Nathi is evil, how could he flat out admit that he planned this because he didnt want her to move on with her life without him,. He trapped her with a baby, the pregnancy caused her to fail her matric which forced her to stay behind and he's outchea acting like he's sad that she didnt pass her matric... boy bye
I'm also shocked at how people are praising Nathi.... Hayibo Nathi is the villain heeee my gosh.. Like the young girls life was messed up all because of a foolish boy
I see peoples comments saying that Nathi is a supportive boyfriend.. No Nathi is the bad guy that planned to make her pregnant on purpose because of his own insecurities, how twisted is that.. Just because she might move on to be with men that have BMWs according to him.. It's a sic sic word
I would qualify your comment by saying that there is a fatal flaw in Nathi's understanding of what love is. There are no bad guys here. When we know better we do better. Neither of these two knew any better.
There's no point in dating while you are still in high school, you are probably dating someone that's not even your type. Wait until you are wise and responsible.
I don't care what you guys say about nathi being supportive. He entrapped her with a baby so she wouldn't pursue her studies post-matric. If that isn't sick to you, you have a problem. I'm enraged👿😡
I fell pregnant in matric as well and i can say it's the most painful thing ever. I was 21 weeks when i wrote my finally exam and by the grace of God i passed my matric. Today my daughter is 9 yrs old i don't want her to go through what i went through parents sometimes have tendencies of not listening to their kids there's a lot of pressure as a teenager if parents can just communicate with kids and not assume many of these teenagers wouldn't fall pregnant
So... Nathi got her pregnant on purpose because he was scared that she would leave him. That's fucked up. Then told her that if she gets an abortion, not to come back to him. Like, what? Then I look at these comments praising him for being there, as if if it's not his fault in the first place.🙄🤦🏾♀️
KiiKii Ashuntay Girl thank you.🙌🙌🙌 I thought I was the only one noticing that part. People are so backwards these days with there confused ass mentality.
This is a classic textbook method guys with low-self esteem use for trapping vulnerable girls. He knew she had a bright future.He could not stand the thought of her getting a university education and leaving him. That sugar daddy story is nonsense .
If any of the girls in this film are reading this I just want to say it's not ideal having a baby at a young age but you girls will go far one day. Keep on trying, don't give up on your dreams. Take a break but never give up. You guys seem very strong!
Tanx!it wasn't easy but I had to make a choice to either be a township gal dat sleeps with very guy for a meal or fight for my life and ensure that my daughter has a bright future
So this girl's mother went to de-stress in Polokwane for 20 days after finding out her daughter was pregnant? Are you kidding me? She left both her daughters and left! She is such an irresponsible mother. Yes the girl is to blame for her own pregnancy but what kind of a mother leaves two underage girls to live alone in a township? Nah fam.
Nathi made her pregnant on purpose coz he was scared that she might leave him. That is so selfish, its not love that is dragging someone behind😡. Oh my word: such a cuttie pie, reminds me of my spunkupine😢😍
So why is this Nathi getting props for doing what he should rightfully be doing? He admitted he impregnated her -so? He must be a “man” and take responsibility.
Men are so selfish to make a decision that does not affect them in any way and to intentionally get a matriculant pregnant while you are in grade 11 is SO selfish. Shame on him. 2020 watching this and it makes me so mad
Lol, This reminds me of some guy I dated, he wanted to impregnate me but uGod athi NO. I would have left varsity in my first year. The struggle is real outside
it takes a courageous man to man up from his decisions#proud of Nathi for not giving up on Dineo. i hope as we comment on this episode we actually learning about the impact of peer pressure and our decisions as well. And for Sabc i think this episode deserve to be re-played and this time I think it deserve to be advertised in advance in order to attract more viewers.
he is not mature due to the fact that he is still in school and unable to provide finacially for his child. Maturity could have been using a condom or making sure that the girl took morning after pill. Qha yena he was follwing the crowd of wanting to keep his girlfriend. Would love a follow on such stories, because I believe its a different tune nw.
Wow Nathi is so supportive, i hope they will find their ways together further in their life, they really touched my heart❤️. My current bf is South African and its always nice to discover things from his country.
