How To Talk To Women Without Overthinking!
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- How to talk to women without overthinking. I give you examples of what to do and how men ruin the awkward moment of silence instead of seeing if a woman will show up. The key is to pick up on what she is giving you. Women love to talk about themselves.
Also, when that does not work ask her a question that is powerful. I give an example of 6:01.
There is so much pressure in trying to impress a woman and if there is pressure in the impression then you aren't going to shine through of who you really are.
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Let's help each other out! Give the men below some ideas. What is something you can say to a woman to open up conversation besides "hello" ? :) Would love to hear this! I have a feeling this is going to be hilarious! LOL
I don't say anything I just look in their eyes 😍😍😍😍😍 then they say. Why are you looking at me like that.. Then I snap out of it... and say... Like what... They start blushing.
For one..I don't do "hilarious!..the word is an instant turn off..for this deep diver!..do you find this reply .. hilarious?.. ask yourself... about this 'category' of people who find the world a hilarious place..what is their defining characteristic? ..is this what the planet needs right now?..what timbre of men who don't do... hilarious...are there any women out there to match them?..
By basically tell her your name first then you asked her wats is her name started from there... Right coach??
😍😍😍😍😏
After we exchanged names and then maybe make her laugh then I say "so tell me something interesting about yourself"...
That really throws them off! But once they come up with something then continue to talk about that and then eventually they ask you "so tell me something interesting about you". And I already have a go to answer for that. Then after I mentioned that stay silent that way she has to continue talking. ;)
"She needs to impress you too." GOLD!!
That's the point of the interview (if he's calling it a date, the man's mindset is already broke), the man is the interviewer asking questions, and she is the candidate seeking approval and acceptance. This is the ONLY context to speak with a women you are on a date with, interested in, or in any way sexually interested, period. The man will dominate the conversation's architecture whilst saying very little, and she will love him for it, as she gives her best presentation getting emotionally high. Make sense?
What if she doesn’t want to?🚶🏻♂️
@@scottjones7553 Yes what you said makes sense. I'm going on a date with a girl on October 18th which is tomorrow lol. She has a beautiful face with thick butt and thighs while still being slim, she is into fitness. I'm also a virgin so this is exciting.
@@napoleondynamite4148 lmao leave her immediately then, if you catch signs like she is not interested talking to you, best action at the time would be to take a step back
Right it shouldn’t be one sided
It's because women always seem to want the man to carry the entire conversation & basically keep them entertained the whole entire time. Unfortunately if we don't do this they tend to see us as uninteresting & tell their friends that we are the boring ones.
For real
No ! You have all the power to control how you want the conversation to go . It's an experience your giving her so you have it lead her,if you stand there talking too much her will continue to listen to you . Just leave silence for her to engage also . The process is between two people . It's like a dance , think of it like that .
Yes, you're absolutely right. It seems like we have to put a circus show in order to keep them entertained.
@@Pantera972 that's what she is saying here, don't give them a circus show. Give her room to talk, and if she can't, best to find someone who can!
You can't control anything if she is disinterested
"Are you shy? ...Because I haven't heard you ask me anything." Apollonia is too good at this stuff.
Moo
Sounds good on paper, but the way she said it sounded abrasive. Doubt most women would appreciate that
Wrong... If a man doesn't ask you any questions back it means he's genuinely not interested in you and could careless in getting to know you.. There, that was simple and it is also a fact!
Any man with a sense of self worth knows that both genders have to impress one another. 😎
True.
That's the problem, a lot of guys don't have a high value of self worth, confidence. It's easy to say be more confident and increase your value, I think it's more intricate than that.
Me approaching a girl: Hi
Her: Hi
Me: Good, thanks.
I'm exactly the same hahahahaha
LOL this got me
Mission accomplished lol
Bro chat about anything that you want. If she likes you, she'll be interested
It's a working progress
After 44 years of marriage, silence suits me just fine...not all, but a lot of the time. My wife often says, “You never ask me questions, I’m always asking you questions.” Now, 44 years ago I’m sure it was different but I can barely remember how it was then. Your advice to the young guys is always on point, Apollonia.
Joe Mancini good day joe
ask her the question, give her the dopamine she craves, come on show her you love her by getting her high!
DOES IT WOEK THO
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Nothing wrong with a comfortable silence!
Oh MY😍😍😍😍😍
I PLAY VIDEO GAMES AND THE GIRL IS TALKING I ANSWER HER QUESTIONS AND STAY SILENT THEN SHE GOES WHY DONT YOU TALK AND THAT TUIRNS HER ON AND THEN WE TAlk
But a lot of people dont like silence period. Resulting in them feeling awkward and will leave.
Apollonia, I love it! Show up and be yourself! I love the silent part, make the woman talk!
Thank you!
This girl is awesome !! She’s spot on and what makes it even better is that she’s not bitter or biased like many other videos out there.
