So Because this young lady’s emotional maturity triggered Kendra, now Kendra is gaslighting her and saying that if you’re not in a relationship there’s something wrong with her. This is so toxic.
Kendra didn’t like her because she was coming for Kendra bag!!!! The girl was saying go to therapy not Kendra show which brings Kendra MONEY 💰 YEA I READ right through miss Kendra 😮😮
But that's how it is with Aries I go through that where I just don't care how things come out my mouth anymore I know I should but how Kendra is coming out her is because Kendra do not like what she's saying and it's the truth people do be on her show that it's emotionally still hurt and they be looking for relationship instead of healing from the last relationship that we sent me and this girl share the same birthday this is not fiction she talkin about this is 100% real how can you jump into a relationship when you just got over a relationship transforming spirits you have to be healed before you can get involved with anybody
Glad someone in the comment said what I was thinking, Kendra did kinda drag it, and just because it's your show doesn't mean people can't give criticism and stuff, the lady was correct on some aspect and I respect her for how she conducted herself because she does seem like a sweet person. It's true though, lots of people are broken and want relationships and it isn't right, because the girl has a therapist she's values mental health and made her passionate about seeking therapy, that's all it is, it didn't have to be like this.
Kendra didn’t like her because she was coming for Kendra bag!!!! The girl was saying go to therapy not Kendra show which brings Kendra MONEY 💰 YEA I READ right through miss Kendra 😮😮
Nah its like that dog thats in the house with the everything around her burning down. Smiling doesn't change anything when you're dying and not getting any better. 2 lids 2 different dads and bartending.
In my opinion Kendra was the argumentative and combative one , that woman did not say anything that everyone hasn’t said in these comments at one time or another about certain guests . Kendra was tired and agitated and her energy showed that . I’ve seen women and men who have said and did waaay worse and have not gotten half the vitriol this woman received . Kendra needs to rest and rewatch this herself instead of making excuses as to why she’s being rude .
Kendra is just jealous because this broke, uneducated, single mother, will be chosen by men before she will with all her credentials. The men never choose women Kendra's age.
Please tell me you understand why KS had the “Dont over talk me” rule. To maintain order while people were watching the show. This was chaotic all around. Not an enjoyable or productive exchange.
Kendra didn’t like her because she was coming for Kendra bag!!!! The girl was saying go to therapy not Kendra show which brings Kendra MONEY 💰 YEA I READ right through miss Kendra 😮😮
This video validates thoughts that I had about what kind of person Kendra is. Much love boo, but really you are just an Internet personality, get off your high horse ❤
Kendra, you shouldn't do a show when you're tired and sick. Take time to recover first. It's ok to cancel a show that you said you would do. We understand. The show will be here when you are better. Self care comes first.
Yes she was going off on her yet, not on one the ones who actually needed it. What Mia said was actually the truth and she knows it since she comes back and address it
MY GOD!!!!! Kendra was very combative on this one. YUCK!!! I can agree with this young woman 1000% Self care, mental health and managing abusive tempers are so important. She's speaking truth and from experience.
@@missbae_ She obviously has an ego about her job. She's arrogant. And arrogance isnt of God. These therapist can't really help you if there's no balance of spirituality within it. There help will be filled with arrogance and confusion. Just like she said " law of attraction is law attraction". Like lady that has nothing to do with what the girl implied. If you aren't in the areas your soulmate is in wtf does law of attraction have to do with anything, If you aren't in the same areas as them for them to reach you? She was saying a bunch of stuff with no correlation that made no sense. And, she's a therapist! Lord help humanity lol. 🙆🏽♀️
Kendra, you were straight up rude in this. I do not know this girl but I salute her because I would have hung up. If you did not agree with her, you could have just ended the call instead of berating her. I feel like you are starting to give off female Kevin Samuels energy on some of your calls. Dont sell your soul for a dollar; if you want to help people, be helpful. I just felt like this was an overkill; and i feel it was due to being sick...and i know as women when we arent married we can sometimes be irritable when at weddings. Idk but this was disappointing over all. There are wayyyy worst things that she could have said. The fact is...some of your callers DO NEED THERAPY; when they state their backgrounds / situations it is cringe worthy and you know it, and that's all she was pointing out. You have even TOLD your callers similar things so why is it bad when she says it lol There are a lot of ppl being very toxic in relationships; and she is just stating she does not want to endure that
Kendra didn’t like her because she was coming for Kendra bag!!!! The girl was saying go to therapy not Kendra show which brings Kendra MONEY 💰 YEA I READ right through miss Kendra 😮😮
Totally disagree. Literally first words out of her mouth were negative and unnecessarily combative. She spent the rest of the whole interview defending her poor behavior and pretending to not understand what Kendra was trying to teach her. Kendra is absolutely right - if she really has had therapy (which I doubt) she needs a full refund. Cause she aint learn shit. Very first thing a therapist is going to tell you is that YOU are responsible for your results, not the piss in the dating pool. The irony that SHE is the piss in the pool though makes this episode so very rich.
I really feel bad that this poor girl had to deal with kendra going so hard on her for stating a simple opinion she had that actually made sense. She didn't deserve that negative energy
Right she mentioned energy being transferable n then went on to say how frustrated she already was and didn’t feel good prior to starting the segment. So it’s very clear that she was the one hosting the negative energy. The other girl just stated that people need to work on themselves before looking for love and she didn’t like the line up for that reason lol.
This was my first time running into this TH-camr and clearly how she came at this young lady was inappropriate smh there’s only one Kevin Samuels No one can do it like him..
I didn't see anything wrong with what she said. I've seen plenty of people who came on this show very hurt and broken. Maybe she shouldn't have lead with that comment. I see what she's saying, yes, she comes with baggage by way of her children but her baggage is not emotional trauma that causes you not to trust or see value in loyalty
Whether she’s right or wrong this isn’t the platform for all that she came on looking for a man but instead spent the majority of her time talking about other people's problems.
Totally agree. The young lady handled herself exceptionally well. Kendra was combative, argumentative & aggressive. If she wasn’t well she should’ve taken time off. She was very nasty to this young lady and it wasn’t warranted whatsoever.
Kendra didn’t like her because she was coming for Kendra bag!!!! The girl was saying go to therapy not Kendra show which brings Kendra MONEY 💰 YEA I READ right through miss Kendra 😮😮
I agree. I get what she is saying. Not sure how this call went left. Iv heard much worse on previous lives, that didn't go this way. But Kendra stated she didn't feel well, especially when she started reading the comments. I was like Wow when she started cussing, but like she said it's her show.
Kendra was out of line here. The young lady had some points. Kendra was sadly what men don't want loud and obnoxious and only caring about what she wanted to get out. She is right people are freaking damaged a to hell...Kendra you should know that. Seek to understand then seek to be understood. This was hard to watch because as a man this is what we have to face when dealing with women.
I like what the young lady said. She is asking for the best thing a person can ask forn to be healed from childhood, past relationships and trauma. Yes like at least be working on yourself.
Sounds like she may have gotten offended because she committed on her guest she does have a point ppl are hurting bd they do need to heal first point blank period 😊
I’ve never seen this side of Kendra. So different than what I thought of her. There has been other people on this show who deserved this type of energy and were clearly lying and Kendra went forward with them noncombatant. Kendra please give this woman a apology for yourself or at least your image.
I agree I was thinking the same think I hope this don't be a regular "attitude" cause this was so rude I felt bad watching. Kendra is sick so hopefully that's it.
I agree and I am surprised that people in the comments didn't catch that Kendra was being hostile from the beginning. What the lady said was kind of true, maybe her delivery was a little bit off
@@myabea7553 But ole girl was a TWO-TIME guest on her show, tryna talk like she's holier than thou. Like, do you not find it ironic how she's on the show twice but pointing the finger?
I thought I was watching Kevin Samuels! Lol there was nothing wrong with what this woman said. The audacity of her to want someone who’s healed and non toxic! 😂
Kendra didn’t like her because she was coming for Kendra bag!!!! The girl was saying go to therapy not Kendra show which brings Kendra MONEY 💰 YEA I READ right through miss Kendra 😮😮
No her delivery was wrong. When a person needs healing they should never be described at “mustered colored piss”. Cause that goes from encouragement to judgment in 0 to 100.
Well, in some way she is. But this woman better be careful with pointing that finger, I have my doubts it's clean. Single mom with 2 kids from 2 different daddy's sitting there judging other people. 🤣
@panser spikes explain to me how's she judging when all she said is people need to heal before dating? To anyone with sense, that's sound advice, not judgment. Too many people jump into relationships, with unresolved issues, wrecking havoc on their partner. That's not right.