Given Mello lol experiences are different babe ... trust me I had a different route had the roughest pregnancy severe morning sickness till the last day but my labor wasn’t that hectic sham 🤞🏾mind due he’s turning 5 months on the 13th ❤️😍
Her birth was interesting - I assume it's like what would happen if it was a home birth - there's no access to pain relief and she's moving around like it's her own house and is giving birth unattended. She only gets a midwife towards the second stage.
I'm sorry baba kaJames had a baby coz he was scared she would leave and find better ? I'm sorry but that's evil. He's happy she failed. He's never cared about her, emdala enjalo.
Fezile Sikhakhane ja I also had a baby in grade 11 n I passed n went on to matrix after sitting for a year to raise my kid and on my matrix my bf started to be abusive cos he couldn't believe that I would make it after that so he became jealous
Truth Speaker that is very evil, men who don’t use condom should know they will make a girl pregnant so take responsibility and stop blaming women. South African men always run away cause their weak. I’m South African but I will never date a South African man
this guy (Nathi) is inspirational.... oh God im so 21 and i dont think im ready to make a baby because i have not finished my education levels yet (waiting for my phd, or masters at least), after im done and i got a good job and settled and married then i can make a baby, but thats me people!
I dont understand yazi, the fact that people are sexually active means they're grown right? So why is no one ever ready to have a child? I'm genuinely confused.
Pampers-jumbo pack Child clothing Child medication, (sometimes) Food for the baby Toys Petrol The newly built house From where I stand as a husband I can tell you it's not easy. I am a marine /mechanical chief engineer but still when you don't work in a country and your wife is an electrical engineer but still feel the pinch....... Can you imagine how much more for those that are less privileged? Everything needs money #period
wooooow maybe its me 24 still a virgin when ever its time to have sex i just see my mom who is a domestic worker works three days per week she has supported me i just freeze.The thought of making her cry just finished my degree still studying ............................. big up to the young nathi: young man z supportive but it breaks my heart Dineo failed and raised by a single mother
Nkosinathi is d man..he became a young man at an early age n he is doin a great job by taking care of his responsibility unlike so many men out there who run away
These teenagers stories are sad!I hope girls will learn alot from the girls experience and would not make the same mistake.I don't blame Dineo's mother for the pregnancy but it seem like she is irresponsible and does have a bond with her girl.Black mothers out there talk to your children about sex and family planning because not disclosing such information will bring nothing but the worst in the lives of the kids.
this is tembisa .....jerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr this place God have mercy....... even family here break i was very luck... i nearly grow up in this place but
8 years later
We want feedback... where is Nathi and Dineo now as we speak 🤔
Her : Nathi and I didn’t plan the baby
Him : I planned this baby
The worst painful story I’ve ever seen
Nathi is evil, how could he flat out admit that he planned this because he didnt want her to move on with her life without him,. He trapped her with a baby, the pregnancy caused her to fail her matric which forced her to stay behind and he's outchea acting like he's sad that she didnt pass her matric... boy bye
So is nobody going to talk about how nathi planned to make the girl pregnant just because he ddnt want her to move on with her life after matric...
I'm also shocked at how people are praising Nathi.... Hayibo Nathi is the villain heeee my gosh.. Like the young girls life was messed up all because of a foolish boy
Yeah, that's messed up
I was infuriated when i heard Nathi saying that
He planned to be intimate not make her pregnant
Thank God I listen to my grandmother 🙏
I see peoples comments saying that Nathi is a supportive boyfriend.. No Nathi is the bad guy that planned to make her pregnant on purpose because of his own insecurities, how twisted is that.. Just because she might move on to be with men that have BMWs according to him.. It's a sic sic word
Yes he is selfish and the child is still inside, which is the romantic stage
honestly nami ungcasulile kabi kabi. he is selfish
I would qualify your comment by saying that there is a fatal flaw in Nathi's understanding of what love is. There are no bad guys here. When we know better we do better. Neither of these two knew any better.
He was in love I guess
There's no point in dating while you are still in high school, you are probably dating someone that's not even your type. Wait until you are wise and responsible.
Facts
Profound
You right hey
good advice
I don't care what you guys say about nathi being supportive. He entrapped her with a baby so she wouldn't pursue her studies post-matric. If that isn't sick to you, you have a problem. I'm enraged👿😡
Me too!
