As a woman idk how these get recommended to me... but I agree. Don't worry about a partner, one will come if you focus on YOU and take care of yourself, you attract better people when you don't look because you don't compromise. Good women and good men will stand out if you're not looking at every woman and man. Plus, life is so much more than a partner!
Life is so much more than a partner??? I hate when ppl say that ish. . Life is partnerships. Men need women. As a Man if you don't have a penis. Don't comment
It mostly is about a partner. 80% of what human civilization is founded on, is for a partner->offspring. That and intrinsically to survive. Sure, we have skills, hobbies and activities to do aside from a partner, but even that wears out.
Been talkin to this girl and decided to end it because I wasn’t getting the right vibes. She would say she was interested and all that but would never want to hang really; was dry, she was bad asf but I had to realize my worth and know I deserve better. Advice: don’t mess with a girl for only their appearance…. Let yourself fall for their souls and who they’re and how they carry themselves 💯
You’re strong mentally man, I’d go this route like you did man, despite the looks, it’s honestly a mixture of both and more. I think you did the right thing, also how tall are you man?
It’s a hard thing to do and takes constant action. As men we are fighting our natural instincts to go after women. Especially when your testosterone is high. It’s our nature to go after them and to conquer.
These types of videos are the reason I still watch your content. We gotta get better for ourselves, and whoever mess with us is for us. Can't be worried about the opinions of other people.
Yeah, been hard but I'm trying. Noticed my life been going down hill thinking about girls. Ironically the one time I was concentrating on myself, through boxing was also the moment alot of women actually started to notice me alot more. I wanna go back to that, wish me luck guys.
Ohh dude, I've been in this situation many times. Now I'm finally starting to realize not giving a f*** anymore actually feels good but really took me time to realize. Thanks for the video, that was what I needed to hear :D
I have to admit due to the fact that am about to finish graduate i feel like I've missed out on a lot the more obsessed and desperate i became with wanting to have a girl but then i realized i became too distracted to a point we're i couldn't even just focus on my art and other hobbies i guess it's high time i dusted myself of from this continued cycle of desperation really good video gee much appreciation 🙏
I don’t know man if u will be reading this or no. There’s always that one guy whose few words just exactly show you where u missed the step. Destroy the inner void through work and god. May god bless u ❤ g
You are right, I am the 35 year old dude wanting to have a girl and that is always on my mind. I would like a family and I feel like my time is ruining out. I quit smoking weed and started to approach girls but the void is still there. I trust the father that he has a plan for me but I fed up with loneliness. What is your advice for me?
So my advice to the next generation is to lower your gaze to protect yourself from looking at lust and find a good person who cares very much about you.
I’m 35 years old I had to learn you can’t worry about a woman who don’t like you make your money you lose money we chase wanna but you never lose women’s
there’s two girls now, one who doesn’t respect (listen to) men and all they will say like you are saying. they want to totally focus on themselves only. Which would be okay if they truly did expect the same from the guy. So, if she got pregnant it is hers and hers only and didn’t bother him with it at all. But that’s not how it works/plays out. The other does respect (listen) to men, not women or themselves, so are marriageable. So the answer is either both totally focus on each other and their family. Or it’s total self-invilvement. And the argument about the children really becomes: “You take it” “No you take it” because the kid just gets ‘in the way’ of them focussing on themselves. So for the guys watching, if you’re like Kam, where all that matters is himself, these girls will be fine as they think the same. If you do want to focus on a family and someone else, you will need to move as not all cultures are the same. You need to accept that it is ‘all’. as that’s how culture works. So if you truly do want to focus on your family over yourself, you will need to move over seas. Or, to adapt, you need to be fully self-involved and selfish. Which will implode when kids become involved.
You’re essentially saying: “fully go into the woman’s frame” be absoluteltly subservient (to her fears) and become her servant. Acting exactly the same as her. Women (who don’t trust men) put themselves first out of fear. And instead of finding a mariageable girl who will put your business and life above her own, you’re instead ‘buying into’ and going into. the same frame. You can put your family above yourself, it just needs to be with a girl who was taught and believes to do the same. What REALLY fucks you up thouhg, is think it’s ‘most’ and not accepting it is actually ‘all’ women (in your society). And it’s not ‘not caring at all’ it’s putting the focus on caring what you do, no one else. So under your philosophy, you can just steal and lie as: “who cares”. Wheres what it should be is: “I will do my work well”. If I then hire someone who’s not the same I don’t “care”, I just hire someone else. Which, I personally still struggle with, but know it is the answer.
