in my society the maids has union if you remove them from work that they don't do properly even after request and not cutting their salary for x days they don't come to work, then no other maid will come to work in your house, nor just that then even threatened other dare to work in that house, more over they try to defame you. that's how maid's are Today, almost every other society is facing the same problem, even if you get from online services they also leave as these local miad won't let them work here!
Thanks you've described all points I already follow and encourage my neighbour hood to do the same, however we in Delhi are facing a major crunch in honest maids. No matter how kind you're to them, they tend to fleece and blackmail you if you don't meet their demands, which are pretty unreasonable at times. It's a catch 22 situation. you can't do without them and you can't tolerate their arm twisting tantrums
This is becoming a major problem for every city I to am working in a tier 2 city yet I am facing a major problem with maids they want that we should give me double and triple amount and no work..
What to do if they dont listen to u and say that ill cook as i want to and everytime u say to make a correction they just start saying that i work in all other homes thay never say anything only u just comment in my work and even they start Gaslight u
No they also need us.. it's just that we behave very nicely and don't have a union as they have . If everyone boycott that maid if she behaves that way they will all come on right track
@@QuirckygalYou can create ladies or house maid and cook group for society members.. we have ladies group were we discussed recently major issue with one maid working in 3 flats. Later she got removed from all the 3 homes
One moment- your maid forced non vegetarian diet habit and you are ok with it ? Most of us are not ok with our parents interfering with our parenting style !
@@SuperMOMMitali if you don't they leave and don't let others work too. It's not as easy as you have described. Please someone make a video on how to deal with toxic maids
Secondly my cook a lady she is regular in her work but a person cannot be perfect in all way and that I wanna tell that she uses to talk with our neighbours a lot and always used to collect masala information of others and share with us which m not liking to listen those stuffs?
How much do you pay for cleaning home and what does it include ? Do you have a maid for cooking also separately if so how much they take?@@SuperMOMMitali
Personally … I don’t like to cut salary … rather I may make it a point to show my displeasure for sometime …. And then get back to routine but cutting salary doesn’t work for me !
If you are paying them really high and yet they take paid leaves it becomes extortion and they take it for granted and keep taking leaves for week or more
You explain this very well. Taking tips from you fir my future because I dint see myself as a house wife and ill always be busy with work. This is very helpful. But my mother is always on and off with maids and she makes all the mistakes you mentioned, as yk our parents are stubborn idk how to explain her all of this she'll never understand sadly. Always causing chaos in house fighting with maids
Thank you so much, dear... I am so happy you are taking these tips down for your future! Our parents might be slightly fixed on things but will telling her how she can use the free time to go out or take a vacation help? Just a suggestion!
in my society the maids has union if you remove them from work that they don't do properly even after request and not cutting their salary for x days they don't come to work, then no other maid will come to work in your house, nor just that then even threatened other dare to work in that house, more over they try to defame you.
that's how maid's are Today, almost every other society is facing the same problem, even if you get from online services they also leave as these local miad won't let them work here!
Thanks you've described all points I already follow and encourage my neighbour hood to do the same, however we in Delhi are facing a major crunch in honest maids. No matter how kind you're to them, they tend to fleece and blackmail you if you don't meet their demands, which are pretty unreasonable at times. It's a catch 22 situation. you can't do without them and you can't tolerate their arm twisting tantrums
Oh god that’s 😞 sad! I have seen many people getting maids from villages… or try some maid agency!
True
@SuperMOMMitali where do you find educated maids??😅😅
@@star-el3ly only on 70mm screen
This is becoming a major problem for every city I to am working in a tier 2 city yet I am facing a major problem with maids they want that we should give me double and triple amount and no work..
My maid is taking advantage of my kindness. I need to draw a boundary for her and i dont know how to handle this situation.
What to do if they dont listen to u and say that ill cook as i want to and everytime u say to make a correction they just start saying that i work in all other homes thay never say anything only u just comment in my work and even they start Gaslight u
thing is you need them they don't, nor just that they know their demand is in every next house so they don't care
No they also need us.. it's just that we behave very nicely and don't have a union as they have
. If everyone boycott that maid if she behaves that way they will all come on right track
@@QuirckygalYou can create ladies or house maid and cook group for society members.. we have ladies group were we discussed recently major issue with one maid working in 3 flats. Later she got removed from all the 3 homes
Ty so much dear its really a nice video. Even i m also doing such mistake. After watching this video i can realise it .ty so much once again
Most welcome 😊 what mistake was it?
Your tips are really helpful as they are to the point.
Thank You
I am really glad you are finding them useful!
One moment- your maid forced non vegetarian diet habit and you are ok with it ? Most of us are not ok with our parents interfering with our parenting style !
How much salary do you pay to each maid?
what is your suggestion on live in maids? my kid is just 2yrs old and i am facing a lot of turmoil. @SuperMOM Mitali
You must have a live in maid .. why not? Makes things easy
@@SuperMOMMitali Lots of issues i have to face.
Thank you for this video :) helped me alot
Is she crazy... My nanny taught me to eat non veg 😮...
What about the extra money as tips they keep on asking apart from the paying the deserved salary
Pay them if they really deserve it … otherwise don’t!
@@SuperMOMMitali if you don't they leave and don't let others work too. It's not as easy as you have described. Please someone make a video on how to deal with toxic maids
Genuinely made video , very logical
How to handle cook?
Both in behaving as well as giving instructions for what to cook ,how to cook?
Thanks.
Thank you for watching!
Secondly my cook a lady she is regular in her work but a person cannot be perfect in all way and that I wanna tell that she uses to talk with our neighbours a lot and always used to collect masala information of others and share with us which m not liking to listen those stuffs?
Thank you so much ❤️. You are so pretty
Thank you too!
do you ladies give them salary as paycheck and know about minimum wage. if not move your bums and shed some fat and diy
Salary as paycheck means? It’s not about working hard it’s all about working smart!
How much do you pay for cleaning home and what does it include ? Do you have a maid for cooking also separately if so how much they take?@@SuperMOMMitali
No we in India exploit domestic workers. Sadly there is no law as of now to address the issues faced by them.
Superb video
Personally … I don’t like to cut salary … rather I may make it a point to show my displeasure for sometime …. And then get back to routine but cutting salary doesn’t work for me !
I agree ☝️ even I don’t I just say it
If you are paying them really high and yet they take paid leaves it becomes extortion and they take it for granted and keep taking leaves for week or more
You explain this very well. Taking tips from you fir my future because I dint see myself as a house wife and ill always be busy with work. This is very helpful. But my mother is always on and off with maids and she makes all the mistakes you mentioned, as yk our parents are stubborn idk how to explain her all of this she'll never understand sadly. Always causing chaos in house fighting with maids
Thank you so much, dear... I am so happy you are taking these tips down for your future! Our parents might be slightly fixed on things but will telling her how she can use the free time to go out or take a vacation help? Just a suggestion!