Danielle- I think you have explained what healing looks like: its hard , ugly, ups and downs, feels mentally drainitng etc., but through the process can be so rewarding and peaceful!!!! So Proud of you! Keep going and stick to the boundries.
Danielle, i can relate to the struggle. It’s ok to honor and love your mom/dad because they are your parents. It is OK to set boundaries and not allow manipulation and guilt to control you. Keep giving it to Jesus, the healer of your soul and the foundation for your faith. ❤
I can totally relate with you, Danielle. I'm a Christian and my mom had narcissistic personality disorder and could be so cruel, constantly making me cry and causing me so much stress. When it started to affect my kids I knew I had to cut off contact for my own health and sanity before it affected my kids. As a Christian that's always hard but I believe you can honor your parents from a distance if they're causing you constant stress. You need to stay strong for those beautiful girls you have! 😍🙏💗
I love the podcast. Honestly I find it so hard to find wholesome things to listen too while working in my aisles at night (overnight stocking while closed) but this has been a really good wholesome thing to listen too while working and it’s just refreshing.
I have to say you can tell God has been the forefront of your marriage because you have e survived reality tv together! We see it over and over again these couples/ marriages break up/divorce after being on a reality show. So glad yall chose to do your own podcast!
Danielle, thank you for being so vulnerable with this delicate situation. Hoping someday things will be better for you and you and your mom❤. This podcast is awesome ❤
So glad you answered my question that I asked! I've struggled when my girls ask about my dad & not knowing what to say. I appreciate the honesty & advice I got from your answer! Thank you guys!
Thank you for telling your story Danielle. I can relate to most of your situations with your Mom & biological father. Life can be hard. But sometimes it feels better knowing someone else knows what you have been through and dealt with. I feel like it’s so misunderstood and it’s one of those things you have to have been there to get it. I just want you to know I hear you and understand.
I have the same issue with my mom that’s been going on my entire life. I’d let it go or we’d talk about it and then in a month she would go back to her same old ways. At the age of 49 I had a breakdown and through much therapy and praying I don’t have a relationship with her anymore. When the toxicity begins to affect your own family I’m done. I appreciate you sharing this, sometimes you think you’re the only one. Amazingly I have a very supportive husband backing me up. ❤
Thank you both for sharing pieces of your life. Much of what you said, and your vulnerability, touched me. I’m hoping that what you said about Blayke being ignored by strangers will resonate with others who may meet your family in public in the future. She is certainly as special to your family as the quints are and should never be made to feel ‘less than’. I’ve been watching your family from the beginning. Thank you for sharing your faith, and life, with others. Well Done!
Danielle, you do you. We all have to do whatever it is to have the life we want. There should be no judgement and if others do, just remember that’s their problem not yours!
I really enjoyed this. I admit I do miss Mimi, but I understand. I pray for reconciliation soon. Thank you for the honesty in your podcasts. They do help heal others.
Danielle, You are amazing and so strong! Good for you for doing what’s best for you and Adam and your kids. Thanks for sharing your story. You deserve to get to tell your story.
You made me smile when you approached the parenting a big family question. I am the oldest of a blended family--but it wasn't like a lot of tv portrayed versions. My mom and my stepdad never answered a question from a child without coming together and agreeing on the response. There was no, "my mom/dad said I could". I think they had some serious differences to overcome, but, we didn't see that. We saw loving, smiling parents who were still strong authority figures. To this day all of my stepsisters love my mom or her memory--there were no resentments. And, I learned a lesson for my own parenting of my four sons. You sound like you have found your own strong system of relationship. Blessings!!
Danielle, there are more people that can relate to the relationship struggles with your mom. I am one of them. Your comment “this was my normal” is so true. As a child you have no idea what mental illness is. It’s just your life. I’ve walked the same path and people do have compassion but it’s hard to comprehend unless you have lived it. I’m glad you and Adam are allowing God to use your platform. Sharing the struggles can be hard for many reasons, however at 51 years old I can say God will use it for his glory. You never know how God uses a willing servant. Prayers = miracles Angel (yes that is my real name) 😂
I personally had to take a break from my mom for 5 yrs. Then when we came back together I had to set some very clear boundaries with her and with my children. It was a very healthy choice to make. It sounds like Mimi struggles with making family her priority. I am glad you are taking that break. If it is permanent or not you are breaking the cycle. Be proud.
Your faith and relationship with God is very powerful. I admire your openess and sharing your life and struggles. Having an autoimmune disease and being diagnosed before we were married, It is quite a struggle to go through. You are blessed with beautiful children. I will certainly add your family on my prayer list.
Please know that so many struggle with relationships with their mom / parents. I know you’re not wanting to bad talk your mom, but I think it’s more of being honest and relatable ❤
Adam and Danielle, thank you for being so open and vulnerable in this podcast. I appreciate your hearts in wanted to share your lives from a place of authenticity and Christ-likeness. Some of the topics you tackled are not easy to talk about. I’m sure it opens up old wounds and pain as you answer questions about family relationships, setting boundaries, etc. It’s probably hard to be above reproach and be careful about what you say while still being honest about the things you’ve gone through and keeping it real. I feel ya. Be encouraged as you never know who you might be helping by sharing your story. God bless you both!
