The Signs Were All There: Chantell Christopher v "Kevin" Wedge
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 ก.พ. 2023
- Chantell says Kevin is noncommittal, a workaholic and she's convinced he’s cheating because he’s been acting secretive. Kevin says she is extremely jealous, messy, and demanding.
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15 years and you don’t know his birthday? Girl that is not your man. He belongs to the streets she needs to let him go! This man does not want her
And he’s not man enough to leave her but she stayed in whatever this is
It's not about chemistry between you and the men . Also know how the men feel about you.
Always ask how they feel about you before you ladies open legs to a man that's not your shoe size.
You lying!!! Girl let me press play. Aint no way
@mogetit5999 She's not woman enough to put her big girl panties on and take responsibility for her life. She made up a narrative about this man. They don't live together and he's been telling her and showing her that she's not for him. Men aren't always to blame for women's bad choices.
I want to say that she’s delusional but I’m pretty sure he’s a narcissist and gaslighter. He’s acting this way on the show but I bet he tells her and acts completely different in private. I pray she gets the strength to walk away from him from good and cut all contact ❤
True
Yep
Exactly 👏🏾 💯
The word narcissist needs to be banned from usage. Obviously she was good with it because she stayed for 15 years.
@@roslynhawkins1475 obviously you’ve never dealt with or know the signs of a narcissist which is why you think she stayed with him for 15 years for no reason.
Judge Lynn used to say, “never let a man tell you he doesn’t want you more than once”. He told her by not telling her his birthdate, he told her by not introducing her to his family and he told her by continuing to use protection after she said she wanted a child. She refused to listen to him, but I hope she listens to Judge Star.
Oh yes that is going no where
@@jamaicaninthekitchen4358 . She’s dumb and stupid. She should’ve left him after three months of meeting him.
He also said he has no interest in marrying her that’s a wast of 15 years sad
@@tondujosiane8655 . Yeah, she allowed herself to be used for 15 years. She’s a doggone fool.
I couldn't have said it better! 👏
He is in another relationship, that’s why he denied being intimate with her.
He been sticking his thing in her mouth. She considers that to be sex and he doesn't
I agree.
@@mechielehardwick2844 . He might probably be married and NOT even tell her.
Sure youe right.
@@beatricesmith2847. If he's in another relationship, my question is why would he invite her to his house?
That man is leading a double life. He has another family on the other side of town. He's a clown. Yes, she saw the signs and didn't read them correctly. But He's definitely a jerk.
She did read signs at ALL
spot on
spot on
I don’t even think he has another family. He’s just merciless. Maybe his double life is that he’s bisexual or just wants to take advantage of women. I don’t know if he has other children.
@Tummie Flowers I say the say thing. He gives me gay vibes
it's one thing to not want this beautiful lady, but you don't have to be this mean and insensitive to her This guy has no heart.
Yeah. They can't even be friends. He's too much of a prick.
He’s definitely a butthole. His Arrogant and condescending behavior towards her is disturbing. He shouldn’t have agreed to appear on the show if there’s nothing going on between them. I’m with Judge Star, “I don’t like his style “.
He’s a joke
It’s like he saw her as a challenge, not wanting to actually be a part of her life and future just …. “Let me see if I can make her break her celibacy promise to herself.”
No... he just didn't want her!15years!! You dont know his age, you never met his family, he uses a condom during sex for 15byears!! He uses her... and shes allowed it
Oh my god. This episode just enlightened me. I am in that situation. I’m in my 30s. I was willing to give my all to a guy I know doesn’t feel the same way about me. This episode just woke me up. I do not want to be in this lady’s shoes 15 years from now. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU
Awesome! Keep going!
Best wishes love
FIX IT!!!!
You NEVER give your all to someone who doesn’t feel the same way about you.
I'm 42, 15 yrs in already, please don't do it Sis.
You never let a man know you are abstaining because they make it a personal goal to make you out of a lie.
Yeah, to try to get you to have sex with them.
Yep!
Great advice
@@lexislove639 . The best thing to tell him is that you just haven’t found the right person yet.
@@tummieflowers2681 oh honey Im not telling these men nothing… Im out of vagina… my ex ate it all! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Old man is full of himself… he thinks that because he looks the way he does and still has that bite back that he comes off very condescending and narcissistic
EXTREMELY condescending.
