Florence Gbenro Yes, very sad. When I was her agar I kneed about men. My mother made sure I knew. That being said I was a slow bloomer. Thank hod. I became boy crazy around 19. I didn’t have a child till I was married.
What concerns me the most about this situation is the mystery surrounding the baby’s father. From the scant information that Leah gave about him, it’s clear that he was an older man who lied to take advantage of a young girl, which is a serious offense. And it’s troublesome that neither one of Leah’s parents seem to be concerned about tracking him down; they’re focusing instead on how unprepared and immature Leah is. Yes, she does have a long way to go in growing up and learning how to care for a baby. But it’s not as if she was running wild in the streets. It’s also clear that emotionally, she’s still having trouble processing the enormity of the situation, including the fact that this man abandoned her.
Her mother is not exactly the sharpest tool in the box either, but it's always possible that more happened about the man in question than we see here on film.
Yes ! It's like actually victim blaming because they make it seem like she did this with some kid down the street or at School not some predator she met online
I had my first child at 15 it was exceptionally hard but me and my husband worked together and now my daughter ls 26 and has graduated from kings college London and we have now been together 29 years.
Had my first at 17 was married 18 months by then though and was planned 50 years and 3 children later he's still my best friend and the love of my life
How rude does it matter even 29 years ago this would not have been the issue it would have been when I married at 16 ( 50+years ago now) I'm assuming if her child went to kings then she is if not English then British in England you can marry at 18 without parents consent I'm Scottish we can marry at 16 and I did I married in February of 69 had my child in July of 70 perhaps she chose not to marry or had accidental pregnancy that's fine her business whether the child was born out of wedlock or not
Don't get your panties in a bind. Age of consent is 16. Even if they're close to 16 or look mature, nothing much is done about it. Her mom probably approved of her dating him. She'll be lucky if she even recieves any child support from him. They're not very efficient of enforcing that either. However, she will get a government check for herself and the baby and qualify for government housing.
My first child was born when I was 27, and now I'm much older I wish I hadn't married in my 20's and travelled round Europe before settling down until I was at least 35.
@@gillianbrookwell1678 infertility is such an issue in this day and age, that when many women wait til their mid-thirties, they find they cannot conceive & then require IVF. So, there's some silver lining to having a child younger.
I had my first child at 29 . Just almost 30 and it was such a shock to have a baby even though she was planned. Can't imagine how these girls feel so young.
Leah sounds very well read. Her English is superb, her mannerisms, etiquette is decent, and it seems that she has a high IQ. I hope that she did pursue becoming a Doctor! Honestly the loveliest girl. I wish her well.
@@briannamurphy5966 I wasn't assuming anything. I was pointing out that the original comment was maybe made by someone assuming that he was a drug dealer because SHE is black. If you read my comment properly you would see that. I don't know what ethnicity her baby father is but I felt that the original comment was made because she is black and a racial stereotype was being made. If you read my comment again you'll see that I was saying exactly what you just said.
did you guys forget that when you're pregnant you go through and exhaustion stage and a lot of pregnant mothers nap during the day or they take a few naps 😂
Looked Leah up…. Looks like she’s a doula in Brixton now. So that in and of itself is an accomplishment, but she did it as a young mum. Hats off to her
That crushed me when her mom said it feels like her life is over and it seems like no hope of her achieving her goal. Like what??? You guys can support her and encourage her. She’s still your child.
Are people really callin her naive and immature? Shes 15 ffs, and this series was made in the early 2000s, kids were actually kids back then, not all-knowing and informed like they are now
Do not judge anyone. You could be in there position. She will be a great mom. Obstacles come and go. But as long as you have the determination. You can and will overcome.
@@jadastrose8675 I’m not black but I used to get told this allllll the time. Ironically, I actually did apply to McDonald’s but I was “overqualified” hahaha
my mum was so young when she had my brother&my sister.. and said with both she didn’t feel ready.. now she has an amazing career, and has since my sister turned 1year old.. brought him and my 3 siblings up and all of us achieve high, have good jobs and never went without. Being a young parent and not feeling ready, isn’t always a bad thing.im not saying it’s a good thing, I’m just saying it’s not always as bad as people say.. good luck to any young mum, I’m 23 an pregnant which isn’t very young, and I still have my worries.
I was pregnant at the age of 23.. babies dad and I got married and have been together for almost 10 years and we've since had another baby. 23 isn't too young. I hope everything went well for you Shelby.
I was a teen mum and it was extremely difficult. However, it didn't stop me from gaining qualifications and going on to do well. But, I was at home changing nappies whilst my friends were out making memories travelling etc. It was my choice and yes if i could go back i would have made different choices. Now my kids are now almost adults and i am doing my thing. As long as she has ambition, she will succeed.
I believe this sweet young lady taken in by a much older and manipulative man. Leah will have to grow up quickly and her parents should be more encouraging and not so negative. I wish Leah and her son all the best.
@@mangooo126 so that mother has no right to complain if her daughter is underage and pregnant. She has no right to expect anyone to talk to her daughter about being responsible, not only is the responsibility of the baby on the young girl but it's on her mother as well...the mother was not only lazy, but she also failed her daughter by not teaching her about life. It was very easy for a man to tell that girl and many young girl like her anything he wanted.
Yeah, would love to see 'mumsy' when she was pregnant -- you suffer greatly from anaemia (if you are prone to it otherwise) when pregnant. Makes you want to sleep for days. Mind you, that bedroom is a tip.
@@zacariastephens2329 of course, but it sounds as if she never had that conversation with her and just assumed she wouldn't be talking to boys (since she went to an all girls school)
Very different from the rude, rebellious pregnant teens we usually see on this show. She really is just a kid who made a mistake. I pray everything worked out for her and all the others.