As a therapist, she is so right. Black ppl are the ones who never seek therapy and run from one broken relationship from another. Therapy is important, especially in our community
@@FaithandNova As humans we will always be hurt if we take all critique as insults. We shouldn’t take things personal if they were not directed towards us
@@teachertx More personal questions of the young lady to prove she’s healed or to show if she is as hurt as she is saying others are. They were just a lot of fussing that didn’t make for a good visual entertainment
Miss Kendra… love you owe her an apology. If you don’t feel good, then you shouldn’t have came on live. A hit dog hollers. She said nothing wrong. 🤷🏾♀️
And your delusional for that comment, she said nothing wrong. She said she’s a serious woman. Seriously fucking different dudes with a two year old baby on here looking for a step daddy, she is crazy and so are so many black women just like you. And another thing, black women ain’t fit to be love 💕 coaches, your too damn emotional. R.I.P. Kevin Samuels
This girl was so mature. Keep being you and keep feeling compassion for people as you do. Nothing you said was wrong. The devil will make you think that. I pray God send you love sweetheart. I pray for alot of people 🙏🏾🙏🏾💕💕💕
@@leadrecruiter I didn't agree with the Woman's point of view, but she really wasn't that bad. Kendra has had people on waayyyy worse and she let them slide. Kendra was exhausted/sick and that was the problem, she even snapped on the comment section lol. Kendra was acting like the tired Mom running around the house yelling at everyone including the dog, but should be in bed with the door closed and the curtains drawn.
Poor lady? Are you fucking kidding me? 2 kids and 2 baby daddies and she got the nerve to judge other guests on the show like she's not a poor decision maker herself.
@@leadrecruiter Kendra is just jealous of these younger girls. No man on the show ever wanted a woman Kendra's age so Kendra put down young pretty women but men still will choose this woman over Kendra and all her money and credentials. Kendra was not nice, her fangs were showing. Being tired doesn't give you the right to act the way she did.
Kendra didn’t like her because she was coming for Kendra bag!!!! The girl was saying go to therapy not Kendra show which brings Kendra MONEY 💰 YEA I READ right through miss Kendra 😮😮
I understood exactly what she was saying and she was right. If you are looking for a relationship you should be emotionally healthy. That debate was unnecessary and went on way too long. She wasn’t disrespectful. Spoke her honest opinion and energy did transfer. Kendra’s energy was off before she took the call. I’m so glad the show has moved back into a more positive enlightening and entertaining show. That was the reason I chose to watch the show in-spite of the million things I have to do. 😅
I'm now watching this show since yesterday. I thought everything was great. Good and entertaining minus the extra toxicity that KS gave. But this 1 here seem a little toxic how Kendra was coming at her. Like the lady wasn't saying anything bad. She talked about the nasty dating pool that All Of Us Singles Experienced. Then Kendra tried to turn it back on her like she gotta look down on herself. Yeah, I couldn't finish after that. SMH! 🤦♂️
Kendra didn’t like her because she was coming for Kendra bag!!!! The girl was saying go to therapy not Kendra show which brings Kendra MONEY 💰 YEA I READ right through miss Kendra 😮😮
Her two kids has nothing to do with what she said about mental health. Her words about mental health in the beginning of the show were absolutely right. In my opinion, Kendra immediately felt the need to go into defensive mode. They actually could have had a much better conversation about that. Both of my wives did not take the time to heal. Man let me tell ya, it was hell. Years later they are still the same.
@@sheelahwhite1280 of course she didn’t. Kendra has a nasty attitude & is ALWAYS throwing shade at these black women down to her facial expressions. I don’t know WHYYY these folks are even asking her for any type of advice. She’s A Bully !!
How? you should never come on the show diagnosing other people. Focus on yourself. She came on complaining with negative energy. I’m glad Kendra checked her and told her to focus on herself.
It's funny no one ever says "I am single because I have 2 kids with 2 BDs" when the reality is that's the #1 reason most and especially productive men look past you.
If a person feels the need to remind their audience, customers, congregation, etc. that they had a bad or long day or remind them that they don't have to be here, just don't go to work that day. The people will live . . . The viewers who are at home and "have nothing better to do" will find something else to do. And that way, you can avoid being condescending or overreacting to things.
Hi Mia, you did not deserve that energy from this woman! You are a beautiful intelligent young women and should not tolerate such aggression and disrespect. You were attracting older men because you are mature and appear to have a good head on your shoulders! You do not need and should not entertain this kind of foolery! I truly hope you find love! Take care!
Call a spade a spade..Kendra definitely was sleepy and not feeling her best..and took it out on this girl bc I’ve seen and heard some bs on here and she wouldn’t dare to respond like this
Kendra was tripping and to say she needs a refund from her therapist is offensive. Kendra is projecting by saying Mia was aggressive and “spewing hate”. Life goes on. She doesn’t have to want to be with her child’s father if they aren’t compatible. Unhealed people are the ones that “stay for the kids” instead of choosing themselves.
It's dumb shit like this why we stay losing. THIS is why 80% of our children are raised by single moms. THIS is why our boys go to prison and our girls are teen moms. THIS is why our sistas are the least married demographic. Lord help us.
Kendra was tripping this episode forreal...... that's why she had to apologize and explain why she was being so aggressive and short tempered. Kendra must be one of those people who need some healing Chile. I think Mia was very classy in how she responded to Kendras abrasive antagonizing and I actually found her compelling and not annoying. I'd say Kendra was the annoying one this episode. Lord have mercy.
@@reth86 people who hang images of themselves up aren't inherently narcissistic. nobody even mentioned narcissism but you so I'm not sure how that's even relevant.
@@reth86 you can’t see anything that’s on that poster board Kendra just needed an excuse for how she treated that lady ! She was wrong 😑 on so many levels
Mia- "I'm just looking for someone that is actually healed, cuz I noticed on your show it is a lot of broken people coming on this show and they really need therapist and they are the reason why it is mustard yellow piss in the dating pool" Also Mia- Been trying multiple times to get on a show I feel has mostly broken people to find a potential suitor. Me- 🙄🤔😬 People typically don't search for love in environments they KNOW are unsavory. I feel like Kendra knew what was up because kendra don't pop off for nothing.
Nah, Kendra just woke up on the wrong side of the bed. 😩 Lol I had the same question but I’m guessing she thought she could cast a larger net coming on here (which she can) … there’s more people watching the show than coming on. So maybe that’s who she’s hoping to reach … the viewers 🤷🏽♀️
No need to justify your response Kendra, you were right! A healed person is humble, loving and reflective. They can accept accountability and apologise when they’re wrong.
Very true. This woman lacked humility and was very combative. "Passionate"?... What she calls passionate I call aggressive. Nope. This is a modem woman.
I think the young lady made perfect sense. Kendra appears argumentative and just not wanting to hear what she has to say. Just because it’s Kendra’s show doesn’t make her right. Not her fault you haven’t had a nap.
Real talk shawty was just tired just regroup and try it tomorrow baby it was taken alllll out of context because I didn't see anything she said was wrong
i am glad it isnt just me. Kendra was super combative; and i dont understand why....because the girl did not lie....there are a lot of unhealed ppl in the world. money and looks mean nothing if you arent a good person
Exactly. People say some pretty horrible things about the guest in the comment section every single show but she’s yet to address her listeners calling people name’s; ie ugly , funny looking and all kinds of things that tear people down but going so hard on this young lady for saying people need to heal. And, yes! She does know what’s being said about her guest while the show is going on because she stays reading the comments. Her attitude was no better and this was hard to watch.
Kendra was being extremely aggressive and antagonistic . Kendra seemed to not like the fact that Sis stood her ground! Kendra it's okay to Agree to disagree. You are not perfect and your not always correct. I'm glad Sis stood her ground and went toe to toe with you. It's all good 👍🏾
I understand it’s your platform. Come on Kendra can’t people have a opinion even if you don’t agree with people if that’s what she feels. Most of the thing this female say it’s true. She isn’t lying
This comment right here shows why so many people are toxic. Kendra was 100% right. She saying everyone is looking like piss and She got her own piss ass life with 2 kids from 2 baby daddies. If you live in a glass house, don't throw rocks. It's like if a person made fun of someone's shoes but they got the same shoes on. The show is to find a date not to talk about how shitty other people are. Some of yall energy is off
@@Tyrantoftheworld bro I don’t agree with her 100% but sum of the things she said it’s true. She isn’t perfect but every one need to heal when they enter a relationship
@@Shaqreacts If I punch some random girl in the face and say "we need to stop violence" would you say "yea this dude punching a random girl in the face is right?" NO! She's saying the right things but she is CLEARLY not healed. No you should not agree with her at all
Kendra didn’t like her because she was coming for Kendra bag!!!! The girl was saying go to therapy not Kendra show which brings Kendra MONEY 💰 YEA I READ right through miss Kendra 😮😮
@@meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195 Girlll how many comments are u gonna copy and paste this same comment on? She couldn't come for Kendra "Bag" if she wanted to 😂
She is well spoken and just knows what she wants. I don’t think she Was disrespectful in anyway, just direct. I understood exactly what she was projecting. Maybe you just didn’t like her personality, but she was very upfront and I don’t see anything wrong with what she said. Need more people to know what they want and the world would be a better place. I Wish her well and Hope she finds the kind of love she desires from one sister to the next. God bless
She literally said hurtness yet you think this woman is well spoken lol. Hope all you want but there is a deeper reason why she didn't answer the question about not being with either father. I wouldn't wish this headache onto any man doing well for himself.
