Massive Maid Problems in
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- In bustling Bengaluru, managing household help as a millennial wife juggling work and home comes with its unique challenges. Join me as I uncover the realities of navigating #HouseHelpWoes and #DomesticDilemmas in the city. From balancing #WorkLife to tackling #HomeManagement, this video offers insights, tips, and personal anecdotes on surviving the #HouseholdHustle in modern Bengaluru. Whether you're facing #MaidProblems or seeking solutions for #DomesticChallenges, this is a must-watch for every millennial woman in Bengaluru! #BengaluruLife #MillennialWife #WomenInBengaluru #HomeAndWork
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Buy a dishwasher, washing machine, robotic vacuum cleaner, 90% of your problems are resolved. I am sure you can do the cooking at least your self.
Yes planning for same!
Yup did the same
Absolutely. I assume the pandemic taught many of us to decouple from human help. During that period no maids were allowed into our apartment complex.
Problem is you can't work full time especially if you have kids.And dishwasher is not suitable for Indian cooking . please make a video on Tuition in apartments and rising school costs.Not going to work because look at the tax regime . Men give your wife atleast the tax return.You can put your wife as a joint holder and earn only as much is required .That way you will save tax and have peace of mind .She will supervise the maid well.
@@Apar-1-2 its a myth that dishwasher is not suitable for Indian cooking
Being 10 plus year in IT industry now I am very satisfied with the decision to drop purchasing home in Bangalore and did same in my home city,
After seeing all the issue in Bangalore, i really feel sad for those who permanently settled there with hard earned money 😢
Once I was about to commit same mistake,
However I stay in rent till date in Bangalore and not prefer to keep maid... Managing by myself,
Even a smaller intervention will need money in Bangalore which us not the case in other Cities...
Rat cut down wire of my car , I visited local workshop, there they took 1000 to just put some celo tape on that and intensionally pulled one plug so that I visit next time 😢,after discovering same it was really heart breaking for me , even I gave 100 ruoes tips to that guy ...
This is how grid destroyed Bangalore... And still doing...
You are right . Many people try to scam these days😅
Everything is expencive in bangalore
In india tgere r scams every where
Sadly, this is also happening in Pune but not to the extent of that of BLR.
Go back to your home town and find peaceful life with no scam.😊
Although I dont live in Bengaluru, but as Mumbaikar this is relatable. And as I live alone, I have a dishwasher and robot vacuum cleaner, which are much cheaper considering maid takes 10k here for the chores. In the longer run, getting them is better alternative and I use urban company to clean ceiling,fans and places where robot cant reach once a month.
How much does urban company costs per service ?
@@DoctorJaneDoe I have 3 bathrooms, so its around 350 total for all 3, and for fans in 50 rs per fan. Balcony and all, its around 300 rs.
@@saurabhjoshi6085 that’s reasonable, l live in tier -2 city. I will try their services.
Excellent post. Thank you so much ji. Iam in coimbatore.i too faced the same problem. Now iam doing all the work myself, I manage cleaning vessels with dish washer. It's really a boon. It cleans super good. cleaning the floor I do daily and mopping twice or on alternate days. Bathroom cleaning on Sundays.make it a point to ask everyone in the family to contribute to the house cleaning and this way children also learn the household responsibilities. Iam happy managing alone , got rid of maid tensions . thank you so much for posting this useful and true picture of the reality. The young generation should learn from this 😊
Maid is generally a north-Indian problem, North Indians can not live without their maids.....
Racism much?
Maid is a millennials' problem irrespective North-South.
You probably free 24/7 to do all household chores.. 😂😂😂.. Don't mind, its just a joke
I am merely pointing out observations. It's common to see a maid waiting in the lobby with a child while North Indian families dine inside an expensive restaurant. In Southern states, the difference between the rich and the poor is not as pronounced. Since the northern states are more non-egalitarian, these families thrive on this disparity. The Hinduja family, for example 🙂
@@jeanbaptiste-d4y I live in this north india, you cannot compare the ultra rich with the middle class. Our life is more or less same as someone in Chennai or Hyderabad.
We moved in our new apartment last year. I did not have a help until this year February. Now I have a help who helps me with only utensils cleaning. It is only me and my husband who are staying so the number of utensils are usually less but on days when there are more utensils she acts like she is doing a favour to me. We too are contemplating getting a dishwasher!
