wow Toke did such an amazing job being truly inquisitive and curious, asking excellent questions. And Lola seems so open and authentic. This was honestly truly such a joy to experience. Yes i said experience because i feel blessed by all this beauty and excellence 🙌
I’m a nurse and midwife, believe me when I say childbirth is not a joke!!!Everything Lola O.J said is so true. Thanks for this vlog, I really enjoyed watching it
I enjoyed this vlog so much, It's extremely enlightening. As a society, we also need to stop condemning women who are not interested in child bearing and we should speak up more on the numerous side effects of pregnancy some women encounter (memory loss, hair/teeth loss, postpartum depression, vaginal muscle weakness and so much more) and its normal to not have butterflies immediately you set eyes on your baby. Take your time and ease into your emotions at your own pace.
I feel really good watching this video...motherhood is a broad topic and finding out you're pregnant unprepared is another thing...may God bless all mothers who chose to keep their kids regardless
Sometimes your period does not stop immediately your pregnant. It takes a community to raise children. Pregnancy is hard and recovery is harder. Postpartum is real and can last for a while. If you have a child get as much help as you can. Don't let anyone judge your parenting, do what works for you.
That C-section thing is the craziest. I have always decided I'll go that route. The meaning of safe delivery is that you're alive, your baby is alive....whatever the route
Babies in the womb absorb the mother's trauma, anxiety,fear and low self esteem,self hatred ...As a child I found myself having nightmares & fear/panick something I never spoke about ,being in the dark was terrifying....I later realised that I had absorbed those traumatic patterns while being in the womb... Black women should consider their mental health before being baby making machines .
It’s important to be true to how you are feeling, because you birth via c-section doesn’t mean you are less of a woman. Every mother deserves her crown.
Lola is right, I have a new born and sometimes, I don't take a shower. I just wake up, change my breast pads, wash the breast, wash EVERYTHING and move on. When you have a newborn, taking a shower is liiiiike......
This interview is filled with so much insight and transparency. thank you Lola for being so honest and open. We need to be a society that speaks more and encourages people to express their insecurities,challenges and fears. I wish you all the best💜💜💜
Pregnancy is honestly the most horrible thing I've experienced, I don't even think I want to experience it again. If I have my way, I would want someone to carry the future ones for me .
This is so insightful and educating, women don’t really talk more about the childbirth and the stress they pass through after childbirth. It’s not an easy Journey. Most times when you try to complain you sound ungrateful.
Only those who who's not had kids will think child birth is easy, is physically and psychologically draining, but seeing ur kids hit their mile stones everyday and growing happy makes u feel its all worth it.
Oh dear! I thoroughly enjoyed this segment. Very very enlightening and informative. Toke asked all the necessary questions👌🏼👌🏼 and more. Lola answered and shone light on a lot of things regarding this topic too!! Great job!!!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I still dont know how my mom had 4 kids within 5 years😩 Signed someone who hasnt had a child yet ,but thankful for learning and preparing for my time🙏🏾
And toke I like d fact dat ure expectant and u wish for dis beautiful moments but hey enjoy ur moments childbirth is another different world Na strong motivation u keep telling urself dats keeps u going Dats y I give 10/10 to very few supporting husband or spouse
Hmm reminds me of my moments Mehn toke it’s not easy o But we give God d glory Being a single mum with a dramatic bf is not a joke Well Lola thanks so much for coming out real And toke I like d
Personally, i wouldn't want my wife pushing and spoiling that workshop all in the name of childbirth, if its possible to vomit the child, then she would. Abeg who get original Itel charger?
wow Toke did such an amazing job being truly inquisitive and curious, asking excellent questions. And Lola seems so open and authentic. This was honestly truly such a joy to experience. Yes i said experience because i feel blessed by all this beauty and excellence 🙌
I’m a nurse and midwife, believe me when I say childbirth is not a joke!!!Everything Lola O.J said is so true.
Thanks for this vlog, I really enjoyed watching it
I enjoyed this vlog so much, It's extremely enlightening. As a society, we also need to stop condemning women who are not interested in child bearing and we should speak up more on the numerous side effects of pregnancy some women encounter (memory loss, hair/teeth loss, postpartum depression, vaginal muscle weakness and so much more) and its normal to not have butterflies immediately you set eyes on your baby. Take your time and ease into your emotions at your own pace.
