Desperate for Help
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ต.ค. 2024
- The plaintiff says she’s been addicted to crack cocaine for over 20 years, and she’s desperate to get her life on track. The plaintiff loaned her brother money, but he allegedly failed to pay her back, so the plaintiff is suing. The defendant insists the plaintiff needs help, and he claims he has given the plaintiff money more times than he can count.
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One thing about JM, he's going to shame you before he helps you. To be fair, sweet talking and coddling them probably has not helped them, especially when they've been addicted for long periods of time. I feel like they know what they're signing up for but damn. I really hope the post-show assistance is worth the humiliation.
I take my hat off to the plaintiff for trynna turn her life around i pray she gets on the straight and narrow, she seems genuine
She is a vibe she’s doing great
@@paulacole685 you know her? Let her know we rooting for her in the comment section if you do.
@@opulence_prime I surely will I’m about to message her now
That Queen-Sister has been through it!!
To be on crack for 30 years has messed with her mental. She had a hard time possibly remembering things. I don't feel she was lying.
I do wish her well because she appears to be very genuine.
i love that they have a good relationship
@@rondaallen7211 Absolutely.
That comment is totally emotion led and that’s good we as humans have that sensory ❤. But until you (we) have the correct response towards people who have addiction it look’s outwardly that the Judge is showing no compassion towards her. 1st hand experience not an expert my addicted loved ones that whom are not ready to commit to the change are willing to say any and everything to Gloss it up to get THEIR OWN need meet. In her case $150 come on now make it make sense. She could have started out by saying I’ve been addicted to crack for 30 yrs and hurt my loved ones and with my struggles I faced with smoking crack I couldn’t be a productive and so on and so forth. Trust me they know what they be doing and I do pray that one day she’ll commit wholeheartedly but that’s the choice she really has to have in her heart❤. But to say the Judge is unfair isn’t cool you do know he hears that same story ova and ova again
@@andreawashington5430 I didn't say JM was unfair at all. I love his 'tough love' approach to litigants.
Yes she did make the choices she made and trying to come back to folks she has hurt is definitely going to be a hard road to travel. I also know she could have a lotta con in her too.
Observing I just felt her memory of events were faulty because of her use of crack for so long.
Yeah she seems to be honest about herself and really wants help. She has a good chance she can recover and be productive because of that.
Happy MLK Day Everyone! The Plaintiff really needs some help! She’s all over the place! Judge Mathis is not playing today!
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Yeah she's not in a good place and is just saying things that aren't adding up.
Happy MLK day Karen!!!
Happy MLK day to you as well
Same to you! And I hope she gets the help she needs.
I pray she can be free from the bondage of drug addiction and wish her success in her recovery.
Amen
Amen!
Amen.
It is so. Amen 🙏🏾
Thanks
JM was not in the mood on this day. She stood no chance.
I love JM and believe in tough love, however, he was rude, disrespectful and unsympathetic. He is not a mental health specialist or physician. Anyone can see, and do a little research about the effects of crack cocaine, it is debilitating and what is does to brain is scary. So clearly she has memory loss which is why she is speaking slowly tying to recollect. Not okay with his behavior. I pray she receives the help she needs and lives a productive happy life. ❤
but she won
@@MsTiamaria25 exactly
Cuz she's full of shyt
A judge insinuating "snitching" is crazy. He wants to be cool so bad 🤦🏾♂️.
That was his way of getting him to tell him why of “the whatever”
He really came back from the pandemic with a different yet crazy/ bi-polar energy. I think he poppin some really strong percocets
This is the judge tell other black men to stay away from crime and those that commit crimes because they will snitch on you for less time. No problem with that. Save the youth forget about this lost grown failures
Actually all lawyers don’t promote snitching and a lot of judges will tell you not to snitch to hurt your case… it’s only the police and prosecutors who wants you to snitch to build a case.. judges and lawyers don’t care if you do or don’t snitch
Everyone appears to be high, even JM! 😂
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Perfect example of the judge thinking he knows more than he does smh
Agreed
Always!!!!! Like stfu sometimes & listen!!