He will get his own back all he had to say was I don't want a relationship. I wouldn't even be a friend cut away completely karma will bite him i would love to see it
Exactly. It makes no sense that he hasn’t slept with her in 2 years but she still thinks they are in a relationship. Seems like he’s lying and manipulative.
@@jo5755 Something is wrong with her. He's been totally honest. She is delusional.
He’s a true narcissist
Sis wasted her entire 40s 😢 This man is holding her captive and at the same time telling her to read the signs, tragic 😮💨
And part of her 30's and now wasting her 50's.
IKR… “Pay attention to the signs”
She’s holding herself captive she needs therapy
This is a SAD case… move on please 🏃🏾♀️& he’s proud of how’s he has treated her!!🥴😫
Nope. She chose that prison.
My father always told me, "Babygirl, hear the words, but listen to the actions." This woman has literally wasted 15 years because she didn't listen to his actions. Smh. She was 38 when they met. She could have easily had the child she really wanted had she left even 2 years into this mess. Just a sad case.
Your father is a beautiful black man you Bless
You’re right! The most she should’ve spent was three to six months, not two years.
Your father was right. Wise man
I felt bad for her because her self worth is in the toilet but cmon! He used protection with you, never let you meet his family, talks about your hygiene, and looks/talks to you with contempt.
And she didn't know his birthday!!
Yes after 15 years
She doesn’t even know his birthday 🤦🏾♀️ I have the full ssn within less than six months. And my boyfriend at the time now husband gave it to me 🤦🏾♀️😒
@@Passion85031 . Exactly! When I was 21, I knew better. My ex told me his birthday around the time we first met. I even met his mother the fourth or fifth time we met. He even brought his grown daughter around me without even telling me before that she would be there. That’s how I knew that he was serious about me. If a man wasn’t serious about a woman, he wouldn’t introduce her to his grown children. The man in this video is hypocritical for talking about her hygiene when he left the trash in his house and she had to take it out.
He saw her reading a book on celebacy and saw it as a challenge!!! This ain't even a relationship - this is a waste of her time and energy.
This lady was in that relationship all by herself. She is delusional and needs therapy. She built her own prison and handed him the key. 🤷🏽♀️
Damn, the truth. She seems a little unhinged. Her energy is off
She reminds of the lady in the Tyler Perry movie who got finessed by the young guy
i like that last sentence
@@biancablonc4609 I remember...the movie with all the damn bad wigs
@@cadillacdeville5828 😂🤣😂😅
He could've told her that he wanted to break up & left her alone. They should not even be friends with benefits either. He is crazy!
You know men ain’t gonna tell you! You have to know as a woman when someone don’t want you! They will waste your entire life if you let them!
@@biancablonc4609 yep
He thinks it’s funny too 🤢
@@biancablonc4609 If he wanted to, he would have. Since he didn't, he doesn't want to.
All men everywhere
She allowed this clown to steal all her good years. All her hopes and dreams.
This was the saddest and most cruel case so far...I felt so bad for her, she never had the child she wanted and now it's too late...
The writings were on the wall though
She can still have a child using a donor egg. But the whole package of the happy family it's too late with him.
She can still have a child but she wasted so many years.
@@justmythoughtsjustmythough7202 . It’s NOT good. She’s too old.
@@tummieflowers2681 It’s old as men that should be the worry. They’re the ones producing autistic children.
@@justmythoughtsjustmythough7202 . Usually, a man’s sperm count still works even though it’s rare for them to have problems.
Best revenge is to move on and do better. Please do not be friends with him because he is not your friend. He thinks he can do better than you, show him you are that chick and can make boss moves.
I got side chick from this.
He is not with her. He’s with another woman. She says they had relations last month. And he says 2 years ago. Which is probably how long he’s been with another woman. Why are they here? I feel bad for her. This was a waste of her time. He’s mean and inconsiderate to her feelings. She needs to move on. Block him. Leave the “friend” alone!
I picked up on this too. He has someone else, while he played around with this chick.
Exactly! If he felt this way about her and they haven’t slept together in 2 years but you come on divorce court as if you’re a couple that needs help. It just doesn’t make any sense.
I picked that up too, and that’s when I knew he had another woman. No way y’all both have 2 drastically different times periods going from when the last time they slept together. That woman ain’t that crazy. He been with that other woman for 2 years.
