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    Watch the BBC first on iPlayer 👉 bbc.in/iPlayer-Home Booted from the streets of West Philadelphia to stay with his auntie and uncle in Bel-Air, Will Smith is the new prince in town.
    In this episode, Will is reunited with his father Lou, but Vivian and Philip won't forgive him for abandoning Will and his mother fourteen years' ago.
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  • @pustulio81
    @pustulio81 ปีที่แล้ว +2751

    I love that Uncle Phil stood there and let Will vent on him and only stepped in to comfort him when the time was right. That's a REAL father, right there 🥺

    • @jimnfl7134
      @jimnfl7134 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      He realized there was Still a Father Figure in his Life.

    • @jsharps1000
      @jsharps1000 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Great summary of the scene and what everybody was aware of. such a great summary.

    • @TheByrd8992
      @TheByrd8992 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Applause to that👏👏👏👏

    • @alexpazmino4762
      @alexpazmino4762 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      real life right there . Loved this show .

    • @SwitchShmup
      @SwitchShmup 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      He was a father figure for all us growing up

  • @mimblewimble12
    @mimblewimble12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6190

    "How come he don't want me?"- the one thing every child with an absentee dad asks themselves. Absolutely heartbreaking but the writing (and acting) were both spot on 😭

    • @fedrickwilliam153
      @fedrickwilliam153 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Hi mimblewimble

    • @gregmarquez8720
      @gregmarquez8720 3 ปีที่แล้ว +162

      I'm 44 almost 45 and I still ask why my dad doesn't want me. Worse part when I was going through Cancer treatment, which was super hard, constant er and hospital visits not once did my dad call or offer to come out and help. That was the nail in the coffin for me. He's dead to me.

    • @gary8862
      @gary8862 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      There are many fathers trying their absolute hardest to have a loving relationship with their children only to have their efforts sabotaged by bitter, toxic mothers / ex partners.

    • @ShogoMakishimaxx
      @ShogoMakishimaxx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I wonder why just about ANYONE didn't want me albeit my dad. He had two other boys that he raised with no issues with his wife. He just didn't want me, just like so many others in my life (but they wanted my sister though), but guess what? My life is way better now than it ever was. They say that the less people that you have around, the less drama that you find yourself in and oh boy, isn't that the truth.
      Yeah it still hurts, but I'll get over that eventually.

    • @fedrickwilliam153
      @fedrickwilliam153 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ShogoMakishimaxx Hi

  • @calebsoria1901
    @calebsoria1901 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +390

    "he may have been your father but he wasnt your daddy."

    • @TexesKai
      @TexesKai 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Quote for guardian of the galaxy 2

    • @odasjockstrap1409
      @odasjockstrap1409 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s not a father just the sperm donor

    • @captainjacksparrow1518
      @captainjacksparrow1518 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      - Mary Poppins

    • @undertheseaabovethesky
      @undertheseaabovethesky 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      oh but he was. he was everything to me.

  • @stephenmutke3377
    @stephenmutke3377 ปีที่แล้ว +1008

    Whenever I see this episode, it always gets me in tears.
    I especially love how silent the audience is and you can hear an audience member who is crying and let's out a little wail of sadness.
    This scene is just absolutely amazing

    • @paigecrossland4289
      @paigecrossland4289 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      That was the actress who plays Hilary that we hear crying 😢

    • @warequacksdomain6654
      @warequacksdomain6654 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      I was told that the thing about this scene is that Will legitimately broke down while playing this scene because his actual father left him.

    • @tashacampbell3881
      @tashacampbell3881 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      Wrong. His father did not leave him. Will literally has interviews where he said he struggled to nail this scene and that James Avery was his number one critic and motivator and due to this, he killed that scene to prove to James that he could do it and to gain acceptance by him.

    • @joelkoch3916
      @joelkoch3916 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree with you on this

    • @wolverineisdaman
      @wolverineisdaman 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@warequacksdomain6654 Will's dad didn't walk out. But Will had a lot of friends from childhood who's dads did. So he was channeling that emotion

  • @GiratinaofFury
    @GiratinaofFury 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4792

    Uncle Phil was the father Will needed. He would make sure he was a disciplined individual, and whilst he would be angry and have a short fuse, he would never raise a hand at him, but when Will was genuinely in trouble or was upset, Phil would always be there to help him.

    • @JD-xn4ls
      @JD-xn4ls 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Exactly, and when will needed him too, uncle Phil would break out Lucille

    • @CHEVYCAMARO4GEN
      @CHEVYCAMARO4GEN 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      He had his times when he joke around, he was definitely some father.

    • @evanhanson6924
      @evanhanson6924 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Uncle Phil the goat

    • @BrendonakaShanks
      @BrendonakaShanks 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Indeed. His dad was gutless. Is always going to be. There is no truth a boy like Lou could tell with it being in fact a total lie.

    • @aaroncreek180
      @aaroncreek180 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      RIP uncle Phil

  • @ConstantChinner
    @ConstantChinner 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2137

    Ben Vereen stated in an interview that he broke into tears himself after walking out the camera shot to leave Will. Vareen, a father himself, couldn't imagine doing that to his children.

