Do Japanese guys want to Date Foreign girls ?
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The gym guy is great. He is thinking more about having similar lifestyle than thinking too much about language & culture differences.
Agreed. Gym people don’t compromise on the lifestyle so his brain immediately went to the “deal breaker” space. 😂
Boss of the gym
Also the cutest
Gym guy was a cutie 😂
Perhaps you could try dating him. It might turn out to be a wonderful relationship.
That's a very interesting video! But honestly speaking, as a foreign girl in her 30s living in Japan, I found that college students here are more open to dating foreign girls. But once they become 社会人 they prefer to get settled with Japanese girls. I've also encountered another barrier - Japanese men tend to assume I'm not interested in them without even speaking to me which has been very disappointing.
What is 社会人
So do you prefer dating a foreigner guy than?
@@Mahalakshmi-Khan 社会人 (shakaijin) are basically people who work (it literally translates to social person)
If you look very pretty and have a good weight and face. it actually doesn't matter that you are in 30's. I wouldn't critism the other people. first try to change something at yourself. cause people will think you are true without seeing your appearence. I can say, by living in Japan myself. what you talk is actually absolutely not true.
You need to make the first move with Japanese guys .
I dated a Japanese guy for around 3 years, most of our relationship was a LDR so it was quite difficult, but we had fun traveling together when we met and I think language barrier was not such a big deal since I improved my Japanese, but idk sometimes cultural differences are hard to understand and put up with them.
What's LDR?
@@fatmasorour3099 long distance relationship
I dated one for almost 4 years..our relationship ended because of suicide..idk whether I can say our relationship ended or not..our problem are probably because the difference of religion, other than that we are doing good..I think..lol
a japanese "boy". lmao it sounds so weird a japanese "guy". better lol
I dated a japanese guy once. We had to break up because of his flatulence issues.
As someone who’s dated guys from Japan and Korea, I think the cultural differences make it extra fun and interesting. It’s great to learn about your partner and hear about their childhood, interests, etc. You can learn a lot from them :)
That’s what I’m saying! The cultural difference makes the relationship just that more interesting! That’s the beautiful part about it!
I have also dated men from Korea and Japan, they were the worst experiences of my life. The language barrier and culture things weren't an issue..They just weren't good people. One of the Japanese guys cheated 7 times, the other completely crushed me (I was sorta at the borderline obsessed stage with him) ..the Korean.. ghosted me and made me think he died (he was in hospital alot)
@@Kat-mu8wq can you give the full story?
@@Kat-mu8wq poor you
@@Kat-mu8wq Japanese and Korean men are both pretty shitty boyfriends on average. I laugh at how much people glorify them because they are brainwashed by pop culture.
As a Japanese-Filipina who dated other half Japanese and pure Japanese men, I can say that using culture as a negative is just an excuse of men not being open minded. Plus I feel like men who want to date foreign girls like me just do it for clout. However, there are some men I've dated who were very sweet and open minded, which I find very attractive
Sadly I hear it's just to experience something new, especially in Korea, or sleep with a foreigner. Some who date seriously but never marry foreigner might stop because of pressure from their family
Yep, I also think a healthy relationship need effort of 2 sides. "culture difference" is just a blame for not being open-minded or irresponsible, like you guys can communicate to understand each other and come to mutual solution. I agree many men only want to have a fling with foreign girls for experience, they dont intend to commit then use "culture difference" as excuse.
Open-mindedness is key we can say from experience!
Japanese men are more responsible unlike shallow people.Shallow people are not responsible and don't care at all how kids feel If the parents get divorced for example.
Are they packing? Is what my question is pls answer my sister wants to date a japanese
im filipina and my husband is japanese. we communicate in english at first as he lived in australia for a few years making him fluent in the language.
now, after 4 yrs since we met, we actually devised a mix of english-japanese-tagalog-cebuano when talking to each other and it's fun
I can relate haha. I'm mixed so when I converse with my mom I speak in a mix of nepali, korean and english.
i really like knowing you have created something together that you both can grow and enjoy. props to you both
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lmfao that's insane, in the good way
❤❤❤
I am from the us and my husband is Japanese and we live in japan! I don’t see many other couples like us! Even after being married for over 3 years and having a baby, we still have to solve issues that come up related to language barrier and cultural differences. It’s challenging being with someone from another culture who has a different native language but we never get bored!!
