How To Actually Meet Women At The Gym - Blaine Anderson
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Chris and Blaine Anderson discuss how to approach women at the gym. Should you approach women at the gym according to Blaine Anderson? What methds does Blain Anderson recommend when approaching women at the gym? When should you not approach women at the gym according to Blaine Anderson?
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"Don't ask fish for advice on how to catch a fish, ask a fisherman."
Yea idk wtf she talked about... Women are a waste of time
Step 1: be handsome and fit
Step 3: Park your Lamborghini inside the gym
Step 3: refer to step 1
Exactly.
@@Snerdles you can be short just not ugly 😬
Be attractive don’t be attractive
How to approach women at the gym:
1) Get ripped.
2) Don't stare, or even better, completely ignore.
3) Wait for them to approach you.
4) D.i,e alone.
This is the way 🗿
genius
LoL.
What happened?
I'm glad I work out at home these days based on all these comments. lol wtf
Alone. Just died. 😢
I’m already at step 3, I’m guessing I’ll get to step 4 soon
Dont listen to her. She’s clueless. The chads will be okay, the average guy will be accused of being a stalker.
How to approach women at tha gym. TWO OPTIONS!
1. Don't
2. Stay at tha water fountain
This helps!
I am the fountain
@@Canadian_Eh_I😂
Focus on yourselves men, if women are interested they will find a way to be near you. Other than that, don’t get Metooed or the next viral TikTok.
@@pmcfearson9453 The problem is that their signals are too subtle. I often notice that girls pick a machine next to me when they could have chosen one farther away. Is that a sign that they want me to approach them? Or was that just random? No body knows.
Best way is to ignore the FOCK Outta them
Because Bros will be there even if you're a beginner or 4yr into Gym
_Meanwhile women will notice only if you have visible bicep and abs or a Mercedes/Ducati_
Bros will be there even if you're sick 🤒
Bros will never judge you
Never forget those Bros who helped you.
Relationship advice is easy..when you're hot 😂 all the dudes probably drooling over her at gym
They got hot by being dedicated at the gym. If they laid around eating pizza and doomscrolling on their phones, they would not be hot.
Nah. I have regular guys who always look at me week and after week and month after month: they are terrified to approach.
@@user-ms1ue8bd8r hear me out... If you are hoping for a specific man to approach you, make eye contact, then smile and nod at him. I promise you will quickly get the results you are looking for. Guys are rightly terrified of getting "me too" allegations against them anymore.
Pretty privilege
Taking up any activity that doesn’t genuinely interest me, just to meet women, would be disingenuous & not something I’d consider regardless of possible outcomes. We’ll either cross tracks somewhere I’m already going or we won’t.
Damn bro that’s so fucking sigma
I totally agree. I see how it's a good idea but it honestly almost seems sociopathic.
This feels like a very narcissistic and asocial take. You’re not special, women aren’t going to throw themselves at you for just existing. Taking a bare minimum step to go out and meet people isn’t crazy. You don’t have to commit to the club for years, maybe you go for a few sessions, nobody seems cool, and you dip.
It’s to dishonestly misrepresent yourself, with an ulterior motive. Don’t appreciate that from others & so wouldn’t expect it to make me appealing either.
@@lessmore444 Two things can be true simultaneously. You can want to try something and want to meet people.
If a guy starts a women-dominated hobby, do women not think the guy's just doing it to get laid? Do they really think the guy is into pilates or dancing??
The reality is most guys will be viewed with a high level of suspicion and negativity when they trespass on a female dominated space.
Nailed it
@@Canadian_Eh_I
You have to pretend like you’re there for your own self love. They love that shit. Tell them you want to start embracing your femininity
Patrick swayze was a dancer because his mom was a dance instructor. Some women don’t care as long as you aren’t a creep.
Guys need to focus less on doing shit to meet women. Instead, focus on what you enjoy. You will meet people regardless. If you meet male friends, fine. From there they will invite you to places and introduce you to more people, maybe female friends of their partners etc.
"Just be the fun single guy and you're golden *clicks fingers*"
I mean…yeah? “Put yourself out there” generally means going and doing something in public. Maybe that makes you feel uncomfortable but you’re never going to grow unless you go through some discomfort.
