Fried Green Tomatoes * FIRST TIME WATCHING * reaction & commentary * Millennial Movie Monday

แชร์
ฝัง
  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 ก.ย. 2024
  • If you thought I ugly cried in Steel Magnolias.... You are not ready for the tears that happen in this.
    70 THOUSAND SUBSCRIBER SPECIAL: • Fancy Cover * 70 THOUS...
    Yes, I am a 27 year old who has NO IDEA what this movie is even about is even about - so I take YOU on a journey to watch me give you: What I think the movie is about, real time me watching, and my final review.
    📨 PO Box 3303 Knoxville, TN 37927
    🎥 / awkwardashleigh
    👕 teespring.com/...
    IMPORTANT TIME STAMPS:
    Backstory as to how we got here: 00:55
    Preview Review: 1:29
    Watch With Me: 2:32
    My Review: 22:19
    Extra Beans to make us not sad: 26:10
    DONT MISS: • Fancy Cover * 70 THOUS...
    ✨Let's be Friends!✨
    / awkwardashleigh
    / awkwardashleigh
    awk_ashleigh
    REALLY COOL INTRO DONE BY KELLY GREEN: / kellygreenyall
    Hella Cool Logo by Barnes and Co: barnesandco.co
    *Copyright Disclaimer Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship, and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use. NO COPYRIGHT INFRINGEMENT INTENDED. All rights belong to their respective owners.

ความคิดเห็น • 4.3K

  • @briantrash
    @briantrash 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1685

    There is no other movie reactor on TH-cam that is anywhere even CLOSE to Ashleigh's caliber of genuineness and charm. Nearly all the other reactors are either too stoic or are merely performing for the camera. She's really in a class all her own at this point.

    • @Chicklo11
      @Chicklo11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I like Shannele Ricco, although she's a lot more clinical about the films.

    • @Songdaddy
      @Songdaddy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I agree with you 100%

    • @lisanygaard2720
      @lisanygaard2720 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I don’t watch any other movie reactors anymore. The ones I’ve seen are pandering to the audience, reacting the way they think you want them to. I love Ashleigh’s honesty. If she doesn’t like it, she says so - without being offensive to those who love it.

    • @AoRArchAngel
      @AoRArchAngel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Oh yah!! Its why i like her reacts the most, you can really feel how genuine it is!

    • @salbro5985
      @salbro5985 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@hendrikscheepers4144 Yeah, she's really sweet.
      Shanelle Riccio is also very genuine and likeable.
      There are a few reactors I dropped when I realized they were acting, though.

  • @NeuroticNomadic
    @NeuroticNomadic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +725

    When Ashleigh started crying very early in the movie, I said (out loud to the empty room) "Oh, no. This film is going to obliterate her." I was not wrong.

    • @ivanboston8582
      @ivanboston8582 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      yeah I thought this is going to rag doll her like the swimmer at the start of jaws...(this movie being the shark..)

    • @Karluin
      @Karluin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Maybe we should give her Newsies as a palate cleanser.

    • @ser132
      @ser132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I've seen this movie a few times, and it always obliterates me.

    • @malizee2264
      @malizee2264 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes… :(

  • @izzonj
    @izzonj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +573

    "Is this movie gonna make me cry?"
    Oh, honey...

    • @DBillings68
      @DBillings68 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      It really should come with a warning label.

    • @heatherestes3865
      @heatherestes3865 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I just saw what movie it was going to be and said that exact thing

    • @janaquary
      @janaquary 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Like a BITCH!!!😭

    • @deathmetaljed4557
      @deathmetaljed4557 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was thinking the same thing.

    • @louisestevenson5102
      @louisestevenson5102 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow these millenials get so emotional my god my crying was pathetic compared

  • @zachmoore9974
    @zachmoore9974 2 ปีที่แล้ว +305

    Beans: "Meow"
    Ashleigh: crying/yelling "I know Beans!"
    I have no idea why that was so funny, it just was.

    • @naturallymemarie9650
      @naturallymemarie9650 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I dry heaved, that part was hilarious 😂 😂😂😂

  • @jeanniesays6731
    @jeanniesays6731 3 ปีที่แล้ว +377

    “Miss Ruth was a lady, and a lady always knows when to leave.” That line gets me EVERY. SINGLE. TIME.

    • @debbiesuesteele9639
      @debbiesuesteele9639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      One of the greatest, most meaningful lines in movie history and the delivery was perfect.

    • @jeanniesays6731
      @jeanniesays6731 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@debbiesuesteele9639 Cicely had the best lines in the movie.

    • @Raving
      @Raving 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@debbiesuesteele9639 another awesome line, also in a Kathy Bates movie, "Sometime being a bitch is all a woman has to hold on to."

    • @debbiesuesteele9639
      @debbiesuesteele9639 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Raving Yes! Wasn't that in this movie? Great line!!

    • @Raving
      @Raving 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@debbiesuesteele9639 the line is from Delores Claiborne.

  • @ryan1976
    @ryan1976 3 ปีที่แล้ว +536

    With your Dolly Parton love, I'm surprised you still haven't watched "9 To 5". We have to really start pouring on the peer pressure.

    • @tracyhale8336
      @tracyhale8336 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      That, and 'The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas', especially because it's Dolly and Burt Reynolds together...and THE song.

    • @theman4884
      @theman4884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Gnomeo & Juliet

    • @SuburbanSavage
      @SuburbanSavage 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      YES!!!

    • @garycoates4987
      @garycoates4987 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      "nine to five" really shows Dolly is a talented actress

    • @Amanda-gg6kz
      @Amanda-gg6kz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I grew up with this movie. I'm also surprised she hasn't watched it! She would love it!

  • @blindedink4108
    @blindedink4108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +539

    Crying is never pathetic. Everyone gets destroyed by Fried Green Tomatoes. When I first watched it I wasn't okay for weeks. We love you, keep on keeping on.

    • @MoviesMoveMe
      @MoviesMoveMe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yasss!!

    • @jimballard1186
      @jimballard1186 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      It didn't bother me as a kid, probably because I hadn't yet learned how to get in touch with my feelings, but as an adult I watched this review and realized that when Ruth got sick, Idgie had to move all Ruth's stuff out of her bedroom before the doctor could come over so no one would realize they were living as wives together, and I frigging lost it. Uuuuuugh. You're breaking my heart, movie.

    • @BoyDharma
      @BoyDharma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Crying isn't pathetic and it's a great movie.

    • @LilRocker2005
      @LilRocker2005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The only time I usually cry during this movie is when Ruth passes away and then right at the very end.

    • @LilRocker2005
      @LilRocker2005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@jimballard1186 Have you ever read the book?

  • @josephmckenna6648
    @josephmckenna6648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    Is someone gonna tell her? .... sure darlin, they were "friends" ... you know... "gal pals" ... you know "roomates".

  • @TheHighSorcerer
    @TheHighSorcerer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +248

    Me, reading the ep title: Oh, we're gonna watch Ashleigh cry today? Okie-dokie.

    • @RLucas3000
      @RLucas3000 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This movie and the Color Purple are both in my top ten or top twenty, but I can’t watch them very often as they are so good but so pain-filled (like life) that they just completely overwhelm you.
      I do think ultimately this movie handles the skips and transitions better, but otherwise they are both top tier.

