I’m with you, Paul. Especially with parking spots. I remember my mom passing by so many perfectly good spots because “what if there’s one closer?” Drove me NUTS!
These two are so great I totally agree with your comment oh, it will just open up our hearts you find love and companionship and places you never thought you would that's why I love their story
@@greendragon4058 agreed! Their story is pretty awesome. I'm a hopeless romantic and I hope this happens for me too one day!! Until then .... I just binge M&P's videos. 🤣🥰 **EDIT:** damned autocorrect
I’m a mixture of both but it gets bad when I’m looking for something to wear for a special day. My birthday is next month and I changed outfit ideas about 20 times. 😂
You know what he didn’t do that with, though? You, Paul. He found you and never let go or wanted something different. It’s special that right off the bat he knew he couldn’t do better. That’s love, baby! 🎉
@@greendragon4058 Depends on the context. If I'm driving it would be unsafe for me to wear headphones, so car radio it is, so we're playing my playlist. In that case my partner can wear headphones and I can turn the car radio's volume lower so we both get what we want. In any other scenario tho, yeah, wear headphones. I prefer people not knowing what I listen to anyway.
I'm both as well. I always order the same thing, but still feel the need to scan through the whole menu, just to make sure it is really the best thing there is.
I'm the opposite! I stay on a great song if it's truly a great song and not just an okay song. But I will try everything on the menu and then go back to my favorites at the end, like Matthew.
Yeah for me it depends, if it’s a simple thing like a radio station then I don’t have to check every one but if it’s a major purchase or major time investment, then I do more research & worry about getting the best one
I love your content. I know we only see snippets of your lives and it's parts you want to share with us, but it's very easy to see that you two have a very strong relationship. Keep happy. Keep being you. Love it all
I'm 100% a satisficer, but I wouldn't necessarily say it makes me a happier person. It's not natural for me to get out of my comfort zone so I have to force myself to try out new things that could enrich my life. If us satisficers are not careful we can end up close minded and scared of taking risks.
I randomly came across your channel talking about my severe astigmatism and myopia, I totally understand Paul when he says there’s levels to being blind, I’m obviously more full sighted. It’s so irritating people don’t seem to get that I’m fine driving during the day but not at night. I know Paul can’t drive but what would he tell his friends if they just didn’t get it?
I would say "I have an eye condition that makes me night blind, but my eyesight is good in daylight." I'm not blind, but I have Autism, and I have learned that explaining my symptoms accurately doesn't work. You need to paint a simple and relatable picture for them, even if it's not 100% correct. Even though night blindness is something else, most people won't know/question it.
This is hilarious. I’m completely a satisfizer. I have a favorite thing at any restaurant that I go to regularly, I tend to find things I like and stick with them. I never knew there was this distinction.
I'm a mix of the two! I do the same as Matthew on finding the best song. But I also have a favorite meal at restaurants. I love you guys and your relationship!! ☺❤
I used to just order the same thing.... But now that I'm 54... I want to try new things. So I try to keep an open mind. You 2 are so beautiful and just ooze kindness!!!❤❤
Paul is such a genuine and happy person, just radiates empathy and joyfulness❤ Hopefully there will be more people like Paul in youtube, who are giving out that much good energy and are not whining and complaining about dramas that they are making in their life (usually by themselves) 🥰
I'm a maximizer 😁 I want to see and hear Everything! Taking the other route home, taking a different turn when I walk our dogs. Eating everything I can possible eat, I always switch it up 💕
Oh I am always looking for something better and trying something new! I just memorize the good thing I enjoyed or take a note of why I didn’t enjoy something. Sooooo, when I go back I know what to do. That process brings me so much joy tbh :)
Is there such thing as being both satisficers and maximizers? I feel like I'm both lol. I love you guys and this video. I watched the premiere earlier. You guys make the best couple ever so glad you found Love for and and other you guys are so good for one another and work hand-in-han so beautifully 😊❤. Paul you definitely found a keeper and Matthew vice versa. You guys are my favorite youtube couple everything ever thank you for sharing your experience love you guy's 😊❤
Satisficers are the best type of people to date! You know they're not gonna be looking elsewhere🤗❤️. Both me and my hubbie are satisficers and have been together for 8 years now ❤️
You two are constantly fascinating without drama and wholesome without being boring. Like I’m sure you have fights and I’m sure you have boring days but I feel like your general setting is interesting but not due to causing drama (with each other or others). Maybe I’m wrong but I don’t think so.