The guy she is imagining is a 10/10 6’2 shredded guy with glasses
I consider myself a 7-8/10. I get hit on once or twice a week. Never by stunners.
In my experience, her advice is solid. Keep in mind it is in the form of distorted truth(relative to men) that comes from a woman speaking about man things(as it is vice versa).
Lol I do ballroom dancing and the avg age is about 65 for ballroom dance. Salsa is one of the few styles I suck at and its the one that all the young people do.
She’s acting like every guy is 6ft, making 6 figures, and is handsome like Chris Hemsworth
As a Man NEVER take dating advice from a woman.
Th problem is that Men who could actually pull off meeting a girl at the gym do not need this advice anyway, and the men who are seeking answers are most likely not the type of man these women would ever want to meet anywhere let alone the gym.
No dude..it’s not that way…re member women don’t see u as u do..
@@RestLess-MinDyou did not really say anything here
Its 2024. Women need to start approaching.
Women approach men already, but typically only the top 5-10% of men get approached, and by a small percentage of bold women who approach those men. Surely you have some very good-looking friends who've been approached by women? In my view, there's not any feasible way to motivate the majority of women to approach men. It's likely never going to happen with gender norms and while social media dominates social interaction, so it's largely up to men.
Drizzle drizzle
You've got a million years of evolution to contend with
@@gmoneymac23 Grizzle Grizzle
they do
Or just don't. Thats the safe way. Just leave them alone, that is what they have asked for.
This is the Way.
Agree, I'm there to work out. If I wanted to speak to someone, I'd do something social/without noise cancelling earphones on.
@@emilyowen2555 You wouldn't mind the attractive guys approaching you, of course.
OP's message is to all the other men you've started deeming as subhuman with the advent of social media.
Yeah boy, you keep doing what's safe.
😬
The right way is to not approach women at the gym, especially if you are a regular you don't want her causing trouble for your routine if things go wrong.
That’s anxiety speaking. 💯
@@latesk8er more so exhaustion at all the gym drama
Based
@@emilyowen2555 and redpilled
@@wingsoffreedom3589I've been going to the gym for years and have never seen or experienced such drama.
I think its mostly the internet that makes it seem like drama.
How does one become an "expert" in that subject?
Lot’s of practice! 😆👀
the same way that you become a "expert" at social interraction. You cant. Because there is nothing to be a expert in
Be hot or coventionally physically attractive woman, you can be a 'dating expert'
the title should read, 'How not to be bothered by women like this'.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🗣️
Yeah she is very off putting
'Experts' of this kind always seem to assume everyone is like them. Some women don't want to be spoken to even in passing or at a gym class. Some are happy to be approached at any time inside a gym. Navigating those differences is hard but pretending there is any one solution is dumb.
Yeah i agree good point
If you go to the same gym, you'll probably run into her around the neighborhood. If you recognize each other, make eye contact and smile. If she reciprocates, say "hi. Let things unfold organically. Eventually, you'll find a way to strike up a conversation. Take it from there and see what happens. Don't get hung up on the outcome. Enjoy the moment. I'm speaking from my own experience 😉
Yeah but podcasts are all about 'experts' giving their take so they gotta say something
Nobody is saying "do this every girl is waiting and willing there"... What you said is literally so basically obvious it's not worth mentioning at all. So what if some people are not open to social interactions, do you give up seeking out those who are?
All they said is true. I just wish there was more emphasis on the fact you yourself have to be genuinely willing and interested in said activities too, at least to some extent, so you don't come off as disingenuous or as someone with other motives.
@@ashkiin8493 The woman in the video explicitly talks as if what I said isn't true and as if her advice should apply in general. So its not obvious at all.
“Dating expert” 😂
I think this is all valid advice. But if you're short or unattractive, its going to take more than this depending on the girl.
You forgot about being wealthy.
@deth3021 that definitely helps.
Good luck with that victim mentality. See where it brings you in life dude.
How to approach women at the gym: you don't. Just saved you 9 minutes.
