Unwritten rules in the US (Why nobody talks about them??)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ก.ค. 2024
- Today, we're going to talk about unwritten rules in the US. In American culture, there are a lot of rules that people don't tell you about.
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Timestamps:
00:00 Never come on time
02:02 Interaction with random children
03:13 Never jump the line
03:59 Personal space
05:24 Police
06:24 Bribing
06:29 Keeping to your right when moving in public places
06:45 Using Instagram and LinkedIn for networking
08:01 Small talk
09:46 Smiling
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Thank you for your video, Marina. I've been through similar cultural shocks living in Brazil (I'm from Argentina). Here small talks and people smiling all the time is the rule too. But it's interesting the way you approach the situation, instead of saying "they are false", you say "they want to establish a friendly environment", that's a nice way to see it.
I'm glad you posted this video, very informative and it's definitely gonna come in handy someday.
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i liked the quality of small talk it's so sweet and make the client confortable i think it's so important especially in this stressful life
Everytime that you realease a video I learn so much new topics. Thanks so much, Marina. 🙂
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Hi Marina, as an American, it's so interesting to hear you talk about things that are so seemingly normal, being highlighted as a cultural phenomenon. Regarding parties, I agree with others who say that being late depends on the people and the region. It can be very rude to be late, especially if your invitation states that dinner will be served at a specific time. And never be late for work! Anyway, thanks for sharing your insights!
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as cultural phenomena*. Unless the change in plurality was intentional, in which case that's another grammatical error.
"As an American.." interesting
@@yoda2397 I'm not a grammar expert, but I'm pretty sure that using the singular here is correct because "things" is a collective noun.
Yes
@@kw7709 Interesting, given that you correctly chose "are".
These things aren't that complicated.
Or, in your opinion, these things isn't that complicated.
Embarrassing.
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Hey Marina, that was really informative! Thanks. :)
Interesting! Marina, thank you! I hope to see more stories about unwritten rules in the US.
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You were spot on with everything. It's a rarity to see an individual get it so correctly.
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I have loved this video ! Thanks for the tip !
Being late is not chill, it's simply disrespectful
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Thank you for this video, it is super cool that you have noticed about maintaining physical distance. I will subscribe to your channel!
Thanks for this video.😊 I hope I’ll visit the States one day.🤞
Thank you for the video. I had no idea they have so many unspoken rules in the US, that's pretty interesting
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Distance between people in line is not a Covid behavior. There is something called “personal space” that is different in European countries than in the U.S. In most European countries the personal space between people in public is closer than the personal space in the U.S. Whether in conversation or just standing and waiting. Europeans will stand very close and that makes Americans a little nervous and they’ll tend to back away and enlarged the personal space. (A study I had to do for my sociology degree.)
Yes exactly this is not a covid behaviour. I'm from europe and when i moved here this was the first weird thing for me that people feel disturbed when you stand close to them. For them this is normal but for us this is so unfriendly and such a being cold person. I think the reason is; people feel in danger, because of the safety problems here.
@@js777. …not really anything to do with current safety problems. The American personal space comfort zone has been like this for at least 75 years. It has changed over time. When my grandparents came to the US from Italy and Lithuania around 1900, people stood much closer. Over the decades the distance has become enlarged.
@@sitbone3 Yes maybe you are right. I am almost new in this country.I have been observing people and the culture since I came here.There are many things to discuss and the I wish I could explain correctly but I am not a native speaker and this topic is so deep😁 Maybe I can explain my thoughts better, another time in the future😊
@@js777. No, not a safety issue. Regardless of my being in a good or bad neighborhood, Americans just tend to like space. We don't want to smell our neighbor or be able to tell what you had for lunch.
I've been abroad a lot too. I'm not particularly afraid of European or Asians being really close. But I also look like maybe I have a screw loose, so most times I get my personal space even abroad. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
But still we can get sick 😷 we are not going to die but getting sick sucks 🤪
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Марина , спасибо за Ваше видео 😊У меня в Америке немного другой эксперимент со временем на ужин-вечеринку . Если пригласили быть в 5 то необходимо быть вовремя . А , в остальном всё похоже на Ваши описания 🌹🌹🌹
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Very nice .. thank you for the information… I am from Jordan in the Middle East… I travel to USA all the time … all what you said makes sense to me now … different cultures
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That "ramp" on the side of the road is called the "shoulder." And it would require an extreme emergency to allow you to drive on it. It's definitely not there for people to get around a traffic jam. That will piss a lot of people off.