You’re so right, it’s hard to relate with each other’s autoimmune conditions cause everyone’s different! Wishing you the best in your health journey and finding what works for you! ❤
Danielle, wow! Jesus has really cleared your mind and experiences of growing up to give you restoration. What a great witness you are! You too, Adam. It's all beautiful and I will be praying for your whole family. You are doing a great job and being so real. I love this podcast. Thank you so much.
If this offers any hope Danielle….much of my childhood and relationship with my mom mimics what you’ve shared. I cut off contact with my mom in 2015 at the encouragement of a professional Christian counselor due to it being so unhealthy for me, my husband, and at the time small children. I did a lot of work on myself, cried, prayed, and begged God for multiple years and honestly didn’t expect to have any relationship at all this side of Heaven because it was so toxic. However we have been back in contact since the end of 2020 with no major “incidents” at all. She did not get the help she needs but an unexplainable miracle took place. While it’s clear she still has her struggles and we will never have the mother/daughter relationship I desire, she stays within appropriate boundaries that let us have contact and it be healthy for us. When I say I have witnessed the miracle of a lifetime I truly mean it. Praying the same for you and your sisters
Danielle, I don’t know the whole situation with your mom but I had a similar one. It took me longer to realize I had to stop what was happening for my own self preservation. I was probably 15 years older than you when it happened and I had wished I had realized all of it sooner. It can be hard but… my life was much calmer and much more peaceful afterward. I wasn’t spending my life looking for a relationship I was never going to have. I too am a Christian and struggled with the ‘love your mother and father’ stuff etc. I kept thinking ‘what kind of a Christian am I?’ But I prayed about it and was at peace about it so figured God was telling me it’s ok. I didn’t completely cut her off but put up many boundaries that she did not like. Sounds like you have done the same. Please just know, you aren’t alone. Thank you so much for sharing story.
You explained your relationship so amazingly. It’s hard- but normal. It’s survival. I have had this on again off again with my mom since I was 13- and I am now 50. You have to chose who you allow to speak into your life- including parents, and the binderies matter. Keep God the focus- that is His design.
Adam and Danielle I love watching y’all on t.v and social media ❤️ y’all are awesome together and awesome parents ❤️❤️Danielle I pray things get better for you and your mom 🙏🏾❤️
I completely understand with boundaries. What I have always lived by and raised my kids with is:( FYI, I'm not yelling lol) YOU CANNOT CONTROL WHAT PEOPLE DO OR SAY, BUT YOU CAN CONTROL WHAT YOU DO WITH IT. You have to do what is best for you, your mental health and your own family. No one knows all that has happened except the ones closely involved and those decisions, and choices should be respected, especially if it's not the way someone else would do or respond to the situation. Just because it's not the way others would handle it does not make it wrong, just different. Just my 2 cents for what it's worth 😊
This was so good. Thank you for all the updates. I struggle when people ask what’s wrong (autoimmune) because it is so complicated. I’ve learned that God and realizing everyone does not need my medical history has helped the most. 🙏🏻
Y’all remind me of me and my husband, sometimes with y’all‘s relationship with the sarcasm and joking, that’s how we do it in our house it’s just how we are lots of laughs around here and love. Thank you for answering questions. I love y’all podcast
I totally understand how you feel.. I had to disassociate myself from my brother and his family because of such toxicity… your feelings are legitimate and don’t second guess yourself.. your husband and your children HAVE to be your priority 🙏
I have chronic Migraines so I completely understand Daniel. I get them for a month at a time. I just tried Botox last week for the first time. It’s supposed to help. Adam is so right. Having an autoimmune disorder is very tricky because you never know how you are going to feel and then it’s hard on our spouse to watch us suffer too
🙏Danielle I have always found you an inspiration. Your strength and attitude have always been inspiring to me. I’m sure your mom and your upbringing probably had a lot to do with that.
1) It was great meeting you last year at VidSummit. 2) Auto Immune issues are no joke. My now almost 14 year old was diagnosed with ulcerative colitis 5 years ago. Finding the right doctors are key, we have been on a journey to try to be as natural as possible especially since he is so young and it is hereditary. We would love to help give our other boys a healthier start just in case.
Danielle, I had some immune issues and chronic lower back pain, where I just could not get out of bed. I was borderline high cholesterol. God showed me to use the carnivore diet. It's canceling everything out, except meat and animal products. It has healed me to the point where I actually do Karate now and I have so much energy. Jesus is so amazing. I prayed about it, and it works. Just a suggestion, but it changed my life. It's really worth looking into❤ just a note, I was also getting heart palpitations because of stress. It was all gone. Within a week, I saw major results.