*Meets husband at the gym*
*Becomes dating expert*
Rule 1: don’t be creepy. Note: if you are not handsome and fit you can only be creepy. Do NOT look at any women if you don’t want to be ejected from the gym. Sorry.
I'm not shidding ....
When I joined the gym I wasn't jacked , was fairly skinny but still got Gazing and staring.
The thing is the vibe you carry. If you're unbothered and effortless, positive and open to everyone. People will want you.
But I'll say it.... Never go extra mile for women. And whatever she's saying in the video doesn't happen in real life. She is different. Women are different. It's impossible to decode.
Just focus on Making Gym Bros 💪 because they'll be there even if you loose all your gains and won't judge you.
Ah yes, another woman dating expert telling men how to approach. The classic.
I need help. How do I approach women at the gym if my wife goes to the same gym?
Basically, people are starving for connections. Meaningful connections, no drinking.
Duh lol, now tell this to most human beings!! I’m telling my gf that dating is hard for guys.
That is really the biggest takeaway from stuff like this. Specially men
@@moonknight4053Dating for men is like going for an interview,
Where the interviewee has 1 chance meanwhile the interviewer has 27 options
You are just another option.
I honestly can't be bothered with meeting women at the gym. I'm there to work out. I'm zeroed in on my workout, not looking to meet anyone. I'm not there to meet friends or be social. In fact, I'd actually prefer a woman to not be into fitness like I am. Gym couples always seemed so cringe. I don't want to work out with my woman, I want to travel with her and do fun activities that don't involve exercising. That's just me though.
Same. My wife is Chinese. Petite and slender but no gym muscles. Just natural Asian slender. I find it weird when guys go for muscled girls......like dating a guy with long hair.
@@warrennyMost of my friends and I share the same opinion. No muscles on women ever, it’s just too masculine.
Im a bodybuilder and i been training for 3 years, never approached a woman in the gym lol
Cuz you are small bro, just look at ur profile pic
@@ravkue6336 jesus christ lmao
@@ravkue6336 😭i know
oh so you are a normal person who knows what social etiquette is. Good.
@@ravkue6336 What is wrong with you to write something like that to a guy who’s obviously in good shape and cares about his appearance? And secondly, few women want dudes that are extremely huge from being roided up.
I apologize in advance for not being up to date on pop-culture.
But can anyone tell me who this guest is?
A nobody
@@robertg420thanks brother
She’s 100% right about classes being much better, but the open gym floor is totally fine if you’re not interrupting. There’s down time between exercises and sets and you just have to make a brief introduction to get your foot in the door
This is why my top recommendation for meeting women is to join a volleyball league.
@@UserRobot215 it was a joke silly.
Softball coed is even better.
1. Always bring a towel and follow hygiene rules. 2. be polite to everyone. 99% of people at my gym cant do this 😅
Good advice thanks
Seems gay to me
Never approach any women in public. Period. Save yourself the humiliation. Go your own Way and make your life better in other ways.
If you're at a point when you are an 'expert' at dating then you fucked up somewhere along the way.
I second when she mentioned dance groups. If u manage to take some lessons of bachata, kizomba, salsa or whatever, you have roughly a 70/30 ratio of women to men. It's that wide that women often have to wait their turn to dance and usually if you a good dancer, they all wait to dance with you, you have the physical touch but also the cut distance and dance topic which makes it easy to engage. So if you're decently looking (nice haircut, fit body or in shape, nice outfit) you will definitely catch eyes, and if u can move those hips, they will want more
As of approaching in the gym, i would say you need context to break the ice, so wait to either need the same machine she's using, or even better she comes up and need your machine and then you can try to engage. All you need is start the conversation with disinterest. You dont need to take her number right away, just make it a good conversation, banter a bit to avoid being seen too much as a nice guy but more as a potential mate. It's about repetition and by the 2nd to 3rd time you see that girl again it wont feel forced to lvlup and ask for a number or to hangout outside the gym
Have taken dance classes for three years and is almost exclusively couples, regardless of whether a paired or individual dance. In my larger mid west city (300,000) pickle ball is mostly couples and run club is for sure dominated by 40 year old men. I perform improv and that is mostly men. The best in my town is Volleyball but the only issue is it is mostly younger, college age or just out of college girls which is a bit young for my interest. Same for rock climbing, no girls in my age range (26-36). Tried work out classes. Lots of married, older women but very few singles in my age range. And for some reason no girls at my Dungeons and Dragons games hahaha. Ah well. As we move towards a majority single population (63% men 18-30 single, 45% single all women by 2030 (Morgan Stanley, 2023)) it will be the reality for most and we will all have to live with it
Softball dude.