I'm not sure what I am (so to speak). Maybe a third option? I can be happy *anywhere*, but if I go to the same restaurant more than once, I'm trying something different every time I go.
I’m definitely a satisficer. I operate in such a way that I don’t even have to look at menus when I go to restaurants anymore and my family automatically knows what I want from most fast food places. I also read the same books at least three times before I even consider getting rid of them and stick to the same songs by the same band. Don’t even get me started on how many movies I can recite the whole script of because I’ve seen them so many times. It drives my cousin crazy because I don’t want to try anything new😂
Hi guys I really like your videos and it’s nice to be one of the first comments in this video also it’s really nice to see you guys so happy with each other take care 😊😊😊😊
I’m like a combo plate satiisficer and maximicer😁. I am like Matthew and Paul combined. In my opinion, that’s a wonderful thing. Thank you Matthew, Paul and Mr. Maple.
I'm like Paul too. When I try something at a new place and love it I refuse to order anything else. If I don't like that new dish I'll be pissed I wasted the money when I could have gotten what I love. 😂😂😂
Same! My sister and I are both autistic. We can walk into certain local restaurants and they know what we're gonna order! Same thing every time, for years.
That's true love if you remeber and noticed those details about your partner . And recall them in this way ( sound like you adore those little things , momments of him ) .
I'm between the two, I'll sometimes stick with what I know I like but sometimes I want to try something new & expand my horizons because then I get a new song I love or a new food I never knew I liked. Now when my stepmother's mother offered me chicken feet I knew I'd stick with what I liked but when I tried rabbit it was actually quite nice.
I am one hundred percent a Satisficer. Restaurants may as well only serve one dish, and I listen to the same two hundred songs on shuffle for _months_ before I start cycling them with new ones. I am most comfortable with the familiar, and I am okay with that.
YES! There is a word for this? I'm definitely a satisficer, I am good with trying new things but specifically with shopping I find the first thing that I am happy with and I look no further. I do it with shoes, clothes, even groceries...I did this when I got my cat. Nori was the first cat I met and I picked her and looked at no other cats lol
My rule for this is only to keep searching if the searching itself is also fun. Ordering a new thing is for the risk and fun, ordering a familiar one is for comfort, or if it's just not worth the risk,
I’ll try everything on the menu, but if I find something really good, it’s my go to at that restaurant. Like, in PA, there were three or four diners we went to in town, and one was my chicken parmigiana diner, one was my breakfast diner, one was my burger diner, and so on.
All this say to me is that Paul is so in love yet maybe needs a bit of verbal reassurance sometimes. I’ll bet one of his love languages is words of affirmation ❤❤❤ They are so adorable!!
I am both maximizer and satisficer in restaurant and many aspects xD I'll find what I like and stick with it while having something new on the side to try out to be happy with having the stuffs I like while being able to try new things. But in friendship and relationship aspect I am a satisficer, I'll find someone I like and stick with them until they break my heart or otherwise lol
Ooooo! It was GREAT seeing BOTH of you together with your beautiful smiles and gorgeous looks. I'd love to hug you both. No worries, I'm a 64 year old mom of an LGBTQIA daughter. 😊
Satisficer here! If I try to be adventurous and try something other than my go-to, I'm always disappointed. When I choose what I want, I put a lot of thought into it for good reason!