The situation sucks but I applaud her for still wanting to follow her dreams and become a doctor. A baby stops nothing, only adds to! Remember that! The worse thing a parent can do is tell their child already in such a tough situation that their lives are over because it’s not. She may be young but that doesn’t mean she deserves to regret this experience for the rest of her life. Be happy and excited but most of all learn from it and do better. She’s capable of doing any and everything she dreams of but at the end of the day if she doesn’t have the right support it won’t stick. I wish nothing but the best for her and her little one! ❤️
You keep reading those fanfictions and fantasy novels, darling. Meanwhile the rest of us will live in the real world where limitations and circumstances of birth affect what is available to us.
Just about the only time stories like this are followed up on, whether they're shown in documentary form or in a talk show is when there's a good outcome. You don't get views from another sad statistic!
They never did follow ups to these , they were supposed to educate girls on why it's a bad thing to get pregnant at 16. They didn't want to glorify it at the time because it was really "popular" for teens to get pregnant back then.
Exactly if they give her support and help here and there she can still achieve her goal of becoming a doctor. They’re being so arrow minded of the fact that she didn’t do exactly what they have planned for her
Right? As if destroying her self esteem is going to undo the past. It sounds like she'd had very little sex education before this happened and her mum just doesn't want to take any responsibility for that.
I mean yes, but that’s how we ended up with this shitty generation of teenagers who expect everything for nothing. You have to be tough on kids. But support them at the same time.
I remember watching this at around 19 or 20 and although I knew the situation wasn’t good, being 30 has made me realise, oh my God, that girl has no idea what’s about to hit her!!
I really would love an update about Leah. She was super naive but if anything that will give you a wake up call, it would be a baby. Does anyone know anything about her progress after the show?
I can tell the guy is much older than her ... talking from experience older men prey on schoolgirls and I’m not saying the girls have no part to play or they are not accountable for their actions but there’s a lot of predators hanging around school gates believe me .. and especially on the way home from school in ur school uniform they don’t care to approach you !!!! Pray for our girls ♥️
Love how she says “I’m an adult, I’m having a baby” and then later goes on to say that her mom will change all the diapers and that as long “as it’s fun” she’ll be okay with having a baby. There is very little fun in parenthood. If you don’t even want to change a diaper you are not prepared for all that motherhood is.
I hate when people claim it’s embarrassing to go get condoms. Isn’t it more embarrassing that your a teenage mother?! I know she said she didn’t even use protection, but that’s the point. IT ONLY TAKES ONE TIME. Case & point
I'm a teen Mom I was 16 and honestly? I wasn't embarrassed at all :) I'll never ever would suggest to get pregnant at a young age but I do think young mom's should be respected more. They want to give up there whole youth to raise another human being,tbh I think that's brave as fuck (Side note: I got pregnant while I used the pill and condom)
@@fallen_onexd1380it's not abt shame or anything but if u r too young to be married I think u r too young to have sex some teen mom r lucky but not all and I have seen some teen mom's leaving their babies and running off with another men. It abt bring another life it's not only abt u. Now a days young girls and boys hardly finish school and they are with a baby. Mostly boys can easily get out of it but the girls r the one who suffer the most. I have seen one of my friend she also got pregnant in her teen years after that wat happened to her and baby was not happy end.
I wish older people will speak life into teen parents, so many women I’ve grown up with that became moms at 14-16 and are the doctors taking care of people who said “you’ll only work at McDonald’s”. Just because your life went that way doesn’t mean theirs will, things happen learn to make better choices. I rooting for this young woman, I hope she comes in touch with people who will guide her to her dreams and avoid those who put doubt in her mind. 💜💜💜💜
Thinking that having a baby at 15 will be fun says much about her level of maturity ...for the life of me I can't understand how a bedroom can look like that....thank God for my mother...no messy room!! Teen or not ..☺☺
The law doesn't allow them to get off scott-free, unless they had sex under a fictional identity and are nowhere to be found. There is no legal paternal surrender law, that lets them opt-out of the legal and financial obligations of fatherhood. You get identified as the father, it's "pay up looser" time.
@@KEENDARLING There's times where the father is not known or the girl doesn't tell him. There are a lot of kids that don't know there father's. Hence not been able to claim anything. Sad situation.
I don’t understand why people are calling her stupid. Yes she made a mistake, like cmon people!!!! we all make mistakes. No one is perfect at all. I’m not justifying what happened to her but at the same time don’t come for her.. what about the guy? It takes 2 to make a baby. Now for her laziness.. she is very lazy but let’s not forget that she’s just 15 years old and her mom did not train her well enough to be hard working. It’s really not her fault . I actually feel bad for her, but i do applaud her for not doing an abortion because God has a reason for every human being brought to life. I also applaud her for wanting to go to med school that shows determination. I pray and hopes she achieves her dreams in future. I wish there was an updated video or something.
Making mistakes doesn't take away the fact that she is not 'boy' or street smart...she's stupid, you can hear from the things she says that she'a dumb af
nontobeko mathabela so what are you perfect? Yeah the girl made some mistakes and is very naive, she is very young for her age. Very sad situation but I believe she will turn her life around and do well for herself and her baby.
If you believe that God has a reason for every human being brought to life, why is it so difficult to accept that he also gave doctors and nurses the knowledge and technology to perform abortions for the women who wish to have them?
all of y’all need to realize this was 10+ years ago. Sex education wasn’t as common as it is now. Most places taught abstinence, and it was commonly believed that *you couldn’t get pregnant your first time*
Well the lack of sex education claim doesn’t wash with me. I was teen in the early eighties and knew that your first time at sex was all it can take to fall pregnant. Really I do not understand these claims regarding lack of sex education in school! 🤦♀️
Not that it’s ok that she’s pregnant but I think continuing to berate her for getting pregnant when she’s 5+ months along doesn’t help anyone and only makes her feel worse about herself and situation. I think it’s time to be encouraging and optimistic that she can still have a great life regardless of this slip up
She's a high achiever, with no common sense...that baby daddy story is very sad. She can still achieve her goals, it will take a bit longer..but keep pushing young lady.
