Part 2: 1st time I hung up on her. I thought she was lying. She called back to confirm the truth

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  • @Kyronetta
    @Kyronetta 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2358

    In the most respectful way possible… she needs therapy more than another man. This is really sad.

    • @sheambitious29lachelle17
      @sheambitious29lachelle17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      agreed i wish her well i really do

    • @eon001
      @eon001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Kyronetta
      Some women just need to stay single and focus on there kids. Get her sons and daughters in sports so they at least have some masculine mentor in their life.

    • @sonshinesodetermined9689
      @sonshinesodetermined9689 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      This is beyond SAD 😔..

    • @stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981
      @stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      8 out of wedlock bastards smh

    • @iheardmyhappinessgotyoumad3571
      @iheardmyhappinessgotyoumad3571 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I totally agree with your comment. This is not healthy.

  • @candycrusher2024
    @candycrusher2024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1944

    7 kids at 26. Four baby daddies. First child at 15. Currently pregnant. Why is she looking for a new man while pregnant. 🤔

    • @phoenixrising5062
      @phoenixrising5062 2 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      That part!!

    • @asha1762
      @asha1762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +160

      She is looking for the 9th baby's dad

    • @candycrusher2024
      @candycrusher2024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +208

      @@phoenixrising5062 8 kids and want to be celibate until marriage 🤔

    • @Risha-rend
      @Risha-rend 2 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      It’s possible. Her story sounds like my grandmother 🤷🏿‍♀️ not encouraging this lifestyle but since she can’t turn back the hand of time, there is a happy ending to her story ❤️

    • @ThatAlleyCatsBack
      @ThatAlleyCatsBack 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Everyone needs love and affection

  • @stillanastasia5623
    @stillanastasia5623 2 ปีที่แล้ว +499

    When she said "Get a paper and a pen and draw this man because that's the only way you are going to get him." Omg, 🤣🤣🤣 I died.

    • @wealthandlegacy
      @wealthandlegacy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Hilarious!!! 😂😂😂

    • @Enigmajestic1
      @Enigmajestic1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wrong comment my bad 🤣🤣🤣

    • @antoniotula262
      @antoniotula262 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lol, she said she gives it up too fast?!!!.... I'm cryin laffin

    • @stillanastasia5623
      @stillanastasia5623 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@antoniotula262 She could've figured that out like 6 kids ago.

    • @Enigmajestic1
      @Enigmajestic1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@antoniotula262 🤣

  • @glamgotti1963
    @glamgotti1963 ปีที่แล้ว +297

    She actually seems like a good person. The rape may have left some emotional trauma. Which may have caused her sexual issues. You can tell she’s loving by her interaction with her children. I pray she gets some therapy and lives the life she desires.

  • @slimwalk708
    @slimwalk708 2 ปีที่แล้ว +543

    7 kids at age 26 with one on the way...This lady should be extremely careful of dangerous predators around those kids.

    • @chilout2496
      @chilout2496 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Don’t blame the predators blame her

    • @Sam-zr3ly
      @Sam-zr3ly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      What sane man will go near that?

    • @candycrusher2024
      @candycrusher2024 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree

    • @chilout2496
      @chilout2496 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Sam-zr3ly some corny ass dude

    • @alyu9337
      @alyu9337 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Any simp that goes near any women like this needs to be jailed

  • @shaunie3450
    @shaunie3450 2 ปีที่แล้ว +645

    I hate it when these guests say they were young and dumb, but still engaging in the same behavior they claimed as being dumb. Smh make it make sense 😒

    • @meloran2571
      @meloran2571 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      as long as there are women excusing her behavior and saying dont judge, more will follow

    • @1991Meka
      @1991Meka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Exactly! "I was dumb at 15." But then they go and have 3 more kids back²back at 16&17&18.

    • @andreamalone5889
      @andreamalone5889 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      OMG, while I was reading your comment, that's what she said! " Young and dumb ".🤭

    • @StevoH1982
      @StevoH1982 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I was young and dumb up until 6 months ago

    • @marriejames01
      @marriejames01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      That only works for the first and MAYBE the second child.

  • @kmiller6587
    @kmiller6587 2 ปีที่แล้ว +816

    She said she spent 5 years dating a guy who said they weren't "in a relationship". I cringe when I hear people caught in that trap. For anyone who cares to read this - if someone is telling you "you aren't together", but demands your attention and loyalty as if you are, watch yourself. People often say that so they can keep you available for their needs, without being accountable for meeting yours. Be cautious about giving your love, time, efforts, etc to something that you can't even define.

    • @melissahendrick2243
      @melissahendrick2243 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Men will sleep with anyone

    • @blacksource2101
      @blacksource2101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      She knew damn well that relationship was strictly about sex. She said she was being promiscuous, which is to no one's surprise based on how many kids she got so everyone in her neighborhood probably ran through it and that 1 dude just happened to stick around

    • @kmiller6587
      @kmiller6587 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@blacksource2101 she mentioned vacations and everything, so I don't know if that was her understanding of their relationship. I don't doubt that's what it was to him.
      I've seen plenty of women and men alike create a lot of children and still find relationships consistently though. I lot of people date to create a family and do too much too soon. I don't think her issue is promiscuity (although that's the word she used). She sounds like she desires a relationship so strongly that she lacks boundaries and doesn't use discretion. I hope she took Kendra's offer for therapy, because she seems like a sweet girl who needs to learn how to find peace within herself more than anything else.

    • @blacksource2101
      @blacksource2101 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kmiller6587 Alot of promiscuous women feel that way about relationships after they hit the wall already. They feel as though sex will keep any man around that's why she's on here looking for another sugar daddy because he didn't want anything from her. She most likely gave him sex in exchange for helping her and her kids so if she couldn't keep her legs closed with a man who didn't even want it then she doesn't stand a chance with men who actually do want it.😅 She basically explained she wants another sugar daddy while she practice abstinence, which made Kendra suggest she'd draw the man she wants because men on the market will look at her crazy because she has loose legs and 7 kids with 1 on the way. Only a sugar daddy will be ok with what she wants so I do think her boundary is promiscuity and that's gonna be her demon in this dating pool regardless if she's a good person or not. She just might be a good person too but her situation is not a good look for the next man in regards of dating

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Being in that position is disrespectful to yourself...

  • @noseyandneutral
    @noseyandneutral ปีที่แล้ว +73

    “That’s only 6 I’m missing somebody” LMFAOOOOOOOO I WOULDVE HUNG UP TOOOO😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @TheCreoleSon89
      @TheCreoleSon89 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I can’t even keep up with my siblings ages so I understand honestly.

  • @Monica-70
    @Monica-70 2 ปีที่แล้ว +613

    My grandfather took in 8 kids with my grandmother and they were married for 35 years until he passed. There is always hope.

    • @smack8531
      @smack8531 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Very true! There's someone for everyone.

    • @Seeingisntbelieving
      @Seeingisntbelieving 2 ปีที่แล้ว +133

      Girl😂😂😂😂that’s looking for a needle in a mountain high hay stack. Hope my azz😂😂😂😂!

    • @deljohnson4226
      @deljohnson4226 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And I could win the Powerball tomorrow, hey I could also sleep with Beyonce tomorrow cause you know, there's always hope. Stay in the real world please.

    • @reewritten7
      @reewritten7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @Monica God bless your grandfather. God knew what your grandmother and her 8 children needed. Way maker!

    • @stebossm3195
      @stebossm3195 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      By 5 different guys ? 👀

  • @larandle
    @larandle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +496

    She makes me sad. The lack of self love and respect she has for herself is enormous

    • @kingdreblackpanthafammily5755
      @kingdreblackpanthafammily5755 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Shes human, god can fix anyone

    • @lovelocked5385
      @lovelocked5385 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kingdreblackpanthafammily5755 God gives us free will. She needs to turn from following her private parts. Booty go pop, twerk twerk, stop the madness

    • @Asneeded
      @Asneeded 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It is sad isn’t it!