I feel like I’ve always had menopause brain but now at 48 it is worse. I started watching you guys and realized I went to the same infertility doctor I believe. We hada different situation and it didn’t work out, but I was wondering if having multiples could happen to me. I liked your show and you both are relatable people.
I love your podcast. I love listening to you guys. You guys have an amazing family. My question for you guys is are you guys friends or have met the other families of multiples that are on TV? Such as the Scots in Utah?
❤ my father just passed away we hadn’t talked in 8 years things like this are hard to explain and have people understand unless they lived your life ❤I understand
Danielle, i know you will probably want to scream at me for suggesting this, so please forgive me! I have 2 very good friends who I know didn't have quintuplets but have the same symptoms. It took years to find out the root cause until they realised it was Lyme Disesase. I am so hopeful you will get results attending a functional medicine practitioner. I'm praying for you from Ireland. God bless🙏
Families are tough and every family has their problems , im only 19 and unfortunately i no longer have a relationship with my grandmother or my aunt and uncle and as a result not really one with a lot of my other family over the last 2.5 years, my extended family has a lot of disfunction and a lot of things were said and done then when I got old enough to understand what was really being said I decided that enough was enough and I no longer speak to these people. It also is a situation where forgive and forget isn’t an option either because theirs also a difference in worldview and morals that I and they have so to me I have no interest in surrounding myself with what I consider bad morals .
Enjoying your podcast I will be praying for and your relationship with your mom I am sure that was hard to talk about and will be praying for your health Danielle God bless you all
If I was there with you Danielle I would give you a big hug 🫂 ❤😢 You can love someone from a distance. If something isn’t healthy for you & your immediate family that you’re with every single day your children & your husband & you then you need to walk away & distant yourself & family from that part of your family for a while. Until you all are ready for a better relationship for everyone 🙏
Danielle, you are so beautiful. I am 26 years old and just diagnosed with lupus. can you talk about your autoimmune disease? And can Adam from his point of view?My fiancé and I have been together since we were 13. Love y’all
Danielle love yalls new podcast and the show. You said you have Fibromyalgia and nerve pain and were on a drug that's helping. I've got Fibromyalgia as well and would love to know what the drug it is. Please and Thank you.
You both were under lots of pressure during the filming the Outdaughtered show not to bring the "toxic" relationship in it. I have lots of respect for you and your family. I just want to say these loudly: "SHAME ON those professional jealous haters with their lies and hates about you." We LOVE you LOVELY 💖Busby family💖
Danielle, as a woman that is old enough to be your mom, I would like to tell you how proud of you I am!!! You are an amazing wife, mom, sister and friend!!! I’ve always told my boys that “I might have given you life, but your wife makes you whole. God says that the two shall become one flesh and I will never come between that.” With saying this, I have not seen my son and his family of five for close to six years. The only positive thing that I could find is this is that I know that Jesus is coming soon because Jesus told his disciples one of the signs of the end times is that families will be divided. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK SISTER 🥰 With your mom, being the baby of the family, I’m sure she got used to always getting her own way. I will add her to my prayer list because she needs a heart change that only Jesus can give.❤
I’m a sister in Christ, and I also lost my relationship with my parents and my 5 siblings because I’m a Christian. I love my husband and my 6 children and I fight for them because God is our foundation.
I applaud your honesty and willingness to be so open with your relationship with your mom when you most certainly do not have to be. I wish your family the best ❤️
😂always remember your husband and children is always supposed to come before your mother. Do not feel guilty about that. Lots of love to you and your amazing family 😊
I have been on a 10 year journey, it was finally discovered and I was diagnosed with fully formed extra cervical ribs that were fully compressing the nerve bundles on both sides by the brachy plexus. You have to be diagnosed by a specialist. Most doctors do not understand this condition. Get tested for TOS (Thoracic Outlet Syndrome) by a specialized neurosurgeon. I had neck pain,arm pain, jaw pain, explosive headaches, inflammation , debilitating pain, etc. it resulted in nerve decompression surgery on both sides separately. I am weeks out from the last surgery. I saw a surgeon at Stanford although I live in Seattle. I have been misdiagnosed a hundred times. I was misdiagnosed by some of the best doctors in the Seattle area. One surgeon figured it out by studying my scans, tests, etc. it’s one of the most missed diagnosed conditions Listening to you breaks my heart. My story is not yours but there are a lot of similarities.
God always gives us the parents for a reason. You are meant to rely on God, to grow closer to our Father God. You have turned out to be a beautiful person. A wonderful wife and mother. Keep being obedient to God. Trusting and leaning on him.