PLEASE BLOCK HIM LADY.
I don’t feel bad for her she knew what it is 🤦🏾♀️😒
He is a mean. Narcissist. Wicked man. But she should have gotten the msg long time ago and left.
Definitely!
This man is a dirty man. He's using her. I feel so hurt for this woman
He said that she's not clean but in the same breath says he don't need someone to tell him when to take his trash out he is full of it and seemed very narcissistic n sad to say but she is a lil on the delusional side
😂😂😂thank you
I was lost on that
He was hypocritical for calling her ‘dirty’ when she had to tell him when to take his trash out.
Yes.....heard him.
@@deemaverick987 . He’s obviously not clean either.
He a heartless bastard. Let him go and let him ruin somebody else’s life.. RUUUNNNNN
😅😅
He’s definitely heartless. It pisses me off even more that he was laughing for the whole time. He called her a ‘booty call’ at 8:00. I blame her for NOT being able to figure out this man doesn’t want her by not telling her his birthday or introducing her to his family. He continued to use a condom when she told him that she wanted a child. There’s NO way that she couldn’t have been able to figure out that this man didn’t want anything from her besides SEX❗️
It doesn't matter if he's heartless or not... The fact is that she knew what kinda man he is and still wasted.15yrs with him
Man used her for pussy
He stood in that court room and said everything he told her
N she still wanted him
That's her business
@@dominiqueprescott4732 . You’re damn right! He’s heartless. But, she still should’ve still known that he didn’t want her or any children by her.
1) He constantly used a condom after she told him that she wanted a child. He told her to adopt a child.
2) He told her by NOT telling her his date of birth.
3) He told her by NOT introducing her to his family.
4) He told her by letting the relationship last for fifteen years without MARRIAGE❗️
@@dominiqueprescott4732 . If she still wants him, then she’s EXTREMELY STUPID❗️He disrespected her by laughing the WHOLE TIME.
He was cruel, she's better off.
You can tell he thinks he"s Gods gift to women . She not clean enough but you been sleeping with her for 15 years ,What that make you?
This dude is in ATL and he just might be hiding behind an “alternative” lifestyle.
And men in ATL have so many choices that he can choose from a large pool.
I want to blame the man so bad, but this is really on the lady. How can you meet a man when you are 38 and you want a family, then you get to 40, 41,42...and you still hang on? for what? 15 years? you can't love someone more than you love yourself. I am flabbergasted by the level of low self esteem I see in divorce court
Right and she had the nerve to speak in tongues 😂😂😂
@@VashtiPerry . If she was so religious, she wouldn’t have taken herself cheap. She would value herself better.
They are equally at fault
@@Tamfel_85 . She’s at fault for NOT being attentive to the signs. He’s at fault for using her for 15 years when he thought she wasn’t clean. He called her a ‘booty call’ at 7:55. Therefore, he highly disrespected her on national television.
He comes off as a jerk
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Yes big time Jerk
Yep!
It's nothing wrong with walking away and being alone...work on yourself
She’s 53, it’s easier if you’re younger she’s probably sick and tired of being unhappy and lonely
@@bak3456yea but she’s in a relationship with him and still Lonely
She needed to see and hear him just like this bc he would have continued to use and dog her until the day she died. Unfortunately, her lack of self-esteem wouldn't have allowed her to walk away no matter how he treats her. Hopefully, she finds someone who will love and appreciate her
“I have no interest in marrying her” case and relationship would be OVER
He does not even like her!
When people tell you who they are, believe them the 1st time.
There's no way I'm waiting 15 years for someone to be in a relationship with me.
That’s right! This woman is a doggone fool.
I still think that there’s some type of mental disability with this woman. The man constantly showed her that he didn’t want any children with her by constantly using a condom. He showed her that he didn’t want her by not introducing him to at least one relative. He showed her by NOT living with her at all. He showed her by not even telling her his age and birthday.
@Tummie Flowers Maybe so. All the red flags were there, and she ignored them. She wanted what she wanted, and she was going to do her best to make him give her what she wanted.
