Ruined Friendships Ft Lola Oj
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ก.ย. 2024
- Hi guys, welcome to the first episode of Me, Her & Everything Else.
Me, Her & Everything Else is a podcast that's based on discussions around women, society and lifestyle. Join Stephanie Coker- Aderinokun as she takes you on journey that aims at uplifting women and sharing their stories.
This week I have Lola Oj as my guest and we discuss ruined friendships. Enjoy!!
I understand the place Lola is coming from when it comes to withholding information. In my case I noticed that some of my friends can't exactly handle some of the decisions I take. And to protect myself from the interference that their opinions will cause,I just withhold information until I am much ready to share.
Thank you!!! Exactly
Got me at
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Nobody is gonna be hating on you if you’re driving a sandbox“ . From sandbox to Mercedes 😂😂😀. Yesoooo very true.
Steph reminds me of myself. She is more emotional and a caregiver….Lola seems like she is hard to love but you will respect her because she doesn’t give herself away and a logical thinker. I enjoyed this episode. Very Relatable
I also don't share things early with people, I just feel comfortable keeping it to myself, I have people who fight with me on that.
Ladies friends is not my thing bcos I only come across those who only want to hear Mine but won't say hers
And no way that can't be happening then I better keep shut too
Lola OJ just got herself a new lover, she seems so sweet and lovable!!
I am that sort of guy that has issues with women dressing up in men's clothing (esp the Agbada thingy) I like my women adorably feminine..but hey, Lola is killing that out fit..everything well coordinated + she's so chill.
Proper love to those Stephanie's male friends who distance themselves after she got married 😄 my uni female friends who are married..i can't remember calling them on phone. .i guess it's a thing of respect.
I need to see more Nigerian ladies who are like Stephanie & Lola
Concerning the part where you said Lola oj "witheld an information" I can pretty much relate to it. It's not that I don't trust you I just don't think I'm mentally capable to deal with what you have to say or how you'd react to it,it's going to have negative effect on how I feel already about the existing issue. There was a time I felt really disappointed and more disappointed in the fact I disappointed people close to me,I was scared of their reactions,I was scared of the could haves and should haves that they'd tell me,I was scared of the disappointment on their faces,I felt like I let them down and I was still dealing with the reality of what happened and every feeling that comes with it and I wasn't strong enough to deal with the disappointment from other people. So i blocked people,shut them off ,till I was over it. Then I opened up, forcefully tho 😂I still do It but Working on it to be better person ❤️😊
Just the kind of my person buh to some point I wouldn't want to change it
I loved this so much.i saw a lot of me in lola as regards sharing with friends or family.i always have conversations in my head and forget to share or take time to share 😁😁
Lola Oj is such a nice person. Met her once at a saloon and she’s so calm and polite knew I loved her but watching this just makes me love her more 😍🤗
So interesting, I saw a lot of me in Lola🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
it's the good spoken English for both parties fuh me
Watching this was just so beautiful, Steph is so real, if there’s anything this podcast has taught, then it is, you just have to learn to communicate, and fight for your-friendships especially when they’re worth it, you don’t have to deny your personality or hide how you feel, I genuinely feel if everyone one is as open as Steph, life would be much better
Love this episode! So real and unfiltered which makes it so relatable on so many levels! I was like Steph where I would end friendships and have lost amazing friendships because I wasn’t mature or patient enough. Agree with Lola, we grow and mature to understand people are dealing with so much and a lot of broken friendships stem from misunderstandings that were never addressed. Great one ladies! ❤️
Feels like a healing session.👍
This was cute, enjoyable, mature, interesting, real and relatable. Thank you guys😊
Thank youuuu
Loved this conversation , keep the content coming 👏
I love this episode!!! This conversation 👏👏👏👏
Friendships like this❤️🔥❤️🔥
Ohhhh it was very educative and interesting I loved it. I watched from start to end . Beautiful
Thank you
I love that you guys were real and used real life situations
I have definitely been sleeping on this... I love this episode
This is one of my most enjoyable vlog ever!! So relatable🔥
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I loved every bit of this literally from the beginning to the end ❤️
Thank youuuu
I love this conversation! This is real.
Yay
Your friendship Is beautiful
Thank ❤️
New here. Interesting and fun. I learnt some hard facts about some of my previous friendships. Thank you🤗. For now, we move🤗
I enjoyed every bit of this 🥺 you guys are so expressive and sound.. just subscribed ❤️ shoutout to LOJ she’s so beautiful
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Thank you so much for this beautiful conversation. Now I totally understand I’m not the problem when people cut off. I just so much of my life in aunty Stephanie
Love,love, love Lola Oj!!!
Loved this conversation. I am Lola, Lola is me😩But yeahhhh....there’s always room for improvement so I’m working on being better. Great podcast Stephanie👍
Thank youuuu
Exactly she's just me
I love to see this!
Love this Lola so much, she is me,I am her.
I learnt a lot from this talk🔥
Omg I love love your friendship. Beautiful episode
This was really good, I’m kind of like Lola when it comes to openness but lately I’ve really enjoyed sharing more and having those conversations. I also love love this sisterhood!
FINALLYYYYY!
Love it 😍
I absolutely loved this episode. Thank you both for being so honest.
I remember I used to think they were twins 😂
I enjoyed everything bit of it 😊
I thoroughly enjoyedddd watching this, like I laughed and smiled all through! Your friendship is so beautiful and I wish you a continued lifetime of bliss! Can't wait for episode 2!😍😍
Wow such a beautiful and refreshing show subscribing immediately ❤️
This is really good
Thank you
I totally enjoyed this. Welldone
Thank youuuu
Awww this was so beautiful to watch
I Love love this...I saw a lot of me in Lola...really interesting and educative..
I love this episode 🖤🖤🖤
Currently going through a friendship breakup with someone I was really close to.. this was really helpful ❤️
So glad it helped you
I love every bit of the video.😊
So interesting 👏
Loved this...
Love you both❤️🥰
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I love Lola 💕
This is really nice
Very interesting. Learnt from this
Yay
Watching this was beautiful I learned a lot
Soo interesting to watch. Love you Steph.
Interesting
Thank you
I enjoyed this episode 💯
I agree with you Steph. Lola is so wise. I’ve learnt so much from both of you ladies. Love love this 😍🔥
I loved this so much, the entire experience is totally relatable and real 💯❤️
Thank you for this👌😍😍
I totally enjoyed watching thisss!
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Love you guys 😘
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Enjoyed this ❤️
Yay
Awwwwww ❤️❤️❤️❤️
This you shouldn't be hanging around with single people ehn, my friends' in-law told her this and I just laughed.
But you’re very fine ooo🥺