    • @ryandiggs750
      @ryandiggs750 ปีที่แล้ว +140

      He definitely played that bad guy character on this episode

    • @etiennedelaunois1737
      @etiennedelaunois1737 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      ​@ryandiggs750 that's an actor mate. That's the job.

    • @tjudah9022
      @tjudah9022 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      Great acting as Vareen showed pain on his face as he was called by his first name from his son.
      Not too much so I can just only imagine what was going on off screen.

    • @Harris665
      @Harris665 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yet he did it again in how I met your mother

    • @3wydreamer147
      @3wydreamer147 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@Harris665 a professional actor indeed

  • @leonardowilson7709
    @leonardowilson7709 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +165

    The way uncle Phil hugged Will when he said “how come he don’t want me man”, it’s like he was showing Will “Screw him, I want you”

    • @peteryanes3413
      @peteryanes3413 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yup that how I saw it

    • @t.s.s9726
      @t.s.s9726 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Right

    • @DevilMan88
      @DevilMan88 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's exactly what was happening in that scene though

    • @transcendencia3550
      @transcendencia3550 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Now that is a Real man

  • @officerrebar3839
    @officerrebar3839 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

    Will’s dad never left. Phil was there the entire time

  • @AA-qb7ni
    @AA-qb7ni 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3265

    Will's best performance was in this episode. Such an emotional scene. Gets me every time.

    • @skip8593
      @skip8593 2 ปีที่แล้ว +155

      That actually wasn’t part of the script. He was supposed to just brush it off but will smiths dad did actually leave him when he was younger and so will fell apart on the set and they kept it in. If you listen the last few seconds of the video you can hear other people crying. That wasn’t written in..

    • @bserg24
      @bserg24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Everytime!! 😢

    • @justinpullin98
      @justinpullin98 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@skip8593
      Justin Pullin, anastasia majoras
      Todd Pullin

    • @AcyMinor
      @AcyMinor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @@skip8593 kinda explains the situation with Jada he didn’t want to be like his dad and now is being damaged in an unhealthy relationship

    • @aishab6021
      @aishab6021 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Still gets me here in 2022 😢😢

  • @WCLCooke
    @WCLCooke 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2145

    Years later, those acting skills earned him an Oscar. Well deserved.

    • @mf1779
      @mf1779 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      THANK YOU!

    • @Shuthefrontdoor
      @Shuthefrontdoor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +169

      And also a slap for someone special 😭

    • @WCLCooke
      @WCLCooke 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      @@Shuthefrontdoor let’s not talk about that.

    • @bradmiles1984
      @bradmiles1984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Except he wasn't acting for alot of it. he literally just said everything he wanted to say to his father in real life who was an abusive alcoholic who would beat his mother. Here's an line from his book "As a child I'd always told myself that I would one day avenge my mother. That when I was big enough, when I was strong enough, when I was no longer a coward, I would slay him,"

    • @mikejefferson8161
      @mikejefferson8161 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Will Smith is a legend

  • @ionlyspeakfacts.1862
    @ionlyspeakfacts.1862 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    It was the “ To hell with him!! ” and “ How come he don’t want me? ” Gets me every time.

  • @peacefworld
    @peacefworld 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +222

    2:22 somebody crying in the background. Will is a tremendous actor. So was Uncle Phil.

    • @aaronkenyon7112
      @aaronkenyon7112 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

      Apparently that was Karyn Parsons (Hilary) sobbing

    • @elizabethfrancina4606
      @elizabethfrancina4606 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Omg yes😢😢😢😢😢

  • @mrsm222
    @mrsm222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1322

    Every young boy forced to grow up without his father deserves an Uncle Phil. I just wish there were more to go around.

    • @CptCream7
      @CptCream7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Facts

    • @coreyondavis6032
      @coreyondavis6032 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      actually have one. we need more

    • @ViperXXXXXXX
      @ViperXXXXXXX ปีที่แล้ว +12

      A whole hell of a lot better than my Uncle Mike. In fact Uncle Phil was a better father to his nephew than most fathers.

    • @SylvainCosmos
      @SylvainCosmos ปีที่แล้ว +19

      My "Uncle Phil" was actually my grandfather. He was the main father figure in my life.

    • @aprilsinclair3668
      @aprilsinclair3668 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He's an actor..."Uncle Phil "isn't real

  • @MrMac8625
    @MrMac8625 2 ปีที่แล้ว +907

    As a man that didn't have a father growing up, this gets me every time. They absolutely nailed the emotions in this scene

    • @lilcas03
      @lilcas03 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same here bro

    • @voiceofreason1613
      @voiceofreason1613 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too

    • @jonflan691
      @jonflan691 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      100%, i had a friend who was just like Will, and I remember him angry at first and then crying the same way. All I could do was hold him.

    • @DJ.ShawZzZ
      @DJ.ShawZzZ ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here man 👌🏻😔

    • @ostentatiousostrich
      @ostentatiousostrich 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Man, this hits close to home here too. But hey, at least my kids profit from it, because he showed me how NOT to be a father.

  • @ritchybinoo9150
    @ritchybinoo9150 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    "How come he don't want me man!?"
    Mother of all tearjerkers❣️

  • @aamira890
    @aamira890 2 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    Uncle Phil is the dad we all want but Lou is the dad most of us got.

