At my Age - Episode 13

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 19 พ.ย. 2018
  • At my Age is a show that aims to provide intervention for elderly people faced with a plight they can’t resolve because of age.
    Watch At my Age on SABC 2 every Tuesday at 11h00
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  • @elizabethkoenane1383
    @elizabethkoenane1383 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Eish i always say treat your parents right... You will get the rewards when they leave... I'm so grateful every day because i know I'm getting blessings from my mom... I took care of her for 3 years when she was bedridden because i didn't want someone taking care of her from outside...
    My life is fruitful because i did my part.
    God bless all the parents who are going through a lot ❤🙏

  • @nelnel4127
    @nelnel4127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    UGogo was so beautful itjoooh🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @thabothobejane6608
    @thabothobejane6608 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This is painful! God please intervene ,You are able to change hearts Lord! We leave everything in your hards ,change those we cannot change Lord!

  • @djvaughn2367
    @djvaughn2367 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    The neighbours and Gogo Frieda are amazing 😭😭😭❤🙏

  • @tshireletsothabangmorule8670
    @tshireletsothabangmorule8670 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Gogo Freida your suffering in this world certify you a big place in heaven. I hope your daughter can move out so you can live your life freely

    • @lolomdlalose4547
      @lolomdlalose4547 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Gogo Freda is one of the chosen Satan the only solution here is to take her to the elderly home, otherwise she will continue living this sad life for rest of her life, she will have peasefull life not in this world the kingdom of God is near

  • @earthy_12
    @earthy_12 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Dideka will never find peace for the way she treated Gogo. Gogo I am so sorry for what you went through, I hope you finally found peace 🥺🥺

    • @nthatijermina926
      @nthatijermina926 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@earthy_12 you çan hear by her name she a problem

    • @hunadilentswana6962
      @hunadilentswana6962 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Why did they give her such name

  • @happinessmalaza1762
    @happinessmalaza1762 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Mama Freida’s story reminds me of how we used to live at home. My mom’s first born used to insult her saying she’s bewitching him & she must live her own house ‘cause he built it. Some people don’t love it when a family is filled with warmth, love and happiness

  • @galaletsang-morenamogale8040
    @galaletsang-morenamogale8040 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    If she thinks Gogo is bewitching her, then she should go find her own house maan NXA😠😠

    • @joanpheto5538
      @joanpheto5538 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you..

    • @sarahtsotetsi2764
      @sarahtsotetsi2764 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      One day di tla kgutla dintho tseo mohlang mme wa hao a tsamayang lefatsheng 🤞💔

  • @ThembisileJele
    @ThembisileJele 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Names are very spiritual

  • @sibongilenhlapo7562
    @sibongilenhlapo7562 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    How many lives have been ruined by Most sangomas? God I hope many will turn to you in prayer.

    • @moyahabothoka8634
      @moyahabothoka8634 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sibongile Nhlapo then the pastor tells you that someone is blacking your blessings,is it not the same issue?

    • @Kutloanos
      @Kutloanos 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same issue with christianity. in fact any religion is kak

    • @user-qz3ze9bd6b
      @user-qz3ze9bd6b 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Not only sangoma’s even people. E.g neighbours, relatives etc

    • @hunadilentswana6962
      @hunadilentswana6962 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sangomas are worse, but I don’t blame them, they need money

  • @nicolettenonyane3252
    @nicolettenonyane3252 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I am so hurt that my mother passed on when I was very young 37 years later I stil miss my mother. Dideka does not know what she is missing. Treating your mother like this?

    • @ntsoakimaibelo9198
      @ntsoakimaibelo9198 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you can say that again

    • @BusisiweGama-lk1pm
      @BusisiweGama-lk1pm 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yoo ngempela yazi

    • @BusisiweGama-lk1pm
      @BusisiweGama-lk1pm 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lomntwana uyadelela akaphume endlini kagogo usile lontombazane ayekwakhe sis

    • @user-nw7fq9pf7q
      @user-nw7fq9pf7q 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True

    • @Madirmodar99
      @Madirmodar99 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Ey mfethu me too I miss my mom even though wayengishiya wonke umhlaba kodwa I really wish she was here to see me now n grandkids😢❤

  • @thepixiefairy4986
    @thepixiefairy4986 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    her words at the end of the show melted my heart, with her soft smile. she has really been through the worst.

    • @neomonakale1804
      @neomonakale1804 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I had teary eyes🥺😞

  • @Smangi2012
    @Smangi2012 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    How I wish my mom and grandmother was around tjo o tlo itshola gal oo sham 😢💔

  • @intrendingvlogs4365
    @intrendingvlogs4365 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love your elderly people please.😭😭😭😭

  • @Sebongile_Baloyi
    @Sebongile_Baloyi 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Gogo has a very good heart, she is just like my mother 😍

  • @refentsemokobe2105
    @refentsemokobe2105 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You would have to be a special kind of "broken" to treat an elderly like that.