I remember every girl I've liked but hate thinking about these past feelings I'm not saying they're full names but only their initials KL. Actually dated JG BP GR AB ED But I agree with everything in this video
Yo I'm 15 and never had a girl not even kissed a girl in my life. I like a girl at school and think I might just have a chance at being with her. I'm on self-improvement and progressing my life and levelling up, but I've never had the experience of being so close to girl. I want to go for it, what do you think?
I remember being 15 wanting to ask my crush to the highschool homecoming but never did. Im 20 now lol but looking back I would have wanted younger me to go ahead and just do it. Just like you I never had the experience prior and I let that stop me smh so I'd say go for it bro you got this👍
No matter the outcome, the important thing is that you courageously took a chance, like the saying goes, better to try and fail than not to try and regret, trust me you won't regret it even if you don't succeed, bruh, may God bless all your endeavours
I think about women so much like conversation with them,even having sex with them but no release from my semen retention journey. This is why I can’t stack my bread like I should because they’re a distraction and I really never attract much women in my life. I do want to be more open and present with them during conversation. I have to quit that and it kills my brain and get brain fog. I will stop thinking about women attraction from now on.
I'm obsessed with singular girl that i don't know like that girl have given me no sort of value yet!! and i think I'm in love with her!! What can i do with that 😭😭 how can i stop thinking about her??😭 any advice????
As a woman idk how these get recommended to me... but I agree. Don't worry about a partner, one will come if you focus on YOU and take care of yourself, you attract better people when you don't look because you don't compromise. Good women and good men will stand out if you're not looking at every woman and man. Plus, life is so much more than a partner!
Women are 🗑
@@justchill5628Excactly! It's Purpose over everything for me at this point, Purpose comes first.
Life is so much more than a partner???
I hate when ppl say that ish. .
Life is partnerships.
Men need women.
As a Man if you don't have a penis. Don't comment
@@leccion5282 I Hope you can open your perspective one day 💞
It mostly is about a partner. 80% of what human civilization is founded on, is for a partner->offspring. That and intrinsically to survive. Sure, we have skills, hobbies and activities to do aside from a partner, but even that wears out.
Purpose come first….women comes last 🤷🏾♂️💯
God, purpose, family and friends and then girls…. That’s the order I go in and I’m happy with that.
@@marland1529 How tall are you man?
@@thamesplayz7406 this is the weirdest question I’ve gotten in some comment section 😂 but I’m 6’1
@@marland1529 that’s actually smart
@@marland1529 Ok, I’m just curious man. 😂
Been talkin to this girl and decided to end it because I wasn’t getting the right vibes. She would say she was interested and all that but would never want to hang really; was dry, she was bad asf but I had to realize my worth and know I deserve better. Advice: don’t mess with a girl for only their appearance…. Let yourself fall for their souls and who they’re and how they carry themselves 💯
You're mentally stronger than most men. Be proud of that. You did good bro
@@zeppkfw appreciate that man, much luv
You’re strong mentally man, I’d go this route like you did man, despite the looks, it’s honestly a mixture of both and more. I think you did the right thing, also how tall are you man?
I was in a similar situation where this girl was doing the same thing and it made me lose interest really fast. I understand where you come from
@@thamesplayz7406 I’m 6’2 rn lol why you ask?
This is exactly me. Everytime I'm out, I'm thinking how many women are noticing me. I'll adjust my walk and how I talk to get their attention.
i’m having a child your videos helped me meet my fiancé a few years ago
Thats wassu
god Bless
That's amazing!
Dude you give real good advice fr 🔥
Never cared about a single women realizing a girl won't take me to jannah
Thank you
Bro speaking my life rn. I’m trynna change n switch my mindset n not value females like that. Real stuff he speakin
It’s a hard thing to do and takes constant action. As men we are fighting our natural instincts to go after women. Especially when your testosterone is high. It’s our nature to go after them and to conquer.
I needed this so much right now man. You’re like an older bro thank you man 🙏
Nothing hits the nail on the head more perfectly than “you have to stop caring about women”. That’s really all you have to say.
kam consistently uploading and we consistently bussing to his vids😈😈🔥
Pause nigga 😂
your right bro you always speak the truth bro i admire you always! 🙌🏽 keep it up
needed this fr. thank you.