I think it’s not fair to call her lazy. She’s a processor. She thinks and thinks and checks again. She’s a smart girl. Secondly, she’s got the maturity of someone her own age. Can’t tell her you’re pregnant you’ve got to grow up in nine months. These things take time. The mother is angry but she can’t use her daughter as an outlet to vent her anger. Take it to a friend or therapist. She needs a mom who will help her and support her. Pregnancy is hard but teen pregnancy is harder!
@@madelineevans128 Have you ever actually seen inside a medical professional's home? They are generally very messy because they are forced to be so clinically clean and tidy in hospitals. The dirtiest people I've ever known have been nurses and doctors.
I know right😂😂😂. Kids kids kids. I honestly don’t know if I want to have any. I think I exhausted myself during my teenage years and don’t want to relive that cycle trying to make sure my seeds don’t ruin their lives! Especially when it comes to dating 😫😩
In 2010 I was 17 not far from her age. I couldn’t even imagine having a baby at that time. I went to Europe that year with my school and traveled to Italy France and Switzerland. That was such an amazing time.
@@carultch Abortion? Not everyone wants that. Not everyone wants to kill their baby p.s Abortion is illegal in the UK after 24 weeks and also when women do get abortions it can lead to depression and regret. We have a choice for a reason and i believe a baby deserve every right to live even if it's not with the birth mother.
@@frankmangan2113 How offensive!!!! I’m a devout Christian. I neither smoke, drink nor do drugs. I’m afraid, that must be YOUR own mentality. Sad. Also it’s THEIR: not THERE…………
For Americans: in the UK, "college" is what they attend after they finish standard education, typically around age 16 or 17. So his dicey comments aside, the fact that biodad was in college at 17 wasn't a stretch in terms of age. It's not like it is here in theU.S. where typical college age is 18 or 19. That's more university in the UK..
The comments really be like "shes so immature" yeah maybe because shes a literal child who was clearly taken advtanage of by an older man smh. How you gone expect a child to act grown?
Mother is completely unaware of what's going on with her daughter, hasn't made it her business to know who the father is and hold him accountable, isn't still with the girl's father who also sounds like a clown, the daughter is living in lala land. The father isn't pleased then why wasn't he instilling sense in his daughter? How two derelict parents conspire to raise a pregnant bubble brained daughter.
@@MrsDogLover You're right about the adoption of course. I wonder just how many teen moms considered adoption but backed out due to the opinions of all the teens who are watching videos like this simply because so many teens think it's so "awful" to place a child for adoption, yet most of them have no idea about how difficult being a young teen mom usually is. I guess I don't understand WHY so many teens think they need to post nasty comments to young girls who have thought of giving their child a better life through adoption? I just find it really strange that a young teen mom to be would actually think that the opinions of people she doesn't actually know means much? If a teen mom is considering adoption it should be her choice and not a bunch of YT teens that have no idea about the young teen mom trying to decide her child's future and that of her own.
NoOrdinaryGirl it’s an acronym that means wives and girlfriends of football players. They had a reality show about it. Basically she thought this guy was some Rich athlete and she was going to be set for life.
I feel so sorry for this girl. The baby's father was clearly an older man who didn't want anything but sex. She's too young to consent. Poor girl, was assaulted but doesn't realise. Hopefully she's doing better now♥
If England held the fathers or the fathers parents accountable I bet the underage pregnancies would drop dramatically. They should be financially accountable for their children.
whilst i enjoy this series the most annoying about is that most of the episodes have part of the sound missing - deffo the videos as restarted the videos and sounds still goes missing. Also the captions are poor too not at all accurate, which can be confusing at times. I like to have them on so i focus.
My heart breaks watching this. This young girl is so sleepy and off with the fairies. So young mentally. She is not ready for school let alone the responsibility of motherhood. And the parents seem to speak to camera saying they are worried but do nothing to help the situation by entertaining her irresponsible behaviours and passive approach to discipline. She needs to come down from Her lofty cloud of holiday mode, and splash the cold waters of reality on her face and wake up. For herself and also the baby and her loved ones who will be affected by her pregnancy. I matter what anyone says. She is sweet but will need more than that to even have a hope at coping with young parenthood. And to think she didn’t even enjoy the experience of the babies conception, it’s so typical of young folk taking part in grown folk things. Young people engaging in premature sexual activities is more about the male pleasure than anything else. And it’s so sad to me that as young woman, they/we subscribe to being taken advantage of in his way, many unknowingly participating in something that benefits them NONE! Then being laden with the consequence and weight of it all. While the boys go off to ruining futures. I want her to do well. Want her to find her rhythm and enjoy her life. Mentally emotionally spiritually and eventually in a relationship that adds to her life.
I'm 26 now with my 5th married my middle school sweet heart! I don't encourage teen pregnancy but I do believe in a support system. I do not believe in telling someone their life is over that is so sad. So the moms life is over and the dad gets to live his
You can study parenthood, go to prenatal classes, be rich etc , but no one is ever ready to have a baby. Every child is different. You don't know what you are going to face with that particular child.
I can't believe young girls like them crazy enough get pregnant this age there life has so much responsibility they no idea how much work would this be for them 🙄
Ready or not it's coming soon. She really needs to finish school no matter what. I hope she's doing good after this show. God bless her and the family.
Good luck on ur pregnancy i think u r kind off brave things happen i wouldn't call ur experience a mistake its just a part off the learning process been young and innocent thank God u still have a supportive mom and good friends u will lear along the way and u seem determine to have ur baby and continue ur education look at ur experience as a blessing ok and always keep ur head up even experience mothers have to learn as they go along because each pregnancy and each child his different at least u were brave to share ur story so another young girl r boy will b more wiser and practice safe sex and put off child bearing until they're older and prepared and experience goodluck to u and ur Beautifull baby boy and become the doctor u always dream off sometimes life just take a detour and ur detour was having a baby at such a young age but it will only strengthen u young for ur future plans bless
It's shocking how all these parents are shock to hear that their teen is pregnant, I mean as a teen hormones are raging and sex is being thought of a lot... It's those teens with no self control and no contraceptive ends up becoming teen parents.