Exactly same problem in chennai also. She kept on asking for more money, she joined for 3k , in 1.5 year she raised her salary to 5.5k.she used to bring her freind or lady relatives then they ll loudly laugh and talk and do job which was a huge hindrance because I had a baby back then, I told her many time u come alone and do chores,she said it's so boring to do alone.Then I said to myself enough is enough. Then I bought bosch dishwasher, cleans vessels like charm. Then invested in vaccum cleaner too. Then I told her thanks for the help so far kindly don't come from tomorrow.she was schocked, I rocked😂😂😂😂😂
Hahaha nice one dude , but does the dishwasher do a good job ?
@@megadelorix6652 ya works great for me. I have been using for more than 3 years now. Bosch is good, that's the one I have
Massive Social Mobility happening in India. The "NOW" middle class will be poor in 10 years.
Unless we live within our limits like our previous generation , we are doomed.
@@akashK1601earlier generations had the privilege of poor labour.
@@dhbhatta not at all. Except for handful ultra rich ,everyone was doing their own work.They were not dependent on 'poor labour'.
@@akashK1601wrong
@@akashK1601 if you ever had a maid or an electrician come to your house you have exploited the desperation of poor labour. it might feel off because its a systemic issue and not of one persons doing, thus it feels ike the norm
Taking people for granted who are nice to them (Y)
So true!!
kengeri is scammy area .Old bangalore is nice but congested these days .Best is tier 2 cities .Relatively low inflation
That’s a myth . Consumer inflation is high on tier 2 cities also . 2bhk rentals are atleast 15 k there also 😂
I have used a dish washer, robot n automatic mop I still keep them for an emergency but I have a maid I feel we can adopt all these only if all the members take up one job each like they do abroad Working couples cld be fine wth cleaning during weekends but stay at home moms need the entire house to be mopped daily; b’ rooms mopped every day n kitchen cleaned I certainly cannot do it all alone Plus Indian Rds n infra r so messy that all the dust n dirt comes into the house thru our footwear n the breeze coming in thru the window One reason why NRI r coming back in their silver yrs They have made enough to pay more in order to be comfortable
You seem to have a poor idea of the vessels needed to be washed,cleaning them up immediately after dinner is at the end of the day.After a day of office work ,with or without commuting,it would be tough to pick up the washing.And what happens to the breakfast vessels,can you wash them before you leave for work? When you have kids,their eating,their snacks dabbas all add up.
Loading and unloading a dishwasher is not an easy ,it’s also time consuming
Vacuuming can be done only on the weekends-- there goes your weekends.
I’m not being a kill joy,but being a realist only.
It’s tough running a house,best of luck.
Somebody needs to start the Uber app but for maids/ house help. hire based on rating. surge pricing would be a bummer though.
Not only IT even housewives has to bear maid problems , seing house thy declare thier salary
Dyson is best real removes the dust. The sweeping is just perfunctory by maids. 700 sq ft is tiny apne aap saf karlo and keep a robo vacuum. And if you are not at home as a working couple house doesn’t need to be cleaned every day
Put a custom made iron rack over your washing machine if space is the issue.We have this setup and this is really working well for me.
Cleaning it is not the main problem. The bigger problem is the cooking.
3 months back I gave 40% hike and promised to give 20% more hike still my nany left after 2 months without any negotiation.
Good effort. I watched with 1.5x speed. Try to speed up a bit as all of us are attention deficit.
Some people are struggling to find a job and some have there own share of problems god bless bengaluru and india.
7:58 Just a perspective, these Freebies available in Karnataka has significantly affected the financial status of the government employees salary and pensions.
Lower midle class and poor are the ones here in bengaluru who are actually enjoying these facilities.
Most of the times we travel by metro trains.
Literally NO MAID cleans any house properly no matter how much ever you pay them, within 20-30 minutes they finish all there work and leave, and in the meantime we have to be all eyes so that no thing goes missing. We always have to watch over them.
And when we are not in home we from our side have to ask them to skip the work to be on our safer side.
Yes very true 😅. Soon people are going to shift to machines , that time what will govt do for these people’s employment
This is an excellent topic. I stay in individual house in ecity since 8 years. These maids create an artificial demand and form a group among themselves. Then they demand more money and if we don't give, they don't allow anyone to join even from outside. I faced theft once and there was another lady checking my cupboards etc. fortunately we have camera at home. Anyway i finally decided to buy robotic vaccum and dishwasher. Using since two years and I don't have regrets. UC for bathroom cleaning and i clean the garden, terrace etc. problem solved
What is UC that you mentioned for bathroom cleaning?
@@Aurora_Norway2000urban company
You see all those reports of income equality, that 3% of population having all the wealth. But no one addresses the real reason.
What you said is the real reason. The people who are not making progress, are the ones who dont want to work. For those who are willing to work hard and hustle, there are enough opportunities to advance in life. Even with small scale businesses, I have heard friends running these complain that the guys come, sign on the register and expect to get paid. They dont want to work or they put in minimal effort.
