I was in Japan this month, I'm 6'5" so I got a lot of stares. I just ignored them and kept it moving but my lady noticed it more than I did. If you stand out in a foreign country, just be prepared for stares and comments but if you can't handle it, remain in your home country.
There's starring because they are nosy. Or starring to intimidate and then possibly inflict harm. What your are stating and what she is talking about is not the same. And you know that.
Yes wear sunglasses even indoors. I love talking to folks while keeping my shades on folks don’t really know I’m disrespecting them while doing that. Folks have to earn my respect then maybe just maybe I’ll take off my shades and talk to you.
i had them stare at me as well here in america ... i started staring back at them and wouldnt stop staring until they stop staring ridiculous. so many of them do that. when they stare i would look and then look away and look again they still staring thats when i would stare back.
@@YourKingJDGYour statement is foolish. You move in a manner that increases your odds of survival. It’s not always about who’s scared or not. You don’t know how crazy someone is. There’s always someone out there who’s crazy is a step higher than your own. No point in taking that gamble.
@@Beyt_El And when you show fear or shyness you’re bound to encounter those individuals, when you put your head down and tuck your tail, everyone will take advantage. You hold your head high and challenge them at every avenue.
@@YourKingJDG LOL okay. Tell that to the thugs and drug dealers out there who have that same mindset. They get shot to death and or murdered in some way on a daily basis. Not a smart way to live in this world. Survival is taking the route that has the least outcome for death or physical injury. I couldn’t care less if someone wants to think they’re the toughest or strongest in the world.
I think they stare at us to make us uncomfortable. I will never go to those countries. I’ll stick with my own. I agree with ya Phillip. But leave the friends
I probably would have blinked at Helm and flipped my hair, or what I usually more commonly do is say hello. When I do this no one ever ever says hello back to me so I just say, "Or not," and keep it moving. They all end up feeling stupid in the end. Then again, you would never catch me in Europe unless someone dragged me there after kidnapping me or something.
It's not a creepy staring problem it's genuine curiosity because they're not used to seeing blacks in their areas even if they see them online. Stop being so stubbornly close minded.
im italian from new york tho , and i can say most italian men loooove black women. here in new york tons of my italian friendshave dated black women and most black women i dated went out with an italian before me and in italy trust me black women dont realize the men there have a full attraction to them and this come also from black women i know who travelled to italy
I am German i remember some African Dude started to harass me in the Tram for "starring" yet all what ii have done was looking on the digital display behind him, because i did not wanted to miss my exit. Some People believe they are the center of the universe.
She's a stunning woman-that's why he was staring, trust me. Whereas American men tend to be more respectful to women, a lot of men in some of these countries are not and will stare. They also don't take kindly to rejection.
I used to tell my mixed race daughters when people stared at them. Take no notice they are looking at you because you are so beautiful. This staring used to happen when they were small and cute. I was a bald headed woman of colour. Never a need to be ashamed of themselves . We travelled , I am a visitor in their country never a need to give a toss about them staring. I visit and am going home to my happy home.
I recently moved to an island in the Caribbean with an estimated population of 3000 people who are mostly black. I' m of mixed heritage and I regurarly get a lot of stares that are making me uncomfortable. Even if you catch them staring they keep on looking. I consider myself average looking. Sometimes I am asked where are you from are you spanish? Even the roaming animals like chickens, goats ,cows cats and dogs on the island are staring when you are walking by. Sometimes I even being followed by some of them. They are making sounds as if they want to tell me something ! Some of the cats and dogs are rubbing their skin against me!
@@YourKingJDG bro the guy was staring at a pretty woman. She could have ignored it simple. He could be smiling or frowning. Turn your head and mind your business. She put herself in danger dummy. We have no friends. The authorities would not side with her for acting a fool in a foreign country.
@@asiphejohnson6543 she said she asked what he was looking at. Why? Mind your business. The guy could be a maniac and you set him off because you couldn’t handle a stare in public. Guess what. When we travel we are looked at because the media they see reaches them before they see us which include criminal images of Black men and lewd images of Black women.