As much as I love me some JM I totally agree with you
👍 right swear he hood and down with the lingo
What else is new? As usual.
It ain’t over til God says it over keep on fighting lady
I don’t believe she’s lazy I think she lacks confidence and is afraid to fail. Sometimes it is also hard to ask for help. Tough love does not work on everyone. She could barely understand the questions. She clearly needs motivation and guidance.
Her addiction made her lazy and took her confidence… She said she was lazy
I personally don’t believe in tough love because I find it to be demeaning and demoralizing. I be seeing litigants feeling powerless, voiceless and down.
@@judgeholder8112 exactly. It’s important to recognize the difference.
@@opulence_prime That’s right. Have a good 1. 😁😁😁.
@@andreawashington5430 lack of confidence and laziness are two different things. People use words incorrectly every day.
How judge asking her questions and keeps interrupting so annoying!
Sometimes when I hear JM talking like that it’s rubs me wrong but also being a former drug dealer and knowing what I know she needed that strong approach. As long JM mixes it with helping her. The fight she’s up against is not going to be slack on her either.
@@devinporter7696 So true. I hear you on that. Although I enjoy Judge Mathis' show, he seems to interrupt people on a regular basis, even when they are not addicts/ex-addicts or even when those who come to his courtroom don't need his help with anything. Lol. He seems to just simply be in a bad mood or having a bad day, sometimes, but hey, he's human & we all make mistakes & have bad days, so he's still okay with me. 😊
He be tripping people up and jumping to conclusions. I don’t like it at all. I’m a stop binge watching his show because he be getting on my nerves. Late people’s court Judge Joseph Albert wapner wasn’t like that at all. He was very kind and gentle. He’d never tripped nobody up or jumped to conclusions.
@@judgeholder8112 that sounds like a remedy to your dissatisfaction. I stopped going to the Burger King closest to my house because they had horrible service and go 3 miles out of the way when I want a Whopper.
@@PHILDR85 I understand
The fact that he owe the crack head money is crazy to me 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️😂😂😂😂
Because Little do you know not all crackheads are like the one you see on TV a lot of them are functithing addicts. My Government and economics teacher in 12th grd was a crackhead..and was never late or absent the only reason how I know he did crack is because his dealer lived in my apartments
He owes her the money she borrowed from him a few weeks before their hearing. She basically admitted it at the end.
The plaintiff looks so pretty and admirable inspite of her state. Praying her all the best.
Wtf? This judge has no business talking about “snitching “ smh
Ok! That was my comment!
Why? He met the defendant right where he's at...and u see that loosened the defendant up enough to spill some deets...
Why not?
I'm all about the tough love, but JM has to learn when to back off. Sometimes, placing too much pressure on a person does nothing but incite them to tell you what they think you want to hear. A person's testimony, especially when it's filled with trauma, may not always make complete sense to the listener, but you still have to be supportive.
He be tripping people up and jumping to conclusions. I don’t like it at all. I’m a stop binge watching his show because he be getting on my nerves. Late people’s court Judge Joseph Albert wapner wasn’t like that at all. He was very kind and gentle. He’d never tripped nobody up or jumped to conclusions.
I personally don’t believe in tough love because i find it to be too harsh and cruel. I be seeing other people feeling demeaned and demoralized by it.
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And this is why what goes around comes around....Look at what's happening to him now.
@@miss_princess_lily True.
She was trying to say the rehab she went to focused on meth and maybe wasn’t as helpful as if they were targeting her specific addiction
If I can just remind the Judge that she is still on the stuff. She’s probably struggling to keep all these questions straight.
Wow JM insinuating that man was a snitch on national television.
Judge ain’t playing
Do u watch the case on a flip phone smh it’s clearly makes sense tho.u can’t say they drop a case like that if the gun have a body on it smh 🤦♂️ yah people be too emotional I swear
Judge Mathis was so rough on her she clearly need and want help. She looks really good. Case was dragged on for no reason.