A through Y, that's all for you. Z, that's your attention to women.
Thanks for this Kam, great encouragement for even a guy like me at 38.
probably one of the most important vidoes ill watch in my life thanks kam
These types of videos are the reason I still watch your content. We gotta get better for ourselves, and whoever mess with us is for us. Can't be worried about the opinions of other people.
Women is VERY EXPENSIVE AND WE CAN'T AFFORD THEM ANYMORE..
Yeah, been hard but I'm trying. Noticed my life been going down hill thinking about girls. Ironically the one time I was concentrating on myself, through boxing was also the moment alot of women actually started to notice me alot more. I wanna go back to that, wish me luck guys.
Ohh dude, I've been in this situation many times. Now I'm finally starting to realize not giving a f*** anymore actually feels good but really took me time to realize. Thanks for the video, that was what I needed to hear :D
I have to admit due to the fact that am about to finish graduate i feel like I've missed out on a lot the more obsessed and desperate i became with wanting to have a girl but then i realized i became too distracted to a point we're i couldn't even just focus on my art and other hobbies i guess it's high time i dusted myself of from this continued cycle of desperation really good video gee much appreciation 🙏
Oi same here man. The desperating becomes crippling too when you really dont get the women
You can talk to women but it’s up to you, But if you do always put your goals before her.
I been doing the same thing but I used to put the women first before myself and now every since I watched TrueCam I started focusing on me.
dam i really needed this rn, the self improvement part hit me different
Thanks Kam. This really helped me bro. Keep it coming w the content 💯
Wow this is what I needed it like everything you said word for word I just hate that I couldn’t see this myself thank you g
"30 years old at a bar"...
My life be like ooo waahh OOO WAH
yeah i used to do muay thai,dirt biking and alot of stuff just to get girls but whenever i am alone i dont really self improve fax dude.
Thanks brother I needed to hear this
True especially the type of women that are out there of today.
Back to back uploads preciate it Kam💪
This comment section became a wild thing
priority’s, you gonna attract what you need when you ain’t worried abt it. go to the gym. have fun w ya boys. 🤝🏽
What if u got no friends
@@ddotnyc8709 you don’t need friends
miss me with dat bs cus yk you lying
@@GuyVick who wanna be bored with no friends, not I
@@BossDaMoneyMaker that’s on you. Your life
it really been messing with my mind i pray that i will find the right one. one day.
Realest shit I ever heard needed this
I love how you use God's word for these things. Amazing combo ❤
I don’t know man if u will be reading this or no. There’s always that one guy whose few words just exactly show you where u missed the step. Destroy the inner void through work and god. May god bless u ❤ g
Very motivational
I understand the msg but everytime I open the comments I am like wth 😂
Onf
Ong
You are right, I am the 35 year old dude wanting to have a girl and that is always on my mind. I would like a family and I feel like my time is ruining out. I quit smoking weed and started to approach girls but the void is still there. I trust the father that he has a plan for me but I fed up with loneliness. What is your advice for me?
develop a relation ship with yahweh
Life is terrible.
It's done for u. Whether you trust "Yahweh" or not, ur done
@@jake4404Savage jake
Thnx Kam💯👍
Needed this
this is some good advice man keep it up
Lotta truth in this video
Needed this!
Divine timing ✨️
So my advice to the next generation is to lower your gaze to protect yourself from looking at lust and find a good person who cares very much about you.
You deserve a mil sub bro no cap love u bro u saved my life
What an amazing video bro. Keep working on it.
I’m 35 years old I had to learn you can’t worry about a woman who don’t like you make your money you lose money we chase wanna but you never lose women’s
Nah y’all should be thankful he puttin y’all on this level and category of game rs 💯
nah im good
Right mindset
You right bro💯🤝🏾
im boutta explode🥺🥺🥺😩😫😫😫😫
When in doubt fall back on the grind
Subscribed cuz the shirt g 🔥
Thanks Kam ❤🤝
there’s two girls now, one who doesn’t respect (listen to) men and all they will say like you are saying. they want to totally focus on themselves only. Which would be okay if they truly did expect the same from the guy. So, if she got pregnant it is hers and hers only and didn’t bother him with it at all. But that’s not how it works/plays out. The other does respect (listen) to men, not women or themselves, so are marriageable. So the answer is either both totally focus on each other and their family. Or it’s total self-invilvement. And the argument about the children really becomes: “You take it” “No you take it” because the kid just gets ‘in the way’ of them focussing on themselves.