Yeah yeah
I am married to japanese guy I met on facebook. Haha. So I added him (may) and we become friends (no flirting) he is good in english and we both have common interest.
After 3 months in obon holiday (august) he came to my country and we spent time (with my friends too) for 3 days but somehow after he went back to japan there were sparks between us.
I wanted him to say “I love you” but he didnt say because he couldnt say that kind of stuff if not face to face. Both of us wanna say but couldnt. So in October he asked me to come to Tokyo he would buy me ticket (because he is working and cannot leave office) but I have to handle some job in October so he bought me ticket for early december.
In december, I went to Tokyo and when I arrived in Haneda, he suddenly kneel and show me a ring. He proposed to me in airport and I agreed. Then he introduced me to his family.
In january he came to my country to meet my parent and then I flew back to japan with him to register our marriage :D
So we basically skipped the “dating” period. It was so fast. But we have been married and happy for four years now :D we live in Shinjuku and in daily, we use English. I only use japanese if I have to go to beauty parlor, shopping, or meet his family.
I am his first foreigner girlfriend
And he is my first EVER boyfriend 😂
Sure in our home I can act freely like how I live in my own country but when we are outside I have to follow the rules and norms of Japanese people. Basically in our international marriage there is no problem. He loves my country’s food.
Ah and he converted to Muslim to follow my religion, so he stopped eat pork now. And his people from company, friends, and family respect it.
This is the most amazing story I have ever heard!☺️♥️ I am so happy for you, I wish you all the happiness in the world, good luck to you guys!👏👏
Oh my gosh, so romantic uwu
O My God... What a heart warming love story 🥺🥺🖤🖤🖤
@@el19_ my skin tone is also a bit dark, because I am from south east asia country. I talk to many of our relatives and my husband’s friends here, they dont mind dark skin because in their image dark skin is sexy hehe, maybe some older people will look at you but not because u are dark, just simply because u look different. (Not in bad meaning, so please dont get offended if this happened when u were in japan). I also get that kind of look sometimes (i think almost all foreigner will get the look) but dont let it discourage you 😄
Se converter ao Islamismo foi a pior coisa para ele..... e não será por não comer carne de porco que vocês serão salvos.... só Jesus Cristo salva.... todo aquele que não for um cristão batizado será condenado.
It shouldn’t be anything about culture but to do with the person as a whole. Deeply understanding who they are is what matters. So anyone should be able to adapt to different cultures as far as love goes.
(Edit: Culture can also come into play in relationships but if one is willing to learn, understand, and adapt to it, then the issue can be alleviated. Well, this is in my own personal perspective, thanks!)
Sometimes culture, like family education, is so deeply entrenched that it is part of your personality, and it's hard for your partner to adapt or for you to adapt to your partner. As open-minded as one can be, when your mentality & subconscious system (way of reasoning, way of communicating, existential values... ) are so different, conflicts can arise or you just grow apart.
@@lunerouge_han I don't understand why people can get this. It's not about stereotypes, it's not about "not paying attention to the individual", culture isn't some mystical thing that doesn't actually exist. Culture is out-right engrained into the base of every person. It effects our values and literal thinking. There are some who are anti-culture but they are the exceptions.
Elizabeth needs to spend time with actual foreigners...
@@bitsamui5104 The first reply has a point and of course culture has a lot to play when it comes to foreigners, no doubt about that. Although in my own personal viewpoint, irrespective to cultural values and beliefs, the person would eventually adapt if they truly cared about that significant other. The personality and mindset of that individual is also at the heart of loving someone. When a person is open to learn, then it becomes possible for cultures to coincide through understanding one another’s differences. Again, this is in my own perspective.
