If this is even true we're only hearing 1 side of the story. I mean if all his friends knew & none of them said anything its not wrong to ask why or what he do to deserve it. Ive known or worked with people that every1 had an issue with or would get into it with yet they were cool with every1 else. However that 1 person would play the victim & act if they were the bad. Im not saying this to victim blame if this is true & he didnt deserve it all power to him but if 1 person is the 1 fighting with every1 else chances are they're the problem not every1 else. Yes there's exceptions to the rule & it could be that every1 else is a pos but it could also be the other way around.
Good on the poster for having the balls to stand their ground and have no regrets cuz dude I'm so tired of these people who get cheated on and come on to the internet and ask guys is there a way to fix this guys I feel guilty because everybody's telling me this and that I'm glad that for once somebody just told everybody to go fuck off
This is a gender-swapped story. In the original OP was female and her boyfriend cheated on her with her female best friend. There are a few tells, like when Ethan said OP was jealous of him because OP's girlfriend wouldn't propose to him, and that OP was trying to "steal his thunder". While it is not unheard of it's very rare for the woman to propose to the man, and a man would not talk about a wedding being his thunder. At one point OP also said he's not a "drama king", which is just a gender swapped version of the original story's "drama queen" which obviously is far more commonly used. Then there are small things like OP talked about taking up journaling, which again is not unheard of for men, but vastly more common for women.
These type of wedding reception revenge stories predates the internet and youtube. Like when they printed out all of their cheating pictures and tape it under the seats at the wedding. Almost all of these stories are either made up or just variations of urban myths.
He literally could of had ANY other girl 💀 choosing his best friends girl was honestly a stupid move especially at the event when ANYONE could of seen them outside in a CAR
GF can feel free to tell everyone that OP is the psycho in this story. But don't forget to tell them about the chapter where GF and Best Friend created the psycho.
So..... I guess after realizing she can't have a guy on the back burner she got married instead? And it couldn't last a year. Ha. She will be back looking for sympathy.
Of course the cheaters married and already got divorced because most likely the excitement of potentially getting caught was the only chemistry they had. She had a lot of nerve trying to turn it back on Op after stringing him along for 8 years and cheating.
Really important advice for younger people, guys and girls: your first relationship, no matter how good it is, will never last. Enjoy every moment and, when it will end, you will suffer immensely but you will, eventually, get over it. If you really want to marry someone WAIT, and absolutely never do it before your 30's, nothing good comes from rushing things. Funny thing is that everyone thinks he will be the exeption, that he's special but in reality we all are humans, some shittier than others but still more similar than you think.
That happened to me in my highschool and I decided to ghost her 😂 and all of my friends called me psycho and this wasn't like me etc... and I also found out my step mother and father who was absent from my life selectively bully me and wanted me to fallen into alcoholism and drugs so they could used me as their religious sacrifice but instead I silently became rich and cut them off also gathered enough evidence, they called me crazy Psychopath again 😂 my siblings called me heartless for being rich and not helping them out. I learned rhat parasite will always be parasites, never be a source of nutrition for them. There are good people out there, but first you need to be good and when you chose to be virtually good, be prepare to face demonic spirit. It is a spiritual war after all but I won the moment I walked with God.
Cant have a rational argument with someone who is in denial and can't accept accountability, and can only blame others for their problems. No need to get angry just be done. In fact going quiet or ghosting drives them crazy. Simple people are responsible for their actions. Someone cheating is on them. Being distant, insecure, weak, or lots of other things is on the person who did it. Accept the consequences for your actions and not for the actions of others. Makes life simpler.
If you would have talked to them, they would have gaslighted you until you were convinced you were wrong. You did it the only way you could. Petty but brilliant
8 years and is not ready yet for marriage? considering she was cheating, in a way it was nice of her not to make the situation even worse. But really, if she isn't excited after so many years, i think it's a good hint this relation has no future.
If she doesnt talk about family within 3 months of dating.. your being strung along. red flag 1: Rushing (after a year) red flag 2: Bickering for a while.
“You didn’t need to humiliate us in public” Everyone in your group knew she was cheating that whole time and didn’t tell the guy? For YEARS? That’s way worse than exposing them. You know what would have saved everyone the humiliation? Not cheating
The only response needed for someone pulling that, "you're no saint yourself" angle is, "I'm not interested in being lectured on morality by degenerate."