I believe Kendra dislikes the fact that this young lady told the truth about the guests she has on her show. She keeps talking about Law of Attraction but look at the quality of the people she has on her show.
@@myabea7553 yes it does matter she really don't know if some of these ppl hurt or unleal, in reality if this was ur show do know that many of these guys would have issued in there life n why we acting like ppl is perfect because we not....
@@BOOGIESOBSERVATIONS no. It doesn’t matter, she literally said herself you attract what you are. The law doesn’t stop applying just because it’s the other way around. She is literally ATTRACTING broken people.
I think the guest was right when she said we are not who we attract, we are who we say yes to and accept into our lives. We cannot control what any given person finds attractive.
I agree with you. Some people are attracted and they competent misread people. However, they like you. I think I agree with the first to. Who you're with is a representation of you. You really are who you say yes to.
Both things can be true, but what you put out into the world is definitely what you get in return. What humble and kind dude wants to deal with that negative energy?
I would like to know how asking for someone who is healed is judge mental? I’m so confused at these comments. Should she be asking for someone who is abusive because she has two kids? WTH
Yikes! I understood what Mia means. A lot of people do come on this show with unresolved trauma, and straight up foolish situations like just having an infant, or still being married...
She went after her because she's a healed person. Kendra was like "fuck no! You can't be in here all healed and shit! " Kendra really looking like an unhealed person!
Kendra is clearly a hurting person who was shown up by this guest. This is so sad. I love that- you’re not who you attract, you’re who you accept into your life. Love this!
Mia is the type of person that uses the term "toxic relationship" about her relationships but acts like she wasn't a willing and consenting participant
That doesn't make sense. What toxic behavior did she display about her relationships? Moses is a perfect example of a person who had flaws, and yet he was chosen by God to judge and lead a whole nation.
That’s not true for us that know we have deep issues. I have been in therapy since I was maybe 8 years old. I’m still in therapy on and off at 40 years old. I am a constant work in progress ALL THE TIME!! Unfortunately, broken NEVER ends once you become broken, especially if that brokenness came at a young age. Just like a drug addict or alcoholic, I must constantly work to be a “normal” and good person.
No. She wanted her to accepted that SHE is a hurt angry woman. The mother of 2 part only makes it worse. Men don't see life as PacMan the way some women do. The point she was trying to make about the kid is that men will see her giving up on that relationship as a red flag. How you "grow apart" from someone in 2 years? That's bs. He probably told her No and she thinks she's going to just move to the next one, with no accountability for MAKING A WHOLE HUMAN LIFE with a mf you couldn't get along with. This is how men see it. Other (single) women will encourage her as if she gets unlimited tries.
Idk cause for me, I’m a really happy person who likes to see the best in everything. I don’t want nobody who’s vibrating low in relationship with me. I’m past that point, it was dangerous.
@@chanelagaintv Same. I shy away from broken men. It is very dangerous dealing with emotionally unhealthy people period. Also she is correct, sweet and kind will get you walked all over, firm and upfront is the way to go. The book *Why men love b1tches?* woke me up to face reality.
@@chanelagaintv Same. I do therapy and prescribe psychiatric medication. I can’t fathom having an additional patient to go home to at this stage in my life.
Naw. This lady was thinking way too highly of herself. She’s 30 with 2 kids and 2 DIFFERENT baby daddies. She’s never been married. This is the type of woman that my grandma would call “a hussy”.
Thanks! Kendra honestly you are “becoming” The female version of Kevin and WE APPRECIATE THAT! You’re beautiful (still a bit impulsive, but women are women) and we see that you’re opening to accept what you see. We love our women but our women are losing. Yes men need work, that’s not new… but women have hidden behind that to appear as victims… we aren’t trying to shame them but simply say that’s Black men resurrect we have to see EVERYTHING around us that’s a challenge. Love to be a guest and your work is great. Don’t get sucked in by the negative energy, you are gifted!
Naw Kendra, you were doing too much. Kendra constantly tells people they need therapy and heal before dating. She said the same thing you normally say. A woman with 2 kids is not tainting the dating pool, especially if she gets with a man who also has kids.
Kendra did not have a problem with her or her therapy. She said it multiple times, she had a problem when this woman went at past guests negatively. That's what set Kendra off. If you talk about past guests negatively and you're not perfect, then she's coming for you like the boogie man!
Kenda you did way too much! If you are tired not feeling well give yourself some time. Not doing it anyway with a short temper while being insulting..... The energy you came on with is what YOU got back! Take a break next time.
Kendra didn’t like her because she was coming for Kendra bag!!!! The girl was saying go to therapy not Kendra show which brings Kendra MONEY 💰 YEA I READ right through miss Kendra 😮😮
At this point, “co-parent” is code for “broken home” ppl put a cute little label on it to evade these irresponsible decisions of these backward families. This lady literally didn’t say anything wrong. Even when she said you attract all types of ppl, it’s who you CHOSE is what matters, which is TRUE. She kept an up beat attitude even after Kendra dragged her. BUT her resume is NOT anything pristine. Literally everything Kendra said was 1,000% right, she held her 100% accountable. But I think since Kendra is tired & sick, she seemed more impatient lol
@Square Peg Still backwards. "First comes love, then comes marriage, THEN comes the baby in a baby carriage." They taught us the proper way since kindergarten yet we still screw it up.
Very well put. I’m half way through the video. So far I feel like Kendra was the one that kind of attacked her. She wanted to defend all the people that came on her show. Which I think is fair for her to do but if we’re being honest. Kendra has made tons of faces and said tons of things about those same people. I don’t necessarily see either as being right or wrong. More so a difference of opinion. Also Kendra should have ignored the comment about people being broken and just continued. We live and learn. Nothing to see here.
“You are not what you attract; you’re what you say yes to”… that actually makes a lot of sense. Especially for magnetic people who are likely to attract all types of individuals. It really comes down to discernment. Kendra was unnecessarily antagonistic towards the young lady. And the guest was combative. Not a shining moment for either of them.
@@godsangel67able being in the city you can attract everyone still doesn't mean you entertain everyone. If what you say is the case we will have mostly one mind trackers and tribes.
Disagree. The guest openly criticized other guests on this show. That she shouldn’t even be worried about in the first place. This show is about her receiving help to find someone. And that’s bad for reviews and will only go downhill for her show. She checked her for it and the other people that thinks she’s dragging it.
She wants a man to be everything she isn't and take all her mess. She's looking for a doormat babysitter. I think she likes to hear herself speak and loves to argue without listening to anyone else and she speaks over people. She is too much.
Wow, this was disturbing on so many levels, you were combative from start to finish. You attacked a person in the comments. I get that its your show and you have the right to remove people that violate the guidelines that you set but to act like you are doing this show out of the kindness of your heart that you are not benefiting in someways is a little insulting. And to say to a person that their life is so empty that they are sitting watching your show is cruel. Congratulation, you are fortunate to have a National platform but it because people like the one that you were so disrespectful to that you are afforded these opportunities. Does that mean you have to be insulted? No, but it doesn’t give you license to disparage someone either. I enjoy your show and I find you to be entertaining and insightful, so I was little taken aback with your respond. I think the young lady was a little immature and is still growing and if we are honest we have all generalized and made comments about people that were not deserved. But you are the host and that requires you to go above, it your job to correct and encourage better dialogue. We have too much of this type of interaction already and one of the things that I enjoyed about you was that you found a way to correct a person in love maybe this was one off. Anyway, I hope you feel better and take care of yourself. Peace
This is the person that tried to grab attention by trying to “rescue” some girls from R Kelly’s house. It was completely stupid and attention seeking. Then she abandoned the mission and we never heard anything else about it. Dumb.
I think Kendra missed her point. People truly do come on the show to vent their problems about the opposite gender. They are trying to feel a void. I don't think she was saying she is perfect just saying people need to heal or attempt to heal before they date. People go on the show to talk mess period.