No shade on Blaine, she is doing good stuff and getting paid for it. Buuuuuut, this was common fucking knowledge when I was coming up. What the hell happened?
I was always told, that to meet women you had to make more friends and do stuff, consistently. If you don't meet her at an event, she is someone's friend/sister/neighbor/etc. You learn to be social with friends, even if they are all the sex you aren't interested in, and they all have contacts that could be the one for you.
I heard that all the time, when my friends wives suggested that I should ask/hang out to the "other friends" as they only did couples things.
I found some events/groups that interested me, but it's always a case of "we didn't come here to meet guys/socialize/expand our groups... we just came to xxx".
It seems that people are unwilling to open up to new groups/people/ horizons and the possible connections have all been outsourced to the internet or the mysterious "events" and "the other friends".
A few things happened. A lot of guys never got that advice or were subtly but repeatedly told that basic approaches were bad. You were constantly told how women might blow up on you or try to get you cancelled if you didn’t have a great approach.
The thing in shows/movies where your boys hyped you up to ask a girl out…a whole generation didn’t get that.
I’m getting a dog
ended the vid soon as i heard "group fitness class in san francisco"
She intonates in valley girl lol. Terrible
Valley girl speak has spread all over the world out of California via the female hivemind.
The way to approach women at the gym: be hot. Already be the guy women are introducing themselves too. If you're not that guy, you're automatically a creep.
Exactly, ignore all women unless one talks to you first. Don't approach and don't get worked up over a friendly chat.
@@JM-bg2ts enjoy feminism, amirite
Women need to send signals if they notice your interest. If she is not into you, she won't send any signals. It's that simple.
Yeah but often what a woman considers a signal is that she walked past you. It's like, damn, that is not a signal honey. A lot of women aren't doing the basic bare minimum signals like head tilting, eyelash fluttering, crossing her feet, heightening her voice and so on. I don't know if that's because they never learned them or they're repressing their instincts to do them.
Those signals could be speech if only women learned how to speak.
They don't do that either
@@ApplesandDragons It happened to me multiple times. They show signals, but if they are not really interested, then you won't receive any signals. Once, a woman even stepped on my foot twice to get me to talk to her. The first time she apologized with 'Oops, sorry,' and when I still didn't talk to her, she came back and deliberately stepped on my foot again, saying with more emphasis, 'Oops, I'm so sorry.' After that, we talked 🤣 I still messed it up though :)
At the gym, I just approach my wife and remind her to get sandwich stuff when she goes shopping on the way home.
Rofl bro
Did you end up on tik tok?
@@deth3021 No. I’m heterosexual.
Food, groceries, clean the house. End of story.
All the good looking shredded guys at our local gym always get all the attention and they are being approached by women. Don't waste your time watching this. Get Better or go somewhere that you are in the top 1%.
If youre going to the gym just to meet a woman, reevaluate yourself. The best way to find love is by not looking for it.
Been doing that for 33 years now. Found nothing so far. Should I just keep not looking for it?
@@bultvidxxxix9973 well, the idea is to look for genuine connections with people in scenarios where it's practical to meet people (concerts, festivals, dinner parties, maybe work depending on the circumstances, even an online community is the norm these days) the gym not typically being ideal for most people. When one of those relationships develops into something more it was meant to be.
Chris bent knee on that chair is giving me anxiety
Just don’t. Gym time is not pickup time.
My last approach of a woman in the gym: Walked up to the glass door of a small private gym, saw a woman lying in the center of the floor doing leg lifts, turned around and NOPE'd the heck of there.
Who the heck is looking to score at the gym? 😂 it’s for working out, not dating
Just like going to the shops is a place to buy things, or the park is a place to walk .. you can pick up chicks anywhere bro stop making excuses
@@SeanLives anywhere works but the gym situation is particularly stigmatised, that's not a good setup from the get go, but sure why not if the occasion presents itself, anythng can go.