Also with gated communities etc, they are jealous and resentful of what they refer to as outsiders.
Hikes in every three months
Absolutely relatable (Y)
Same in south Bengaluru also. Everywhere it’s the same .
It depends on how you treat the maid as well. In our house in Bengaluru, we have the same maid for 10 years with no income changes since the beginning.
10 years without any increase is shocking 😳
U really have treated your maid horribly. 10 yrs without increase !!
@@kgf_2030 Kindness and Respect>>>Money, some people like you will never understand it.
@@sidharthshekar5046 thats how corporate treats their slaves. Exploiters like u wont understand money+kindness>>>kindness+hawabaaji
@@sidharthshekar5046 That still doesn't change that you have been a bit miserly. Unless you have spent on your maid for food, supplies etc.
1. Excellent advice you gave - Proactively washing the dishes right after having the meal, it's a super hack. You cook food by yourself that's also great.
2. You have a small house to not accommodate a dishwasher, so clean that small house by yourself na 😄you two do it turn by turn.
3. Funniest part of the video has to be the Nanies watching televison all day😄
Do you or can you afford abroad ?
Yes @@tsMuthuraman-hm6wg
1. Live-in need space
2. Have only need things and appliance
Helps in easy chore
We should never live with a consideration that maids are available in India. We should do our work. That's the best way.
Minimum wage should be made mandatory in India.We can increase the tax base that way.
Interesting take. I think I should make a video on this as well. A balanced approach is needed for the benefit of both stakeholders. And its good to talk about problems especially for welcoming constructive criticism.
Real problem: not having enough connection with people from lower strata.
Silver Bullet: Automatitions that need intervention, but we don't want to higher maids who can do the automation for us and grant real freedom, like the rich have for themselves.
This is a trend setter content . In next few years we should be witnessing many such issues 😂
Learn to respect the maid. Give her atleast 10 percent increment every year. When u get 15 to 20 percent hike, the maid also needs to be motivated. Many people n India don't treat them as human beings.
Don't keep gold and cash in your homes if u have mids. Either u stay at home and keep things safely locked or keep in locker These days money is needed for not just food and clothes but also for top up for so many things. Be helpful and kind. Still they are not thankful, depend on machines.
Very true ... maid's work as per their own whims and fancies.
Same in south Bengaluru, coz same issues i am also facing but yes maids are not trust worthy anymore
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Unless we live within our limits like our previous generations , we are doomed.
While working only we find such cities expensive, how will we survive post retirement.
I had a maid for 20yrs who was more thn a fly member thn she had to leave job bcz of health issues
What’s a fly member?
Yes its true
Even u pay more thy never work like u expected them to work
These should be a stand to stack Washing Machine and Dishwasher, like the dryers, hopefully that exists.
You can get it welded by a proficient welder as well. Its not something that is very tricky to construct. I am planning to do so once I move to my new place
I have a a guy from.bihar nd a very gud at work who stays at home in Bengaluru its very difficult to trust any more in Bengaluru any more
I totally agree with all of the issues that you raised about the maid culture in Bangalore.
kept a cook first, Initially she cooked well...after few weeks the quality started deteriorating and started speaking on phone while cooking...had to let her go... hired another cook ..told strictly not to use any phone. She has been cooking well for a month now but not punctual. have to be strict with them or else they will take things for granted
Have a nanny as well...but similar story …does her basic job decently ..but in free time watch TV and scroll/talk phone..not much learning/development/interaction for baby . Even after repeatedly telling her not to, she keeps continuing . Later decided to enroll her in play school for social/skill development.
I feel they are not motivated anymore to work😅
@@IndianMillennialWife Yeah and also it could be that they are habituated to the "freebies" as you pointed rightly in the video.
@@MrDantheman69lol Brahmans want everything for free
11:34 Women likes toxic relationships be it a girlfriend, wife or even a maid😂😂😂😂
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These type of issues always been on the earth. So Genz got down from the lap of parents now, seing this😂😂😂
If the 14 hr work schedule per day in IT industry gets implemented in Karnataka you won't need maid anymore 😂 .
It will become a norm in every other industry so office will be your home .
This mAid problem has become universal ,esp in India...hamesha chhuti..some have stealing problem.....if u jus leave them ki kaam thik kr kenge......they will jus make a mess of your house....salary is not fixed...they demand anything....