Thank you for the advice about keeping God at the center of your marriage. My husband and I are going through some struggles right now and I needed that reminder. ❤
I understand where you are coming from when it comes to having a relationship with Mom or not. My mom is a continual meth addict of over 25 years. 12 years ago I had a talk with God and the song "7x7x by Chris August" came on. I came to the peace to forgive her for screwing my life up but i don't want a relationship with her. I've stood on that for years and I don't feel bad for my choice. My step mom is my mom not Sara. Children shouldn't have to be the ones to mend a relationship. If you feel God giving you peace about the situation then it's okay
During all these years that I was watching and listening to you two (💞 & 💕) I feel in your relationships and your parenting, you hadn't any guidance. You found the "way" by yourself, and that makes your LOVE a unique and deep "LOVE" 💞❤💕
@@SL_Derby 1- If you look at all the comments, you will see that in this episode I have several comments. 2- Several comments, in different minutes of the episode 6. 3- I posted my comment before they spoke about their "guidance...." 4- As a long time follower of LOVELY Busby family, I know and I knew they have help circle of family, friends and church. 5- About the "guidance", I have mentioned several times in my comments to LOVELY DiDi and Adam that I don't have a religious background, with all respect to their beliefs and others, I don't see the world through the lens of religion and God. So in my eyes the WONDERFUL parents and Lovebirds (DiDi& Adam 💞💕) found the "way" of parenting and made their deep LOVE by themselves.
I was just saying this to my husband last night about the enemy wanting to destroy our marriage. The exact same things. Please say a prayer for my marriage bc at the moment it’s under attack. Love you guys thank you ❤
Is actually common more than you think. My daughter does not have a relationship with her dad. Her choice. But does she have a relationship with your kids or no?
Dear DiDi & Adam, the Outdaughtered show is the most WONDERFUL TV show. I can't believe in the twenty-first century when people watch a TV show, are not able to realise, that show is just a TV show, and make you explain all of these. Unbelievable!!
Have the girls ever had moments where they didnt anr to be on tv any more or ever hated or have they ever been embarrassed by something they seen themselves do on an older episode?
ho Danielle… the situation with your mother… reminds me soooo mutch of me and my sister, I could cry you know… it’s not the same situation at all then you and your mother, but I had to stop talking to my sister, she was breaking me inside, I feel so bad you know… I had to talk to god too, because I feel very bad about it, we dont have parents anymore… and I feel like I’m abandoning her… but my mental health was suffering a lot… she has a lot of alcool and drug problems…I dont know if it’s me that is selfish, I dont know…. I feel broken sometimes… I love you podcast, not a lot of people talking about god anymore, and I feel better when you all talk about stuff
It’s like when your children come to you asking how babies are are made. Lol 😂 & you all have 6 children to ask you all children are made. I’d love to hear the stories of which one’s of y’all’s children have asked how babies are made & what age they were & how you all explained it to them.
What really did happen between you guys and Mimi? I heard she got arrested and all that, but is it the show that producers that doesn’t let her back on or is it a personal issue?
I do remember your mom saying "well I am his mother in law" I believe it was in the episode where you were getting pictures taken of the quint's for the first time, and I thought watching it no that is not ok just because you are Danielle's mom Adam's mother in law give you the right to not respect their time.
“But she’s your mom” is a two way street….”but she’s your daughter too!” I had struggles with my own mother and even though I estranged myself from her for my mental health she never reached out to me. I got phone calls from other family “why aren’t you talking for your mother?” Hmmmm maybe that is a phone call she should make. And she didn’t.
Wish Adam was more supportive in understanding that that's your mom and you will always have a door open. It's clear to me you still love her. He should understand that. His body language when you speak about her is anything but understanding or loving.
Danielle- I think you have explained what healing looks like: its hard , ugly, ups and downs, feels mentally drainitng etc., but through the process can be so rewarding and peaceful!!!! So Proud of you! Keep going and stick to the boundries.
Danielle, i can relate to the struggle. It’s ok to honor and love your mom/dad because they are your parents. It is OK to set boundaries and not allow manipulation and guilt to control you. Keep giving it to Jesus, the healer of your soul and the foundation for your faith. ❤
I can totally relate with you, Danielle. I'm a Christian and my mom had narcissistic personality disorder and could be so cruel, constantly making me cry and causing me so much stress. When it started to affect my kids I knew I had to cut off contact for my own health and sanity before it affected my kids. As a Christian that's always hard but I believe you can honor your parents from a distance if they're causing you constant stress. You need to stay strong for those beautiful girls you have! 😍🙏💗
I love the podcast. Honestly I find it so hard to find wholesome things to listen too while working in my aisles at night (overnight stocking while closed) but this has been a really good wholesome thing to listen too while working and it’s just refreshing.
I have to say you can tell God has been the forefront of your marriage because you have e survived reality tv together! We see it over and over again these couples/ marriages break up/divorce after being on a reality show. So glad yall chose to do your own podcast!
Danielle, thank you for being so vulnerable with this delicate situation. Hoping someday things will be better for you and you and your mom❤. This podcast is awesome ❤
So glad you answered my question that I asked! I've struggled when my girls ask about my dad & not knowing what to say. I appreciate the honesty & advice I got from your answer! Thank you guys!