    • @ronj7658
      @ronj7658 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Nothing to do with self love, has a lot to do with lack of discipline and morals because she wasn't taught how important these qualities are.

    • @SiNCERELYTAYY1
      @SiNCERELYTAYY1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@kingdreblackpanthafammily5755 God can't fix you if you don't help yourself as well

  • @cpatch-nh5cs
    @cpatch-nh5cs ปีที่แล้ว +178

    She never had a chance. Generational trauma, and now she's passing it on to her own babies. God help and uplift that whole family.

    • @sweetdaddyrick1826
      @sweetdaddyrick1826 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Nope SHE MADE THIS CHOICE SHE KNEW BETTER

    • @xo1762
      @xo1762 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Shut up ​@@sweetdaddyrick1826

    • @anthonysanders7407
      @anthonysanders7407 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Jesus, i pray you protect her kids as well as her life.

  • @LoveAlways1002
    @LoveAlways1002 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I laughed so hard at her being celibate until marriage, I'm sorry 🤣🗣😭🤣🗣😭 I kept a straight face until she said that!!! I burst our laughing!!!!

  • @cliquesnvues
    @cliquesnvues 2 ปีที่แล้ว +805

    Thank You Kendra....for pointing her to a therapist. She really needs it.

    • @djTorchLive
      @djTorchLive 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She might need 2 Therapists

    • @briangumbel2600
      @briangumbel2600 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @jubernardi23
      @jubernardi23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      She needs to go for a long time and forget about man...

    • @ppen62
      @ppen62 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      That woman ain’t gonna call therapist. She’s looking for someone to fill in the gaps in her life financially!

    • @ejay2075
      @ejay2075 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Naw she needs to stop making dumb azz decisions

  • @cliquesnvues
    @cliquesnvues 2 ปีที่แล้ว +383

    SHE DOESN'T NEED A MAN...SHE NEEDS A LIFE COACH. This is screaming help!!!

    • @shannan4580
      @shannan4580 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes! She sure does

    • @simeonhibbert7462
      @simeonhibbert7462 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And that is the sad part , because she seems like a nice person the only problem is she is crazy AF😂

    • @angelamurray2826
      @angelamurray2826 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      A life coach 4 babies ago😐

    • @jubernardi23
      @jubernardi23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Better a therapist, life coach will not help her because if for people that is already health in their minds.

    • @shawnhill8404
      @shawnhill8404 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely….with a lifetime of Birth control !!!!

  • @TerryOnDemand
    @TerryOnDemand 2 ปีที่แล้ว +407

    She actually has a sweet spirit. She is the first Ive heard to say she does NOT care about income because she's willing to build with the man that she's with. My heart goes out to her. It's my hopes she gets therapy BEFORE looking for a man.

    • @Adorah_the_Explorer
      @Adorah_the_Explorer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      My heart goes out to her as well. The women I do know of who have many many children at a young age were taken advantage of at a very very young age. My entire soul hurts for this young lady.

    • @hereforit2347
      @hereforit2347 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right. How “sweet” of her to post a video on TikTok about how ugly her baby is. ☹️

    • @worldpeace0266
      @worldpeace0266 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Love your comment! I too wish her well! 💖💖

    • @13unnyjpg
      @13unnyjpg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      She really doesn’t have a choice tbh. What man in their right mind would sign up for a woman with 8 kids by 5 men and one of the fathers is a mystery? That’s sad smh she don’t need a man she needs a therapist

    • @hereforit2347
      @hereforit2347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@13unnyjpg: If she gets some help and therapy the sky is the limit for her. The possibilities are endless and none of us can say “she really doesn’t have a choice”. We all have options. She’s made some very bad choices for sure. But it ain’t over ‘til it’s over. ❤️

  • @icsharpk
    @icsharpk ปีที่แล้ว +29

    “We don’t divide, we multiply! We Bébé’s kids!” You handled this well ♥️

  • @rockmyworldmusic
    @rockmyworldmusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +678

    "Don't judge me?!?!"
    Sis, EVERYONE should be judging your SITUATION and learning from the poor choices.

    • @kevinlee9929
      @kevinlee9929 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      People want it to be a crime to judge women. SMH

    • @Mounthimkitty
      @Mounthimkitty 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Learning from her mistakes yes... but only God can judge!! No one is perfect and she has clearly been thru some things.

    • @BEEFjrMUSIC
      @BEEFjrMUSIC 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      @@Mounthimkitty God also told us to "judge a tree by its fruit"

    • @FaithandNova
      @FaithandNova 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@Mounthimkitty God has the final judgement but He definitely allows us to judge. He said we are not to judge by appearance but to judge righteously.

    • @redrose_lubabrasi5125
      @redrose_lubabrasi5125 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I said the same shitttttttttttttttttttt

  • @honeysmile320
    @honeysmile320 2 ปีที่แล้ว +355

    "I can't be pregnant looking for a man"...."Its not my fault" No accountability for the men she chooses and refused to take birth control. No excuses. She going to run into the SAME type of dudes she's trying to avoid.Why is she looking for a man while carrying another man's baby and she doesn't even know who the father is? Makes no sense. She needs therapy. No respectable man will sign up for this. That's the truth.

    • @auntieshugah9330
      @auntieshugah9330 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Thank you for saying this! She does not take accountability for her actions.

    • @honeysmile320
      @honeysmile320 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@auntieshugah9330 Thank you. I don't wish her any ill will but she needs to focus on being a mother and get some therapy asap.

    • @Jaleel88
      @Jaleel88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Right ✅️

    • @GoldenGraham25
      @GoldenGraham25 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Kendra should have expressed this to her - or held her more accountable for being in this situation. She didn’t have to get pregnant at all but she did 8 times smh.

    • @marjorieregina6029
      @marjorieregina6029 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Where’s the sexual assault baby?

  • @rantanyasmith2433
    @rantanyasmith2433 2 ปีที่แล้ว +963

    "My rent was $7 and he couldn't help with that..." this is beyond depressing and sad. Makes me want to cry (not for her) but it's so shameful! She is unhinged! She's literally looking for anyone that will take care of her and is willing to put these kids in danger to find her "so-called" happiness. Sometimes you have to grow to love yourself and be single for a while smh

    • @nisuperman
      @nisuperman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Is it possible to have $7 rent?

    • @cuzzitsmee
      @cuzzitsmee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Ain’t no way she was making 19.00 and her rent was 7 dollars they don’t even have it that low

    • @rantanyasmith2433
      @rantanyasmith2433 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@cuzzitsmee yeah she's a full lie! She is doing all those a "side" jobs and not reporting that income. You can't do that either and she's sitting here telling on herself! If she has seven incomes, she can afford to pay full market rent. Also, they do not allow you to have other people living in your home that is not on the lease. She's in violation on so many levels lol

    • @rantanyasmith2433
      @rantanyasmith2433 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@nisuperman on section 8 it is. It also depends on how much the rental rate is and how many children (or tenants) you have living in the home. I know people here in Texas that were living in 5 bedroom homes with $2,000 monthly rent paying nothing because of their low income and ratio of children. They get a rental subsidy and even a utility reimbursement that goes towards the electric, water and gas is applicable. It's crazy smh

    • @rantanyasmith2433
      @rantanyasmith2433 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @Mrs. Accountability trifling as hell. That's $96/year. That's how you can tell she's lying about having all these side gigs. She should be careful and hope no one in Dallas County reports her. Don't go into social forums telling that much of your business 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @ivediiche
    @ivediiche 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Kendra, you are a beautiful soul for offering our sister a paid therapy session. I hope our sister gets the healing she needs.