The woman behind the plaintiff looks great. Seeing her change is good to see. Good for her. 👍
Who is she?
@@lendalouissaint114one of JM’s employees.
I did notice that she looks skinnier She was pretty before but she looks healthy now
She looks like a whole different person. Congratulations if you are reading this.
I saw her in today's episode, and at first, I thought she was a different lady because she dyed her hair a dark brown and is so thin now! I've been noticing the difference, but wow, she looks fantastic! Great job on getting healthy!! 👏🏼 ❤️
The plaintiff is beautiful. I hope she gets herself together.
Her brain is gone. Praying for her🙏🏾🙏🏾
I don't think she was ever clean, besides when she was imprisoned. Her brain is absolutely fried, and she's high right then. I'm surprised he didn't call her out on it.
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I don’t even think my girl knew what she was laughing at…😂
Laughing her ahh off tryna keep the heat off herself 😂😂
@@shelocsher2396 😂😂😂
21:37 Brother: "I think I just gave her $150 maybe even $200 two weeks ago at a party" ... Sister: "We ain't gone talk about that" 🤔
👍 RIGHT, SO TECHNICALLY HE SHOULDNT HAVE TO PAY A HIS SIS A DIME .. OR SHOULD I SAY JM ACCOUNTANTS CUZ I THINK THEY CUT THE CHECK FOR ...WINNERS OF THE CASE/S .
She seems like a sweet woman who just happens to be slow and the drug addiction has made it worse. She really doesn't catch on quick to things, on top of that she's nervous. I wish her well.
That’s my sister, trust me it’s her nerves
@Dohsia King Doh I wish her well. She seems sweet. She had a rough life and the drugs didn't help.
This boy… the judge is mad at her for wanting to change her life around.
He doesn’t enjoy helping people, he enjoys playing hero! 🌹❤🙏🏽congratulations to her for wanting better for herself and taking steps towards changing her life around🙏🏽♥️🌹
Hope the best for these 2 love peace prosperity good health🙏🙏🙏
That’s a crackhead move suing someone for 150 😂
JM thinks he knows it all and doesn’t instead of him listening he assumes he’s not that good you can tell how he just jumps to the little things
He loves jumping to conclusions and act kike he hood as hell. He’s such an activist/ gangsta/ judge sometimes he do too much
@@anthonyhunt7667 lol yes you nailed it !!
If the sister is a crackhead the brother is definitely on perks or something-
On the for real, I think judge Mathis came back after the pandemic using some sting perks! He can be so bi-polar on some of his shows it makes viewers feel down right uncomfortable
That’s why the sister said we both got to get our life back on track.
Judge Mathis doesn’t take into consideration the individual person he’s speaking with. He was rude and indignant with her thinking she’s not accountable but in reality she’s not articulate enough to understand what he’s asking. She just simply didn’t understand his questions.
He doesn't respect drug addicts
That’s not what indignant means. She’s asking for help for free. He has to make sure she’s ready for it. I don’t see it as rude. She understood when she made sure to clear up that she does see ways that she hurt her kids. No real mention of them at all until he brought it up and suing her brother for 150$. Smh
The Plaintiff is clearly trying to get help it seems and she is not denying her addiction. However, JM has to be aware that if a Person is still in active addiction they do not "follow -thru" with most things . Not to mention clearly her mind isn't "clear" so I'm not sure why JM is taking this " tough" love approach with her . What more evidence is needed beyond her admitting wanting and needing help. 🤔
Right, people are acting like drug treatment is free they probably will need to shell out 20k to 50k and people are mad at him for asking questions.
He asked her about what she was doing while not in active addiction, tho.
@@MC-ex2gs There is no such thing as not being in "Active Addiction" Addicts are and will always be an Addict whether they are "Using " or Not that is why many people attend NA or AA meetings in an effort to remain sober and gain acceptance.
