Neediness destroyed my life when I was young. Getting past there has given me a sense of person Al power, choice and happiness. Not just with women but I’m all areas of life. Getting past this is huge for men.
Thank you Brian! This video made me realize that learning how to deal with my neediness is one of the most important things that I've learned (and are still learning) this year. I've realized that the right mindset to have with regard to women is: "I want you, but I don't need you". That mindset makes me feel confident and not needy. In the back of my mind I know that if nothing happens with her, I will find someone else.
"Can you feel good about yourself without her validation" This is gold boys, im telling you from my personal experience, women will always reflect whatever you are projecting emotionally. Once I learned this wacthing Brians videos it took my personal life to another level.
Been taking therapy for a while and what I’ve realised is that neediness comes from a lack of self-worth and it’s amazing how our bodies have natural intelligence to automatically adjust and be confident when we let go of our shit - literally weight off your shoulders! For some people, it’s not emotional or logical but about processing emotions within their bodies.
Neediness also makes you feel powerless , because you’re always at the mercy of someone else’s opinion of you , and that could be subject to change at any moment .
Brian, it seems as if you have mastered a lot of these things you are teaching. I would love to know what are some of the things that you are battling with in your journey from being a Mr Nice Guy into being this wonderful dating coach? What are some of the struggle do you still face and how do you overcome them. Also I would to know that do you plan your day, having things to achieve or you just do what you feel like doing?
Hey Brain, Is it possible to have trauma in the head? And is it needed to do revealing/Releasing for this? I do alot of Releasing in the chakras but now my head feels really heavy. I cant find Amy videos for this topic maybe you can make a video for this topic?
We don't have a specific one for the head, but keep releasing on what is coming up, the idea on releasing is to release in the now what is coming for you and keep going deeper and deeper. The process is different for everyone. Do you have the 4 questions that we use for releases if you arent finding a specific one?
Can you give us a practice in day to day situations? When we feel the reactiveness caused by people around us and energy starts to rise how can we recover? Thanks man!
Ground it out. Relax the body, feel the energy from the ground, and channel the energy downwards. You can also do movement exercises where the focus is on feeling the lower three chakras. Contact me for more direct communications. Landon, True Courage landon@truecourag.io
It get's problematic for me to step in tension when creating relatioships because of self trust issues, what can į do about it and is it a matter of psichological basics kind of mental disorder ?
One thing you could do is begin following through on your various goals. Pick something small that you intend to do, and make sure you follow-through and complete it. This will help train your subconscious to develop self-trust. Landon, True Courage
I want a relationship with a woman and when I date, it seems that I subconsciously communicate this to her with my emotions and maybe slightly through my communication, even though I don't announce it. Anyways, good video.
Me and my Gf were together 12 years. I haven’t been needy with my gf the whole time we were together. Now she said we need a break and I feel so needy and so annoying. I text, call, ask her stuff way too much and pushing her away even more. Any advice Brian? Love your videos btw
Let go and allow her to live free. Those 12 years were significant in the past but not the present. You have already impacted each other's lives and created the value you both needed. You know what you are doing wrong yet you still do it. At some point in the relationship, something obscured your vision like a cloud and you lost sight of your worth. I don't know much about the situation, but from the way you talk, I assume you put all expectations of your future happiness directly upon her. You replaced her with any sense of purpose you once had. Now that she is leaving you, you feel your purpose is leaving you. Let go and allow her to be free in order for you to let go and allow yourself to be free.
@@iversonthedonyou’re right, that’s why I like this community so much. You hit the nail on the head. She was everything to me so without her I felt like nothing. So I kept reaching out and it keeps pushing her away even more. That’s why I’m really getting into the lessons Brian is teaching and trying to find myself again. I have to let go of the expectation of being with her and be with myself. If I was in her shoes, I wouldn’t date me the way I was acting a few months prior to our break. She felt so much pressure being in the relationship because everything we both did was for “the relationship” not for ourselves.
You might have solved the riddle by now but the short answer is to stop doing all of those behaviors. You will push her away. She might also be an avoidant, which only agitates a person with an anxious attachment. As difficult as it is, you'll want to sit with your sad emotions and being to let them go. It might take a few hours even but it will eventually loosen up. You can also think of all the things she gave to you that you don't/can't give to yourself. This will stir up more grief you can then let go of. Contact me if you need addtl support. Landon, True Courage landon@truecourage.io
I've not don't much research on it but I've enjoyed listening to them on occasion. Maybe I should look into it more. Anything that helps you get into and stay in alpha or theta is good for helping you to release old stories etc.
@@TheFearlessManthank you for your reply. I hope to see more videos about hypnosis or similar concepts in your channel as well, rather than only dating
Neediness destroyed my life when I was young. Getting past there has given me a sense of person Al power, choice and happiness. Not just with women but I’m all areas of life. Getting past this is huge for men.
Thank you Brian! This video made me realize that learning how to deal with my neediness is one of the most important things that I've learned (and are still learning) this year.
I've realized that the right mindset to have with regard to women is: "I want you, but I don't need you". That mindset makes me feel confident and not needy. In the back of my mind I know that if nothing happens with her, I will find someone else.
"Can you feel good about yourself without her validation" This is gold boys, im telling you from my personal experience, women will always reflect whatever you are projecting emotionally. Once I learned this wacthing Brians videos it took my personal life to another level.
