Loosing Your Mind in The Philippines

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  • @les8518
    @les8518 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Excellent video Mark. Thank you very much for posting.
    I was some what shocked when you say that there is no care for Dementia in the USA.
    In my country New Zealand there is state care.
    I am now retired in Thailand.
    Enjoy your videos.
    Thank you very much.

  • @valvetones7344
    @valvetones7344 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    You will be missed sir.
    May Jesus meet you and give you grace.

  • @peterforner3823
    @peterforner3823 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I just read that Mark has passed. In this video he talks about his and our end. Thanks for your well balanced content and helping me with my later years navigating in a foreign land.

  • @d9918
    @d9918 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +92

    What happens if you get dementia in the US? You run for President 🤣

    • @davidkelley1555
      @davidkelley1555 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      And win.

    • @mick-berry5331
      @mick-berry5331 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😅😂🤣

    • @Jim-zu2lr
      @Jim-zu2lr 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Your a good man the video was excellent.

    • @59jaguar
      @59jaguar 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Worked for Ronald Regan getting elected .

    • @59jaguar
      @59jaguar 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Worked for Ronald Regan getting elected . No only works for felons and rapists in the USA .

  • @brianphuket5951
    @brianphuket5951 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +35

    Drop the sugar, add in more fats [brain food] drop the carbs, do more fish veggies and proteins, you'll save your mind and your body will love you!! don't forget to do your parasite meds twice a year. The climate, pork, fruits and unwashed veggies have a lot of parasites, especially if you have pets which also carry a lot of parasites and worms... be vigilant!!! Good Luck out there...

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  28 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Thank you for watching and for sharing this information 😀

    • @thehoteldeveloper
      @thehoteldeveloper 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Carnivore will make you feel at least 20 years younger. It roll stabilize heart disease and hopefully keeps cancer away. I'll be testing that second one myself.
      They are working on labeling alzheimer's type 3 diabetes.

    • @CurtisMoe
      @CurtisMoe 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      100% sugar is toxic, healthy animal fat is the body and minds preferred fuel source.

    • @swlc5555
      @swlc5555 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I don't currently live in the Philippines/SE Asia but am curious to know what you're referring to as parasite meds that you take twice a year? That info could come in handy if I make the move.

    • @kennyl.TheSilverJewelryGuy
      @kennyl.TheSilverJewelryGuy 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      what are Parasite meds, never heard of them

  • @Oceanofsand1981
    @Oceanofsand1981 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This channel is a gem for expats for sure. It discuses topics everyone else just may not even think about.

  • @JRINASIA
    @JRINASIA 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    Mark, great video. What I have noticed ex-pats between Japan and the Philippines is like day and night. Ex-pats in Japan more healthy and has more financial resources than the ex-pats in the Philippines with bad health and little financial resources. Basically I been living in Asia since May 1976. Those are my opinion. Keep those great coming.

  • @tjking1909
    @tjking1909 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    R.I.P. Mark 🙏.

  • @leea8451
    @leea8451 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Good advice Mark. That's something I've thought a lot about since I do have family members that got dementia, but not until they were in their late 80s.

  • @waynejpark560
    @waynejpark560 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Loose= doesn’t fit right, too big, etc.
    Lose= unable to find, to get rid of.

  • @robertanderson574
    @robertanderson574 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Thanks Mark...Great Advice on a difficult subject...

  • @mateor7302
    @mateor7302 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

    My plan is to self delete when/if dementia symptoms start to progress.

    • @robertreynolds580
      @robertreynolds580 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      How will you know?

    • @peggymartin8030
      @peggymartin8030 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@robertreynolds580one will not know if they dementia. Great question!

    • @metalmike570
      @metalmike570 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@robertreynolds580 He's a genius.

  • @cycledelic44
    @cycledelic44 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Life can be brutal, appreciate your thoughts on this.

  • @dargardargar
    @dargardargar 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    For seniors, early dementia can start anytime. It only gets worse from there. No cure, as you say; but you can slow it down, somewhat. Something similar happened to my buddy, a long term resident of Japan. He's fortunate to have a rock-solid partner in his Japanese spouse. Sad your buddy didn't find such a gem. Hope she's held accountable someday.