Yeah, does the people Kendra are attracting on her show say alot about her? I've watched other dating shows and they don't have these problems and the hosts don't respond like this either. It's part of the ratchet tv movement...it's PRIMARILY for entertainment.
Just because you're"healed" and did the "work" doesn't mean your a therapist. Healing never stops!
BOOM! Exactly.
“Healing never stops” that part👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Your a wize woman
Amen! Folks don’t get that. Life constantly evolves and so do we. Healing will always be needed ♥️
Exactly 💯💯
Her saying you are watching me because you don’t have anything better to do, reminds me that I actually have better things to do.
Girl!! 😂😂😂
Facts.
Exactly! She didn’t just diss this girl, she dissed everyone watching her.
😂
Yeah, that was mean😂
This interview was wonderful representation for this guest. She handled Kendra's aggression and vitriol SO wonderfully.
Exactly, because I would have went off the way Kendra spoke to her.
This woman spokes volumes with regards to mental health and healing 😎👌🏾💯.
That's lile saying the moon comes out at night. That has nothing to do with how she labeled people when she aint shit herself.
Simp !
Kendra sounds tired af and under the weather, and I know dealing with her DID NOT help. It’s okay to take a break and get some rest
Naw that's not no excuse for this girl coming on this show
I agree, shes been sick for a while now.
@@stebbiej did you read my comment right? When did I ever give this chick an excuse?
Naw she is just finally heard enough of yalls female bullshit and she knows it's pure bullshit..
Agree the foolishness does not help you recover from being sick!
So Because this young lady’s emotional maturity triggered Kendra, now Kendra is gaslighting her and saying that if you’re not in a relationship there’s something wrong with her. This is so toxic.
She a Lonely fraud just likeKSamuels
That’s exactly what she doing. Smh
Kendra didn’t like her because she was coming for Kendra bag!!!! The girl was saying go to therapy not Kendra show which brings Kendra MONEY 💰 YEA I READ right through miss Kendra 😮😮
@@meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195 doesn't she constantly tell people not to watch her show if they're sensitive?
But that's how it is with Aries I go through that where I just don't care how things come out my mouth anymore I know I should but how Kendra is coming out her is because Kendra do not like what she's saying and it's the truth people do be on her show that it's emotionally still hurt and they be looking for relationship instead of healing from the last relationship that we sent me and this girl share the same birthday this is not fiction she talkin about this is 100% real how can you jump into a relationship when you just got over a relationship transforming spirits you have to be healed before you can get involved with anybody
Glad someone in the comment said what I was thinking, Kendra did kinda drag it, and just because it's your show doesn't mean people can't give criticism and stuff, the lady was correct on some aspect and I respect her for how she conducted herself because she does seem like a sweet person. It's true though, lots of people are broken and want relationships and it isn't right, because the girl has a therapist she's values mental health and made her passionate about seeking therapy, that's all it is, it didn't have to be like this.
Kendra didn’t like her because she was coming for Kendra bag!!!! The girl was saying go to therapy not Kendra show which brings Kendra MONEY 💰 YEA I READ right through miss Kendra 😮😮
Right on 😂😂😂😎👌🏾💯
Exactly she could've easily went off
Kendra need therapy
Exactly in life we all need constructive criticism
As an aries, she really let kendra have it, to say nothin and smile through it. Im not that mature. Her therapy is working
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Nah its like that dog thats in the house with the everything around her burning down. Smiling doesn't change anything when you're dying and not getting any better. 2 lids 2 different dads and bartending.
@@NoThankYou-uk4zdregardless she’s clearly emotionally stable which says a lot from what I’ve seen with most people on here
Kendra I think you may have been tired because it didn’t require this much energy. This could have been handled better.
A great example of leaving your problems at home and not taking them to work. Sick, worry, or stress always effect people around you.
I like Kendra. But she can be really Condescending and Dismissive at time
Yeah i would have ended the call after she described people as yellow piss being at the bottom of barrel.
Kendra smh
In my opinion Kendra was the argumentative and combative one , that woman did not say anything that everyone hasn’t said in these comments at one time or another about certain guests . Kendra was tired and agitated and her energy showed that . I’ve seen women and men who have said and did waaay worse and have not gotten half the vitriol this woman received . Kendra needs to rest and rewatch this herself instead of making excuses as to why she’s being rude .
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Kendra stated she rewatched and said she should have went harder 🤦🏾. She’s starting to become delusional 😂😂😂
Kendra needs a break she wanted to argue
Kendra is just jealous because this broke, uneducated, single mother, will be chosen by men before she will with all her credentials. The men never choose women Kendra's age.
Please tell me you understand why KS had the “Dont over talk me” rule. To maintain order while people were watching the show. This was chaotic all around. Not an enjoyable or productive exchange.
Kendra was NOT in a good mood. She was clearly picking fights with gf who didn’t say anything that others haven’t.
exactly, that was weird
She was tired and a bit toxic. This girl was sweet and considerate
Kendra didn’t like her because she was coming for Kendra bag!!!! The girl was saying go to therapy not Kendra show which brings Kendra MONEY 💰 YEA I READ right through miss Kendra 😮😮
Obviously…..
@@ChialukaGold👋😘😘
This video validates thoughts that I had about what kind of person Kendra is. Much love boo, but really you are just an Internet personality, get off your high horse ❤
Kendra, you shouldn't do a show when you're tired and sick. Take time to recover first. It's ok to cancel a show that you said you would do. We understand. The show will be here when you are better. Self care comes first.
I agree 100%. Kendra G should take some time to rest. I wish Kendra G the best.
Yes she was going off on her yet, not on one the ones who actually needed it. What Mia said was actually the truth and she knows it since she comes back and address it
I hope she only does shows when she's sick and tired. This was fantastic 🤣
THIS was Pointless 😊‼️
@@crookedsmile4886 like this delusional woman didn't need it wow the delusion never ends lol.
MY GOD!!!!! Kendra was very combative on this one. YUCK!!! I can agree with this young woman 1000% Self care, mental health and managing abusive tempers are so important. She's speaking truth and from experience.
I'm glad DeShawn went off on her.
Yea she went in on her for nothing
Exactly!! She was going in too hard for no reason
THANK YOU! This is the second video I've watched and I'm like 🥴 -- so we bickering with guest???
Kendra had a point, but she DID drag it...
Yes, I think she was tired chile 😩 cause she was really going in
Kendra needs to actually get her therapist’s info cause she needs to use her for herself!
💯 bcuz she goes off and snap on ppl too much
Anytime someone speaks highly of themselves or has high standards she gets pissed…it’s weird.
@@missbae_ exactly
Facts ! She’s rude asl down to her facial expressions. Her ass a straight up BULLY !
@@missbae_ She obviously has an ego about her job. She's arrogant. And arrogance isnt of God. These therapist can't really help you if there's no balance of spirituality within it. There help will be filled with arrogance and confusion. Just like she said " law of attraction is law attraction". Like lady that has nothing to do with what the girl implied. If you aren't in the areas your soulmate is in wtf does law of attraction have to do with anything, If you aren't in the same areas as them for them to reach you? She was saying a bunch of stuff with no correlation that made no sense. And, she's a therapist! Lord help humanity lol. 🙆🏽♀️
She was actually very well spoken and handled her self well no matter how much Kendra came at her tuff love it
Kendra, you were straight up rude in this. I do not know this girl but I salute her because I would have hung up. If you did not agree with her, you could have just ended the call instead of berating her. I feel like you are starting to give off female Kevin Samuels energy on some of your calls. Dont sell your soul for a dollar; if you want to help people, be helpful. I just felt like this was an overkill; and i feel it was due to being sick...and i know as women when we arent married we can sometimes be irritable when at weddings. Idk but this was disappointing over all. There are wayyyy worst things that she could have said. The fact is...some of your callers DO NEED THERAPY; when they state their backgrounds / situations it is cringe worthy and you know it, and that's all she was pointing out. You have even TOLD your callers similar things so why is it bad when she says it lol There are a lot of ppl being very toxic in relationships; and she is just stating she does not want to endure that
Well stated.
Well said. You hit every angle. Especially the female KS one
Exactly how u gon ask me what I want and then berate everything I say smh
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I am embarrassed for Kendra
Her getting a therapist is how some people act when turning vegan. Suddenly everyone is beneath them if they don't do what they did
YESSSSS
Exactly 🤣
Well Said!
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Kendra, Kendra, Kendra. You can be evil when you're tired. Make sure you have at least 8 hours of sleep before each show!
