The audacity for him to call her ugly.....he is all in his feminine energy. He's bitter asf. She needs better communication skills. If she had not fumbled her words and what she was explaining so much, she may have had a better outcome with JM. Dude is absolutely not happy with his current wife, he dosent look happy with himself 🙁
Let’s not act like that man is not “Charles” from Diary of a Mad Black Woman😂 i believe the defendant when she says he’s always been degrading towards her. Saying you” ain’t satisfied” in RESPONSE to HIS derogatory language is not equal. He’s fake, his persona is for show and by those messages is most likely the type to put a divorce on FB and narcissistic enough to be jealous of a child.
I don’t think RThomas doesn’t mean it in that way. One can say, this video demonstrate how marriage isn’t all sunshine and rainbows. It takes a lot of work from both parties. But I could be wrong :)
It's an example of THEIR failures and nothing more. My marriage is healthy and Loving and we dated the right way. I can't speak for these people and they're not the spokes people for Marriage.
Don't look for a reason not to be married. She just married the wrong guy and he married the wrong lady . This money thing will always be a deal breaker. Men stop coming in 50/50. If you are 100 percent mam be 100 percent .keep on being modern. There is nothing new under the sun
As judge Mablean says, " Gotta LOOK DEEP before U LEEP" Thank goodness not ALL relationships & marriages R like these horrible cases. Choose the right person & it's GLORIOUS choose the wrong person & it's HELL on earth, but it still your choice!!!!
She responds well. If you know what I mean. Two shopperholics dressed in black like they're moaning the absence of money. Why do one parent keeps saying "mah son" ( my son) instead of our son?
Big bald bully and if he DID marry the woman he cheated on her with that won't work out as well. You can tell he's used to being in charge and she challenged that.
Some men with emotional issues will be jealous of the emotional attention thier wives give to the children. That's a mommy issue to be worked out with a therapist.
Or vice-versa, no co-parent should talk down on the other parent, especially around the children because they are essentially talking about the child who is both parents. Selfish parents don't even realize when you down talk the other parent, you might as well down talk your child.
Idk JM. “you’re not happy with your wife” in response to him berating her like that doesn’t seem like an equal verbal exchange, to me 😭 She was being VERY nice cause bayyyyybeeeeeeeee 😂 she better than me!
This is so disheartening. People forget the “for better or worse” part of the vows. So much back and forth. Bottom line-they don’t like each other and we’ll never know who’s at fault. This falls under the adage there are 3 sides to every story-your side, my side, and the truth.
Ok, I think she responded to his bashing her and feeling it was justified, not realizing it would hurt her case, like a lot of litigants. People need to learn from these cases, if someone does this to you, do not respond by doing the same. Simply ask them to stop or ignore... This man is a low down dirty and insecure man.
Money was definitely the key in this marriage because it dont look like she would talk to him at all and I believe him when he said they she love to spend his money. Money make people blind and make ugly people look good.🤣
It always fascinates me when people choose to hate a single person when divorced couples come on TV. By default, they often hate each other and paint the other person as a monster. Differentiated people look at the facts, realize they're biased, and don't judge them based on what they say. But many people are hurt and damaged and watch these shows to reinforce their hate for the opposite gender.
No your a dumbazz her name and address is on the bill my side hustle is collections like the judge said you call collections and we will tell you how much has been paid and who paid it. I can get clients info from 5 years of address of where they lived all I need is your social for me to give you ANY information you need about a bill.
I’m sorry. Marriage isn’t perfect by no means and might not be for everybody but majority of people who denounce marriage is because they picked stupidly and then say that’s marriage. No, you picked a clown and went to the circus. Not marriage.
Them acting disrespectful to one another doesn't put fear in me to get married, I still want to get married one day. It's all in how you treat one another everyone's marriage is different. Put god first and let everything fall into place. RESPECT IS THE KEY
I actually was attracted to one of my coworkers until I saw his red flags 🚩 he has very controlling ways and told me that he don’t let women cook in his kitchen he won’t kiss you romantically just a peck on the forehead or cheek . He says when he has sex he wants to be on top cause he’s the man and he’ll cook in his kitchen and he will control what goes on in the bedroom. Needless to say I’m no longer attracted to him and glad I dodged that bullet.. the man on here reminds me of him . Controlling behavior.