  • @Tatiana.vs.Italia
    @Tatiana.vs.Italia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    $7 for rent that’s basically free!!! You could have paid the whole year up front…..

    • @silkence9561
      @silkence9561 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Literally the first 20 yrs up front then sublease it out 😂 make it a whole business atp

    • @awesomehi831
      @awesomehi831 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@silkence9561 Subleasing section 8 will get you kicked out quick

    • @silkence9561
      @silkence9561 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@awesomehi831 I know, ppl do worse for no profit. Might as well

    • @chocolatema1445
      @chocolatema1445 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      First i am hearing 7$section 8 i live in canada i never heard and i kn alot of ppl on welfare here

    • @awesomehi831
      @awesomehi831 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@chocolatema1445 I'm sure the Canadians on welfare have a similar rent subsidy program

  • @dee7dee
    @dee7dee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    Her parents failed her! Her mother sent her way when she got pregnant at 15 instead of teaching her the importance of loving herself first. Focus on your children. She was looking for love in the wrong places sounds like childhood trauma. Perhaps abandonment issues.

    • @logicalcritik2144
      @logicalcritik2144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She seem to want to be saturated with kids; who lives like this 🤔

    • @mashenka6189
      @mashenka6189 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Let me guess…absent father? When you say her parents…do you honestly think that she is a product of a 2 parent family?

    • @dee7dee
      @dee7dee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@mashenka6189 This child has two parents and they are both at fault for her childhood trauma. Maybe she is looking for love because her father was never around. If her father was around maybe he could have explained to her there is more to life than having children. Maybe he could have explained to her the effects of having sex at a young age. You don't need to be in a 2 parent home to have a relationship with your child. if she is promiscuous at 15 that is the job of both parents to find out why.

    • @TheBlvck1
      @TheBlvck1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@mashenka6189 does it not take two parents to make a child?? This is the problem now, all of the responsibility & shame is put on the woman.

    • @msch3891
      @msch3891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@TheBlvck1 Exactly! Fathers can abandon their children and the mother gets blamed for everything that goes wrong.

  • @BleuReign13
    @BleuReign13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +292

    She needs counseling, a stable job, and looking for additional sources of income...NOT looking for a man. Those babies need to be protected and supported. She's had enough men...and until she learns how to make better decisions she doesn't need ANYmore..

    • @Maxrepfitgm
      @Maxrepfitgm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      She is looking for additional sources of income/a man because that's what we're viewed as, an additional source of income.

    • @BleuReign13
      @BleuReign13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Maxrepfitgm that's when u know ur dating the wrong ones

    • @Ms.AnnDrist
      @Ms.AnnDrist 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Maxrepfitgm well at least you know what it is

    • @chelsea606
      @chelsea606 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She has a stable job

    • @lovelocked5385
      @lovelocked5385 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@chelsea606 having babies?

  • @nolabae
    @nolabae ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Imagine everything she could have done in her 20s.. instead she's creating fatherless humans and still hasn't seemed to slow down. Accountability is everything.

    • @pattiamoh1136
      @pattiamoh1136 ปีที่แล้ว

      Women marry men with numerous baby mothers not fair

    • @nolabae
      @nolabae ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@pattiamoh1136.. that makes it right?..
      Also majority of fathers don't have their children in the home so it's not noticeable nor extra costs. Mothers typically have the children full time, big difference in living arrangement.

  • @pwalker9757
    @pwalker9757 2 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    She had a "sugar daddy" at 16. That was the 1st problem. SMH

    • @badhombre8585
      @badhombre8585 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sounds like a guy who was concerned about her. They never had sex. She is confusing sugar daddy with someone who gave a damn

    • @badhombre8585
      @badhombre8585 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sounds like a guy who was concerned about her. They never had sex. She is confusing sugar daddy with someone who gave a damn

    • @Thetrueview409
      @Thetrueview409 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Exactly!!!! No guidance from her parents…

    • @lovefelix1566
      @lovefelix1566 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Man was a pedophile... She was preyed upon...

  • @JackOBee29
    @JackOBee29 2 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    "she's 8"
    Daughter "I'm NINE" 🤣🤣🤣

    • @SivvySiv
      @SivvySiv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Lmao such a kid!

    • @neenaspeakstruth
      @neenaspeakstruth 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      She done lost count 🥴😅

  • @ejay2075
    @ejay2075 2 ปีที่แล้ว +446

    This is what happens when you remove shame. This is a disgrace.

    • @stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981
      @stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      And a lot of the black chicks in the comments are defending this crap

    • @calikeisha365
      @calikeisha365 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Shame won’t help her…self awareness, self love and self esteem and heavy therapy will. Shame is low vibrational and useless.

    • @stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981
      @stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@calikeisha365 shame is not useless I'm tired of bw with this "love" and "vibrational" stuff and these black chicks keep having multiple children by different dudes... It needs to stop we need to put legislation in place on how many kids u can have like china does and we need to take away gov assistance.... It's rediculous

    • @electriclioness4607naga
      @electriclioness4607naga 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@calikeisha365 I Agree

    • @hippityhoppitus
      @hippityhoppitus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      @@calikeisha365 Shame will deter others from repeating her mistakes
      Shame, scrutiny, public judgement all serve their purposes

  • @ThaFonzz
    @ThaFonzz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    She doesn't seem like a bad person. She just has a ton of kids and I honestly don't know who can handle all that noise lol

    • @Youtubesucks2022
      @Youtubesucks2022 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      A man who wants children but he can't have any

    • @God-Love-Freedom
      @God-Love-Freedom ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Trying to be funny making fun of her son's looks at the expense of said son. Putting him out there to social media for jokes and likes. Nope. Not buying it.

    • @tsohobiah
      @tsohobiah ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's too much financial emotional and physical burden to take on.

    • @fisephalnoxt
      @fisephalnoxt 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She is a bad person, she is selfish, she doesnt care about thise kids...Do you know how difficult it is for a kid to have siblings with different dad, such a chaotic houselhold

    • @rocheanspencer9979
      @rocheanspencer9979 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Who signing up for eight kids
      Amd she pregnant now

  • @naturallysweetsandra6804
    @naturallysweetsandra6804 2 ปีที่แล้ว +227

    Sending her and her children lo live and light.I love her honesty, her enthusiasm about cleaning, cooking and her desire to be found. May the Lord protect them from predators who prey on women in her situation. She seems like a genuinely good human being with flaws like all of us. I have a feeling she will make a loving and supportive wife. I think she uses humor when she gets nervous. Prayerfully she gets some family and individual therapy. She also seems like a hustler so don’t be surprised if she becomes very wealthy and is found by the supportive husband that she is manifesting. We don’t know how merciful God is so let’s keep her family lifted up in prayer🙏🏾

    • @chowbay-la4248
      @chowbay-la4248 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I agree with this.

    • @andreaellison7111
      @andreaellison7111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🙏

    • @sonnylol2222
      @sonnylol2222 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly! People throw stones at women with circumstances such as hers but people don’t realize that life is NOT PERFECT!!! Every species of animal has outliers whether it’s physical (disabilities) or within their lifestyle.
      Why can’t society and the people judging a stranger throw their stones at things that are ACTUALLY harmful to our humanity such as pedophilia, classism, human trafficking, the Earth’s environment and our atmosphere deteriorating, obesity, the lost goes on…but these people think that not being married by 30 is just the worst crime to commit 🤣😢

    • @queenmidasdaruler516
      @queenmidasdaruler516 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      This part and atleast all them babies is cared for and taken care of they look healthy and happy

    • @theLoanStar
      @theLoanStar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Beautifully said! 😇 but God🙏

  • @meechellea
    @meechellea 2 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    I really like the additional videos added for reference of the topic being discussed. I don’t have to go searching the internet trying to find them.