"I should've stayed home, I would have had more fun watching TV" forreal at that age though
Sarah Barnes, damn you speak the truth, we just know what we like and “help” them.,
@@sarahbridges-q6x Can verify. I'm 37 and divorced. Age really doesn't change much lol
Hahhaha this is the best thing I’ve ever heard so much wisdom
Damn.😂😂
I feel so bad for her. She was clearly taken advantage of... I hope her story has turned out better.
I thought that same thing.
Florence Gbenro Yes, very sad. When I was her agar I kneed about men. My mother made sure I knew. That being said I was a slow bloomer. Thank hod. I became boy crazy around 19. I didn’t have a child till I was married.
You are rite
Florence Gbenro me too
Florence Gbenro me too
What concerns me the most about this situation is the mystery surrounding the baby’s father. From the scant information that Leah gave about him, it’s clear that he was an older man who lied to take advantage of a young girl, which is a serious offense. And it’s troublesome that neither one of Leah’s parents seem to be concerned about tracking him down; they’re focusing instead on how unprepared and immature Leah is. Yes, she does have a long way to go in growing up and learning how to care for a baby. But it’s not as if she was running wild in the streets. It’s also clear that emotionally, she’s still having trouble processing the enormity of the situation, including the fact that this man abandoned her.
Her mother is not exactly the sharpest tool in the box either, but it's always possible that more happened about the man in question than we see here on film.
Yes ! It's like actually victim blaming because they make it seem like she did this with some kid down the street or at School not some predator she met online
Just what I was thinking.
I agree.
They don’t no the dads last name or anything they prob can’t find him
I had my first child at 15 it was exceptionally hard but me and my husband worked together and now my daughter ls 26 and has graduated from kings college London and we have now been together 29 years.
Emma Hogger how sweet
Had my first at 17 was married 18 months by then though and was planned 50 years and 3 children later he's still my best friend and the love of my life
How rude does it matter even 29 years ago this would not have been the issue it would have been when I married at 16 ( 50+years ago now) I'm assuming if her child went to kings then she is if not English then British in England you can marry at 18 without parents consent I'm Scottish we can marry at 16 and I did I married in February of 69 had my child in July of 70 perhaps she chose not to marry or had accidental pregnancy that's fine her business whether the child was born out of wedlock or not
Ok..so. Nobody wants to hear that at all
Em Hogger that’s amazing ! ❤️ gives me hope
Him: I’m a professional football player
Me: okay, and, tf?
ARMYYYYY
Aaliyah alexia yes girl, reppin.
Brinetta Reyes ahut up
jaill
Her mom need to find this grown ass man an put him behind bars. 👀👀🏃🏃👊👊
FOR REAL😡! WTF why is that not happening?
@@nikkinikwashere6530 Probably because it will do nothing to help her daughter or her future grandchild.
@@karenpierce6424 it may help the next underage girl he takes advantage of though, and prevent this happen in to more girls.
The age of consent is 16 over there, so nothing will happen to that trash bag, unfortunately.
Don't get your panties in a bind. Age of consent is 16. Even if they're close to 16 or look mature, nothing much is done about it. Her mom probably approved of her dating him. She'll be lucky if she even recieves any child support from him. They're not very efficient of enforcing that either. However, she will get a government check for herself and the baby and qualify for government housing.
This series is so addictive. I’m in my late 20’s and I don’t feel like I’m ready 😂😂
My first child was born when I was 27, and now I'm much older I wish I hadn't married in my 20's and travelled round Europe before settling down until I was at least 35.
I'm 22 and same, I don't feel like I'll be ever be ready to have a baby
@@gillianbrookwell1678 infertility is such an issue in this day and age, that when many women wait til their mid-thirties, they find they cannot conceive & then require IVF. So, there's some silver lining to having a child younger.
Same here.... And I'm 34.... 😅
I had my first child at 29 . Just almost 30 and it was such a shock to have a baby even though she was planned. Can't imagine how these girls feel so young.
Leah sounds very well read. Her English is superb, her mannerisms, etiquette is decent, and it seems that she has a high IQ. I hope that she did pursue becoming a Doctor! Honestly the loveliest girl. I wish her well.
Yes,she so much wit.She is very funny.
The things guys do for sex, saying that they’re a professional football player hahaha
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
LaToya Jones quite worrying indeed.
Right
It seems like some of her lights are off upstairs.
Emma Louise Xx 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
She is such a little child!!! But I don’t mean that in a mean way. I just shake my head remembering how I thought 16 was basically an adult too. 😂
Lowkey same for me (I’m 16 rn lol)
The parents should hire a private investigator to track down the father
FACTS!! He’s just getting away with this!
How about an abortion? Why do these young girls act like they dont have a choice?
He doesn’t have to be in their life. That can be a charge, hiring someone to track him down.
vane lee because they might not agree with it
I need an investigator
"Has a job but never goes to work" hunny he a drug dealer 😂
Is that an assumption because she's black.
Christine Barnes are you assuming all drug dealers are black🤦🏻♀️🙄 get with it bruh
@@briannamurphy5966 I wasn't assuming anything. I was pointing out that the original comment was maybe made by someone assuming that he was a drug dealer because SHE is black. If you read my comment properly you would see that. I don't know what ethnicity her baby father is but I felt that the original comment was made because she is black and a racial stereotype was being made. If you read my comment again you'll see that I was saying exactly what you just said.
I thought she was 12.
or fraud
she didn't want to get up for school so imagine getting up ever 2 hours for a baby 🤦🏻♀️
Haha rt
Try twins lol
Hahaha yup!!! And especially when the baby gets sick no sleep whatsoever !!
did you guys forget that when you're pregnant you go through and exhaustion stage and a lot of pregnant mothers nap during the day or they take a few naps 😂
Kacey Partin exactly this is a every pregnant person thing no matter the age
Looked Leah up…. Looks like she’s a doula in Brixton now. So that in and of itself is an accomplishment, but she did it as a young mum. Hats off to her
What’s her name ?