How the hell u get the same vibes from dude if the plaintiff was like ur coworker she wouldn't be able to have a spending problem or he wouldn't have agreed to counseling u probably still let him hit
They were married 10 yrs and had 2 kids but neither has any respect for the other. They're both tryna make each other look bad but the truth is it's irrelevant. They're creating unecessary problems just pay the dang bills. Both need to grow TF up.
i know splitting stuff when waiting and dealing with insurance can be difficult 😞 🙄she doesn’t have to give him money pay the doctors office half of whatever . keep your receipt. its an app to for those who can’t hold respectful convos
WOW!! That statement, if u were on fire i wouldn't piss on u?!...maybe I missed the part where the kids are hizzz too...who get's jealous of their own kids?...bc the mother is spending more time with them.
Council before the marriage... sometimes a seasoned counselor will take 6 to 12 months of counseling before he approve the marriage. The most important thing the couple learn during the sessions is that the marriage is ordained by God... which is the only foundation gives the marriage a chance. She's adorable... man what's wrong with you...
She lead with being a victim in hopes the facts of the case wouldn't matter. How don't you know what the bills are when they are mailed DIRECTLY to you? She's mad he re-married and moved on. Hope they can atleast coparent for the kid(s).
Exactly. And with that type of bitter, obsessive, childish attitude she has, no men will ever want her. She will always be a single mom & she will be forever single, alone, miserable & lonely until the day she dies. I am glad the plaintiff has moved on from the nightmare.
My ex wife has my 2 boys. She has nothing to worry about with them cause a man is responsible and the head! A body can't control without the head and your wife and kids are the body of you man!
They are both petty, irresponsible liars. They come across as if they hate each other more than they love their children. 😔 So busy trying to hurt the other person they ruined their credit even more and, most important, they're hurting the children. Growup and stop being salty!
I love how audience only gasped when she said how he put it on fb but when he said she bankrupt them because of her shopping addiction there was no reaction. I love how the world now a days (n America ) is programmed to just be on woman’s side
Not him calling somebody "ugly" 😂🙄... Sir, allow me to introduce you to a mirror...
For real 😂😂😂
😹😹😹 #EXACTLY he has some nerve!
He looks like a Milk Dud.
@@chancest.thomas5160 lol
As long as he got money him being ugly not gonna matter to y’all lol
She's a beautiful queen may she find happiness from someone who appreciates her
someone with more money she can spend all day
She needs me😘🥰
The audacity for him to call her ugly.....he is all in his feminine energy. He's bitter asf. She needs better communication skills. If she had not fumbled her words and what she was explaining so much, she may have had a better outcome with JM. Dude is absolutely not happy with his current wife, he dosent look happy with himself 🙁
Off topic but that honey color complements her so much 😍
She's gorgeous 😍
It really does
Lol my eyes kept going to her hair color
Yeh it's looks real good nice color
I love the color of her hair
Let’s not act like that man is not “Charles” from Diary of a Mad Black Woman😂 i believe the defendant when she says he’s always been degrading towards her. Saying you” ain’t satisfied” in RESPONSE to HIS derogatory language is not equal. He’s fake, his persona is for show and by those messages is most likely the type to put a divorce on FB and narcissistic enough to be jealous of a child.
He looks dead on him too😂
I literally came here to say this!! 😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣
I SWEAR I THOUGHT THE SAME THING ! He looks a bit like him too 😂
period
I’m hollering 😂😂😂
People make relationships complicated both man and woman are to blame for fail relationships we need to do better
This is a message to all the women who think marriage is everything. If this an example of what to expect, I'll take my time
U must be black , ain’t nobody tryna to marry yall
You can’t possibly think all marriages are like this
I don’t think RThomas doesn’t mean it in that way. One can say, this video demonstrate how marriage isn’t all sunshine and rainbows. It takes a lot of work from both parties.
But I could be wrong :)
It's an example of THEIR failures and nothing more. My marriage is healthy and Loving and we dated the right way. I can't speak for these people and they're not the spokes people for Marriage.
Don't look for a reason not to be married. She just married the wrong guy and he married the wrong lady . This money thing will always be a deal breaker. Men stop coming in 50/50. If you are 100 percent mam be 100 percent .keep on being modern. There is nothing new under the sun
"the way he talks to me", girl just pay the bill.