Nobody BECOMES needy - unless they deliberately decide to. You’re either conditioned when young to BE needy, or you’re not.
Been taking therapy for a while and what I’ve realised is that neediness comes from a lack of self-worth and it’s amazing how our bodies have natural intelligence to automatically adjust and be confident when we let go of our shit - literally weight off your shoulders! For some people, it’s not emotional or logical but about processing emotions within their bodies.
You’re explaining some things I’ve seen but never heard articulated. It’s great 🤯
Glad to hear it!
Another awesome video. Thank you Brian. !
This video should have a million views, that’s how valuable it is.
I second this! Absolute gold, my flirt game has gone through the roof ever since I realized this concept.
Very knowledgeable Brian. Good stuff
Great stuff Brian. I've missed your longer-form videos!
More long form coming!
Are your videos divided in energy and non energy videos?
We should hold atention in lower body and core all the time?
You speak on how wonderful and what it's like when you're not needy, but nothing on how to achieve it.
Haha.. spot on. Because the purpose of the video is to keep you watching , not fix your problems.
Pull energy down
How do you build trustworthiness seems like women dont trust me especially the ones at the stores
Register for the No BS Guide To Ending Neediness training 👉👉 go2.thefearlessman.com/live
Amazing video! Song in the background is 🔥
Thanks 🔥
Neediness also makes you feel powerless , because you’re always at the mercy of someone else’s opinion of you , and that could be subject to change at any moment .
Brian, it seems as if you have mastered a lot of these things you are teaching. I would love to know what are some of the things that you are battling with in your journey from being a Mr Nice Guy into being this wonderful dating coach? What are some of the struggle do you still face and how do you overcome them. Also I would to know that do you plan your day, having things to achieve or you just do what you feel like doing?
Definitely more vids on tension and how to flirt
Yes, new versions of both of those will be coming at some point.
Hey Brain,
Is it possible to have trauma in the head? And is it needed to do revealing/Releasing for this? I do alot of Releasing in the chakras but now my head feels really heavy. I cant find Amy videos for this topic maybe you can make a video for this topic?
We don't have a specific one for the head, but keep releasing on what is coming up, the idea on releasing is to release in the now what is coming for you and keep going deeper and deeper. The process is different for everyone. Do you have the 4 questions that we use for releases if you arent finding a specific one?
Can you give us a practice in day to day situations? When we feel the reactiveness caused by people around us and energy starts to rise how can we recover? Thanks man!
Ground it out. Relax the body, feel the energy from the ground, and channel the energy downwards. You can also do movement exercises where the focus is on feeling the lower three chakras.
Contact me for more direct communications.
Landon, True Courage
landon@truecourag.io
In short: you don't worry much about the woman's validation when you have 3 others ready to take her place.
It get's problematic for me to step in tension when creating relatioships because of self trust issues, what can į do about it and is it a matter of psichological basics kind of mental disorder ?
What would be the best choise to work on in this particular case
One thing you could do is begin following through on your various goals. Pick something small that you intend to do, and make sure you follow-through and complete it. This will help train your subconscious to develop self-trust.
Landon, True Courage
I want a relationship with a woman and when I date, it seems that I subconsciously communicate this to her with my emotions and maybe slightly through my communication, even though I don't announce it. Anyways, good video.
thank you
Dude this video has so much value. Great video condensing so many of your big ideas
I appreciate that!
Me and my Gf were together 12 years. I
haven’t been needy with my gf the whole time we were together.
Now she said we need a break and I feel so needy and so annoying. I text, call, ask her stuff way too much and pushing her away even more. Any advice Brian? Love your videos btw
Let go and allow her to live free. Those 12 years were significant in the past but not the present. You have already impacted each other's lives and created the value you both needed. You know what you are doing wrong yet you still do it. At some point in the relationship, something obscured your vision like a cloud and you lost sight of your worth. I don't know much about the situation, but from the way you talk, I assume you put all expectations of your future happiness directly upon her. You replaced her with any sense of purpose you once had. Now that she is leaving you, you feel your purpose is leaving you. Let go and allow her to be free in order for you to let go and allow yourself to be free.
@@iversonthedonyou’re right, that’s why I like this community so much. You hit the nail on the head. She was everything to me so without her I felt like nothing. So I kept reaching out and it keeps pushing her away even more. That’s why I’m really getting into the lessons Brian is teaching and trying to find myself again. I have to let go of the expectation of being with her and be with myself. If I was in her shoes, I wouldn’t date me the way I was acting a few months prior to our break. She felt so much pressure being in the relationship because everything we both did was for “the relationship” not for ourselves.
You might have solved the riddle by now but the short answer is to stop doing all of those behaviors. You will push her away. She might also be an avoidant, which only agitates a person with an anxious attachment. As difficult as it is, you'll want to sit with your sad emotions and being to let them go. It might take a few hours even but it will eventually loosen up. You can also think of all the things she gave to you that you don't/can't give to yourself. This will stir up more grief you can then let go of.
Contact me if you need addtl support.
Landon, True Courage
landon@truecourage.io
What is your opinion of Hemisync?
I've not don't much research on it but I've enjoyed listening to them on occasion. Maybe I should look into it more. Anything that helps you get into and stay in alpha or theta is good for helping you to release old stories etc.
@@TheFearlessManthank you for your reply. I hope to see more videos about hypnosis or similar concepts in your channel as well, rather than only dating