I agree
You’ll be surprised how many young men think like this.
I fell pregnant in matric as well and i can say it's the most painful thing ever. I was 21 weeks when i wrote my finally exam and by the grace of God i passed my matric. Today my daughter is 9 yrs old i don't want her to go through what i went through parents sometimes have tendencies of not listening to their kids there's a lot of pressure as a teenager if parents can just communicate with kids and not assume many of these teenagers wouldn't fall pregnant
Watching this today the baby is 8/9 years old. Wish we could get an update of how life is for them
same
i wonder how they are coping
This is thought is very intriguing.
Mama midwife/counsellor is spot on. So good.....I'm proud of her. Wish there were more of her supporting our communities 🙏🙏
Wow. That girl is very strong, I'm 27 and 9 weeks pregnant with my first child, I'm so scared of giving birth naturally. She definitely inspired me
Do you have your man or you a another baby mama in the hood?
@@vusumuzi_mathumo wtf...what's wrong with you??
@@larryk1153 he is sick
So... Nathi got her pregnant on purpose because he was scared that she would leave him. That's fucked up. Then told her that if she gets an abortion, not to come back to him. Like, what? Then I look at these comments praising him for being there, as if if it's not his fault in the first place.🙄🤦🏾♀️
KiiKii Ashuntay Girl thank you.🙌🙌🙌 I thought I was the only one noticing that part. People are so backwards these days with there confused ass mentality.
This is a classic textbook method guys with low-self esteem use for trapping vulnerable girls. He knew she had a bright future.He could not stand the thought of her getting a university education and leaving him. That sugar daddy story is nonsense .
If any of the girls in this film are reading this I just want to say it's not ideal having a baby at a young age but you girls will go far one day. Keep on trying, don't give up on your dreams. Take a break but never give up. You guys seem very strong!
Eish the first girls story yooh I can relate hey. but today my bby is 3years and Iam doing my third year at varsity
+Relebohile Mohapi thats very nice hey
Tanx!it wasn't easy but I had to make a choice to either be a township gal dat sleeps with very guy for a meal or fight for my life and ensure that my daughter has a bright future
+Relebohile Mohapi you go girl!
i like your spirit.... one can learn a good lesson from you
Thank you so much
Nathi seems clueless about everything. 😂😂😂😂😂
He planned the pregnancy dude🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👐
😂😂😂
I’m telling you 😂
I agree
He is 19 in grade 11 after all
Nathi is selfish.. and heartless.
So this girl's mother went to de-stress in Polokwane for 20 days after finding out her daughter was pregnant? Are you kidding me? She left both her daughters and left! She is such an irresponsible mother. Yes the girl is to blame for her own pregnancy but what kind of a mother leaves two underage girls to live alone in a township? Nah fam.
Luyanda Ngcobo 20 years ? no
+shand seimela I said 20 DAYS
thats not much
i found it quite funny though, but hey the mother befuna shaywa ngumoya and unwind.
Luyanda Ngcobo it's a vicious cycle my dear having responsibilities at a young age
I really hope these girls have made it in life.
Nathi made her pregnant on purpose coz he was scared that she might leave him. That is so selfish, its not love that is dragging someone behind😡. Oh my word: such a cuttie pie, reminds me of my spunkupine😢😍
The baby shower was so cute☇❤
So why is this Nathi getting props for doing what he should rightfully be doing? He admitted he impregnated her -so? He must be a “man” and take responsibility.
The first girl was lucky to have a boy who stuck around, he seemed to truly care for her.
I hope she achieves her dream some time in future.She has a great partner and her good personality will take her far roo
he planned their pregnancy!!!!
Reason I don't like him
Her pregnancy , the pregnancy is just hers … that’s why he planned it , if he had to actually be pregnant he would have not planned it
very sad stories but glad this is being broadcasted
Men are so selfish to make a decision that does not affect them in any way and to intentionally get a matriculant pregnant while you are in grade 11 is SO selfish. Shame on him. 2020 watching this and it makes me so mad
versy sad....but this Nathi is a big boy when it comes to support!
the Kid is now 6 years and watching this online wow
It is so sad that this is the reality of most teenagers in South Africa.