@@sweetsweet81 . People NEED to understand that they CANNOT change a middle-aged person over 40. Let alone over 50. This man was ALREADY in his 40s when he met her. He is five years older than her. She met him when she was 38, he was 43. People in their 40s are already set in 99% of their ways. He wasn’t a young man in his 20s. Even young men in their 20s still tell and show you straight up that they don’t want anything serious. A young man in his 20s might NOT be set in most of his ways until 25 or 30 because men mature slower than women. But, a man over 40 is certainly set in their ways. He’s NOT that young anymore.
@@tummieflowers2681 I wholeheartedly agree!
15 years!!?! How on earth did that happen !!???
As we get older, we are supposed to have more wisdom. You can't force anyone to love you!! So sad..
Very sad...Whoa he has never shared his birthday or introduced her to his family in 15 years...Whoa!
I wouldn’t even want to be with a person if I never met their family, especially if they are around their family and they never introduced me. That’s the first red flag right there that he don’t see you as his wife or his girlfriend.
Wisdom has nothing to do with age
@@DJ-vj4vi . It’s supposed to. Unfortunately, some older people don’t have it.
Real sad, I would have spent 15 years single and happy .
She's naive... and he's a jerk! 🤦🏾♀️ He'll be calling as soon as he gets the opportunity. #horrible
He says 2yrs they hasn’t been intimate because he just got with someone two years ago lol
YUP!!!!
This episode is so sad. I feel it for her. Wasted so many years and he’s so insensitive!! 😢🥺😞
He don’t want her or respect her and I think the only reason why he showed up on the show is to be seen.
Run sista run
She don’t need to find a man that MAN will find her ❤
Yes he did... standing there with his lips poked out like he's posing for the world.
😂😂😂
Thissss!!!! ESPECIALLY the last part! 💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Facts because I questioned why would he come on here, smh! I doubt his wife & girlfriends will like this but they’re probably smarter than this lady & don’t care.
He has told her 500 hundred times, in the last 15 minutes that he doesn’t love her or wants to be with her; but she is oblivious to the fact that he already has another woman.
@Nancy Write . I kind of figured out that he had another woman when he said that the last time he’s been intimate with Chantell was two years ago. He was indirectly talking about the other woman that he had. If he had another woman, he should’ve just said it instead of deceiving Chantell.
This is probably one of the hardest cases that I've ever watch here in dc, just pure pain but honestly how many ppl right now are in this woman's shoes thinking and planning a future with somebody who doesn't even have a present with them.
I thought the same thing, this must be acting
A lot of women do this. They hear what they want to hear and stick around hoping the man would change. It's easy to get caught up and many times the man play into it just to fees his ego or to have you there as a fall back.
@@kimaleycreese28 men does it too especially with women that are younger than them they stick around wanna do everything for her than when they see her in a serious relationship they wanna hurt her but the rule that i apply for my life is that if a man is interested in me and I don't feel the same I don't let them do any favors for me
@@islandgirlruby2750 . NO, this is REAL❗️She’s just OLD and STUPID.
@@biblosantral . I met an older man who tried to change me when he knew that I didn’t want him. The difference between the older man that I met and the woman in this video is that she wanted a committed relationship with this man. Whereas, the older man that I knew wanted ‘friends with benefits.’ I made it CLEAR to him that I was NOT into him or his polyamorous lifestyle. He knew that I wasn’t attracted to him either. I even made EYE CONTACT with another man in front of him. Then, he still continued to approach me. When I got drunk in front of him, he tried to forcibly kiss me which was sexual assault. Then, tried to perform oral which was sexual assault also. When I yelled for him to get off me, he said “Fuck this. You’re not attracted to me.” He shouldn’t have been mad after I told him multiple times that I didn’t want him. That was a “drug facilitated sexual assault.”
He has publicly denied her before the world. Amazing! She must leave with what little dignity she has left.
Lady! 😂 you don’t know his birthday after all this time?
58 his thang dont even work no more and he tryna slang that thang.
He should have told her “let’s be friends” 15 years ago.
If he has honestly been this obvious for 15 years then it says a lot about him. A person who would allow something like this to go on for so long really is not the kind of person I’d want to be around…
I totally agree!!
Right! there’s something pathological about him. I wouldn’t want to be around that person either, romantic or otherwise!
If he's been honest for 15 years, that says alot about him. Yes, it says he's been honest for 15 years! So if he lied, would that be better? This is on her. She made up a fairytale with him as the main character. Why do women have such a problem with holding other women responsible for the silly choices they make?