Thank you for telling your story Danielle. I can relate to most of your situations with your Mom & biological father. Life can be hard. But sometimes it feels better knowing someone else knows what you have been through and dealt with. I feel like it’s so misunderstood and it’s one of those things you have to have been there to get it. I just want you to know I hear you and understand.
I have the same issue with my mom that’s been going on my entire life. I’d let it go or we’d talk about it and then in a month she would go back to her same old ways. At the age of 49 I had a breakdown and through much therapy and praying I don’t have a relationship with her anymore. When the toxicity begins to affect your own family I’m done. I appreciate you sharing this, sometimes you think you’re the only one. Amazingly I have a very supportive husband backing me up. ❤
Thank you both for sharing pieces of your life. Much of what you said, and your vulnerability, touched me. I’m hoping that what you said about Blayke being ignored by strangers will resonate with
others who may meet your family in public in the future.
She is certainly as special to your family as the quints are and should never be made to feel ‘less than’. I’ve been watching your family from the beginning. Thank you for sharing your faith, and life, with others. Well Done!
Danielle, you do you. We all have to do whatever it is to have the life we want. There should be no judgement and if others do, just remember that’s their problem not yours!
I really enjoyed this. I admit I do miss Mimi, but I understand. I pray for reconciliation soon. Thank you for the honesty in your podcasts. They do help heal others.
Danielle, You are amazing and so strong! Good for you for doing what’s best for you and Adam and your kids. Thanks for sharing your story. You deserve to get to tell your story.
When you struggled with the word 'abuse', it may be more like 'neglect'... You're brave and boundaries are healthy
You made me smile when you approached the parenting a big family question. I am the oldest of a blended family--but it wasn't like a lot of tv portrayed versions. My mom and my stepdad never answered a question from a child without coming together and agreeing on the response. There was no, "my mom/dad said I could". I think they had some serious differences to overcome, but, we didn't see that. We saw loving, smiling parents who were still strong authority figures. To this day all of my stepsisters love my mom or her memory--there were no resentments. And, I learned a lesson for my own parenting of my four sons. You sound like you have found your own strong system of relationship. Blessings!!
Danielle, there are more people that can relate to the relationship struggles with your mom. I am one of them. Your comment “this was my normal” is so true. As a child you have no idea what mental illness is. It’s just your life. I’ve walked the same path and people do have compassion but it’s hard to comprehend unless you have lived it. I’m glad you and Adam are allowing God to use your platform. Sharing the struggles can be hard for many reasons, however at 51 years old I can say God will use it for his glory. You never know how God uses a willing servant.
Prayers = miracles
Angel (yes that is my real name) 😂
I personally had to take a break from my mom for 5 yrs. Then when we came back together I had to set some very clear boundaries with her and with my children. It was a very healthy choice to make. It sounds like Mimi struggles with making family her priority. I am glad you are taking that break. If it is permanent or not you are breaking the cycle. Be proud.
Your faith and relationship with God is very powerful. I admire your openess and sharing your life and struggles. Having an autoimmune disease and being diagnosed before we were married, It is quite a struggle to go through. You are blessed with beautiful children. I will certainly add your family on my prayer list.
Thanks for being so open & authentic about your Faith and relationships!!
Please know that so many struggle with relationships with their mom / parents. I know you’re not wanting to bad talk your mom, but I think it’s more of being honest and relatable ❤
Adam and Danielle, thank you for being so open and vulnerable in this podcast. I appreciate your hearts in wanted to share your lives from a place of authenticity and Christ-likeness. Some of the topics you tackled are not easy to talk about. I’m sure it opens up old wounds and pain as you answer questions about family relationships, setting boundaries, etc. It’s probably hard to be above reproach and be careful about what you say while still being honest about the things you’ve gone through and keeping it real. I feel ya. Be encouraged as you never know who you might be helping by sharing your story. God bless you both!
You’re so right, it’s hard to relate with each other’s autoimmune conditions cause everyone’s different! Wishing you the best in your health journey and finding what works for you! ❤
Danielle, wow! Jesus has really cleared your mind and experiences of growing up to give you restoration. What a great witness you are! You too, Adam. It's all beautiful and I will be praying for your whole family. You are doing a great job and being so real. I love this podcast. Thank you so much.
If this offers any hope Danielle….much of my childhood and relationship with my mom mimics what you’ve shared. I cut off contact with my mom in 2015 at the encouragement of a professional Christian counselor due to it being so unhealthy for me, my husband, and at the time small children. I did a lot of work on myself, cried, prayed, and begged God for multiple years and honestly didn’t expect to have any relationship at all this side of Heaven because it was so toxic. However we have been back in contact since the end of 2020 with no major “incidents” at all. She did not get the help she needs but an unexplainable miracle took place. While it’s clear she still has her struggles and we will never have the mother/daughter relationship I desire, she stays within appropriate boundaries that let us have contact and it be healthy for us. When I say I have witnessed the miracle of a lifetime I truly mean it. Praying the same for you and your sisters
So glad I found the pod! I used to watch your family! I don't even know how long it's been 😊😊
Danielle, I don’t know the whole situation with your mom but I had a similar one. It took me longer to realize I had to stop what was happening for my own self preservation. I was probably 15 years older than you when it happened and I had wished I had realized all of it sooner. It can be hard but… my life was much calmer and much more peaceful afterward. I wasn’t spending my life looking for a relationship I was never going to have. I too am a Christian and struggled with the ‘love your mother and father’ stuff etc. I kept thinking ‘what kind of a Christian am I?’ But I prayed about it and was at peace about it so figured God was telling me it’s ok. I didn’t completely cut her off but put up many boundaries that she did not like. Sounds like you have done the same. Please just know, you aren’t alone. Thank you so much for sharing story.