    • @ChangesConstant
      @ChangesConstant 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      33% isn’t most but it sure is a sadly huge number sorry to y’all who didn’t have a father present hope its not eating you nowadays

    • @YFL.111
      @YFL.111 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I think people should avoid going through life thinking that whatever that happened to them is the norm.
      You think that it makes the pain more bearable but no, in fact its the perfect mindset for you to always see reality through the frame of your wounds and never be able to have something better.
      Example: your father was a bad man.
      Then you assume most man are like that.
      Because you assume that you dont even see the good ones.
      Then somehow your assumptions bring you to be with a man exactly as your dad.
      And then you get your view on reality even more reinforced " see! All man are like that"
      While it was you all along, who lived and created everything according to the small frame of what happened in childhood.
      Step out of there my friend! I don't even know many people who dont have a father there are many wonderful dedicated fathers out there.
      You may ask then why your one left... Its not about you its about him.
      Some people have limitations inside, and they cannot be parents.
      Later on they have too much guilt and just avoid the family. Its not about the kid, never.

  • @dtrix10kc
    @dtrix10kc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +929

    This scene is absolutely heartbreaking. I remember when this episode aired. The moment a child faces the reality that his absentee father doesn't want him and will never be in his life. Fantastic acting by Will. His finest moment on television.

    • @bradmiles1984
      @bradmiles1984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Alot of it comes from a real place, his own father was a violent drunk who beat his mother. All the talk about not needing Lou and how he'll be a better father comes from Will's personal pain. He wrote about it in his book.

    • @themangastand8475
      @themangastand8475 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No wills father was very supportive.​@@bradmiles1984

    • @Beardo2517
      @Beardo2517 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@bradmiles1984 not even remotely true

    • @bradmiles1984
      @bradmiles1984 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @Beardo2517 it's all true. Will has talked about it. In his last book he talked about how when he was 9 he watched his father punch his mom in the side of the head so hard she collapses and spit out blood. There were multiple news articles talked about that part of the book.

    • @bradmiles1984
      @bradmiles1984 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Beardo2517 straight from his book "My father was violent, but he was also at every game, play, and recital. He was an alcoholic, but he was sober at every premiere of every one of my movies," he writes. "He listened to every record. He visited every studio. The same intense perfectionism that terrorized his family put food on the table every night of my life."

  • @Mx.Phoenix
    @Mx.Phoenix 2 ปีที่แล้ว +440

    Something I love about this scene is how Will's determined to have a good life despite how his father's treated him.

    • @thundermothstudio5446
      @thundermothstudio5446 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      They say the best revenge is a life well lived. Will definitely got his best revenge.

    • @aaronkenyon7112
      @aaronkenyon7112 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The best way you can get back at somebody is to let them know you don't need them

    • @cameronno6039
      @cameronno6039 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Funny enough, it's easy to say what you will do until you get in the scenario yourself. I tend to think most absent fathers are away primarily because of abusive, controlling mothers. Not always the case, but the system favors single mother households despite statistically worse outcomes.

    • @nelsongranzow1197
      @nelsongranzow1197 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@cameronno6039your child will come to realize the person that both of you are and probably won't forgive you just because of your wife's actions unless you really try to stay in their life
      just saying "it was your mother's fault" will destroy the family

    • @cameronno6039
      @cameronno6039 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@nelsongranzow1197 IDKY you phrase that directed at me as if I'm saying I'm an absent father. You have no idea of my parental arrangement or factors.
      Regardless, what a person forgives is specific to each individual. Some see the BS. Others grow to see it later. Any parental absence implies a broken family to begin with. Applying appropriate blame to either side makes no substantive difference from that regard. I'm just saying that the absence (fair or unfair) is generally the control of the custodial party. Blaming men or espousing someone as absent or deadbeat fails to recognize the actual common factors.

  • @raimeihakke1020
    @raimeihakke1020 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +212

    When Will says "You too, Lou", Lou throws a subtle "damn". He knows he fucked up but he's too coward to stay or apologize, he runs away from the scene immediately.
    Brilliant acting from Ben Vereen too. The scene hit him so hard he broke in tears after leaving the stage.

    • @aaronkenyon7112
      @aaronkenyon7112 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Classic Lou. Doing what he does best: Walking away when things get too difficult. Perfect example of a coward

    • @username-zj9id
      @username-zj9id 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That word was actually the most important part of the scene. By calling him by his name instead of Dad, he is defining their relationship from that point forward

    • @aaronkenyon7112
      @aaronkenyon7112 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@username-zj9id Probably the biggest way you can insult your own father is by calling him by his own name. Pretty much their equivalent of "You're dead to me"

    • @HannibalKantter
      @HannibalKantter 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@aaronkenyon7112Not that extreme, but it's definitely a way of saying: "I don't see you as a father, or a respected figure, anymore, but as a mere acquaintance."

    • @MrPoetistic85
      @MrPoetistic85 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@HannibalKantter ​nah, he had it right the first time. "From now on, I'll pretend you don't exist, and my kids will never know you."

