Cousin Married My Controlling Ex-boyfriend, Spread Lies About Me, Trashed Me in Their Wedding...
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- Cousin Married My Controlling Ex-boyfriend, Spread Lies About Me, Trashed Me in Their Wedding Speech, Got Cut Off by Her Mom, and Then Tried Breaking Into My House at Night.
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One idiom explains this story perfectly: "Those who live in a glass house should not throw stones". You can't expect to destroy someone's reputation without consequences, they did it to themselves.
Another idiom that fits well would be “Never try to destroy someone's character with a lie! When yours can be destroyed by the truth.”
as you know, madness is like gravity ... all it takes is a litttle push
- a guy wearing face paint and a purple suit
Another idiom more down to earth that fits is: "f*ck around and find out" 😂
Or don't try to spread manure, it's messy and you'll get visibly dirty in the process
Op family is the best. I thought it was going to be a "Do it for Dan" situation.
I like how "Do it for Dan" has became a legend in reddit stories 😂
@s4meerbankupalli164 oh this I gotta hear. What's up with the do for Dan thing?
@@rosem3240 bro it's not easy explaining it, basically it's a reddit story about a guy and his shitty family, his payback. I won't spoil it, just search for "do it for Dan" and you'll find it man. It's a looooong one. Like at first it starts with Op's struggle at family, then his redemption, then a twist, then a somber ending. It's like one of the goats of reddit stories because of the line "DO IT FOR DAN" 😂
@@rosem3240it has become a Reddit legend after OP's family gave him hell and they try to steal his house only because the golden child bro and his wife do not know how to use protection. It is the most popular story on this channel, so you can listen to it easily
@@rosem3240check out the most viewed video on this channel, it's the whole do it for Dan story. And it's very satisfying.
It’s soooo refreshing to read a story where the family is actually on the victim’s side.
RIGHT!!!! This is really rare I'm glad she posted this.😊
Exactly, but I think a lot of stories about families being on the perpetrator's side despite being absurd are fake.
So nice of Julia and Lewis to provide OP with months of paper trail proving their harassment and intent to do harm before being caught red-handed in a break-in. It's practically gift-wrapped for the prosecution.
A lawyer's wet dream 😂
Ex-BF sure has changed.... the cousin a lot 😂. Remember, insanity is to a degree contagious
😂😂 Folie à deux 😂😂
Correction, it's not insanity that they have. It's stupidity. A FAR more terminal prognosis/
I was thinking the same. The cousin is also to blame, that doesn't make her an angel, but I think it's safe to assume the ex bf manipulated her
Damned straight.
@Maria-wi1pj she was easy to manipulate thanks to her having subconscious jealousy towards OP.
No, no officer! You don't understand. We weren't breaking into her house to steal from her. We were only breaking in because we wanted to talk to her.
Officer: 😶
Bro spoken things accurately
Wtf Is wrong with the cousin
How the do you know the story in 1 minute
@@DarknessPureyI’m pretty sure the title alone is enough to ask that question….
@@scpfoundation8376 everything good at the foundation? Any new containment breaches?
Probably narcissism.
@@NightmareKing0203no breaches which is why he is using TH-cam
Imagine being so petty and insecure that you turn your wedding into verbally attacking and lying to a cousin /ex girlfriend that wasn't even there.
Yeah. Lewis is probably not over her. Bet he got with the cousin just to get to op but got enraged when it didn't work and op cut him off.
Id sue them for defamation aa well as mental and emotional anguish.
I knew this story would wnd in an arrest, and they deserved it. The husband hated OP for what? Being his EX that he was abussive towards
He was abusive and possessive according to OP, my guess is that he wanted her to never move on.
Don't try to find logic with those peple.
I feel so bad for Op's aunt in this mess, she got a projecting money-grubbing instigating dingbat for a daughter that picked a abusive turd for husband that legit causing the only family feud with everyone else because both of them can't stand that OP living life well without either of 2. If the aunt hadn't disowned those 2 soon after their wedding ranting meltdown, it would had been aunt losing everything due those 2 escalating their madness especially now police are involved.
She even sees her daughter's life destroyed
If I was at a wedding and there was a speech basically shitting on some ex, I'd walk out, way to go and make your "special day" about someone else entirely, talk about not moving on.
I would document everything then give it to the ex for the trial.
"Oh no, it's the consequences of my actions!"
--Julia and Lewis, probably
Wouldn't it be more in line to say "it's OP's fault. Her actions ended up sending two innocent people to jail"
@@memeking7273that’s more accurate
Don't dream awake. They will never acknowledge their mistakes. Their mindset is that they are right and the entire world is against them. People like them never change.