Congrats on 100K subbies 👏🏾👏🏾🎉🎉
I feel really good watching this video...motherhood is a broad topic and finding out you're pregnant unprepared is another thing...may God bless all mothers who chose to keep their kids regardless
This was a very good episode. I love Lola OJ. Toke just a suggestion, write the title in addition with your your guest name (eg the title FT Lola oj)
Sometimes your period does not stop immediately your pregnant. It takes a community to raise children. Pregnancy is hard and recovery is harder. Postpartum is real and can last for a while. If you have a child get as much help as you can. Don't let anyone judge your parenting, do what works for you.
That C-section thing is the craziest. I have always decided I'll go that route.
The meaning of safe delivery is that you're alive, your baby is alive....whatever the route
Babies in the womb absorb the mother's trauma, anxiety,fear and low self esteem,self hatred ...As a child I found myself having nightmares & fear/panick something I never spoke about ,being in the dark was terrifying....I later realised that I had absorbed those traumatic patterns while being in the womb...
Black women should consider their mental health before being baby making machines .
Is there scientific research to back this up?
It’s important to be true to how you are feeling, because you birth via c-section doesn’t mean you are less of a woman. Every mother deserves her crown.
Gosh !!! The anxiety is out of this world. So glad you said this... I cried a lot too
I ddnt want this episode to end. Very educative.
Lovely session. Toke, I am sure you'll be an amazing mom and you will surely have your heart desire sooner than you imagine.
When are you bringing Funke Akindele? I don’t know the topic, just wanna have her on toke moment 😭
And Tiwa Savage😫
She was so sincere. Pregnancy Will change you
I really enjoyed this episode. Thanks Lola for the raw and honest truth
Lola is right, I have a new born and sometimes, I don't take a shower. I just wake up, change my breast pads, wash the breast, wash EVERYTHING and move on. When you have a newborn, taking a shower is liiiiike......
I feel so accomplished whenever I take a shower since I had my baby lol 😆😆😆😆
👏👏🙌 Great video! Omg Lola I am with you with all you said. It is my reality. Just had my 2nd baby 3 months. It’s a blessing but the struggle is real.
She said it all!!!, thanks you for having such an honest person on the show. Especially about the body not being the way it used to.
This is a good episode, although short…
I obviously enjoyed the conversation and Lola OJ is beautiful and smart. Nice1 🙏🏽
This is very insightful. I can listen to Lola Oj all day!!
This interview is filled with so much insight and transparency. thank you Lola for being so honest and open. We need to be a society that speaks more and encourages people to express their insecurities,challenges and fears. I wish you all the best💜💜💜
My goodness! The honesty is amazing!! Help a mother around you today
Pregnancy is honestly the most horrible thing I've experienced, I don't even think I want to experience it again. If I have my way, I would want someone to carry the future ones for me .
Great Episode. I have a new found LOVE for Lola because of this.
She said it all for me, same struggle
She’s so honest,i love her
This is such an intelligent conversation 💕
Amen, from your lips to God's ears. You will definitely be a well rounded fantastic Mum.
This is so insightful and educating, women don’t really talk more about the childbirth and the stress they pass through after childbirth. It’s not an easy Journey. Most times when you try to complain you sound ungrateful.
Thank you so much for inviting Lola..I for one can relate to everything she said..thank you so much for sharing
Grown women talk 👏👏
Only those who who's not had kids will think child birth is easy, is physically and psychologically draining, but seeing ur kids hit their mile stones everyday and growing happy makes u feel its all worth it.
Oh dear! I thoroughly enjoyed this segment. Very very enlightening and informative. Toke asked all the necessary questions👌🏼👌🏼 and more. Lola answered and shone light on a lot of things regarding this topic too!! Great job!!!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I enjoyed this episode the most.
I wish this was longer!! The talk was getting deeper!!! Really wish they would have spoke for at least 30 more minutes!!
Love the realness of this chitchat so realistic… 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Thanks for sharing!