True
that's the most immature and cinematic thing I have ever heard
I've been binge watching this channel for like 4 hours. Very cool content, and you'll most likely blow up in popularity if you just keep up the good work like you've been doing!
The first guy tho. He's willing to learn English if he gets a chance with a foreign girl lol that's cute!
I am german and my husband is japanese. We are already married for 2 years and plan to get pregnant this summer ❤️
i know what you did last summer - Shawn mendes
Ich will auch einen japanischen Ehemann haben lol, kannst du japanisch sprechen oder habt ihr euch mit englisch verständigt oder er mit deutsch?
@@Peachykawaii Er kann kein deutsch, aber ich kann japanisch. Zudem können wir beide englisch
@@blume0121 achso
I knew a Japanese man from Japan in Hawaii. His wife died. She was also Japanese from Japan. He hooked up with a very colorful and creative lady originally from Europe. He began to embrace everything. He started playing tennis, getting involved in arts, local parades, he wrote poetry wore bright shirts... It was as if he came alive to any and all possibilities to try.
I was a little confused there because in my country "hooked up" and "dating" and "relationships" are all very very different things
that's really cool thanks for sharing
And how do you know he wasn't having a great time with his first wife who passed unfortunately?
As a guy who's dating a Japanese girl, it all comes down to how open minded you two are. Accepting things that is weird looking from the perspective of your culture, and how willing are you two to adapt to each others quirks.
All the stereotype based stuff just doesn't work out. If you wanna date Japanese guy/girl just because they're Japanese, just stop XD
Same can be said about dating a foreigner. If you want to date a foreigner just because they're a foreigner, just stop.
Whoa where u from bro?
@@iknowimgaywhenisaythisbut1369 hihihihihi 😁😅😄😄😂
Very true
who wants to date someone just because of their nationality lmaooo, thats just the kid weebs who have no grasp of life
I would have liked to know WHAT kind of culture differences they think would be problematic 😎
This!! I hope Takashi-san sees this.
Yes please, that be pretty interesting
Maybe 空気を読む( to read the situation, or to sense the mood, etc)
Well, that's what I am searching 😅😅what kind of cultural difference
There are many culture differences especially between japan and america i think. Food is big difference and not just ramen or sushi, traditional dishes and when and how to eat them, drinking culture is also very different, it is also important to respect everyone older than you whether you like it or not, always getting permission to eat. Also diet culture is very harsh in japan many japanese care about their looks and fashion is very different, more conservative than western fashion. Other than that there are many more i think it is just hard to form a deeper connection when your experiences are very different and there is less to relate to and agree on
I just discovered this channel , really interesting 😁 I'm married to japanese guy, honestly it was not difficult for him to understand other cultures as long as there is love everything is possible. Of course it's hard but I think even between japanese couples there are hard moments, I think japanese guys need to be more open and not so afraid🥰
yes this is true !
very well said :)
japanese guys are making a family oriented and responsible choice. They shouldn't change just so that foreign women who want them can be pleased 😭
My bf is Japanese and I live in japan so it’s not a big deal if he doesn’t speak English. I think people need to understand each Japanese people is different and each foreigner is different. For some reason Japanese people like to stereotype foreigners. It seems obvious but people seem to forget people on both sides have different personalities.
Congratulations for the channel. 🤗
So good to see that there is always a way to put differences aside and be happy.🥰
I saw your profile today and i loved it! I really want to live in Japan, because i really really like the culture, the language and everything. This video was really interesting and if there is love i don’t think the language barrier and the culture are problem
Keep going Takashii!!!
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I discovered your channel just recently and now I cant stop watching it. Your content is very interesting! Love from Philippines! 💕💕
In my experience (in Tokyo since 2012, near native level fluency in Japanese), 99.99% of Japanese men who are willing to "date" foreign women are only looking to have temporary fun. Not all, of course, but most Japanese men only want to marry Japanese women.
why is that?