The poor girl falls on the floor writhing from sharp labor pains while the boyfriend just stands there with his arms crossed 😑😑😑
I mean
Lol, This reminds me of some guy I dated, he wanted to impregnate me but uGod athi NO. I would have left varsity in my first year. The struggle is real outside
wow .....only if all young fathers can be as supportive as Nathi,
its highly imposible to mary your highschool sweetheart 1 out of hundred chances
it takes a courageous man to man up from his decisions#proud of Nathi for not giving up on Dineo. i hope as we comment on this episode we actually learning about the impact of peer pressure and our decisions as well. And for Sabc i think this episode deserve to be re-played and this time I think it deserve to be advertised in advance in order to attract more viewers.
I am proud of that her boyfriend and mother were giving her support in every step of the way
The irony in that her mother is taking care of orphans while leaving her own children to grow up all by themselves
At least the baby daddy is there
She's a victim of circumstances. Common sesne should explain that to you.
Was she supposed to stay home? Feed the kids with what? Come on
So judgemental
@@juliasephaka7823 Its a factual statement quit being emotional
Nathi is a mature young man, he was so supportive throughout the pregnancy. He is a better man than most people. I hope they are both doing fine
he is not mature due to the fact that he is still in school and unable to provide finacially for his child. Maturity could have been using a condom or making sure that the girl took morning after pill. Qha yena he was follwing the crowd of wanting to keep his girlfriend. Would love a follow on such stories, because I believe its a different tune nw.
It seems like the youth in SA don’t know anything about morning after pills 🤷🏽♀️
they probably coulnt even afford those pills..its really bad how dire circumstances cripple peoples mindset as well
imali kaloku my dear
They know is just being naive and they morning after pill is expensive to most
batong my worst fear is giving birth
mine too hey!!
Phumzile Mahlangu me three
Phumzile Mahlangu me four
Me five
Me 6
Wow Nathi is so supportive, i hope they will find their ways together further in their life, they really touched my heart❤️.
My current bf is South African and its always nice to discover things from his country.
Yoh,,,,this is an eye opener, for the first time I saw all I needed to see ka Labour, ke tshaba hoba lemon ngwana
Given Mello lol experiences are different babe ... trust me I had a different route had the roughest pregnancy severe morning sickness till the last day but my labor wasn’t that hectic sham 🤞🏾mind due he’s turning 5 months on the 13th ❤️😍
This is very sad, the sad realities of the world we live in today. Lack of proper guidance and love at home being the main root cause.
omg
this gave me an insight into some important things
u r strong young moms
Her birth was interesting - I assume it's like what would happen if it was a home birth - there's no access to pain relief and she's moving around like it's her own house and is giving birth unattended. She only gets a midwife towards the second stage.
I'm sorry baba kaJames had a baby coz he was scared she would leave and find better ? I'm sorry but that's evil. He's happy she failed. He's never cared about her, emdala enjalo.
Fezile Sikhakhane ja I also had a baby in grade 11 n I passed n went on to matrix after sitting for a year to raise my kid and on my matrix my bf started to be abusive cos he couldn't believe that I would make it after that so he became jealous
Truth Speaker that is very evil, men who don’t use condom should know they will make a girl pregnant so take responsibility and stop blaming women. South African men always run away cause their weak. I’m South African but I will never date a South African man
"because I wanted to check if I was a virgin" 😶😶😶 ya ne
😹 😹 😹 😹 😹 😹 😹
🤣🤣🤣😂
Hahaha
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂suka
Nathi is the most supportive guy during pregnancy than most men in this country.
so true
so so so supportive i hope others could learn from him
He is. considering the fact that he is young as well.
He planned the pregnancy!!!!
Are u dumb?
this guy (Nathi) is inspirational.... oh God im so 21 and i dont think im ready to make a baby because i have not finished my education levels yet (waiting for my phd, or masters at least), after im done and i got a good job and settled and married then i can make a baby, but thats me people!
African Mop Pictures same here
phd!! great man dream big, Goodluck.
am i the only one who doesnt like the name of the baby hai yooh naye "james"
Yoh when she was in pain omg 🙌that scared me
I dont understand yazi, the fact that people are sexually active means they're grown right? So why is no one ever ready to have a child? I'm genuinely confused.