@@SeanLives
I don’t need an excuse. I’ve been married for years.
I can promise you that no chick wants to be hit on when she’s working out. But good luck pal 😂
@@vladrileynavilys Be prepared to burn that place wherever you decide to try and pick up chicks. (Figuratively, please don't actually burn down a gym.) There's a reason why you shouldn't date coworkers. Things can get awkward. Don't shit where you eat.
So if you like your gym and don't want to train somewhere else, maybe don't search for dating partners there.
good game from an attractive dude works in any environment. the real problem is the lack of calibration, which is what girls are actually referring to.
`lack of calibration` - what does that mean ?
As a life long runner thats been in run groups for years its very interesting to see run clubs. I went to one in Chicago and it was very interesting to observe. Im so used to being in run groups where people actually care about running but this new run club wave is very interesting. I see a lot of pros and cons with it.
Supply and offer! Go to places where the ratio favors you ex. Guys do well in dance classes. Also cities like NYC are much easier to find pretty single girls than San Francisco. Make a research, find your sport, work out, improve your game!
Step 1: Leave America
I cannot hear anything of value coming from this woman
Figure out what you want in a mate and go where they would be.
If you want someone who cares about fitness and health and has a hobby, take a jiu jitsu class. If you want someone who drinks for fun, go to a bar.
Reverse engineering!
Women now have the upper hand and engagement power. Men have to respect whatever decision they make because of a power imbalance. This means women should make the first move more. The problem is in nature men’s lineage depends on him moving.
@stagebloq6002 what are you doing about it?
Yes, women should figure out what they want in a mate and go where they would be.
How come people never make this kind of videos for women? It’s always for men
@@Cosmos_Mariner
True but women find extremely difficult to meet the right man
@@Don2Boxeo
I’m not trolling😂
There's tons of content like that for women. Matthew Hussey for instance.
Most of the problems is people just are in the wrong places to see whatever it is they hope to encounter. Got to go seek to find. Most things don't come to you on their own.
@@ConceptHut
I’m tired of using apps to be honest. I once tried a speed dating and I matched with everyone I ‘liked’ and went out with some of them but did not like any of them. One was looking for a casual relationship (I think) and another person did not ‘click’. Basically I just want to get married without searching and dating processes
@@dylzp I understand but I think women are more keen to marry once we find the right men. Not many men in their twenties want to marry
This resonates only with simps. Men, dominate the gym, boost your aura, own your routine and it’s space - attract, don’t chase.
unfortunately the reality is that you'll intimidate women like this. Guys almost always have to make the first move.
@@freekingdavey I think you missed the point.
note to all men: be a Chad or a Tyrone, live in a big city & do everything a woman likes....what you like doesn't matter....be perfect at all times so you will fulfill her fantasy, & be sure to give her money.....
Take ballroom dancing of you are older, or salsa if you r younger
1-you learn how to go up to women
2 - women like men who can dance good
3 - holding women is a part of dancing
Damn I wrote this comment half way thru and at the end she just confirmed what happened to me
No.
A guy recently approached me at the gym. He told me Iook like a fitness model and "scanned" my body. I know I'll get some hate comments like "so now a guy can't compliment a woman, etc..." but it just felt wrong and creepy so I kindly declined his advance.
In my opinion, best chance for me to go on a date with a guy at the gym is to get to know me first because I always go to the gym at the same hour almost daily. Talk to me several times and just be friendly for a couple of days, then it's very likely I'd say yes even if I feel no attraction whatsoever (because you never know what will happen).
My 2 cents. I know it's different for everyone though.
Agree. Take it slow and make her feel safe. Objectifying girls is predatory and they don't feel safe unless they clearly objectify themselves.
That is totally relatable, but how would you talk to someone? That's not even targeted towards the other sex, I feel like that is an issue in general. Most people wear headphones. Even if they don't, they are looking at their phone or notebook during set breaks and generally don't seem approachable.