OP is NTA: if their “plan” had somehow succeeded, and HER life was ruined, the family had cut her off and she was losing support and her life became majorly affected: they wouldn’t help her if she reached out to them. She’s not obligated to extend an olive branch, but if at some point she does: shes a SAINT.
Or just a idiotic doormat.
Nope that would make her a masochist. Those people never change. they may fake a nice behavior but inside their hatred is still there growing and growing. They take kindness for a weak fo stand.
It’s adorable that some people think being a Federal Court Judge is an indicator of the purity of a person’s strong morals.
Helping those who tried to destroy you is giving them a chance to do it again
Ex boyfriend is probably only with the cousin to get back at op too.
I will never understand why people like Julia and Louis can't just pretend OP doesn't exist. Be civil at family events, but otherwise, OP is invisible to them. They wouldn't have landed in jail if they could have done that.
Probably the reason they're together in the first place is op. How could they ignore her when the unmotivated hatred towards her brought them close?
Somebody tell Op she know very well why cousin behaved like this. She is just jealous of her from the beginning (Just imagine the comment from aunt to cousin about Op having a job, living alone, being independent, etc etc etc). The only way she could get back at her and win (in her imaginary competition) was marrying that garbage of a boyfriend.
Op should really post any news article, public record or anything in social media to expose them and request a RO which assures that they are never going to show up in any family reunion where Op is invited.
THIS. The cousin's jealousy and the ex bf craziness weren't definitely a good combo and it ended up backfiring on them. At least two horrible people ended up together instead of ruining the lives of two innocents
That's so weird I couldn't date someone that my family member been with
The suspicious side of me thinks that all this is instigated by the ex-BF, cause knowing these petty narcissists, all they care about is the middle finger moment just to sate their own pride, and the cousin was probably swayed into it by the ex, cause again, narcissists can wear a lot of masks very well. The ex probably had hoped that the wedding speech would turn the entire family's opinion against OP, but is too deluded to think that everyone would follow his thinking. Unhinged sounds about right, and that glare of hatred the ex gave OP after being led away in cuffs, yeah, he is not sorry in the least for his actions.
OP, considering all the crap they put you through, my advice is to go for the jugular, especially against your ex-BF. This petty narcissist needs a dose of reality, one that can only be delivered by someone with the power to enforce it. As for your cousin, while I can give her the benefit of doubt that she was manipulated into her husband's grudge, I still say go no contact, cause it can take a long while before she can snap herself out of her husband's influences, if any.
I don't know about you guys but if I was at a wedding and the had a whole speech about an ex, I'd assume they weren't over said ex
Totally. Who the fuck do a speech about an ex instead to talk about them and their celebration. But the things, they did after, help me to understand that both of them are dumb and they have bad energy. The lady handled that shit very well, a queen.
OP should file a defamation lawsuit.
"Ohh shiver me timbers" is wild. OP is GOATED
this hit me hard because I had a bad experience with a girl named Julia
😂😂😂😂
Unfortunately you can't stop someone stupid from destroying their own life.
Again with the dumb questions if OP is the AH for not doing the right thing when they have been wronged like: AITA for not wanting to report my toxic partner for kidnapping our children and killing our family pet?". Like WHAT?!?!!🤣😭
It is AI way of sneaking it.
Imagine being so pressed about you cousins ex that is your now husband that you made a whole speech at YOUR WEDDING about your cousin .... girl, stop . I cannot
Dude is obssessed with her
I'd be petty during their arrest and be like, "Why are you so obsessed with me?" 😂
Both of them are some damn fools to double and then triple down on their BS. That hole they dug themselves in will be so deep that they'll be a few miles away from China.
They were like 'she's a goldigger' and yet Julia only relies on her mother's money
I really can't understand people who do shtty things to others and blame that person if it backfires. Meanwhile, that person is doing nothing..
The op can file a defamation report too cant she
This is all about Lewis getting pissed that his ex was able to move on
Its a shame how the strongest of bonds could be broken by something so stupid
"Shiver me timbers" 😂😂😂
LOL 😂This story is Peak f*k around and find out and / or play stupid games win stupid prizes on the part of the ex and cousin. OP need not apologize she's done nothing wrong😂 I too have a toxic family. Trust and Believe sitting back with a shot of Jack and watching the karma wheel spin is better than sexx...and i mean GOOD sexx💀😭😂
W aunt
W family but L cousin
These two can’t have that strong of a marriage if they are consistently focusing on a person who is no longer in their lives
I get the feeling he’ll do the same to Julia but by then she’ll have ruined her life and no one will be talking to her
Ex-boyfriend is clearly still obsessed with Op. And the cousin is an idiot for choosing the ex.