  • @scott5770
    @scott5770 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great content!!!! Thank you very much for pointing out these kind of realities

  • @philomenamagill700
    @philomenamagill700 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Great content Mark ❤

  • @winpowell1024
    @winpowell1024 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    Dementia is the saddest disease there is. The victim knows what's coming.

  • @robbatayaki5505
    @robbatayaki5505 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    Girls can make you crazy too very quickly 😂😂

    • @metalmike570
      @metalmike570 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      So go to the Philippines and forget them, I guess!!!

  • @Loigis
    @Loigis 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Good topic kuya sir I have seeing xpats go little crazy living in the mountains not able to deal with living there and on a budget

  • @skip2it426-
    @skip2it426- 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great information and insight Mark thanks for sharing 👌🏾👏🏾👍🏾!

  • @kimrichards2436
    @kimrichards2436 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great video mate. Stay safe, greetings from Oz..

  • @hanovergreen4091
    @hanovergreen4091 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Dood! You are the king of downer videos :) But you serve a good purpose. You show people the harsh, unvarnished realities of moving alone to the PI without anyone to help you. Thanks for. the all the good work! Best Regards and Best Wishes!

  • @gobfranklin6759
    @gobfranklin6759 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks Mark for the subject.

  • @frankclements1431
    @frankclements1431 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks for all the good information.

  • @db792
    @db792 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Sir this is good expat material you are sharing with everyone! One day I want to make the move overseas!

  • @GaryC1957
    @GaryC1957 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Good subject that everyone should pay attention to. That’s why it’s important to have at least one close expat friend that has your information and will check on you occasionally. I’ve seen expats partner up with a Filipina and they seem good together but when things gets bad physically or mentally they take advantage of the expat. Many are caring and dependable partners until the end but there are always ones who takes advantage.

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Unfortunately I have to agree with you. Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀

  • @leroyybrown
    @leroyybrown 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Alzheimers worry’s me. I read (sometimes speed-read) as much as I can and also I’m learning a language on DuoLingo mainly to keep my mind sharp.

  • @jabba0975
    @jabba0975 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    If your mind gets loose, you gotta just tighten that thing down again.

    • @metalmike570
      @metalmike570 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I think we should do some exercise, it's good for the brain.

  • @Kimonha
    @Kimonha 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    My mom has dementia; I’ve never seen her happier

    • @metalmike570
      @metalmike570 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I don't get it.

    • @Kimonha
      @Kimonha 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @ she was a tormented woman. Now she doesn’t have a clue what is going on and she’s all smiles under 24 hour 5 star care.

    • @metalmike570
      @metalmike570 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@Kimonha Sorry to hear that. Take care 🙏

  • @stuartloggins3691
    @stuartloggins3691 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    My sister in-law has alshiemers. She's 72. All she can say is where we going....

  • @jetd9716
    @jetd9716 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Lose your mind is the last thing you don't want to be in if your here in the Philippines, but it happens and that could be tragic. Just make sure you have built a system where you have individuals you can count on and trust, like wife, girlfriend or relatives. It could be hard to do though, unless the person is one of a having a holy and well spirited demeanor.

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you for watching and for taking the time to share your thoughts 😊

  • @joedirt9680
    @joedirt9680 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Praying for your Son Brother! Rest in Peace 🙏🙏🙏

  • @seph4667
    @seph4667 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    A frightfulThanksgiving upload, Mark. Life is serious. This topic should serve as a warning to us to make essential changes. Thank you for the bluntness. YIKES.

    • @martinhanley9524
      @martinhanley9524 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      The ocean ends at the shore

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Thank you for watching ☺️

  • @squaredtony
    @squaredtony 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I cant imagine there is anything resembling a memory care facility here

  • @mspino5245
    @mspino5245 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Great advice!

  • @aljorgy2310
    @aljorgy2310 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    You can lose your mind anywhere.....not to worry!

    • @metalmike570
      @metalmike570 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Like Bruce Willis, and it's good his family takes care of him. Lucky if family is
      right there around the clock.

  • @emptynest2travel
    @emptynest2travel 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    How sad. Some people are so sorry for taking advantage of those that are having problems.

  • @jlf2221
    @jlf2221 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I do know that in Thailand there are more and more inexpensive memory care living facilities becoming available. Many appear legitimate, safe, beautiful and at much less than half the cost in USA!

    • @les8518
      @les8518 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      I am retired in Thailand and have seen some of these lovely places on TH-cam.
      They will be cheaper than the US. But they are still not cheap.