@@Mahalakshmi-Khan the only reason I would assume is that the reasons stated in this video plus what family thinks and how other people in Japan view foreigners
Well, i am german and my husband is japanese. Also i know other foreign women with japanese husbands. Those couples get more and more
@@blume0121 Cool story. It's still rare even in 2022, especially since foreigners can't enter the country unless they're already residents.
yeah i can tell they look at it as a new experience or trophy not a normal relationship
Admittedly it’s a different subject, but when I was younger I was dating a Japanese guy - yes, we’re gay - and it was a mess. We managed our own differences okay, but the pressures from both our families was intense, way beyond the usual “Why do you have to be gay?!” business.
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So, it’s time to confess that Lord Jesus Christ is the Lord and to believe that He died and rose from the grave after three days and you shall be saved if you only obey Him by praying, worshipping, praising, reading the Bible and living holy and righteously according to the Bible. You have to endure until the end, carry your cross daily and build your relationship with God by following Lord Jesus daily until the end. You must never renounce your faith in The Lord Jesus Christ, there’s hell awaiting those who reject/deny Lord Jesus Christ and those who continue living sinfully, even the Christians who don’t want to repent will face the same fate, so please repent beloved people, in Lord Jesus Christ’s mighty and precious Name, Amen. ✝️
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I watch most of your interviews. You're are a very good interviewer. Your questions and eye contact are great! Continued success.
As long as you're both willing to make it work despite the language and cultural issues (notice l didn't say barrier, because it's not), then you should be fine. It just takes more effort, but it's worth it. I'm currently in a LDR with someone in Korea and although he knows a little English and l know a sentence or two in Korean, we're both trying to make it work. We're both improving each day. Language apps help as well portable translators. 🇨🇦
love your videos ! really interesting. I been learned a lot from Japanese culture trough your videos. Thank You !
My ex husband was Japanese……we met many years ago at college here in the US…..we were married for 12 years and have 1 daughter who is a doctor here in the US. We still talk…..what happened? The relationship failed due to alcohol abuse and gambling problem. We are still friends….was not culture and language that came between us.
Thank you so much for this video. It is very interesting and rather optimistic for me as a foreign girl :D Makes me even more motivated to improve my Japanese. Cultural differences might also be a good thing when you have a lot of to talk about and learn from each other. そう思います ^__^
Let's go Takashi!! Keep it up!
Yeah sure !
You can overcome pretty much anything if you love that person so language barrier and cultural differences aren't good excuses to not date someone. I like people who aren't afraid to challenge norms.
I don't think you can really love someone unless you can communicate with them, and a language barrier plays a huge role in that.
Frustrating experience. My daughter met a Japanese student here in 🇨🇦 right as pandemic lock downs started. He was supposed to come that summer back for school. He said wait for him…then he changed schools to Australia and never spent a day there either due to pandemic. He then comes back to 🇨🇦 1.5 years later for 2 month work experience and reaches out to her. They spent lots of time together and you can tell he enjoyed every minute by the constant smiles he had. I saw it with my own eyes. His family must have said something because he seemed sad and apathetic when he left . He could not express his feelings and shut down. She doesn’t know if he doesn’t like her or if he just has to conform and is too prideful to ask. Not sure if it was typical boy girl issues or fear of risk.
Your daughter just met up with a guy that isn't very strong. If he was stronger and more independent, he would tell his parents to bad so sad, etc.
This video gives me hope 🌻
Great video! I really enjoyed watching this. It would also be interesting to know whether Japanese guys are open to the idea of marrying foreign women. Dating is one thing, but what about a long term commitment?
This!!
Let’s go takashi almost 5k happy your channels growing 🙌
Thank you for always supporting me !!!!
I'm from U.K and I met a couple of Japanese guys who I get along with very well. We are becoming good friends.
