My dad's 80 and I'm 41 but he's still one of the 3 most important men in my life. It goes my son then him and my fiance. My fiance knows and is 100% understanding about that. My dad's been my rock for over 40 years. No one can change or replace that.
NTA. He isn't contributing, and all he has done has overstepped your boundaries. He says that your father (deceased) has more of an active role in your wedding. Well, duh, he's your father for pete's sake. If he can't accept that, you don't see him as a father figure that's a him problem. He's controlling, passive-aggressive, and thinks the world should revolve around what he says. If he tries to bully or pressure you into something you're not comfortable with. Uninvite him. You don't want his drama at your wedding. Because he is liable to start an argument.
Just because he married your mom doesn't make him your dad. I'm glad he makes your mom happy. And I'm glad you're glad he makes your mom happy. But that doesn't make him anything more than your mom's husband.
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He can never replace your dad
no one can replace any REAL dad. (sperm doners sure) step dad didnt act like a dad but a warden
My dad's 80 and I'm 41 but he's still one of the 3 most important men in my life. It goes my son then him and my fiance. My fiance knows and is 100% understanding about that. My dad's been my rock for over 40 years. No one can change or replace that.
No shit
NTA. He isn't contributing, and all he has done has overstepped your boundaries. He says that your father (deceased) has more of an active role in your wedding. Well, duh, he's your father for pete's sake.
If he can't accept that, you don't see him as a father figure that's a him problem. He's controlling, passive-aggressive, and thinks the world should revolve around what he says.
If he tries to bully or pressure you into something you're not comfortable with. Uninvite him. You don't want his drama at your wedding. Because he is liable to start an argument.
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NTA THIS YOUR WEDDING NOT HIS DO NOT LET NO ONE PRESSURE YOU You have to give respect to get it
Just because he married your mom doesn't make him your dad. I'm glad he makes your mom happy. And I'm glad you're glad he makes your mom happy. But that doesn't make him anything more than your mom's husband.
Stepfather does not equal second dad.