Public humiliation is what everyone in the room needed. His family needed to know how degenerate and depraved he is and her family deserved to know that their daughter is trash and lied to them to screw over them and her own sister. Now, no one can rug sweep and all parties are forced to be adults. They all owe you a debt of gratitude for forcing them on a better path.
Yeah. Too bad this story has been gender swapped. The original story can be found in the r/ girl relationship. The OP is a woman. And yes. Women do need to know the difference between a man who wants them vs a man who wants their time, energy and unpaid labor.
The manipulation is laughable. We all have choices to decide what we want to do in relationships. She could have talked out the issues she was having in the relationship before the cheating. But she already let the cat out of the bag, saying she wanted to have a bunch of different partners before she would commit to him. Obviously she doesn't have a high respect for this man. So. If I was him I'd tell her what I'd need to say, then I'd open the front door and stand there until she left
Not only did they hurt you but the fiance and they have the nerve to call you psycotic they are the ones who should be wearing white jackets with extra long sleeves and a nice bow too
So she didn't want to marry this guy who she was 8 years of relationship and 4 years living together with, and married Ethan in just two months? Oh, yeah, the affair has been running for years and this guy was just her meal ticket and ATM who put a roof over her head and released her of being her own breadwinner.
This is one of those things that make you feel like a conquering hero in the moment and is very easy to cheer for on the sidelines, but is also extremely irresponsible. It's going to bring about a cycle of bullshit with many people who had nothing to do with it like the in-laws caught in the crossfire. I can't say I condone it, but I do understand.
3:56 while i'm sure there's much worse things and people and situations in the world at large? From what the poster is describing, those don't sound like friends at all. He could have just said it's not worth it, but considering they were all in the know about this.. And..and we're actually laughing at the situation?? The poster could have responded and done much MUCH worse than dropping this like a bombshell on the wedding day. 6:14 WOW ju- WOW so he's one of THOSE kinda guys huh? One would think that, given that he was counting on this marriage financially, they would have kept some savings for himself. Some skill set some job at LEAST.
gender bent, anyone actually listening can catch on. she not proposing? the fiancee sleeping around with men and risk being disenherited? older by 6y from him? and many others
What? You're saying that I ruined your plans of lying to her parents, not to mention everyone else, so you can leech off her family and do nothing for the rest of your life? Oh, poor BABY....
So he catches them cheating, (believable) then he just some how over hears his friend's talking about it, at the exact moment there talking about him . These fake stories just sounds like some soup opera
Why does the OP give one single rat’s a@@ about hearing how he’d “ruined” Ethan’s life? Everybody in the story - OP, girlfriend, AP and all the friends who knew - is an AH.
Well she's right it took two people to destroy the relationship but she knows it was actually her and the almost groom. He should have texted her that then blocked her.
Who dates a girl for 8 years these days? Really? Damn dude. Thats a long time to be dating ANYONE! IDK. LOL I think that is a little weird. Bill Fisher 2:17
She's calling you a psycho? She strung you along for years .
WAHMEN ☕🙄😮💨😠🤢😡😡😡
Anything a cheater said about you, even it's good or bad, has no substance. Just ignore and avoid her like a dirty public toilet.
She's only mad that she was caught.
Women☕️
If you friends knew and were laughing behind your back...they weren't your friends.
A enemy is always better than a fake friend because unlike a fake friend the enemy will never stab you in the back.
With friends like these who needs enemies
His "friends" was probably taking their turn with her too!
You dodged a bullet mate. Having a terrible partner and terrible friends did you no favors. They were always awful, you just didn't know it yet.
More like a nuclear capable intercontinental ballistic missile
It's not a real story. Just a story
After cheating and betraying OP's trust in worst way possible they have Gaull to call you Psychotic
If this is even true we're only hearing 1 side of the story. I mean if all his friends knew & none of them said anything its not wrong to ask why or what he do to deserve it. Ive known or worked with people that every1 had an issue with or would get into it with yet they were cool with every1 else. However that 1 person would play the victim & act if they were the bad. Im not saying this to victim blame if this is true & he didnt deserve it all power to him but if 1 person is the 1 fighting with every1 else chances are they're the problem not every1 else. Yes there's exceptions to the rule & it could be that every1 else is a pos but it could also be the other way around.
@@whocares8584🤡 🤡 🤡
Remember boys a enemy is always better than a fake friend. Because unlike a fake friend a enemy will never stab you in the back.
The worst part about betrayal is that never comes from an enemy
You are NEVER wrong for telling the TRUTH. You have no obligation to cover up how evil people are. ALWAYS FULLY EXPOSE CHEATERS
A wise fictional character once said:
"Do what must be done. Do not hesitate. Show no mercy."