Thanks for your videos, I've discovered your channel today and watched some of the stuff you've uploaded, keep it up, you have a new subscriber. I've decided to comment on this video because Ig I'm falling in love with a Japanese person and I hope it'll work out for us. Also I like that you interview young people mostly, it is more interesting and useful for me since they're about the same age as I am. Once again, ty, nice gob!
awww! Congrats on your new love ! I hope it all works out well for you both and are happy forever ! Cheers ! I:m married to a Japanese man and He is very kind caring and responsible !
@@LovelyFemininity Oh that's so nice!! I wish you a long life together filled with happiness and love! It's really nice when you meet someone who cares about you :) Sadly my past experience made it difficult to see a new love as an event to be happy about, but I still have hope ^^
Once again thanks for ur kind words!
Hi TAKASHI, I like your video.Its very interesting interview about dating with Japanese.
I have experience met Japanese guy and they are very fun,respect with other culture and sweet.
Even we are no longer together,but I'll always remember him as a good friend.
The cultural differences are what make my relationship more interesting and fun. But, I guess you'd need to be open to talking about the differences and solving problems if they arise from important disagreements.
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I love the video!! Keep going!! ♡
I have been in relationship with Japanese guy for almost 5 years, I would say there is a cultural differences but it's not the problem at all... we sometimes made up our new "culture" only between us haha
Aww this is cute may u guys last❤️
Idk why but i feel like guys will prefer or try to date foreign women when theyre young and then tend to lean on to the women of their own kind. Ive seen a lot of this happen but its not for everyone ofc.
90 to go for 5k. Lets gooo
Also, if your channel grows bigger you could travel the country.
„This is Takashi from Okinawa, next week from Hokkaido“ 😁
That would be awesome!
Ohhhh that’d be really cool lol
I want to do it !
Haha! Very well expressed 😁😁
Nice video!!! I love intercultural themes! 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
I have been very obsessed with Japanese since my childhood.
My boyfriend and I are planning to come to Japan soon. I hope to meet you somewhere in Tokyo if we happen to come.
Love your Japan...
Wish best wishes and admiration from Shillong India
If you love the person. You learn all about them. This includes culture/values/priorities/religion etc..of course it will be challenging . Either way its a win because if the relationship doesnt work out-you would learn so much and evolve😊
I think it really depends where you live. Hawaii is very mixed with very many different ethnicity that’s why there are so many beautiful exotic looking people there. It’s also more open in the USA. There are a lot of interracial marriages.
If you love someone nothing should stop you from making things work ❤️
I'm American and have dated several Japanese guys in the past and eventually settled down with one and started a family. Some of my dating took place in Japan and some in the US. Two others even wanted to marry me but the timing wasn't right for me. Some we only spoke Japanese even though my Japanese was barely intermediate, but we got along great as we were both easy going. Then in my longest relationship he spoke English well, but we still struggled because he wasn't easy going and we argued a lot. So it really depends on both people and how easy going they are and that they are not easy to anger. I have taken a deep dive into Japanese cooking, so I believe that helps knowing most Japanese foods and how to cook them. Also I learned a lot about the culture so it makes the relationship very smooth. It's also important the other does the same for your own culture the best they can. As long as both are interest in learning and can have a laid back attitude in the relationship, it will flourish. Just make sure your goals of where to live are similar if you plan on a longterm relationship. I have seen relationships fail when one doesn't want to stay in the other's country and start a family there.
Heyhey Takashi!! I started watching your videos recently and I would be curious to see a video “gaijin / foreign girls in Japan, would they date/marry a Japanese guy?” because many Japanese men, it seems, think that foreign girls would not want to date them. It’s something I’ve heard a lot. I’ll be in Tokyo April 21,22,23 and May 4th if ever you want to do an interview. I’m Canadian from Montreal who’s always dreamed of visiting Japan. Take care!!! Very good content btw :)
Love this 😻
Thank you !
that was definitely a record for the amount of interviews in a single video from Takashii.
