean what your definition of being engaged is but it does involve two person and their consent not just any one of the partner's .
@@Ruby-yn5fpI’m sorry but I disagree. Yes, people can technically do whatever they want. But at the end of the day, words have meaning. Ring or not, being engaged means that someone asked you to marry them. And it sounds like the boyfriend didn’t propose. It seems like they just had a discussion about getting married in the future. Just because couples speak of marriage, doesn’t make them engaged. If that was the case, then every boyfriend and girlfriend who ever mentioned it to each other would have that title. Even though the bf didn’t care that she was going around calling him her fiancé and didn’t want to embarrass her, they aren’t engaged.. because he didn’t propose. That adds to the fact that it’s giving attention seeking behavior. The word husband also has a definition. It is when you make a commitment before God and/or contractually with the government. So just because people throw around these words out of convenience or wanting to sound more mature, it doesn’t make it true. Like I said, at the end of the day, people can do or say whatever they want. But again, words have meaning and if you aren’t going to use them correctly, that’s fine. People are free to do what they want. But just don’t expect other people to play along while you change the definitions.
Reminds me a bit of my younger sister. It KILLS her when I'm the center of attention, and my mother has always coddled her. But, whatever, she's divorced, and I just celebrated my 7th wedding anny with the best guy in the world. It's funny how things turn out 😂
Bffr. He’s terribly unfunny and boring.. He tries way too hard to be funny on camera, it’s so forced and cringey. Happy for her/them, but she’s better off not trying to force videos with him to work. Or keep doing your own vids and try something separate/couple specific that might feel more natural.
@@CharlotteDobre What has been posted is true, you both have a great energy together. One thought here from me; the duo presentation all the time might be too much. We don’t want to lose you & your personality. Don’t get me wrong… I think Mike is adorable and clearly he truly loves you, he adds a bit too much sugar to the ‘Charlotte Sundae’. Great blessings to you both! I can’t wait to see a living Charlotte & Mike creation…with your gorgeous hair to boot! (The lucky grandparents will be over the moon!❤️) Signed, a brand new NONNA (grandmother)😘
The straight-up JEALOUSY of the sister was PATHETIC, and the fact that mommy and daddy had to protect her LIE (not a "different definition of engaged" like her daddy called it) and smoothe her ruffled feathers, says everything I need to know about that family dynamic. I will never understand people who bend over backwards for the biggest SPOILED-BRATS and then treat the reasonable adults like crap.
Because they want to placate them so they don’t have to endure their wrath. They know they raised a sociopath with narcissistic tendencies and it’s easier to baby her than deal with the drama if they don’t.
@@Littlelikeme92when I was born my grandma told my mom, do not raise her for you, raise her for the world. When I was little I didn't understand what she meant, nowadays I get it. When someone throws a tantrum their family might deal with it and accept the behavior but that doesn't mean everyone else will. My grandmother was wise ❤
Yeah like, if they officially decided that they were engaged and going to get married but just didn't do a ring or a proposal or anything that's one thing. But if only one person is actively planning on getting married while the other is just thinking about possibly getting married in the future maybe, that is something else entirely. It isn't a different definition of being engaged because they are literally not engaged. You can't be engaged to someone without them knowing about it.
I had a family dynamic like this. They still treat the golden child with kids gloves and she's in her mid '50s. I haven't been around her in many years now. 🎉
Man Mike is like a live action animation. I love it so much! Some people add partners to their channels and it changes for the worst but I’m soooo glad adding him has been such a great addition. Plus it’s awesome to see how you two interact. The Petty Fam stans this hardcore 🤘🏾🤘🏾
He said "I'd call the Sopranos to come slash their tires" 😂😂 Mike needs a raise 😂😂 Love when he joins your videos, he matches your potato-ness so well. Queen Potato and King Spud...
@ruthbrewer466 I think it's her own hair, if you watch older videos her hair is shorter, and it's growing. One video she talked about acting and needing it shorter for photos, because the photographer would have to be farther away to get her hair in the picture.
That last story… I’m the oldest in my family. I have four younger siblings, and one twin brother that is no longer here in a physical sense, two girls, two boys. One of my younger sisters just got married! 😊 I can’t imagine, as her older sister, being anything but joyful, proud, and happy for her! When she asked me to go wedding dress shopping with her, just me and a couple of her friends, I cried! I felt so, so honored that she wanted me there. I burst into tears when she came out in the first dress(which ended up being the ONE 😉). The wedding was beautiful! She actually married a friend of mine. 😊 I just don’t understand trying to steal their light. I would do anything to see them shining! 🥰
You ever see those couples where you go, 'Oh, they make total sense together.' Definitely how I felt watching this video, congratulations on the engagement!
I read your comment and not even two seconds later I look up and Mike yelled ‘SUBSCRIBE’ in the middle of the video, so yeah, I agree 🤣🤣🤣🥰🥰🥰 so happy for them! 🥹
22:41 As someone who has sisters and is petty, I would’ve commented “let’s see the ring, I have mine!” And post a picture of my ring. Just put her on blast in front of all her friends who don’t know the full story.😂
The ADORABLENESS of the whole "we just got engaged too!" exchange makes me believe in my heart of hearts that your marriage will last for literal MILLENIA! 🥰
The sister making her younger sister's engagement all about herself is absolutely unhinged. I am an older sister who just literally watched her younger sister get married like 3 weeks ago. She met her now husband a year after my boyfriend and I started dating. Was I a smidge jealous or upset when I first heard she was engaged before me? Maybe, for like a second. Did I EVER act out on those feelings? HELL NO!!!! I was so excited to watch my little sister marry the love of her life! I was the most supportive big sister I could be and even helped her plan her honeymoon at Disney next month! The sister from that story needs major therapy and her parents need to stop enabling her bad behavior.
Absolutely agree with you. I have two daughters and the eldest has known her partner since they were 4 years old, having eventually become high school sweethearts. My youngest daughter knew of her now husband at high school but they didn't start dating until after leaving school. He is serving in the Royal Navy and a very traditional chap by nature so when he decided to propose he enlisted the help of my eldest who couldn't wait to get on board with the 'surprise' and made sure everything was perfect from the champagne and rose petals to fairy lights and more. She spearheaded the Hen party weekend away and then went on to be the most supportive MOH ( I'm sure there may have been moments when she imagined one day it will be her turn but she did everything she could and more to ensure her little sisters dreams were met) Its 4 weeks since the Wedding day and we all have beautiful memories of an idyllic English country wedding which perfectly suited my youngest daughter and her husband. Truth be told we all know when my eldest and her partner eventually marry it will be a very different event and that's fine too! For me one of my most cherished memories will be the MOH speech (that wasn't a thing in my day so I must say I was a bit surprised to hear she would beaking one)! The heartfelt things she said of her sister and new husband were very touching I truly hope the bond they share is never broken and when I hear these accounts from others I realise its not yo be taken for granted. 😁
I think OP should make sure that she has passwords attached to all of her vendors. I saw this from another TH-camr on one of the stories that she did. The future mother-in-law was continuously trying to change things about the cake, the dress, the flowers and so the bride put a password with each vendor so that only someone with the password could make changes or inquire about specifics about the venue or the food or the flowers or the cake. It saved her a lot of heartache because the future mother-in-law could not sabotage her wedding and I have a feeling that this sister would try to sabotage if she could.