Dude, you dodged a huge bullet. Your life would have been a giant, continuous migraine.
That was beautiful. They got exactly what they asked for. And clearly those people were not your friends.
Good on the poster for having the balls to stand their ground and have no regrets cuz dude I'm so tired of these people who get cheated on and come on to the internet and ask guys is there a way to fix this guys I feel guilty because everybody's telling me this and that I'm glad that for once somebody just told everybody to go fuck off
THIS.
I hope OP made everybody knows supposed friends knew and helped Ethan and Nicole.
REAL friends or boyfriends/girlfriends don't betray one another in such a degrading manner
This is a gender-swapped story. In the original OP was female and her boyfriend cheated on her with her female best friend. There are a few tells, like when Ethan said OP was jealous of him because OP's girlfriend wouldn't propose to him, and that OP was trying to "steal his thunder". While it is not unheard of it's very rare for the woman to propose to the man, and a man would not talk about a wedding being his thunder. At one point OP also said he's not a "drama king", which is just a gender swapped version of the original story's "drama queen" which obviously is far more commonly used. Then there are small things like OP talked about taking up journaling, which again is not unheard of for men, but vastly more common for women.
I just found the other story on r/girl relationships. Just posted a little while ago.
These type of wedding reception revenge stories predates the internet and youtube. Like when they printed out all of their cheating pictures and tape it under the seats at the wedding. Almost all of these stories are either made up or just variations of urban myths.
Thanks
It's reddit none of this is real
@purpleman223 but yet here we are
"it did take 2 people to ruin the relationship. Her and Ethan" 😂😂😂😂
The best method to expose cheaters is publicly. You control the narrative and they don’t have time to spin the story.
I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again. Anything that can be destroyed by the truth, should be.
dude had a fiance who was willing to go for an open relationship and he still cheated? OP had every right to expose him.
He literally could of had ANY other girl 💀 choosing his best friends girl was honestly a stupid move especially at the event when ANYONE could of seen them outside in a CAR
GF can feel free to tell everyone that OP is the psycho in this story. But don't forget to tell them about the chapter where GF and Best Friend created the psycho.
That's karma 😂
👋 SMACK!😮
"You ruined Ethan's life!"
*GOOD*
😂😂
Me: Cheaters deserve to be ruined. And remain ruined!
If a woman doesn’t want to get married and you do, end the relationship
My man is a real hero. It takes guts to do what he did.
At least he is living better than before
A woman admit when she's wrong. That will never happen , not till the day hell freezes over.
TRIGGERED 😅
BTW it's gender swapped. The original story can be found in the r/ girl relationship. So it was the man unable to admit cheating is wrong. 😅😅😅😅
So..... I guess after realizing she can't have a guy on the back burner she got married instead? And it couldn't last a year. Ha.
She will be back looking for sympathy.
Thats the kind of girl that goes to tiktok asking where are all the nice guys 😂😂
@@ADRIANON3 Don't you mean "where have all the good men gone"? Either way, we all know the answer. 😂
I grew a pair in 6th grade. It changed my life for the better. I recommend it!
She was using him all that time. AINT no telling how many Ethans there were. That's why she wouldn't marry him.
Of course the cheaters married and already got divorced because most likely the excitement of potentially getting caught was the only chemistry they had.
She had a lot of nerve trying to turn it back on Op after stringing him along for 8 years and cheating.
Ew. Instead of leaving she doubled down on the gaslighting??? Glad the trash gave you a reason to have it taken out
Trash took itself out
You really dont need enemies with friends like this
I guess this is the one, this is the comment that we'll have to see 500 times a day for the next 2 years.
He did the right thing
I AM SO HAPPY FOR OP! If you somehow see this I hope things are still going great for you!
Well done. Expose them for the snakes they are. Stay up king 👑
"Is that the sound of the consequences of my actions catching up to me?!?!?!"
Naaa, Ethan ain't homeless. He got 6 friends that should have a place for him since it was all a joke to them anyway.
Hmm he wasn't your friend and the group that knew wasn't your friends 🤔 good on you exposing em she making excuses
Best revenge you ever die. Bro. I’m proud of you 😊
Really important advice for younger people, guys and girls: your first relationship, no matter how good it is, will never last. Enjoy every moment and, when it will end, you will suffer immensely but you will, eventually, get over it.
If you really want to marry someone WAIT, and absolutely never do it before your 30's, nothing good comes from rushing things.