How did you find her please, I tried searching it came up with different people
Whats her ig name
Damn investigation skills be on point 😂
I feel so sorry for her, these men are manipulative.
they rush growing up and then regret
That crushed me when her mom said it feels like her life is over and it seems like no hope of her achieving her goal. Like what??? You guys can support her and encourage her. She’s still your child.
It's probably what happened to her mother.
Are people really callin her naive and immature? Shes 15 ffs, and this series was made in the early 2000s, kids were actually kids back then, not all-knowing and informed like they are now
Late 2000s
This girl is really naive WOW
Lol some parents just don't tell their kids ANYTHING
Do not judge anyone. You could be in there position. She will be a great mom. Obstacles come and go. But as long as you have the determination. You can and will overcome.
Her rooooooommm.... Omg
Wait did she say fun......wait until sleepless nightz....smh
She's still a baby of course..shoot even adults with kids are not mature
If your ponytail standing up like that sis u too young to have a baby .
I actually snorted with laughter 🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hair unhealthy lol nobody took care of her hair grpwrh
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Arent there any new episodes? There should be follow ups with these. This kid is like 10yrs now
Yh I agree wud b good to get updates on all these women
Agreed!
That’s the power of stalking their social media’s lol
I’m friends with one of the girls sister who was on This program, her boy starts secondary school in a few weeks
I died when she said that her dad told her that her future lies in McDonald’s. sorry but 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂🤣. He was just hurt she went down that path
All black parents say that ,if u stray a little
@@jadastrose8675 True heard it a lot in school by teachers
@@jadastrose8675 right? From going to 100% in every test down to 60% and then it’s “you’ll end up in McDonald’s” 😂😂
@@jadastrose8675 I’m not black but I used to get told this allllll the time. Ironically, I actually did apply to McDonald’s but I was “overqualified” hahaha
my mum was so young when she had my brother&my sister.. and said with both she didn’t feel ready.. now she has an amazing career, and has since my sister turned 1year old.. brought him and my 3 siblings up and all of us achieve high, have good jobs and never went without. Being a young parent and not feeling ready, isn’t always a bad thing.im not saying it’s a good thing, I’m just saying it’s not always as bad as people say.. good luck to any young mum, I’m 23 an pregnant which isn’t very young, and I still have my worries.
23 is still quite young to have a baby. I'd say mid to late twenties is the norm x
I was pregnant at the age of 23.. babies dad and I got married and have been together for almost 10 years and we've since had another baby. 23 isn't too young. I hope everything went well for you Shelby.
Leah is such a sweet girl, the situation is so sad I hope her and her baby are doing great and she goes on to be a doctor like how she wants 😁
I was a teen mum and it was extremely difficult. However, it didn't stop me from gaining qualifications and going on to do well. But, I was at home changing nappies whilst my friends were out making memories travelling etc. It was my choice and yes if i could go back i would have made different choices. Now my kids are now almost adults and i am doing my thing. As long as she has ambition, she will succeed.
Moonbeam Moonbeam Did you have your child on purpose? I'm just wondering because no one ever mentions that when they say they were a young mom.
I like when her mom said we’re in this together
She has a gud mom.mine would have kicked me out the
House
Its unacceptable
Farida VG it is unacceptable but is pregnant teens parent not being supportive.
"I am an adult, I'm having a baby"
Girl no
I believe this sweet young lady taken in by a much older and manipulative man. Leah will have to grow up quickly and her parents should be more encouraging and not so negative. I wish Leah and her son all the best.
The mother called her daughter lazy, but wasn't she lazy to not talk to her daughter about boys, I'm assuming they didn't talk
meshel67 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
That’s not lazy. Some parents don’t wanna talk to their kids about sex EVER. Im Haitian & that’s not a thing they do at alll.
@@mangooo126 so that mother has no right to complain if her daughter is underage and pregnant. She has no right to expect anyone to talk to her daughter about being responsible, not only is the responsibility of the baby on the young girl but it's on her mother as well...the mother was not only lazy, but she also failed her daughter by not teaching her about life. It was very easy for a man to tell that girl and many young girl like her anything he wanted.
Yeah, would love to see 'mumsy' when she was pregnant -- you suffer greatly from anaemia (if you are prone to it otherwise) when pregnant. Makes you want to sleep for days. Mind you, that bedroom is a tip.
@@zacariastephens2329 of course, but it sounds as if she never had that conversation with her and just assumed she wouldn't be talking to boys (since she went to an all girls school)
I want to take this little girl in my arms & give her lots of love. Her depression & loneliness is so apparent.
"It’s like a body coming out of you” well yeah it is
Very different from the rude, rebellious pregnant teens we usually see on this show.
She really is just a kid who made a mistake.
I pray everything worked out for her and all the others.
Out off all the videos in this channel her mother is the most logical and supporting, I love her
The situation sucks but I applaud her for still wanting to follow her dreams and become a doctor. A baby stops nothing, only adds to! Remember that! The worse thing a parent can do is tell their child already in such a tough situation that their lives are over because it’s not. She may be young but that doesn’t mean she deserves to regret this experience for the rest of her life. Be happy and excited but most of all learn from it and do better. She’s capable of doing any and everything she dreams of but at the end of the day if she doesn’t have the right support it won’t stick. I wish nothing but the best for her and her little one! ❤️
You keep reading those fanfictions and fantasy novels, darling. Meanwhile the rest of us will live in the real world where limitations and circumstances of birth affect what is available to us.
I met Leah in a clothing shop 4years ago. She looks the same. She was so shocked I recognised her from the show !
Wow! How was she did she keep the baby?
Really wat she say can u tell us
this documentary is clearly from early 2000's! so where is she now? can you do a follow up!!
Risata Raps trust I deeped it when I saw nettos in Peckham 😂😂😂😂
Yeah watched this a couple of years ago.
