At my Age - Episode 13

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  • @nelnel4127
    @nelnel4127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    UGogo was so beautful itjoooh🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @thabothobejane6608
    @thabothobejane6608 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This is painful! God please intervene ,You are able to change hearts Lord! We leave everything in your hards ,change those we cannot change Lord!

  • @skangezilendhlovu2537
    @skangezilendhlovu2537 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Love u gogo kuzolunga umuhle futhi💖💖💖

  • @leratomodutwane8730
    @leratomodutwane8730 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    How can a child treat her mother in such a way..she heartless jooh..i can never treat my mother like that after everything she has done for me..i will forever be grateful..hope gogo gets to live in peace and harmony with her neighbours..she's truly blessed to have people like that around her...

  • @elizabethkoenane1383
    @elizabethkoenane1383 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Eish i always say treat your parents right... You will get the rewards when they leave... I'm so grateful every day because i know I'm getting blessings from my mom... I took care of her for 3 years when she was bedridden because i didn't want someone taking care of her from outside...
    My life is fruitful because i did my part.
    God bless all the parents who are going through a lot ❤🙏

  • @Smangi2012
    @Smangi2012 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    How I wish my mom and grandmother was around tjo o tlo itshola gal oo sham 😢💔

  • @djvaughn2367
    @djvaughn2367 6 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    The neighbours and Gogo Frieda are amazing 😭😭😭❤🙏

  • @KaraboRadebe-o6u
    @KaraboRadebe-o6u 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is so heartbreaking how could someone do this to their mother I feel sorry for such people who treat their parents this way

  • @intrendingvlogs4365
    @intrendingvlogs4365 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Love your elderly people please.😭😭😭😭

  • @thepixiefairy4986
    @thepixiefairy4986 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    her words at the end of the show melted my heart, with her soft smile. she has really been through the worst.

    • @neomonakale1804
      @neomonakale1804 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I had teary eyes🥺😞

  • @kassiebsaili8355
    @kassiebsaili8355 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My heart broke into a million pieces 😢

  • @happinessmalaza1762
    @happinessmalaza1762 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Mama Freida’s story reminds me of how we used to live at home. My mom’s first born used to insult her saying she’s bewitching him & she must live her own house ‘cause he built it. Some people don’t love it when a family is filled with warmth, love and happiness

  • @nicolettenonyane3252
    @nicolettenonyane3252 6 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I am so hurt that my mother passed on when I was very young 37 years later I stil miss my mother. Dideka does not know what she is missing. Treating your mother like this?

    • @ntsoakimaibelo9198
      @ntsoakimaibelo9198 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you can say that again

    • @BusisiweGama-lk1pm
      @BusisiweGama-lk1pm 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yoo ngempela yazi

    • @BusisiweGama-lk1pm
      @BusisiweGama-lk1pm 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lomntwana uyadelela akaphume endlini kagogo usile lontombazane ayekwakhe sis

    • @NthabisengSelinaModise
      @NthabisengSelinaModise 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True

    • @Leonliaralee99
      @Leonliaralee99 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ey mfethu me too I miss my mom even though wayengishiya wonke umhlaba kodwa I really wish she was here to see me now n grandkids😢❤

  • @Sebongile_Baloyi
    @Sebongile_Baloyi 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Gogo has a very good heart, she is just like my mother 😍

  • @mabelmbatha
    @mabelmbatha 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    God bless the neighbors ❤️🙏

  • @ThembisileJele
    @ThembisileJele 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Names are very spiritual

  • @tshireletsothabangmorule8670
    @tshireletsothabangmorule8670 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Gogo Freida your suffering in this world certify you a big place in heaven. I hope your daughter can move out so you can live your life freely

    • @lolomdlalose4547
      @lolomdlalose4547 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Gogo Freda is one of the chosen Satan the only solution here is to take her to the elderly home, otherwise she will continue living this sad life for rest of her life, she will have peasefull life not in this world the kingdom of God is near

  • @lufunotshivhase8076
    @lufunotshivhase8076 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ohhh just found myself crying 😭😭😭

  • @andyhlubi7
    @andyhlubi7 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This is heartbreaking, yo💔💔💔😭

  • @galaletsang-morenamogale8040
    @galaletsang-morenamogale8040 6 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    If she thinks Gogo is bewitching her, then she should go find her own house maan NXA😠😠

    • @joanpheto5538
      @joanpheto5538 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you..