@@beutibymimi3245 As a layperson, active implies she’d currently be using, no? If she wasn’t actually using, I think that’s what he was getting at. What had she done towards her goals at that time. I get she could have been going to meetings and dealing with that, of course.
@@MC-ex2gs I get what you are saying in "lay man's terms " However, the truth is ... No person with" Addictive Behavior" makes cognitive and clear decisions immediately whether they are "using substance" or "Clean" It takes time through process of becoming sober in every aspect. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and I hope all that read this gain a bit of knowledge to help them to better understand "Addiction" . There is more to learn always...
I’m glad that she brought up that the rehabs were only talking about meth. Notice how since one of the biggest failures in the black family started when they brought crack into our neighborhoods, they didn’t care, but now that their children are being effected by meth, they want to push the meth lectures at the rehabs. It all makes sense. Smh
Yes, their daughters and sons are being effected by opioids and meth, they weren't bothered when it was on the other side of the tracks where the crack and heroin was... now it's a "real national crisis" they say 😉
@@PHILDR85 RIGHT!! My point exactly 💯
All the ppl going in on judge Mathis I feel like y'all don't understand his tactics. I have many addicts in my family and this is what they do!! They play on our heart string and don't follow thru. However I believe she is honest but can't articulate herself properly. She has to have a true plan and stay committed! They all say these same things but if they don't understand how they hurt ppl it's hard to believe they will get to the root of the issues and empathize with the family they hurt....I pray she recovers!! God bless her and her family 🙏🏾
My mom was an addict and JM do too much at times it don’t take all that!
This woman melts my heart 🥰
Wonder if he found out she did go to jail for 2 years over flip flops and Tshirt would he apologize?
Right but, She should’ve just said it was becuz she Already had a warrant which she said but he didn’t catch it.
Also, the Defendant seems like he is on something as well. Why wasn't that addressed?
This comment was made before the verdict was given. I knew it though... I'm speculating by what else could the Plaintiff have meant when she said he need to get his life together just like me.
He's always on Xanax or coke
She didn't have no tears just making noise. Lol but im happy she trying to get help 😁
Yeah exactly
Damn judge you are going to make her relapse relapse relapse 😂
Happy MLK day.. A wonderful day of service and ❤
He was definitely an asshole to her I don't like this episode
He be tripping people up and jumping to conclusions. I don’t like it at all. I’m a stop binge watching his show because he be getting on my nerves. Late people’s court Judge Joseph Albert wapner wasn’t like that at all. He was very kind and gentle. He’d never tripped nobody up or jumped to conclusions.
@@judgeholder8112 right
@@briancabaltimore6718 🤗🤗🤗🫂🫂🫂.
Glorilla got 3yrs for stealing cereal so 6yrs for flip-flops & a t-shirt I can believe it
Lmaaaao what?! Where you heard this?
@@KennyNationTV that's what I want to know lol
@@latasha195 😂😂 people be saying ANYTHING lol
There's a vid of her saying it herself
@@KennyNationTV😂 do they mean three year’s probation
This episode made me uncomfortable for everyone involved... sheesh
Yes damn I wanted it to be over before it started lmao
When he said did you say flip flops I screamed I love JM 😂😂
My mother has been on crack cocaine for over 40+ years. I'm 40 years old and she's still on it! Its not easy for some people to let it go,, they can temporary and have that relapse. I pray some day my mother gets right! she's in her late 50's.. But I can tell u one thing she has angel watching over her! I thank God she's alive, but while she's here she's damaging her self. Prayer changes things,,, and I know God will change this evil drug from here spirit. #adaughtersloveforhermom
Believe God for it!! Trust in Him, He is a God of healing, he's a God of deliverance,he's a God of redemption and He never has a bad day trust and believe in Him my friend. He's never lost a battle. Sending prayers and healing energy to you and your mother.