Just about the only time stories like this are followed up on, whether they're shown in documentary form or in a talk show is when there's a good outcome. You don't get views from another sad statistic!
Nope it’s from 2010, she wrote the date on a cup at 7:15.
They never did follow ups to these , they were supposed to educate girls on why it's a bad thing to get pregnant at 16. They didn't want to glorify it at the time because it was really "popular" for teens to get pregnant back then.
She said she's excited about having a baby because it seems like it would be fun 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️TF
gabrielle sharnea 😂 They need to do a follow up after a couple years.
1:24 “that will be for my next baby” this young lady really has no clue
Lol that was my reaction too
Yes. She got a rude awaking coming
She’s slow asab
You wanted to believe he was A football player
I feel like her parents could be more supportive and less negative despite the odds against her she needs some positivity and encouragement.
nevaeh Morgan true !!! Sure a baby is a set back but dreams & ambitions can still be achieved as long as she wants it and she has support!
Exactly if they give her support and help here and there she can still achieve her goal of becoming a doctor. They’re being so arrow minded of the fact that she didn’t do exactly what they have planned for her
Right? As if destroying her self esteem is going to undo the past. It sounds like she'd had very little sex education before this happened and her mum just doesn't want to take any responsibility for that.
I mean yes, but that’s how we ended up with this shitty generation of teenagers who expect everything for nothing. You have to be tough on kids. But support them at the same time.
@@Amakawrites how is she and her son doing?
I remember watching this at around 19 or 20 and although I knew the situation wasn’t good, being 30 has made me realise, oh my God, that girl has no idea what’s about to hit her!!
Aww this young girl is so sweet... I hope u are achieving your future endeavours....please a update
I really would love an update about Leah. She was super naive but if anything that will give you a wake up call, it would be a baby.
Does anyone know anything about her progress after the show?
Shereece S I agree
☝️🔴 ☝️ 🔴☝️
She is doing very well and has an amazing little boy.
@@JadeWheatley_ thank you for replying my dear. 🙏🏾
Shereece S no problem at all :)
they needa do a update series🙃
Most defintley
yea i’m sorry but she was hella slow ...i hope her & her baby doing well now
I can tell the guy is much older than her ... talking from experience older men prey on schoolgirls and I’m not saying the girls have no part to play or they are not accountable for their actions but there’s a lot of predators hanging around school gates believe me .. and especially on the way home from school in ur school uniform they don’t care to approach you !!!! Pray for our girls ♥️
The way the video abruptly ended was savage. No follow-up necessary. 😂
Why didn't they even show the baby? I agree follow ups would be helpful.
Love how she says “I’m an adult, I’m having a baby” and then later goes on to say that her mom will change all the diapers and that as long “as it’s fun” she’ll be okay with having a baby. There is very little fun in parenthood. If you don’t even want to change a diaper you are not prepared for all that motherhood is.
I have lots of kids and I adore motherhood. It is the most fun I've ever had. Don't speak for us all please.
She's a child. Of course she's not ready or prepared
I hate when people claim it’s embarrassing to go get condoms.
Isn’t it more embarrassing that your a teenage mother?!
I know she said she didn’t even use protection, but that’s the point. IT ONLY TAKES ONE TIME. Case & point
Jess Ess indeed 👏🏽👏🏽
Yip
Why is it embarrassing to be a teen mother. Should older mother 40+ be embarrassed too
I'm a teen Mom
I was 16 and honestly? I wasn't embarrassed at all :) I'll never ever would suggest to get pregnant at a young age but I do think young mom's should be respected more. They want to give up there whole youth to raise another human being,tbh I think that's brave as fuck
(Side note: I got pregnant while I used the pill and condom)
@@fallen_onexd1380it's not abt shame or anything but if u r too young to be married I think u r too young to have sex some teen mom r lucky but not all and I have seen some teen mom's leaving their babies and running off with another men. It abt bring another life it's not only abt u. Now a days young girls and boys hardly finish school and they are with a baby. Mostly boys can easily get out of it but the girls r the one who suffer the most. I have seen one of my friend she also got pregnant in her teen years after that wat happened to her and baby was not happy end.
I wish older people will speak life into teen parents, so many women I’ve grown up with that became moms at 14-16 and are the doctors taking care of people who said “you’ll only work at McDonald’s”. Just because your life went that way doesn’t mean theirs will, things happen learn to make better choices. I rooting for this young woman, I hope she comes in touch with people who will guide her to her dreams and avoid those who put doubt in her mind. 💜💜💜💜
Her mom is there all the way💕 and I hope she becomes a great mom to her baby❤
Thinking that having a baby at 15 will be fun says much about her level of maturity ...for the life of me I can't understand how a bedroom can look like that....thank God for my mother...no messy room!! Teen or not ..☺☺
So she’s 15 and pregnant and she said that she thought that the baby’s father was in college 😱😥😳
Cinfully Cinta she said it’s going to be fun wtf fun once they learned to help themselves until then it’s kinda torture feeding every 3 hours at first
Yeah college here in Australia is what we call secondary school
That was mean he’s 16 or over it’s different in the uk
In the uk you can go to collage when you're sixteen. obviously in her situation it wasn't ok but sometimes it is
college is after high school in the uk, you go when your 16 it's not university
She seems so immature
Tia Aa she is 15
Well, she's 16
U seem immature
@@Elizaduhan lol
Tia mean she immature not as in insult. Maybe tia means she not ready to be a mom yet
As usual fathers no where to be seen. They get off scott free leaving the girl's to deal with every single thing.
The law doesn't allow them to get off scott-free, unless they had sex under a fictional identity and are nowhere to be found. There is no legal paternal surrender law, that lets them opt-out of the legal and financial obligations of fatherhood. You get identified as the father, it's "pay up looser" time.
I know I wonder if in UK you file for child support $ against the father or other parent to help pay for expenses
@@KEENDARLING There's times where the father is not known or the girl doesn't tell him. There are a lot of kids that don't know there father's. Hence not been able to claim anything. Sad situation.