New to the channel but I agree. Gotta watch a few more shows I guess
Kendra didn’t like her because she was coming for Kendra bag!!!! The girl was saying go to therapy not Kendra show which brings Kendra MONEY 💰 YEA I READ right through miss Kendra 😮😮
Damn right 😂😂
@@meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195 💯
Kendra was right!
Kendra was wrong for this 🥴 I think she misunderstood. The energy of the girl was changed by Kendra’s combativeness 😳
Totally disagree. Literally first words out of her mouth were negative and unnecessarily combative. She spent the rest of the whole interview defending her poor behavior and pretending to not understand what Kendra was trying to teach her. Kendra is absolutely right - if she really has had therapy (which I doubt) she needs a full refund. Cause she aint learn shit. Very first thing a therapist is going to tell you is that YOU are responsible for your results, not the piss in the dating pool. The irony that SHE is the piss in the pool though makes this episode so very rich.
I really feel bad that this poor girl had to deal with kendra going so hard on her for stating a simple opinion she had that actually made sense. She didn't deserve that negative energy
Right she mentioned energy being transferable n then went on to say how frustrated she already was and didn’t feel good prior to starting the segment. So it’s very clear that she was the one hosting the negative energy. The other girl just stated that people need to work on themselves before looking for love and she didn’t like the line up for that reason lol.
She wasn’t wrong about anything she said. People do rush into relationship after relationship without healing. And she didn’t say everybody.
Honestly, Kendra if you are not feeling well you should take time to heal. Let’s not judge anyone, you included!
EXACTLY. WELL SAID.
I came here hoping to find this comment. Kendra came on admitting she was not well enough to host the show. I think she was very combative.
@@NiceKJ Now this is the comment I was looking for! Combative is the exact word I was thinking.
You said it all ❤
This was my first time running into this TH-camr and clearly how she came at this young lady was inappropriate smh there’s only one Kevin Samuels No one can do it like him..
I hope Kendra watch this again because she took her the wrong way.
She is right. Past guests often use this show as therapy. They are broken, sad and desperate. Only a few are actually ready for a new relationship.
I didn't see anything wrong with what she said. I've seen plenty of people who came on this show very hurt and broken. Maybe she shouldn't have lead with that comment. I see what she's saying, yes, she comes with baggage by way of her children but her baggage is not emotional trauma that causes you not to trust or see value in loyalty
Whether she’s right or wrong this isn’t the platform for all that she came on looking for a man but instead spent the majority of her time talking about other people's problems.
Exactly! From the episodes I’ve seen so far she’s spot on.
@@fitnessfreak212 I agree
And she’s one of them lol
This young lady was very well spoken and handled herself well
Agreed. Kendra was really setting a negative tone and being unnecessarily combative...
Totally agree. The young lady handled herself exceptionally well. Kendra was combative, argumentative & aggressive. If she wasn’t well she should’ve taken time off. She was very nasty to this young lady and it wasn’t warranted whatsoever.
Kendra didn’t like her because she was coming for Kendra bag!!!! The girl was saying go to therapy not Kendra show which brings Kendra MONEY 💰 YEA I READ right through miss Kendra 😮😮
I agree. I get what she is saying. Not sure how this call went left. Iv heard much worse on previous lives, that didn't go this way. But Kendra stated she didn't feel well, especially when she started reading the comments. I was like Wow when she started cussing, but like she said it's her show.
Being straight forward vs angry never the same.
Kendra was out of line here. The young lady had some points. Kendra was sadly what men don't want loud and obnoxious and only caring about what she wanted to get out. She is right people are freaking damaged a to hell...Kendra you should know that. Seek to understand then seek to be understood. This was hard to watch because as a man this is what we have to face when dealing with women.
Yes she was absolutely out of line. Perhaps someone ticked her off that she ant attack, so she took it out on her.
I like what the young lady said. She is asking for the best thing a person can ask forn to be healed from childhood, past relationships and trauma. Yes like at least be working on yourself.
Profound wisdom “Seek to understand then seek to be understood”! Thanks for that nugget!
Sounds like she may have gotten offended because she committed on her guest she does have a point ppl are hurting bd they do need to heal first point blank period 😊
@@crystalfields553 They definitely do. Some hurt so bad they purposely lead connections with the physical and No mind and sound judgment smh
The young lady is correct. And she wasn't trying to be disrespectful at all.
You sound dumb. How is "the dating pool is PISS" not disrespectful?? LMAO!! 🤡
I’ve never seen this side of Kendra. So different than what I thought of her. There has been other people on this show who deserved this type of energy and were clearly lying and Kendra went forward with them noncombatant. Kendra please give this woman a apology for yourself or at least your image.
I agree I was thinking the same think I hope this don't be a regular "attitude" cause this was so rude I felt bad watching. Kendra is sick so hopefully that's it.
Facts
Eh Kendra seemed kinda annoyed and hostile from the jump lol
Also - the girl was 100% right in what she said…idk why Kendra treated her that way lol
I agree and I am surprised that people in the comments didn't catch that Kendra was being hostile from the beginning. What the lady said was kind of true, maybe her delivery was a little bit off
I agree but her delivery was just wrong. But Kendra def had funky energy from the start.
Kendra was mad because she was telling the truth about the guests on HER show
That’s exactly the reason
@@myabea7553 But ole girl was a TWO-TIME guest on her show, tryna talk like she's holier than thou. Like, do you not find it ironic how she's on the show twice but pointing the finger?
I thought I was watching Kevin Samuels! Lol there was nothing wrong with what this woman said. The audacity of her to want someone who’s healed and non toxic! 😂
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Because she ain't healed she has two illegitimate children two
Kevin Samuels isn’t that emotional where he’s attacking from the get. He would have had a solid conversation with this woman.
Coming from a toxic, non-healed person is the irony Boo Boo. whoosh! Watch it again, it'll make more sense.
Whoah Kendra really butchered this lady for no reason. I hope she apologized.
Shorty handle herself very well, Kendra definitely was attacking. Conversation could’ve been much better.
Kendra didn’t like her because she was coming for Kendra bag!!!! The girl was saying go to therapy not Kendra show which brings Kendra MONEY 💰 YEA I READ right through miss Kendra 😮😮
You people are lonely toons.
Kendra was right. You don’t let someone disrespect your guest regardless! Spend the time on yourself not on others.
She didn’t say anything wrong, healing is important and so is mental health and therapy. Kendra went from 0 to 100 real quick.
No her delivery was wrong. When a person needs healing they should never be described at “mustered colored piss”. Cause that goes from encouragement to judgment in 0 to 100.
@@rf4341 agree
@@rf4341 you ain't wrong, I agree 👍
@@rf4341It’s not her fault she took it a certain way nobody entitled to speak a certain way
Kendra was wrong and always takes offense. She shouldn’t have done the show being sick and tired
The girl was not wrong. People are mentally and emotionally messed up and need to handle that before dating
I agree!
Kendra just really wasn't feeling good!
Exactly! She said nothing wrong. She took offense because she said people on her show needed healing. She took it personal.
Well, in some way she is. But this woman better be careful with pointing that finger, I have my doubts it's clean.
Single mom with 2 kids from 2 different daddy's sitting there judging other people. 🤣
@panser spikes explain to me how's she judging when all she said is people need to heal before dating? To anyone with sense, that's sound advice, not judgment. Too many people jump into relationships, with unresolved issues, wrecking havoc on their partner. That's not right.
As a therapist, she is so right. Black ppl are the ones who never seek therapy and run from one broken relationship from another. Therapy is important, especially in our community
THAT's what you took from THIS??? And YOU're a therapist? Yikes!!!
@@wanderlustly313hush 🤫
If Kendra didn’t get emotional she could have asked the right questions. Kendra transferred her own energy off.
Because the woman came off immediately insulting ppl
What were the right questions to ask?
@@FaithandNova As humans we will always be hurt if we take all critique as insults. We shouldn’t take things personal if they were not directed towards us
@@teachertx More personal questions of the young lady to prove she’s healed or to show if she is as hurt as she is saying others are. They were just a lot of fussing that didn’t make for a good visual entertainment
Yes Immanuel I agree! I don't care who is begging her to come on, if she was in such a bad mood she should have done the show another time.
Nobody is “completely” healed and she’s clearly proof of that.
I agree! A work in progress ❤
This guest is just rude.
She’s looking for perfection. Something she is not. Please do some self evaluation! This convo could have ended after like 5 mins. # negativeenergy
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She must have been in therapy or still is if not she needs to be
Miss Kendra… love you owe her an apology. If you don’t feel good, then you shouldn’t have came on live. A hit dog hollers. She said nothing wrong. 🤷🏾♀️
And your delusional for that comment, she said nothing wrong. She said she’s a serious woman. Seriously fucking different dudes with a two year old baby on here looking for a step daddy, she is crazy and so are so many black women just like you. And another thing, black women ain’t fit to be love 💕 coaches, your too damn emotional. R.I.P. Kevin Samuels
Wow why would you think Kendra owes her an apology 🤦🏻♀️maybe you should apologize for her because Kendra absolutely doesn't owe her a apologize....