  • @AS-bp2zr
    @AS-bp2zr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    As someone whose father was identical to this man. I must say, to this day. Some of the best tv/film to capture the emotions I've felt for nearly 40 years.

  • @ashwinghimire4527
    @ashwinghimire4527 3 ปีที่แล้ว +853

    *"You too, Lou"*
    What an acting, even for somebody of Will Smith's stature!👌

    • @andrescovers5278
      @andrescovers5278 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      It wasnt acting he was actually heartbroken cause hi s father left him in irl too

    • @ashwinghimire4527
      @ashwinghimire4527 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@andrescovers5278 ikr, but still damn.

    • @Pattyricia992
      @Pattyricia992 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@andrescovers5278 That is not true. Will Smith has said in multiple interviews that his father was very active in his life and helped him to become the man he is. Don't take away from this *incredible* acting by spreading lies about Will and his father.

    • @andrescovers5278
      @andrescovers5278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Pattyricia992 oh im sorry i did not know the whole truth

    • @Pattyricia992
      @Pattyricia992 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@andrescovers5278 It happens! I just really think this scene shows his talent, that he can play it *that* well and it not be because he lived through it.

  • @jsanto210
    @jsanto210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +505

    It's heartbreaking once you realize Will, behind all the goofiness and smiles was honestly a scared kid who had to learn to bounce back from difficult situations cause he really only had himself

    • @dachargedduck8636
      @dachargedduck8636 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It’s crazy how defense mechanisms work.

    • @TediBearProductions
      @TediBearProductions ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It’s a sellout comment, but he did have uncle Phil.

    • @aaronkenyon7112
      @aaronkenyon7112 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Well he did have his mom but yeah. All the stuff a dad is supposed to teach him, he had to learn by himself. Like how he says he learned how to shave cause I can imagine Vy couldn't, same as learning how to drive or play basketball.

    • @jamesdemile4181
      @jamesdemile4181 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TediBearProductions not fully a sellout comment. You’re just hating but I get why

    • @loremipsum980
      @loremipsum980 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I have a father in my life, but he's just so uncaring and emotionally distant most of the time that he has never sat down and taught me anything about life and stuff. Sure, he works hard to pay the bills and child support, but other than that, he just sorta "exists" in my life. Never really acted like a "father" to me.
      Is this ANY different from not having a dad at all, or am I just being ungrateful?

  • @Half-V
    @Half-V ปีที่แล้ว +114

    Just saw this episode last night while expecting a great laugh I also experienced a great cry. The line "You too, Lou" is so powerful. It represents Will's father as some stranger he just met rather than the father he was that took care of him. "How come he don't want me?" was the ultimate finisher line that ends the episode with tears dropping from my eyes.

  • @RapFanatic4ever
    @RapFanatic4ever ปีที่แล้ว +87

    First things first R.I.P. uncle Phill . The father that Will and so many of us needed but didn’t realize it at the time. Till we get older . This scene never fails to hit me in the feels 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @vulpes6144
    @vulpes6144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +417

    I have seen this scene hundreds of times: it will never cease to get tears from me

    • @LeoLopez-kb5gv
      @LeoLopez-kb5gv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      if you don’t tear up while watching this scene you ain’t human

    • @thesourpretzel
      @thesourpretzel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LeoLopez-kb5gv rs

    • @jeffb4762
      @jeffb4762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      EVERYTIME ‼️

    • @archipelago93
      @archipelago93 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same 😖

  • @fishtv3645
    @fishtv3645 2 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    The way he screams "damn him" and the agony in that scream, I felt that

    • @atefarblli2293
      @atefarblli2293 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      I think he screamed to hell with himm but it still breaks my heart

    • @yugiohgames104
      @yugiohgames104 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I thought he said "To hell with him"

    • @ahmedadventures1999
      @ahmedadventures1999 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That broke me… 😢😭😓

  • @isaiahwatkins1502
    @isaiahwatkins1502 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    "I'll call you next week & iron out the details" Will knew that call was never coming

  • @KennuhWayne
    @KennuhWayne 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Phil and Will's performance in this scene was nothing less than perfect.

  • @christymclaughlin618
    @christymclaughlin618 3 ปีที่แล้ว +520

    That's when James Avery (Uncle Phil) whispered in his ear and said "Now that's acting"

    • @JD-xn4ls
      @JD-xn4ls 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      No he didn’t, he said “break out Lucille”

    • @almadixon-cider31
      @almadixon-cider31 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@JD-xn4ls No he Didn't, He Said "It's Cause You're Too Light Skinned"

    • @JD-xn4ls
      @JD-xn4ls 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@0_.h035 you misunderstand Christys comment. That's actually what happened. Ive seen Will say it in interviews

    • @JD-xn4ls
      @JD-xn4ls 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jarbles9915 sent link below, I missed out an f word lol but same thing I've heard it in so many will smith interviews

    • @adrianaficarrotta689
      @adrianaficarrotta689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@JD-xn4ls the sad part is in that same interview he said it was true emotion, Will's dad wasnt there for him.