  • @mabelmbatha
    @mabelmbatha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    God bless the neighbors ❤️🙏

  • @skangezilendhlovu2537
    @skangezilendhlovu2537 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love u gogo kuzolunga umuhle futhi💖💖💖

  • @lufunotshivhase8076
    @lufunotshivhase8076 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ohhh just found myself crying 😭😭😭

  • @andyhlubi7
    @andyhlubi7 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    This is heartbreaking, yo💔💔💔😭

  • @thulanyoni249
    @thulanyoni249 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    How can this Dideka treat her mother like this! She has no heart

    • @user-nw7fq9pf7q
      @user-nw7fq9pf7q 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Her baby daddy chase her, now she is talking frustration on her mother.

  • @user-iy8wg3gs7v
    @user-iy8wg3gs7v 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks to 2 lady s and TV

  • @nthatijermina926
    @nthatijermina926 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Kaskalla jwalo 😢 this lady otlosotleha all hef life for hosotla ka mama hae

  • @jenniferramoshaba7307
    @jenniferramoshaba7307 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Am happy for you Gogo peace and love that you deserve

  • @jaytouch7214
    @jaytouch7214 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I wish Dideka lived in my hood in Tembisa, she wasn't going to do this rubbish she's doing to her mother. The community is not serious about throwing her out

  • @thandolwethugama8818
    @thandolwethugama8818 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Imagine raising a child for her to treat you like this ? Yoooh l hope gogo is okay and happy now

  • @Kamo439
    @Kamo439 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    This is heart breaking 💔💔💔💔💔😭

  • @NPC6061
    @NPC6061 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yhooo ibuhlungu ibuhlungu 😢 ibuhlungu!!!! I can't even finish levideo

  • @lobelaletticia9491
    @lobelaletticia9491 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ending is very heartwarming ❤️
    Gogo freda is a wonderful soul ❤️

  • @normantuli8770
    @normantuli8770 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This hurts alot, hope someone saves gogo😢

  • @gogiphum915
    @gogiphum915 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I wish this woman long life so that she can endure 10 times what this gogo is going through cos her kids are going to show her flames

    • @MosheDibe
      @MosheDibe 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      100%

  • @Lifewithmona_x
    @Lifewithmona_x 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This breaks my heart💔.
    Im even crying while watching this

  • @nokuthulamdokwe4107
    @nokuthulamdokwe4107 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dideka😭 I hope you've changed, I feel sorry for Dideka's kids too they are taught evil at young age

  • @mamoseturumane2813
    @mamoseturumane2813 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This brought tears ... ...Dikeka you are evil!!!

    • @mphomogane4531
      @mphomogane4531 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mamo Seturumane shuuuuu😪😥

  • @EstherMofokeng
    @EstherMofokeng 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Mama Dideka who is already 45 has given up on life and has nothing to lose that's why ale so. She is bitter and angry at the world and is making her mother pay for her struggles. She is still going to struggle habohloko Dideka eo🤞

  • @tshepisAtricia
    @tshepisAtricia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This brought me tears (sleeping on the floor & hiding food ) thats a real struggle 😭..what kind of a person is Dideka pure evil

    • @kabelokhanye9704
      @kabelokhanye9704 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tshepisaw Tricia it’s really sad 😔 hey💔it’s breaks my to think that we have such abusive humans towards their parents in their own home

    • @luu_leratoluthando442
      @luu_leratoluthando442 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😭

  • @phosa7775
    @phosa7775 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless the neighbors 🙏😭😭😭

  • @jackiemoloi6406
    @jackiemoloi6406 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    U are right my sister Tembisa doesn't take nonsense

  • @BusisiweGama-lk1pm
    @BusisiweGama-lk1pm 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Siyabonga bo makhelwane ukungenelela nisizenabanye

  • @Thato-tee
    @Thato-tee 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What a touching story

  • @hilmanipanda4808
    @hilmanipanda4808 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My goodness 😢. Dj
    Gogo is such s sweet soul

  • @KgosigadiMarumo-bk2dd
    @KgosigadiMarumo-bk2dd 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Iam touched

  • @rubylane9867
    @rubylane9867 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I fail to understand why the abuse of the elderly went on for so long without proper intervention relevant professionals. This is clearly a case of Safe Gaurding adult which needs implementing protection of the elderly. The abuse by her daughter is not a case of not accepting her mother's mental health issues. Gogo sounds capable to express her needs and the pain she is going through abusive daughter. Why the daughter was not charged and removed from Gogo's house immediately pending the meeting. They left her with the same daughter under the same roof so that the abuse continues till they decided a plan of action at the next meeting. There was all the evidence of abuse reported by the neighbours. But still professionals prioritised counselling for daughter and Gogo so daughter can understand Gogo mental health issues. That was clearly supposed to be an ongoing plan not a top priority. In my view Gogo was failed by authorities and not got protection she deserved. It's so sad to see such poor intervention. Please this is an embarrassment to the SW proffession . Can you imagine how many cases similar to Gogo's case that are handled in this manner.