    • @sarahtsotetsi2764
      @sarahtsotetsi2764 ปีที่แล้ว

      One day di tla kgutla dintho tseo mohlang mme wa hao a tsamayang lefatsheng 🤞💔

  • @refentsemokobe2105
    @refentsemokobe2105 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    You would have to be a special kind of "broken" to treat an elderly like that.

  • @sibongilenhlapo7562
    @sibongilenhlapo7562 6 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    How many lives have been ruined by Most sangomas? God I hope many will turn to you in prayer.

    • @moyahabothoka8634
      @moyahabothoka8634 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sibongile Nhlapo then the pastor tells you that someone is blacking your blessings,is it not the same issue?

    • @Kutloanos
      @Kutloanos 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      same issue with christianity. in fact any religion is kak

    • @tshepangmosime
      @tshepangmosime 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Not only sangoma’s even people. E.g neighbours, relatives etc

    • @hunadilentswana6962
      @hunadilentswana6962 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Sangomas are worse, but I don’t blame them, they need money

  • @BusisiweGama-lk1pm
    @BusisiweGama-lk1pm 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Siyabonga bo makhelwane ukungenelela nisizenabanye

  • @jenniferramoshaba7307
    @jenniferramoshaba7307 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Am happy for you Gogo peace and love that you deserve

  • @Thato-tee
    @Thato-tee 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What a touching story

  • @lungilesibiya2712
    @lungilesibiya2712 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This story breaks my heart 😭😭😭😭😭.

  • @hilmanipanda4808
    @hilmanipanda4808 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My goodness 😢. Dj
    Gogo is such s sweet soul

  • @KealebogaGloria
    @KealebogaGloria 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks to 2 lady s and TV

  • @gogiphum915
    @gogiphum915 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I wish this woman long life so that she can endure 10 times what this gogo is going through cos her kids are going to show her flames

    • @MosheDibe
      @MosheDibe 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      100%

  • @mamoseturumane2813
    @mamoseturumane2813 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This brought tears ... ...Dikeka you are evil!!!

    • @mphomogane4531
      @mphomogane4531 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mamo Seturumane shuuuuu😪😥

  • @earthy_12
    @earthy_12 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Dideka will never find peace for the way she treated Gogo. Gogo I am so sorry for what you went through, I hope you finally found peace 🥺🥺

    • @nthatijermina926
      @nthatijermina926 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@earthy_12 you çan hear by her name she a problem

    • @hunadilentswana6962
      @hunadilentswana6962 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why did they give her such name

  • @lobelaletticia9491
    @lobelaletticia9491 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ending is very heartwarming ❤️
    Gogo freda is a wonderful soul ❤️

  • @thulanyoni249
    @thulanyoni249 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    How can this Dideka treat her mother like this! She has no heart

    • @NthabisengSelinaModise
      @NthabisengSelinaModise 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Her baby daddy chase her, now she is talking frustration on her mother.