😂😂right
@@TeePalmer ¹qaqq😊a qq qqq
These kinds of cases are the most informative to me about the pitfalls of a relationship and marriage.
Yup, but you have to take the bitter with the sweet, and work diligently towards the relationship you want. Or, stay single forever 💁🏾♀️
We're all safe. Stay an incel.
@@higher_pwr8178 😂
As judge Mablean says, " Gotta LOOK DEEP before U LEEP" Thank goodness not ALL relationships & marriages R like these horrible cases. Choose the right person & it's GLORIOUS choose the wrong person & it's HELL on earth, but it still your choice!!!!
@@higher_pwr8178 Exactly. Lmao
Bro you got divorced then put yourself back in the same situation 🤦🏾♂️
She responds well. If you know what I mean.
Two shopperholics dressed in black like they're moaning the absence of money.
Why do one parent keeps saying "mah son" ( my son) instead of our son?
Whatever you don't like about a co-parent will magnify when you split. Choose wisely.
Don't let this case define marriage as a whole. I don't have these problems and I'm going on 20 years married!
🎉🎉🎉
Who would let any show define marriage?
Lawd, I’m so glad I’m single.
ME TOO 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
Me too sometimes lol 😆 😅 😂
FACTS‼️‼️‼️
So peaceful
Absolutely💯🙌🏿
He does seem like a bitter man. Sucks she wasted 10yrs of her life with him.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Rightttt
Big bald bully and if he DID marry the woman he cheated on her with that won't work out as well. You can tell he's used to being in charge and she challenged that.
That's straight up facts
Some men with emotional issues will be jealous of the emotional attention thier wives give to the children. That's a mommy issue to be worked out with a therapist.
Best not to call your BM names. You will regret it later.
Thank You 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
Or vice-versa, no co-parent should talk down on the other parent, especially around the children because they are essentially talking about the child who is both parents. Selfish parents don't even realize when you down talk the other parent, you might as well down talk your child.
So you get divorced & get yourself right back into a marriage smh
Ain’t no way the new wife would be on my dental insurance. They don’t even have an amicable relationship
Idk JM. “you’re not happy with your wife” in response to him berating her like that doesn’t seem like an equal verbal exchange, to me 😭
She was being VERY nice cause bayyyyybeeeeeeeee 😂 she better than me!
This is so disheartening. People forget the “for better or worse” part of the vows. So much back and forth. Bottom line-they don’t like each other and we’ll never know who’s at fault. This falls under the adage there are 3 sides to every story-your side, my side, and the truth.
They are both at fault. Nobody is innocent in a divorce.
Exactly what I posted... my ex wife or kids call me imma break every bone in my body to make sure their straight
This is sad. They're both acting like children because of their bad financial management.
Wow....she incriminated herself with her own evidence.
Ok, I think she responded to his bashing her and feeling it was justified, not realizing it would hurt her case, like a lot of litigants. People need to learn from these cases, if someone does this to you, do not respond by doing the same. Simply ask them to stop or ignore...
This man is a low down dirty and insecure man.
@@angelmac5380 Right!
she’s not the brightest cat in the litterbox
@@urbanchangewithin624 she clearly married a low down insecure bully. He'll get his...
@@angelmac5380 really
"Motherscooter" took me out. I haven't heard that since watching poorly censored movies on BET back in the day.
That mother trucker !
The amount of wasted toxic energy,I was drained just listening!
I’m so grateful I don’t have to live my life with this type of bs
Same here!!! 💯💯💯
Well, they both have issues! So sad the babies have to deal with!!
Lady pay the bill, it’s your kids as well😂😂
These marriages looking more and more like a piece of paper everyday.
Because that's exactly what they are. Just contacts. God wasn't matter so why do we have to?
Sadly.
Why did she say my child? She made it seem like it was a side baby or something.
She's very trife😬
I know right
Because inside that’s how she really feels about it
They believe all children from relationships belong to women and not men. The way some of them see it they carried it for 9 months.
Exactly. It should be our child.
Keep your paperwork in order fellas!
Shout out to the Honorable Judge Mathis 🎉🎉
All the time❤
This show is scripted and fake I heard 🫣
They literally could’ve worked this out theirselves
No. He can not be communicated with.