@@TheMaddBlackMann I don’t care, he was glaring for minutes on end and she glared back. What is this jim crow nonsense you’re spouting? Hold your head high boy. Staring is rude, and intimidation is assault. No one is entitled to do that, regardless of country. Now take yo two stepping ass on.
Most likely he was staring because he was attracted to you and didn't know how to act. I've traveled internationally, in Italy and had men approach me and chat me up even though I didn't speak much Italian. I've also had men chase me down the street in other countries as well, lets say they are much more direct and not afraid to approach you. It can be shocking but eventually you'll get used to it and realize you need to be more direct as well about standing your ground and boundaries.
Very well said. That woman is gorgeous. And Italy has a solid patriarchal culture and fixed sexual roles. I went there a long time ago with friends and the girls with us were getting bombarded by men's really pushy, close to stalking behavior. It's more about sex than ethnicity or race, i'm almost certain of it too.
I heard many years ago that men in Italy often stare at women and will pinch. I didn’t dig deeper because I wasn’t planning on going there. I did a semester in France (the ‘80’s) and encountered a good deal of men (French and other nationalities) who approached me (I was shocked by how aggressive a couple were.) I also encountered a few men/women who were racists (The French have been known to have xenophobics - they only like the French way.). One salesperson was somewhat standoffish and rude until she realized I was American. I also just walked into the French Vogue reception one day (trying to do an internship), and the people were very nice. I believe you take a chance on encountering some form of racism wherever you go, just like you might when you leave your home in America. I recommend doing the research before you travel so you’re better informed. One thing I have learned is to also avoid looking lost, predators will pounce on that and try you.
@malumesExodus I am going to stop you right there. African people do it too. I was in Barcelona, Spain many many years ago. I had like two or 3 African women not only stare at me intently but touch my hair. I am Queen Latifa's complexion just as a reference. No one said hello, they stared at me like I was an object. I felt invisible. I asked my friend who is black American and lived there at the time. I said, "What are they doing?" He said they like your hairstyle and they are going to copy it. I had my hair in a flat twist updo. I was like whatever and remained until they took their notes or whatever. After I left, two weeks later, my friend told me that he saw a woman walk down the street with my exact same hairstyle. Lol I was like man, I understood Spanish culture, but I wasn't prepared for this but for me it was all good. I was just taken a back at the moment.
That happened to my family and I on a MSC cruise back in 2011. You fly into Spain and you cruise 4-5 countries over 7 days. When we were returning to the states, I had in my futbol Jersey on and people were gawking. I actually liked the attention. They must have thought I was an athlete. I wish I wore my futbol Jersey to the Vatican. Anyhow, it was the people on the ship staring that made me slightly uncomfortable. I didn't get a sense of hate. I don't think they see black people at all. Particularly, American blacks.
Yeah bruh i heard they stare like that overseas. Some of them people overseas aren't use of seeing black Americans. They staring like they seen A Alien. 😅
Idi0ts like you is the problem why women are the way they are. You enable their entitlements. Women stare at men all the time also. Are they also creeps too? or is it only men who are creeps who stare at women?
I get it that some of our folks want to take trips to Non African or countries that has a less Black or Dark Brown friendly population(excluding the Indian Sub- Continent), but Italy( Are you serious sister?) those South Europeans are so mad racists🤦🏿♂️. At the end no one cares about the pictures that you take, but deep inside the negative experiences haunts and stay there forever 🤷🏿♂️.
That's good my black woman, because I'm a black man an they don't play that game with us 👊🏿👊🏾 no matter we're we see them, LONDON 🤦🏾♂️😅🤣🇬🇧✌🏾 DON'T GET YOURSELF HURT LITTLE BOY
You have to know the culture in the places you travel to. In Rwanda they stare at foreigners. But, it's ok. They don't mean anything by it. If, you can't handle that then stay home.