  • @phosa7775
    @phosa7775 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless the neighbors 🙏😭😭😭

  • @anelisanotyeke5327
    @anelisanotyeke5327 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ndihlutshwa landawo Athi gogo makahambe bcz indoda yakhe yeza rhaaaa Sana awusazi isinqalekiso osibeka phezu kwakho nabantwana bakho ngalento yenza Mzalini wakho

  • @ZiziphoDlova
    @ZiziphoDlova 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yhoo I wanted to see lo Dideka ugezayo

  • @nthatijermina926
    @nthatijermina926 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Kaskalla jwalo 😢 this lady otlosotleha all hef life for hosotla ka mama hae

  • @Kamo439
    @Kamo439 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is heart breaking 💔💔💔💔💔😭

  • @NPC6061
    @NPC6061 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yhooo ibuhlungu ibuhlungu 😢 ibuhlungu!!!! I can't even finish levideo

  • @KgosigadiMarumo-bk2dd
    @KgosigadiMarumo-bk2dd 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Iam touched

  • @normantuli8770
    @normantuli8770 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This hurts alot, hope someone saves gogo😢

  • @lifeasdollyyy8160
    @lifeasdollyyy8160 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    No matter how a parent triggers you never do this ! My gran does trigger us always kodwa we know at the end Wuye ophethe iynhlanhla zethu 😭an elder sleeping down?no nkala

  • @jackiemoloi6406
    @jackiemoloi6406 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    U are right my sister Tembisa doesn't take nonsense

  • @elizabethjabulile3848
    @elizabethjabulile3848 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Im so hurt, sisi one day u gonna miss this woman😭

  • @KhethaniMbandlwa-jt4dq
    @KhethaniMbandlwa-jt4dq ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yhooo 😭😭😭😭😭Hai shem abantu💔💔💔

  • @gladyssimelane830
    @gladyssimelane830 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This daughter is going to suffer I swear😭😭💔.... nd I pray to God that she lives until she's old ahlupheke soh arg man this is a disgrace 😭😭😭 it's breaking my heart.... some of us are wishing to have mothers nd grannies yet yena o dlala soh ka motswadi, sies man she will suffer😠😠😠

  • @naomimotlhasedi4086
    @naomimotlhasedi4086 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Im so hurt to see this story. Im basically holding back the tears.

    • @bathsebabaatseba5469
      @bathsebabaatseba5469 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I cried how can you abuse your mother like that😭😭😭😭

  • @Lifewithmona_x
    @Lifewithmona_x 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This breaks my heart💔.
    Im even crying while watching this

  • @serve932
    @serve932 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She was really beautiful

  • @nomusaphala3485
    @nomusaphala3485 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My king I salute you ukhona lo uzongena it's true 😂uzoputshuka it's honest man

  • @thandolwethugama8818
    @thandolwethugama8818 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Imagine raising a child for her to treat you like this ? Yoooh l hope gogo is okay and happy now

  • @shirleynkgadim360
    @shirleynkgadim360 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Heart breaking

  • @vhonaniramagwa2982
    @vhonaniramagwa2982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    TO BE HONEST THE ONLY WAY TO GET HELP IS GOING TO TV HAPPY FOR YOU GOGO WE LOVE YOU.

  • @emeliamokoena5221
    @emeliamokoena5221 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hiw can i get hold of Gogo Frieda? I know here very well and want to assist her.

    • @mlungisimazolo9986
      @mlungisimazolo9986 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I also was wondering because I would also love to help her if you find any info please let me know.

  • @hlologelonchabeleng686
    @hlologelonchabeleng686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Freda🥰🥰😍

  • @nollzdee1488
    @nollzdee1488 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 My heart is bleeding, can we donate for uGogo please

  • @RichardZweni
    @RichardZweni 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Kubhuhlungu imphela kodwa labo mam bethu bafihla izinto ezibopha thina

  • @mmakabelomahapa1750
    @mmakabelomahapa1750 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Modimo o ho hlohonolofaditse Gogo🙏🏽❤️

  • @tshepisAtricia
    @tshepisAtricia 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This brought me tears (sleeping on the floor & hiding food ) thats a real struggle 😭..what kind of a person is Dideka pure evil

    • @kabelokhanye9704
      @kabelokhanye9704 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tshepisaw Tricia it’s really sad 😔 hey💔it’s breaks my to think that we have such abusive humans towards their parents in their own home