Not only that, but have Ashley and Chris GUARDED during the reception the whole time because I will bet everything that Ashley tells him to propose at her sister's wedding and that OP said it was okay. I guarantee it!
Honestly this should be a default for vendors and venues anyway, it baffles me that it isn't given how much weddings cost and how many dreams go into a wedding.
Just love you two together, Charlotte won me over on her own and the addition of Mike is pure delight. Wanted you to know I’m 65 years old and take great pleasure in keeping up with what those in my son’s age group are all about. I find your level-headedness, honesty and transparency so refreshing and it gives me such hope for the future. You seem to have your priorities straight and put out the positive energy this world needs. Keep up the great work, I’ll be watching!
It was a pleasure to read your comment. Complete sentences and properly spelled words are so nice! ❤ Your sentiment is lovely. I agree with your conclusion. 😊
Last story: I don't think you need a ring or anything other than a "Will you marry me?" to be engaged, so I would say they are. HOWEVER the guy sounds like he's just going along with it, and the sisters behaviour of taking everyone's attention is still absolutely inappropriate (and the timing is of course suspicious too)
That's the thing tho.. They just discussed about it.. Not decide when they would marry.. It's like having a serious discussion about wanting to get married with a long time partner ; like " What do u thing about marriage?" .. While on the other hand asking verbally, " Let's get married soon. Or " Will you marry me " .. I hope I'm being clear.. 😂😂
It’s actually true… where I live engagement is not a huge thing, people just agree on getting married. I don’t know anyone who have had official enagement with fancy event, proposal, ring, etc. So, I do agree that the definition of engagement doesn’t have to be the same. But on the other hand, to get married, both parties have to agree on it. 😂
Yeah this doesn't make any sense. Like I could say I'm an army veteran without having undergone any military training, "but my definition is not the same as yours" 😂
@@Trammiliin_nr2 I agree. My spouse and I did everything low key: just the two of us for the question, followed by wedding at the courthouse where I grew up (cool building) and lunch with friends afterwards. I’m amazed at all the hoopla that comes along with some engagements, but DANG, someone has to at least “pop the question.” Sis didn’t even have that going for her and Mom just hopped on board the crazy train. 🤣
I agree! I start every morning with coffee & watching random YT while I wake up - and I'm so happy when there is a new wedding drama video from Charlotte!
YES COUPLES EPISODE! When I saw you were on the couch I literally squealed I genuinely love these, it's so nice seeing Charlotte interacting with another person during her commentary- especially when it's someone she has as much chemistry with as her FIANCE!!!
Charlotte the more I watch these videos of you two together, the more I’m convinced you found your soulmate. The way you match each others energy is something to behold ❤ I’ve never been happier for a stranger!
I love the dynamic between Charlotte and Mike. Thats real love, thats that "our habits and mannerisms have rubbed off on each other because we love each other so much" type of love... And i LOVE TO SEE IT❤
Normally when a content creator adds someone else to their channel it changes the vibe so much, but Mike and Charlotte match each other’s energy so well 😍
I'm an extrovert and i'm the only one in my family who's not with someone special. I've seen all of my siblings get married, have kids, buy houses, etc. I'm an artist and focussed much on my art, needless to say, i don't have much. I have never been jealous of anyone in my family and always have been proud of their success, that's called love and being mature enough to be happy for others. These bridezillas are simply entitled brats and immature as hell. By the way, you look ravishing Charlotte, you and Mike make an awesome couple! Much love from a fellow Canadian ❤ 🇨🇦
Some can feel "complete" on their own - especially when we've made a choice to live as an Artist (or just on our own terms really) instead of dreaming about it happening "one day". (that angst alone requires so much energy) I find the freedom worth more than any amount of money. When you fulfill your soul's calling, your heart is full. Partnered love can then become another choice, not an expectation.
I love red hair and red tint in hair. My hair is bright golden blonde but it looks very red in low light. I love it. And I always do a double take any time I see a red head. Love the natural reds too. As well as the bright vibrant red. Most people have a pink tint to their skin, as long as you have rosy over tones or under tones, you’ll look amazing.
@@CharlotteDobre I’ve got a dark copper in my hair now but it’s so dark I’ve had to make a slow transition. I’ll be posting in your comments one day ☺️😂❤️❤️
The first one was one of the BEST stories everrrr! 😂 I super lol’ed at Mike yelling “SUBSCRIBE”. You guys are a great couple, so happy for you, congratulations 🍾 🎉
“People will click off the video” Charlotte be for real you know damn well MAJORTIY of us watch the full video because we love your quirky personality 😁🥰
10:18 if her cousin had driven her car w/o a license and got pulled over he would be going to jail and the car would be impounded and cost a fortune to get it out of impound, not to mention the possibility of damage that could be done by careless wrecker driver. Also, god knows how long that the local PD may want to keep the car for evidence, all the while occurring daily impound fees.
Once again, congratulations on your engagement! I'm happy that you both found someone that matches your vibe and allows you to do a super villain laugh together. Best of wishes!
when my FIL unalived himself, my SIL went full blown grief for like 2 or 3 years. unsterstandable. completely. however, her best friends got pregnant and were super excited a year or so after his death, and here is what she said to them ver batim when they told her" i dont want to hear about your happiness. it is overshadowing my grief and i dont ever want to hear about this again." when the kid was born, they of course didnt tell her. she lost her SHIT and said they were keeping him from her for some VERY weird reasons. she tried to get them to name him after her dad. there is more but its not worth airing her laundry any further. people lose their minds over stuff
My prayers go out to you both. Grief is a wild thing. Yet that behavior is unacceptable. She needs therapy and two chill pills. Respectfully. Stay positive boo 😘
@@UnpopularOpinion3000 shes still in therapy. its been 20 years, but she is much better. it just consumed her at the time. literally. she was a void for a while. just stared into windows. etc. shes fine now but still goes to therapy, which is why shes ok still i suppose.