Funny thing is that everyone thinks he will be the exeption, that he's special but in reality we all are humans, some shittier than others but still more similar than you think.
OP: "I make more money than anyone I know working for my dad."
That happened to me in my highschool and I decided to ghost her 😂 and all of my friends called me psycho and this wasn't like me etc... and I also found out my step mother and father who was absent from my life selectively bully me and wanted me to fallen into alcoholism and drugs so they could used me as their religious sacrifice but instead I silently became rich and cut them off also gathered enough evidence, they called me crazy Psychopath again 😂 my siblings called me heartless for being rich and not helping them out.
I learned rhat parasite will always be parasites, never be a source of nutrition for them.
There are good people out there, but first you need to be good and when you chose to be virtually good, be prepare to face demonic spirit. It is a spiritual war after all but I won the moment I walked with God.
Cant have a rational argument with someone who is in denial and can't accept accountability, and can only blame others for their problems. No need to get angry just be done. In fact going quiet or ghosting drives them crazy. Simple people are responsible for their actions. Someone cheating is on them. Being distant, insecure, weak, or lots of other things is on the person who did it. Accept the consequences for your actions and not for the actions of others. Makes life simpler.
If you would have talked to them, they would have gaslighted you until you were convinced you were wrong. You did it the only way you could. Petty but brilliant
8 years and is not ready yet for marriage?
considering she was cheating, in a way it was nice of her not to make the situation even worse.
But really, if she isn't excited after so many years, i think it's a good hint this relation has no future.
If she doesnt talk about family within 3 months of dating.. your being strung along.
red flag 1: Rushing (after a year)
red flag 2: Bickering for a while.
I really would like to know what his "friends" would have said to defend the undefendable.
How people do not realize this is an AI content is beyond me.
People realise. At this point people just watch it for the sake of it, not for actual good content
@ then why comment as they’re talking to the guy from the vid 🤣
@@raiden6513 most peopel, myself included regrettably, are watching tjis at 3am with their brain turned off. And everyone else is in primary school.
@@CubedWatermelon-uy6oki wish you to break this cycle. When i compare my day on 8 hours sleep and less than 6, i never want to skip sleeping
NTA!!
Oh and OP, they are "friends" not friends.....
Oh and Nicole, get your crap and get out...NOW!
“You didn’t need to humiliate us in public”
Everyone in your group knew she was cheating that whole time and didn’t tell the guy? For YEARS? That’s way worse than exposing them.
You know what would have saved everyone the humiliation? Not cheating
This would make a good chic flick, can't believe they're evil people who find it amusing, someone they know getting betrayed
The only response needed for someone pulling that, "you're no saint yourself" angle is,
"I'm not interested in being lectured on morality by degenerate."
The dark dark side of women… gaslighting men so much, it’s wild!!
Bro didn’t just find out he has a cheating girlfriend, but he found out all his friends are fake and aren’t truly his friends
Public humiliation is what everyone in the room needed. His family needed to know how degenerate and depraved he is and her family deserved to know that their daughter is trash and lied to them to screw over them and her own sister. Now, no one can rug sweep and all parties are forced to be adults. They all owe you a debt of gratitude for forcing them on a better path.
Men have to differentiate between women have a problem with them in the relationship to having a problem with being in relationship with them.
Yeah. Too bad this story has been gender swapped. The original story can be found in the r/ girl relationship. The OP is a woman. And yes. Women do need to know the difference between a man who wants them vs a man who wants their time, energy and unpaid labor.
If you leave somewhere and she doesnt leave with you, that's a bad sign
He ruined his own life. If he had an open relationship, the dude's GF did not
The truth can not humiliate you if you haven't done anything wrong. So, it's their own actions humuliated them, not the speech he said
Zero mercy for cheaters bro.
The manipulation is laughable. We all have choices to decide what we want to do in relationships. She could have talked out the issues she was having in the relationship before the cheating. But she already let the cat out of the bag, saying she wanted to have a bunch of different partners before she would commit to him. Obviously she doesn't have a high respect for this man. So. If I was him I'd tell her what I'd need to say, then I'd open the front door and stand there until she left
Nope, HE ruined HIS life by being a POS. You simply shined a light on the darkness that they both created for themselves, good riddance!
Don't you just love gaslighting from a narcissist?? 😅
I saw an exact gender swapped version of this the other day...
Same story. TH-cam just wanted to give the XY's a comments section to express their misogyny freely.
He is committing self delete all over again.