Great podcast. Thanks for being transparent.
You explained your relationship so amazingly. It’s hard- but normal. It’s survival. I have had this on again off again with my mom since I was 13- and I am now 50. You have to chose who you allow to speak into your life- including parents, and the binderies matter. Keep God the focus- that is His design.
Adam and Danielle I love watching y’all on t.v and social media ❤️ y’all are awesome together and awesome parents ❤️❤️Danielle I pray things get better for you and your mom 🙏🏾❤️
Thank you for sharing I know people will understand you now. You guys are doing a great job. ❤❤
I completely understand with boundaries. What I have always lived by and raised my kids with is:( FYI, I'm not yelling lol)
YOU CANNOT CONTROL WHAT PEOPLE DO OR SAY, BUT YOU CAN CONTROL WHAT YOU DO WITH IT. You have to do what is best for you, your mental health and your own family. No one knows all that has happened except the ones closely involved and those decisions, and choices should be respected, especially if it's not the way someone else would do or respond to the situation. Just because it's not the way others would handle it does not make it wrong, just different. Just my 2 cents for what it's worth 😊
This was so good. Thank you for all the updates. I struggle when people ask what’s wrong (autoimmune) because it is so complicated. I’ve learned that God and realizing everyone does not need my medical history has helped the most. 🙏🏻
Y’all remind me of me and my husband, sometimes with y’all‘s relationship with the sarcasm and joking, that’s how we do it in our house it’s just how we are lots of laughs around here and love. Thank you for answering questions. I love y’all podcast
I totally understand how you feel.. I had to disassociate myself from my brother and his family because of such toxicity… your feelings are legitimate and don’t second guess yourself.. your husband and your children HAVE to be your priority 🙏
So happy you guys are sharing more about your faith. The show didn’t portray that!
I love yall so much!!!! Been watching since episode 1!! ❤️
so awesome! Thank you for being a part of our new little community!
Prayer’s that you & your Mom can mend your relationship🙏
Thank you for sharing about your Mom Danielle. 💕🙏🏽
I love this, thank you for sharing!
I have chronic Migraines so I completely understand Daniel. I get them for a month at a time. I just tried Botox last week for the first time. It’s supposed to help. Adam is so right. Having an autoimmune disorder is very tricky because you never know how you are going to feel and then it’s hard on our spouse to watch us suffer too
🙏Danielle I have always found you an inspiration. Your strength and attitude have always been inspiring to me. I’m sure your mom and your upbringing probably had a lot to do with that.
1) It was great meeting you last year at VidSummit. 2) Auto Immune issues are no joke. My now almost 14 year old was diagnosed with ulcerative colitis 5 years ago. Finding the right doctors are key, we have been on a journey to try to be as natural as possible especially since he is so young and it is hereditary. We would love to help give our other boys a healthier start just in case.
Oooo yay!!! I’m so glad you started this!!!
Danielle, I had some immune issues and chronic lower back pain, where I just could not get out of bed. I was borderline high cholesterol. God showed me to use the carnivore diet. It's canceling everything out, except meat and animal products. It has healed me to the point where I actually do Karate now and I have so much energy. Jesus is so amazing. I prayed about it, and it works. Just a suggestion, but it changed my life. It's really worth looking into❤ just a note, I was also getting heart palpitations because of stress. It was all gone. Within a week, I saw major results.
Good for you for setting boundaries with your mom
I respect both of u. I'm teaching my granddaughter about boundaries. She is 22. Tks for the info on the couple that has books and literature.
Are you guys going to have a part 2, I want to hear some fun and funny questions ( not that I didn’t enjoy this episode) love you all ❤❤
we will definitely be doing more of these!
I feel like I’ve always had menopause brain but now at 48 it is worse.
I started watching you guys and realized I went to the same infertility doctor I believe. We hada different situation and it didn’t work out, but I was wondering if having multiples could happen to me. I liked your show and you both are relatable people.
I love your podcast. I love listening to you guys. You guys have an amazing family. My question for you guys is are you guys friends or have met the other families of multiples that are on TV? Such as the Scots in Utah?