  • @oranganewton
    @oranganewton 2 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    2:20 you can hear cast members crying off set. The acting here is amazing

    • @badrabbits_select
      @badrabbits_select 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's someone of the audience, this was a film on live

    • @YoutubeFan76147
      @YoutubeFan76147 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      No. That was Karyn Parsons (Hillary) ​@@badrabbits_select

  • @SheyD78
    @SheyD78 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    This is gold standard television right here. You feel every inch of his pain, even if you've never been there. For anyone who has, you deserved better. I wish everyone in that position could have an Uncle Phil to get through it with.

  • @michelinechedid3311
    @michelinechedid3311 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    Man that scene is so awesome because I know what that feeling is

    • @kingdavid6749
      @kingdavid6749 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As a black man " been here

    • @Prototyphoon64
      @Prototyphoon64 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      As a Hispanic man I been there as well

    • @michelinechedid3311
      @michelinechedid3311 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too boys I'm from Europe spain same thing as well its okay we are strong

    • @Justdoit20024
      @Justdoit20024 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel it it too my dads in Africas he a good man but I didn’t see him until I was 21 my mum and Steop dad split up when I was 17 n he didn’t want to know i respect my father but he wasn’t there for a lot I feel the pain from wills voice and I did hate my father at one point but I realise it’s circumstances and he does love me we are just so far ways and our cultures our different but he could of done more 😢

  • @sonnycormany
    @sonnycormany 3 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    When James Avery died, this was the scene I looked for. Saw this episode when it aired with my mother. She always wanted her woman chasing dad to want to be part of her life. She and my dad owned a statuary store in the 70s. When Will pulls out the present, she lost it. I told her, (me with the great parents) what I’d say to any who are left behind. You could have been the most spectacular human being, he still would have left. HE couldn’t handle anything. Child abandonment is the Ultimate “it’s not you, it’s him.”

    • @Venom...01
      @Venom...01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What ep is this

    • @Princesssliaa
      @Princesssliaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What episode is this

    • @blackiemittens
      @blackiemittens 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      From the 4th season. Episode title (appropriately) “Papa’s got a Brand New Excuse.”

  • @nataliatothemoon
    @nataliatothemoon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    The zoom in on the statue Will got as a gift in the end 😭 it was of a father holding his son.

  • @Mariaaaaaaaa213
    @Mariaaaaaaaa213 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    When his voice nearly breaks when he said hed get through college without him.

  • @malfaroangel3896
    @malfaroangel3896 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    My mom passed when I was 9, my dad has been extremely supportive and caring to me. Am now 29 and with a single call he will drop everything to help me in any situation. I can see him starting to get up there in age but still goes out his way for me and my sister. The day he passes away, I don’t know how am gonna handle it

    • @samanthasmith4038
      @samanthasmith4038 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I am so sorry for your loss I can’t even imagine. Losing my mother almost killed me but I was an adult I can’t imagine that happening when I was a kid. I still feel like a kid inside though. I am in same situation you are I just have my dad and he’s a great dad. It’s so hard getting older and the circle of life and death. So very hard. My dad is getting up there too. I guess all we can do is let them know how much they mean to us now. Theirs nothing else we really can do.

    • @jesuscage
      @jesuscage 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I lost my dad in 2016, we all knew he was at the end of his rope but it still hit us all hard when he did pass, I was only 28 he was 61, u can never be ready for it

  • @cj8803
    @cj8803 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    "You too, LOU." WOW. That's STILL a sting in my HEART. Will was LIVID AND HURT!

  • @kezzoliver
    @kezzoliver 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1952

    This was one of Will Smith's finest acting moments. It's a shame the passion behind it came from a poor relationship with his real dad. You can see Uncle Phil just desperate to hold him and help him through his pain.

    • @reliablereindeer
      @reliablereindeer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      It’s a myth that a similar thing happened to Will

    • @kezzoliver
      @kezzoliver 3 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      @@reliablereindeer I have seen an interview with Will Smith where he talks about a very strained relationship with his father. I know his father didn't leave in real life but he was abusive to Will's mother which caused tensions and anger.

    • @libertybee1307
      @libertybee1307 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@reliablereindeer sorry it’s not a rumour

    • @Evanbarrera
      @Evanbarrera 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Read Will Smith's new book, it is 100% a rumor lol

    • @lumossk3657
      @lumossk3657 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Evanbarrera Yeah but he was also really abusive and Will had a complicated relationship with him, I get the feeling that something of that is shinning through, even though he would never admit it

  • @TheMrluke555
    @TheMrluke555 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    You can even hear someone in the audience cry at the End. This Scene is fantastically powerful.

    • @kdawg_1529
      @kdawg_1529 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's Hilary 😢

  • @dragonduke5872
    @dragonduke5872 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The way Phil just lets him work through everything and doesn’t interrupt or tell him not to raise his voice but just sits until he starts crying and then comforts him

  • @13billy
    @13billy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +905

    Such an emotional delivery. A lot of the ending wasn’t scripted, it’s why you can hear Hilary crying in the background and it’s why Uncle Phil throws Will’s hat away

    • @Musicz4
      @Musicz4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      Where did you get that Lie from? Will Smith said in an Interview that this scene was retaken like hundred times because James Avery kept saying it's not good enough yet.
      And while this scene finally happened, he said "Now thats good acting"

    • @charlielee957
      @charlielee957 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@Musicz4 finally someone else that said this all I hear is that lie and it gets frustrating after a while lol

    • @anjaaly
      @anjaaly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I've never noticed this and it's real you can hear a woman cry at the end

    • @pogbackdunya7864
      @pogbackdunya7864 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Is this babar from peterborough?