    • @andreamalone5889
      @andreamalone5889 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      IKR??

    • @cam4short
      @cam4short 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Likewise. One of my favorite parts about this channel. Plugged right into the current video 🎯

    • @_belleza
      @_belleza 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I believe TH-camrs who don’t plug in the reference video do it so the original video can gain views.

  • @KeshaL8410
    @KeshaL8410 2 ปีที่แล้ว +373

    She needs to focus on bettering herself and her kids. She does not need to be bringing random men around her children or seeking out men to just sleep with for money. It seems as though she had a traumatic life and that probably plays a part in her decision-making. She might need some therapy as well. Best of luck to her children.

    • @j.daniels1548
      @j.daniels1548 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Keisha, you have to stop making excuses for bad behavior from black women

    • @KeshaL8410
      @KeshaL8410 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@j.daniels1548Where did I make an excuse? The woman said she lived in another state from her mother and had a baby as a child by a man who ended up getting married. She was also a teen in an abusive relationship and was assaulted. Clearly you don't understand the definition of trauma if you can't comprehend what I wrote. Additionally, I started by saying she needs to focus on herself and her kids. Sorry, I won't call her disparaging names and drag her through the mud. I'll leave that up to you and similar men in these comments. Good day sir.

    • @jubernardi23
      @jubernardi23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Not some, she really need a long time with therapist

    • @chilout2496
      @chilout2496 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@j.daniels1548 that’s literally all they do

    • @JDMHaze
      @JDMHaze 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      she NEEDS to be fixed.

  • @tierrashanice6299
    @tierrashanice6299 2 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    My mom and dad had 7 kids, but we all have the same parents. The amount of people shocked that all 7 of us have the same mother and father is crazy.

    • @feeldabeat2wayz673
      @feeldabeat2wayz673 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      right im the oldest of 6 my granny the second of 9 and my father mom had over 12

    • @kimlucas983
      @kimlucas983 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly! It’s 6 of us, we both have the same parents and they are still married… people look at us like they’re shocked🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @gennibee
      @gennibee 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Omg me too! But my parents were married and just had a big family. It wasn’t as unusual when we were growing up, my older siblings were born in the 60s, my little sister and I were born in the early 70s. Bigger families were more common prior to the 80s. I never thought it was strange, there were just a lot of us.

    • @gennibee
      @gennibee 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@feeldabeat2wayz673your mom had “over 12”? Do you not know how many your mom had all together?

    • @claudiaglasgow5744
      @claudiaglasgow5744 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My paternal grandparents had 12 all by the same man and my maternal grandparents had 12 all by the same man.

  • @angelamurray2826
    @angelamurray2826 2 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    She said the father's we're not serious about life. You lay down and let them put life into you though, Make it make sense 🤔

    • @pwalker9757
      @pwalker9757 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      👏👏👏

    • @tai4short
      @tai4short 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      She wasn’t serious about it either…

    • @bluebird5289
      @bluebird5289 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      My thoughts as well!

    • @Mektek19
      @Mektek19 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's insanity.

    • @odog76543
      @odog76543 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great observation. She was seriously projecting her own lack of seriousness, regardless of whatever was going on with the 8 men she allowed to impregnate her.

  • @djdamage75
    @djdamage75 2 ปีที่แล้ว +436

    Her running down her kid’s ages sounds like “AND A PARTRIDGE INNNN A PEAAR TREEEEEEE!!!!”

    • @1sotrue
      @1sotrue 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      😅😅😅

    • @LBtheG
      @LBtheG 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Stoooooop 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @jddouet5192
      @jddouet5192 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂

    • @Seeingisntbelieving
      @Seeingisntbelieving 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sounds like -and a mini van to put them all in😂😂😂😂 thanks to 95 South for the most ratchet version🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @sabrinar.purnell3869
      @sabrinar.purnell3869 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You done kilt me 💀💀💀💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @j.daniels1548
    @j.daniels1548 2 ปีที่แล้ว +262

    8 kids and 5 baby daddies later, “I’ve been giving it up too fast I want to be celibate now”… 💀

    • @simeonhibbert7462
      @simeonhibbert7462 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Divinehammer3000
      @Divinehammer3000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      She sounds goofy

    • @iwillargue
      @iwillargue 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Delusion af 😩😂😭

    • @kevinlee9929
      @kevinlee9929 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      The crazy part is there's many women out here with that mindset SMH

    • @kanamekiyru
      @kanamekiyru 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Man folks gone hate it but this is prime example of what kevin samuels was telling young men to run away from. "You should be giving it away"

  • @doriscooper
    @doriscooper 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I applaud this young woman for realizing that she was giving it up to fast and that she wants to change the behavior. I would also suggest that she receives therapy because she suffers from trauma due to being violated. I would also recommend that she focuses more on her healing and on her children because if not she may pass on what she has gone through to her children. I am going to pray for her and her children.

  • @asha1762
    @asha1762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Forget the 7 kids and 4 baby daddies, How are you pregnant and looking for a NEW man? These men were good enough to have kids with but not being with them???

    • @peacefaith560
      @peacefaith560 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      neither of these men were good enough..she doesnt know her worth

    • @g_slim
      @g_slim 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@peacefaith560, she has no worth outside of birthing children, and even that is a detriment, because she doesn't know how to pick a decent guy.

  • @skyrobin4008
    @skyrobin4008 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Any man signs up for this is a damn fool!

  • @Ash2beauty
    @Ash2beauty 2 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    She doesn’t need a man in this season, she needs self reflection and to grow as her children grow. Best wishes to her. 🙏🏾

    • @Mektek19
      @Mektek19 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She needs a dog and a cat because nobody is signing up for that trash.

    • @ismail8101
      @ismail8101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      a therapist

    • @Ash2beauty
      @Ash2beauty 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ismail8101 not necessarily but definitely prayer and self reflection.

    • @blessedhands799
      @blessedhands799 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And she's definitely going to get a man, he'll move in and play daddy get her pregnant and bounce! Damn my heart goes out to her!

    • @cdious6
      @cdious6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Ash2beauty she needs professional help. You really think she is capable of solving all her problems on her own?

  • @alexpiper1115
    @alexpiper1115 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    This was painful. My heart goes out to her. She doesnt need a man. She needs help for herself.

  • @chelelee4366
    @chelelee4366 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    You got my respect Kendra! One of the few women with respect, a platform, and fame who apologizes. That means a lot to see. Keep flourishing!

  • @geethinks
    @geethinks 2 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    The reality is that many of us have family members that we thought of while watching this - so we understand that amount of trauma (and long standing choices) that affects situations. My biggest wish is that this Sista gets the support, services and opportunities that are appropriate for where she is and desires to go. --- Also, I hope the kids are surrounded and raised by strong, responsible, empathic and compassionate Brothers.

    • @wildsiempre3716
      @wildsiempre3716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      They are not raise by respectful men because any man respectful would drag her behind to court and take the kids that is theirs if they have their own job money and home

    • @wins.8073
      @wins.8073 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Such a compassionate response. 💪🏾

    • @Army_Brat1980
      @Army_Brat1980 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well said Sir.

    • @worldpeace0266
      @worldpeace0266 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very thoughtful! Love it!💖💖

    • @kristengray7563
      @kristengray7563 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I love this reply. I also want to say that she does seem like a loving mom. We tend to judge young women for having a lot of kids, but if she loves them and can care for them who are we. There are so many people who abuse abortion (which society also tends to judge) so it’s like damn if you do, damn if you don’t. At least she lying in the bed she made… I have one kid, and it’s not the easiest job… so I’m always going to compliment a woman who has more and is doing her thing.. she definitely shows a need for some therapeutic support - but she ain’t all the way dumb.