I really liked the video and was helpful
Interesting topic.I have dated a Japanese guy(but not in Japan) recently and I think cultural differences and language is not a problem.If you are into someone that you like,you'll try to learn and tolerate.In my case,we have age gap ,which I am older by 11yrs from him.He was being nice and thoughtful,which was great...but he told me I was dominant/too independent...and in the end,it didn't for both of us.Quite an experienced for me.... as it was my first time dating Japanese (which is not half Japanese).....
Someone set me up with that first cutie in the blue sweater he interviewed ❤😂
This was a really good video. It's so interesting
Oh thank you !
Not sure why they think most things would turn into a quarrel…. 🤔 cultural differences maybe but things like that to me are interesting and why I study languages. Thanks for the video.
SMILE, Takashi, SMILE! The smile is the SUNSHINE of the personality!
Lord Jesus Christ is coming back everyone, please don’t worship celebrities and entertainment, focus on Him alone. I promise there’s more to life than money, partying, homosexuality and music. Hell is real, repent from sinning confess your sins and ask God to forgive you, I know He will if you’re sincere. Anyone who thinks the Name of Lord Jesus Christ is a joke, boldly mocks and scorns Him or takes pleasure in people who do is in for a big unpleasant surprise on judgement day IF they don’t repent and follow Lord Jesus Christ. Hell is very hot, people please repent! In the mighty name of Lord Jesus Christ, Amen 🙏💪✝️💜❤️✝️!
Idolatry such as, Islam, Catholicism, Sangomaism, Buddhism, Hinduism, Santa Clausism, Confucianism, New Age, Science, Evolution, halloweenism, Harry Potterism, Politics, Donald Trumpism, Easter Bunnyism and other religions/faiths that are outside Biblical Christianity lead to hell! Don’t believe them, believe the Almighty God the Father of Lord Jesus Christ, who begot Him. Our Creator, The God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob is mighty, He doesn’t need a woman to beget a son, He is God. I choose to put my faith in a God who can do anything and everything, a God who has unlimited and infinite power to beget!
So, it’s time to confess that Lord Jesus Christ is the Lord and to believe that He died and rose from the grave after three days and you shall be saved if you only obey Him by praying, worshipping, praising, reading the Bible and living holy and righteously according to the Bible. You have to endure until the end, carry your cross daily and build your relationship with God by following Lord Jesus daily until the end. You must never renounce your faith in The Lord Jesus Christ, there’s hell awaiting those who reject/deny Lord Jesus Christ and those who continue living sinfully, even the Christians who don’t want to repent will face the same fate, so please repent beloved people, in Lord Jesus Christ’s mighty and precious Name, Amen. ✝️
@@hillarysudeikis2264 I certainly do not need your preeching and your adress to me has nothing to do with my comment. A true smile makes the human face alive and noble - that is all.
Great video! Looking forward to hearing from Japanese girls, next. Thank you.
Actually I uploaded it !
@@takashiifromjapan Thanks. I saw it.
I think I recognize the second guy who was interviewed. He's a Japanese TH-camr living in Singapore. Nice.
I think, if you really like someone, language wouldn't be a problem at all but at the same time communication is the most important part in a relationship so I can totally understand all these men's concern. So, I guess if I ever fall in love with a Japanese guy, I will definitely learn to speak Japanese right away, I want my feelings to reach him thoroughly.
p/s: I'm learning Japanese now but I'm not dating anyone. (but maybe I'm dating Gojo Satoru)
Something that I have noticed about this topic is that there is a point that all Japanese (or/and Asian countries) repeat when there are this type of interviews, that the Japanese (or Asians)look for others to adapt to them and not that both (in the relationship ) complement each other as a couple, in terms of positive points of both cultures and languages.
And I imagine this must be merely cultural.🤔
It is true. They think all the world will adapt to them. My husband think that I will become a Japanese. Lol.
It might be because they aren’t used to other cultures;;;like at all. The idea of changing for a significant other might be inconceivable to them. Plus, I’ve noticed that many Asian people say they’d DATE a foreigner but not marry them.