Not in case with our maid in the Iblur Area, near the Sarjapur Junction. Our cooking maid and the Sweeping/Mopping maid is doing great for the last 10 years. No issues here nor with anyone in our apt society. We also kept a dishwasher and a vaccum/mopping machine at our homes and its pretty automated to the fullest. We clean the dustbin once a month. Damm I couldn't believe it's 5 years since this machine is working as fine as it is when I bought it. We use the dishwasher once a week to keep it running fine. But once you start using a dishwasher then you need to clean its filter and also remove the water scales once a year for the new ones and as time goesby if the water scaling in your society goes bad then this de-scaling goes by as much as 3-6 months once. We also told our maids that if they try to try to scam us or anyone in the society then they will be blocked from working not only in my house but also in the apt society not only ours but nearby as well with immediate effect.
Problem is we don’t have space to keep a dishwasher in a small apartment like ours 😅
@IndianMillennialWife Right no worries. Just like you said in the video, you can take 15 mins to wash all your dishes. You can do that instead of buying dishwashers in your rented home in Bengaluru. It saves a hassle in case of shifting from one home to another.
Rice costs tm rs 60 for them also
Correct Sister. You are always talking correctly. My friend lives in Bangalore and she also faces terrible problems , almost similar to what you are facing. I just woke up for drinking water but am going to stay up till morning till my 2 year old daughter goes to sleep. My husband has also woken up. Nice husband. Okay Sister, thank you. Good morning...
Housekeeping staff get PPF n some other benefits
As living standards in india are improving, you will generally find less people willing to take up cleaning other peoples dirty dishes.
Get a dishwasher and a wet mop. Forego Gym membership, this burns enough calories for a typical person. Hire a cleaning company fortnightly to do one off cleaning the whole property, they charge hourly.
Its a standard thing in the west.
The owners are telling lies. When people use phrases like “we trusted you” what it really means is that they wanted to under pay and overwork the maid. Most proberbly the maid told them to f**k off so in order to save face they accused of stealing gold.
No no the gold was found in her house after the police went there to search her house 😅. But they later removed the complaint
Because maid services are broken.
You can't expect a butler like service who will stay back without any one in house and not steal anything.
Human nature @@IndianMillennialWife
'Might is right' from up north will not work down south! You have to be respectable to people here. Dignity of labour is respected in Bengaluru and other cities down South.
Dudu! Once you treat them nicely, they start taking you for granted. Its not a North VS South issue that you want to make it
Nothing like that. I am south indian living in north, same issues exist here. Stop racism.
Always talking politely and saying thank you to them, maid just shouted at my aunt n left. So much for politeness….
@@akmblr492did she get hra, insurance,leaves??
Dont act like this was a proper job
They take advance money n reinvest in giving out loans to other needy pple n earn extra interest/money over this amt
I guess a lot of these problems also apply to SW Engineers .. that's why enterprises are trying to automate coding and testing with LLMs and stuff. No I am just kidding. Go on .. nice video!
For less than 5k salary you get only such kind of people. The person you are getting as a maid most probably have lot of family issues and have no other option to work. I have talked to some of these maids.
Almost all of them have no education and thier sons ans husband are mostly addicted to drug/ alcohol.
haha maids are stealing in my house for 30 years, we just keep the expensive stuff safe
I would get a second wife who is traditional. . . .
We do the work ourselves
No longer available max upto next 5 years enjoy the maid service in India.
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They need money and not respect. Pay 6,000/- instead of 3,500/-
I think increase in money is only short time happiness. Yes after that they will work correctly for a month or so and then it will be back to square one
Salaries for technology related gone up maximum and keep going up basically if you want services plus loyal people you need to pay well enough to run household too right or not? Educated don't get jobs just because they were not downloaded from technology? So learn to do own work maximum as much as possible or be ready to pay for services karnataka government may be giving citizens and voters money but other places like up government not bothered too just want votes and power too? Society's should fix the salaries for part time workers like 30 mins morning and 30 mins evening amount per home like and the person should get like 5 homes bare minimum too? Where are the so called mentors now? Pardon if you don't like this but blr is a overpriced and overhyped city too?
If you travel abroad, you will not complain. You will do all the works on your own. Stop complaining
The whole point is not that . When you’re paying for a service you expect some work which is not happening.
Now everyone will suggest “do work by yourself “ but in India there is overpopulation so if everyone starts buying gadgets then what will househelps do? Where will they find work? What’s your solution for that?
Thank god you are not in USA or Europe.
Already been there for my onsite😊 .
Make car tour
Are you having cold or blocked nose . You sound very nasal . Please take care😊
Women's problems with women.
MaidKart
why is shes wearing the gay shirt?
It's GAP not gay and a US clothing store brand.
That's GAP, lol