I do greet staff members, but even greeting other people is uncommon. If someone talks to me they usually say "how many sets do you have left?" and I was asked two times to spot someone during a year in the gym. It may be just that specific gym, but it really doesn't look like a place where you can easily talk with strangers. Even among the same sex.
@@bultvidxxxix9973 some people just go ahead and talk to others at the gym (complimenting their forms / asking how to perform an exercise, etc). People at the gym are the most helpful and friendly in my experience. Usually I have my headphones on as well but the regulars know each other and I do take off my headphones when someone talks to me. I made some girlfriends at the gym because I help them putting on/off weights when I see them struggling.
Good luck!
@@bultvidxxxix9973 I'm a woman and another woman at the gym I see often made eye contact with me and said "hi" with a friendly smile😊 We have been greeting each other ever since, and the other day we had a brief conversation.
All I read was "be good looking or get the f away from me creep"
Also have to add to comments about the incessant vocal fry. It’s beyond annoying to listen to.
Good points. At uni, I went to a boxing circuit training class, and a few years ago I did salsa for about a month. At both those things, it was easy to interact with women, and if you go regularly you can form genuine connections as you can actually gauge each other's personality. This is in contrast to dating apps where the only thing you have to go off of are the quality of your pictures, or the wittiness of your prompts.
Salsa and softball = easy interactions
The most important factor is to be young. If you are 41 and want to meet an attractive woman? Good luck. There are none at that age and the younger ones have been told to stay away from older guys anyway.
I look forward to the right way to approach men at the gym clip. Following that, I would love to hear the best way to discuss a prenuptial. Thanks!
Leave us alone.
Dating advice for men from a married woman? 🤔
Feels gross to join group classes to meet girls but I'm sure it works. The gym can still be a good place, you just have to open yourself up to it. First step is to get out of your own little zone a bit by leaving the headphones out. Insanity, I know, but they're literally a barrier between you and the environment. Then just talk to people in normal ways, talk to everyone, the old guy that doesn't shut the fuck up, the fat lady who's just getting started, and the dime in tights. Talk to them the same, ask if they're done with equipment before you take it, etc. Lastly is just watching for eye contact from the girls you may be interested in, if they're interested you'll get some and if not they'll pretend you don't exist. Sometimes the interested ones will pretend you don't exist too but that's dating. Obviously there's a huge dominance hierarchy in a gym so you have to put the work in and get yourself as presentable as possible. There's never been a time with more girls interesred in fitness and I'm here for it. GL future Chads.
I would say don't bother "trying to actively meet women at the gym" because if you join a gym or a type of fitness class specifically for easier access to women then you aren't positioned to meet women in the first place. Go meet girls in the grocery store, subway, street, different shops, coffee shop, etc before going to a place that requires focus and isolation. Not saying it's not possible it's just very suboptimal. I know cause I used to exclusively go to meet girls at the gym in college and what I used to do was go to two different gyms in the same day for 2-3 hours each to meet a good bunch of girls and funnel them to parties. Result: met 100s of women and barely made any gains, got poor grades and basically wasted a year after college to get to the salary and level of job I wanted. Instead focus on yourself most places in life and meet girls in smaller designated windows during the day. Treat it like a workout session and best part you don't have to have a rest day you can talk to 5 girls every day and start building a network/practicing to be charismatic around girls. This will organically lead to opportunities where not only are you confident in talking to girls but also have a deep awareness of when it is appropriate and when the girl is most comfortable with you walking up to her.
Sounds psychotic 😂
Chris wearing an A Day To Remember shirt?!?!??!! LES GOOOOOO!!!! 🔥🔥🔥
Dating expert? Cant make this shit up.
Trying to get over the vocal fry and moronic interrogative from both of these. Good content underneath? Don't know
Preach! I’m glad someone else can’t stand vocal fry.
We have a chain of gyms in Berlin that organize speed dating once in a while, i think this is absolutely beautiful idea.
I personally will never approach anyone in the gym and i prefer to not he bothered as well.
Being “authentically into it” and “fun to dance with” are so far off for most young men.
A. Be Hot.
there is no step B.
but accept that since women don't know what they want, this dating expert has no idea what might work.