    • @NaimaNaima0608
      @NaimaNaima0608 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      For anyone who disagrees, just listen carefully. You can hear a woman’s voice for a split second in the background

  • @MMG_MoonManGuitar
    @MMG_MoonManGuitar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    I'm still crying now. 😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @Anonymous-rz3zv
    @Anonymous-rz3zv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I was 6 years old when my sperm donor walked out, and never came back. I was 13 or 14 years old when I saw this episode, and damn! It made me cry instantly. I am 37 yeats old, and it still gets to me.

  • @aaronmckechnie4467
    @aaronmckechnie4467 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    One of the most powerful scenes in television ever. It's like it's real and not acting. Makes you cry. Very powerful scene.

  • @Pleasedontmakeascene
    @Pleasedontmakeascene 3 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    One of the hardest hitting moments in TV history.

  • @ilovemydog6847
    @ilovemydog6847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    You would need a heart of stone not to be touched by that performance. Will is SUCH a brilliant actor.

    • @bradmiles1984
      @bradmiles1984 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Look into Will's real life dad and you get a whole new perspective. His dad was a violent drunk who used to beat his mom infront of him. He talked about it in his book. That scene was things he wanted to say to his real dad when growing up.

  • @Tonystarkes888
    @Tonystarkes888 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    This scene was definitely showing will smith’s acting chops, recently he has found his acting groove two movies in a row at a completely method level of acting

  • @J_GoTTi
    @J_GoTTi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Rest in Peace Uncle Phil….

  • @IofSheikah
    @IofSheikah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +468

    I can’t relate to this directly, my father has always been in my life, but I’d be lying if this hasn’t made me cry my eyes out every single time.

    • @Deridus
      @Deridus 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Absofreakinglutely.

    • @Mr6843dj
      @Mr6843dj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      unfortunately I can. this part and Tupac's line in keep ya head up 'Cause ain't nothin' worse than when your son
      Wants to kno' why his daddy don't love him no mo'
      I love me son to no end tho! dont know how a parent could not want to be apart of their child's life🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @Deridus
      @Deridus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Mr6843dj I know this might sound odd, but... ( *HUG* )

    • @IofSheikah
      @IofSheikah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Mr6843dj aye dude.. All kids deserve parents but not all parents deserve kids, the sad truth man. And that song hits different cuz so little songs talk about stuff like that

    • @conradsutton1456
      @conradsutton1456 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My parents were separated but my dad was there. It hurts because you do have yiur father and can't imagine the pain this must be.

  • @user-ps1zx5ge8w
    @user-ps1zx5ge8w 3 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    it was heartwrenching the first time i saw Will in this scene and, just as painful to watch now.
    it is heartbreaking that this is any child's reality.

    • @Sailorjerry46
      @Sailorjerry46 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I work at a group home for indigenous kids in Canada. Wills reality is more common than you can imagine. Let me just say that Will is extremely lucky to have an uncle Phil.

  • @ddjsoyenby
    @ddjsoyenby ปีที่แล้ว +16

    this is still one of the best "special episode" moments in sitcom history, everything about the acting and writing is perfect i love how even though will ignored phils warnings he was nothing but supportive and is the father will needed.

  • @UlookGone
    @UlookGone 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I’m 37 and I still need my dad I’ll never have that

  • @chantellecorter3808
    @chantellecorter3808 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This had my son crying. His biological father walked out of his life & my son felt this.

  • @samavery7969
    @samavery7969 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    This is one of the best acted scenes of any show and it still gets me every time

    • @richard7645
      @richard7645 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      All you get his fake crap acting on tiktok

  • @tyrano1982
    @tyrano1982 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This scene still gives me the goosebumbs after so many years... RIP James Avery, we will not forget you for a long time.

  • @julianlinsel4346
    @julianlinsel4346 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    One of the best episodes ever and the main reason why we love the show so much.

  • @xx420assassinx5
    @xx420assassinx5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    This scene really hits you in the feels when you realize what he's been through in this episode and as a person whose father abandoned him I fully understand

    • @toxixgamer3060
      @toxixgamer3060 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Also it's the fact that when Will gave that speech about father and shit, part of it is improvised because before in his childhood he experienced the same thing about his own father for leaving him, so this scene is genuine, acting and real

    • @Y0uKnoWh0
      @Y0uKnoWh0 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@toxixgamer3060 His father never abandoned him. Will writes about his Dad in his memoir. His dad physically abused Wills mother and they divorced when he was a teenager, but his Dad played a large role in his life. Will writes that his Dad attended every game, recital, play, and supported him in his acting career as well as music. He had mixed feelings about his father.

  • @MackDaddyVic
    @MackDaddyVic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Damn… that hit hard. Safe to assume this is the most crucial scene in Fresh Prince that probably got Will Smith noticed BIG TIME! Such a phenomenal actor. Gives me goosebumps and shivers down my spine towards the end during that hug. You can really feel it.