I understand that this can be uncomfortable, but you gotta remember YOU are on THEIR TURF. If you don't know what's going on don't turn it into something that might get you in trouble. Just be cordial, polite, do your business and get out. Also be keep track of your surroundings. All these passport bros and sisters making too much noise and giving their locations away. They know who you are and they will act accordingly.
"They knew you are and will act accordingly " I love how you're INADVERTENTLY admitting these 'people' are nothing but demonic parasitic agents who watch everything we do. But- I thought the world doesn't revolve around us? Sure as hell "seems" like it
Do the evil sneaky smile 😈 they do. Give it back in a smile. Of course you are beautiful 🤩. He would have not done had his Karen been with him. We are there fantasy but no we don’t want nothing ken.
If you go around the world dont take you bias eith you. You belive that the world move around you. It s not so. This girl is a beautifull girl. In Italy is quite normal to be stared at if uou are a beautiful woman. Grow up. Not all move around you and racism.
How do you know that the man was staring at you? You were staring back. If you received unsolicited comments or approaches from him, that is downright harassment and he should be call out.
@@numerologicatarot3333especially in the southern parts that are just recently becoming more popular & open to tourism. They will stare you down with 0 shame
@@Dawn191They have an attraction for us. I’m from NYC (The largest Italian population in the nation) and I’ve spent over 2 weeks in Italy. However, in Italy it is completely creepy often times. The staring is rude and not innocuous @ times.
Some of you Americans need to understand that YOU are in THEIR country. Many Europeans stare. That's what a lot of them do. How about doing some research on the culture(s) and people(s) before going to your destination of interest. Just because it is rude to stare in America does not mean it is the same in other countries.
Soo if you and the person is in the same area for 10, 15 even 20 minutes they are just going to keep staring so your best advice is to let them. That is freaking weird and I don’t care if that’s what they do in their country. How about this educate yourself on the difference between looking and just being weird?
@@bornlikethis7536 Yes. Let them stare. If they are not causing any harm, let it go. It is not that serious. Yes it is freaking weird because a lot of people are not used to that. For your information I know the difference, and it still does not matter. Even if one LOOKS at another wrong it's weird. Knowing the difference is not going to prevent people from staring (or even looking) at another. Just keep it moving...
@@cyanoxicrose it may not matter to them but it matters to others. But I get it, make people feel uncomfortable, which is the harm, because they can. Only stare at the black girl because she doesn’t matter. Smh
@@bornlikethis7536 people stare for various reasons - someone is pretty or handsome, dresses nice, never seen a black person before (or never seen a Black American, as many foreigners can tell the difference between Black Africans and Black Americans, and are pretty good at it), out of disgust, out of hatred, and the list goes on. I know it matters to others, and yes it sucks, it's uncomfortable, it's weird, but it's not worth getting into trouble for. Now, by all means, one should always stay vigilant. Make sure the person does not follow or get too close to him/her as there is no telling what the person may be up to or thinking.
I think you and the lady are under estimating why he was staring. Could be because she was beautiful. Men in Egypt went nuts over me as well as other countries. Been to Italy didn’t have a problem with racism or prejudice. Stop reacting like an American when confronted with problems. She could have smiled and said hello. She was with a group so it’s unlikely she would have been in danger. I like the commentary but disagree respectfully to advise people not to go to Europe. Bless you.
Umm, where did y'all get that from? BW have never had the problem with pulling non bm. Never. In fact, we have to fight them off. YOU are the ONLY MALE GROUP who went to court and got formal permission for access to Non BW. You're in denial, and you're delusional if you actually believe that the only man bw can get is bm. You're ignorant and you're choosing to remain ignorant. Just search this term: "BW with WM."
@teoleno4019 so, what if she is? Why does it bother you? You know that is the oldest profession, and it's one funded nearly 100% by men. I don't get your point.
People gone look, they have eyes. If that's a problem, stay inside. As long as their not approaching then you continue to enjoy yourself. You wasn't alone, had others to watch your back as you watch theirs, i don't see the problem.