Money was definitely the key in this marriage because it dont look like she would talk to him at all and I believe him when he said they she love to spend his money. Money make people blind and make ugly people look good.🤣
Stfu with dis lame a×× suggestion. Looks like a normal couple.
He reminds me of the husband from Diary of a mad black woman, and for that alone, I don't like him!!!
Doyle looking down at him and that oversized jacket tells me everything I need to know.
Exactly
😳👀
Wtf does that mean
I Love Seeing a Notification from
The Honorable Judge Mathis.
Great Content. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
She's a beautiful woman
Didn't know rather to CRY or LAUGH. 🤔Cry out Laughing🤣🥴😴
It always fascinates me when people choose to hate a single person when divorced couples come on TV. By default, they often hate each other and paint the other person as a monster. Differentiated people look at the facts, realize they're biased, and don't judge them based on what they say. But many people are hurt and damaged and watch these shows to reinforce their hate for the opposite gender.
Your last sentence! So on point!
Yes!
If her name is on as who took them, that wouldn't make a difference if the insurance on file is in his name. They bill the insurance FIRST
No your a dumbazz her name and address is on the bill my side hustle is collections like the judge said you call collections and we will tell you how much has been paid and who paid it. I can get clients info from 5 years of address of where they lived all I need is your social for me to give you ANY information you need about a bill.
Trying to understand, why would you have your ex husband new wife on your medical insurance
It’s sad to see so many people think most marriages are horrible. I want better for black relationships.
Right! I’m in a healthy marriage
But the good thing is that sensible people don't formulate their opinions from TV and TH-cam.
He’s undercover 🤷🏾♀️
It's important to make sure you have the whole armor of God because you don't know when you can be manipulated or tempted by the devil.
Judge Mathis face 0:50 had me 😂😂😂
Heeeeeee did NOT call her ugly!!!!! Wooowwww!!! 😩
Girl, my ex husband of 25yrs did the same thing. Found out on Facebook!!
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽😘 you're better off without him❤️🖤💚
@@evonza4858 Yes I am! Happily single and stress free. I will never take my peace for granted.
She kept saying "MY SON"
That is part of the problem there
It is "THEIR SON"
I’m sorry. Marriage isn’t perfect by no means and might not be for everybody but majority of people who denounce marriage is because they picked stupidly and then say that’s marriage. No, you picked a clown and went to the circus. Not marriage.
I like 99% of the defendant’s vibe
I believe the wife. He looks like he can be abusive behind closed doors. Looking like Charles from Diary of a Mad Black Woman 😒
CAUGHT HER IN HER LIES
He looks like he is mean, I believe her.
Them acting disrespectful to one another doesn't put fear in me to get married, I still want to get married one day. It's all in how you treat one another everyone's marriage is different. Put god first and let everything fall into place. RESPECT IS THE KEY
She was tryna skate on them medical bills...
She added the wife his current wife to her insurance I have never heard of that before 😮
I know he did not call somebody ugly when she lowered to his level 😂😂😂
She can't talk or get her sentences straight come on and present your case.
Wow both parties win😮
Both of them are a trip
I actually was attracted to one of my coworkers until I saw his red flags 🚩 he has very controlling ways and told me that he don’t let women cook in his kitchen he won’t kiss you romantically just a peck on the forehead or cheek . He says when he has sex he wants to be on top cause he’s the man and he’ll cook in his kitchen and he will control what goes on in the bedroom. Needless to say I’m no longer attracted to him and glad I dodged that bullet.. the man on here reminds me of him . Controlling behavior.
He knows he's a crazy narcissistic and fears being poisoned so he doesn't want anyone to cook in the kitchen. 🤣
Unh?
U dodged a MISSILE!!!
@@momonie4 right. I was like a bullet… ma’am, that was torpedo, shit a damn nuclear bomb. Hell no
How the hell u get the same vibes from dude if the plaintiff was like ur coworker she wouldn't be able to have a spending problem or he wouldn't have agreed to counseling u probably still let him hit
That shopping addiction is vicious ASF, compounded by the highs and lows of depression it's just plain old ugly 😳
They got a long way to go with co parenting. They better get there acts together. Neither one of them want to pay.