You’d think that the child of a judge would know better than to commit defamation. You’d get her own mom to testify. What jury would be on the side of that?
Shout out to Ops family for defending her from those two idiots. Those two idiots tries to break in while caught on camera, then tried to explain to the cops why they were breaking, while dressed like burglars is the most idiotic thing they could've ever done, I would move several states over
Those 2 are dvmb and dvmber. They just won't back down and kwpt on making it worse for themselves. 😂😂😂
OP's been living on their heads rent free 😂
why would you help her? when she didn't bother to degrade your dignity? she is just sorry cause she got caught.
I've met people like this irl, and I'm so glad they are usually not very smart
Why do anyone in these stories feel guilty about family or friends who ruined or tried to ruin in this lives in this case about doing the same. Glad op got over it and sent them to jail.
Lewis was probably even cheating before he ghosted OP. Cheaters love to project their infidelity on others.
In the end, he turned the cousin into another version of himself - a narcissistic bully.
It's not your fault it's your cousin's and his ex's fault because he and she tried to ruin her life and made fun of her and they should pay for their actions and go to hell for what they have done.
That is the pettiest thing I’ve ever heard
Your cousin and ex-boyfriend's actions are incredibly petty and hurtful. Using a wedding speech to spread lies about you is disrespectful. Stay strong and know that their lies don't define you.
If they go low, go lower lol
Within an hour ppl
👇
People who date the same people who dated their family or friends are grimes and gross. But imagine giving a speech about your husband's ex at your wedding 🥴
That title was a roller coaster 😭
Finally, a family that stands with the OP
Finally, a story where the entire family is a walking W
Sounds like they're obsessed with op. Very psychotic behavior imo.
Damn, I think the ex-bf is some master manipulator to turn OP's cousin like that. I think he's a huge narcissistic as well, he didn't like OP's reaction of not connecting with him despite his efforts so he manipulated the cousin in hating OP. What a horrible person, stupid tho given everything they did esp the last one lol
I am afraid that by forgiving them, you will be giving them a green card to be a bully to people and, if caught, they can still ask for forgiveness
They said it them self they said sorry to get her mothers money not to be sorry so f them
Buy why? Why would Julia harp on her cousin so much when OP wasn't causing any problems in her new relationship, wasn't talking smack about her dating her Ex and get involved with then. Why talk smack about her and even make such a fuss about OP at their wedding. If my new relationship was so focused on an EX I would end myself. It's pathetic
Don't talk to your aunt about anything you and your honor on good terms leave it there!! Let Julia and Louie doing their own juices!! You have your cousin and her new husband your ex black keep it that way!! All they really want is your aunt's money because they depending on it leave well enough alone go no contact keep them blocked and keep your wonderful relationship with your aunt intact!!❤
So let me get this straight…. OP is a “gold digger” but both Julia and Louis are losing their minds because mommy dearest is cutting them off financially? Why not just use some of his supposed “gold”? 😭
U dedicate time in you wedding to an ex is crazy
Fake or not.. Who would literally admit to the police you're trying to break into someone's house to intimidating and scare them??? I wish I could say I'm shocked, but I've seen no smoking signs by a fireworks store, so this level of stupid is honestly not shocking.
There was an update but I can’t find the post so I think it was taken down, grain of salt and all that:
Op filed charges. Cousin and cousin husband claimed they weren’t going to do anything violent but the judge didn’t buy it considering they did have weapons on them at the time (pocket knife and some duct tape). Op didn’t find out what their plan was but it doesn’t matter now. They got charged with breaking and entering with the intent of harm. They attempted to plead innocent but it didn’t work, they were forced to plead guilty to avoid prison time.
Op got her restraining order and they aren’t allowed to go anywhere near her, her home, her place of work, or who ever the order extends to family wise. Luckily, that includes Ops direct family including her aunt who also filed a joint restraining order to define in a court of law that she is close enough to op that the restraining order applies to her aswell.
Cousin cries saying it’s unfair that this is allowed to happen, husband of cousin is just mad and it comes out that he only married her cousin to get back at her by being direct family now and making her family despise her.