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Good information

    • @jlf2221
      @jlf2221 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@les8518 thanks to you Les, I know more about them…good videos you made

  • @garyt7232
    @garyt7232 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Important video. Unfortunately, he trusted the wrong person, and his gf is just taking advantage of him. I would not be surprised if she drained his bank account dry and left him to rot.

  • @TheMuttonHeadDigest
    @TheMuttonHeadDigest 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I see the same curcumstance developing with a Philipina "helper" and expat that helped guide me over here.

  • @sydysydy
    @sydysydy 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    "Loosing" isn't a word.

    • @mancello
      @mancello 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Hopefully he doesn't have dementia😂

    • @dBsound100
      @dBsound100 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks. I came here searching for this. Seriously.

  • @actionator
    @actionator 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great idea for a vid. My dad died from ALZ & I can relate to this topic.

  • @jackdraper2849
    @jackdraper2849 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great for you to do a video like this. I just came from a nursing facility to see someone who is 10 years older than me and has dementia. I don't think he knew who I was. And a year ago he knew me. -- He also has parkinsons. And it's believed that contributed to his getting dementia.

  • @PatDe-zj4et
    @PatDe-zj4et 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks 😊

  • @millionairemoose8114
    @millionairemoose8114 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is a tragedy, and thanks for sharing the mans story to help raise awareness.
    For some reason, though, I do take some comfort in knowing that Mike at one point was an accomplished sailor and that he did indeed own a boat.. at least at one time or another in his life. 🤗

  • @winnerwinnerchickendinner8809
    @winnerwinnerchickendinner8809 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Philippines is in trouble right now with unstable political system. I sure hope it doesn't get out of hands b/w president and vice president

    • @Ghekko-kw3zz
      @Ghekko-kw3zz 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Nothing new there.

  • @jerryG-p3w
    @jerryG-p3w 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The culture and poverty drove me insane. I left and feel a lot better. I feel bad for the locals who have to deal with that their whole lives.

  • @phillipvick6352
    @phillipvick6352 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Family in the Ph takes care of there elderly and in US family sticks them in a nursing home and thats it and knowing from experience my mother was mistreated there,i got one care giver fired for mistreatment because i caught her.

    • @JamesHickman-g5c
      @JamesHickman-g5c 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

      As a foreigner you're never truly family. Elderly abuse is rampant here. That will be the final test: whether or not they truly care or if the relationship is merely transactional.

  • @jlf2221
    @jlf2221 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Important sad thoughts! Thanks for talking about a difficult subject that will unfortunately hit many of us like a ton of bricks. Action to prepare a plan is so important.

  • @wallyg4445
    @wallyg4445 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My lifelong friend is going through that now, and he's younger than i am. He is now in long term care.

  • @jimgauth
    @jimgauth 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I just had my mother visit here to see her grandchildren probably for the last time. Her dementia is starting to take over. I can't convince her to stay where I can take care of her. She has nobody back in the US and will be alone. I tried to teach her keto, but she needs professional help. I doubt she'll get any.

  • @bm5906
    @bm5906 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    "Loosing Your Mind in The Philippines". What is loosing?

  • @albathoughtsofficial
    @albathoughtsofficial 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks for discussing this important topic! Hope guys will take their relationships with Filipinas seriously...You should take your time and try to find someone you can really trust to be your legal wife. Hopefully, you will find this woman... Plenty of good examples of Filipina wives taking good care of their elderly/sick expat husbands on YT. On this Thanksgiving day, bless you all!

  • @Dan-q6v1v
    @Dan-q6v1v 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    His children need to be informed so that they can bring him home. And put him in a care facility in the US.

    • @Ghekko-kw3zz
      @Ghekko-kw3zz 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      If he's got children, if they GAF & then the issue of medical clearance to fly. Need someone with him on the flight.

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I don't think he has any

    • @Ghekko-kw3zz
      @Ghekko-kw3zz 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@everymanhasastory if he's got any military history the local VA contact will know what's possible, there's more help available if he is than if not. Red Cross sometimes pull off some amazing rescues also.

  • @canadiantraveller604
    @canadiantraveller604 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    As seniors get older, the percentage that get Alzheimer's disease increases dramatically, like over 20%, so don't assume that just because you don't have relatives in their 50s and 60s who got it makes you immune. More people need to plan for this than you have alluded to in your video.