  • @emeliamokoena5221
    @emeliamokoena5221 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hiw can i get hold of Gogo Frieda? I know here very well and want to assist her.

    • @mlungisimazolo9986
      @mlungisimazolo9986 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I also was wondering because I would also love to help her if you find any info please let me know.

  • @vhonaniramagwa2982
    @vhonaniramagwa2982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    TO BE HONEST THE ONLY WAY TO GET HELP IS GOING TO TV HAPPY FOR YOU GOGO WE LOVE YOU.

  • @lungilesibiya2712
    @lungilesibiya2712 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This story breaks my heart 😭😭😭😭😭.

  • @elizabethjabulile3848
    @elizabethjabulile3848 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im so hurt, sisi one day u gonna miss this woman😭

  • @naomimotlhasedi4086
    @naomimotlhasedi4086 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im so hurt to see this story. Im basically holding back the tears.

    • @bathsebabaatseba5469
      @bathsebabaatseba5469 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I cried how can you abuse your mother like that😭😭😭😭

  • @anelisanotyeke5327
    @anelisanotyeke5327 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ndihlutshwa landawo Athi gogo makahambe bcz indoda yakhe yeza rhaaaa Sana awusazi isinqalekiso osibeka phezu kwakho nabantwana bakho ngalento yenza Mzalini wakho

  • @KhethaniMbandlwa-jt4dq
    @KhethaniMbandlwa-jt4dq 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yhooo 😭😭😭😭😭Hai shem abantu💔💔💔

  • @shirleynkgadim360
    @shirleynkgadim360 ปีที่แล้ว

    Heart breaking

  • @gladyssimelane830
    @gladyssimelane830 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This daughter is going to suffer I swear😭😭💔.... nd I pray to God that she lives until she's old ahlupheke soh arg man this is a disgrace 😭😭😭 it's breaking my heart.... some of us are wishing to have mothers nd grannies yet yena o dlala soh ka motswadi, sies man she will suffer😠😠😠

  • @MoTee1
    @MoTee1 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This just broke my heart... no elderly person should be treated like that. At some point these sangoma's need to take responsibility for feeding lies to people and breaking up families. They are irresponsible with their consultations.

  • @serve932
    @serve932 ปีที่แล้ว

    She was really beautiful

  • @thabangprudie1249
    @thabangprudie1249 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    it is so sad how how their relationship got destroyed just because of that sangoma. dideka how can u treat you mom like that mara?. nithaidzo musidzana

  • @user-jy3rt9yx1u
    @user-jy3rt9yx1u 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🥲😭😭this story though cuts deep i wonder where is gogo now

  • @letschatwithkeam3820
    @letschatwithkeam3820 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My heart broke by listening to this. Yah nehhhh...#sigh

  • @hlologelonchabeleng686
    @hlologelonchabeleng686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Freda🥰🥰😍

  • @gladyssimelane830
    @gladyssimelane830 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yabona sangomas must be burnished in this world especially in S.A. man these ppl are cruel 😠

    • @MohauMafojane-ei1pz
      @MohauMafojane-ei1pz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They ruined a beautiful relationship. Satan's soldiers.

  • @nomusaphala3485
    @nomusaphala3485 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My king I salute you ukhona lo uzongena it's true 😂uzoputshuka it's honest man

  • @hlologelonchabeleng686
    @hlologelonchabeleng686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As for namanyana feela 😂😂

  • @mmakabelomahapa1750
    @mmakabelomahapa1750 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Modimo o ho hlohonolofaditse Gogo🙏🏽❤️

  • @filinadube6081
    @filinadube6081 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    How can you do this to your mom.Dideka wake up find your own place

  • @mapulaledwaba9373
    @mapulaledwaba9373 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My heart breaks for Gogo Freida 💔. This is cruelty

  • @nollzdee1488
    @nollzdee1488 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 My heart is bleeding, can we donate for uGogo please

  • @BlackwolfAN
    @BlackwolfAN 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    😍😍😍😍

  • @thembelangcobondwana3952
    @thembelangcobondwana3952 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is so sad man... 💔

    • @angapichy1261
      @angapichy1261 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      very sad story indeed. how can one do such to their own mother? esp by judging your mother you've been with for years by something a stranger just told you? hay khona this Dideka lady is really confused

    • @thembelangcobondwana3952
      @thembelangcobondwana3952 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      This Dideka is sick man yhoo

  • @thembimaseko4756
    @thembimaseko4756 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please T V s a b C , continue with your good work don't stop please.