@writenancywrite The only time women hold other women responsible for the silly choices they make is when that woman is sleeping with their boyfriend or husband, any other time, she's a victim. Now that's stupid, but common. Any other time a woman doesn't get what she bargained for from a man or a relationship, it simply just can't be her fault. The big, bad evil man must be a narcissist! How dare he not participate in this woman's ridiculous fantasy! He's been honest with her, brutal, but honest. Would it have been better if he lied to her? She gaslight herself, not to mention she's a grown woman who had the obligation and ability to walk away years ago.
Whats sad is there are so many desperate women like her & so many predator men like him
She stayed 12 years too long. No way I’m going to be someone’s girlfriend/fiancé for 5 years let alone 15.
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After a certain age you’re too old to be anyone girlfriend. She’s immature and I’m disappointed she’s dealing with this at her age.
@@opulence_prime well damn you are 100 💯
PREACH ON IT‼️
You would have wanted her to marry him? He would of been that same man, doing the same things in a marriage.
This broke my heart
This poor lady. When they say maturity is not by age, I now believe it.
This is the saddest case in Divorce Court history! Not because of the hurt, but because of the stupidity
My God and how in the world or why in the world would anyone allow themselves to be mentally abused in such a manner? This woman needs help in the worst way. I pray she gets it and that this man is never allowed to abuse another woman the way he had abused this one. Unbelievable!
Sensitivity and Honesty are 2 Different Things.
Yes, and he has neither.
She's a fool. Wasted youth,vitality and dreams. And she can't even say he didn't tell her. In the words of Judge Lynn Toler " Never let a man tell you more than once that he doesn't want you".
He's also unnecessarily rude.
I bet money he makes it hard for her to leave.
Yes
Yup
Sometimes being alone is the upgrade. That lady is lying to herself about this man or he is gaslighting her. She really needs to leave him tf alone, permanently.
I know we all made bad decisions in relationships and she was ALWAYS shown he didn't want anything more than convenience and her tolerance. It's VERY evident she contributed to her own hurt , frustration and such. She just wanted him so bad and had invested time, but time is something you can't get back. He's clearly an asshole and very mean.
Yes, he’s beyond WRONG❗️
Why did it take her so long to hear loud and clear, and understand what was going on?
@@patriciahamilton2728 . Because she’s MENTALLY SLOW. He disrespected her on national television by saying “Here comes the waterfall” and laughing the whole time. There’s nothing to smile or laugh at when you’re taking advantage of someone for 15 years. That’s almost two decades.
This case gave me anxiety. These people weren't together as a couple.
Agree. A bad case of selective hearing
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Don't let a man tell you more than once he doesn't want you..Judge Lynn Toler, Late Mother..Don't Walk Sister Queen, Run.
once again, not sure where you saw a queen, ....sure wish ya'll would stop doing that...a so-called queen wouldn't let herself get dogged out for 15 years
Yes, Toler came to mind
darn spellcheck
He’s extremely full of himself, and immature. I feel bad for her, I just pray God gives her the strength to WALK away. Just sad😢
I feel so bad for her… he knew she was never going to leave just his he knew he wouldn’t marry her. He’s a manipulator. He don’t want her but he proposed?? Why else would he do that?
Exactly! Bought a whole ring for what ??
This lady basically was his booty call for 15 years. I can't even be totally mad at him; I wish her true love and happiness.
This was just embarrassing and it made me sad for her. Time to wake up Ma'am
So many red flags!! She is too mature to be played like this.
No, she’s IMMATURE❗️If she was mature, she wouldn’t have been so naive.
I think that she was spiritually immature. That man is the devil's nephew. He said, if she was so celibate why is she reading a book. In his statement lies the truth and a lie. He knew that the book was just a visage. That makes sense to me. Ms. Christopher spoke in tongues therefore I can conclude that she must believe that God is able to sustain her life. Why read a book, when the mighty power is within her. Silly sung by Denise Williams is the theme song to her story.
@@Fanouvvi . It doesn’t have anything to do with spirituality. She’s just mentally slow and couldn’t pick up on the signs. That’s why he took advantage of her. I agree with you that he’s the “DEVIL.” If he thought she was “dirty”, he should’ve STOPPED having sex with her. He disrespected her during the whole case. He called her a “booty call” at 8:01 and said “Here comes the waterfall.” That showed zero respect or consideration for her feelings. He was laughing and smiling the whole time, too.