    • @ExpatExperts007
      @ExpatExperts007 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You are speaking the truth, bro

  • @stevephillips-gw5wl
    @stevephillips-gw5wl 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Yes, very depressing .

  • @daviddurflinger3104
    @daviddurflinger3104 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I guess we all sleep in the bed we make for ourselves, of course those materialistic women are going to steal everything they have, 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @therainchannel01
    @therainchannel01 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    thanks for posting . and you really have no idea that is happening unless someone tells you

  • @thelookofahero15
    @thelookofahero15 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    With all the poverty going on all over the world right now, it's tough to get by anywhere at the moment. That's why the Philippines is a good option. But if it doesn't work then your done. lol

  • @wrafl
    @wrafl 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Another good post Mark, I worry when that period in my life come. Im getting back there and to be with the woman I love so what I fear is the challebge to face when mental health.

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      It may not happen to you. Diet, exercise and living a stress free lfe can aid in prevention. Also don't smoke

  • @MrSafetyForever
    @MrSafetyForever 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Subject matter of relevance to all of us as we age. Take Care

  • @platoon1081
    @platoon1081 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Spell check on the title?

  • @NoComplience
    @NoComplience 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    How is it u spell lose correctly in the thumbnail but then spell it as loosing in the title.

    • @metalmike570
      @metalmike570 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Whoever spelt it, smelt it.

  • @ZobliSkye
    @ZobliSkye 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Mark please you can help him right away just contact to a local DSWD right away now so the wife she can get accountable of her actions

  • @AndiditLove
    @AndiditLove 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Whats the cause of his death?

  • @tonywatson5704
    @tonywatson5704 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    A bit of a downer video but needs to be said. Thanks Mark.

  • @NeilBaker-n4u
    @NeilBaker-n4u 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Keep a bottle of nitrogen handy.

  • @malvin-l6s
    @malvin-l6s 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    RIP

  • @thebiffer100
    @thebiffer100 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Mark, do you EVER smile?

  • @HWYHUSTLA
    @HWYHUSTLA 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That’s heavy

  • @dstyles997
    @dstyles997 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Mark, sounds like there's some serious political turmoil over there- be very careful.

  • @에반젤린브이텔로
    @에반젤린브이텔로 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    IN BISAYA MARK MABUANG MENTAL CRISIS BREAK DOWN ❤❤

  • @Ghekko-kw3zz
    @Ghekko-kw3zz 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Any obvious serious issues noticed by airport staff- they will demand a medical clearance certificate to fly. Only way he gets back is with hands on help

  • @villaoceanblue
    @villaoceanblue 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Please correct the title. Common error but……

  • @BradleyTrieloff
    @BradleyTrieloff 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Loosing?

  • @MJC_2112
    @MJC_2112 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    *Losing

  • @heywardhamilton9612
    @heywardhamilton9612 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Happy Thanksgiving Mark an Family

  • @PaulsPhilippineAdventures
    @PaulsPhilippineAdventures 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I would suggest a medical power of attorney and a durable power of attorney for financial management at the very least. That way you can choose someone ahead of time to handle things. There are local attorneys that can assist with this.

    • @everymanhasastory
      @everymanhasastory  28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Great advice 👍 Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀

  • @betterbeats7165
    @betterbeats7165 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Loosing? I think you meant losing. 😅

  • @andreasvoegeli6239
    @andreasvoegeli6239 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Very depressing

  • @robertkolleck1508
    @robertkolleck1508 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Who would a person trust with their finances beside their wife in the Philippines? You can't even trust somone to watch your house for a few months and upon return finding out the people had a party every weekend with 50 people over and your CRs are a shambles due to overuse.

  • @tropicshade
    @tropicshade 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You lost me at "Tuk Tuk." You're in the wrong country!

  • @SoupNazi-x2o
    @SoupNazi-x2o 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Check into the nursing home 🏡 there

    • @anneb3170
      @anneb3170 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      There’s no nursing home in the Philippines

    • @MarkDoe-lg1kp
      @MarkDoe-lg1kp 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@anneb3170incorrect there are more and more homes being opened. They are often foreign managed and u can get quality care for a fraction of the cost of the west

    • @jimhuerta9038
      @jimhuerta9038 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@anneb3170ya, all their nurses are too busy working in the USA