@@PHILDR85 thank u for the encouraging words
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Judge Mathis just needs to shut up sometimes!!! His knowledge can definitely be a blessing. His knowledge cannot be disputed!! At the same time,it can be a curse and hindrance if he always feels he knows everything about all addicts.!! People can change their minds. Ok,this lady was home CLEAN for 12 years and didn't get her GED. Doesn't mean that she didn't get TIRED and change her mind. AND.. She seemed very open to discuss her life. She wasn't combative etc. Although she seemed confused at moments. I wish her healing and the absolute best. Shut up Greg!!🤣
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Seriously.
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I agree
He be tripping people up and jumping to conclusions. I don’t like it at all. I’m a stop binge watching his show because he be getting on my nerves. Late people’s court Judge Joseph Albert wapner wasn’t like that at all. He was very kind and gentle. He’d never tripped nobody up or jumped to conclusions.
So JM is talking to her directly because addicts can't focus, so you have to take a straight sobering approach and talk facts. Keep as much focus as possible on what they're experiencing.
Exactly ‼️
Idk bout yall but I was sooooo confused by the plaintiff on the beginning
From the VERY beginning, she had me confused.
That’s because she is confused 😬
Because he was going against everything she said off rip..
Crackhead Ways Fully Activated 😂😂😂
Judge is fly today! He looking as good as Mrs. Mathis. 😊 Haircut on point!
Happy Monday y’all!
He would be a better judge if he’d listen more instead of always trying to put his two sense in or trying to make someone out to be a liar. He’s use to being in front of an audience and cameras…most litigants aren’t so it’s understandable that they will be nervous. In my opinion of course.
Seen to me he put more of feelings into cases instead of the law🤷🏽♀️
He be tripping people up and jumping to conclusions. I don’t like it at all. I’m a stop binge watching his show because he be getting on my nerves. Late people’s court Judge Joseph Albert wapner wasn’t like that at all. He was very kind and gentle. He’d never tripped nobody up or jumped to conclusions.
@@judgeholder8112, exactly! He’s too worried about the cameras and not the litigants.
@@naturalvirgolady6547 i strongly agree with you!
Exactly, his latest shows after he came back from pandemic he on some im more hood than you energy! I think he on some strong perks or dope
Judge Mathis really thinks he was such a gangsta & a kingpin In his day. He wasn’t nothing & only did 9 months & then became a whole judge. He ain’t no where NEAR as hard as he thinks he is.
Exactly!
Thank you girl! We know he seems so jealous all the guys that come in that were in the streets -he was a purse snatcher that went to juvie for nine months- Back when he was like 16- he is damn a 70 years old &can’t let that go
Somebody seems to be kinda salty.
Lmao I always think about this, lol
@@coolmoneymitch1046 🤣savaaaaaage
Are they still high 😂😂😂😂
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Low IQ individuals.
Right! Everybody seems a little off during this case!
Judge was rough on her. She obviously needs help and I feel she's genuine about her wanting to be clean. She may not be able to mentally stay with the judge, but I heard her say she own her home and kept a job so she obviously is willing to work hard. Best wishes to her.
The plaintiff needs some help there. The defendant as well so hopefully they'll both get it
i love this case brothers and sisters should get along😌
This makes me sick….he wanna help these NIGGAS get help but downing the black woman. Talking over her the whole time.
I liked these two! I hope she got the help she needed and stayed clean
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Judge didn’t ask his infamous question..are you high today? She’s certainly off today.
She might just be slow.
@@wadilotus good point.
She’s not high it’s long term use making her slow
I would like to see Judge mathis do an update on all those ppl he sent get help
She went back to 6 years mad time , judge Mathis trying not to loose his cool 😂🤦🏾♀️
Sis, let God break the bonds that bind you. 🙏
Judge Mathis seems to be unfairly angry. I feel sorry for the lady. This is hard to watch.
He knows how these crack heads be. They say anything to get what they want .. that's they whole life, especially with it still in their system .