#facts
your are a women with such PASSION, INTELLIGENCE, and WIT!
really ENJOY listening to you perspective.
you are SPOT ON!
THANKS!!!
I am following many channels about dating advice and so far this is the most sincere one.
This is really smart and makes me realize I did always feel this pressure to impress or to keep the conversation going. I like that how you explain it too makes it about just trying to see if she's interested or not and moving on if she isn't. That's great advice.
Thank you for all that you do Apollonia. I’m glad to see your channel growing!
What a relief... Thank you Apollonia Ponti. You're awesome.
“The eyes chico, they never lie”
Tony Montana from Scarface
I think that he said chichi get the yayo
Chico means boy in spanish :D
You are my best online friend. Very helpful suggestion. Thanks you mam
i have been looking for this video my whole life. thank you so much!
Thank you for watching!
“Trust me, I’m a woman, I know!” I ain’t even mad, Miss Ponti. 👏
Yes 'AP'...I love the content in this video! Thank You
Apollonia,
Again another great video. What you said about " She needs to impress you too ". I sometimes ask myself why I always have to initiate the conversation . If she is there only the free meal, drinks and not for my company, then she's not appreciating or value me.
This woman is so wise...
Woah Man
Man I needed this. Great points and with great guidance. Thank you for being real!!!
Whenever I've been on dates and there's a silence I immediately panic and start talking about myself. Not anymore, I'll give this method a shot. Thanks AP
It work?
are you shy? because i haven't heard you ask anything.
THESE WORDS ARE SO POWERFUL!!
Wow you are the only person that but it in that way . So many vids out there explaining how to chat ladies up . I have never heard this before yet . Great stuff
I do everything you said in this video yes I'm only 5ft 3 tall a lil chubby yet I accept the man that I am take it or leave it life is Good
Work on yourself. Don't just remain a chubby guy. You cannot fix height but fix what you can.
thanks Queen you give us 💯 scientifically proven tips I was reading a lot about it tonight Wishing you long life
Your channel is one of the best on TH-cam presented by a woman 👌.
Just an eye-opening video! Gold!
Thank you for being bold enough to speak on this! We really appreciate the effort. Made me a better man.
Wow! I really really struggle with this when it comes to women. Apollonia Ponti you really help me clear up some issues I have, thank you.
Apollonia, the world's need in such women like you are.it is not a compliment, it's fact!!!
Very informative. I love & respect your wisdom.
My answer is "control"
Always maintain control of your emotions,keep limited conversation w/o over speaking,asking the right questions & ask open-ended questions so she can answer & give you questions that she can ask you w/o you having to be the 1 to carry on the conversation all the time .. Honesty is always the best policy so being straight up & forward with a woman about what your looking for & tryna go that limits time bcuz you know what you want & what your looking for out of her so now she doesn't have to guess & wonder what she's getting into ..
No. You just met the person, why would you go talking about what you want for? She doesn’t care about what you want at the moment. If you’re in so much control, you’re not relaxing and there is no chemistry.
She's speaking truth you shouldn't have to try so hard to impress I was on a date with this lady and she was feeling awkward I told her pretend it's our 3rd date we laughed and had a great conversations and a good date !!!
“She needs to impress you too” ...excellent. Love the view, by the way.
Mam I must say this, You are most honest lady I had ever saw in this TH-cam who tell only the truth to their audiences.
#respect
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Hi Laxmikant,
Thank you for your comment.
Best,
Apollonia
loved the video, going to try this out
I love you Apollonia.. Thank you for this video. ❤
Great video. As you were sharing your thoughts I realized how many men flip conversations and make it about themselves, as if it’s a comparison competition.
Like always thank you 🙏. Great things are coming your way.
Hi Mike,
Thank you so much for your support.
Best,
Apollonia
Great video, liked the information.
Very good , advice I desperately need and what an amazing backdrop. Thank you
Glad it was helpful!
I love you Apollonia Ponti
I know plenty guys that needed this video 10 years ago!
Man i like this women here. Thats how I always feel like i need to impress the women but wtf I need you to put some work in too! Help me out a bit lol
10 more hours of such videos and I should be able to say "hi" to a woman...omg
Good video Apollonia!
Thank you Apollonia! Great video, you impressed me
Thankyou a woman giving it straight
Congratulations for 101k keep smiling keep growing your channel should have 10 million one day u will have
Hi Rajesh,
Thank you so much.
Best
Apollonia
Good info ima use a lot of this fr
Damn AP ! I love you for this.
Honestly good point of view
You deserve my subscription 👍🏽
Loving this content
Thanx , mean a lot with this video. It’s like a master key Apollonia.
Excellent video and 100% spot on.
really cool attitude you portray. I appreciate your video. I'm subscribed!
One of your best vids yet Apollonia
Thank you!