    • @luu_leratoluthando442
      @luu_leratoluthando442 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😭

  • @LeboDlamini-g5p
    @LeboDlamini-g5p 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🥲😭😭this story though cuts deep i wonder where is gogo now

  • @nokuthulamdokwe4107
    @nokuthulamdokwe4107 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dideka😭 I hope you've changed, I feel sorry for Dideka's kids too they are taught evil at young age

  • @thembelangcobondwana3952
    @thembelangcobondwana3952 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is so sad man... 💔

    • @angapichy1261
      @angapichy1261 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      very sad story indeed. how can one do such to their own mother? esp by judging your mother you've been with for years by something a stranger just told you? hay khona this Dideka lady is really confused

    • @thembelangcobondwana3952
      @thembelangcobondwana3952 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      This Dideka is sick man yhoo

  • @RTshidi
    @RTshidi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Mama Dideka who is already 45 has given up on life and has nothing to lose that's why ale so. She is bitter and angry at the world and is making her mother pay for her struggles. She is still going to struggle habohloko Dideka eo🤞

  • @DinidineoMonate
    @DinidineoMonate 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🎉Sorry gogo i wish u can get help nd live wth peace one day she will need u ❤

  • @nomvulaveronicangema566
    @nomvulaveronicangema566 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Cha ismanga ke lesi uDideka athi umama wakhe udidekile kodwa nguye odidekile, sbonge ngoba ugcine ehambile engambulalanga unina ngoba cishe kwafika lapho nd noNkulunkulu uyisimanga ngoba uvele wamgcina lomama nkosyam

  • @jaytouch7214
    @jaytouch7214 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I wish Dideka lived in my hood in Tembisa, she wasn't going to do this rubbish she's doing to her mother. The community is not serious about throwing her out

  • @MóTee1
    @MóTee1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This just broke my heart... no elderly person should be treated like that. At some point these sangoma's need to take responsibility for feeding lies to people and breaking up families. They are irresponsible with their consultations.

  • @mapasekaclara4689
    @mapasekaclara4689 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sis mara lontombazane why ahlukumeza umama wakhe cha guy's dineo plz help this granny ,,,abuse in her house no ,guy's

  • @hlonelambiko2494
    @hlonelambiko2494 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @thembimaseko4756
    @thembimaseko4756 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please T V s a b C , continue with your good work don't stop please.

  • @ThalefaneJennifer
    @ThalefaneJennifer 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I wish she was my mother i don't have one

  • @hlologelonchabeleng686
    @hlologelonchabeleng686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As for namanyana feela 😂😂

  • @MondliMhlongo-db9vd
    @MondliMhlongo-db9vd 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Umuntu usazoguga ubuhle buphele iyo😅

  • @letschatwithkeam3820
    @letschatwithkeam3820 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My heart broke by listening to this. Yah nehhhh...#sigh

  • @mapulaledwaba9373
    @mapulaledwaba9373 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My heart breaks for Gogo Freida 💔. This is cruelty

  • @rubylane9867
    @rubylane9867 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I fail to understand why the abuse of the elderly went on for so long without proper intervention relevant professionals. This is clearly a case of Safe Gaurding adult which needs implementing protection of the elderly. The abuse by her daughter is not a case of not accepting her mother's mental health issues. Gogo sounds capable to express her needs and the pain she is going through abusive daughter. Why the daughter was not charged and removed from Gogo's house immediately pending the meeting. They left her with the same daughter under the same roof so that the abuse continues till they decided a plan of action at the next meeting. There was all the evidence of abuse reported by the neighbours. But still professionals prioritised counselling for daughter and Gogo so daughter can understand Gogo mental health issues. That was clearly supposed to be an ongoing plan not a top priority. In my view Gogo was failed by authorities and not got protection she deserved. It's so sad to see such poor intervention. Please this is an embarrassment to the SW proffession . Can you imagine how many cases similar to Gogo's case that are handled in this manner.

