Inside The P*rn Industry w/ A Former Adult Star
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 มิ.ย. 2024
- What does it mean to be a good man, husband, and father? And what are the deceits and deceptions that can derail us?
To discuss this topic, I'm bring on a guest who knows the dark secrets about one of the biggest industries that is destroying young men.
Please welcome Joshua Broome!
---
Sponsored by: Jeremy's Razors
Tired of razors that just don’t cut it? Unleash the power of Jeremy's Razors, now sharper and more durable than ever. With a pivoting head that adapts to your face and a flip-back trimmer for those killer lines, this isn't just any razor-it's the ultimate shaving experience. Support a company that values what you believe in, not corporate wokeism. Get 15% off your order now and elevate your beard game.
Get 15% off your order HERE: bit.ly/JRxMTA
---
Join our community chat: bit.ly/43zQDLN
Instagram: nickjfreitas
Facebook: / nickfreitasva
Twitter: / nickjfreitas
TH-cam: / @nickjfreitas
TikTok: / nickfreitas3.0
All young men really need is reason and a spine. I loved my husband from the first date. He was thoughtful, confident and well spoken. He communicated that he wanted a family and he thought i was beautiful. He loved that i read the same books and wanted a family. 40 years later i still love the confident thoughtful family man i married. Our children are grown and doing well. We enjoyed them as infants, toddlers, teenagers and now as adults. I'm so happy i married a family man. Our focus on family made our problems easier to solve.
Bring JESUS back first and families right after.
my dad was telling me in the late 90s that anything I posted on the internet could be seen by anyone and could never be deleted. this guy needed a dad.
The "Ethical Pornography" argument is the same as the "Real Communism" argument.
What a profound moment; “I hurt the only person that never hurt me”. I felt that in my heart, and in my soul. I can’t stop sobbing.
I dont really care anymore. The dating pool is non existent. I am going to be single forever and i am okay with this. I have made peace with it.
As the mother of four men who have grown up in this easy-access porn culture, I cannot thank you enough for your openness in exploring the many insidious ways pornography distorts reality. I can talk all I want to, but I'm jst 'mom' - what do I know. Hearing it from other men carries so much more power. Thanks also for confirming that a mother's love carries its own level of influence.
Didn't realize the war on men of any age was hidden lol
I was raised by a single mother with an older sister, and it didn't take me long to see that to my mom I was second in all things, my mother never missed anything my sister was involved with while once I entered middle school I was expected to do for myself, my one saving grace was I had some pretty good uncles. I turned out OK but I see these boys with no direction because of lack of dads, do what I can so please guys step up not just for your sons grandsons but the boys in your life.
The KJV will tell you exactly how to live.
First and foremost, men should not be told how to be men by women that hate them.
Yesterday I spent the afternoon in the hot sun cleaning our gutters mowing the lawns etc. Earlier grocery shopping I mentioned that my car needed a wash after camping with the wife. I’m up there doing my thing and I hear some noises, I peak over the edge of the roof and my wife took it upon herself to wash my car and when I came down she hugged me and said “thank you for taking care of our house, I finished my inside chores so I wanted to help.”
Here's an example of what porn addiction can lead to -
You can be dad-less even with a father in the home.
1:42:00
This podcast should be shown in every junior high and high school.
Why would a woman consume it? In my case, it was because I was emotionally (and sometimes physically) abused and neglected by my parents, my father was totally distant, judgmental, hypercritical, and shaming, and we moved a lot, so I grew up never having friends (finally had some as an adult, at least). My father never once made me feel safe and protected, never called me beautiful (or even just pretty), and made fun of me every time I had a crush on a guy. My single comfort was food. So I got to be a fat and depressed teenager, bullied, etc., and I spent the vast majority of my life thinking men have no use for me. Plus, I'd adopted my dad's shamed-based approach to faith and morality, so I suppressed every ounce of femininity that I had and any ounce of sexual desire until the desire started creeping out as I hit my 30s when my natural drive spiked through the roof. It was a recipe for disaster. I've only had a couple of very brief dating experiences that never went beyond date 3. And even though I've been through therapy and have made enormous changes and am generally happy, I'm incredibly lonely because I'm a 40-something single who wishes she could find someone, but the dating scene is absolutely horrendous. Even outside the dating scene, finding new friends is incredibly hard these days if you're not in your 20s. I have only met a few single men in the last couple of years, and those I've met aren't the kind I could actually be happy with. So when your drive is insane, you're deeply lonely, and you don't have any sense of hope that you might find someone to love--oh, and you have tons of material at your fingertips...and, well, it's easy to end up where you never thought you would. You know it's horrible, but you stay because of dopamine, and you stay because you wonder what it might actually feel like to be wanted by someone, and then you get sucked in and maybe addicted.
I have survived life as an autistic man being employed in the adult industry. I am 41yo and retired from that genre of work... but once upon a time as a young man, the only jobs that would hire me were adult editor jobs.
This is great show. Thank you for sharing your story Josh. There are a lot of young men and women who need to hear this.
Amazing display of accountability and humility before his mother and his Abba Father 💪🏻⚔️👏🏻