  • @shellythompson3740
    @shellythompson3740 2 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Honey, DO NOT let any man around your children until they are ALL able to talk, or grown and gone. I'm afraid for those babies. Mom was a victim and it seems she perpetually made bad decisions stemming from that trauma. Domestic violence, bums who can't even afford $7 a month, and the list goes on. Goodness! Wondering where her parents/family, someone who could've provided guidance to her are?

    • @6100GG
      @6100GG 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Possibly, she was disowned as a young teen.

  • @ammasown1
    @ammasown1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Her children are highly at risk.
    A man who would be willing to take on all these non-biological children could have ulterior motives.
    Single mothers need to be very careful about having men around their children.

    • @1malikalik
      @1malikalik 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Not true. Plenty of comments here stating how wonderful their step-dad were to them. Additionally, kids raised by 2 parents are better off and fair well in life than the ones raised by single moms.

    • @UnsungGoat
      @UnsungGoat 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How in the world did you manage to turn this into a criticism of men. That's crazy! 🤦🏿‍♂️

  • @reggiesaidit513
    @reggiesaidit513 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    My father married a woman that had 6 kids . And I called all those kids my siblings. At the end of the day, it comes down to how she going to treat her future dude . Because my stepmom appreciated and valued my father.

  • @erica8165
    @erica8165 2 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    What's really sad is that our culture and society has allowed this!

    • @Yobachi2007
      @Yobachi2007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Well she a sexually empowered woman, living her best life, doing what men have always done cause men and women are equal. This is modern women's mantra. She's just actually living out to the fullest; what most other women talk all the time.

    • @traya27
      @traya27 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Your culture not mines

    • @DV-lr8ec
      @DV-lr8ec 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ...and alot of women will co-sign the foolishness

    • @Rocanala
      @Rocanala ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DV-lr8ec the same, equally broken women condone this nonsense. The rest of us claim no parts of this foolishness

    • @sherryhillman9197
      @sherryhillman9197 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What you mean allowed? It’s how you raise your children.

  • @user-gt1kd9rv1w
    @user-gt1kd9rv1w 2 ปีที่แล้ว +239

    Girl you’re not holding your own, the state is supporting you!!! I wish these programs mandated therapy

    • @salishahaynes
      @salishahaynes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😅😅😅😂😂

    • @Yobachi2007
      @Yobachi2007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      They mandate imprisonment or being cut off from receiving further funds for fraud. I wish they'd enforce it. she's admitted to her fraud on this call. If she didn't get supported to do this, she'd actually stop.

    • @user-gt1kd9rv1w
      @user-gt1kd9rv1w 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Yobachi2007 oh wow, exactly!!! I nevererrr hear of anyone getting caught!!

    • @Army_Brat1980
      @Army_Brat1980 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@user-gt1kd9rv1w people get caught all the time!

    • @Dhrjhe
      @Dhrjhe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It always be y’all talking about the state helping a black woman when y’all the mean ones on it 🙄

  • @joynoir6386
    @joynoir6386 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    It look like she handles her business. The kids are clean and happy. I wish her the best.

    • @Winnie9801
      @Winnie9801 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It’s called fraud and is a felony, seems she is doing it at the state and federal level.

  • @saritagooden380
    @saritagooden380 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    “He’s not mature enough.” 😂😂😂

    • @NyhnaLaw
      @NyhnaLaw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      “He don’t take life as serious as I do..”
      Girl …. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Roccofan
    @Roccofan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    This is so shameful.

    • @WrightwayFT
      @WrightwayFT 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@K42023 💯

    • @alyu9337
      @alyu9337 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@K42023 right they are the ones “feeling for her” and “I hope she finds love she deserves” foh

    • @teeteeheartbreak
      @teeteeheartbreak 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@K42023 Bullshyt don’t put all black women in the category of this 🤡 shyt……..

    • @teeteeheartbreak
      @teeteeheartbreak 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Roccofan Facts 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

    • @antoniotula262
      @antoniotula262 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      "Whatever whatever, I do what I want!" 😤😤

  • @PhillyGirlLivefromthe215
    @PhillyGirlLivefromthe215 2 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    I’m going to be praying for Que and her children. I hope my dear Sister gets therapy and practices self care for herself and her children! Healing from past trauma is sooo important for our community! S/o to Kendra for apologizing and suggesting therapy and resources to Que.

    • @IMnotlyeing
      @IMnotlyeing 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She won’t

    • @ebonylocks9234
      @ebonylocks9234 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I will be praying for her with you.

    • @gretacentury7937
      @gretacentury7937 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lord , where is this child's mother?

    • @winning3329
      @winning3329 ปีที่แล้ว

      Usually when daughters are not being loved at home they will seek love with other men who will take advantage of them

    • @naomieberhardt3931
      @naomieberhardt3931 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This lady is actually a beautiful person! #period Her kids are actually happy! I saw that in her video with her children. 😊A man could benefit from the love she can show him! Any woman who is going through something remotely similar to her situation should get this book on Amazon titled... WE DON’T DATE FOREVER... WE GET MARRIED May God continue to bless her and her beautiful family! ✌🏽❤️⭐️🙏🏽🙏🏼

  • @t.wheeler1969
    @t.wheeler1969 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This is heartbreaking. She needs to think of protecting her children from the wrong person and focus on bettering herself😢😢

  • @stephanilashae
    @stephanilashae 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    She’s a pretty girl, with a great personality...
    It’s all about loving yourself at this point and them kids...

    • @keyonnaallen4943
      @keyonnaallen4943 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Rs she seem so cool she's so pretty with beautiful babies

  • @SnickersBarJamal
    @SnickersBarJamal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    14:49 "because I was promiscuous.. I was young and dumb" U got 7 kids (1 on the way), 5 BDs, 1 of those kids is 1 yrs old (by 1 BD) and u got 1 otw (by another BD which ur not sure who it is and don't wanna speak on the subject).. when did this promiscuity stop and when did u stop being young and dumb⁉️ Yesterday ⁉️🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @deljohnson4226
      @deljohnson4226 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Bruh........numbers don't lie. I couldn't have said it better.

    • @melissaj6322
      @melissaj6322 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      !!!!!!!!!!

  • @itsstilljoose
    @itsstilljoose 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Kendra are you serious? 8 kids 1 on the way and looking for a man... this is crazy

    • @kaydee6555
      @kaydee6555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      7 one on the way

    • @Roccofan
      @Roccofan 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      We are the only race of people on the planet that get rich by putting our degeneracies on display for the world to consume. Welcome to the culture.

    • @briangumbel2600
      @briangumbel2600 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank u🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Kateese
    @Kateese ปีที่แล้ว +13

    My house is a daycare, is nothing a man wants to hear😂😂😅 especially if the kids not ever leaving

  • @BreeziDeezi
    @BreeziDeezi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    I know someone like her. My uncle’s ex. He lived off my grandparents (after spending his 20s in prison), they died in 2020 and he just needed a place to stay. He refuses to work. Found a woman with 6 kids by 6 men, benefits, an apartment and a job at Popeyes. He was set for almost two years until she traded him in for someone with a part time job at least. 😂 Women like her are prime picking for homeless bums. I feel for her but accountability is so important . She really needs that

    • @StarrConversations
      @StarrConversations 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @opelchappell9389
      @opelchappell9389 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think she is pass the stage of wanting or even having a Bum. Even though she has 7 almost 8 kids she seems like she has come a long ways in the mature department.