  • @keithdean9149
    @keithdean9149 3 ปีที่แล้ว +202

    Ashleigh: "Am I going to cry?"
    Everyone who's already seen this: "Yes. Many, many, many, times."
    At around the 18 minute mark you really let your SOUTHERN come out.

    • @AndreNitroX
      @AndreNitroX 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know I actually didn’t know she was southern until this video

    • @sadfaery
      @sadfaery 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yep, my accent always gets thicker when I watch this movie.

    • @Fightingforthelost
      @Fightingforthelost 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Poor thing REALLY didn't know what she was diving into.

  • @grantbowen1018
    @grantbowen1018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    Literally the second I saw the thumbnail I said to myself: “Oh shit! This movie’s gonna mess Ashleigh up!” I wasn’t wrong 😂😂😂

    • @awkwardashleigh
      @awkwardashleigh  3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      YOU WERE CORRECT.

    • @elphabarichardson607
      @elphabarichardson607 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Me, too! We need to convince her to watch "The Color Purple."

    • @grantbowen1018
      @grantbowen1018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Elphaba Richardson YES!!!

    • @sighingcassandra57
      @sighingcassandra57 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@elphabarichardson607 Yes, we do!

    • @sdube001
      @sdube001 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@elphabarichardson607 Perfect double feature for me Fried Green Tomatoes and The Color Purple! I've watched them back to back so many times...

  • @schizomaru
    @schizomaru 3 ปีที่แล้ว +279

    Love your mom, such a troll
    "The secret is in the sauce"
    LOL

    • @a.g.demada5263
      @a.g.demada5263 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      This line is the title of the movie in the french canadian version (I read it on Internet)

    • @ThreadBomb
      @ThreadBomb 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@a.g.demada5263 Well, the French do love their sauces!

    • @a.g.demada5263
      @a.g.demada5263 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ThreadBomb I know : I'm french

  • @wesdog8975
    @wesdog8975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    Just imagine a barracks room full of Army guys watching this on a VHS tape rented from Blockbuster back in 1992. We cheered Big George BBQing Frank up.

    • @keetahbrough
      @keetahbrough 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      lol.. that's awesome :*

    • @msdarby515
      @msdarby515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Haha! Did anyone cry?

    • @wesdog8975
      @wesdog8975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@msdarby515 our girlfriends that were visiting cried. It was just a total coincidence that us guys got dust in our eyes.

    • @msdarby515
      @msdarby515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@wesdog8975 Haha.....for what it's worth, I saw it in a theater full of people and the sobbing nearly drowned out the movie, men and women. Even my badass husband cried. It's okay.

    • @jazflanagan8693
      @jazflanagan8693 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@wesdog8975 There needs to be a 'love' click for comments like this. ^_^

  • @wendyscribbles
    @wendyscribbles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I remember seeing this movie on my parent's movie shelf and trying to watch it. My dad said 'no, you can't watch that til your older.' I was 13 and I didn't listen. Of course. A couple of nights later I come out of my room, face red, eyes red, trying to hide it all and my dad goes 'I told you.'

    • @mannygee005
      @mannygee005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      sweet story

    • @KRAFTWERK2K6
      @KRAFTWERK2K6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i file this under W for Wholesome. x3 *hugs* What a sweet anecdote.

  • @craigmartin3827
    @craigmartin3827 3 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    I remember sitting in a full movie theatre back in 1991, trying hard not to weep, and failing dismally as everyone huddled in the darkness sniffled and wept and blew their collective noses into soggy overused tissues. I've seen Fried Green Tomatoes at least five times since and thought I'd built up some insulation against all those powerful emotions, but today ... today watching it break your heart as it broke mine all those years ago, I wept almost as hard as I did that first time.

    • @sighingcassandra57
      @sighingcassandra57 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Did too and failed miserably. After that experience I did not go watch a drama in cinemas for about 5 years.

    • @leslie2149
      @leslie2149 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Same. I remember turning to a friend of mine in the theater and saying it was very unfair of a movie to make me cry only 10 mins. in. A rollarcoaster ride of a movie indeed.

    • @jbrisby
      @jbrisby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YOU ARE NOT A MAN.

    • @HandleTakenlol
      @HandleTakenlol 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same...

    • @conureron3792
      @conureron3792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Me too. I didn’t I cried as much the first time. Had to stay composed. But subsequent viewings, knowing what was coming, ( and being alone) I’d let loose more. And I cried right along with Ashleigh today.

  • @me2525
    @me2525 2 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    I've seen this movie about a billion times and your reaction inspired me to read the book.
    Holy cow, it was so different.
    1. The story is 100% lesbian love story between Iggie and Ruth, and no one judges them for it oddly (only because it's set in the 30's and 40's mostly)
    2. Buddy (older Buddy) never meets Ruth and dies far from home (no one in the family sees it)
    3. There are a million black characters in the the book with amazing stories that are totally cut for the movie.
    4. The murder/trial is about 4% of the book and the trial happens many years after Ruth dies.
    5. Only Sipsey murders Frank Bennet. And on top of that she beheads him and another boy stabs his body for fun while he guards it in a shed.
    6. Smokey Lonesome dies in the snow trying to get back to Whistle Stop years after the town has been abandoned.
    7. Stump grows up and tells endless stories about Whistle Stop to everyone.
    8. Ninny is NOT Iggie. She married Theo, Iggie's brother. And at the end she does die and Evelyn hears about it while she's at fat camp in California.
    9. When Evelyn goes to visit Ninny's grave she finds the honey and note on Ruth's grave.
    10. Iggie spends her elderly years in Florida selling catfish and honey on the side of the highway with her brother.

    • @JoyfulOrb
      @JoyfulOrb ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Such a brilliant book!

    • @pineappleparty1624
      @pineappleparty1624 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JoyfulOrb 🤨🙄

    • @LadyIarConnacht
      @LadyIarConnacht ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I read the book first and was quite turned off by what seemed like a sort of anti-male agenda in it. I didn't watch the movie but heard it was good.

    • @pineappleparty1624
      @pineappleparty1624 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@LadyIarConnacht Yeah seems like for once in a lifetime they took a weird story and turned it into a wholesome movie.

    • @TechnicallyTexan
      @TechnicallyTexan ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @@LadyIarConnacht pro-woman/pro-lesbian does not mean anti-male. Please. It’s a brilliant book and movie. You missed out.

  • @collapsing_star
    @collapsing_star 3 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    1. You need to watch The Color Purple.
    2. Don’t plan on doing anything else the rest of the day.

    • @MrShaun42088
      @MrShaun42088 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      yes, i just recommended it!!

    • @miketocci
      @miketocci 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      After watching Oprah Winfrey act, I find t hard to anything the rest of the day too

    • @ruthfoley2580
      @ruthfoley2580 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Do you want to kill her?

    • @CatSamurai99
      @CatSamurai99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes, Ash, watch The Color Purple.

    • @GiveItUpKwahng
      @GiveItUpKwahng 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I somehow managed to never see that until about a year ago. I felt cheated that I'd gone my whole life without it. It's that good.