❤ my father just passed away we hadn’t talked in 8 years things like this are hard to explain and have people understand unless they lived your life ❤I understand
Danielle, i know you will probably want to scream at me for suggesting this, so please forgive me! I have 2 very good friends who I know didn't have quintuplets but have the same symptoms. It took years to find out the root cause until they realised it was Lyme Disesase. I am so hopeful you will get results attending a functional medicine practitioner. I'm praying for you from Ireland. God bless🙏
Families are tough and every family has their problems , im only 19 and unfortunately i no longer have a relationship with my grandmother or my aunt and uncle and as a result not really one with a lot of my other family over the last 2.5 years, my extended family has a lot of disfunction and a lot of things were said and done then when I got old enough to understand what was really being said I decided that enough was enough and I no longer speak to these people. It also is a situation where forgive and forget isn’t an option either because theirs also a difference in worldview and morals that I and they have so to me I have no interest in surrounding myself with what I consider bad morals .
Thank you for sharing.
Great podcast ❤❤💞💞
Enjoying your podcast I will be praying for and your relationship with your mom I am sure that was hard to talk about and will be praying for your health Danielle God bless you all
Your podcast is terrific
If I was there with you Danielle I would give you a big hug 🫂 ❤😢 You can love someone from a distance. If something isn’t healthy for you & your immediate family that you’re with every single day your children & your husband & you then you need to walk away & distant yourself & family from that part of your family for a while. Until you all are ready for a better relationship for everyone 🙏
Has anything been said about another season of the tv show?
Danielle, you are so beautiful. I am 26 years old and just diagnosed with lupus. can you talk about your autoimmune disease? And can Adam from his point of view?My fiancé and I have been together since we were 13. Love y’all
Love your marriage advice!!!!! ❤❤❤
Danielle, chronic fatigue x 6. In your brain you imagine doing something once, but you Xs it five more times, everytime, an stress retains
Danielle love yalls new podcast and the show. You said you have Fibromyalgia and nerve pain and were on a drug that's helping. I've got Fibromyalgia as well and would love to know what the drug it is. Please and Thank you.
You both were under lots of pressure during the filming the Outdaughtered show not to bring the "toxic" relationship in it. I have lots of respect for you and your family.
I just want to say these loudly:
"SHAME ON those professional jealous haters with their lies and hates about you."
We LOVE you
LOVELY
💖Busby family💖
Functional Nutrition is changing my life. I’m still looking into my root cause but I am only 6 months in my journey with them.
Danielle, as a woman that is old enough to be your mom, I would like to tell you how proud of you I am!!! You are an amazing wife, mom, sister and friend!!!
I’ve always told my boys that “I might have given you life, but your wife makes you whole. God says that the two shall become one flesh and I will never come between that.”
With saying this, I have not seen my son and his family of five for close to six years.
The only positive thing that I could find is this is that I know that Jesus is coming soon because Jesus told his disciples one of the signs of the end times is that families will be divided.
KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK SISTER 🥰
With your mom, being the baby of the family, I’m sure she got used to always getting her own way. I will add her to my prayer list because she needs a heart change that only Jesus can give.❤
Love you guys!
Love the podcast ❤
I’m a sister in Christ, and I also lost my relationship with my parents and my 5 siblings because I’m a Christian. I love my husband and my 6 children and I fight for them because God is our foundation.
Danielle, have you been tested for Lupus? I have it and it does cause your body to hurt. Hope you feel better
I also love your style!!!
I applaud your honesty and willingness to be so open with your relationship with your mom when you most certainly do not have to be. I wish your family the best ❤️
Thank you so much!
Amen 🙏 That’s Absolutely The 💯 % Truth With Any Marriage Really or Any Relationship
😂always remember your husband and children is always supposed to come before your mother. Do not feel guilty about that. Lots of love to you and your amazing family 😊
I have been on a 10 year journey, it was finally discovered and I was diagnosed with fully formed extra cervical ribs that were fully compressing the nerve bundles on both sides by the brachy plexus. You have to be diagnosed by a specialist. Most doctors do not understand this condition. Get tested for TOS (Thoracic Outlet Syndrome) by a specialized neurosurgeon. I had neck pain,arm pain, jaw pain, explosive headaches, inflammation , debilitating pain, etc. it resulted in nerve decompression surgery on both sides separately. I am weeks out from the last surgery. I saw a surgeon at Stanford although I live in Seattle. I have been misdiagnosed a hundred times. I was misdiagnosed by some of the best doctors in the Seattle area. One surgeon figured it out by studying my scans, tests, etc. it’s one of the most missed diagnosed conditions Listening to you breaks my heart. My story is not yours but there are a lot of similarities.
God always gives us the parents for a reason. You are meant to rely on God, to grow closer to our Father God. You have turned out to be a beautiful person. A wonderful wife and mother. Keep being obedient to God. Trusting and leaning on him.
Is grandma Mimi ever going to be on any of the shows again?