  • @thabangprudie1249
    @thabangprudie1249 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    it is so sad how how their relationship got destroyed just because of that sangoma. dideka how can u treat you mom like that mara?. nithaidzo musidzana

  • @thitikwanemokgadi6271
    @thitikwanemokgadi6271 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    But God😢😢😢

    • @mphomogane4531
      @mphomogane4531 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thitikwane Mokgadi shuuuu this is sad and gogo is so cute 🥰

  • @merriammokgothu8361
    @merriammokgothu8361 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😭😭😭💔💔💔

  • @koketsoboshego8337
    @koketsoboshego8337 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    💔💔💔😢

  • @fundiswamacamba
    @fundiswamacamba 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    xhosa guys always get what is ungetable syawina

  • @DuduzileSukazi
    @DuduzileSukazi 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How mara 💔 haai

  • @mmakabelomahapa1750
    @mmakabelomahapa1750 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These social workers use the book and titles and not humanity. So called ngwana is not ngwana anymo pls 47🙆🏼‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️still at home and abusing motswadi…. Imagine back room 🤦🏽‍♀️she must just Go..😡

  • @thegab_7
    @thegab_7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What on earth would make a daughter switch up on her mom like that? Sounds like there is more to this story than we know. But def won't tolerate abuse and the daughter actually needs to be arrested for that. The fact that she absolutely refuses to be interviewed to give her side of the story is curious

  • @DuduzileSukazi
    @DuduzileSukazi 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Government is to slow I'm so hurt yaz

  • @gladyssimelane830
    @gladyssimelane830 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yabona sangomas must be burnished in this world especially in S.A. man these ppl are cruel 😠

    • @MohauMafojane-ei1pz
      @MohauMafojane-ei1pz ปีที่แล้ว

      They ruined a beautiful relationship. Satan's soldiers.

  • @PulengLegodi
    @PulengLegodi 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Haaai witchdoctor ruined a great relationship between mother and daughter hle 😢people lets run to God 🙏

  • @tsholofelorebecca1837
    @tsholofelorebecca1837 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Im very disappointed by my fellow social work colleagues...They are only intervening because media is involved..If they felt that the case needs referral why didnt they refer her to relvant resources and keep contact regarding her development...Elderly and children should be their first priority

    • @Art4Fun937
      @Art4Fun937 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      An embarrassment to our profession

  • @mammokokobos7554
    @mammokokobos7554 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    PAINFUL

  • @BlackwolfAN
    @BlackwolfAN 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😍😍😍😍

  • @phumlazulu5191
    @phumlazulu5191 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    💔💔💔💔💔

  • @lungisilekhambule6538
    @lungisilekhambule6538 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Social development is failing older people😢

  • @lifewithanita1937
    @lifewithanita1937 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am so hurt yooh i am extremely hurt ndinesngqala this is evil man

  • @filinadube6081
    @filinadube6081 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    How can you do this to your mom.Dideka wake up find your own place

  • @sallynhlanhla
    @sallynhlanhla ปีที่แล้ว +1

    People must stop going to sangomas and trust in JESUS, that's it! Look at what that initial trip to the sangoma did to this once happy family.

  • @siphesihlerichard4614
    @siphesihlerichard4614 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The sangomas kodwa

  • @choeneolive3085
    @choeneolive3085 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😓😓😓

  • @rayenelevid1270
    @rayenelevid1270 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She left may she never come back ever cos she's just waiting to inherit it the house fela

  • @daphneyhengstberger4018
    @daphneyhengstberger4018 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mxm, I couldn’t finish this I hate watching this nonsense. Our government is failing old people...

  • @KarenMuller-l3w
    @KarenMuller-l3w 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😂😂😂 A weak🙌🤣🤣🤣