  • @veronicakramlik6880
    @veronicakramlik6880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +358

    Steel Magnolias, Fried Green Tomatoes, you might was well complete the trinity and watch Beaches.

    • @jimmygarcia1586
      @jimmygarcia1586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Omg yes! I was just gonna post about beaches

    • @Paldasan
      @Paldasan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Not for 3 months! Give her a chance to recover.

    • @anthonyhebisen
      @anthonyhebisen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      That is the 80’s holy trinity of movies That gays worship. We keep those films alive by teaching them to younger generations:)

    • @jimmygarcia1586
      @jimmygarcia1586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Mermaids with cher Christina Ricci and Winona Ryder is another good one

    • @zvimur
      @zvimur 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      The YaYa sisterhood.

  • @michaeloberg3018
    @michaeloberg3018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +225

    Most people don't realize that Idgie & Ruth were lovers. In the novel, written by Fannie Flagg, they were in love and it made for a much more profound take on their relationship.
    Of course in 1991 audiences just weren't too accepting of that sort of thing so it was pretty much taken out of the screenplay except for some really obvious implications including the scene where Idgie kisses Ruth outside at night.

    • @heyitsmemg7494
      @heyitsmemg7494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I grew up watching this movie and at the time I didn’t notice the subtle hints of their relationship. Today I can see it.

    • @purcascade
      @purcascade 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      I read somewhere that the director said the food fight in the back of the Cafe was a stand-in for a sex scene since they couldn't have a real scene between two women.

    • @alisong4667
      @alisong4667 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Yeah, the movie REALLY soft pedaled that. It's there if you look. A real shame they were so coy about that.

    • @EasterWitch
      @EasterWitch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Even though they never say they were a couple I could tell even as a kid that they were supposed to be in love.

    • @sadfaery
      @sadfaery 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      And Fannie Flagg (who is a lesbian in real life) was actually in this movie as one of the women leading the groups that Evelyn went to with her friend.

  • @VerneditheSnail
    @VerneditheSnail 2 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I loved how cuddly and supportive Beans was at the end. She probably sensed you were in distress and empathized in her own kitty way.

  • @mikeking7710
    @mikeking7710 3 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    The elderly lady in the home was Jessica Tandy. She was the original Blanche in the Broadway production of "A Streetcar Named Desire" and was the star of "Driving Miss Daisy".

    • @darylnelms1654
      @darylnelms1654 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      My other favorite Jessica Tandy films are Cocoon and Batteries not Included.

    • @christopherterry4216
      @christopherterry4216 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Ashleigh hasn't heard of either of those films, either, I'll bet.
      Tandy was also in "The Birds."

    • @christinehorror8178
      @christinehorror8178 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes miss daisy would be a good one! With the legend Freeman!

    • @scottski51
      @scottski51 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      She had a 52 year love affair with her husband, actor Hume Cronin They starred in Batteries Not Included late in their lives and careers. And they were WONderful in it. Such a sweet little movie.

    • @WrathOfTheGoth
      @WrathOfTheGoth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@scottski51 Batteries Not Included is criminally overlooked. As you said, a really sweet movie.

  • @ktotheramer
    @ktotheramer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    “why did I think something bad was going to happen?” Cue train.

    • @jakubfabisiak9810
      @jakubfabisiak9810 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/6lOqgFu7XJw/w-d-xo.html

  • @GrisouIII
    @GrisouIII 3 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Beans saying « No cats died...get a hold of yourself, woman. »

    • @skinheadjon901
      @skinheadjon901 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @trespasserswill7052
      @trespasserswill7052 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Idgie shot a man who was trying to kill her cat. Tell Beans.

  • @WhitePhoenixCrown
    @WhitePhoenixCrown 2 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    "Ms. Ruth was a lady, and a lady always knows when to leave." I cry every time. I'm just a sensitive fool. I cry at almost anything including some horror movies.

    • @ceejay6553
      @ceejay6553 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Cicely Tyson's performance was incredible in this movie. I can't really say anyone was mis-casted here...all were perfection!

    • @AsiaJahnea
      @AsiaJahnea ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s okay babes I cry in my own thoughts 😭💀

  • @krank23
    @krank23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    Man, making someone go blind into Fried Green tomatoes? That's rough. That's Hard Mode right there. Few movies are as effective at kicking you right in the feels.

    • @KRAFTWERK2K6
      @KRAFTWERK2K6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Welp… this happened to me with "The Green Mile". Even more so during the second watch.

    • @seecha8970
      @seecha8970 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Going blind is the best way to experience a great movie.

    • @doug4036
      @doug4036 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      …and her mom just casually kicked her into it too

    • @cindyknudson2715
      @cindyknudson2715 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And your mama voted for this one! Hugs, Ashleigh ♥️
      My favorite part is when Kathy Bates goes full Tawanda on that car in the parking lot.

    • @krank23
      @krank23 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@seecha8970 I disagree. Knowing roughly what to expect, but with nio spoilers of course, allows you to get into the right mindset and have the correct expectations. Too many movies have been deemed "bad" just because people went in "blind" with just their expectations.

  • @bushbasher85
    @bushbasher85 3 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    OK everyone, we’re giving Ashleigh a big giant hug, get the cries out of you girl. We’re all hugging the stuffing out of you.

  • @olahf8490
    @olahf8490 3 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    This is honestly one of the great undervalued movies of the 90s.

    • @sisterdebmac
      @sisterdebmac 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      And Mary Stuart Masterson never got to be as big a stat as she should have been.

    • @RLucas3000
      @RLucas3000 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is definitely in my top 20 movies, and i love movies all the way from the 1930s to today. (Maybe even top 10.)
      My top 5 are:
      1) Gone With The Wind
      2) The Wizard of Oz
      3) The Rocky Horror Picture Show
      4) 1776
      5) Calamity Jane (starring Doris Day)
      others in my Top Ten would include Hitchcock’s Lifeboat and Agatha Christie’s Witness For the Prosecution (1950s).
      Plus I love Pixar (Up) and Disney (Emperor’s New Groove, Sleeping Beauty) movies. Musicals are another favorite of mine (4 out of my top 5) so Chitty Chitty Bang Bang (first movie i saw in the theater) and The Sound of Music also make my top 20. Newer movies, I love the Marvel Universe, but i tear right up at Saving Mr Banks, so that has to be top 20. My Cousin Vinnie should be in the Top 20 also. (that’s 15 out of 20, so many good movies!)

  • @cw_chomperrr3275
    @cw_chomperrr3275 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Great reaction! You might have missed that this is really a love story between Ruth and Idgie. It’s subtle because it was the 90’s and they couldn’t make it obvious, but this movie is made from the book and in the book they are clearly in a romantic relationship.

  • @jrobwoo688
    @jrobwoo688 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    9 year old boy goes with his grandmother to the movies and learns more about love, loss, friendship and just being a decent human being, then he could of had by not skipping school to go see a movie with his grandma. I’m sorry that you had to cry so much while watching this movie, but it shows me what a decent human being that you are.

    • @BeeWhistler
      @BeeWhistler 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Skipping school with grandma, hm? Did your grandma wear high tops and charm bees, by any chance? ;)

    • @jrobwoo688
      @jrobwoo688 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@BeeWhistler Naw, lol, but she is a wonderful Lady.