Great video once again apollonia
I wish I could thank you personally, Apollonia.
I appreciate you Apollonia.
Your support is so appreciated!
When she laid back I was about to start a conversation through the screen 😆 that shit is powerful.
Lot of things , you say, are things
Are True and Cleaner, you gave
A Scope 🖌️🎨🌞 Thank yoveryuch
I liked that table so much that i didn't notice the background
for shy guys, I believe that men tend to start conversations with women because it can either be a societal norm where men are expected to take charge and initiate things (relationships, ideas, activities, etc.) or it is for boost of confidence where just starting a conversation is getting out of our comfort zone and ultimately let the women know that we do not have cold feet. That rambling is just from my little experience.
Congratulations for 100k cheers Apollonia :)
Thank you!
Looking gorgeous as ever while giving great advice !
Good video. Goooooooood video! 👏👏👏👏 Glad I subscribed a while back!
Excellent video. I follow you on Instagram ,also.Yes,i've been guilty of thinking the conversation must always continue.Well presented on how to be quiet,but not disrespectful.Love your Man with a plan saying.Thanks again.
Hi Dan! You're welcome. :)
Taking time out to review all your other videos... Sad I only just got to know about your channel... Enjoyed this video. Thank you👍
Hi Stay humble,
Well, happy you're here now! :)
Best,
Apollonia
You certainly have a way of explaining things very well
Awesome advice!
Very interesting video. There is only a part I didn't resonate. It's the part related with how things could be and how they are in real world...Thank you Apollonia. You are always loved!!
nice points you picked up.. Thanks Apollonia
Hello Prashant,
You are welcome!
Apollonia
Love this.
You are so true, so well told 👍 totally agree
I'm loving this! I'm on a date tonight with a woman who might be "the one", so I want to make sure there's a second date.
What I'm hearing is it's interesting to be interested: about her, her job, what's she's about. Thank you very much!
Most the women don’t have much to say yet expect some type of magical conversation
Most women say the man should message first....when you have silence you presume they're not interested so you move on...
Thank u sm i needed this
Boss vid that thank you for posting..
I love your videos & I'm learning very good tips from you I'm no longer in friendzone
I agree.. she can start the process too!
Thanks you Apollonia.
incredible lesson!
Society. Rights. Freedom. Liberty, and justice for all.
I think men feel they have to make the first move. Men have to have no fear of rejection and I believe women always want to be pursued. I have never witnessed a woman initiate the first move. It's very rare. I think this is a big component to why men overthink. Love your videos😀
Too much love for you 🙏
My friend from MM recommend this video great content
Thank you so much for watching Peter!
One good thing about the guy doing a lot of the talking is it gives him a chance to talk about how he's a high value man or say something that will get her attention to show that they have something in common.
Because we don't want them to think that we are boring
Great explained
I’ve always found that it’s a lot easier talking to women when your doing some type of group thing. Like a bible study group, or a fitness group, or something like that because it’s kind of an organic thing rather than just walking up to random chicks in the mall.
I thank god for you 😊 When you sat back in your seat to mimic a confident guy embracing the silence I was “ like damn AP, that’s sexy!”
101k subs😱 ok thats it apollonia no exceptions....your picking up the dinner check not me🙆📠.....good job😁
Thanks dear for this video
Thank you Cynthia
I know I been single for 38 years walking this earth, never had a girlfriend, never been married, no kids. Even though, throw out those many years of being alone for so long. I have been observing human personalities and behaviors for such a long time and notice that a lot of women view men from their viewpoint. In past relationships, they had with them as to be the confident one in the intimate area, knowing what they want out of a link along with life itself, and if they carry themselves well health-wise is the biggest thing women look at the most. It always seems every detail, responsibility, connections, and the way that men carry themselves to the woman that they are interested in plays a huge role for them to notice them. The interaction between a man and a woman seems to play in the mind of each partner is doing something right to let the other person see that they are themselves without sending a wrong message towards each other, which leads to overthinking.
I guess that points to signs of nervousness, anxiety, and a lack of confidence in so many ways. In today's social world, it seems like all the pressure is on the man to keep a woman to see if a man worthy throughout the circus show as you said in the video. In the other area, when its a man turn to want to get to know a woman, by targeting the same questions and interactions, which was addressed to him right back at the woman that he is talking to, so he can learn something about her as well. There seems to be like it is more of a struggle because out of the woman that you're interested in, and if you are going to have that intense connection to make that relationship work. I know when many people once they soon become in relationships, they do not realize that it is a lot of hard work to keep all those things that when speaking in the 50/50 range without getting into breakups or divorces if both parties did not support the other. I guess that's why been single so long I been a deep thinker, always look hard before I get in too deep in a situation. Thanks for the upload, Apollonia Ponti I learned a lot from your video and pleased continue to coach the wisdom that you have. Most of all, keep up the good work.