  • @TimothySlickback
    @TimothySlickback 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    One of the best episodes. Will went on to be a successful rapper, an A list actor, a great father, a loyal husband, and just an all around stellar individual. I could never turn my back on this guy over one act. R.I.P. TO UNCLE PHIL

    • @EtoTheKay
      @EtoTheKay 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stellar individual? Have you not seen "The Slap Heard Round the World"? I used to be a HUGE Will Smith fan, and I grew up on the FPOBA show. It was and still is my fav show ever. But...Will Smith has gotten weird. The slap, his weird kids, his weird marriage. Still a fan of his, but nowhere near like before.

  • @jewelahmed2670
    @jewelahmed2670 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    We could all use a man like uncle Phil in our lives. Now there was a role model.

  • @AndrewD8Red
    @AndrewD8Red 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    The thing about the acting and the emotion in this scene... It wasn't rare on this show. They didn't push it too often, but most of the cast had fantastic talent, and whenever the emotion needed to hit, it hit hard.

    • @bradmiles1984
      @bradmiles1984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah they usually had a couple episodes per season that really hit the emotions. This one was just especially powerful for Will because it's him getting off his chest everything he wanted to say to his abusive father when he was growing up. The guy was a drunk who used to beat his mom infront of Will.

  • @juliestumpf7663
    @juliestumpf7663 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I can relate so much. Met my father at 22, visited him on the other side of the US 3 different times over the years. Haven’t heard from him in 15+ years.

  • @AndyMartMusic
    @AndyMartMusic 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    “ First things first rest in peace Uncle Phil
    For real, you the only father that I ever knew…❤ “

  • @thomaswilson4441
    @thomaswilson4441 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Legendary moment in television

  • @Crash21136
    @Crash21136 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    What's sad is I can personally relate to this. 100%

  • @AsymptoteInverse
    @AsymptoteInverse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "How come he don't want me, man?"
    If only my heart were stone.

  • @Preppy_girlies29
    @Preppy_girlies29 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Why did I watch this 3 times if I’m just gonna cry 😭😭

    • @Vyz3r
      @Vyz3r 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Why do we do this to ourselves? 😭

  • @steveaustin773
    @steveaustin773 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Probably one of the greatest scenes a sitcom could ever deliver.
    Apart from " You are my son Will"

  • @MatiasGeraldoThe2nd
    @MatiasGeraldoThe2nd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Hits me every time. Such a beautiful story behind this as well.

    • @erwinekkel9676
      @erwinekkel9676 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It keeps on hitting at the Oscar's

    • @bradmiles1984
      @bradmiles1984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's not so beautiful if you look into why Will so emotional during the scene. Will and his dad had a bad relationship due to his dad being a drunk who routinely beat his mother. Here's some lines from his book “When I was nine years old, I watched my father punch my mother in the side of the head so hard that she collapsed. I saw her spit blood,” “For failing her in that moment. For failing to stand up to my father. For being a coward.” “I decided to be funny. I wanted to please and placate him because as long as Daddio was laughing and smiling, I believed we would be safe. I was the entertainer in the family. I wanted to keep everything light and fun and joyful.”

  • @sammyhind3151
    @sammyhind3151 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    “First things first rest in peace to Uncle Phil, cos he the only father that I ever knew..”

  • @SweetHeartHolly1982
    @SweetHeartHolly1982 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The look on Uncle Phil's face at the 2:05 mark is when I fall apart.
    God bless you always!!!
    Holly in east Tennessee

  • @marilynchambers64
    @marilynchambers64 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    No matter how many times I watch this scene, it always stings the same...and I always cry😢.

  • @stimpy3999
    @stimpy3999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I met my father one time on my 18th birthday. He shook my hand and said to me "well I'm here meeting you so what the f*** do you want from me?" I told him that there's nothing I want from him. He passed away about a week ago from a heart attack. Went to the funeral and met his family. He had love in his heart for them, but not for me. I was his mistake according to his family. I felt that way that Will expressed perfectly. I just wanted to leave a comment that expressed how I felt at my father.

    • @dmc41987
      @dmc41987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      You are not a mistake, just you remember that

    • @cstrongman
      @cstrongman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Preach! You are not a mistake, HE missed out.

    • @Random_vids_girl
      @Random_vids_girl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The real Father that created you will never leave you. And He certainly does NOT make mistakes. You are here ON purpose, FOR a purpose, to walk out your life with Jesus Christ and your Heavenly Father.

    • @smc3629
      @smc3629 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi. Just remember weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning.

    • @penguin12902
      @penguin12902 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sorry man. I have 2 little girls and there's not a force on this Earth that could keep me from them. I don't understand parents who abandon kids...

  • @juampaism
    @juampaism 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    My dad taught me many things alright. He taught me that I should never be seen by my kids drinking alcohol, that I should always be by my kids no matter what, that it's not important how many women I have to let go, I'd linger with my kids till they need me no more.