So for the guys watching, if you’re like Kam, where all that matters is himself, these girls will be fine as they think the same.
If you do want to focus on a family and someone else, you will need to move as not all cultures are the same. You need to accept that it is ‘all’. as that’s how culture works.
So if you truly do want to focus on your family over yourself, you will need to move over seas.
Or, to adapt, you need to be fully self-involved and selfish. Which will implode when kids become involved.
Thank u for making this video 💯
Bruh wtf Kam u too on point
He’s right. It’s time to wake up.
this video really got me thinking and this the most hard hitting video i watched.
Focus on yourself Kings✊🏾
Thank you Kam ❤
Kam should be a politician
Amen bro!
Gentleman's of culture we meet again
Thank you bro
You’re essentially saying: “fully go into the woman’s frame” be absoluteltly subservient (to her fears) and become her servant. Acting exactly the same as her. Women (who don’t trust men) put themselves first out of fear. And instead of finding a mariageable girl who will put your business and life above her own, you’re instead ‘buying into’ and going into. the same frame. You can put your family above yourself, it just needs to be with a girl who was taught and believes to do the same.
What REALLY fucks you up thouhg, is think it’s ‘most’ and not accepting it is actually ‘all’ women (in your society).
And it’s not ‘not caring at all’ it’s putting the focus on caring what you do, no one else.
So under your philosophy, you can just steal and lie as: “who cares”.
Wheres what it should be is: “I will do my work well”. If I then hire someone who’s not the same I don’t “care”, I just hire someone else. Which, I personally still struggle with, but know it is the answer.
Exactly build yourself up then they'll come.
Real ahh shit right here
I remember every girl I've liked but hate thinking about these past feelings
I'm not saying they're full names but only their initials
KL. Actually dated
JG
BP
GR
AB
ED
But I agree with everything in this video
Take his knowledge so seriously, people think we gay.
when god shows me my purpose then i will stop chasing women but for now i see nothing to live for
That got deep
Thanks bro.. this where I'm stuck at
Facts brother teach these lil boy she not worthy.
Yo I'm 15 and never had a girl not even kissed a girl in my life. I like a girl at school and think I might just have a chance at being with her. I'm on self-improvement and progressing my life and levelling up, but I've never had the experience of being so close to girl. I want to go for it, what do you think?
I remember being 15 wanting to ask my crush to the highschool homecoming but never did. Im 20 now lol but looking back I would have wanted younger me to go ahead and just do it. Just like you I never had the experience prior and I let that stop me smh so I'd say go for it bro you got this👍
@@omarlascares4474 thanks bro this rly helps
@@massimokaufmann7941 yessir go get her bro💪I believe in you
No matter the outcome, the important thing is that you courageously took a chance, like the saying goes, better to try and fail than not to try and regret, trust me you won't regret it even if you don't succeed, bruh, may God bless all your endeavours
yo bro i’m 15 and this year was the first time i ever kissed a girl don’t worry about it too much because it will happen eventually
My bro is so wise in this age.
Came here for a pep talk and left feeling like shit 🤣I’m 32 brah…but I feel old as a bitch now
I’m just saying thanks you really helped dude
Got my sub man
Great video I needed this
Hallelujah
I think about women so much like conversation with them,even having sex with them but no release from my semen retention journey. This is why I can’t stack my bread like I should because they’re a distraction and I really never attract much women in my life. I do want to be more open and present with them during conversation. I have to quit that and it kills my brain and get brain fog. I will stop thinking about women attraction from now on.
Best vid yet, gls gang
Monica nett Maria Brianna Nancy, Kimberly. Sabrina
FACTSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hey kam could you talk about failure and success?
💯💯💯💯💯🔒
1:46 none of them are even likeable, is just to smash
This helped me a lot
You gonna end up like PatBat69
I'm obsessed with singular girl that i don't know like that girl have given me no sort of value yet!! and i think I'm in love with her!! What can i do with that 😭😭 how can i stop thinking about her??😭 any advice????
What was your college major?
Yea kam I searched up how to stop caring about girls this was the first vid to pop up
how do I know if my long distance crush likes me back
The west has ruined many things about life.
Me when i get rejected:
Thanks bro
listen to your own advice fam