Carl Jung’s last interview (Küssnacht, late May 1961, shortly before his death June 6): “To me, a particularly beautiful woman is a source of terror. As a rule, a beautiful woman is a terrible disappointment. Beautiful bodies and beautiful personalities rarely ever go together.”
That's never a challenge as a woman. Any woman who doesn't look like Quasimodo has far more options and choices than a good-looking man (non-chad). But as you get older, not only does your beauty and your youth dwindle, but also your options do as well. After all, men are very visually oriented beings. We place a very high value on a woman's looks, youthfulness and fertility. This is how nature intended us to select a good woman. Personality and abilities are certainly also important, but we only see and appreciate this at a later stage. And yes, women see a good-looking woman as a real personal threat and don't want you to be better off than her. Men are like a bucket of ants. We support each other so that we can become stronger and achieve greater things under the leadership of one person than alone. Women, on the other hand, are like a bucket full of crabs. They make sure that none of them get to the top. And if one does manage to get higher than the others, everyone helps to pull her back down. That's their nature and it also makes it more difficult for pretty women to find really good friends.
@Brown_Barbie24 My point is that it reeks of vanity for someone to publicly declare themself as attractive. The fact that you added that you don't see yourself as the MOST attractive doesn't excuse the first part of your claim.
As a man I can definitely say that whenever I see a lady I find really pretty I already assume she's in a relationship. There was this new girl on college this semester who I found really pretty and I did get interested in getting to know her better, but I immediately assumed she was in a relationship and didn't even consider the possibility of at least trying for a while. When I began to wonder if she really was in a relationship, I checked her hand and I did see a ring there so I was right in this case, but I could've definitely been wrong. There's also the other side that sometimes we feel intimidated into talking to a beautiful woman because we don't wanna make it seem like we just wanna hit on her. The other thing that happens to me as well, is that if I feel interested in her, I don't even try it because I feel intimidated by how beautiful she seems compared to how I see myself. It's kind like a paradox, the beauty makes more men feel attracted to you and makes them try to aprroach you (often they might be creeps); on the other hand some other men feel intimidated and don't even try to approach the person. Not even because the men are necessarily ugly, but because (At least from my experience talking to my friends) for most of the average guys the standards for female beauty are much lower than we think they are for girls and male beauty. So while we might feel very attracted to an average or above average looking girl, we believe that the girl would have higher standards and an average guy wouldn't be fit for her (Not saying that's how women actually think, but that's how we sometimes can think). It's kinda like being the smart kid at school. It's good to get the good grades and have everyone praising you for your results and believing you have a bright future ahead. On the other hand, often there's more pressure on the person to perform well, they may be too critical of themselves, might everything thrown into them because "They know you can handle it". I guess every good aspect in life has both sides of the coin.
God bless you young woman l wish that could have met you 30 years ago. But did you know that King Solomon said beauty is fleeting and charm is deceptive but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. 😊 may Adonai keep you safe.
I understand this as a guy. My question is how should guys approach you and what should we say?(So that it doesn't feel like we just want you for looks) (To an attractive woman like you)
Carl Jung’s last interview (Küssnacht, late May 1961, shortly before his death June 6): “To me, a particularly beautiful woman is a source of terror. As a rule, a beautiful woman is a terrible disappointment. Beautiful bodies and beautiful personalities rarely ever go together.”
Not necessarily true.
The same goes for an attractive guy, or at least in my experience.
That's never a challenge as a woman. Any woman who doesn't look like Quasimodo has far more options and choices than a good-looking man (non-chad). But as you get older, not only does your beauty and your youth dwindle, but also your options do as well. After all, men are very visually oriented beings. We place a very high value on a woman's looks, youthfulness and fertility. This is how nature intended us to select a good woman. Personality and abilities are certainly also important, but we only see and appreciate this at a later stage.
And yes, women see a good-looking woman as a real personal threat and don't want you to be better off than her.
Men are like a bucket of ants. We support each other so that we can become stronger and achieve greater things under the leadership of one person than alone.
Women, on the other hand, are like a bucket full of crabs. They make sure that none of them get to the top. And if one does manage to get higher than the others, everyone helps to pull her back down. That's their nature and it also makes it more difficult for pretty women to find really good friends.
Thank you, I appreciate your analysis and thoughful comment on my video!!!
I find it very conceited to state by oneself that they're attractive, even if you truly are attractive.
Did you not hear the dislcaimer? I do NOT think i'm the most attractive person there is to exist
@Brown_Barbie24 My point is that it reeks of vanity for someone to publicly declare themself as attractive. The fact that you added that you don't see yourself as the MOST attractive doesn't excuse the first part of your claim.
Living in an alternative reality...there is no hope.
You attract who you are .....
6/10 thinks she's a 10/10
You just lie to yourself because you cannot get a woman like her. She is definitely above average by far
As a man I can definitely say that whenever I see a lady I find really pretty I already assume she's in a relationship. There was this new girl on college this semester who I found really pretty and I did get interested in getting to know her better, but I immediately assumed she was in a relationship and didn't even consider the possibility of at least trying for a while. When I began to wonder if she really was in a relationship, I checked her hand and I did see a ring there so I was right in this case, but I could've definitely been wrong.
There's also the other side that sometimes we feel intimidated into talking to a beautiful woman because we don't wanna make it seem like we just wanna hit on her. The other thing that happens to me as well, is that if I feel interested in her, I don't even try it because I feel intimidated by how beautiful she seems compared to how I see myself.
It's kind like a paradox, the beauty makes more men feel attracted to you and makes them try to aprroach you (often they might be creeps); on the other hand some other men feel intimidated and don't even try to approach the person. Not even because the men are necessarily ugly, but because (At least from my experience talking to my friends) for most of the average guys the standards for female beauty are much lower than we think they are for girls and male beauty. So while we might feel very attracted to an average or above average looking girl, we believe that the girl would have higher standards and an average guy wouldn't be fit for her (Not saying that's how women actually think, but that's how we sometimes can think).
It's kinda like being the smart kid at school. It's good to get the good grades and have everyone praising you for your results and believing you have a bright future ahead. On the other hand, often there's more pressure on the person to perform well, they may be too critical of themselves, might everything thrown into them because "They know you can handle it". I guess every good aspect in life has both sides of the coin.
God bless you young woman l wish that could have met you 30 years ago. But did you know that King Solomon said beauty is fleeting and charm is deceptive but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. 😊 may Adonai keep you safe.
I look forward to the sequel, "Why being wealthy is a blessing and a curse."
Haha yes I'll make a sequel
who said u attractive i wonder 😑😑
High number of options ❤
I understand this as a guy. My question is how should guys approach you and what should we say?(So that it doesn't feel like we just want you for looks) (To an attractive woman like you)
Ofcourse I get approached initially for how I look, but when I'm talking to you I don't want everything to just be about the way I look!
so true, so true, feel that
👏
Lots of love from Nepal
I have seen you somewhere 😮
Don't worry, the WALL cometh...
I'm subscriber 100🎉
yes you are thank you❤
Silly woman
I subscribed
You are beautiful
Thank you🥰🥰🥰❤❤❤
You wouldn't know
Right that's why I'm on TH-cam and made a whole 6 minute video about it
Based on this vid, atleast above avg