Now that it’s impossible he wants to try and annul the marriage since he never really loved her and only married her out of hate for OP. But he cant because it’s past the point of annulment and they hadn’t signed a prenup. Afterwards, the last communication that op had with them was regarding her aunt. The cousin sent an anonymous email claiming that her mother (op’s aunt) had taken her out of her will and will no longer be giving her an inheritance, and is instead looking to give it to Op. cousin blames op for ruining her life. Op reports the communication to the police as a direct violation of the terms of the restraining order. Cousin gets a formal warning claiming that if she or her husband does it again they will receive jail time.
Op has since moved on and cousin and husband live unhappily ever after.
Idk how credible this update really is but hey it’s closure.
yeah like usual my question is if this chick figured out he was manipulative and abusive why she wouldnt have blocked him when it was obvious he was done with her - oh right - there wouldnt be a story if she did
Honestly tbh it seems that BOTH of them aren’t over her. And have anger that they don’t know how to deal with it. So they blame her for their problems. Because if both of them where truly happy without her they wouldn’t keep doing stupid shit.
Under 2 min club
"Mom is a court judge" "I decided not to tell on her because I didn't want to get her cut off"
sure OP. either you didn't think the mom would side with you so you retroactively changed the story to say you knew she would all along, or the whole story is fabricated.
Or maybe some people don't care about rumors
the married couple still heavily relying on their parents, that's a red flag like seriously cousin grow up! its your life now not your moms, you're an adult and you can just find a job
Talking about trashy human being and dumpers fire..
Geez, talk about obsessed. And never learning a darn thing. 😮
These AI stories are quite entertaining
Sex entered the picture and cousin Julia proceeded to lose her mind.
Once Louis act all innocent for now but once his true colors come out its all down hill from here
YTAH in the first half for ignoring your cousin that you loved for years. Second half not
Luis really have changed but not himself thouh .
Like wtf in bangli there's a saying idl if it has a English version but it roughly translate to "if someone is happy and im peace ghost punches them" here the ghost is non-existent it's like theh want more than a peaceful life and f around to find out . I think the English version is called "To feel ill at ease." This story is the best example...
Best response ever
Okay, I just started the video, but she was in her second year of college when she was 17? She started college when she was 15?
And she started dating a 17 year old college graduate when she was 15? Or was he just a high school graduate? Or a community college graduate? Or a university graduate? It doesn't say. It just says that they started dating "right after he graduated", but their ages make this story set-up super wonky.
Clearly the cousin was unknowningly mentally unstable. As the ex, well they've made their bed nw they have 2 sleep in it.
If I were OP, I'd tell Julia that I'd only forgive her if she agrees to divorce Lewis and get her mother to file a restraining order so that he can't ever go near their family ever again and just accept that she's cut off.
just the intro made me jump
First
I really do not like the story☹️
Not really
Yes really lil bro
Its giving fan behavior
Who keeps text conversations from their ex that the broke up with years ago? I don't even have any of exs numbers, much less any text conversations with them
My exact question ⁉️ Is this not somewhat unusual? And, unnecessary
I honestly have them in my old phone. For me it's like forgetting they exist but i just don't delete numbers/messages. Found my old phone from high school and some of those messages were cringe but i can laugh at that kind of stuff now
Depending on what app they use for chats: It could be saved, I use WhatsApp and use 1.2GB for WhatsApp alone, I simply don't have a reason to delete Chats as I have the Storage
Can i get the background music?
Op is leaving a lot out a few details, she sounds like the toxic one. He left Op for a reason and she chased him until he cut OP off. This story is Sus.
I’m gonna be so honest in my opinion it’s very normal to not want your wife/girlfriend/fiancé to have male friends that’s so weird if she has male friends and why does she need you?
But your fine for a husband having female friends he flirts with…listen to the story again before jumping to conclusions.
If that's the case then you can't female friends either. 🤷🏻♀️
YTA
Sounds like she didn't completely get over her ex. I mean cutting off your friend because she's dating your ex AFTER YOU GUYS BROKE UP is a bit too over rhe top. Everything started sounding made up just to make her look bad. Yes, you're TAH
Ok it sounds like you didn’t listen to the story. 1) it was her cousin. 2) her ex was controlling / verbally abusive it sounds like so why would you want to be around that? And after that her cousin does the stupidest thing and tries to turn her family against her even tho she didn’t do anything wrong SO HOW is she in the wrong 😭
the only ah is you my guy
Bro did not listen to the story
my guy thought we would agree😂
She had already cut off her toxic ex boyfriend because he was abusive (mentally if not physically), so by extension she would've had to cut off her cousin as well. All the cousin had to do was move on with her life but she had to revolve her whole life and relationship around her. The fact that they made a whole speech about her on their wedding shows who really is not over their ex.
her phone:are you bloking Julia or 1million people!?🤌😨