  • @leothewhiteranger
    @leothewhiteranger ปีที่แล้ว +7

    According to Will Smith, he had REAL trouble getting the part with Uncle Phil right. James Avery took him aside and gave him advice, told him to just let it all out. And after Will gave the performance you see here, in that hug, Avery whispered to him "Now THATS acting!" It's a story none of the cast or crew have ever disputed, and I think it says a lot about both how tight they were and the role that James Avery served not just as an actor, but a mentor of sorts for Will.

  • @karlaknapper7616
    @karlaknapper7616 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That was the most heartbreaking episode I've ever watched. I used to watch Fresh Prince religiously. That one made me cry as a kid and more now that I'm a parent.

  • @romitajain769
    @romitajain769 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    He actually had his father leave so the speech was real😢

  • @victornoyolapicazzo870
    @victornoyolapicazzo870 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The one thing I love about this scene: we get to see who is Will's real dad: uncle Phil.

  • @jayb2491
    @jayb2491 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Damn that "How come.he dont want me, man."..brought me to tears remembering my dad is the same way.

  • @ItsDaJaWa
    @ItsDaJaWa 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The most genuine acting i've ever seen. Had to look up if Will Smiths Dad abandoned him to see if he was channeling that pain, nope. Was all acting, bravo.

  • @paksallion
    @paksallion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    this one and the one Will was shot were tear jerkers ngl

  • @mrtrgroovemachine6858
    @mrtrgroovemachine6858 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This really shows what a great actor Will is!

    • @bradmiles1984
      @bradmiles1984 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He got to drawn on his own personal pain of having an abusive father. The scene was a cathartic release for Will getting to say all the things he wish he said to his dad when growing up.

    • @EtoTheKay
      @EtoTheKay 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@bradmiles1984 Umm no. Will Smith's dad was not an absentee father. Or abusive to him. Wills words in this scene do not reflect his real life pain or his feelings on his dad. He's spoken on this fact many times. His real dad may have not been a great husband, but he was a fine father.

  • @drivingwithlee6550
    @drivingwithlee6550 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    you know it's superb acting when you get tears in your eyes yourself.

  • @cherrypoppers870
    @cherrypoppers870 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is some of the best acting you’ll ever see

  • @NightInstinct
    @NightInstinct 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This scene hits me hard everytime and makes me cry. I can really relate to this, 31 years old and I dont need my dad. But it hurts that he was never there for me, not in the little moments like Will mentioned and not in the big moments. He will never get to meet his grandson that's for damn sure and the only thing he ever taught me how you shouldnt be a dad. Been years since I have seen him but it still hurts me. I made peace with that but I will never ever understand why.

  • @mizbootie
    @mizbootie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    this scene gets me. every. single. time.

  • @agentgrief
    @agentgrief หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Happy Father’s Day to all my boys out there that grew out without their dad, we stand together 🤞

  • @muhammaddino5140
    @muhammaddino5140 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    He took out all the anger on Chris Rock.😂😂

  • @ambienceclarity1123
    @ambienceclarity1123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Will just described my whole childhood
    Im 34 now but that is the exact same question i asked myself....to this day

    • @joshuanelson780
      @joshuanelson780 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      35 and I too feel this

    • @tavonburns3905
      @tavonburns3905 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We got through our first date and learned how to drive and shoot that ball pretty damn well without him stay up my boys 💪🏾👊🏾

  • @rcng086
    @rcng086 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Man I could've for sure used an Uncle Phil in my life growing up.

  • @erickennedy9388
    @erickennedy9388 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    His father heard that “THE HELL WITH HIM" from the parking lot

  • @cp-wl6cz
    @cp-wl6cz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Have not seen my dad in almost a decade makes me cry...

  • @The_LunchBox
    @The_LunchBox ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Being able to hear the off screen actors/actresses crying over this just shows how hard this actually hits.

  • @MetroboomingmakeitBOOM867
    @MetroboomingmakeitBOOM867 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    The audience wasn't even being annoying and laughing, I bet they were crying.

    • @amirakhallouf5992
      @amirakhallouf5992 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ikr you could even hear one of the female audience members cry

    • @lexkanyima2195
      @lexkanyima2195 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@amirakhallouf5992 Hilary

    • @bradmiles1984
      @bradmiles1984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lexkanyima2195 Yeah it's Karyn Parsons.

    • @jfrfilms6697
      @jfrfilms6697 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It would be quite odd if the audience was laughing at this, never found it funny, only moving and heart-wrenching

    • @EtoTheKay
      @EtoTheKay 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@bradmiles1984No proof of that, but it could've been Karyn

  • @mikeaxworthy8809
    @mikeaxworthy8809 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Will smith is an awesome actor

  • @mobilityrp3888
    @mobilityrp3888 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I've seen this scene so much and every time in just pleased at the absolute perfection in the acting of this moment. He captured what I felt every word was the way I felt growing up

  • @manuelschneider2871
    @manuelschneider2871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    What a great scene, breaks my heart everytime i see, still in 2021!

  • @hayleymcclure118
    @hayleymcclure118 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This scene hit me right in the heart he really did a great job with it

  • @prophecy0731
    @prophecy0731 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    All my life I had my father(& mom), and this scene makes me cry every....single....time.

  • @richieray04
    @richieray04 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is why I'm glad my father was in my life...
    And I'm in my children's life..
    Kids don't forget