Hi Marina, thank you for ur today's video, I make sure some points before I will go the USA. Ur video was so helpful, cause I'm planning to study in the US university, I hope I will😅 get into and Marina good luck with your works
Interesting 😁pretty cool. I'm from Sri Lanka😀. I knew lot of new things about US 🙃. Love to visit some day 😋. Thank you Marina🤩
Marina, here in Brazil when we say a party start at 7:00 p.m. people usually arrives at 9:00 p.m.. For foreigners this maybe can stress a little bit, until get used to it.
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Wait until you go to Mexico. If you make plans to meet locals at a restaurant at 7pm, they will arrive at 10pm. If you plan with locals to meet for breakfast at 9am, they will arrive at noon. It’s a Mexican thing. Then when you ask them why they came so late they will answer, “well, here we are”.
That's kindof annoying isn't it?
Same in egypt
@TONIK This is our culture in Egypt
Hello Marina, I have something to ask you. Is it ok to say American accent in England?
Is there self counter or like Amazon store. No small talk there right?
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I think the punctuality thing depends on what region of America you’re in. In the northern south (that’s what I like to call it), my dad always taught me that to be early is to be on time and to be on time is to be late. If you arrive early to a social gathering, as long as you’re not putting pressure on the host, you can always help set up. California is definitely bizarre if the next guest at that party didn’t show up until an hour after the agreed upon time.
In my country I often come to home hangouts with friends only 10-30 minutes late, but they tell me that I am constantly late
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What is the best time to watch Marina's videos, Because then I just keep watching her videos and forget about my studies.
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I enjoyed in this vid and I like their culture.
Never really heard the never be on time thing, but the rest are spot on though, maybe the on time thing is a california thing.
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I realized this really long ago that I was born in India by some geographical error. .. the queue , the distance when in queue, keeping on right, arriving late for parties (but I cook really before time), no pics with random people esp of kids, less post on insta post n other social sites...quick small talk etc!
I think you gotta know the U.S. varies a ton state by state. In a lot of places 4pm means 4pm.
Exactly!
I like 4 pms that are actualy 5pm!
I agree. Personally I think it’s rude to be late and if the event starts at 4, people should be there at 4!❤️
@@leslievalenciano-lopez8887 is true.
@Eccentric Queen I agree
खुप छान
absolutely true
I live in California, always start party on time, they have the time on the invitación card 3-6 , 4-7,. I learn you need to text everyone one week before the party, make sure how much people the come, I didn’t know until I have my daughter party and only 2 kids show up,it was very disappointed but I learn on the hard way
It's so interesting that some things that are super polite in the US may be the opposite in some other countries 😉
Thanku mam
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Now one thing is just too opposite from my country,
I mean we tend to walk (or drive) on the left in any public places.
Regarding righ-side walking, I'm not sure it's alway an unwritten rule. For example, in Ukraine, it's written in Traffic Rulles that not only drivers, but also pedestrians must use the right side. Maybe it's in also in Traffic rules of other Europenian countries
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I am European (Italian) living in USA (New York) and to me arriving at least 15-30 minutes after the time is considered common practice. In New York instead I had to learn to be exactly on time because it's rude to arrive "late" to a party. So the exact opposite as what you perceive as "European" or "American" 🤷♀😊
If a friend of mine, 2h after the invitation is still not showing up.... I will start thinking to call the hospital looking for him\her
hi Marina, would you mind making subtitle in English for videos. I mean, there is a technique call "dictation". if you do that, it'll help me a lot in practice Listening skill. Cause thay way you talk is so nice, and i love your voice and your accent so much🥰🥰
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I'm so happy I don't live in California 😅 great tips, though. I've lived in the US for over 5 years and I've noticed the same cultural differences too.
I have a couple of doubts in reported speech.
How to report the following sentences:
1. While I was reading newspaper, my wife was preparing breakfast.
2. While my wife was preparing breakfast, someone knocked at the door.
Second doubt:
Do the following sentences mean the same?
A. While my wife was preparing breakfast, someone knocked at the door.
B. My wife was preparing breakfast when someone knocked at the door.
Requesting you to help me, solving these.