They the triplets and they sister wives. Move in together and be happy
He is standing right there and she is saying my son God dam
He must be a Leo
Hey y’all 👋🏽👋🏽
Hello 👋🏽 have a bless weekend 👍🏾
That man is slow for not understanding what that document clearly said. "ADDITIONAL CHARGE", sir! 🙄
Judge, stop taking them gummies.😂 She didnt talk about the wife. She merely brought her up. Theres a difference.
She pressed about the new wife. Hella jealous vibes!
They still have feelings
@11:46 when judge said that’s why he went off on u smh…that’s when advice should’ve been givin! 🥴
They were married 10 yrs and had 2 kids but neither has any respect for the other. They're both tryna make each other look bad but the truth is it's irrelevant. They're creating unecessary problems just pay the dang bills. Both need to grow TF up.
Dave Ramsey’s plan could’ve possibly saved this marriage !! It’s weird that he wants her to pay the full amount 🤔
That's what she owe. They were to split medical bills
@@blackboy-ll4sp Yes split. He wanted her to pay the whole thing
@@kay22100 Seems like him and his new wife are skruggling financially 😄
i know splitting stuff when waiting and dealing with insurance can be difficult 😞 🙄she doesn’t have to give him money pay the doctors office half of whatever . keep your receipt. its an app to for those who can’t hold respectful convos
Why did she say my son it’s they’re son
I know he didn't call her ugly, an I don't mean color wise 🥴
She loves to say “um”
Just bc you’re married doesn’t mean you HAVE to have kids.
Ruby is cute.
What kind of mess!!! The wife is on the dental and the ex wife is on the medical these people are crazy!!!! Just foolishness
SEE 👀 THAT'S!!!! TOOOO Many😢 Women/Son Issues 😒...She' Said "When I' Had MY'! Son" not "OUR' Son" ....🙄😥🙏🏽
Hey, Judge Mathis Family!!❤❤
Ok ‘mam for the Dark & Lovely or Cream of Nature “box color” model hair… Honey Blonde 🍯 ❤
😂😂😂 right
Girl
His sleeves
In the end they get each other's pensions and SS, over ten years it's in the bag!...
Reminder never date folks that have a contentious relationship with the other parent.
WOW!! That statement, if u were on fire i wouldn't piss on u?!...maybe I missed the part where the kids are hizzz too...who get's jealous of their own kids?...bc the mother is spending more time with them.
Council before the marriage... sometimes a seasoned counselor will take 6 to 12 months of counseling before he approve the marriage. The most important thing the couple learn during the sessions is that the marriage is ordained by God... which is the only foundation gives the marriage a chance. She's adorable... man what's wrong with you...
What a mess
Doesn't sound like either of them will ever get their sh*t together; her behavior isn't any different than the rest of this sort 🤷🏼♀️
She lead with being a victim in hopes the facts of the case wouldn't matter. How don't you know what the bills are when they are mailed DIRECTLY to you? She's mad he re-married and moved on. Hope they can atleast coparent for the kid(s).
Exactly.
And with that type of bitter, obsessive, childish attitude she has, no men will ever want her.
She will always be a single mom & she will be forever single, alone, miserable & lonely until the day she dies.
I am glad the plaintiff has moved on from the nightmare.
My ex wife has my 2 boys. She has nothing to worry about with them cause a man is responsible and the head! A body can't control without the head and your wife and kids are the body of you man!
Pausing at 7:21 the plaintiff seems a Lil ummm u know 💅🏽💋
They are both petty, irresponsible liars. They come across as if they hate each other more than they love their children. 😔 So busy trying to hurt the other person they ruined their credit even more and, most important, they're hurting the children. Growup and stop being salty!
I love how audience only gasped when she said how he put it on fb but when he said she bankrupt them because of her shopping addiction there was no reaction. I love how the world now a days (n America ) is programmed to just be on woman’s side
Yeah, well the Americuh haz been programmed to be on the menz side since it’s inception. The chickens have come home to roost.
She didn’t say she bankrupted them. She said the opposite. I love how you’re programmed to be on the man’s side
He didn’t say she bankrupt him…he said after he filed for bankruptcy. Your bias is showing
Sooooo he was jealous when the son was born??? He did not address that but addressed the facebook post he made🤔
His ex wife will be forever single
It does not matter how he talks to u the agreement is u owe the dentist
What a stupid defense…
Ugly 🧐 Now sir…Nvmd 🤭