@@chey6073 I think Japanese are not flexible at all.
love the video
I love your video's (great content), this is also a great video! I'm amazed some young Japanese men are open to the idea of dating a foreign girl despite the language barrier and cultural differences.
I must say, not every foreign girl is open and willing to talk to. It really depends on the girl itself.
But I can't compere it to how Japanese girls are since I've never been in Japan :(
I'm an open person and as a foreigner I would love to have conversations with regular Japanese people and talk about Japan, the food, the culture, the Japanse habits,... and talk about my country too. I would be a real enrichment on both sides I think.
Someday I hope to visit Japan. Someday....
Greetings from Belgium :)
I wait for your visiting here in nagoya japan Mam... how are you there dear?
The guy in the blue and white sweater is cute. I agree with the first guy. If you are really into that person, you will learn each other's language and culture.
If this channel is from that "other Japanese guy" he would be saying, "if you want to date Japanese I will teach you the type of Japanese that real life Japanese people speak which is kinda different from the Japanese text book and apps teach you because they can be unnatural and outdated."
IKR! ITS CRAZY THAT YUTA CAN LITERALLY SAY THAT PHRASE REPEATEDLY WITHOUT TONE PITCH CHANGES OR STUMBLING IN THE SENTENCE 😭
Yuta🤣
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I wish I could speak Japanese language one day just like you guys!! It sound so cool!!! 🤩😍
Wow so amazing video😍😍
From nepal 🇳🇵
Thank you so much !
Im so exited to watch this
The last man was especially beautiful 🥰 thanks for the video
We are *a Japanese guy - a foreign girl married couple* ! and I know many others :) but we live in Switzerland. Being the foreigner, I enjoyed the content,. Domo arigatou.
U got a new follower takashi
I like their answers that they would try. I like the first guy’s answer, how if you are in love you’d try. It really depends on 2 people if they want to make it work. If it’s meant to be it’ll be 😊
I think most people can adapt to another’s culture and language in a relationship. Why not give it a whirl and see what happens. 😊
Japanese girls next men can't wait it, Hehehe btw your interviewing so good 😀😀
Thank you !!
Nice, someone dating a Filipino woman makes me proud. I think the language barrier can be solved later on. Many Filipinos can learn any language they want to (advantage of being ethnolinguistic diverse, especially if they are from the regions outside Manila.)
Nice video as always. Almost 5,000 subscribers. You are getting there.
Thank you !
Yeah I’m so jealous of people from Philippine cuz they speak English Well even though they have their own language
@@takashiifromjapan You speak good English. As long as you can communicate your thoughts properly, don't be too concerned with the grammar. Even native English speakers make mistakes sometimes. Grammar structure can be corrected as you go along. What is important is the substance that you are trying to impart to other people. Rooting for your success. 💪
Babaw mo naman, pinoy pride agad dahil lang may jowang pinay yung kaibigan ng hapon. 🤣🤣🤣 🥴🥴
@@morningbot6447 natawa ako dito hahaha
Same old pinoy, gutom lagi sa foreign validation 🤣
@@morningbot6447 Ay sorry po. Di naman yun yung intention ko. Good point.✌️
It's nice to know that you can agree to the speaker using "arigato(ありがとー)" 。
Because in english you can't agree to something by saying 'thanks'.
I think you're generally right, but there are some situations where you kind of can!
Particularly in customer service situations or when something is being offered to you.
For example:
"Would you like some water?"
"Oh, thank you!"
"Have you tried some of this? It's great!"
"No I haven't, thank you!"
"May/can I take your jacket?"
"Thank you"
"Please, sit down/take a seat!"
"Thank you!"
"Would you like to use this one?/You can use this one!"
"Thank you!"
Again though, I think you're right that in general, "thank you" isn't a way that you would most commonly express agreement, especially to ideas...
although... it can happen to ideas... but maybe only in particular situations. For example, in lively disagreements, someone might say something like:
"well, I think (Takashii's videos are better than _____ videos)."
"THANK YOU. YES."
The "thank you" here expresses the feeling of, "finally someone has said the thing I agree with/think myself."