  • @koketsoboshego8337
    @koketsoboshego8337 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💔💔💔😢

  • @hlonelambiko2494
    @hlonelambiko2494 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @merriammokgothu8361
    @merriammokgothu8361 ปีที่แล้ว

    😭😭😭💔💔💔

  • @user-cj5je6vb8f
    @user-cj5je6vb8f 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    xhosa guys always get what is ungetable syawina

  • @mmakabelomahapa1750
    @mmakabelomahapa1750 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These social workers use the book and titles and not humanity. So called ngwana is not ngwana anymo pls 47🙆🏼‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️still at home and abusing motswadi…. Imagine back room 🤦🏽‍♀️she must just Go..😡

  • @lifewithanita1937
    @lifewithanita1937 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am so hurt yooh i am extremely hurt ndinesngqala this is evil man

  • @tsholofelorebecca1837
    @tsholofelorebecca1837 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Im very disappointed by my fellow social work colleagues...They are only intervening because media is involved..If they felt that the case needs referral why didnt they refer her to relvant resources and keep contact regarding her development...Elderly and children should be their first priority

    • @Art4Fun937
      @Art4Fun937 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      An embarrassment to our profession

  • @thegab_7
    @thegab_7 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What on earth would make a daughter switch up on her mom like that? Sounds like there is more to this story than we know. But def won't tolerate abuse and the daughter actually needs to be arrested for that. The fact that she absolutely refuses to be interviewed to give her side of the story is curious

  • @mapasekaclara4689
    @mapasekaclara4689 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sis mara lontombazane why ahlukumeza umama wakhe cha guy's dineo plz help this granny ,,,abuse in her house no ,guy's

  • @lungisilekhambule6538
    @lungisilekhambule6538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Social development is failing older people😢

  • @phumlazulu5191
    @phumlazulu5191 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💔💔💔💔💔

  • @glendamasoeu5417
    @glendamasoeu5417 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    At 47that lady must find herself accom.

  • @DuduzileSukazi
    @DuduzileSukazi 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Government is to slow I'm so hurt yaz

  • @mammokokobos7554
    @mammokokobos7554 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    PAINFUL

  • @thitikwanemokgadi6271
    @thitikwanemokgadi6271 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    But God😢😢😢

    • @mphomogane4531
      @mphomogane4531 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thitikwane Mokgadi shuuuu this is sad and gogo is so cute 🥰

  • @jackiemoloi6406
    @jackiemoloi6406 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That sangoma needs to be punished because he profesies twak

  • @siphesihlerichard4614
    @siphesihlerichard4614 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The sangomas kodwa

  • @daphneyhengstberger4018
    @daphneyhengstberger4018 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mxm, I couldn’t finish this I hate watching this nonsense. Our government is failing old people...

  • @nkonkontozonke5035
    @nkonkontozonke5035 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    my God I will paint my house nd buy hart pots nd meat😢

  • @MondliMhlongo-db9vd
    @MondliMhlongo-db9vd 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Umuntu usazoguga ubuhle buphele iyo😅

  • @choeneolive3085
    @choeneolive3085 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😓😓😓

  • @igletmolatudi3321
    @igletmolatudi3321 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This Dideka rubbish needs to go to prison

  • @ramokonelanga8275
    @ramokonelanga8275 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so disappointed in our social development and police system and our government in general. It's nonsensical to only do their jobs when cameras expose them. Dideka is also wicked, how do you treat your mother like this? Parents are very godly she should know better because she is also a mother

    • @mphomatshaya2740
      @mphomatshaya2740 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She trusted sangoma too much 😢

  • @DuduzileSukazi
    @DuduzileSukazi 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    How mara 💔 haai

  • @tshepocyprel9448
    @tshepocyprel9448 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dideka get your house in order u will miss her one day. Stop bealivng tht crap u were told buy yo so called sangoma u wll regret it one day sangoma cn bring havoc in families

  • @blessingmatsomane5088
    @blessingmatsomane5088 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Magogo Ne a chesa joo

  • @rayenelevid1270
    @rayenelevid1270 ปีที่แล้ว

    She left may she never come back ever cos she's just waiting to inherit it the house fela

  • @sallynhlanhla
    @sallynhlanhla 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    People must stop going to sangomas and trust in JESUS, that's it! Look at what that initial trip to the sangoma did to this once happy family.

  • @Thapang
    @Thapang 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tjo poor gogo

  • @thembimaseko4756
    @thembimaseko4756 ปีที่แล้ว

    The daughter with her children out.

  • @user-mx3fk3fr6w
    @user-mx3fk3fr6w 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This dideka is evil 💔💔💔💔

  • @nonkonzohadebe5219
    @nonkonzohadebe5219 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Uphi udideka. I want t see her yaz udidekile shame how cn u abuse ur own mother