  • @scottb3034
    @scottb3034 3 ปีที่แล้ว +266

    I think beans yelling was her sharing her own grief over the movie and your sadness. And I think we all needed that sweet palette cleanser that was Beansy at the end of the video.
    Your reaction in this video is a good example of why i watch these videos and subbed to the patreon. just pure, authentic reaction. no phoniness. All real and all out there for good and bad, happy and sad. Amazing reaction Ashleigh.

    • @hippiechic6772
      @hippiechic6772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Scott B I was thinking that also about Beans mewing because Ashleigh was crying... and the palette cleaner which was Beans was needed very much .

    • @keetahbrough
      @keetahbrough 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m in agreement regarding beans ❤️🔥

    • @nancyd510
      @nancyd510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree!!

    • @VictorVonGrooove
      @VictorVonGrooove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      YES!! 100%!

    • @billboth6572
      @billboth6572 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was going to write this very thing, Your wee kitty knew you were sad and was just loving you to comfort you

  • @RobertSmith-kb3jl
    @RobertSmith-kb3jl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    Jessica Tandy is one of the greatest actors of all times.

    • @katecassidy9357
      @katecassidy9357 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      For sure. Driving Miss Daisy is worth watching for the performances too. Although 30 years on, the story feels a bit cloying and manipulative.

    • @DrEvil818
      @DrEvil818 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes. She should watch Cocoon as well.

    • @thomasjones4265
      @thomasjones4265 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes especially when she did movies with her husband.

    • @this.is.a.username
      @this.is.a.username 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Batteries Not Included ❤❤❤

  • @justinm.k.6295
    @justinm.k.6295 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    “Kathy, it’s her you idiot!” Laughed for five minutes straight

  • @LilFireFox
    @LilFireFox 3 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    The part where Kathy Bates says to the young bi*ches: "I'm older and I have better insurance!" Is my mom's and I favorite part. And I have a feeling your going to call your mama after this still in tears and ask 'Why didn't you tell me about the sad parts, or ANYTHING about this movie?!'

    • @Insaneian
      @Insaneian 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ha! That's my mom's favorite part too!

    • @DrNickRiveria
      @DrNickRiveria 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      yeah but she wont have better insurance after hitting their car like that. Her
      premium will go sky high due to her being more of a liability.

    • @conureron3792
      @conureron3792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Stellar line! I’ve always wanted to use it!

    • @jsharp3165
      @jsharp3165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@DrNickRiveria She was living in the moment for once.

    • @BeeWhistler
      @BeeWhistler 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@DrNickRiveria Yeah, this is what movies are for, because in real life there is no freaking way this would end well. Gotta enjoy it vicariously.

  • @Miss_Camel
    @Miss_Camel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    If anybody tries to make her watch “My girl”, you’re just evil.

    • @QueenItachi01
      @QueenItachi01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      That’s all I could think of when I saw the bees

    • @Miss_Camel
      @Miss_Camel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@QueenItachi01 - I mean I know the general rule in the comments is to never spoil anything for her but I swear, I cannot watch her cry like that again, it nearly killed me

    • @laurenmarie2369
      @laurenmarie2369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I love my girl! Such a good movie

    • @Miss_Camel
      @Miss_Camel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@laurenmarie2369 - bless your heart. We’ll pray for you.

    • @QueenItachi01
      @QueenItachi01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Miss_Camel same the second I saw them I knew she definitely shouldn’t watch it at least without being fully prepared for all of that as it still makes me cry even now and I’ve seen it multiple times

  • @PatrickPrejusa
    @PatrickPrejusa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    there's murder in this movie? everyone: "the secret's in the sauce"

    • @RichardX1
      @RichardX1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Still a smaller menu than Mrs. Lovett's pie shop.

    • @sidrat2009
      @sidrat2009 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RichardX1 Surprisingly hairless, considering.

    • @jjjones8609
      @jjjones8609 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I can't wait for "The Color Purple."

    • @jamesfowler5100
      @jamesfowler5100 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jjjones8609 a lesbian Whoopi Goldberg? I don't know. 🤢

  • @marniejane11
    @marniejane11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    "If you're looking for a reason to cry? Fried Green Tomatoes. If you're looking for a tasty snack? Fried Green Tomatoes. I give them both 5 out of 5 stars."
    I adore you Ashleigh. I waited til today to watch this... I knew I couldn't handle it on Monday as I am also a very emotional person. I made it through. Now I can watch your Cape Fear react to balance things out. ❤

  • @vinceguerra
    @vinceguerra 3 ปีที่แล้ว +210

    Best. Episode. Ever.
    Never change, Ashleigh. Never change.

  • @colinwhitfield8627
    @colinwhitfield8627 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    You should design and sell "Beans Bags."
    Big, squishy, plush beanbag stuffed animals that look like Beans - to hug while watching sad movies like this.
    I'd buy one.

    • @keetahbrough
      @keetahbrough 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      or, you could get your very own cat.. at the rescue. Feed your own beans.. and love a live kitty. Be responsible for.. like Ashleigh. You'll receive the same love back.. that you bestow your kitty. xo :*

    • @MonsterERB
      @MonsterERB 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@keetahbrough I have three doggos and two kitties - all rescue animals - so I certainly identify with your suggestion. That said, not everyone is going to be able to adopt a rescue animal for a variety of valid reasons (income, allergies, apartment pet policy, etc). Don't know if any of those apply to Colin or not... who knows, he may ALREADY have a house with one or more rescue animals in the family.
      All that said - I would absolutely buy a "Beans Bag", but I would have to keep it in a safe whenever I wasn't holding it... all three of my dogs are talented "de-stuffers" if you know what I mean.

  • @Outrider85
    @Outrider85 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    "I'm sick of this movie! I wanna take a nap!"
    That's a whole mood right there. I feel it.

  • @dudefromkc6182
    @dudefromkc6182 3 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    If you liked this I highly recommend "THE COLOR PURPLE"

    • @bethclarke3899
      @bethclarke3899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes!! Both the movie and the book

    • @stanschanuzer5875
      @stanschanuzer5875 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Oh yes absolutely

    • @5owlsinacoat
      @5owlsinacoat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Oh God, that movie was beautiful

    • @warjdani
      @warjdani 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That movie gets me every time really good movie.

    • @Vampwars
      @Vampwars 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I am a grown woman & have seen that movie about 100 (or more) times but without fail, I cry at least 3-4 times during that film.
      Every. Single. Time.

  • @paul16451
    @paul16451 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    If this got you, try 'Driving Miss Daisy." You'll need Beans for that too.

  • @nessaarandur7740
    @nessaarandur7740 3 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Ashleigh: "You don't be hittin nobody!"
    Beans: "Raowwww!"
    Ashleigh: "I KNOW BEANS!! I KNOW!!"
    Your crying made me both laugh AND cry but most of all I'm glad you enjoyed this movie. Thanks for sharing with us! I wonder now if you rewatched Steel Magnolias which movie you like better?

    • @awkwardashleigh
      @awkwardashleigh  3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      OH SHIT. Don't make me choose!