He just wakes up on the wrong side of the bed sometimes. He went in on the lady who is obviously not too bright and then nervous about being interrogated on top of that. I would hate to be Mathis' wife.
He be tripping people up and jumping to conclusions. I don’t like it at all. I’m a stop binge watching his show because he be getting on my nerves. Late people’s court Judge Joseph Albert wapner wasn’t like that at all. He was very kind and gentle. He’d never tripped nobody up or jumped to conclusions.
As a 34 yr old recoved addict Judge is gonna have to give her a break and listen to her. Put her in rehab for 6 months to a yr. Its hard to get clean and STAY CLEAN. I think he wanted her to say she will go to meetings daily
Irrespective of the outcome of this case I think JM was too unsympathetic towards the Plaintiff. He literally badgered her throughout the entire case. He was way too hard on her for no reason! He really needs his audience back because this setting clearly affects his mood and it usually determines how he treats the litigants and who ends up the victor. He needs to chill yo!! :(
I’m sorry but Judge was very over the top with her. I feel like she is taking accountability and truly wants help
I'm sure the defendant lost clients if he pulled up with that shape up!
Lol
She wants the money now to pay for her addiction. 16 days is just enough for getting 1 pay check to pay priority bills smh
This !!!
Ouch... this one is cold
Why didn’t the defendant bring up the fact he gave her money at a party… 💀
Judge Mathis is the goat! He gone tell you the truth
He always said that he helps people who admit that they need it. He is not right on this one. He owes her an apology
I think he did give her help and resources but needed to hold her accountable as well
@@shefw_kaiden5190 I agree, but she was not hiding anything and asked for help. I think that she beat herself and others up enough.... This was overkill....
You kweenz are above criticism lol
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JM was trying to hold her accountable. Also help her see the difference between dreams and goals. To achieve goals, you need a plan. She need to make a plan and follow through on herself. You can't love yourself if you would put that poison in your body.
I knew they were related with those matching slurs.
why he so focused on the crack don’t shame her we all fall short! 🙏🏾♥️
My goodness, 4 minutes in and we haven't gotten to what she suing for.
I love Judge G.M. and I can truly appreciate him holding people accountable, but sometimes he just doesn’t listen. The lady was trying to tell him that she was on the run for a drug charge when she got arrested for the petty theft.
I really don’t know how she got confused about doing 2,3 or 6 years in prison. But I really wish he would listen more.
They seem like that cool Auntie / Uncle couple that the kids love hanging with
She's high now, clearly. This is painful to watch.
Over 10 minutes of this was about her and the addiction... I almost forgot what the case was about 😭 but I said that to say his demeanor was hard but he never rushed her when she talked he seemed to care more bout her then the case once he saw she was frfr wanting help...I watch to much JM😭
i feel like she laughing a little bit too hard 💀 like ma’am we ain’t forget about you
JM thinks he knows everything! 😒😒
$150? Lol, this wouldn't have even gotten to a real court...
At least she's trying!
Praying for her 🙏
Can't keep her story straight, credibility shot.
She actually acting Crackish right now! Ma'am you are still on crack...mouth churning...Chile Boo!💯💯😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love her outfit
She’s beautiful! She wants to do better and I believe her ❤❤❤❤❤😢😢
I know JM knows the law! I have to say Tulsa has some serious judicial reprimand. High court costs and penalties. Not saying she's right, but Tulsa is a city you drive through and don't stop!
Praying for the powers of the universe cover over judge Mattis head ..strenghten him ..protect him and bless him ..also his family ...🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲👀👀👀👀
She had A Lot goin' ON.
15:00 - 18:10 I DIED
Judge Mathis is ignorant sometimes!!
He be tripping people up and jumping to conclusions. I don’t like it at all. I’m a stop binge watching his show because he be getting on my nerves. Late people’s court Judge Joseph Albert wapner wasn’t like that at all. He was very kind and gentle. He’d never tripped nobody up or jumped to conclusions.