This is one of the best interviews I've seen. And you had a great guest. Was fun and educative, love it 👌🔥❤️
Thank you Lola.. You're so truthful
Thank you so much for this...
This should be overemphasized please...
Everything she said is 💯
100k💃💃💃 Look who is getting a silver plate soon. About time!!! Loveet🤎🤎🤎
She said oh my goodness, this baby is a baby 🤣🤣🤣 Lola o.
If I could do it again, I’d stop at one 😂.. Second “one” is a scam 😂😂😂😂
😂 😂 😂 😂
Very interesting and timely topic and dare I say...well-executed. Kudos.
Two of my faves in one video !! I really loved this episode. Congratulations on 100k Toke!!
More motivation to go back and continue editing
Another great episode!!! Thanks Lola for sharing your experience😍😍
Lola Oj looking all beautiful 😍❤️
Such an amazing episode 🤩
Lola was so amazing. And Toke, you’ll have your baby soonest by God’s Grace 👍🏾🙏🏾
Congrats on 100k finally!!!🥰🥰🥰
If this was a hotel, I would rate it 10 stars ✨ Lola is so real 🤭 #TokeStarr
This is the best episode!!!
I love everything about this conversation
This is a very fantastic 👍 episode, so much to learn, my best so far. Well done
Love love love this episode, Tokstarrr and Lola. Loveeeet!
She’s so sweet and transparent ❤️✨
Please let’s this TMs be longer than the usual😭 was enjoying it with my popcorn and maltina already
This video was really informative
Thank you for this. Anxiety on a 1000.
Congrats on the 100k subs.... I gat mad love for u T❤️❤️❤️
Very insightful episode ... Thank you.
Toke moment is the place for raw, real and relatable facts. If you're not in for that, use the door.
Amazing conversation......true talk.
Can’t wait to see your baby Toke❤️
Amazing episode…Lola oj 😍
Lol when the baby sleeps I shower, but definitely anxiety goes up after kids.
This was so beautiful to watch.!
She loves babies but yet she prioritized career over family 😂😂 yeah right
Loved this !
I lovee this episode so muchhh!
Love this convo👏🏽👏🏽
I still dont know how my mom had 4 kids within 5 years😩
Signed someone who hasnt had a child yet ,but thankful for learning and preparing for my time🙏🏾
Thanks tokstarr for this topic.
Mum guilt is real. I almost died jumping out of the shower thinking I heard my baby’s cry only for my baby to be fast asleep 😂😂😂
Haha this was me. I was forever running out of the shower thinking i heard cries or thought I did.
@@thyre654kle it’s nuts isn’t it?! 😂
I would literally panic from my sleep shouting his name
Amen to your prayers 🙏🏻❤️and me too
Love love loved this episode
Yaaaaay congratulations on 100k subscribers
She said it all....love her
TRUE. There is no manual for parenting
And toke I like d fact dat ure expectant and u wish for dis beautiful moments but hey enjoy ur moments childbirth is another different world
Na strong motivation u keep telling urself dats keeps u going
Dats y I give 10/10 to very few supporting husband or spouse
So true, you always worry about them
First to watch and comment, love you tokstarr
Truly popcorn worthy
I love her.
Nice convo Toke
Spot on! Love this
Toke please do a reaction to your old videos
Haaa...Toke I love you,we have ai much in common💕💕💯
They don’t just give C-sections?? I thought you could just choose. Wow!
Really enjoyed this episode, and I am a guy.lol
Hmm reminds me of my moments
Mehn toke it’s not easy o
But we give God d glory
Being a single mum with a dramatic bf is not a joke
Well Lola thanks so much for coming out real
And toke I like d
Lovely talk🥰🥰🥰
Wow Lola you hit it right
I love this moment ♥️♥️
Toke this is the best episode
Post partum depression is real 💕
Personally, i wouldn't want my wife pushing and spoiling that workshop all in the name of childbirth, if its possible to vomit the child, then she would. Abeg who get original Itel charger?
You are so unserious😒😒😂😂😂
Like mehn,if I have money my wife and I will go for surrogacy
love this.
Well done lola
I totally relate.
Toke I only wish you didn't cut her sometimes, she was really giving the tea
Is her accent for me 😀