Wow! Her poor “friends”. I hope they took space from her to enjoy their blessing. It’s natural to be hurting that life goes on for everyone else while you’re in pain. But to try to force that onto others is very twisted.
@@dcarter455 i felt that way as well. i personally havent ever forgiven some of the things she said and did during that time. but like i said, grief does wild things to people
As an older sister and the oldest sibling i am probably the most extroverted around our family and friends, but it never even crossed my mind to be anything but supportive for both my siblings on their wedding days and everyday. I did get married first but we went to our courthouse and had an extremely small get together at my brother in laws house. I got married in a skirt and blouse. My younger sister and brother had the huge themed gala style event with the big expensive dresses and i was happy to be a part of both and more concerned that I be there when they needed me.
Right?? Like who does that ?? I'm also the oldest sister and I'm so proud and happy for every milestone my siblings hit if they get attention for smth you better believe I'm standing right next to them smiling from ear to ear and telling everyone how amazing my siblings are
I know two sisters. The older of the two married first; her husband was a banker. the younger sister just married an "electrician" according to the older sister. the eldest was a bridezilla, her husband cheated on her immediately after the wedding. the younger one is still happy
I’m getting married in just under 3 weeks and my preparation over the last few months has involved watching your AITA videos - I am neurodivergent so I don’t always pick up on social contexts and what is acceptable/what is me being too over sensitive. I am so pleased to say the planning has gone smoothly and I am surrounded by beautiful women who I can’t wait to get glammed up with on the day and enjoy the special occasion with our nearest and dearest. Your videos really help me to see how blessed I am and that (hopefully) I am not too much of a bridezilla. Thank you ❤
My older brother is an extrovert and I’m an introvert. I half joke that he talked enough for both of us growing up, and it hasn’t really changed now that we’re adults lol. Glad he’s not like. . . *that*
22:42 and think long and hard about having a relationship with OP’s parents too, there’s clearly favouritism and they pander to sisters every need and make excuses for her
I have a comment on reddit on the first story. As someone who went to school for Graphic Design, and have done it for money, it is crazy. Graphic Design is everything. Logos, letterhead, graphics on clothes, billboards, book covers, food labels, and the list goes on. So, her cousin can have the last laugh, but she had no clue how important it is, and the work. I have done hours and days and a week or weeks on certain projects. Depending on size and changes needed.
Yesssss! You said this perfectly! I also always hear, “why do you charge so much? I could do this!” Lol, to which I always reply in the kindest voice, “Ok, then you do it if there’s no need for me. I wish you the best!” And then they usually back peddle pretty quickly. 😂
We live in a visual world with advertising, websites, books and magazines either in print or online Graphic Design is key even on clothes if it is printed fabric someone designed it
10:00 I think the husband has to blink slowly for help.She doesn't respect the law, doesn't respect people's property, doesn't respect her husband, as she cut off his entire family.
23:24 heres the thing about info diet. If OP tells ANYONE else about her plans she risks it getting back to the sister. So OP will have to isolt herself from all mutals to protect herself and engagment, thats simply no fair in the slightest for her. She should get her chance to shines too. If she keeps quiet her sister wins. No one is talking about OP so the focuse goes back to sister.
OR, she should share some ABSOLUTELY nauseating color scheme, flowers - everything…and talk nonstop about it (while planning the actual, beautiful scheme in private), and wait for sister to copy “her” wedding 😎
i agree. people shouldn't have to hide the things theyre looking forward from the people in their life because one may try to copy it. you have one life, so being open with your loved ones about things you love will make you happier in the long run. its not the event that matters, its the those at the event who matter.
I will never complain about Mike being in a video!😹 I love you two together, and seeing his personality just further shows how perfect you both are for each other💗
I‘ve watched so many videos of Charlotte and this is my first time watching her with her fiancé . Now I see how perfectly made for each other they are!! Haha 😄
LOVE the curly puffy hair!!! Also Mikes long intros are HILARIOUS! 😂❤ we love you two in this house! The boys and I always bust a gut and say a lot “wow” “Holly cow” and “I can’t believe it!” . You guys make our day.
Omg you two are sooooo cute!! It's also okay that he's still learning but the cutest thing is how you two play off of eachother and support eachother!! I'm here for it!!
10:07 if she really just wanted to show up in the Mercedes, having a driver should’ve been good enough. She could be in the back with champagne, but nooooo, instead she showed her true colors. She deserves to face some consequences, for sure! 😐 The father should make her pay him back, otherwise she won’t learn a lesson. She sounds like a nightmare! 😵💫
Look I'm extroverted while my sister is introverted and I have BPD but when my sister got married I made sure I was there for her. Was I jealous? Sure. But I would never take the spotlight. I don't understand how people could do that to their own sister or best friends.
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THE TWO OF YOU TOGETHER!!!!! I'm here for more you and Mike content. Congratulations on your upcoming wedding, so happy you found someone that matches your energy and vibe.
I am LIVING for the hair this way, WOO! 🔥😍
STUNNING AND ON FIRE!
You beat me to it that hair is STUNNING
Agreed!
Girl she looks phenomenal 😍😍
Right? It. Is. GO-JUS!
Mike yelling “Subscribe” halfway through the video and your “No” had me CACKLING. You’re too cute together.
Same! 😂
Came here to say this 😂😂😂 best part
He really wanted to say it ^_^
The laugh I needed
Same lol 😂😂😂😂
WTF!? Who destroys someone else's car just because they didn't get permission to use it!? I can't believe the groom still wanted to marry that psycho.
He better never cross her or try to divorce her 😂😂
He better never cross her or try to divorce her 😂😂
My entire family was worried that my sister was gonna destroy our mothers older car if she found out it was being given to me. For context, I'm older, pregnant, and have a 2 year old, and my boyfriend has a 2 door car that seems to be cursed with issue after issue, but we have our own place. My sister had been living with my mother so she was being allowed full use of the car that was promised to me that my mother knew was in bad shape and she knew my sister was making it worse. She continued to let her drive my car instead of her main car because her main one had expired tags and my sister had a criminal speeding ticket so she could go to jail if she got pulled over in the untagged car. The solution was nobody told my sister I was being given the car and the family bought her a car so she wouldn't complain when I was given the one she had already run into the ground after I was told it would be taken away from her. Shes always had that victim mentality and thinks the whole world owes her everything. Its quite exhausting
Did I miss what kind of car it was? Not that it matters, it's horrible.
@@lotstodo you did, it was a Mercedes that's all you need to know, expensive car.