    • @KRAFTWERK2K6
      @KRAFTWERK2K6 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@awkwardashleigh "YES!" is always a good answer to "either - or" questions ;)

  • @johngammon7891
    @johngammon7891 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Jessica Tandy was married to Hume Cronyn for 52 years, they were in "Cocoon" and *batteries not included together, both very good movies...imo

    • @AJStarhiker
      @AJStarhiker 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      *batteries not included is amazingly fun.

    • @richieb7692
      @richieb7692 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I thought I had seen him in Batteries Not Included.
      That's a great little film.

    • @SayWHARadio
      @SayWHARadio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Batteries not included ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Absolutely loved that movie as a kid. Always warmed my heart how she saw that guy as her son.

    • @ministryoftruth9916
      @ministryoftruth9916 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      *batteries not included is awesome.

    • @rhiannon7163
      @rhiannon7163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was going to recommend Cocoon

  • @Sgtshadist
    @Sgtshadist 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Jessoca Tandy was an amazing actor, both in her early days and again in a wonderful golden age, of which this movie is a part.

    • @debrastaples2664
      @debrastaples2664 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You should see her in "Batteries not included". I have always loved that one!

    • @Sgtshadist
      @Sgtshadist 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@debrastaples2664 It's one of my favorites of hers! Such a forgotten amazing movie.

  • @GrumpyOldGuyPlaysGames
    @GrumpyOldGuyPlaysGames 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Me: "Oh, hey, Asheigh has a new..."
    (reads the title)
    Me: "Oh god, this is going to be a rough watch."

  • @kristianberg4264
    @kristianberg4264 3 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    Omg, I’m literally dying over her. “I KNOW BEANS......I’m a mess”!! I just can’t, not sure when I’ve laughed harder. What an awesome reaction, love this movie.

  • @jasonlane1528
    @jasonlane1528 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Me: "Hey, a new upload! Wonder what movie she's doing?"
    (Reads title)
    Me: "Oh my sweet baby Jesus..."

  • @ericwebster28
    @ericwebster28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    I really like it when you cry in your reactions. Not because I want you to be sad, but because it’s one of the most honest things I’ve ever seen on the internet. You don’t have to post it, but you do anyway, and I love you for it.

  • @bonchbonch
    @bonchbonch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    This movie got some criticism when it was released for not making the lesbian relationship as clear as it was in the book, but it seems to be more accepted today as being obvious enough.

    • @KRAFTWERK2K6
      @KRAFTWERK2K6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      It's clear enough. Seriously. Sometimes less is more.

    • @bonchbonch
      @bonchbonch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@KRAFTWERK2K6 I think when it came out, same-sex relationships were uncommon in popular media, so it was expected to be more explicit like in the novel. Today, we're used to that kind of messaging in popular culture, so it feels more obvious to interpret it that way.

    • @sweiland75
      @sweiland75 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@bonchbonch "uncommon" is an understatement

    • @mgeek1
      @mgeek1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      If it was made today, the relationship wouldn't have been in between the lines.

    • @bonchbonch
      @bonchbonch 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mgeek1 Totally agree.

  • @troythompson1768
    @troythompson1768 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    Since you're on a Kathy Bates kick, I'll throw a mention out there that she was an absolute badass in her portrayal of Molly Brown in Titanic (1997).

    • @vapoet
      @vapoet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It would be fine, but knowing Ashleigh, the movie is too long.

    • @MrSmartAlec
      @MrSmartAlec 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kathy Bates in Delores Claiborne - fantastic

    • @Raving
      @Raving 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MrSmartAlec oh man! Kathy Bates performance in that one was gold. Pure gold.

    • @LilRocker2005
      @LilRocker2005 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are just EVIL!!! The ending of that one will wreck her!!! 😲

    • @MarnieGolde7
      @MarnieGolde7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      IT’S YOUR MEN OUT THERE! THERE’S PLENTY O’ ROOM FOR MORE!
      🐐

  • @docnu5757
    @docnu5757 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    Ashleigh: " You don't be hittin NOBODY!!"
    Beans: "MEEEEEOOOOWW!!! ( yeeeahhhh!!!)
    Ashleigh: I know Beans... I know..
    I DIED. LOLOLOL hang in there, champ. Love your honesty.

  • @SM-pk7pg
    @SM-pk7pg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    "Let me tell you somethin', let me tell you somethin...."
    Ashleigh Burton 2021.

  • @kathrynsmith831
    @kathrynsmith831 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Ashleigh: Am I gonna cry again? Me: Oh Honey, you might as well just stay crying.

  • @Widdershins.
    @Widdershins. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This is why I love to watch your reactions, Ashleigh...you laugh with your whole torso, you cry with your whole heart, and you mug with your whole face. Even if I care nothing for the movie, or know in advance how you're going to feel about it, it's still worth watching to see the Delight, Dismay, Disgust, or Delectation played out with your whole being. Please don't ever lose your natural, knee-jerk reactions to what you see on the screen, and thanks for turning the camera on yourself with unflinching honesty so we can share the moments with you.

  • @melgreier1630
    @melgreier1630 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Mary Stuart Masterson is, in my opinion, one of the most underrated actresses ever! Drop dead gorgeous seemingly without knowing it, versatile, and utterly believable....
    ASHLEIGH - please give us some more MSM by reviewing ‘Some Kind Of Wonderful’ with Mary Stuart Masterson, Eric Stolz and Lea Thompson!
    YOU WILL LOVE IT!!
    Please please please please please!

    • @HaveL0veWillTravel
      @HaveL0veWillTravel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YES!!! Please Watch Some Kind of WONDERFUL!!!!!!

    • @toddmoore9841
      @toddmoore9841 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes! Some Kind of Wonderful is my favorite of the 80's John Hughes movies. Her chemistry with Eric Stoltz is just so genuine.

    • @selardohr7697
      @selardohr7697 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Also Benny & Joon

  • @Logan-ed4pu
    @Logan-ed4pu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    First thought: Wait... you're an American Millennial and THIS is your first time watching this??????????
    Later thought: Aw damn... Now, I'm watching a Southern gal getting emotional. That is its own level of emotional. Now, I wanna give her a hug.

  • @reanimate69
    @reanimate69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    "Batteries Not Included" with Jessica Tandy is one of my old favorites.

    • @melodini3125
      @melodini3125 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love that one!

    • @mzbamf6597
      @mzbamf6597 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes! Fantastic film!

    • @debrataylor1542
      @debrataylor1542 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh Yes! Also, Driving Miss Daisy.

    • @THEvagabond29
      @THEvagabond29 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      DAM I almost forgot that movie from my childhood.

    • @FaithfulHorrorhound
      @FaithfulHorrorhound 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh, how I miss that movie!

  • @laurab68707
    @laurab68707 3 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    This is one of those movies that men and women love. Gets everybody crying. Soooo much happening. Funny, sad, suspenseful, never boring. Jessia Tandy was also a superb actress. She was in Hitchcock's "The Birds". A younger Tandy. Jessica Tandy was also fantastic in "Driving Miss Daisy". This too will get you tear ducts flowing. You had such a great reaction, very genuine. The sad parts sparked the crying on cue. Love your channel.