Absolutely with Paul here. I get the same thing no matter where I go; chicken tenders (or nuggets if tenders aren't an option) and fries. There are very few exceptions that include places that only do certain food cultures such as Mexican (tacos), Italian (spaghetti) or Chinese (sweet & sour chicken) or specific fast food places like McDonalds because I like their chicken sandwiches or Burger King and Wendy's because I like their double cheeseburger. I only ever get one thing from anywhere no matter where I eat with a single exception. Bojangles' is the only place where I have options because I adore their egg & cheese biscuits AND their supremes so it's whatever I'm more in the mood for there which typically is chicken if it's past like, 2 PM
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I'm like Paul, I like what I like it's simple ❤ 😂
Is this the full video? Bc I'm dying to finish it lol😂
I'm with Matt. And, hubby is with Paul. Lol. ❤❤
I'm like Paul. I find one item on the menu that I like, and I only eat that item there for the rest of my life
Same, Like the stations I use are the ones I've had good songs on
Same here always finding one thing that will forever stay my favorite on menus
Fun fact! Those are called safe foods :3
Lol yeah, I usually order the same thing. I may switch it up now and then, but I definitely have my "go-tos".
Wony ❤️❤️
I’m with you, Paul. Especially with parking spots. I remember my mom passing by so many perfectly good spots because “what if there’s one closer?” Drove me NUTS!
me too. by the time we park several have come and gone from their spots and im pissed we wasted so much time.
I'm paul cause I'm super picky eater though but if order something new I might not it like or get money's worth or feel full
Same on the parking.
My mom will spend twenty minutes looking for a parking near the door than park further away and walk to the door in less than a minute.
I park further away because I know I'll find a spot and I can use the exercise.
If every relationship was this wholesome - no matter what kind! ❤
I'm like Paul😂😂❤❤
@@dianelara3570 LOVE! 🥰
These two are so great I totally agree with your comment oh, it will just open up our hearts you find love and companionship and places you never thought you would that's why I love their story
@@greendragon4058 agreed! Their story is pretty awesome. I'm a hopeless romantic and I hope this happens for me too one day!! Until then .... I just binge M&P's videos. 🤣🥰
**EDIT:** damned autocorrect
I’m a mixture of both but it gets bad when I’m looking for something to wear for a special day. My birthday is next month and I changed outfit ideas about 20 times. 😂
You know what he didn’t do that with, though? You, Paul. He found you and never let go or wanted something different. It’s special that right off the bat he knew he couldn’t do better. That’s love, baby! 🎉
Not to ruin the sweetness but if Matthew lhad boyfriend before he technically did do it.
Paul just ended up being the best.
I have to shoo my boyfriends hand away when he tries to flip through the saved radio stations when there’s already a good song playing 😂
This is why I have earphones I can listen to whatever I want and not having to listen to everything he plays because I can't stand it goes both ways
@@greendragon4058 Depends on the context. If I'm driving it would be unsafe for me to wear headphones, so car radio it is, so we're playing my playlist. In that case my partner can wear headphones and I can turn the car radio's volume lower so we both get what we want.
In any other scenario tho, yeah, wear headphones. I prefer people not knowing what I listen to anyway.
@@LoreCatan yeah driving with headphones no no, passenger seat back seat yes, sitting in the doctor's office yes. I guess I should have clarified
What if you're both? 😂 I'm with Matthew on the radio part but with Paul on the restaurant part.. 😅
I'm both as well. I always order the same thing, but still feel the need to scan through the whole menu, just to make sure it is really the best thing there is.
Same!
Same
@@missnowonethe worst of both worlds with all the lack of variety of one and the time wasting of the other? Damn, pal
I'm the opposite! I stay on a great song if it's truly a great song and not just an okay song. But I will try everything on the menu and then go back to my favorites at the end, like Matthew.