@@tummieflowers2681 Sir, spiritually has everything to do with it. She showed signs of carnality. She was deceived by his words. He asked her about the book about celibacy, 15 years later she is defamed and heartbroken. It’s foolishness on her behalf. She was willing to be engaged and conceive a child with someone who is unequally yoked. Besides satan is the accuser of the brethren. He publicly made a mockery out of her.
I agree with you Tummie, about his character but her character was beyond being mentally slow because she lacked spiritual discernment.
@@Fanouvvi . I’m a woman. Carnality has to do with things that are of the world. I don’t see how this relates to carnality. You seem to be a religious person. Even people who are NOT religious have much more better sense than her. You don’t need to be religious to have common sense. She’s extremely naive. Some people on this post even said that she had a learning disability.
Why is it that no one has brought up that she expected to marry this man because they are engaged! How does that equate to a friendship?! Did he actually get down on one knee? He was so mean & she didn’t deserve that. She was not reading the signs but HE was perfectly comfortable knowing she was in love & he kept her around knowing he wasn’t into her!
She is crazy not paying attention waste her whole life
I knew I knew her from somewhere. She used to play in some of Tyler Perry's early stage plays 😮😮 Wow! I knew her name looked familiar. Anyways back to the episode: This man is definitely a narcissist to a T... the WORST narcissist of all narcissists. The best thing for her is to cut all ties and move on and be happy. She deserves so much more and a man that will actually love her and treat her like the queen 👸🏾 she is. It really hurts me that she wasted 15 years with his sorry ass. 😒
I thought I recognized her too. Crazy and very sad smh.
_Lmaooooooooo_
If she was in ANY of Tyler Perry's plays, that makes it 100x worse. _Almost ALL of his plays revolve around this very subject._ You had to rehearse your role in it and *you still didn't see this happening?* He's not a narcissist. He couldn't have cared less if she stayed or left. Even the judge stated that he was harsh but she felt gentle wasn't working with her. She tricked herself.
I knew it was the hotel manager from Madea's Class Reunion.
But she's also to blame, she ignored the signs
Shut up!! That is her! I just watche Madea’s Clasd Reunion. And she played in Madea Goes To Jail the play. Yes!
This man has been very clear. Judge Star is absolutely right. Men keep saying watch their behavior, not their words. I hate that she wasted her time.
Wow He told her more than once," I'm Just Not That Into You", and she was ignoring all the signs. In other words, he played her.
This man continued to make it clear he didn’t want you, but you held on to what you had in your mind. This man can not be to blame for that! No narcissism, no gaslighting, just a man who was honest and woman who thought she could change a man!
Every point she made, UNDERLINED the fact that this man does not want her!!!
This episode has the PERFECT caption! She was seeing things as SHE wanted to NOT for what it is
He should’ve left her alone period
This was a very sad case to me. I’ve been in her shoes. There is no pain like being in love with a man who isn’t in love with you. He used her for her body only. I am sure he uses other women too. I pray she can pick up the pieces of her life and walk into freedom/wholeness apart from a man. She is a beautiful lady. 🙏🏾
Yes....not for 15 years.
I was like that in my teens and early twenties but now as a forty year old woman I’m well aware of the signs when a man isn’t interested. She should have walked away years ago!
The elders always say the devil comes disguised. This man was clearly that. Sis had been celibate for 12 years before she met him. He got her off her path. Wasted her entire 40s. He knew she wanted marriage and children. And to be so mean and callous about it. I hope she'll listen to Star Jones and look back on this episode to remind herself if she gets any inkling of getting with him ever again. Run, sis, run!!
This episode really turned my stomach. So many point where she should have questioned the relationship but she carried on. The saddest part is she gained nothing from this man just more scars. People will do what you allow them to do.
If he didn't want to get married why did he get engaged. I think he's a jerk.
I just wanted to know why she referred to him as her fiancé. Yes, she wasted a lot of her time, but he was also leading her on. This was all an act on his part for his other women watching. I think she is NOW finally hearing how he REALLY feels about her in actual words. Yes, signs signs signs, but that can also be blurred when the words don’t match. I hope she picks up the pieces of her dignity and move on with grace. Been in a similar situation and I left after 3 years. The resultant damage to self esteem is a hard thing to recover from.