The second story reminds me so much of when I got engaged. When my fiancé (now husband) and I shared the news with my family, my older sister's immediate response was and I quote "Well, I'm going to go get hit by a bus." Ten she stormed off and refused to talk to us. Later she was pissed that I wasn't including her in or sharing any of the wedding details with her. She has always wanted everything to be about her, needs to be the first, and get the best of everything. If she doesn't get her way she will ruin everything for everyone else. I now live thousands of miles away and it's the best decision my husband and I made.
does she realise why she doesn't have what you have for multitudes of reasons? most sane people are not like the first story's john and will marry you even if you had a bad attitude LOL
“Mommy, what was your wedding day like?”
“Baby, I got arrested and spent the night in jail.”
😂😂😂😂😂😂
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OP's friend should have waited to arrest her at the alter😂!!! This way everyone will know what was done to the car and Who did it😢!!!
With OP's explanation about the laws in her country, this was probably the best way to go. But that B won't learn any lessons from it, except for "I'm above the law because daddy will always bail me out"😮!!!
Maybe daddy can talk to her about how he will eventually die & she will have no one left to bail her out, but also no friends either!
0:08 THE GLOOOOOW THE HAAAAIIIIIIE YES MY QUEEN OF GODDESSES SLAY MG EYES AWAAAAAY 🤩😍👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😍 you are such a STUNNERRRREER 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🥰🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩
No more likely "AITA from banning my sister from my wedding cause she wants her boyfriend to propose during my reception?"
Energy Vampires would jump on that shit
*a couple hours
Mike screaming "Subscribe!" halfway through totally got me. One of my friends (also a Charlotte fan) likes to scream "Subscribe!" when she wants to end something. Like when she broke up with her boyfriend. She told me the entire story and then at the end said "So you know ...Subscribe!"
I am deceased 💀😵💀
That. Is. Awesome!!! 😂🤣🥳
I like them already
So I see that cats seem to be drawn to this here comment so perhaps Tracy is a cat lady
That's too funny oh my I hope she's doing okay ❤️🩹
@@ArtificialPerson She is! (sweet of you to mention it) Charlotte-isms are perfect to sprinkle into conversation when you need to add levity to any situation. Potato Queen is out here doing gods work :)
I love that Charlotte found a good man who appreciates her. She’s a normal decent woman and deserves all the happiness.
So true she deserves this love❤
All the best for our petty potato queen and her king!
I’m sick today. Our lovely Charlotte and Mike really cheered me up.
Every good, normal and decent woman deserves happiness. 😊
I love how their personalities mesh so well. I hope they have a long, happy life together. 🥰
I've had an energy vampire as a friend before. They made sure if I liked a guy, that guy was "hitting on them"; if I got a promotion at work, they also got a promotion at the same job; if I was upset, they thought I was mad at them and start to cry; if I liked certain bands, they saw every concert. I was constantly one up every time and it was emotionally exhausting. When I was moved to a different area of the job, they went around saying about how mean I was to them and told other people how I didn't like them. This is still an ongoing issue even though I stopped talking to them 8 months ago.
good LORD have mercy on you 🙏🏻😭 that sounds so draining and stressful
@@helixxia9320 it was and still is, not as bad though because I don't talk to anyone at work and just keep my head down.
Why not report them to HR? If you could get some proof of them defaming you maybe you could get them fired and you wouldn’t have to see them ever again 🤷🏻♀️
I can't believe the groom went ahead with the wedding after finding out his bride is completely psychotic enough to destroy a car that isn't hers, because someone told her no.
He was scared to call it off 😂
Not just that. But the blatant disrespect towards HIS family!!! Omg I would NEVER!!!!
And it was his cousin!
poor man was probably scared for his life thinking “ if she can do that to car, what the hell could she do to me???” and went ahead with it.
..or he’s crazier than she is 🤷🏻♀️
then again OP did say he had tried and failed 3 times to get his driver's license (which isn't that hard to pass) so...
9:49 an all together now “ABSOLUTELY NOT!” 😂
Soulmates lol 😂
My husband and I have been doing this 😂😅 whilst talking about our Family Drama in the car yesterday my husband looks at me and Together in PERFECT UNISON Dobre Style we said "HOW ARE YOU NOT EMBARRASSED!!!!" !
(Maybe I need to write an AITA post about all of it bc it is pretty ridiculous and maybe a bit of petty sprinkled in 😉😜)
I cackled at the unison ABSOLUTELY NOT!! We ❤ Mike
@@nom-nomnami1743same😂
That's great😂
Daddy is the enabler and always the one cleaning up her messes. She has no accountability because she was never taught to have any
Finally, someone said what I was about to type!
Yeah and I highly doubt he’s gonna let her be independent long enough. There was even a court trial where a daughter directly caused the injury and then death of her father and he still tried to protect her from fault. He spent his final days trying to protect her from the consequences OF KILLING HIM. I have zero faith in enabling ass parents like these.
Yeah that marriage won't last long
@@JustAGrrrrl he sound spineless too so he’s perfect
Yeay it's genuinely a form of neglect
Her definition of "engaged" doesn't change the actual definition of being engaged which requires both parties to have knowledge and actually consent to marriage.
I find this part of the story a bit problematic though, because I actually agree with this bit. The whole "oh Where's your ring then" is a bit gross to me. You can totally call someone your husband if you chose never to get married, at least where I'm from, because a 40 Yr old man might not want to be referred to as a boyfriend.
Also, the ring is a symbol. I know lots of couples who didn't want rings, preferred to spend their money on something else, or never even did a proposal moment. Doesn't mean you're not engaged.
That doesn't take away from the behavior of stealing the attention, that's still weird. But I feel like this is one of those stories that could definitely have a whole other side to them.
@@Ruby-yn5fp You are kind of right about the ring. The couple might want to spend the money on something else rather than a ring . I completely agree with that and being engaged doesn't have to be necessarily with a ring But it should be about the couple wanting to be engaged and potentially married in future. Like if a couple have not agreed or even talked about getting married in future or let's not say marriage but if your partner has not officially asked to be engaged with you ( rings aren't necessary) then my dear you aren't engaged. Doesn't mean what your definition of being engaged is but it does involve two person and their consent not just any one of the partner's .
@@Ruby-yn5fpI’m sorry but I disagree. Yes, people can technically do whatever they want. But at the end of the day, words have meaning. Ring or not, being engaged means that someone asked you to marry them. And it sounds like the boyfriend didn’t propose. It seems like they just had a discussion about getting married in the future. Just because couples speak of marriage, doesn’t make them engaged. If that was the case, then every boyfriend and girlfriend who ever mentioned it to each other would have that title. Even though the bf didn’t care that she was going around calling him her fiancé and didn’t want to embarrass her, they aren’t engaged.. because he didn’t propose. That adds to the fact that it’s giving attention seeking behavior.