I feel like Matthew did this with relationships, definitely found the best one. Love you both
They must have been together a long time, tho. Since Paul was in college. He can’t have sown that many oats
You guys have such a good relationship, you both seem genuinely happy ❤
Paul is so expressive and dramatic ❤
Matthew’s got jokes 😂😂😂😂🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Always! ❤
Paul is so positive ❤🎉😢😢his happiness is priceless...... God bless you both.. Mathieu and Paul 😮😅😊
This is relationship quality💛. You both are the best couple on the internet. Your laughs make my day every day with a smile❤️🐶. I love you guys✨
I love these two. They make me smile.
Oh my gawd I love you guys. You can be both. Satisficer in the streets and maximizer in the sheets. Lol
Yeah for me it depends, if it’s a simple thing like a radio station then I don’t have to check every one but if it’s a major purchase or major time investment, then I do more research & worry about getting the best one
I didn't realise I'm a satisfied person, and now I'm happy.
Same Matthew, always gotta look if there’s something you can work better with and we are always a perfectionist.
As long as you decided you're each other's favorite nothing else matters. LOVE you both so much 💗
I miss happiness in my life it's very rare. that is why I love to see you having fun and happy! Love you!😂❤
I love your content. I know we only see snippets of your lives and it's parts you want to share with us, but it's very easy to see that you two have a very strong relationship. Keep happy. Keep being you. Love it all
Y'all funniest ppl ever love y'all
I'm 100% a satisficer, but I wouldn't necessarily say it makes me a happier person. It's not natural for me to get out of my comfort zone so I have to force myself to try out new things that could enrich my life. If us satisficers are not careful we can end up close minded and scared of taking risks.
I randomly came across your channel talking about my severe astigmatism and myopia, I totally understand Paul when he says there’s levels to being blind, I’m obviously more full sighted. It’s so irritating people don’t seem to get that I’m fine driving during the day but not at night. I know Paul can’t drive but what would he tell his friends if they just didn’t get it?
I would say "I have an eye condition that makes me night blind, but my eyesight is good in daylight."
I'm not blind, but I have Autism, and I have learned that explaining my symptoms accurately doesn't work. You need to paint a simple and relatable picture for them, even if it's not 100% correct.
Even though night blindness is something else, most people won't know/question it.
This is hilarious. I’m completely a satisfizer. I have a favorite thing at any restaurant that I go to regularly, I tend to find things I like and stick with them. I never knew there was this distinction.
I'm a mix of the two! I do the same as Matthew on finding the best song. But I also have a favorite meal at restaurants. I love you guys and your relationship!! ☺❤
I love learning something new like this! I’ll remember this concept for forever and already see it in so many thinga
I used to just order the same thing.... But now that I'm 54... I want to try new things. So I try to keep an open mind. You 2 are so beautiful and just ooze kindness!!!❤❤
They are the CUTEST couple💞💞
This is hilarious y’all are a great couple! 😂❤❤
Paul is such a genuine and happy person, just radiates empathy and joyfulness❤ Hopefully there will be more people like Paul in youtube, who are giving out that much good energy and are not whining and complaining about dramas that they are making in their life (usually by themselves) 🥰
I do the same as Matthew! You 2 loves inspire me! ❤😊❤
Love you two Please believe God will not take your eyesight totally away What a testimony for God. Please Lord😊
I just cannot imagine a better match than you two. ❤️
I'm a maximizer 😁 I want to see and hear Everything! Taking the other route home, taking a different turn when I walk our dogs. Eating everything I can possible eat, I always switch it up 💕
Love this explanation. I relate with being a Maximizer 😅 but am converting to a Satisficer... never heard these terms before, so relatable 😊
They are both so sweet. They make me laugh
im the same as paul, i find one thing on the menu that i like and decide that its my “usual”
You guys put a smile on my face, you have great chemistry and make me laugh hahaha
Oh I am always looking for something better and trying something new! I just memorize the good thing I enjoyed or take a note of why I didn’t enjoy something. Sooooo, when I go back I know what to do. That process brings me so much joy tbh :)
Is there such thing as being both satisficers and maximizers? I feel like I'm both lol. I love you guys and this video. I watched the premiere earlier. You guys make the best couple ever so glad you found Love for and and other you guys are so good for one another and work hand-in-han so beautifully 😊❤. Paul you definitely found a keeper and Matthew vice versa. You guys are my favorite youtube couple everything ever thank you for sharing your experience love you guy's 😊❤
I want a relationship like this so bad. They are fluff personified
You guys are so incredible !!!!