Nombulelo Mthimkulu having kids needs money
Because children are a responsibility and a lot of work. There is no reason to shoulder that if you know you don't have what it takes to handle it.
Listen to Mama Angie's part then you will understand.
Pampers-jumbo pack
Child clothing
Child medication, (sometimes)
Food for the baby
Toys
Petrol
The newly built house
From where I stand as a husband I can tell you it's not easy.
I am a marine /mechanical chief engineer but still when you don't work in a country and your wife is an electrical engineer but still feel the pinch....... Can you imagine how much more for those that are less privileged? Everything needs money #period
There are no bad guys here. When we know better we do better. Neither of these two knew any better.
wooooow maybe its me 24 still a virgin when ever its time to have sex i just see my mom who is a domestic worker works three days per week she has supported me i just freeze.The thought of making her cry just finished my degree still studying .............................
big up to the young nathi: young man z supportive but it breaks my heart Dineo failed and raised by a single mother
Waze wamuhle uBaby James
Aww i wanna see a update on her and the baby
Im happy that Nathi was always there through out their pregnancy♥ thats the most loving part i enjoyed....😁
He should be he purposely got her pregnant so she wouldn't leave him smh.
40 hours of labor, jesus christ
I LOVE MAM ANGIE....!!
Nathi...big up to you 👏👏
lets hope Dineo managed to get back on her feet after 2 years
I really cried watching this vidoes mostly dineo's story ..nathiey is a supportive boyfrnd
Omgoodnesss aww he's too cutess congratulations have many more blessings so lovingit ❤️❤️❤️$$!,
Omg when she was on the floor...he just looked worried
The girls have beautiful brown smooth skin
Heeee uNathi bafethu...yooh ai ai ai🙁🙁🙁yoooh 40 hours of labour🙁😥I'm not ready to have a child...I don't think I'm ever gonna be ready infact ai yooh
Personal responsibility begins with myself Steve Irungu Jermaine
Are you just accepting the child or loving her, cause to accept her sometimes doesn't mean you love her
Nkosinathi is d man..he became a young man at an early age n he is doin a great job by taking care of his responsibility unlike so many men out there who run away
such a cute baby
this was depressing
These teenagers stories are sad!I hope girls will learn alot from the girls experience and would not make the same mistake.I don't blame Dineo's mother for the pregnancy but it seem like she is irresponsible and does have a bond with her girl.Black mothers out there talk to your children about sex and family planning because not disclosing such information will bring nothing but the worst in the lives of the kids.
trapped with a baby by a boy...
Sad reality of Our country South Africa
Nathi must not change...
With determination a way can be found
Wow Nathi thank you for being a real man
Eish the pushing part😒
Nothing wrong about teenage pregnancy, it just that people out there have an assumption that maybe you won't have a brighter future.
Stop normalising teenage pregnancy!
U too arogant
You can't be serious
You are CRAZY !
is this what giving birth is like? its not like in the movies
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂
What do you watch
19, grade 11.....18 grade 10....these kids either entered school late of fell of somewhere.
I was asking myself as well
Nathi was so supportive and was so young
More supportive than most adult man in thi country
this is tembisa .....jerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr this place God have mercy....... even family here break i was very luck... i nearly grow up in this place but
Eeee my waist fear giving birth
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Same here shem
Really at the age of 19 you don't know that if you have unprotected sex you get pregnant?
What the hell 😳 how is nathi the good guy here
I love Dineo and Nathi story
This somehow promotes teenage pregnancy
True
Promotes in which way ?
No way, it is raising awareness
A very touching story, but don't lose hope
Yhu ha.a I'm not having a baby any time soon haa😶🙊
Unathi lona wamchamela ngamasbomu embuka emehlweni, esazi nesimo sabo sokuthi basafunda.
Dineo's boyfriend his so supportive
Very and her family too
This girl who dropped out gave up on life
wadlwengulwa yin ugal?
Yoh love at matric wft 😭😭
Some children are not worth raising.
Nothi trapped her
That nigga ain't 19.🤣🤣
So beautiful
aw i reason kaNATHI hhaw dude ,,,not at all fair
As for leponesa 😳