OK bozo. Keep that energy when someone is glaring at you. Theres a difference between looking and staring and glaring and being a creepy. And the people staring are mad they're not the ones being stared at
White fragility made the world what it is today. That’s why they need a product for everything, can’t stay in the sun, be athletic, or satisfy in bed. Must suck.
I was in Japan this month, I'm 6'5" so I got a lot of stares. I just ignored them and kept it moving but my lady noticed it more than I did. If you stand out in a foreign country, just be prepared for stares and comments but if you can't handle it, remain in your home country.
This comment right here should be pinned on top.
There's starring because they are nosy. Or starring to intimidate and then possibly inflict harm.
What your are stating and what she is talking about is not the same. And you know that.
Africans don’t stare at you. Go there.
shes female while youre a hairy balled male. cant compare.
Next time they stare at you like that, just ask them if they want an autograph. If they speak English, the staring will stop instantly.
People use staring as a Intimidating tactic
I just stare back lol
Some stare just because the one they are staring at is beautiful, sexy, strange, or unique.....Not always to intimidate....
@@1flash3571That can be true some of the time but not all the time. You never know. Could be a demon staring trying to start something.
@@q.t.gamingfamilyI stare back with sunglasses. Freaks them out.
@@1flash3571 Creepy people like u stare
Let them stare, don't stare back! It's gets under their skin. No one wants to be ignored!😎
Yes wear sunglasses even indoors. I love talking to folks while keeping my shades on folks don’t really know I’m disrespecting them while doing that. Folks have to earn my respect then maybe just maybe I’ll take off my shades and talk to you.
I stare right back and they are the ones who look away.
Italian Ms stare and they do not stop. My sister started making faces on behalf of me.😮😂😂
i had them stare at me as well here in america ... i started staring back at them and wouldnt stop staring until they stop staring ridiculous. so many of them do that. when they stare i would look and then look away and look again they still staring thats when i would stare back.
Exactly that's what i do 👊🏿
Black women, remember you're in another country, don't do things that will have you harmed. Let them stare you just keep moving.
That is what I was thinking too; things are different In other countries.
Nah, staring ain’t acceptable. They behavior don’t get a pass. Don’t care if you’re in the lions den.
@@YourKingJDGYour statement is foolish. You move in a manner that increases your odds of survival. It’s not always about who’s scared or not. You don’t know how crazy someone is. There’s always someone out there who’s crazy is a step higher than your own. No point in taking that gamble.
@@Beyt_El And when you show fear or shyness you’re bound to encounter those individuals, when you put your head down and tuck your tail, everyone will take advantage.
You hold your head high and challenge them at every avenue.
@@YourKingJDG LOL okay. Tell that to the thugs and drug dealers out there who have that same mindset. They get shot to death and or murdered in some way on a daily basis. Not a smart way to live in this world.
Survival is taking the route that has the least outcome for death or physical injury.
I couldn’t care less if someone wants to think they’re the toughest or strongest in the world.
I think they stare at us to make us uncomfortable. I will never go to those countries. I’ll stick with my own. I agree with ya Phillip. But leave the friends
I would have told him to take a picture it will last longer when I was overseas in the military I never experienced somebody just staring at me.
Go to Italy! It’s non-stop 🙄🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
There are Africans in Italy so Black people there is no surprise
Yeah but they're docile and submissive and trust me yt folks know the difference...
@@survivingwhitezaddy2.5 uh what?
better question, why are you still going to italy?
He was mad because she rejected him with facial expressions. Lol.
I probably would have blinked at Helm and flipped my hair, or what I usually more commonly do is say hello. When I do this no one ever ever says hello back to me so I just say, "Or not," and keep it moving. They all end up feeling stupid in the end. Then again, you would never catch me in Europe unless someone dragged me there after kidnapping me or something.
😂😂🤣🤣 Same here! 👎🏽 to European countries to visit.