Even in the situations I described (accepting an offer/agreeing to a physical offer more so than expressing agreement), you might have more words of agreement or affirmation combined with the "thank you.
E.G.: "would you like water?" "sure/yes/definitely/that'd be nice/I would/please!(/etc.). Thank you!"
Tl;dr: you're right that there are more direct ways of expressing agreement (to ideas or an action) that are likely more common than just saying "thank you" alone, but it's not unheard of to express agreement (often to an action) by just saying "thank you."
^-^
@@mrahzzz
At 2:37 when Takashi asks the question, the guy says "ぜんぜん(zenzen)。ありがと" and the pause after zenzen, makes it seem like his arigato (thank you) affirmed his decision.
Usually in English, we can thank the speaker for the question.
But at 2:40, it doesn't seem like he was thanking the speaker but rather affirming to the speaker.
p.s. - Takashi's interviews does show conversational japanese which I appreciate.
@@the96nix he sais 自分は全然ありと思います, it means "Personally I think I would" roughly. He doesn't say thanks.
It's also arigatou, not arigato-.
It’s good to know that Japanese men would date someone who is outside their own culture.😃
The open mindedness is key for everyone.
I have no preference when it comes to where the man I see is from.👍🏽
It nice to learn new cultures, languages, backgrounds, fall in love with the whole aspect ❤️. As long as you don’t let race be a factor, it shouldn’t matter. 🥰
I think if you’re willing to learn about someone, you always find a way to communicate. 😃
date not settle down, it's just for the experience
Bro they have a thing for white people lol ( some even prefer white people over their own people lmao)
@@sofypi7493 why not settle down. If she likes him enough to want to settle down, it's all good.
my boyfriend japanesee and ı'm turkish. We don't have any culturel problems. He came to Turkey for me and study at univercity. we communicate in english so there is no language barrier. We hace fun together. Both of us understand each other and both culture. especcialy about religion there is no problem. And he will be my forever eşim aşkım. I love you Kazuki Nunuki.
Damn your videos are nice. You deserve more subscribers. Keep going!
WOW! YOUR CHANNEL IS IMPROVING KEEP ON GOIN' 🎉
Thank you so much !
Could you please interview middle aged men about dating foreigners? Thanks!
It's weird to listen to these guys saying like: "I don't speak English so the communication would be hard". Don't they think a foreigner can talk Japanese? XDDD
This was a very interesting video. Amazing channel!!
That's somthing you have to put into a relationship. Difrent culture and language. Both should be making it an effort to learn about . Not just the foreigner that's how relationships work I wish many people would be more open to learning .
The vid which I's waiting for......🤭😌
Oh really ! Thank you
Even though it's stupid, it makes me really sad how as a foreigner I would have no chance with people who are like my Japanese idol, because their culture is so against "mixed" relationships and I would also worry about my children being bullied for being "half".
The last guy is so handsome ❤ I fell in love 😅
Great to know Philippines never lose to mentioned!!in your vloggs proud PINOY 👍🇵🇭🇬🇧 MABUHAY
Yikes...
I love when he said they got good comments skills
Interesting!!
Thank you !
That guy in the thumbnail and who you interviewed last...is he in tokyo? 😳
Amazing video😊 from philippines here.
I noticed that Japanese men are more open to dating foreigners if they have a similar lifestyles(5:50,8:19).
being scared of culture is so weird yet agreeable. good thing i found a Japanese man who loves travelling and culture sharing like I do
The first guy is so cool!
I'm half Indissche, canada. I like Japan men and also girls they look so respectful bit just fo friends no reationschip!
I burst out laughing at show your muscles part
The bottom line is: date whoever is willing to give you what you want in a relationship. Some people aren’t willing to change and that’s ok. There’s some Americans I would not date because of their ideals, so it has nothing to do with the origin of the person. It comes down to values. If you really like someone, change comes naturally.
Awesome information. I guess it will help me in future because I want to date Japanese men. Thanks for making this video 💕💕