It’s boaring I should of stayed home and watched the TV I would of had more fun !!! Well said 👏🏻👏🏻🤣🤣
😂 😂 😂 😂 Laughed my head off at that bit.
I don’t understand why people are calling her stupid. Yes she made a mistake, like cmon people!!!! we all make mistakes. No one is perfect at all. I’m not justifying what happened to her but at the same time don’t come for her.. what about the guy? It takes 2 to make a baby. Now for her laziness.. she is very lazy but let’s not forget that she’s just 15 years old and her mom did not train her well enough to be hard working. It’s really not her fault . I actually feel bad for her, but i do applaud her for not doing an abortion because God has a reason for every human being brought to life. I also applaud her for wanting to go to med school that shows determination. I pray and hopes she achieves her dreams in future. I wish there was an updated video or something.
Truth
Making mistakes doesn't take away the fact that she is not 'boy' or street smart...she's stupid, you can hear from the things she says that she'a dumb af
nontobeko mathabela so what are you perfect? Yeah the girl made some mistakes and is very naive, she is very young for her age. Very sad situation but I believe she will turn her life around and do well for herself and her baby.
If you believe that God has a reason for every human being brought to life, why is it so difficult to accept that he also gave doctors and nurses the knowledge and technology to perform abortions for the women who wish to have them?
I am glad my cousin is only worried About food memes and kpop and she’s really beautiful
That's all I'm worried about too 😂
Stfup
@@noahlex3910 why are you being rude we're just expressing our opinions
all of y’all need to realize this was 10+ years ago. Sex education wasn’t as common as it is now. Most places taught abstinence, and it was commonly believed that *you couldn’t get pregnant your first time*
Well the lack of sex education claim doesn’t wash with me. I was teen in the early eighties and knew that your first time at sex was all it can take to fall pregnant. Really I do not understand these claims regarding lack of sex education in school! 🤦♀️
Not that it’s ok that she’s pregnant but I think continuing to berate her for getting pregnant when she’s 5+ months along doesn’t help anyone and only makes her feel worse about herself and situation. I think it’s time to be encouraging and optimistic that she can still have a great life regardless of this slip up
She's a high achiever, with no common sense...that baby daddy story is very sad.
She can still achieve her goals, it will take a bit longer..but keep pushing young lady.
Well at 15 not many teens have common sense. I feel she should’ve been educated more about life but that’s her mothers fault.
I think it’s not fair to call her lazy. She’s a processor. She thinks and thinks and checks again. She’s a smart girl. Secondly, she’s got the maturity of someone her own age. Can’t tell her you’re pregnant you’ve got to grow up in nine months. These things take time. The mother is angry but she can’t use her daughter as an outlet to vent her anger. Take it to a friend or therapist. She needs a mom who will help her and support her. Pregnancy is hard but teen pregnancy is harder!
first and foremost why is her room that messy? just throw the whole room away
Haha
She's unlikely to become a doctor if she is that disorganized.
@@madelineevans128 Have you ever actually seen inside a medical professional's home? They are generally very messy because they are forced to be so clinically clean and tidy in hospitals. The dirtiest people I've ever known have been nurses and doctors.
@@EC2019 Not all nurses and doctors are like that some are and some aren't.
This is honestly so sad, she is clearly immature and not ready for the immense responsibility of raising a child.
I think it’s so funny when 16-18 year old kids think they are grown 😂😂😂like sure technically but 9/10 you still depend on your parents
I know right😂😂😂. Kids kids kids. I honestly don’t know if I want to have any. I think I exhausted myself during my teenage years and don’t want to relive that cycle trying to make sure my seeds don’t ruin their lives! Especially when it comes to dating 😫😩
In 2010 I was 17 not far from her age. I couldn’t even imagine having a baby at that time. I went to Europe that year with my school and traveled to Italy France and Switzerland. That was such an amazing time.
Having someones baby and DONT KNOW HIS LAST NAME??!! Thats very rediculous,dumb and embarrassing.
I know right? If you can't track down the father, just get an abortion and move on with your life.
carultch might not agree with it and it’s still her child no matter about the so called father
She’s 15 and she thought the father was in college is very much obvious she was in a vulnerable position
😂😂😂
@@carultch Abortion? Not everyone wants that. Not everyone wants to kill their baby p.s Abortion is illegal in the UK after 24 weeks and also when women do get abortions it can lead to depression and regret. We have a choice for a reason and i believe a baby deserve every right to live even if it's not with the birth mother.
i wanna know if she ever became a doctor. buy bless her for going to school while pregnant. being that girl isn’t easy.
They are such a lovely family!!! She’s got a very loving mother, and she’s a very intelligent young girl.
Really lol what are you watching ?
@@frankmangan2113 They are. 😊😊😊
@@myroom4640 I'm sorry but there not..are you smoking something watching this ?
@@frankmangan2113 How offensive!!!! I’m a devout Christian. I neither smoke, drink nor do drugs. I’m afraid, that must be YOUR own mentality. Sad. Also it’s THEIR: not THERE…………
@@frankmangan2113 We can have different opinions. I don’t have to agree with you, nor you with me. Let’s just move on. Bye. Xx
I would like to see a follow up in 10 years time. To see how they are.
Momoko Ishida it is practically 10 years ago (her mums mug said February 2010)
@@clarewood3384 alright haha I didn't see that. you're very observant. 😁 hopefully they're all happy.
It is over 10 yrz old now
There's another girl (also a black girl in London) from the first series who wanted to become a vet. I hope she achieved her dream too.
Rebecca
Wtf this looks like it’s from 2009 why is it uploaded 10 years later
For Americans: in the UK, "college" is what they attend after they finish standard education, typically around age 16 or 17. So his dicey comments aside, the fact that biodad was in college at 17 wasn't a stretch in terms of age. It's not like it is here in theU.S. where typical college age is 18 or 19. That's more university in the UK..