    • @brendanfoehr5086
      @brendanfoehr5086 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Her husband Hume Cronyn is also in another great Hitchcock movie, Lifeboat.

    • @CaptainFrost32
      @CaptainFrost32 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@brendanfoehr5086 She will have to watch Cocoon.

    • @MontgomeryWenis
      @MontgomeryWenis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I watched it in the bath once and was an absolute mess. I was also so focused that I let the water get freezing and watched half of it shivering AND sobbing. Great times.

    • @dmanimousprime3858
      @dmanimousprime3858 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Driving Miss Daisy for the win!

    • @KRAFTWERK2K6
      @KRAFTWERK2K6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@CaptainFrost32 and also "*Batteries not included". Turned me into a sobbing mess since i was a kid. And only in later years it hit me even harder since i realized Jessica Tandy's character has dementia in this film. :'(

  • @Wonkyspunk
    @Wonkyspunk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I'm HOWLING. your reactions are perfect. When beans meowed and you yelled 'i know beans!!!!!' I lost it

    • @whocares_bear
      @whocares_bear 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're not HOWLING, unless you're literally a werewolf.

  • @vesper180
    @vesper180 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    23:58 "MEOWWW"
    Ashleigh: "I know Beans!"

  • @aarien_of_aurolyth
    @aarien_of_aurolyth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +258

    "I don't like bees"
    So we shouldn't recommend "My Girl" then?

    • @Clarinetboy82
      @Clarinetboy82 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Another good movie, and another one that will make Ashleigh cry.

    • @CagedBoy
      @CagedBoy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Oh god....that just brought up the trauma for me again. There's a reason I've only watched that one once and never again.

    • @jennymunday7913
      @jennymunday7913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I think we need to give her a little time to recover. She's not gonna be okay for a few weeks.

    • @rkstevenson5448
      @rkstevenson5448 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Hell no. Don't do that to her.

    • @smylyface
      @smylyface 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I still cry whenever I think about that movie. It is absolutely gut wrenching.

  • @nikkis.2066
    @nikkis.2066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    "A story about friends"
    Should we tell her?

    • @dezo343
      @dezo343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      ❤💛💚💙💜

    • @igna83
      @igna83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I was thinking the SAME THING!!! lol

    • @nd702
      @nd702 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yep 😁

    • @crystalwalker3503
      @crystalwalker3503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Nothing to see here, just gals being pals lmaooo

    • @OakleyleR
      @OakleyleR 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Just REALLY good friends

  • @NostalgiaBrit
    @NostalgiaBrit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    "Face it girls, I'm older & I have more insurance!" I love that line so much!
    Never be ashamed to cry, Ash ~ We love you so much! ❤️❤️❤️
    *YOU ARE NOT PATHETIC!* ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @andersonlmjr
    @andersonlmjr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I lost my little sister 5 years ago. She was 42. This was her favorite movie. I really enjoyed watching it with you and thinking about her.

    • @AsiaJahnea
      @AsiaJahnea ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Girlie pop I’m goin through reading comments already cryin bc this movie moves me to tears ever time then see you comment and makes me bawl even harder I’m so sorry for your loss sweetheart

  • @TheManInTheLongBlackCoat
    @TheManInTheLongBlackCoat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    There really is a Whistle Stop Cafe that does indeed serve fried green tomatoes (among other Southern foods) just north of Macon, Georgia. It is in the actual area where many of the scenes were filmed. After the film became a huge success, the Whistle Stop Cafe set was turned into an actual restaurant, and its surrounding area became a tourist attraction. Although they may have filmed in Georgia, the true Whistle Stop Cafe is in Irondale, Alabama (a suburb of Birmingham, where author Fannie Flagg grew up.)

    • @treemarie213100
      @treemarie213100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have always wanted to go there. My grandma went there when I was a little girl and she told me all about it.

    • @sharonsmith583
      @sharonsmith583 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The town near Macon is Juliette, GA. Used to have the whistle stop Cafe and some cute shops. Not sure what's still there but I believe the Cafe is.

    • @conureron3792
      @conureron3792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Was just on Google Earth looking at the town, and yep - the street imagine shows the cafe. Nice. Gotta pay it a visit sometime in the near future.

    • @tiffanyedavenport863
      @tiffanyedavenport863 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Juliette, GA! That's where my grandmother was from.

    • @joeyhoward9147
      @joeyhoward9147 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, the Cafe is really there and some other little easter eggs in the area. I have eaten there before...but I did not tell them I am from Valdosta, Ga. We are not all like Frank Bennett down here! I did NOT eat the BBQ!

  • @glenmcdonald375
    @glenmcdonald375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    May as well go for "Driving Miss Daisy" as well. More Jessica Tandy, and with Morgan Freemon and Dan Akroyd

    • @Tirnel_S
      @Tirnel_S 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      There's a stage version with Angela lansbury and James earl Jones. Omg. So good. I've not seen the movie yet.

    • @soolew7
      @soolew7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      For another outstanding performance by Kathy Bates, you should watch The Waterboy (1998)

    • @tarahenderson8748
      @tarahenderson8748 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love that movie!

    • @keyman6689
      @keyman6689 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes! Best Picture, Best Actor and Actress. A very special gem.

    • @gdiaz8827
      @gdiaz8827 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      She was also in Cocoon and Batteries Not Included

  • @frednich9603
    @frednich9603 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    If you liked Ninny, you'll love her in Driving miss Daisy. Great actress

    • @vms77
      @vms77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And other "not to be miss" movies are "Scent of a Woman" and "Circle of Friends" (Chris O'Donnell)

    • @Uncle_T
      @Uncle_T 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I second that, another great movie.

    • @mohollywood
      @mohollywood 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The Actress is Jessica Tandy.

    • @frednich9603
      @frednich9603 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mohollywood she never actually said her name during the review, so that name probably wouldn't have meant anything to her.

    • @darkmagus64
      @darkmagus64 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      And Morgan Freeman

  • @bornonthesideofahill
    @bornonthesideofahill 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    This is one of the first movies I remember ever seeing in a theatre and then after i watched it on a loop my whole childhood. I swear it's shaped me as a person and might be why i love working with older adults. Who knows. This might be the most emotionally appropriate and hilarious reaction ever. I cried and laughed with you the whole time. Thanks for reminding me how much I love this movie.

  • @VictorVonGrooove
    @VictorVonGrooove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    "The secret is in the sauce!"
    Beans the emotional support kitty. That's so sweet it makes my teeth hurt!!!

  • @BunBun299
    @BunBun299 3 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    "Are they insinuating that someone killed Frank and is serving him at the barbeque store?"
    Good instincts, honey. Good instincts.

  • @renee7407
    @renee7407 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I waited on Mary Louise Parker in my hometown right after this came out. I didn’t want to be that annoying fan so I kept myself composed throughout her dinner until she came out of the bathroom and I blurted I love you so much 🤦🏻‍♀️ she was very sweet and gave me hug.

    • @mannygee005
      @mannygee005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      that is so awesome

    • @cuzidodgebullets6797
      @cuzidodgebullets6797 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I read that as "I hated on ..." and then after I read the rest of your comment and was completely confused.