You two always put a smile on my face!
Satisficers are the best type of people to date! You know they're not gonna be looking elsewhere🤗❤️. Both me and my hubbie are satisficers and have been together for 8 years now ❤️
I'm definitely a Satisfier!😂 Watching TV with a Maximizer is pure torture. They never stop changing the channel. 🙇
While a satisfier is watching the same movie over and over ? Not changing the channel, is more endurance in giving it a chance.
I always have a 😊 on my face when I come across your content. So refreshing
you guys are so cute and genuinely make me smile
You guys are great 😂 I love how wholesome you two are!
You two are constantly fascinating without drama and wholesome without being boring. Like I’m sure you have fights and I’m sure you have boring days but I feel like your general setting is interesting but not due to causing drama (with each other or others). Maybe I’m wrong but I don’t think so.
You two are just the best 💕 x x
you guys should make your book a braile option too love your videos❤
Omg me too Paul! I have friends who flip the radio stations constantly. The good songs they listen to like 30 seconds. Drives be insane
You two are great together, you are so funny!
😂 i love this explanation satisfizers and maximizers
Lol, i’m with paul, when I try to live on the edge and “try something new” from the menu, more than often regret is involved 😂
Same here. I usually end up regretting not going with my favorite.
I'm not sure what I am (so to speak). Maybe a third option? I can be happy *anywhere*, but if I go to the same restaurant more than once, I'm trying something different every time I go.
Definitely a satisficer, i have been eating the same thing at McDonald's for my entire life, and many other restaurants too lolll
I’m definitely a satisficer. I operate in such a way that I don’t even have to look at menus when I go to restaurants anymore and my family automatically knows what I want from most fast food places. I also read the same books at least three times before I even consider getting rid of them and stick to the same songs by the same band. Don’t even get me started on how many movies I can recite the whole script of because I’ve seen them so many times. It drives my cousin crazy because I don’t want to try anything new😂
No wayyyy Matthew😂😂😂
Paul hands down is the favorite man to us too😇
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
So different yet so perfect for each other! ❤❤❤
Hi guys I really like your videos and it’s nice to be one of the first comments in this video also it’s really nice to see you guys so happy with each other take care 😊😊😊😊
I'm a satisficer for sure! Sometimes I get bold and try new things, and I usually regret it (at restaurants usually). I like what I like!
I’m like a combo plate satiisficer and maximicer😁. I am like Matthew and Paul combined. In my opinion, that’s a wonderful thing. Thank you Matthew, Paul and Mr. Maple.
I'm with Paul and Maple😂😂😂 I like what's nice. I don't need the best.
You guys are so perfect together. Sending Love 💖..oh..Paul I love your top.😊
I'm like Paul too. When I try something at a new place and love it I refuse to order anything else. If I don't like that new dish I'll be pissed I wasted the money when I could have gotten what I love. 😂😂😂
Paul gives off a not-evil Gaston vibe. Nooooo-one, pranks him like Paul!
Now I understand why I relate so much to Paul 💕
as a neurodivergent person i also eat and do the same thing and not into trying new ones….
Same! My sister and I are both autistic. We can walk into certain local restaurants and they know what we're gonna order! Same thing every time, for years.
Oh, that two types of people makes so much sense. I'm a satisficer as well, if I like it here I don't wanna check other stuff.
That's true love if you remeber and noticed those details about your partner . And recall them in this way ( sound like you adore those little things , momments of him ) .
You guys are too cute ❤ I love watching your videos!