This family❤❤
2 Timothy 2:19
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Hi Danielle you tube channel Love my favorite one fan BIG God bless you family 💖💖💖💖💖
That is ridiculous when they say stuff about child abuse and that kind of stuff that’s not even funny f
Wow this is the best
Thank you for the advice about keeping God at the center of your marriage. My husband and I are going through some struggles right now and I needed that reminder. ❤
I understand where you are coming from when it comes to having a relationship with Mom or not. My mom is a continual meth addict of over 25 years. 12 years ago I had a talk with God and the song "7x7x by Chris August" came on. I came to the peace to forgive her for screwing my life up but i don't want a relationship with her. I've stood on that for years and I don't feel bad for my choice. My step mom is my mom not Sara. Children shouldn't have to be the ones to mend a relationship. If you feel God giving you peace about the situation then it's okay
Do the kids send cards or gifts to mimi for holidays or birthdays.
You should add a table in the middle
Can you share that message from what you read here in text so I can have to be praying for my Prodigal and other Prodigals I am praying for?
During all these years that I was watching and listening to you two (💞 & 💕) I feel in your relationships and your parenting, you hadn't any guidance. You found the "way" by yourself, and that makes your LOVE a unique and deep "LOVE" 💞❤💕
@navidkavian6705 They spoke of support and guidance received from friends, family, church community and their relationship with God.
@@SL_Derby
1- If you look at all the comments, you will see that in this episode I have several comments.
2- Several comments, in different minutes of the episode 6.
3- I posted my comment before they spoke about their "guidance...."
4- As a long time follower of LOVELY Busby family, I know and I knew they have help circle of family, friends and church.
5- About the "guidance", I have mentioned several times in my comments to LOVELY DiDi and Adam that I don't have a religious background, with all respect to their beliefs and others, I don't see the world through the lens of religion and God. So in my eyes the WONDERFUL parents and Lovebirds (DiDi& Adam 💞💕) found the "way" of parenting and made their deep LOVE by themselves.
Okay, thanks for your forthrightness. 😊
@@SL_Derby
Just let you know that I "know" you and remember you.
@navidkavian6705 No, I don't think you do know me. You accused me of being a hater. Nothing could be further from the truth.
I was just saying this to my husband last night about the enemy wanting to destroy our marriage. The exact same things. Please say a prayer for my marriage bc at the moment it’s under attack. Love you guys thank you ❤
And by the way I live in Alvin! 😊 I’d love to meet you guys! Been watching since your pregnancy with the Quints :)
Is actually common more than you think. My daughter does not have a relationship with her dad. Her choice. But does she have a relationship with your kids or no?
You will be happy with functional dr. I have not been to main stream dr in yrs.
Dear DiDi & Adam, the Outdaughtered show is the most WONDERFUL TV show. I can't believe in the twenty-first century when people watch a TV show, are not able to realise, that show is just a TV show, and make you explain all of these.
Unbelievable!!
Have the girls ever had moments where they didnt anr to be on tv any more or ever hated or have they ever been embarrassed by something they seen themselves do on an older episode?
ho Danielle… the situation with your mother… reminds me soooo mutch of me and my sister, I could cry you know… it’s not the same situation at all then you and your mother, but I had to stop talking to my sister, she was breaking me inside, I feel so bad you know… I had to talk to god too, because I feel very bad about it, we dont have parents anymore… and I feel like I’m abandoning her… but my mental health was suffering a lot… she has a lot of alcool and drug problems…I dont know if it’s me that is selfish, I dont know…. I feel broken sometimes… I love you podcast, not a lot of people talking about god anymore, and I feel better when you all talk about stuff
It’s like when your children come to you asking how babies are are made. Lol 😂 & you all have 6 children to ask you all children are made. I’d love to hear the stories of which one’s of y’all’s children have asked how babies are made & what age they were & how you all explained it to them.
What really did happen between you guys and Mimi? I heard she got arrested and all that, but is it the show that producers that doesn’t let her back on or is it a personal issue?
it's a personal issue. having her around was just too toxic.
What is your autoimmune disease? I watch your show but never heard what it was ? Maybe I missed it ?
I do remember your mom saying "well I am his mother in law" I believe it was in the episode where you were getting pictures taken of the quint's for the first time, and I thought watching it no that is not ok just because you are Danielle's mom Adam's mother in law give you the right to not respect their time.
GREAT Answer to the marriage question. ❤❤❤ Keep God first as the center of your marriage. Amen and Amen 🙏🙏❤️
I bet your daughters really miss Mimi. And vice versa. It is a sad situation.
Do you think your hysterectomy caused your autoimmune disorder?
“But she’s your mom” is a two way street….”but she’s your daughter too!” I had struggles with my own mother and even though I estranged myself from her for my mental health she never reached out to me. I got phone calls from other family “why aren’t you talking for your mother?” Hmmmm maybe that is a phone call she should make. And she didn’t.
Wish Adam was more supportive in understanding that that's your mom and you will always have a door open. It's clear to me you still love her. He should understand that. His body language when you speak about her is anything but understanding or loving.