    • @darkcontinentschild2962
      @darkcontinentschild2962 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It’s so sad and funny at the same time. I also want to cry for them

    • @AnastasiaBeaverhousn
      @AnastasiaBeaverhousn ปีที่แล้ว +1

      OMG, you hit the nail right on the head!! And this simple MF are in the comments talking about I hope she finds a man!!! She needs to find a CONDOM!!! 🤡🙄

    • @AnastasiaBeaverhousn
      @AnastasiaBeaverhousn ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@opelchappell9389 mature???🤣🤣🤣🤣 Yeah, you're BOTH sad!!! 🙄🤡

  • @cewilliamsable
    @cewilliamsable 2 ปีที่แล้ว +354

    She shoulda never called back in... 7 kids 1 on the way at 26 🤯🤯🤯 Go home lady and raise ya kids. People like this make the whole community look bad... the nerve to not know who her baby daddy is and looking for a step daddy...

    • @justsan1477
      @justsan1477 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      I didn't think she represents "the community" wth, she's nit a activist and doesn't represent shit, but her!She's a young woman that probably needed direction, but an embarrassment? That's F nonsensical, and insulting!

    • @zuhrisgmom
      @zuhrisgmom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      She needs Someone too Children are Gifts The children are clean and appeared to be doing fine she is a real life victim of sexual abuse she was violated by a MAN……

    • @nunyabusiness1317
      @nunyabusiness1317 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@justsan1477 The single black motherhood rate is near 80% in the black community here in America. How does she NOT represent the community? It's all broken up and the only conclusion we, and the rest of the world, should come to is that women cannot lead nor can they raise boys into men. She's disgusting and all her priorities are completely backwards. Haven't even watched the video yet but I'm sure she calls herself a Christian as well. Lmao!

    • @donnellbarber9733
      @donnellbarber9733 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Facts

    • @Myt229
      @Myt229 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      @@justsan1477 You would consider a man the same age with 7 kids and one on the way embarrassing. Stop the nonsense.

  • @mari0c0leman
    @mari0c0leman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    She’s been pumping out kids for damn near 8 years straight since she was 18 years old.

    • @mari0c0leman
      @mari0c0leman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Correction: 11 years. Since she was 15 years old.

    • @Same_ol_jee
      @Same_ol_jee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😂😂😂😂

    • @ismail8101
      @ismail8101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      and yes you still have to put a ring on it and sign your life away before you get a ride 😩🤣🤣😭😭💀💀

    • @misguidedpearls7456
      @misguidedpearls7456 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exhausting😥😒

    • @Slim2xzIsland
      @Slim2xzIsland 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ismail8101no deal for me

  • @sherdiniastepney5741
    @sherdiniastepney5741 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She handled the situation very maturely!!! Kuddos to her

  • @tye1939
    @tye1939 2 ปีที่แล้ว +356

    The older I get the more I realize that the majority of peoples problems in a 1st world country such as the USA are self-inflicted. This woman has made a life of poor decisions. This is not even funny anymore; this is scary and sad. Those poor kids have a high probability of being just as dysfunctional as her.

    • @ejay2075
      @ejay2075 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Most people do it to themselves and then try to get people to feel sorry for them

    • @pipedreamism1
      @pipedreamism1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      No her mother failed her I bet my life a loving father won't allow this but women pick the wrong men

    • @naturaldisaster2
      @naturaldisaster2 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      so white supremecy is not the problem......

    • @sparklesp9304
      @sparklesp9304 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Even in 3rd world countries, people having children is still a self-inflicted problem. Regardless of where someone is, no one should have children when they can't take care of themselves.

    • @naturaldisaster2
      @naturaldisaster2 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sparklesp9304 the difference is that the government is not coming to help you and your 7 kids in a third world country....

  • @sscott504
    @sscott504 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She is operating on the level of her trauma...I'm suspecting it occurred younger than 15 yrs old

  • @Chatgptreads
    @Chatgptreads 2 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    When does accountability come into play? 🙃🙄

    • @meloran2571
      @meloran2571 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      that's been deferred to men

    • @kevinlee9929
      @kevinlee9929 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@meloran2571 Post that comment more often. Its money lol

    • @shawnhill8404
      @shawnhill8404 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It will come in form of birth control, tubes tide/ burnt and a lifetime on condoms🤷‍♂️

    • @akahee22
      @akahee22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It never gets a turn 🤷🏿‍♂️😂

    • @MrCnote1982
      @MrCnote1982 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m surprised that your comment hasn’t been removed. “Accountability” is a bad word regarding women….

  • @virginiapurvis3917
    @virginiapurvis3917 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    We need to get a sister circle around here for support and to help give her guidance. I’m praying for her ❤❤❤❤

  • @jordanleebrown5403
    @jordanleebrown5403 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Isn't this the same lady that went viral for calling her baby ugly?? .. Kendra stay getting trolled 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @LeesaBeesa
      @LeesaBeesa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yep!!!!

    • @GegeP1804
      @GegeP1804 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She addressed that @18:50

    • @teeteeheartbreak
      @teeteeheartbreak 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow……… You definitely nailed that……. That is her 😂😂😂😂 Great comment
      @JordanLeeBrown 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

    • @ismail8101
      @ismail8101 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      you know that baby ugly bro lol

    • @raycharles178
      @raycharles178 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@teeteeheartbreak she didn't guess that shitt. She seen it

  • @InsuranceAgentLeshay
    @InsuranceAgentLeshay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    I watched a docu on child molesters. Many of them said they target single mothers with daughters.
    She obviously doesn't mk the best decisions regarding men.
    It's sad that more than likely the only men she'll attract are the type of men that probably won't have the best intentions for her and her kid's

    • @blackseed9293
      @blackseed9293 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Does she seem like a good choice?

    • @MoneySnatcher011
      @MoneySnatcher011 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      💔💔 horrifying 😢

    • @mama2flythesidehustlequeen164
      @mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yep that's awful

    • @angelgreen9945
      @angelgreen9945 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for sharing this information ℹ️

    • @taurus2473
      @taurus2473 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Unfortunately she's not qualified for a decent man in her current mess.

  • @Zen_Nurse
    @Zen_Nurse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This is just bad behavior… she really needs to seek THERAPY!!!

  • @sherryberry718
    @sherryberry718 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    That was really sweet instead of clowning her , my therapist was one of the best things that happened to me !! God bless the both of you ❤️

  • @KouMurrell
    @KouMurrell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    The lack of accountability for her situation is astonishing.

  • @MsDrobertson522
    @MsDrobertson522 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    She needs serious therapy , prayers and contraceptives!

    • @mrs.w8193
      @mrs.w8193 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She’s past contraceptives. They need to take it all out. Her uterus, ovaries tubes everything

  • @IDFK__
    @IDFK__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    This is ridiculous… nothing wrong with having a lot of kids but, it’s not ideal when you have them with multiple people and then not know who the father is for the one you’re currently pregnant with 🤦‍♀️ Then she’s talking about being celibate after her 8th child, then why are you on the show looking for a man?

    • @applepie1923
      @applepie1923 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree. Kendra should never allow anybody to show their minor age children. Ever. You were young and dumb? Now she is older but still dumb. Kendra only lets 21 and older on her show. There is a reason for that.

    • @ashleynicole6210
      @ashleynicole6210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      😂she lost and confused her life is a whole fu(kin mess She doesn’t need a man she need therapy and I’m glad Kendra was tryna help pay for it for her

    • @kuja5809
      @kuja5809 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She's a hypersexual sociopath I'm willing to bet she's never ever been loyal in any relationship she's ever had, she doesn't even know who the father is of her kids I guaranteed she either got pregnant in a gangbang getting train ran on her or she's been sleeping with 2-3 men per week

    • @patsajak7809
      @patsajak7809 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right. She said she would not have sex while pregnant but it wasn't a strong no. Then turn around and says if she finds a man how does she have to wait to give him some.....but she's celibate 🤦🏾‍♀️ chille her brain is not where its supposed to be. Clearly, she pees out of it🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️😆😆😆

    • @Iamgroot377
      @Iamgroot377 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      No it's nothing wrong with having a lot of kids when it's by 1 father that you're married too. Anything else is on you! choosing to have children before marriage is irresponsible IDC who you are.