    • @renee7407
      @renee7407 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@cuzidodgebullets6797 Lol 😆

  • @TheLightSideReactions
    @TheLightSideReactions 3 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    Another great Kathy Bates movie: "Dolores Claiborne."

    • @canadianscratcher7834
      @canadianscratcher7834 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Ashleigh do a reaction to Dolores Claiborne. Kathy Bates is phenomenal in that role. About a woman deals with her abusive husband.

    • @warjdani
      @warjdani 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@canadianscratcher7834 an accident can be an unhappy woman best friend.

    • @donniehagy5125
      @donniehagy5125 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@warjdani That line literally knocked me out of my chair when I first saw that movie!

    • @canadianscratcher7834
      @canadianscratcher7834 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@warjdani Vera Donovan killed her husband, but nobody questioned her. Who'd suspect a pillar of the community like her. When Dolores' husband Joe died. Det. Mackey was all over her with accusations.

    • @Qwertky
      @Qwertky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      One of my favorite Kathy movies, outside Misery. Damn.

  • @RImudlark
    @RImudlark 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I’m loving all the comments in favor of The Color Purple. That film does not get enough love. Throw my vote in for it.

  • @kristennorth3268
    @kristennorth3268 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    "I'm older and I have more insurance." I regularly remember that line when someone is obnoxious in the parking lot.

  • @80sFreak100
    @80sFreak100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    My dad actually had a bit part in this movie as a juror in the court scenes. He can be seen in the far right on the back row of the jury at the 15:37 mark of your video here. The lecturer at the 5:21 mark of your video is Fannie Flagg. She wrote the book "Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe" that the movie is based on. The bee charming scene at the 6:58 mark was actually performed by Mary Stuart Masterson and is authentic with all of the bees on her. She actually agreed to do the scene for authenticity. My dad got to meet Jessica Tandy on set and she posed for a couple of photos while she had the pink/purple hair. The man in the old Cadillac at the 14:03 mark was my mom's uncle. He got jealous of my granddad being in a movie a couple of years earlier and had to get into one too. Hahaha!!! You should actually make a trip to Juliette, GA and make a video eating at The Whistle Stop Cafe when they reopen from the pandemic closures. I think they actually used each seating area inside the cafe in the film. So, you can reference a scene from each sitting area. Jessica Tandy was in "The Birds", but is probably most famous for her part in "Cocoon" with her husband Hume Cronin. Mary Stuart Masterson (Idgie) was in "Some Kind of Wonderful" and "Benny & Joon". What's really ironic is that I was watching "Some Kind of Wonderful" when my dad came home from his first day on set. He said "She was on set with me today". He thought she was about 12 years old. Hahaha! The director, Jon Avnet, actually gave Tom Cruise his start in the movie "Risky Business". That's enough trivia for now. Now, you have some other movies to place on your list for viewing.

    • @olivepaloma3012
      @olivepaloma3012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It was reported that the stunt double freaked out when she saw the bees and QUIT! Mary Stuart then agreed to do the scene herself. Recently, with FTG's return to the big screen via Fathom Events & TCM, more info was published in an interview: "Wearing a drop of queen bee pheromone, Masterson actually did stick her hand into that hive full of bees. The pheromone attracted the bees to her, and she became, as she described, "I was effectively a giant bee magnet." It was a relatively closed set that day, just Masterson, the director, the director of photography, a driver, and "the bee guy." Oh, and a lot of bees, of course." --- "Masterson noted that this the last major scene she shot for the entire movie, "Not by accident. You know in case I died or something," she said with a laugh." (Southern Living, May 7, 2021)

    • @amwfan88
      @amwfan88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mary-Louise Parker, who played Ruth, has been in quite a bit too. She's probably most known for the Showtime series Weeds, but she also played a recurring character in The West Wing (anybody knows the infamous "Marion Coatsworth-Hay" scene from that show knows exactly who she was).

  • @joshritz7067
    @joshritz7067 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I didn't mean to laugh but....
    "Meeehh!"
    "I know, Beans!"

  • @CaptainFrost32
    @CaptainFrost32 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    listening to the lineup... stock up on the tissues, snacks and drinks.
    "Secret is in the sauce." Your mother done set you up....

  • @catharticcathexis4527
    @catharticcathexis4527 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I don’t think I’ve ever laugh-cried this hard. Thank you Ashleigh.

    • @BenAHulse
      @BenAHulse 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I laughed this whole reaction video ... granted I've seen this movie so many times so its kinda schadenfreude

    • @catharticcathexis4527
      @catharticcathexis4527 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BenAHulse I was going through it with her. I’ve seen it before, but just watching her heart break was rough with the sad moments in the movie.

  • @sorscha1308
    @sorscha1308 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Oh my god, i can't even imagine what Beaches would do to Ashleigh. Or The Colour Purple. Or Schindler's List 😆

    • @porchgrazer58
      @porchgrazer58 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I completely agree with these! I ugly cry with Beaches every single time

    • @aprilredfordeby4667
      @aprilredfordeby4667 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes!! She needs to do Beaches!!

    • @JC-ke7mj
      @JC-ke7mj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Or "Boy in the striped pajamas "...

    • @deekim8164
      @deekim8164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Or Grave of the Fireflies...

    • @theronturncoat151
      @theronturncoat151 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JC-ke7mj I was just thinking that.

  • @ddiamondr1
    @ddiamondr1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hon you are a total treat. I haven’t seen fried green tomatoes since it came out in 91.
    It was written by Fanny Flagg - first as a novel and then as a screenplay. Fannie was also an actress Who appeared on the game show match game.
    If you haven’t guessed Ruth and itchy‘s relationship was deeper than portrayed in the film. The early 90s audience wasn’t ready for the novel version of that relationship, well at least that’s what the studio thought. I believe we were, but studio suits are notoriously conservative and tepid.
    You made ME. cry with your reactions LOL! It is a gut wrenching movie. Thanks and cheers from Edmonton Alberta Canada. Your new 65 year old fan.

  • @danawinslett7505
    @danawinslett7505 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    One of the most soul-cleansing movies ever made. Laughter through tears.

  • @kevinstanton5998
    @kevinstanton5998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I love the car incident at the grocery store:
    -face it we're younger and faster
    *rams their car*
    -face it, I'm older and I have more insurance
    Lol lol

    • @a.g.demada5263
      @a.g.demada5263 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's my father's favorite scene

    • @ScientificallyStupid
      @ScientificallyStupid 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      now that I seem to be approaching that "too young to be old and too old to be young" phase of life...I love to see it. We know the value of good insurance here.

    • @UltimateTrekkie1
      @UltimateTrekkie1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Never mess with a ginger! They’ll mess you up! Kathy’s phenomenal!

  • @icooley7391
    @icooley7391 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    OMG This has got to be the best, most honest reaction to any movie, I have ever seen. Damn. I hope you're OK.
    And sorry I laughed my ass off at your "misery."

  • @aliecat199
    @aliecat199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    My grandpa lost his arm to a train when he was 12 years old so that part always gets me. Fried Green Tomatoes is a classic and this film keeps getting better each time you watch it.