The word husband also has a definition. It is when you make a commitment before God and/or contractually with the government. So just because people throw around these words out of convenience or wanting to sound more mature, it doesn’t make it true. Like I said, at the end of the day, people can do or say whatever they want. But again, words have meaning and if you aren’t going to use them correctly, that’s fine. People are free to do what they want. But just don’t expect other people to play along while you change the definitions.
“Chortle” 🤣🤣🤣
Reminds me a bit of my younger sister. It KILLS her when I'm the center of attention, and my mother has always coddled her.
But, whatever, she's divorced, and I just celebrated my 7th wedding anny with the best guy in the world. It's funny how things turn out 😂
I don't know why, but Miss Charlotte and future hubby is giving Kim Possible and Ron Stoppable vibes!!! They are too cute!!!!
That’s hilarious and so true those two are to good together 🎉
Omg now that you say that!!!! Lol I love this!!!!
They NEED to do that for Halloween lmao
Yes!! ❤
The way he said "update" and sounded like the male her 😂😂😂😂 they are too cute!
He matches your energy so well, match made in heaven. AND CHARLOTTE OMG YOU LOOK SO STUNNING
Thank you so much!!
@@CharlotteDobreIN LOVE looks AMAZING ON YOU sweetheart!!
Bffr. He’s terribly unfunny and boring..
He tries way too hard to be funny on camera, it’s so forced and cringey. Happy for her/them, but she’s better off not trying to force videos with him to work. Or keep doing your own vids and try something separate/couple specific that might feel more natural.
@@CharlotteDobrelove looks AMAZNG on you for sure🥰
@@CharlotteDobre What has been posted is true, you both have a great energy together. One thought here from me; the duo presentation all the time might be too much.
We don’t want to lose you & your personality. Don’t get me wrong… I think Mike is adorable and clearly he truly loves you, he adds a bit too much sugar to the ‘Charlotte Sundae’.
Great blessings to you both!
I can’t wait to see a living Charlotte & Mike creation…with your gorgeous hair to boot! (The lucky grandparents will be over the moon!❤️)
Signed,
a brand new NONNA (grandmother)😘
The straight-up JEALOUSY of the sister was PATHETIC, and the fact that mommy and daddy had to protect her LIE (not a "different definition of engaged" like her daddy called it) and smoothe her ruffled feathers, says everything I need to know about that family dynamic. I will never understand people who bend over backwards for the biggest SPOILED-BRATS and then treat the reasonable adults like crap.
Because they want to placate them so they don’t have to endure their wrath. They know they raised a sociopath with narcissistic tendencies and it’s easier to baby her than deal with the drama if they don’t.
@@Littlelikeme92when I was born my grandma told my mom, do not raise her for you, raise her for the world. When I was little I didn't understand what she meant, nowadays I get it. When someone throws a tantrum their family might deal with it and accept the behavior but that doesn't mean everyone else will. My grandmother was wise ❤
This
Yeah like, if they officially decided that they were engaged and going to get married but just didn't do a ring or a proposal or anything that's one thing. But if only one person is actively planning on getting married while the other is just thinking about possibly getting married in the future maybe, that is something else entirely. It isn't a different definition of being engaged because they are literally not engaged. You can't be engaged to someone without them knowing about it.
I had a family dynamic like this. They still treat the golden child with kids gloves and she's in her mid '50s. I haven't been around her in many years now. 🎉
Man Mike is like a live action animation. I love it so much! Some people add partners to their channels and it changes for the worst but I’m soooo glad adding him has been such a great addition. Plus it’s awesome to see how you two interact. The Petty Fam stans this hardcore 🤘🏾🤘🏾
They are made for each other!
18:20-18:27 😂😂😂❤
He said "I'd call the Sopranos to come slash their tires" 😂😂 Mike needs a raise 😂😂 Love when he joins your videos, he matches your potato-ness so well. Queen Potato and King Spud...
I love those titles for Charlotte and Mike
Their funny, i like him. The evil laughs at the end were great. 😅😂😂😂😂
@@jacolinelankamp1752 when they have babies they will be the Tator Tots 🤣
@@MandyMooDoesCrochetToo Hilarious 😂 😅😂❤❤ Perfectly stated!
@@rra7490 him yelling SUBSCRIBE almost took me out!
"We have an update"
"On what?"
😂😂
"Shut your butt! Update me!"
So much Orange Cat Energy in that guy lol.
Potato Queens hair has been looking GOOOD 👌🏾😊
Potato queen needs to visit Idaho 😊
Does she have extensions? No judgement…just a curious old person
@ruthbrewer466 I think it's her own hair, if you watch older videos her hair is shorter, and it's growing. One video she talked about acting and needing it shorter for photos, because the photographer would have to be farther away to get her hair in the picture.
@@lotstodo right?! Lol. Too gorgeous to be real 😍
It's the happy coming out
I am SO happy you guys found each other. Seriously. The vibe with the two of you on cam...exquisite.
That synchronized "Absolutely not!"
I love you two together so much. 😂
💯 💶
They make the same faces and same funny voices. Very in tune with each other, it’s cute to see.
They really are so perfect for each other~🥰💖💕💝
I love that Mike knows all her catchphrases. He's been paying attention to her work, not just tuning her out in the background! Adorable.
I can’t stop laughing 😂😂😂 “SUBSCRIBE! No we’re not done yet”
I think he’s done that before cuz I remember panicking and feeling disappointed that it’s over and then she said no we’re not done yet 😂
🎉😂
Right, like don’t panic me! We just started! 😮😂😂😂😂
Best analogy yet… “it’s like when a dog pees on the grass and another dog pees on it… “It’s MY GRASS”!! 😂 I’m totally stealing that 🤣😂🤣
I love a creative well constructed analogy. Dave In Omaha
First you have to calmly walk up to them until you're in their face. Then quietly say, "Did you know that dogs piss where other dogs have pissed?"
Dog version of "get off mehhh lawn!!"
That last story…
I’m the oldest in my family. I have four younger siblings, and one twin brother that is no longer here in a physical sense, two girls, two boys. One of my younger sisters just got married! 😊 I can’t imagine, as her older sister, being anything but joyful, proud, and happy for her! When she asked me to go wedding dress shopping with her, just me and a couple of her friends, I cried! I felt so, so honored that she wanted me there. I burst into tears when she came out in the first dress(which ended up being the ONE 😉). The wedding was beautiful! She actually married a friend of mine. 😊 I just don’t understand trying to steal their light. I would do anything to see them shining! 🥰
You ever see those couples where you go, 'Oh, they make total sense together.' Definitely how I felt watching this video, congratulations on the engagement!