  • @feefeelewis3216
    @feefeelewis3216 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I pray she gets everything & more. She understood her issue and she's trying to figure it out. I pray her and the kids are safe and whoever she decides to deal with works out! Hopefully she makes better choices but I can't judge.

  • @ThePomskysPalace
    @ThePomskysPalace 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    This is a whole Maury episode, with the flashback, intro, all that..Kendra girl you ain’t far from it !

    • @DR-rw7es
      @DR-rw7es 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This could be her first paternity test as well

    • @adams8830
      @adams8830 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly what i was thinking.

  • @freddiedavis6964
    @freddiedavis6964 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Did she just say she celibate. In my Kevin Samuel voice...You can't make this shit up😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 You got 8 kids talking about no sex😂😂😂😂😂Good luck

    • @DefiesAllStereotypes
      @DefiesAllStereotypes 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She is celibate...probably hasn't had sex all week.

    • @ismail8101
      @ismail8101 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      lmaooooo that is BULLSHIT!!!! 😆 🤣 😂

  • @Enigmajestic1
    @Enigmajestic1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Love how kendra did this, was very decent and realistic with a splash of humour 🤣🤣

  • @claudiaglasgow5744
    @claudiaglasgow5744 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    She’s a beautiful young lady . It seems like her children are well taken care of. Please be careful who you bring around your children.

  • @Bnizzofashizzo
    @Bnizzofashizzo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    Unfortunately, she is trolling herself. This is a level of pitiful that is too difficult to watch

    • @chynadoll77cyn59
      @chynadoll77cyn59 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I can’t believe it I still think she trolling.

    • @MissOddyO
      @MissOddyO 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      First time she came on the show she threw out her Tick Tock name telling people to follow her then she said she made Seven figures and went viral Etc. Now she said she don't make seven figures and that she's really being serious. I also still think she trolling

    • @auntieshugah9330
      @auntieshugah9330 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I didn’t have the balls to say it

    • @Nell654
      @Nell654 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s just despicable

  • @AandP4dummieslikeme
    @AandP4dummieslikeme 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    She has been through a lot. I wish her the best.

    • @sylviadavis2208
      @sylviadavis2208 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I dont think she's been through anything. She just made a lot of stupid decisions. A lot has been through her but i hope she learn from all this.

    • @MsOrganicBlack
      @MsOrganicBlack 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sylviadavis2208 You obviously didn't watch the whole video... smh

    • @sylviadavis2208
      @sylviadavis2208 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@MsOrganicBlack you tell me what i missed then. She said she was promiscuous and picked the wrong guys.

    • @stackzdollaz9508
      @stackzdollaz9508 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sylviadavis2208 facts

    • @mamadytraore5797
      @mamadytraore5797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nah ,she let lot of man ran trough her, and didn't have what it takes after they " pulled out"

  • @jamesturner4257
    @jamesturner4257 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I’m speechless and sad at the same time.
    Hopefully she will get the counseling that she needs.

  • @nikkinicole5198
    @nikkinicole5198 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I think she is extremely brave for coming on the live and sharing about herself.
    I hope she finds a serious relationship.

    • @AnastasiaBeaverhousn
      @AnastasiaBeaverhousn ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Brave, is that what you're calling shamelessness!!! 🙄🤡
      And she doesn't need a man she needs therapy!!

    • @nikkinicole5198
      @nikkinicole5198 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AnastasiaBeaverhousn I assume your perfect and never made any mistakes?

    • @rqtek4god
      @rqtek4god ปีที่แล้ว +5

      How is this Brave??? Sad and Foolish more like it.7 kids, 4 dads, preg with the 8th kid, don't kno that child dad, and is on a social media show looking for a man. SHE NEED TO FOCUS ON THEM KIDS ONLY. NO MAN wants to wife up a women with 8 kids. who ever ya best baby dad is, she need to work it out with him

    • @cherylaintsellin
      @cherylaintsellin ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Careless

    • @Officialkingz1
      @Officialkingz1 ปีที่แล้ว

      No man worth anything is gonna wife this chick, let alone marry her. Her history alone suggests that! You sound as delusional as she does.

  • @luvjones9877
    @luvjones9877 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    So she 6 months pregnant and is looking for a man? Chile, I swear...

  • @ItsGoingDao
    @ItsGoingDao 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    The fact that Kendra had to sugarcoat and explain why her situation is as disastrous as it is…

  • @SimmerJas
    @SimmerJas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    That is so much responsibility for such a young girl! I commend her for taking care of her kids and I hope that she’s able to find love somewhere

    • @rqtek4god
      @rqtek4god ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You commend her for taking care of her kids? THATS WHAT SHE SUPPOSE TO DO. Thats her job. She can find love. in ALL 8 of them BABIES

    • @BigShrimpin416
      @BigShrimpin416 ปีที่แล้ว

      The tax payers in her state are taking care of her kids! SMH this is disgusting and deplorable behavior!!!

  • @deborahhouston2110
    @deborahhouston2110 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I’m glad she describes the guy she desired she focused on good qualities And a father figure, this lady loves her kids and wants the best for them

    • @rqtek4god
      @rqtek4god ปีที่แล้ว

      Wants the best???? The best is working it out with whoever the best baby father is. cuz WHAT MAN wants to WIFE UP a woman with 8 KIDS. Its clip for her. Raise them babies and call it a day

    • @xtrey19x
      @xtrey19x 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She wants the best for them, but didn't pick a quality man to be their father?
      The female mind is a puzzling thing.

  • @teeomni
    @teeomni 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    She appears to be a wonderful mom. There are some men appearing on Kendra's show who wants a large family. This woman wants to be loved. May God help the men who she has children with.

    • @rqtek4god
      @rqtek4god ปีที่แล้ว +4

      a wonderful mom? SHE CALLED HER CHILD UGLY, and DONT EVEN KNOW WHO THE DAD TO HER CURRENT CHILD. Man where child services

    • @ericdavis1815
      @ericdavis1815 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rqtek4god 😂😂😂

    • @EvangelistFredW
      @EvangelistFredW ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She is not a good mother. She is a mother of little girls and she has 8 kids and five baby daddies. She don't even know who one the babies daddy is. She needs therapy and salvation, not another relationship.

    • @wordplay6665
      @wordplay6665 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stop it

    • @BigShrimpin416
      @BigShrimpin416 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is a wonderful mother??!!! You’re just as delusional as she is

  • @neenee7153
    @neenee7153 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Kendra, I loved the fact that you offered this young lady therapy. I hope she reaches back out to you and take you up on your offer. I believe that will definitely help and make her journey to finding love easier. God bless you both.

    • @CC-pc6fz
      @CC-pc6fz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Only positive response

  • @destinydivine3868
    @destinydivine3868 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Kendra, I appreciate you bringing it back in and coming from the heart. You have a lot to give and that’s why we’re here. We go and grow together! Keep up the good work! 💕

  • @farahgene282
    @farahgene282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    My heart actually breaks for this young lady. Her focus needs to be on healing perhaps from past trauma. Hopefully her exposure on this show will get her to true therapy and she can begin her healing journey

  • @TheZeroManifested
    @TheZeroManifested 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I hope this caller finds love. She seems like a good person. Maybe she’s been through a lot but for her to still hold it down is really inspiring.