I Agree
You don't think Kendra is old and apology because the female trapped over talk her
She shouldn't apologize to the young lady, because she if a pool is piss, u can't expect to come out clean. Learn to clean off and look again.
This girl was so mature. Keep being you and keep feeling compassion for people as you do. Nothing you said was wrong. The devil will make you think that. I pray God send you love sweetheart. I pray for alot of people 🙏🏾🙏🏾💕💕💕
Kendra snapped on the poor lady lol. Kendra, Sis, get some rest and leave those monster drinks alone!
This is no poor lady she is condescending as hell.
@@leadrecruiter I didn't agree with the Woman's point of view, but she really wasn't that bad. Kendra has had people on waayyyy worse and she let them slide. Kendra was exhausted/sick and that was the problem, she even snapped on the comment section lol. Kendra was acting like the tired Mom running around the house yelling at everyone including the dog, but should be in bed with the door closed and the curtains drawn.
@@somemorre I get that she was tired and sick. Her response is what I expect when someone tries to "attack" your subscribers or your clients.
Poor lady? Are you fucking kidding me? 2 kids and 2 baby daddies and she got the nerve to judge other guests on the show like she's not a poor decision maker herself.
@@leadrecruiter Kendra is just jealous of these younger girls. No man on the show ever wanted a woman Kendra's age so Kendra put down young pretty women but men still will choose this woman over Kendra and all her money and credentials.
Kendra was not nice, her fangs were showing. Being tired doesn't give you the right to act the way she did.
She was absolutely right.. she was sweet and kind.. i felt great energy from her. Kendra was tired and a bit toxic
Kendra didn’t like her because she was coming for Kendra bag!!!! The girl was saying go to therapy not Kendra show which brings Kendra MONEY 💰 YEA I READ right through miss Kendra 😮😮
A bit 😒
Factz
@@meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195 lol
I understood exactly what she was saying and she was right. If you are looking for a relationship you should be emotionally healthy. That debate was unnecessary and went on way too long. She wasn’t disrespectful. Spoke her honest opinion and energy did transfer. Kendra’s energy was off before she took the call. I’m so glad the show has moved back into a more positive enlightening and entertaining show. That was the reason I chose to watch the show in-spite of the million things I have to do. 😅
I'm now watching this show since yesterday. I thought everything was great. Good and entertaining minus the extra toxicity that KS gave. But this 1 here seem a little toxic how Kendra was coming at her. Like the lady wasn't saying anything bad. She talked about the nasty dating pool that All Of Us Singles Experienced. Then Kendra tried to turn it back on her like she gotta look down on herself. Yeah, I couldn't finish after that. SMH! 🤦♂️
Kendra didn’t like her because she was coming for Kendra bag!!!! The girl was saying go to therapy not Kendra show which brings Kendra MONEY 💰 YEA I READ right through miss Kendra 😮😮
Then why was she on the show if she was healed.
give us concrete examples of what being emotionally healthy looks like ....
Agreed! 💯
She didn’t want to talk to her even before she accepted her to come. Kendra you do owe this lady an apology for the way you treated her.
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Her two kids has nothing to do with what she said about mental health. Her words about mental health in the beginning of the show were absolutely right. In my opinion, Kendra immediately felt the need to go into defensive mode. They actually could have had a much better conversation about that.
Both of my wives did not take the time to heal. Man let me tell ya, it was hell. Years later they are still the same.
That's a different show... 🤔
Did Kendra apologize to her
@@sheelahwhite1280 I wanna know too 🤔
@@sheelahwhite1280 of course she didn’t. Kendra has a nasty attitude & is ALWAYS throwing shade at these black women down to her facial expressions. I don’t know WHYYY these folks are even asking her for any type of advice. She’s A Bully !!
Both? Hey maybe it was you
The girl was actually nice and patient
How? you should never come on the show diagnosing other people. Focus on yourself. She came on complaining with negative energy. I’m glad Kendra checked her and told her to focus on herself.
@@ronstan3064but she asked her about other people…she asked what she is looking for in a man lol.
Black women are know for not practicing what they preach
Diagnosing people? No she spoke the truth
Yea and I'm a bat with wings.
It's funny no one ever says "I am single because I have 2 kids with 2 BDs" when the reality is that's the #1 reason most and especially productive men look past you.
Right lol. She judging everyone else but SHE is still here and a mess herself.
I see dis comment clearly went over dey heads
@@perdybirdie facts n had a child n highschool yea Kendra did right...lucky she ain't go in n take dis gurl womanhood all da way!!!
@@jamesbeebee9970 facts she was getting way 2 busy as a teenager and then wanne come up in here and get 2 woofin.
I have to agree with this. That's the MAIN reason quality men aren't checking
Somebody looooves to pick fights and argue. Smh... (she was wrong as two left shoes...) K is tempermental and super fickle.
She's alone because she's a know it all, argumentative and talks entirely too much.
Bingo!
Goodness I'm only 6:00 and ready to end the video lol
Damn right!!
She’s an Aries ♈️ 😆
@@Camillyahreal definitely an Aries ♈🙄
If a person feels the need to remind their audience, customers, congregation, etc. that they had a bad or long day or remind them that they don't have to be here, just don't go to work that day. The people will live . . . The viewers who are at home and "have nothing better to do" will find something else to do. And that way, you can avoid being condescending or overreacting to things.
that part
She was VERY abusive 2 this woman. Her excuses r jus that...EXCUSES!
We really wanna c u win kendra. But tryna b a pick me ain't it
Yep I agree!
Thank you !
@@incognitonegress exactly
NO WAY I would have been this patient with Kendra ! No way
Hi Mia, you did not deserve that energy from this woman! You are a beautiful intelligent young women and should not tolerate such aggression and disrespect. You were attracting older men because you are mature and appear to have a good head on your shoulders! You do not need and should not entertain this kind of foolery! I truly hope you find love! Take care!
Agree
Call a spade a spade..Kendra definitely was sleepy and not feeling her best..and took it out on this girl bc I’ve seen and heard some bs on here and she wouldn’t dare to respond like this
Get some rest Kendra!
I can hear it in your voice!
A big part of healing is accepting the part you played in your own life's problems.
Stop preaching! Lmao Out here telling the truth!
This! I was telling a relative this exact same thing...she takes no accountability with the way her life is turning out
Yes!
Right!
Amen 🙏🏾 accountability point blank…
Kendra was tripping and to say she needs a refund from her therapist is offensive. Kendra is projecting by saying Mia was aggressive and “spewing hate”. Life goes on. She doesn’t have to want to be with her child’s father if they aren’t compatible. Unhealed people are the ones that “stay for the kids” instead of choosing themselves.
It's dumb shit like this why we stay losing. THIS is why 80% of our children are raised by single moms. THIS is why our boys go to prison and our girls are teen moms. THIS is why our sistas are the least married demographic. Lord help us.
Kendra refuse to get that you dont have to stay with your kids dad !
Kendra was tripping this episode forreal...... that's why she had to apologize and explain why she was being so aggressive and short tempered. Kendra must be one of those people who need some healing Chile. I think Mia was very classy in how she responded to Kendras abrasive antagonizing and I actually found her compelling and not annoying. I'd say Kendra was the annoying one this episode. Lord have mercy.
She has a poster board with her own picture behind her and you don't think this girl is a narcissist lol wow 😅
@@reth86 people who hang images of themselves up aren't inherently narcissistic. nobody even mentioned narcissism but you so I'm not sure how that's even relevant.
@@reth86 Trying to get her own lil show started 😩😂
@@reth86 you can’t see anything that’s on that poster board Kendra just needed an excuse for how she treated that lady ! She was wrong 😑 on so many levels
Kendra was on point
She did not come on with a temper! She was so intelligent in her responses with you!!
Mia- "I'm just looking for someone that is actually healed, cuz I noticed on your show it is a lot of broken people coming on this show and they really need therapist and they are the reason why it is mustard yellow piss in the dating pool"
Also Mia- Been trying multiple times to get on a show I feel has mostly broken people to find a potential suitor.
Me- 🙄🤔😬
People typically don't search for love in environments they KNOW are unsavory. I feel like Kendra knew what was up because kendra don't pop off for nothing.
GIRL!! 💯
You said it!
An accurate summation. She really liked tooting her own "I'm healed" horn over people.