They even do that in the middle of Little Italy, little did we know that they just have a creepy staring problem
It's not a creepy staring problem it's genuine curiosity because they're not used to seeing blacks in their areas even if they see them online. Stop being so stubbornly close minded.
im italian from new york tho , and i can say most italian men loooove black women. here in new york tons of my italian friendshave dated black women and most black women i dated went out with an italian before me and in italy trust me black women dont realize the men there have a full attraction to them and this come also from black women i know who travelled to italy
I am German i remember some African Dude started to harass me in the Tram for "starring" yet all what ii have done was looking on the digital display behind him, because i did not wanted to miss my exit. Some People believe they are the center of the universe.
Why africans are even allowed in Europe is beyond me
U stared to make him feel uncomfortable
poor thing they stared at her, some people are better off not travelling
poor guy oblivious to the fact he was creepy as f**k staring at women like that.
@@mteokay1246 you have an inferiority complex that makes you ridiculous
@@mteokay1246 Not in Italian culture.
She's a stunning woman-that's why he was staring, trust me. Whereas American men tend to be more respectful to women, a lot of men in some of these countries are not and will stare. They also don't take kindly to rejection.
Exactly he was in love with her, but she wasn't giving him attention (probably dusty) so he got mad.
That might be true and some of them are into black women when it comes to freak stuff 😂or just love black women
@@Speedy300as an italian I find her stunning but I am not a creep I wouldn’t stare
The greater the racism there is, the greater the urge to go to the place. Madness.
Lol true❤❤❤
I used to tell my mixed race daughters when people stared at them. Take no notice they are looking at you because you are so beautiful. This staring used to happen when they were small and cute. I was a bald headed woman of colour. Never a need to be ashamed of themselves . We travelled , I am a visitor in their country never a need to give a toss about them staring. I visit and am going home to my happy home.
... but, her white friend would probably say she don't want to go to Africa or the Caribbean because they'll be the 'only white person ' there ...
Uhm there are plenty of white people in Africa and that go to Caribbean. Dude look up some videos.
I recently moved to an island in the Caribbean with an estimated population of 3000 people who are mostly black. I' m of mixed heritage and I regurarly get a lot of stares that are making me uncomfortable.
Even if you catch them staring they keep on looking. I consider myself average looking. Sometimes I am asked where are you from are you spanish? Even the roaming animals like chickens, goats ,cows cats and dogs on the island are staring when you are walking by. Sometimes I even being followed by some of them. They are making sounds as if they want to tell me something ! Some of the cats and dogs are rubbing their skin against me!
When I was there some years ago, the men would stare and follow you
They are grabbing booties over there too! Have heard this from many black women. We are a fetish to them, they look at us as a piece of meat.
Because you are beautiful
That’s cray cause bLack people do that in America to other black people for what idk ?
That is weird. Like we don't know what be on anyone's mind. Gawking is very rude in some places too.
So she went to another country and did the same rude act she gives Black men in the US. Could have put herself in danger
So staring back and rolling eyes is something crazy now? Get your becky and get on bruh.
Who said she was being rude g00f ball? Why not attack the crazy guy why was staring.
@@YourKingJDG bro the guy was staring at a pretty woman. She could have ignored it simple. He could be smiling or frowning. Turn your head and mind your business. She put herself in danger dummy. We have no friends. The authorities would not side with her for acting a fool in a foreign country.
@@asiphejohnson6543 she said she asked what he was looking at. Why? Mind your business. The guy could be a maniac and you set him off because you couldn’t handle a stare in public. Guess what. When we travel we are looked at because the media they see reaches them before they see us which include criminal images of Black men and lewd images of Black women.
@@TheMaddBlackMann I don’t care, he was glaring for minutes on end and she glared back. What is this jim crow nonsense you’re spouting? Hold your head high boy.
Staring is rude, and intimidation is assault. No one is entitled to do that, regardless of country. Now take yo two stepping ass on.