Joke at 1:00 was wasted on her but don’t worry Chris, we got it
"If you can be that single guy in the dance group"....your probably gay lol. AND THAT"S OK
Lmao, if you play a sport I don't wanna hear it. This narrative that dancing is gay is so played out.
Is it more gay to be on a team with a bunch of sweaty guys running into each other? Slapping your fellow bros ass for a job well done? Or would you rather be in a room surrounded by women, outnumbered 10 to 1? Getting to dance with them, lift them, and make them look even more beautiful? You tell me bro.
As a straight guy who grew up dancing (for a total of 15 years). Don't underestimate it; or the women you will meet. Even if you aren't interested in them, they usually have attractive friends. I met my first gf through dance, and know plenty of women I grew up dancing with that become very attractive.
@@DJHeath-bc9ot ISSA JOKE!
Chris is A Day to Remember fan. Awesome!
Aye rock climbing getting big shoutouts. Can't wait until my home gym gets even more crowded.
Once you have a home gym you will never have to deal again with monthly fees and scarcely clothed distractions.
That's the thing: I live in an apartment 😅
This is akin to wearing baggy jeans now because it's in style when really you like skinny/slim jeans that were in style 2 years ago. The truth is wear what you like and wear it well as yoir authenticity will shine through and you will attract the RIGHT ladies for you
Pretty sure Chris doesn't have any issues picking up women😅
Besides your awesome content, your bandshirts are killing it lately!
Rule 0: don't get fishing advice from a fish
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Any specific guide. I'm from Georgia how do I go about this?
Online dating websites makes more sense to me.
until you get banned
One thing is don't take dating advice from women.
The hottest girl I ever dated I met in the gym. Well, not technically. I was at a concert and this smoking hot girl walked up to me. I thought she was going to slap me for staring or something. Instead, she introduced herself and invited me to join her at a bar after the concert. She said she recognized me from somewhere. The next time I was at the gym there she was. That’s where she recognized me from.
Interesting she was the one that approached you? Because we all know 99% of women will never do that
@@nobodysperfect06 I was as shocked as you. I watched her get hit on all night. She and her friend (also hot) rejected guy after guy. The funnier part was she was 24 and I was 20. I couldn’t even drink, but I guess I was her type. I had long hair and was very fit. We dated for about 3 months.
Pilates!!!! Omg I swear women with the best bodies do Pilates. Stay away from CF girls. Trust me
@@USmetallist CrossFit
@@jgarza03but why? Anything particularly enlarged? =)
Figure skating/ballerinas/runners/pilates > lifters, CrossFit, or whatever else
You want small lean girls, the fats and hunks will be lifting
This is all obvious.
You need something where you can linger due to a common object/idea of interest to enable easy conversational intersections.
Gyms are the most ideal, but most women do not want to be approached there either. The classes are the best for this, but you don't get much in terms of benefit in "co-ed classes"...
Other Options:
In the DFW, we have a lot of cover bands where you have a general admission setting of 2-3 hours where you're in a common area and can move around, make eye contact to get the proverbial "you may proceed with your advance", say hello, etc. type of setting mentioned in the video.
I hate running, unless there's a food truck involved. But I may have to also do that.
The only step to take is: don't.
I thought this was a great conversation Chris and she verbalised sooo many of my personal thoughts.
The majority of these comments from the men though are so disappointing and nihilistic.😢
I came to this comment section after listening to this on spotify. Thought we would we would get some thoughtful and possibly engaging comments😅.
I was wrong.😂
Either way : Great work Chris.☺️
I don't think I ever wanted a relationship bad enough to run for it.
Nope. Pass.
THIS SUCKED.. DONT WASTE YOUR TIME AND FOCUS ON YOU KING!
I’m not in the business of shitting where I work (out).
I tinder match’d with a hottie at the gym, it went south.. and every time we are at the gym at the same time it’s awkward as hell.
My advice, do the flirty look, give the occasional smile (if they’re into you) and leave it at that.
Not yall cooking like ratatouille in these comments 👏👏👏🔥‼️
I can talk from experience.. dancing is winning in life
I'm going to add my comment of "NOPE!" and watch the video later.
ya, just don't
Thanks guys
I'll fix it really fast for you don't go near them ignore them completely