I read your comment and not even two seconds later I look up and Mike yelled ‘SUBSCRIBE’ in the middle of the video, so yeah, I agree 🤣🤣🤣🥰🥰🥰 so happy for them! 🥹
I LOVE IT when unique people meet someone they click with. Charlotte is gorgeous and successful, but this man is here for HER. ❤️
But, it is perfect. "Why is your sister not your MOH?" "Since she is 'engaged', there is no way that she would have time!"
22:41 As someone who has sisters and is petty, I would’ve commented “let’s see the ring, I have mine!” And post a picture of my ring. Just put her on blast in front of all her friends who don’t know the full story.😂
I love the vibe of you guys. You guys are meant to be together. He is practically YOU. I love it
The ADORABLENESS of the whole "we just got engaged too!" exchange makes me believe in my heart of hearts that your marriage will last for literal MILLENIA! 🥰
The sister making her younger sister's engagement all about herself is absolutely unhinged. I am an older sister who just literally watched her younger sister get married like 3 weeks ago. She met her now husband a year after my boyfriend and I started dating. Was I a smidge jealous or upset when I first heard she was engaged before me? Maybe, for like a second. Did I EVER act out on those feelings? HELL NO!!!! I was so excited to watch my little sister marry the love of her life! I was the most supportive big sister I could be and even helped her plan her honeymoon at Disney next month! The sister from that story needs major therapy and her parents need to stop enabling her bad behavior.
Absolutely agree with you. I have two daughters and the eldest has known her partner since they were 4 years old, having eventually become high school sweethearts. My youngest daughter knew of her now husband at high school but they didn't start dating until after leaving school. He is serving in the Royal Navy and a very traditional chap by nature so when he decided to propose he enlisted the help of my eldest who couldn't wait to get on board with the 'surprise' and made sure everything was perfect from the champagne and rose petals to fairy lights and more. She spearheaded the Hen party weekend away and then went on to be the most supportive MOH ( I'm sure there may have been moments when she imagined one day it will be her turn but she did everything she could and more to ensure her little sisters dreams were met) Its 4 weeks since the Wedding day and we all have beautiful memories of an idyllic English country wedding which perfectly suited my youngest daughter and her husband. Truth be told we all know when my eldest and her partner eventually marry it will be a very different event and that's fine too! For me one of my most cherished memories will be the MOH speech (that wasn't a thing in my day so I must say I was a bit surprised to hear she would beaking one)! The heartfelt things she said of her sister and new husband were very touching I truly hope the bond they share is never broken and when I hear these accounts from others I realise its not yo be taken for granted. 😁
The parents also need therapy.
Feelings are just that feelings. It's ok to be jealous... but not act on it.
Honeymoon at S@t@nic Disney? Wow what a "good" start for marriage...😢
Yeah that's not just being "extroverted" that's being narcissistic. You can be extroverted and not be a narcissist
I think OP should make sure that she has passwords attached to all of her vendors. I saw this from another TH-camr on one of the stories that she did. The future mother-in-law was continuously trying to change things about the cake, the dress, the flowers and so the bride put a password with each vendor so that only someone with the password could make changes or inquire about specifics about the venue or the food or the flowers or the cake. It saved her a lot of heartache because the future mother-in-law could not sabotage her wedding and I have a feeling that this sister would try to sabotage if she could.
Awesome idea!
Not only that, but have Ashley and Chris GUARDED during the reception the whole time because I will bet everything that Ashley tells him to propose at her sister's wedding and that OP said it was okay. I guarantee it!
Honestly this should be a default for vendors and venues anyway, it baffles me that it isn't given how much weddings cost and how many dreams go into a wedding.
Usually I can’t stand when my fav TH-camrs add their significant others but you 2 are hilarious 😂
Just love you two together, Charlotte won me over on her own and the addition of Mike is pure delight. Wanted you to know I’m 65 years old and take great pleasure in keeping up with what those in my son’s age group are all about. I find your level-headedness, honesty and transparency so refreshing and it gives me such hope for the future. You seem to have your priorities straight and put out the positive energy this world needs. Keep up the great work, I’ll be watching!
It was a pleasure to read your comment. Complete sentences and properly spelled words are so nice! ❤ Your sentiment is lovely. I agree with your conclusion. 😊
Spot on❤
Spot on❤
Her definition of 'Engaged' does not have to be the same as yours. But it DOES have to be the same as the Groom's. LOL
Exactly! This man doesn't want to get married and probably is only going along with it because he feels he has to.
😂😂😂😂exactly.. Her bf was giving cryptic answers. I'm sure he knew, if he said no she'd blow up on him.. 😂😂
Y’all are just so perfect for eachother. Sometimes you can look at a couple and be like, yup I get it
Last story: I don't think you need a ring or anything other than a "Will you marry me?" to be engaged, so I would say they are.
HOWEVER the guy sounds like he's just going along with it, and the sisters behaviour of taking everyone's attention is still absolutely inappropriate (and the timing is of course suspicious too)
That's the thing tho.. They just discussed about it.. Not decide when they would marry.. It's like having a serious discussion about wanting to get married with a long time partner ; like " What do u thing about marriage?" .. While on the other hand asking verbally, " Let's get married soon. Or " Will you marry me " .. I hope I'm being clear.. 😂😂
"Her definition of being engaged doesn't have to be the same as mine." Wait, what...? 😳
There is a literal definition for being engaged
It’s actually true… where I live engagement is not a huge thing, people just agree on getting married. I don’t know anyone who have had official enagement with fancy event, proposal, ring, etc. So, I do agree that the definition of engagement doesn’t have to be the same. But on the other hand, to get married, both parties have to agree on it. 😂
Yeah this doesn't make any sense. Like I could say I'm an army veteran without having undergone any military training, "but my definition is not the same as yours" 😂
@@Trammiliin_nr2 I agree. My spouse and I did everything low key: just the two of us for the question, followed by wedding at the courthouse where I grew up (cool building) and lunch with friends afterwards. I’m amazed at all the hoopla that comes along with some engagements, but DANG, someone has to at least “pop the question.” Sis didn’t even have that going for her and Mom just hopped on board the crazy train. 🤣
The father is delulu
Always a good day when we get to start with Charlotte reading wedding drama.
I agree! I start every morning with coffee & watching random YT while I wake up - and I'm so happy when there is a new wedding drama video from Charlotte!
0:41 you know you are with your soulmate when they adopt your goofy faces LMAO
They are literally the same person lol
They're so cute together. Like two peas in a pod. May they be married forever. Awww... ❤
5:21 "Don't break the lawrr!" lol!!! I had to go back 3 times.
YES COUPLES EPISODE! When I saw you were on the couch I literally squealed
I genuinely love these, it's so nice seeing Charlotte interacting with another person during her commentary- especially when it's someone she has as much chemistry with as her FIANCE!!!
