So well and calm explained, straight to the point! Thank you ladies! I have been in a marriage like this and I didn't recognize it then. Now it is soo cristal clear!
Disappointing that the interviewer frames this as male perpetrator and female victim when Darlene Lancer emphasises the range of abuse types of which women are often perpetrators
Plans may help you feel better as far as keeping your power Most abusers will just go around you and find someone on the side or leave you altogether You will never win
Maybe, maybe not, but we still have options. Our lives don't have to revolve around their behavior. When that stops, the relationship does change. See my blog, "Changing the Dynamics in Abusive Relationships." www.whatiscodependency.com/codependents-abusive-relationships-narcissist-borderline/
So well and calm explained, straight to the point! Thank you ladies!
I have been in a marriage like this and I didn't recognize it then. Now it is soo cristal clear!
Good talk.
Disappointing that the interviewer frames this as male perpetrator and female victim when Darlene Lancer emphasises the range of abuse types of which women are often perpetrators
Plans may help you feel better as far as keeping your power
Most abusers will just go around you and find someone on the side or leave you altogether
You will never win
Maybe, maybe not, but we still have options. Our lives don't have to revolve around their behavior. When that stops, the relationship does change. See my blog, "Changing the Dynamics in Abusive Relationships." www.whatiscodependency.com/codependents-abusive-relationships-narcissist-borderline/
7:24 book recommendations
Games People Play by Eric Berne