Nah, Kendra just woke up on the wrong side of the bed. 😩 Lol I had the same question but I’m guessing she thought she could cast a larger net coming on here (which she can) … there’s more people watching the show than coming on. So maybe that’s who she’s hoping to reach … the viewers 🤷🏽♀️
Unfortunately, this is my sister and the family doesn't even fuck wit her because of her backwards ass attitude!! She is the epitome of psycho! Smh
The young lady was 100 percent right.. glad she stood her ground.
Yes Mía was right
This lady is very humble in my eyes. She is making sense to me.
No need to justify your response Kendra, you were right!
A healed person is humble, loving and reflective. They can accept accountability and apologise when they’re wrong.
Very true. This woman lacked humility and was very combative. "Passionate"?... What she calls passionate I call aggressive. Nope. This is a modem woman.
hello say it again
Her face alone speaks when Kendra speaks says a lot
I understand what she saying
She isn't healed
I think the young lady made perfect sense. Kendra appears argumentative and just not wanting to hear what she has to say. Just because it’s Kendra’s show doesn’t make her right. Not her fault you haven’t had a nap.
Real talk shawty was just tired just regroup and try it tomorrow baby it was taken alllll out of context because I didn't see anything she said was wrong
i am glad it isnt just me. Kendra was super combative; and i dont understand why....because the girl did not lie....there are a lot of unhealed ppl in the world. money and looks mean nothing if you arent a good person
Right I'm confused on how she didn't see that.
Exactly. People say some pretty horrible things about the guest in the comment section every single show but she’s yet to address her listeners calling people name’s; ie ugly , funny looking and all kinds of things that tear people down but going so hard on this young lady for saying people need to heal. And, yes! She does know what’s being said about her guest while the show is going on because she stays reading the comments. Her attitude was no better and this was hard to watch.
And they say kevin samuels was hard on women😂😂😂
Kendra was being extremely aggressive and antagonistic . Kendra seemed to not like the fact that Sis stood her ground! Kendra it's okay to Agree to disagree. You are not perfect and your not always correct. I'm glad Sis stood her ground and went toe to toe with you. It's all good 👍🏾
I understand it’s your platform. Come on Kendra can’t people have a opinion even if you don’t agree with people if that’s what she feels. Most of the thing this female say it’s true. She isn’t lying
Agreed
I agree! I think Kendra wasn’t feeling well and didn’t have a lot of patience this night!
This comment right here shows why so many people are toxic. Kendra was 100% right. She saying everyone is looking like piss and She got her own piss ass life with 2 kids from 2 baby daddies. If you live in a glass house, don't throw rocks. It's like if a person made fun of someone's shoes but they got the same shoes on. The show is to find a date not to talk about how shitty other people are. Some of yall energy is off
@@Tyrantoftheworld bro I don’t agree with her 100% but sum of the things she said it’s true. She isn’t perfect but every one need to heal when they enter a relationship
@@Shaqreacts If I punch some random girl in the face and say "we need to stop violence" would you say "yea this dude punching a random girl in the face is right?" NO! She's saying the right things but she is CLEARLY not healed. No you should not agree with her at all
I love how she stood her ground!!
Kendra didn’t like her because she was coming for Kendra bag!!!! The girl was saying go to therapy not Kendra show which brings Kendra MONEY 💰 YEA I READ right through miss Kendra 😮😮
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Girlll how many comments are u gonna copy and paste this same comment on? She couldn't come for Kendra "Bag" if she wanted to 😂
She is well spoken and just knows what she wants. I don’t think she Was disrespectful in anyway, just direct. I understood exactly what she was projecting. Maybe you just didn’t like her personality, but she was very upfront and I don’t see anything wrong with what she said. Need more people to know what they want and the world would be a better place. I Wish her well and Hope she finds the kind of love she desires from one sister to the next. God bless
Kendra was wrong period.
She literally said hurtness yet you think this woman is well spoken lol. Hope all you want but there is a deeper reason why she didn't answer the question about not being with either father. I wouldn't wish this headache onto any man doing well for himself.
@@angellicbeautyproducts9479 period! Yep
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NOBODY who's in therapy needs to be on a show like this looking for ❤️
Wow!!! great point!!!
I DON'T LIKE THIS SHOW, I Don't Even LIKE KENDRA G SHE IS RUDE TO THIS YOUNG LADY, I'm DONE WATCHING
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All she said was she wants some one healed... That's all.
This girl actually makes sense! I love how she stood her ground.
That’s it. People mad oh well get a therapist lol 😂 people don’t want you to call a spade a spade.
Just what I was thinking....she just stood her ground calmly inspired of Kendras tantrums....she was not intimidated
Yes ma'am, Exactly!! (We're rare. Most are slow n go with the crowd.)
@@philamaphanga7502 right! Kendra was wrong.
Exactly! the caller didn't say anything wrong! I don't get why Kendra is snapping at her like this
I believe Kendra dislikes the fact that this young lady told the truth about the guests she has on her show. She keeps talking about Law of Attraction but look at the quality of the people she has on her show.
Do they call in or does she go seeking them out to be on her show?
@@BOOGIESOBSERVATIONS does it matter?
@@myabea7553 yes it does matter she really don't know if some of these ppl hurt or unleal, in reality if this was ur show do know that many of these guys would have issued in there life n why we acting like ppl is perfect because we not....
@@myabea7553 it matters a lot genius.
@@BOOGIESOBSERVATIONS no. It doesn’t matter, she literally said herself you attract what you are. The law doesn’t stop applying just because it’s the other way around. She is literally ATTRACTING broken people.
DAMN... KENDRA YOU ARE EXTREMELY HARD ON THIS WOMAN.
She expressed her feelings and points of view respectfully! Kendra knew she's not the type to be disrespectful so she ran with it.
Yep!
I think the guest was right when she said we are not who we attract, we are who we say yes to and accept into our lives. We cannot control what any given person finds attractive.
We attract what we are or the energy we put out plus who we decide to give our attention too as well.
I agree with you. Some people are attracted and they competent misread people. However, they like you. I think I agree with the first to. Who you're with is a representation of you. You really are who you say yes to.
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Both things can be true, but what you put out into the world is definitely what you get in return. What humble and kind dude wants to deal with that negative energy?
Agreed!!!
One week, month, year of therapy doesn’t mean you’re healed. Her adamant mentally of judging other people shows she still has healing to do.
Exactly, projecting like a mofo
I thought the same thing too.
I was thinking same.
I’m so tired of people throwing around these social media buzzwords and don’t know what they’re talking about.
I would like to know how asking for someone who is healed is judge mental? I’m so confused at these comments. Should she be asking for someone who is abusive because she has two kids? WTH
Yikes! I understood what Mia means. A lot of people do come on this show with unresolved trauma, and straight up foolish situations like just having an infant, or still being married...
She didn't lie
@@NyaSekhmet Yep I didnt think she did anything wrong. Most of the people on the show seem to be playing games
@@BlaydeAlabama She sure didn't.
So why did she keep coming back? Clearly she’s the problem you females come up with any excuse to save y’all fellow women bullshit.
I feel wat she sayn kendra b goin over board sometimes
She went after her because she's a healed person. Kendra was like "fuck no! You can't be in here all healed and shit! " Kendra really looking like an unhealed person!
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Y'all some real life idiots 😂
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Yeah that is what it’s given
Imagine a single mother with 2 kids with 2 different men who had a baby in high school telling other they need to heal
Audacity at record high levels.
literally
This woman is cray cray
She’s a dusty clown
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Kendra is clearly a hurting person who was shown up by this guest. This is so sad. I love that- you’re not who you attract, you’re who you accept into your life. Love this!
You sound dumb.
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This guest is as delusional and diluted as you 😂
Right.
I agree. The nicest people attract bad , narcissistic people but they don’t have to accept them.
Mia is the type of person that uses the term "toxic relationship" about her relationships but acts like she wasn't a willing and consenting participant
Facts. She's a nonsense person.
Living in glass house, throwing all of the stones!
How Sway?!
That doesn't make sense. What toxic behavior did she display about her relationships? Moses is a perfect example of a person who had flaws, and yet he was chosen by God to judge and lead a whole nation.
She's chaos
Better yet she was the toxic one
......or the source of the toxicity
Her composure was fantastic
Kendra was a Volcano right here. She blew all the way Up.
Full eruption lol
I hope Kendra isn't over-working herself. Between these interviews, training for Marathon & whatever else is going on in her life.
@ Antonio Tula: and she drinks Red Bulls.
No, she knows her limits. She's going to be fit and healthy.
@@krisfirstofhername.8444 dumb response
Nobody tells her to do all of that.
@@helloify498 I hate those, they nasty and too much caffeine. Had me feeling like I was about to die.