Not your best friend and not your friends ... ditch them all
Man dodged an artillery shell. And ehh, life... life is a beach.
Not only did they hurt you but the fiance and they have the nerve to call you psycotic they are the ones who should be wearing white jackets with extra long sleeves and a nice bow too
At least the ex fiancé doesn’t have to worry about getting her inheritance all she has to say is I don’t ever want a man again
“She wanted to explore because for the past 8 years she had only been with me”
Umm, except for cheating with ‘Ethan’?
So she didn't want to marry this guy who she was 8 years of relationship and 4 years living together with, and married Ethan in just two months?
Oh, yeah, the affair has been running for years and this guy was just her meal ticket and ATM who put a roof over her head and released her of being her own breadwinner.
This is one of those things that make you feel like a conquering hero in the moment and is very easy to cheer for on the sidelines, but is also extremely irresponsible. It's going to bring about a cycle of bullshit with many people who had nothing to do with it like the in-laws caught in the crossfire. I can't say I condone it, but I do understand.
Sad simp regrets not being more considerate of the scum whom completely betrayed him.
Wow, lol
He doesn’t regret anything, he actively says so 🫤
Um, it's gender swapped. The original story the OP is a woman. Is she a simp?
Why does Ethan’s fiance need permission from her family if she is a grown ass woman?
Lies and fantasy. Literary incontinency reveals it.
3:56 while i'm sure there's much worse things and people and situations in the world at large? From what the poster is describing, those don't sound like friends at all. He could have just said it's not worth it, but considering they were all in the know about this.. And..and we're actually laughing at the situation?? The poster could have responded and done much MUCH worse than dropping this like a bombshell on the wedding day.
6:14 WOW ju- WOW so he's one of THOSE kinda guys huh? One would think that, given that he was counting on this marriage financially, they would have kept some savings for himself. Some skill set some job at LEAST.
gender bent, anyone actually listening can catch on. she not proposing? the fiancee sleeping around with men and risk being disenherited? older by 6y from him? and many others
Some adults can not realise their are been gaslighted.. OP should have just kicked her out rather then arguing..
Come on dude they were humiliating you in public obviously if all your friends knew
You got with a groupie from the start.
Nah man th3 families needed to know exactly what eas happening
Why cheating is not a crime ?
If you dont want to be called out in public treat ke right in private that simple.
What? You're saying that I ruined your plans of lying to her parents, not to mention everyone else, so you can leech off her family and do nothing for the rest of your life? Oh, poor BABY....
Rage bait fake story
Why would OP give a sh*t about what Nicole thinks?
That's why the average cheater is a very stupid person 😅
How about not doing something that could ruin your whole life?
There's no way this is true. Who cheats on their wedding day? And what kind of people think that is funny and support it?
Her being immoral is not your fault
This is the most ridiculously fake story I've heard.
"And then the whole wedding party clapped." /r/thathappened 🙄
Fake ass story😂
So Ethan couldn’t go to one of the friends that knew he was cheating? They didn’t want to take him in? Wonder why.
Friends? Those ware not friends acquaintances yes but not friends.
People like to use friend word so loose those days.
Why does this guy want to give all his stuff away by getting married .
Because the story is gender swapped. The OP is actually a woman.
So he catches them cheating, (believable) then he just some how over hears his friend's talking about it, at the exact moment there talking about him . These fake stories just sounds like some soup opera
Why does the OP give one single rat’s a@@ about hearing how he’d “ruined” Ethan’s life? Everybody in the story - OP, girlfriend, AP and all the friends who knew - is an AH.
Because OP is actually a woman. The story has been gender swapped
Well she's right it took two people to destroy the relationship but she knows it was actually her and the almost groom. He should have texted her that then blocked her.
8 years of kd cheating.
Bruh, you been with chick for 8 years and she's the one not agreeing to marriage??? Come on man. That alone should've told you something was up.
Who dates a girl for 8 years these days? Really? Damn dude. Thats a long time to be dating ANYONE! IDK. LOL I think that is a little weird. Bill Fisher 2:17
Yea 😅 And I thought 5yrs was forever before I got married..8yrs? 😭😭
The story is gender swapped. The OP is actually a woman and SHE stayed because HE probably strung her alomg
This story fake or true and others like it coupled with my life experience is why i don't trust anyone.
Thats a friend not a brother or homie no loyalty
... Consequences!
I know i shouldn't feel happy with others misery, but I can't stop smiling with Ethan's current life
And Nicole is a very big Wh
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I meant to say done when I said die. Sorry type error