Most likely he was staring because he was attracted to you and didn't know how to act. I've traveled internationally, in Italy and had men approach me and chat me up even though I didn't speak much Italian. I've also had men chase me down the street in other countries as well, lets say they are much more direct and not afraid to approach you. It can be shocking but eventually you'll get used to it and realize you need to be more direct as well about standing your ground and boundaries.
Very well said. That woman is gorgeous. And Italy has a solid patriarchal culture and fixed sexual roles. I went there a long time ago with friends and the girls with us were getting bombarded by men's really pushy, close to stalking behavior. It's more about sex than ethnicity or race, i'm almost certain of it too.
He stared because, he fancies you...He stared at you because you are beautiful and you know that ! STOP PRETENDING !!!
The delusion is real
You sound deranged. If you like someone you go and talk to them. Not glare then mock charge them.
It's the damsel in distress role. "It scared."
Hell stare back at him till he looks away.
It works Everytime 😅
They don't like to see a black person that looks like they're doing well
OMG. Yep you are the center of the world.
Them and in the Asian countries.
So what!
One person starring does not represent the entire country. Come on man!
So I don't like getting stared at either, but to attribute this to racism is dumb.
I really don’t understand the staring. I almost feel like these people are aliens. Black people have always been hear.
Hear? Do you mean here? What do you mean by that anyway?
I heard many years ago that men in Italy often stare at women and will pinch. I didn’t dig deeper because I wasn’t planning on going there.
I did a semester in France (the ‘80’s) and encountered a good deal of men (French and other nationalities) who approached me (I was shocked by how aggressive a couple were.) I also encountered a few men/women who were racists (The French have been known to have xenophobics - they only like the French way.). One salesperson was somewhat standoffish and rude until she realized I was American.
I also just walked into the French Vogue reception one day (trying to do an internship), and the people were very nice.
I believe you take a chance on encountering some form of racism wherever you go, just like you might when you leave your home in America. I recommend doing the research before you travel so you’re better informed.
One thing I have learned is to also avoid looking lost, predators will pounce on that and try you.
@malumesExodus I am going to stop you right there. African people do it too. I was in Barcelona, Spain many many years ago. I had like two or 3 African women not only stare at me intently but touch my hair. I am Queen Latifa's complexion just as a reference. No one said hello, they stared at me like I was an object. I felt invisible. I asked my friend who is black American and lived there at the time. I said, "What are they doing?" He said they like your hairstyle and they are going to copy it. I had my hair in a flat twist updo. I was like whatever and remained until they took their notes or whatever. After I left, two weeks later, my friend told me that he saw a woman walk down the street with my exact same hairstyle. Lol I was like man, I understood Spanish culture, but I wasn't prepared for this but for me it was all good. I was just taken a back at the moment.
That happened to my family and I on a MSC cruise back in 2011. You fly into Spain and you cruise 4-5 countries over 7 days. When we were returning to the states, I had in my futbol Jersey on and people were gawking. I actually liked the attention. They must have thought I was an athlete. I wish I wore my futbol Jersey to the Vatican. Anyhow, it was the people on the ship staring that made me slightly uncomfortable. I didn't get a sense of hate. I don't think they see black people at all. Particularly, American blacks.
There’s African migrants there
Yeah bruh i heard they stare like that overseas. Some of them people overseas aren't use of seeing black Americans. They staring like they seen A Alien. 😅
“Ain’t used to” isn’t an excuse anymore..
For me this video highlights the importance of having a strong black man with you. We’re like bug repellent to creeps and weirdos.
Sooo, anybody who stares is a creeps and weirdos? Reeeeeally?
You're to busy being a creep and a weirdo and a groupie for other races who Act like you. It's crazy as hell
Not me. I'm done being an unpaid bodyguard
Idi0ts like you is the problem why women are the way they are. You enable their entitlements. Women stare at men all the time also. Are they also creeps too? or is it only men who are creeps who stare at women?