    • @coryjackson6034
      @coryjackson6034 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You are apart of this ladys problem....its sad you see nothing wrong with this!!!

    • @mamadytraore5797
      @mamadytraore5797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      "Inspiring " are you serious?
      I guess by your logic ,a guy who survived a car wreaked ,he caused , is also inspiring.
      We're doomed.

    • @solomongriffin787
      @solomongriffin787 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Love is the last thing she needs. Her kids deserve better. She needs to focus on raising her children and possibly giving her kids up for adoption.

    • @pdiddy523
      @pdiddy523 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@solomongriffin787 everybody deserves love.

    • @cherylaintsellin
      @cherylaintsellin ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She needs to love herself.

  • @shawnhill8404
    @shawnhill8404 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    ….my heart goes out to the children!!!

    • @waterlove689
      @waterlove689 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The kids are really sweet with big personalities even the little ones I hope she keeps doing a great job with them and hope they have some masculine influence in their lives .

    • @shawnhill8404
      @shawnhill8404 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@waterlove689 why are none of the kids fathers in their lives ?!?, she’s the common denominator after multiple men / male figures ie: it’s her

    • @mamadytraore5797
      @mamadytraore5797 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@waterlove689 she could never ever do great job with , not by herself.
      Woman like her ,don't need any congratulations, at all.

  • @ChampAnderson
    @ChampAnderson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    She seems like a real sweet lady. I appreciate her for being a great Mommy to her kids

    • @Rocanala
      @Rocanala ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She can’t possibly be there for all 7 kids by 5 men. She says she runs a daycare. What she means is she’s got enough kids for her own daycare. This is foolishness and our community has to STOP signing off on this!

    • @sweetdaddyrick1826
      @sweetdaddyrick1826 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Being a great mom means have 7 kids 😂😂😂😂😂 yall need to stop making excuses for foolishness

  • @femiodeleye
    @femiodeleye 2 ปีที่แล้ว +184

    She was being honest when she said she wants a sugar daddy. She's not interested in commitment.
    She has never even been monogamous. She had a sugar daddy the whole time she was having kids with her baby daddies and he was the only one she spoke well of. She wants a replacement for him
    She's trolling when she's talking about marriage, she just didn't want to be kicked off. She knows no one's going to take her seriously when she's talking about celibacy after she's given it out so much she doesn't know who her last baby is by. And she honestly doesn't want them to.
    If asking for a sugar daddy was socially acceptable that what she would be asking for because that is what she is looking for

    • @FaithandNova
      @FaithandNova 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      We would hope she's not serious about a sugar daddy. She has to start making better choices

    • @ashleynicole6210
      @ashleynicole6210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      😂 Nailed it !!!!

    • @dobeus8957
      @dobeus8957 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Therapy first and foremost this is a complete mess but she’s not alone there are others just like her…domestic violence,rape this girl needs help and since she’s willing to put her situation out there so easily to me it’s a cry for help. I agree with everything you said though!

    • @ITech2005
      @ITech2005 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m trying to figure out who the hell is trying pay for her? After all them kids you know she’s busted with sagging tits, stretch marks all over the place and god knows what else. I’m not even sure I’d want to see her naked yet alone pay for it.

    • @majorenlightenment2291
      @majorenlightenment2291 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@FaithandNova hope... you gotta be trolling us 🤣... that young lady spoke with conviction all down in her soul... y'all women will give a pass to anything delusional a woman might say, even if she's speaking her truth.

  • @freegame1k
    @freegame1k 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    "Does he have to look a certain way "
    "No I'm not picky "
    That is very evident mam 😒🥴

  • @CorneliusSmalleliterealtor
    @CorneliusSmalleliterealtor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    she confused 7 streams with 7 figures, it’s still a blessing. I hope she’s not counting 4 baby daddies as 4 different streams. She Became celibate when she got pregnant but had sex less than 3 months ago well into her 6 month term. She had a sponsor for years and a boyfriend she wasted 5 years with who wouldn’t claim her. 2 possible fathers of the unborn child that she can’t speak of, makes me think 3some. If a man can get beyond the 7 kids and 5 dads he will have to contend with and their rules. He’ll have to be able to trust the young fun stuff is out of her system, the potential father is out of her system. No BD(s) can possibly dip back. The domestic abuser is no longer a threat. And if a new sponsor comes along she will not take him up on his offer while in a relationship. Forget a man for now, she needs to speak to a therapist, life coach, cpa/financial advisor there’s probably some major deductions and write offs she’s missing, small investment she should be making regularly and she has to get life insurance to ensure the kids are taken care of. May God’s grace and Mercy carry her and the babes.

    • @celinaherrera5460
      @celinaherrera5460 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Awesome, that's a good critique with some advice one can be proactive about and not once did you come off as disrespectful, it was all coming from a genuine spot you should mentor out here more, or share the love w/the individuals who could benefit from & appreciate it. God bless you and continue with this w/any younger cousins, nieces, friend's siblings or friends. This kind of comment is rare, esp coming from the opposite sex and of color at that. I always reflect and wish I had more people to model off of, seeing this makes me hope that some of the people I mentor see it that way. It feels good regardless. This comment made my day, again, God bless you.

    • @CorneliusSmalleliterealtor
      @CorneliusSmalleliterealtor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@celinaherrera5460 thank you and blessings to you also

  • @ohheygoldi
    @ohheygoldi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I actually really like her! She’s been through a lot. But resilient. Questionable choices but she seems like shed take good care of a man who wouldn’t mind all the kids. He’ll need a mini van 😊

    • @xtrey19x
      @xtrey19x 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "I actually really like her!"
      Of course you really like a 7 time baby momma and is currently pregnant, but doesn't' know who's the father. Which means she has no clue who she opened her legs to or had so many people hit it and hit it raw at the same or in around the same time that she can't tell who's the father. You 304s come on the internet & expose yourselves everyday and I thank you for it 🙏

  • @LailahLynnTV
    @LailahLynnTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    19:17 WOW smh I didn't recognize her at first but I remember that video with that innocent baby! She really needs help!

  • @kaydee6555
    @kaydee6555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    My mind is blown. God bless her soul. I really don't want to be a negative Nancy.

    • @bruceleeroy8302
      @bruceleeroy8302 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes! There’s really no reason to be critical, I just hope she gets her situation together, for the kids’ sakes.

    • @ismail8101
      @ismail8101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      what about accountability

    • @kaydee6555
      @kaydee6555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ismail8101 well I think we all should be accountable I just didn't feel like spewing negativity. No one is created the same we all have made decisions others won't agree with but she was brave enough to put herself out there. I hope the best for her and pray for healing and yes accountability

    • @ismail8101
      @ismail8101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kaydee6555 sorry that's not brave nothing about it brave

    • @kaydee6555
      @kaydee6555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ismail8101 well thankfully there is a thing called grace. It's a brave thing for her to come on here especially knowing the backlash she would receive. I feel like it's the essence of bravery.

  • @jaycedavidblackwell9557
    @jaycedavidblackwell9557 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    She might as well accept the facts... and I hate it for her... that all she gone be used for from this point on its a nutdumpster throwback. Ain't no dude seriously tryna get down with that and them kids

    • @zuhrisgmom
      @zuhrisgmom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your Right It’s A lot of Beta Brothers out there Very Very few Alphas

    • @zuhrisgmom
      @zuhrisgmom 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She can get a male it’s a lot of foster Men out here

  • @rosiesmith3526
    @rosiesmith3526 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are the kindness person Mizz.K helping her with a therapist dats some love!!!♡♡ love ain't cheAp dat prt

  • @mari0c0leman
    @mari0c0leman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    A dude has to wait for sex until marriage after she’s birthed 8 kids? GTFOH!!! 😂