I'm between the two, I'll sometimes stick with what I know I like but sometimes I want to try something new & expand my horizons because then I get a new song I love or a new food I never knew I liked. Now when my stepmother's mother offered me chicken feet I knew I'd stick with what I liked but when I tried rabbit it was actually quite nice.
I'm sorta both lol. Sometimes I'm a maximizer, sometimes I'm a satisficer!
I am one hundred percent a Satisficer. Restaurants may as well only serve one dish, and I listen to the same two hundred songs on shuffle for _months_ before I start cycling them with new ones. I am most comfortable with the familiar, and I am okay with that.
I have a scarily strong desire to hug Paul as hard as I can but I can't quite place why
It’s because he touches your pathos but then releases it with his joy
YES! There is a word for this? I'm definitely a satisficer, I am good with trying new things but specifically with shopping I find the first thing that I am happy with and I look no further. I do it with shoes, clothes, even groceries...I did this when I got my cat. Nori was the first cat I met and I picked her and looked at no other cats lol
Hahahaha you both are absolutely hilarious 😂😂😂
I’ve only first saw your guys’ content today and I’m already loving it. You guys are so sweet ❤
Thank you so much!!
There's actually 3 types of people in the world. Those who can count and those who cannot.
I had a shirt that said "There are 10 types of people in the world - those who understand binary and those who don't.
i find it so funny that matthew has a very attractive voice and paul is very visually appealing 😂
I love this so much 😂❤❤
My rule for this is only to keep searching if the searching itself is also fun. Ordering a new thing is for the risk and fun, ordering a familiar one is for comfort, or if it's just not worth the risk,
You complement each other perfectly❤
Oh yes, definitely. Satisfiers are happier. My child who is most like this, her nickname is Happy because she just so happy and content ❤
I love your shirt❤
I’ll try everything on the menu, but if I find something really good, it’s my go to at that restaurant. Like, in PA, there were three or four diners we went to in town, and one was my chicken parmigiana diner, one was my breakfast diner, one was my burger diner, and so on.
All this say to me is that Paul is so in love yet maybe needs a bit of verbal reassurance sometimes.
I’ll bet one of his love languages is words of affirmation ❤❤❤
They are so adorable!!
Love you guys
Variety is the spice of life! Except when it comes to partner! Lol! Hugs boys! Cutie patooties.
I'm with Paul when it comes to actually doing the thing, but I still need to know all the options for me to feel 100% confident with my choice
I adore y’all ♥️♥️
omg you guys slould make like a my first braile book ❤
i'm so in love with your "couplehood"!
PAUL IM WITH YOU ON THIS HUN DEFINITELY 😂
I am both maximizer and satisficer in restaurant and many aspects xD I'll find what I like and stick with it while having something new on the side to try out to be happy with having the stuffs I like while being able to try new things. But in friendship and relationship aspect I am a satisficer, I'll find someone I like and stick with them until they break my heart or otherwise lol
Ooooo! It was GREAT seeing BOTH of you together with your beautiful smiles and gorgeous looks. I'd love to hug you both. No worries, I'm a 64 year old mom of an LGBTQIA daughter. 😊
Satisficer here! If I try to be adventurous and try something other than my go-to, I'm always disappointed. When I choose what I want, I put a lot of thought into it for good reason!
I'm with Matt on the music. I'm with Paul on finding something my I like at a restaurant. I will order it every. single. time.
Absolutely with Paul here. I get the same thing no matter where I go; chicken tenders (or nuggets if tenders aren't an option) and fries. There are very few exceptions that include places that only do certain food cultures such as Mexican (tacos), Italian (spaghetti) or Chinese (sweet & sour chicken) or specific fast food places like McDonalds because I like their chicken sandwiches or Burger King and Wendy's because I like their double cheeseburger. I only ever get one thing from anywhere no matter where I eat with a single exception.
Bojangles' is the only place where I have options because I adore their egg & cheese biscuits AND their supremes so it's whatever I'm more in the mood for there which typically is chicken if it's past like, 2 PM