Kendra got in her feeling because that lady called out SOME of the candidates in her show and Kendra already stated she was under weather and tired.
People that take one session of therapy think they're so virtuous and haven't started to tackle their brokenness. Bless you Kendra.
I said the exact same thing! One session and she feels above everybody
I said the exact same thing! One session and she feels above everybody
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That’s not true for us that know we have deep issues. I have been in therapy since I was maybe 8 years old. I’m still in therapy on and off at 40 years old. I am a constant work in progress ALL THE TIME!!
Unfortunately, broken NEVER ends once you become broken, especially if that brokenness came at a young age.
Just like a drug addict or alcoholic, I must constantly work to be a “normal” and good person.
For real...omg. This is ridiculous.
So basically kendra want her to accept a hurt angry man just because she a single mother of 2!
No. She wanted her to accepted that SHE is a hurt angry woman. The mother of 2 part only makes it worse. Men don't see life as PacMan the way some women do. The point she was trying to make about the kid is that men will see her giving up on that relationship as a red flag. How you "grow apart" from someone in 2 years? That's bs. He probably told her No and she thinks she's going to just move to the next one, with no accountability for MAKING A WHOLE HUMAN LIFE with a mf you couldn't get along with. This is how men see it. Other (single) women will encourage her as if she gets unlimited tries.
I've yet to see someone exclaim they want to date someone who's "healed", that didn't have major mental health issues themselves.
That doesnt even occur to people without major issues
Idk cause for me, I’m a really happy person who likes to see the best in everything. I don’t want nobody who’s vibrating low in relationship with me. I’m past that point, it was dangerous.
@@chanelagaintv Same. I shy away from broken men. It is very dangerous dealing with emotionally unhealthy people period. Also she is correct, sweet and kind will get you walked all over, firm and upfront is the way to go. The book *Why men love b1tches?* woke me up to face reality.
@@chanelagaintv Same. I do therapy and prescribe psychiatric medication. I can’t fathom having an additional patient to go home to at this stage in my life.
the people thta scream healed be some of the most unhealed people..she a red flag
Kendra was the aggressive one in this interview. Mia was being sincere.
Ain’t nobody got time for that lol
I agree. She was MAD aggressive. 😂😂 but they both had very valid points the energy was just imbalanced.
I totally agree with you maybe Kendra was tired but there was still no excuse for her being so aggressive she didn't even take the time to listen
Naw. This lady was thinking way too highly of herself. She’s 30 with 2 kids and 2 DIFFERENT baby daddies. She’s never been married. This is the type of woman that my grandma would call “a hussy”.
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This girl is not angry. Kendra misunderstood her and came off wrong. This girl is speaking FACT..
Thanks! Kendra honestly you are “becoming” The female version of Kevin and WE APPRECIATE THAT! You’re beautiful (still a bit impulsive, but women are women) and we see that you’re opening to accept what you see. We love our women but our women are losing. Yes men need work, that’s not new… but women have hidden behind that to appear as victims… we aren’t trying to shame them but simply say that’s Black men resurrect we have to see EVERYTHING around us that’s a challenge. Love to be a guest and your work is great. Don’t get sucked in by the negative energy, you are gifted!
Naw Kendra, you were doing too much. Kendra constantly tells people they need therapy and heal before dating. She said the same thing you normally say.
A woman with 2 kids is not tainting the dating pool, especially if she gets with a man who also has kids.
Kendra did not have a problem with her or her therapy. She said it multiple times, she had a problem when this woman went at past guests negatively. That's what set Kendra off. If you talk about past guests negatively and you're not perfect, then she's coming for you like the boogie man!
@@DarkReapersGrim1 she gave me "let me tell you why I'm not like those people" vibes
@@stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981 100%!
Hmm, after getting therapy, she became a therapist lol.
usually how that goes lol
Kenda you did way too much! If you are tired not feeling well give yourself some time. Not doing it anyway with a short temper while being insulting..... The energy you came on with is what YOU got back! Take a break next time.
Finally!!
My feelings too the young woman had a point.
I agree
she can do wdf she want
I agree. Snapping on that girl for no reason
Wishing Mia best! It's her divine human-right to have the life she deserves.
Kendra you definitely owe her an apology
Kendra didn’t like her because she was coming for Kendra bag!!!! The girl was saying go to therapy not Kendra show which brings Kendra MONEY 💰 YEA I READ right through miss Kendra 😮😮
Indeed. She wasn't feeling well and went for the jugular, immediately!
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@@meditationmindbodysoulmusi1195What? Kendra show is for dating not therapy. And she did nothing to go at her “bag”.
BIG TIME!! and Miah is right! too many hurt people hurt people and they making the dating pool bad! period!
At this point, “co-parent” is code for “broken home” ppl put a cute little label on it to evade these irresponsible decisions of these backward families.
This lady literally didn’t say anything wrong. Even when she said you attract all types of ppl, it’s who you CHOSE is what matters, which is TRUE. She kept an up beat attitude even after Kendra dragged her. BUT her resume is NOT anything pristine. Literally everything Kendra said was 1,000% right, she held her 100% accountable. But I think since Kendra is tired & sick, she seemed more impatient lol
Lmao the code words are amazing.
Very well put
@Square Peg Still backwards. "First comes love, then comes marriage, THEN comes the baby in a baby carriage." They taught us the proper way since kindergarten yet we still screw it up.
Very well put. I’m half way through the video. So far I feel like Kendra was the one that kind of attacked her. She wanted to defend all the people that came on her show. Which I think is fair for her to do but if we’re being honest. Kendra has made tons of faces and said tons of things about those same people. I don’t necessarily see either as being right or wrong. More so a difference of opinion. Also Kendra should have ignored the comment about people being broken and just continued. We live and learn. Nothing to see here.
Never say “broken home” around your kids.
“You are not what you attract; you’re what you say yes to”… that actually makes a lot of sense. Especially for magnetic people who are likely to attract all types of individuals. It really comes down to discernment.
Kendra was unnecessarily antagonistic towards the young lady. And the guest was combative. Not a shining moment for either of them.
You gotta be kidding me. She is on the show because she isn’t attracting anyone that she wants to say YES to! She is attracting a bunch of N-Os
True. She was dragging it a bit. Not feeling well is no reason to snap that quickly. She could’ve calmly corrected her and kept it pushing
You are what you attract!
@@godsangel67able being in the city you can attract everyone still doesn't mean you entertain everyone. If what you say is the case we will have mostly one mind trackers and tribes.
Disagree. The guest openly criticized other guests on this show. That she shouldn’t even be worried about in the first place. This show is about her receiving help to find someone. And that’s bad for reviews and will only go downhill for her show. She checked her for it and the other people that thinks she’s dragging it.
Kendra was already mad before the guest started speaking
She wants a man to be everything she isn't and take all her mess. She's looking for a doormat babysitter. I think she likes to hear herself speak and loves to argue without listening to anyone else and she speaks over people. She is too much.
Wow, this was disturbing on so many levels, you were combative from start to finish. You attacked a person in the comments. I get that its your show and you have the right to remove people that violate the guidelines that you set but to act like you are doing this show out of the kindness of your heart that you are not benefiting in someways is a little insulting. And to say to a person that their life is so empty that they are sitting watching your show is cruel. Congratulation, you are fortunate to have a National platform but it because people like the one that you were so disrespectful to that you are afforded these opportunities. Does that mean you have to be insulted? No, but it doesn’t give you license to disparage someone either.
I enjoy your show and I find you to be entertaining and insightful, so I was little taken aback with your respond. I think the young lady was a little immature and is still growing and if we are honest we have all generalized and made comments about people that were not deserved. But you are the host and that requires you to go above, it your job to correct and encourage better dialogue. We have too much of this type of interaction already and one of the things that I enjoyed about you was that you found a way to correct a person in love maybe this was one off. Anyway, I hope you feel better and take care of yourself. Peace
Exactly sir well stated!
This is the person that tried to grab attention by trying to “rescue” some girls from R Kelly’s house. It was completely stupid and attention seeking. Then she abandoned the mission and we never heard anything else about it. Dumb.
My thoughts exactly. Well said
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I think Kendra missed her point. People truly do come on the show to vent their problems about the opposite gender. They are trying to feel a void. I don't think she was saying she is perfect just saying people need to heal or attempt to heal before they date. People go on the show to talk mess period.
Yeah, does the people Kendra are attracting on her show say alot about her? I've watched other dating shows and they don't have these problems and the hosts don't respond like this either. It's part of the ratchet tv movement...it's PRIMARILY for entertainment.
Exactly I agree with the girl…
I agree! I think Kendra missed this one. I understood what she was saying.
Kendra needed to be healed from her bad energy. 😂