The comments really be like "shes so immature" yeah maybe because shes a literal child who was clearly taken advtanage of by an older man smh. How you gone expect a child to act grown?
Mother is completely unaware of what's going on with her daughter, hasn't made it her business to know who the father is and hold him accountable, isn't still with the girl's father who also sounds like a clown, the daughter is living in lala land. The father isn't pleased then why wasn't he instilling sense in his daughter? How two derelict parents conspire to raise a pregnant bubble brained daughter.
I applaud her for keeping her baby 👏.
Racj Jone but not for falling for the f boy it need to stop this circle young mums absent dads she’s brave coz motherhoods no joke
@@Truth2power5848 Absent fathers? Why does that matter to? some older mums in their 20's maybe 30'2 or 40's are single parents.
I wish boys could have the pregnancy pain
-_-
I know this anit funny but when she said "I could've been a WAG" that killed me 😂🤣😂🤣
Him: I’m a professional footballer
Me: Did I ask.
You are just going to have to be ready it’s already there it’s not just going to disappear these shows are madness
There's always adoption, at least that way he'd get a parent or even two who are ready for parenthood.
@@MrsDogLover You're right about the adoption of course. I wonder just how many teen moms considered adoption but backed out due to the opinions of all the teens who are watching videos like this simply because so many teens think it's so "awful" to place a child for adoption, yet most of them have no idea about how difficult being a young teen mom usually is.
I guess I don't understand WHY so many teens think they need to post nasty comments to young girls who have thought of giving their child a better life through adoption?
I just find it really strange that a young teen mom to be would actually think that the opinions of people she doesn't actually know means much? If a teen mom is considering adoption it should be her choice and not a bunch of YT teens that have no idea about the young teen mom trying to decide her child's future and that of her own.
Omg how clueless 'i would have been a WAG??? WTH really ugh 🙄
Yea so What does that mean though?
NoOrdinaryGirl it’s an acronym that means wives and girlfriends of football players. They had a reality show about it. Basically she thought this guy was some Rich athlete and she was going to be set for life.
And her mother went out of her way to say “she wasn’t trying to “....get pregnantL
I feel so sorry for this girl. The baby's father was clearly an older man who didn't want anything but sex. She's too young to consent. Poor girl, was assaulted but doesn't realise. Hopefully she's doing better now♥
My bedroom used to look like Leah's when I was 16. Now I've grown up I like neatness.
That ceramic place they went to looked hella fun
She's claiming to be an adult but behaves like a 10 yr old 😂
If England held the fathers or the fathers parents accountable I bet the underage pregnancies would drop dramatically. They should be financially accountable for their children.
She doesn’t even seem like she’s going to be able to bond with the baby. I can imagine her getting bored and leaving her mum to do everything
whilst i enjoy this series the most annoying about is that most of the episodes have part of the sound missing - deffo the videos as restarted the videos and sounds still goes missing. Also the captions are poor too not at all accurate, which can be confusing at times. I like to have them on so i focus.
So I’ve watched several of these shows on this channel and the comments are off, why are the comments on this one
I was wondering the same thing
@@rachelcoker7658 I think I ended up finding a few more with comments on too. Which is still crazy
My heart breaks watching this. This young girl is so sleepy and off with the fairies. So young mentally.
She is not ready for school let alone the responsibility of motherhood. And the parents seem to speak to camera saying they are worried but do nothing to help the situation by entertaining her irresponsible behaviours and passive approach to discipline.
She needs to come down from
Her lofty cloud of holiday mode, and splash the cold waters of reality on her face and wake up.
For herself and also the baby and her loved ones who will be affected by her pregnancy. I matter what anyone says.
She is sweet but will need more than that to even have a hope at coping with young parenthood.
And to think she didn’t even enjoy the experience of the babies conception, it’s so typical of young folk taking part in grown folk things. Young people engaging in premature sexual activities is more about the male pleasure than anything else. And it’s so sad to me that as young woman, they/we subscribe to being taken advantage of in his way, many unknowingly participating in something that benefits them NONE! Then being laden with the consequence and weight of it all. While the boys go off to ruining futures.
I want her to do well. Want her to find her rhythm and enjoy her life. Mentally emotionally spiritually and eventually in a relationship that adds to her life.
2021 anyone? I wonder if she became a doctor. She seemed determined.
I'm 26 now with my 5th married my middle school sweet heart! I don't encourage teen pregnancy but I do believe in a support system. I do not believe in telling someone their life is over that is so sad. So the moms life is over and the dad gets to live his
You can study parenthood, go to prenatal classes, be rich etc , but no one is ever ready to have a baby. Every child is different. You don't know what you are going to face with that particular child.
I can't believe young girls like them crazy enough get pregnant this age there life has so much responsibility they no idea how much work would this be for them 🙄
Ready or not it's coming soon. She really needs to finish school no matter what. I hope she's doing good after this show. God bless her and the family.
Girl wake up...
This is real life and the cost is gonna add up fast.....
Good luck on ur pregnancy i think u r kind off brave things happen i wouldn't call ur experience a mistake its just a part off the learning process been young and innocent thank God u still have a supportive mom and good friends u will lear along the way and u seem determine to have ur baby and continue ur education look at ur experience as a blessing ok and always keep ur head up even experience mothers have to learn as they go along because each pregnancy and each child his different at least u were brave to share ur story so another young girl r boy will b more wiser and practice safe sex and put off child bearing until they're older and prepared and experience goodluck to u and ur Beautifull baby boy and become the doctor u always dream off sometimes life just take a detour and ur detour was having a baby at such a young age but it will only strengthen u young for ur future plans bless
It's shocking how all these parents are shock to hear that their teen is pregnant, I mean as a teen hormones are raging and sex is being thought of a lot... It's those teens with no self control and no contraceptive ends up becoming teen parents.
"I don't think the pregnancy is replacing my ambition, I think that other things seems more important, like my baby."
You silly little girl...
Lesson of the story is wait till your older and don't believe what some people say they just wanna trick you