No thank you 😂
they share here in American a lot
I get it that some of our folks want to take trips to Non African or countries that has a less Black or Dark Brown friendly population(excluding the Indian Sub- Continent), but Italy( Are you serious sister?) those South Europeans are so mad racists🤦🏿♂️. At the end no one cares about the pictures that you take, but deep inside the negative experiences haunts and stay there forever 🤷🏿♂️.
Phil is blind and in the u knowing that people of other cultures do that to purposely offend you, it’s a type of aggressive attack
That's good my black woman, because I'm a black man an they don't play that game with us 👊🏿👊🏾 no matter we're we see them, LONDON 🤦🏾♂️😅🤣🇬🇧✌🏾
DON'T GET YOURSELF HURT LITTLE BOY
Men stare at women. Ignore him or just smile. Simple.
He wanted confrontation. He needs to FAFO.
She's beautiful
You have to know the culture in the places you travel to. In Rwanda they stare at foreigners. But, it's ok. They don't mean anything by it. If, you can't handle that then stay home.
Birthday is the worst day you people going to learn For real
I have no desire to visited any western or European countries.
You live in usa 😂
Western or European ? You must be ‘murican
Europeans in Africa are stared at all the time. Just get use to it
I understand that this can be uncomfortable, but you gotta remember YOU are on THEIR TURF. If you don't know what's going on don't turn it into something that might get you in trouble. Just be cordial, polite, do your business and get out. Also be keep track of your surroundings. All these passport bros and sisters making too much noise and giving their locations away. They know who you are and they will act accordingly.
"They knew you are and will act accordingly " I love how you're INADVERTENTLY admitting these 'people' are nothing but demonic parasitic agents who watch everything we do. But- I thought the world doesn't revolve around us? Sure as hell "seems" like it
Shes stunning
We say ...kamaki... at Greece....😅😅😅
The original man and woman are always the envy of other races I was born in the UK and still get funny looks
They do that in Europe
Do the evil sneaky smile 😈 they do. Give it back in a smile. Of course you are beautiful 🤩. He would have not done had his Karen been with him. We are there fantasy but no we don’t want nothing ken.
Weird how y’all keep pointing out some sexual fantasy. Sounds like something you want if anything.
Maybe you’re beautiful and he couldn’t stop looking!!!
If you go around the world dont take you bias eith you. You belive that the world move around you. It s not so. This girl is a beautifull girl. In Italy is quite normal to be stared at if uou are a beautiful woman. Grow up. Not all move around you and racism.
What a bunch of anti-italian bs..
Smh
Wow
Staring at another person can be the most invasive thing a person can do another person.
hardly
Indeed. And ignoring people is even worse.
How do you know that the man was staring at you? You were staring back. If you received unsolicited comments or approaches from him, that is downright harassment and he should be call out.
They stare in Italy and it’s creepy
@@numerologicatarot3333especially in the southern parts that are just recently becoming more popular & open to tourism. They will stare you down with 0 shame
Maybe he was admiring her beauty. I heard Italian men like black women. I don't know how true that is.
@@Dawn191They have an attraction for us. I’m from NYC (The largest Italian population in the nation) and I’ve spent over 2 weeks in Italy. However, in Italy it is completely creepy often times. The staring is rude and not innocuous @ times.
I think in UK they put staring in public transport as harrasment and you could be fined for it.
South Africa 🌍
When....
Some of you Americans need to understand that YOU are in THEIR country. Many Europeans stare. That's what a lot of them do. How about doing some research on the culture(s) and people(s) before going to your destination of interest. Just because it is rude to stare in America does not mean it is the same in other countries.
Soo if you and the person is in the same area for 10, 15 even 20 minutes they are just going to keep staring so your best advice is to let them. That is freaking weird and I don’t care if that’s what they do in their country. How about this educate yourself on the difference between looking and just being weird?
@@bornlikethis7536 Yes. Let them stare. If they are not causing any harm, let it go. It is not that serious. Yes it is freaking weird because a lot of people are not used to that.