God bless, sis ❤.
She was delusional for not seeing the signs for 15 years, but he played on her delusions for 15 YEARS. He didn't disclose personal information, but he also didn't disclose verbally that he wasn't into her like that. He kept her where she was all those years because he knew how she felt and knew he would always have access to her physically. He's a jerk and insensitive, because now this woman missed her opportunity to have children and if he were a friend like he claimed to be then he would have been honest. I'm happy with the ending because she still looks great and hopefully has the chance to find someone that loves her. May she recognize all the red flags in the future.
Unbelievable….She has wasted prime years of her life on this guy. There’s no way she didn’t know he wasn’t in to her. Thankfully she heard it loud and clear. Sadly it had to be on national television 😢
Wait. For 10-15 yrs you date a guy and about to marry him and you don’t know his bday?? Huh??
Right how does that work
What!??? 15 years!??? Lady, I know you have a enough sense to know that he is not feeling you the way you have been feeling him...SMH. I guess you did not😳....So sad🥴
Judge Star's wardrobe and make-up is absolutely stunning. 😍
Unfortunately some ppl think if they stick around long enough u can change the mind of a person u have been sleeping with. Regardless of what anyone tells u in private u must look at their actions. This proves time and time again u must show a person who u want to be treated. U cannot get mad at him for wasted time, u must live in reality and be mad at u. Too many ppl are living in a fantasy world. Wow!
Wooo he is disrespectful! She needs to move on
I FEEL FOR THIS LADY! I'M PRAYING FOR YOU SIS! YOU DESERVE SO MUCH MORE! KNOW YOUR VALUE! THE FLAGS WERE THERE!
Sadly, she wasted 15 years, but thankfully she can finally work on herself and NEVER put herself in this type of situation again. Hard lesson learned! She's a beautiful lady. It's too late for her to conceive naturally, but I hope one day she'll consider adopting an innocent baby to love and raise ❤️
This is horrible. I believe her. He told her just enough to keep her around. She loved him so much that she looked passed the Red Flags. She truly lived him...NOW....He's a world class jerk for treating her like this. Truth be told, he has several other women and that's why he's responding the way he is. He knows all of his women will see this episode and he's trying to be Billy Bad A$$....
Sometimes as women we see and hear wat we want to hear when we in love, but this man is the worst.
Nah bro just married in another family smh stop wasting people time and Youth❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️
A very close friend of mine went through this. She was with this guy for 8 years. She as she was breaking it off and started seeing others.....then guy killed the woman he was living with.
Im so happy it was not my friend, heart felt condolences to the woman's family.
Waitttt … did sis just speak in “tongues” 😮 🤔😮💨??? Holy Spirit please tell her to LEAVE HIM ALONE ASAP! 😩
I’m 7 minutes in and he has already told her exactly how he feels. She need to let him go!
This case is making me lose my mind
Sadly she has wasted 15 years of her life! I feel bad for her, but so glad that Judge Star opened her eyes. Perhaps she can find a man outside of Atlanta who will love her, respect and treat her as her heart desires.
She missed all the indications that he didn’t want to be with her for real. But he’s coming across as extremely narcissistic and insensitive.
It proves that if you dive too emotional before you agree, you can tie up your soul to someone who doesn't agree with you. Intelligence can be left in the dust once emotions take over - smh.
I felt her pain. This is pretty hard to watch.
He has many Women that watches Divorce court and that is why he was gaslighting her, she is very naïve, he knows she has some type of learning disability. He is the best example of a narcissist. Thank you for this show, folks Need to know what a narcissist looks like an how they act.
Yes, I told my mother earlier that this woman has a mental disability.
How have they never had this conversation
That was hard to watch. FIFTEEN YEARS!!!!!!!
Dang "Don't let a man tell tou that he don't want you more than once" - Judge Lynn Toler........ She's clearly not with him for 15yrs out of her own imagination. He's trying to embarrass her for no clear reason but she needs to never look back cause guaranteed when they get home he's going to be hitting her up
What a disrespect. Damm lady move on. Are you serious u never met his family. Omg lady you're old enough to see when a man wants u or not
She is a soft person who had faith in him and their relationship and he continued to dishonestly use her without making it plain he didn't want to commit.