Charlotte the more I watch these videos of you two together, the more I’m convinced you found your soulmate. The way you match each others energy is something to behold ❤ I’ve never been happier for a stranger!
Mike- “shut your butt” you two couldn’t be more perfect for each other. I love it
Shut up hes too corny
@@tiffanyhemingway8672Perhaps Charlotte loves corn. 😏
You guys couldn't be more perfect together!
The matching evil laughter from both Charlotte and Mike at the end. 🤣 You two really are a perfect match!
I love the dynamic between Charlotte and Mike. Thats real love, thats that "our habits and mannerisms have rubbed off on each other because we love each other so much" type of love... And i LOVE TO SEE IT❤
Congratulations again for your engagement guys🫶🏼
you two are the absolute sweetest/weirdest couple out there!!😍😂❤️
Congratulations 🎉❤
Thank you so much!
Gosh how I love the synergy you two have together in your videos. Adding this to those funny stories makes my day each time!
Normally when a content creator adds someone else to their channel it changes the vibe so much, but Mike and Charlotte match each other’s energy so well 😍
I still like her solo videos better
They're like the same person and I love it 😂
@@allisonsanchez2123that’s what I thought too 😂
@@paohaquihopefully she’ll do a mix of both. I love starting my days to her content as I’m making my coffee ❤
@@paohaqui I agree, although he is quite funny I think he distracts her
I love how they are both the perfect goofballs, they really found each other and I am so happy for them.
The last story will have a part two 😂😂😂 "AITAH for not making my sister my bridesmaid because she is trying to be the bride" 😂😂
0:33 😂 “it certainly did”
I'm an extrovert and i'm the only one in my family who's not with someone special. I've seen all of my siblings get married, have kids, buy houses, etc. I'm an artist and focussed much on my art, needless to say, i don't have much. I have never been jealous of anyone in my family and always have been proud of their success, that's called love and being mature enough to be happy for others. These bridezillas are simply entitled brats and immature as hell. By the way, you look ravishing Charlotte, you and Mike make an awesome couple! Much love from a fellow Canadian ❤ 🇨🇦
Some can feel "complete" on their own - especially when we've made a choice to live as an Artist (or just on our own terms really) instead of dreaming about it happening "one day". (that angst alone requires so much energy) I find the freedom worth more than any amount of money. When you fulfill your soul's calling, your heart is full. Partnered love can then become another choice, not an expectation.
Charlottes hair is GORGEOUS. I’m seriously considering copper in my hair always seeing yours 😭
I love red hair and red tint in hair. My hair is bright golden blonde but it looks very red in low light. I love it. And I always do a double take any time I see a red head. Love the natural reds too. As well as the bright vibrant red. Most people have a pink tint to their skin, as long as you have rosy over tones or under tones, you’ll look amazing.
ikr me too i wanna dye it like that 😂
DO ITTTT
@@CharlotteDobre I’ve got a dark copper in my hair now but it’s so dark I’ve had to make a slow transition. I’ll be posting in your comments one day ☺️😂❤️❤️
The first one was one of the BEST stories everrrr! 😂 I super lol’ed at Mike yelling “SUBSCRIBE”. You guys are a great couple, so happy for you, congratulations 🍾 🎉
And YOUR HAIR looks AMAZING🔥
“People will click off the video” Charlotte be for real you know damn well MAJORTIY of us watch the full video because we love your quirky personality 😁🥰
10:18 if her cousin had driven her car w/o a license and got pulled over he would be going to jail and the car would be impounded and cost a fortune to get it out of impound, not to mention the possibility of damage that could be done by careless wrecker driver. Also, god knows how long that the local PD may want to keep the car for evidence, all the while occurring daily impound fees.
MIIIIIIKE!!❤
Love it when Mike pops up. He and Char are the chaotic friends thats x10 funnier when together😂
Totally agree! This was such a fun watch 🤩😃
Mike being the ultimate Petty Potato... "UPDATE ME"😂
Once again, congratulations on your engagement! I'm happy that you both found someone that matches your vibe and allows you to do a super villain laugh together. Best of wishes!
What’s better than one golden retriever energy? TWO GOLDEN RETRIEVER ENERGIES!! 🤣🤣 I love videos like these. You guys are great!
1st story, I'm still crying laughing at Mike saying "Shut your butt"😂😂😂😂😂
Further confirmation, in case anyone needed it, that THE MIKE & CHARLOTTE HOUR IS A+
💯 💶!
when my FIL unalived himself, my SIL went full blown grief for like 2 or 3 years. unsterstandable. completely. however, her best friends got pregnant and were super excited a year or so after his death, and here is what she said to them ver batim when they told her" i dont want to hear about your happiness. it is overshadowing my grief and i dont ever want to hear about this again." when the kid was born, they of course didnt tell her. she lost her SHIT and said they were keeping him from her for some VERY weird reasons. she tried to get them to name him after her dad. there is more but its not worth airing her laundry any further. people lose their minds over stuff
My prayers go out to you both. Grief is a wild thing. Yet that behavior is unacceptable. She needs therapy and two chill pills. Respectfully. Stay positive boo 😘
Agreed
@@UnpopularOpinion3000 shes still in therapy. its been 20 years, but she is much better. it just consumed her at the time. literally. she was a void for a while. just stared into windows. etc. shes fine now but still goes to therapy, which is why shes ok still i suppose.
Wow! Her poor “friends”. I hope they took space from her to enjoy their blessing. It’s natural to be hurting that life goes on for everyone else while you’re in pain. But to try to force that onto others is very twisted.
@@dcarter455 i felt that way as well. i personally havent ever forgiven some of the things she said and did during that time. but like i said, grief does wild things to people
This guy is perfect for you. You’re going to have a life full of laughter and love. Congratulations to you both!
As an older sister and the oldest sibling i am probably the most extroverted around our family and friends, but it never even crossed my mind to be anything but supportive for both my siblings on their wedding days and everyday. I did get married first but we went to our courthouse and had an extremely small get together at my brother in laws house. I got married in a skirt and blouse. My younger sister and brother had the huge themed gala style event with the big expensive dresses and i was happy to be a part of both and more concerned that I be there when they needed me.
Right?? Like who does that ?? I'm also the oldest sister and I'm so proud and happy for every milestone my siblings hit if they get attention for smth you better believe I'm standing right next to them smiling from ear to ear and telling everyone how amazing my siblings are
Charlotte your hair looks BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!! You look BEAUTIFUL. You do too Mike!!