For your information I know the difference, and it still does not matter. Even if one LOOKS at another wrong it's weird. Knowing the difference is not going to prevent people from staring (or even looking) at another.
Just keep it moving...
@@cyanoxicrose it may not matter to them but it matters to others. But I get it, make people feel uncomfortable, which is the harm, because they can. Only stare at the black girl because she doesn’t matter. Smh
@@bornlikethis7536 people stare for various reasons - someone is pretty or handsome, dresses nice, never seen a black person before (or never seen a Black American, as many foreigners can tell the difference between Black Africans and Black Americans, and are pretty good at it), out of disgust, out of hatred, and the list goes on. I know it matters to others, and yes it sucks, it's uncomfortable, it's weird, but it's not worth getting into trouble for.
Now, by all means, one should always stay vigilant. Make sure the person does not follow or get too close to him/her as there is no telling what the person may be up to or thinking.
@@cyanoxicrose I understand this better.
Forse no è per il colore della pelle che in Italia non è nulla di strano, magari è per vestire come una zòccola ?
Ben detto!
Goes to Italy, COMPLAINS about ITALIANS... 🤡🤡🤡
Well, should you go and lie about the experience???😂😂😂
She was just Highlighting her experience and how Italians love to stare as strangers.
i wouldn't go africa and comp0lain, i would never set foot there
sharing doesn't bother me
I think you and the lady are under estimating why he was staring. Could be because she was beautiful. Men in Egypt went nuts over me as well as other countries. Been to Italy didn’t have a problem with racism or prejudice. Stop reacting like an American when confronted with problems. She could have smiled and said hello. She was with a group so it’s unlikely she would have been in danger. I like the commentary but disagree respectfully to advise people not to go to Europe. Bless you.
Passport sis 👺 hold this L
Oh, she wanted that Italian man in the worst way .And he's staring like Bish, why are you in my country
Umm, where did y'all get that from? BW have never had the problem with pulling non bm. Never. In fact, we have to fight them off. YOU are the ONLY MALE GROUP who went to court and got formal permission for access to Non BW. You're in denial, and you're delusional if you actually believe that the only man bw can get is bm. You're ignorant and you're choosing to remain ignorant. Just search this term: "BW with WM."
She selling the 🐈.
@teoleno4019 so, what if she is? Why does it bother you? You know that is the oldest profession, and it's one funded nearly 100% by men. I don't get your point.
making a whole lot of assumptions 🙄
She's been skin bleaching, you can tell.
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@@ZubZubi 😃
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@@highsecurityagent8778lies 🤥
People gone look, they have eyes.
If that's a problem, stay inside.
As long as their not approaching then you continue to enjoy yourself.
You wasn't alone, had others to watch your back as you watch theirs, i don't see the problem.
As usual, when we are discussing things that happen to Black folks, always a nghro contrarian, being contrarian just to be contrarian!!
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OK bozo. Keep that energy when someone is glaring at you. Theres a difference between looking and staring and glaring and being a creepy. And the people staring are mad they're not the ones being stared at
Next time. All I'm gonna say to you is this. Take A PICTURE It'll Last Longer
@chayo4537 not Bozo the clown, no you didn't 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I completely agree with you too.
black fragility is real
White fragility made the world what it is today. That’s why they need a product for everything, can’t stay in the sun, be athletic, or satisfy in bed. Must suck.
Italians are apart of a staring culture. He probably found her attractive and wanted to get to know her.😊👀🕵🏻♂️
you don't understand Italian culture. Staring is a sign of disrespect and intimidation. It has nothing to do with attractiveness.
@@de9541or it was curiosity
@AN-no4zk there is Africans out there he seen black before
@@AN-no4zk not this time. he let her know he wanted to disrespect her.
@@eastsidegeminiii1010 in some places in italy, there are no black people
How about grow up?
Bws problem
Be respectful of Italian people and cultures… learn History… 🫵🏼