    • @glenerickson358
      @glenerickson358 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was waiting for Ash to yell out, "they need to ban trains in that town." 😄

  • @banf7425
    @banf7425 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    “Kathy! It’s HER ya idiot!!!” Was so funny to me for some reason, probably because it was such a stark interjection to the sobs right before and after hahaha

  • @Guy8417
    @Guy8417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Mary Stuart Mastersons stunt double refused to do the bee scene so Mary did it herself, from what i've heard.

  • @bluemorphobutterfly9837
    @bluemorphobutterfly9837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    No matter how many times I watch this movie, I bawl like a baby. It's on my favorites list of women and enduring friendships- right along with Steel Magnolias, Beaches, The Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood, Riding in Cars with Boys, Boys on the Side... But my list could go on and on... I laughed and cried right along with you. Glad you liked it and just know the fact that it destroyed you is the same reason so many of us love it.

    • @awkwardashleigh
      @awkwardashleigh  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Always crying

    • @bluemorphobutterfly9837
      @bluemorphobutterfly9837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Carolina Fantaccini I actually have the first 3 books in the series. I didn't realize there was one more until just now. I haven't read them yet, but might very well start on them tonight. I don't usually have much time for reading though it's my 2nd favorite thing behind writing my own stories.

  • @Rotarrin
    @Rotarrin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    This might be the greatest movie reaction, ever. Now *I* want to go back and watch this film, and it's probably been 20 years for me...
    You rock, Ashleigh. Please don't ever stop being who you are.

  • @shanem4703
    @shanem4703 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    "She is so PRETTY!" well then "Benny's and Joon" is a must watch.

    • @sempervigilo7961
      @sempervigilo7961 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I would have gone with "Some Kind of Wonderful!"

    • @undercoverasiant696
      @undercoverasiant696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes to both of these.

    • @smylyface
      @smylyface 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      YES!

    • @vapoet
      @vapoet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bonus: Young Johnny Depp. She would swoon at it, though she might want some understanding of the silent greats, Chaplin, Keaton and Lloyd to get what Benny is doing.

    • @LilRocker2005
      @LilRocker2005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Boys On The Side is another good one with Mary Louise Parker who played Ruth

  • @CrimsonAngelWinges
    @CrimsonAngelWinges 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    She's watched Steel Magnolias and Freid Green Tomatoes next up Beaches and Terms Of Endearment.

    • @timsgilable
      @timsgilable 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Throw in Officer and a Gentleman, and Old Yellar

    • @MelissaArvanitaki
      @MelissaArvanitaki 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Oh God, Beaches!!!

    • @kellysimrell3007
      @kellysimrell3007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Terms of Endearment!!!

    • @StephanieJohnson_
      @StephanieJohnson_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And The Green Mile xD

    • @theman4884
      @theman4884 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      The African Queen
      The Mexican
      Casablanca
      -Sorry those are the closest things to Chick Flicks I can think of.

  • @jasonfarbo5109
    @jasonfarbo5109 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    As a sometimes angry, bitter and cynical older guy who first saw this as a young teenager, I wanted to say that your reaction was an immediate opening of a long forgotten floodgate. The power of this story is, without any doubt, one that is soul crushing, uplifting and cathartic, and I'm so pleased to share that (vicariously) with you. Thank you for being so genuine and opening your heart to all of us movie nerds. I cried, too. Big love your way Ashleigh

  • @dawndance1
    @dawndance1 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Beans cry at the end…. Girl I fell off my chair I was laughing so hard!!!! Lmao I LOVE BEANS!! And here to “The Bee Charmer”- Ruth 🐝🍯

  • @StillABigKid
    @StillABigKid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    "I need a nap!" Never stop being you, Ashleigh.

    • @KRAFTWERK2K6
      @KRAFTWERK2K6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right? Bless her heart.

  • @benjaminrupe5930
    @benjaminrupe5930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Don't beat yourself up. Evoking emotion is what art is supposed to do. Ditto The Color Purple.

    • @kimwatchesstuff
      @kimwatchesstuff 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes!

    • @QueenCityHistory
      @QueenCityHistory 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      OMG definitely. Or Schindlers List...as a Jew I STILL can't make it through that movie in one sitting.

    • @vladtepes9614
      @vladtepes9614 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Oh hell yes. The Color Purple is fantastic.

    • @Dani-ub3ve
      @Dani-ub3ve 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, The Color Purple is amazing, and I suggest Driving Miss Daisy as well

    • @candaceanderson9517
      @candaceanderson9517 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      YES to The Color Purple!!!!

  • @JJinVenice
    @JJinVenice 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    She went from Fried Green Tomatoes to Cape Fear in one day?? She gonna need a hug from Hubben when he gets home. Whew!

    • @KRAFTWERK2K6
      @KRAFTWERK2K6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Him: "Ok Ashleigh you were hugging me for 3 hours now. Don't you think it's enough?"
      Her: "No..."
      Him: "Okay..okay.. What did you even watch?"
      Her: "Fried Green Tomatoes" *sniff*
      Him: "Oh...... my god..."

    • @Raving
      @Raving 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Her reaction to Cape Fear was awesome

  • @robbinsnest6163
    @robbinsnest6163 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I've watched tons of different TH-cam reaction channels and each one has their own great way of reacting but you my dear are truly my favorite! You are hilarious and genuine and I keep coming back for your comedy and of course the cat! ❤❤❤

    • @van8ryan
      @van8ryan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So wrong to say but I've honestly never laughed so much at a woman crying throughout a movie; just can't stop loving her reactions

  • @robertmcghintheorca49
    @robertmcghintheorca49 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Fun fact, in France, this film is called 'The Secret Is In The Sauce'.

    • @fzoid3534
      @fzoid3534 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      In Germany it's just Green Tomatoes
      So I learned that fried green tomatoes is a food.

    • @LieuNoir
      @LieuNoir 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      (Metropolitan French here) if I may correct that 🤓: I've never heard " Le secret est dans la sauce " ("the secret is in the sauce"), only "Beignets de tomates vertes" ( Fried Green Tomatoes)
      According to wikipedia, 'The Secret Is In The Sauce' is the title used in Québec, not France! 😉

    • @daveshoemaker1116
      @daveshoemaker1116 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LieuNoir Beignets de tomates vertes = green tomato donuts?!? (Alternative translation)

    • @LieuNoir
      @LieuNoir 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@daveshoemaker1116 😁 good one! 😁
      no, because _beignets_ is actually a generic name for deep-fried dough (sweet or salty). Donut is only one of the most well known beignets 😉

    • @daveshoemaker1116
      @daveshoemaker1116 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LieuNoir Good to know. Merci.

  • @toriblake9862
    @toriblake9862 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I voted for Fried Green Tomatoes and squealed with glee when I got the email notification you'd posted it. And now? Still thrilled but also sorry. Your crying broke my heart but it's also so relatable. Hope you're feeling a little better now!

  • @jinxedya3713
    @jinxedya3713 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Be honest, how many of y’all cried too....raise your stumpy lil’ arm!

    • @garyhollister5132
      @garyhollister5132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I've watched this reaction more than once and I still cry with her.

  • @marcelialopez3139
    @marcelialopez3139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "Let me tell you...
    Let me tell you....
    ....
    I can't even tell you!"
    I am dying 🤣🤣🤣