Thank you so much
I know two sisters. The older of the two married first; her husband was a banker. the younger sister just married an "electrician" according to the older sister. the eldest was a bridezilla, her husband cheated on her immediately after the wedding. the younger one is still happy
Electrician in quotes? Is that code for something?
No, the older sister thought he wasn't worth as much as her banker
Yea, the prideful definitely fall hard.
@@christinadavid9139 As if skilled electricians don't make a shitton of money!
@@clawwestfall8799 Money is sometimes not the priority
Couples who laugh together stay together
Couldn’t agree more 😊
IDK why but Mike's " shut your butt" made me choke on my coffee 😂
IKR?!! I haven't heard that since like 6th grade perhaps? And I'm old... 😂
I read this a SPLIT SECOND before he said it, great timing
Things I loved in this video:
Charlotte and Mike's comedic timing.
The editing of the villainous laughs in the end :))
This is the 1st video I've watched of you & Mike together. I love the energy you both have together. Talk about a perfect match!! ❤❤
I’m getting married in just under 3 weeks and my preparation over the last few months has involved watching your AITA videos - I am neurodivergent so I don’t always pick up on social contexts and what is acceptable/what is me being too over sensitive.
I am so pleased to say the planning has gone smoothly and I am surrounded by beautiful women who I can’t wait to get glammed up with on the day and enjoy the special occasion with our nearest and dearest.
Your videos really help me to see how blessed I am and that (hopefully) I am not too much of a bridezilla. Thank you ❤
Congratulations! 🎉🎉❤
Congratulations! I hope the rest of your planning goes well and you have an amazing wedding and marriage 🎉🎉
My older brother is an extrovert and I’m an introvert. I half joke that he talked enough for both of us growing up, and it hasn’t really changed now that we’re adults lol. Glad he’s not like. . . *that*
0:28 i like hearing yall talk, if you two had a podcast. Id totally be a viewer
Fully support this idea. I dunno what the topic would be but I would love to listen to it.
3rd THIS!! 😂❤
You mean you’d totally be a listener 😉 😉 jk I would love that too.
22:42 and think long and hard about having a relationship with OP’s parents too, there’s clearly favouritism and they pander to sisters every need and make excuses for her
You guys are so cute together! More of this please! Congratulations on your engagement. Wishing you an AITA free wedding.
2:24 had me rofl😂😂
Mike yelling SUBSCRIBE in the middle cracked me up! that's what's up bro😂 let those intrusive thoughts go!
Totally love you two together! Love how you feed off of each others energy!! ❤❤❤
I LOVE when Mike joins us in our petty!!!!
Me too🙋🏾♀️ hehe
I have a comment on reddit on the first story. As someone who went to school for Graphic Design, and have done it for money, it is crazy. Graphic Design is everything. Logos, letterhead, graphics on clothes, billboards, book covers, food labels, and the list goes on. So, her cousin can have the last laugh, but she had no clue how important it is, and the work. I have done hours and days and a week or weeks on certain projects. Depending on size and changes needed.
Yesssss! You said this perfectly! I also always hear, “why do you charge so much? I could do this!” Lol, to which I always reply in the kindest voice, “Ok, then you do it if there’s no need for me. I wish you the best!” And then they usually back peddle pretty quickly. 😂
We live in a visual world with advertising, websites, books and magazines either in print or online Graphic Design is key even on clothes if it is printed fabric someone designed it
Hahahahhaa Mike" SUBSCRIBE" after the first story😂😂😂
I had to check the time cuz I was like nooooo!!!! Lol he tricked us!!
10:00 I think the husband has to blink slowly for help.She doesn't respect the law, doesn't respect people's property, doesn't respect her husband, as she cut off his entire family.
23:24 heres the thing about info diet. If OP tells ANYONE else about her plans she risks it getting back to the sister. So OP will have to isolt herself from all mutals to protect herself and engagment, thats simply no fair in the slightest for her. She should get her chance to shines too. If she keeps quiet her sister wins. No one is talking about OP so the focuse goes back to sister.
OR, she should share some ABSOLUTELY nauseating color scheme, flowers - everything…and talk nonstop about it (while planning the actual, beautiful scheme in private), and wait for sister to copy “her” wedding 😎
i agree. people shouldn't have to hide the things theyre looking forward from the people in their life because one may try to copy it. you have one life, so being open with your loved ones about things you love will make you happier in the long run. its not the event that matters, its the those at the event who matter.
I will never complain about Mike being in a video!😹 I love you two together, and seeing his personality just further shows how perfect you both are for each other💗
I Love the film change and the hair!! WHO WANTS A CHARLOTTE PODCAST????
Love the, "Subscribe!" ❤. I sometimes say it out loud for no reason just walking around the house 😂
I‘ve watched so many videos of Charlotte and this is my first time watching her with her fiancé . Now I see how perfectly made for each other they are!! Haha 😄
LOVE the curly puffy hair!!! Also Mikes long intros are HILARIOUS! 😂❤ we love you two in this house! The boys and I always bust a gut and say a lot “wow” “Holly cow” and “I can’t believe it!” . You guys make our day.
You two are so well-matched, it’s extremely obvious. Love to see it 👏👏👏
Omg you two are sooooo cute!! It's also okay that he's still learning but the cutest thing is how you two play off of eachother and support eachother!! I'm here for it!!
10:07 if she really just wanted to show up in the Mercedes, having a driver should’ve been good enough. She could be in the back with champagne, but nooooo, instead she showed her true colors. She deserves to face some consequences, for sure! 😐 The father should make her pay him back, otherwise she won’t learn a lesson. She sounds like a nightmare! 😵💫
Mike's "absolutely noooot" was everything 😂😂😂😂 POTATO KING 🥔🥔🥔🥔
Look I'm extroverted while my sister is introverted and I have BPD but when my sister got married I made sure I was there for her. Was I jealous? Sure. But I would never take the spotlight. I don't understand how people could do that to their own sister or best friends.
🫂 ❤ that's what a really sister family is
It’s mental illness for sure.
Habits reinforced by parents makes it easy.
The banter between you two is very enjoyable to watch. ❤
I hope you both have this much fun irl. I'd bet you do 🎉
Love the way y’all work together, it’s like you have the same sense of humor and bounce off each other. Love the hair BTW
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THE TWO OF YOU TOGETHER!!!!! I'm here for more you and Mike content. Congratulations on your upcoming wedding, so happy you found someone that matches your energy and vibe.
19:00 she really needs to visit a psychiatrist ... and stay there.
I love how your energies match so well!!! The duo videos are great!
the baby drool at 8:40 is why Charlotte is great, didn't bother editing it out. "You're Feisty" 😆
Saw it too, so cute in the moment 😂
I was just about to comment the same thing.. it's the feistiness that made her do it.