2:14 This is a KEY point right here. For the longest while I could not understand why my friend did not like the narc at all. Had no interest in getting to know them in the least bit. No matter how hard I try to persuade her to give them a chance I was always met with a firm no to my astonishment ( because I was so blind in love) and a litany of red flags that I saw but minimised... that is until I was discarded out of nowhere. Suddenly I could see clearly that everything she was saying and was seeing was absolutely true.
I am so proud i often called him out and told him straight up YOU HAVE ISSUES and IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ME. I also told him i felt like i was being used. I told him he needed help and I wouldnt stay with him unless he found a therapist which he got. But i never went around his friends or family and maybe I should have to see him in other settings.
It hurts to hear this.. the part of changing at the end.. he did that. And yes he knew what to do.. and if he did once he would talk about it like it was all the time when it was just one time. Etc etc etc. It feels like a betrayal. Like one of the worst. I don't think he will ever understand how much pain he caused me. He will never feel the knife in the heart the way I felt it and still feel it. I live a tones of hard things in life. More than one narc. But for some reasons my last relationship has been just horrible painful. On so many levels.. it's even hard to explain it all in details be ause it's in so many ways and in so many levels. I wish he could take a therapy with you. I wish he was his best potential.. but at the very end, when he was it was over for Real Real.. he did and sais things that made me doubt on everything about what he had been and sais before. I have no idea who he is and I have no idea who I was for him
My wife would say to me “ I told my friends what you said, thought or did and they all agreed with me that you’re dumb, stupid etc.” One day I finally said that I didn’t give a F what they said. Suddenly that stopped.
yeah. 'bout to listen to this one AT LEAST...twice...thrice... more!!!!! THEN adding it to my "RAW TRUTHS for..." playlist. OVER AN HOUR LATER, I AM STILL LISTENING TO THIS VIDEO, NOT BELIEVING THAT DUDE TRIED TO PLAY ME LIKE A GUITAR FROM!THE!!!BEGINNING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HE DID EVERYTHING MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You’re probably an Echo. Read the story of narcissus and echo. Richard Grannon coined Echo Codependent based in the story. An echo is cursed to never initiate anything. It’s happens to be the only way the cycle can be broken - initiate no contact.
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2:14 This is a KEY point right here. For the longest while I could not understand why my friend did not like the narc at all. Had no interest in getting to know them in the least bit. No matter how hard I try to persuade her to give them a chance I was always met with a firm no to my astonishment ( because I was so blind in love) and a litany of red flags that I saw but minimised... that is until I was discarded out of nowhere. Suddenly I could see clearly that everything she was saying and was seeing was absolutely true.
I am so proud i often called him out and told him straight up YOU HAVE ISSUES and IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH ME. I also told him i felt like i was being used. I told him he needed help and I wouldnt stay with him unless he found a therapist which he got. But i never went around his friends or family and maybe I should have to see him in other settings.
It hurts to hear this.. the part of changing at the end.. he did that. And yes he knew what to do.. and if he did once he would talk about it like it was all the time when it was just one time. Etc etc etc. It feels like a betrayal. Like one of the worst. I don't think he will ever understand how much pain he caused me. He will never feel the knife in the heart the way I felt it and still feel it. I live a tones of hard things in life. More than one narc. But for some reasons my last relationship has been just horrible painful. On so many levels.. it's even hard to explain it all in details be ause it's in so many ways and in so many levels. I wish he could take a therapy with you. I wish he was his best potential.. but at the very end, when he was it was over for Real Real.. he did and sais things that made me doubt on everything about what he had been and sais before. I have no idea who he is and I have no idea who I was for him
My wife would say to me “ I told my friends what you said, thought or did and they all agreed with me that you’re dumb, stupid etc.” One day I finally said that I didn’t give a F what they said. Suddenly that stopped.
yeah. 'bout to listen to this one AT LEAST...twice...thrice... more!!!!! THEN adding it to my "RAW TRUTHS for..." playlist.
OVER AN HOUR LATER, I AM STILL LISTENING TO THIS VIDEO, NOT BELIEVING THAT DUDE TRIED TO PLAY ME LIKE A GUITAR FROM!THE!!!BEGINNING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HE DID EVERYTHING MENTIONED IN THIS VIDEO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Let's get you free that way you don't have to keep listening and can start living! www.rawmotivations.com/breakthrough
Thank you. I'm curious... maybe I ask. How did you feel when you understood you were doing all this ? And that you were like that?
Hmmmm..maybe I am the narcissist?😮
You’re probably an Echo. Read the story of narcissus and echo. Richard Grannon coined Echo Codependent based in the story. An echo is cursed to never initiate anything. It’s happens to be the only way the cycle can be broken - initiate no contact.
if you are, contact Mr. R-A-W!!!!! and avail yourself of his services.