PART I: A WELL-TRAINED WIFE: MY ESCAPE FROM CHRISTIAN PATRIARCHY BY TIA LEVINGS

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  • In which we synopsize this beautifully written and harrowing memoir of Levings experiences as a young woman, wife and mother suffering through the brutality of Christian patriarchy.

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  • @yvonneb6540
    @yvonneb6540 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Im so glad you got this book. Everyond needs to know this stuff. Hopefully the author will be covered on the major news shows.

    • @irishgrannytarot7379
      @irishgrannytarot7379  8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She'll be on the most important one tomorrow...HERE! So glad you enjoyed it and soany deaf ears that will not look at patriarchal control💔

  • @christinevalenzuela6948
    @christinevalenzuela6948 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Ughhh! My blood is boiling as it always does when I hear about this kind of situation! I know a young women who is now out of a very similar situation: 5 children, abusive “ religious “ husband with a messiah complex- very disturbing! Glad to say she got
    Away and he’s been incarcerated for almost a year pending court case being heard and finalized with a judgement. Admiration for this courageous woman who survived and is now helping other women and future possible victims of this twisted patriarchal structure. “ we won’t go back” for all women and men.❤️❤️🤞🏼🙌🏼

    • @irishgrannytarot7379
      @irishgrannytarot7379  8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Christine you will be blown away by Tia. Such strength, resilience and SO SO smart. Stay tuned👍☘️❤️

  • @chrisqueen3118
    @chrisqueen3118 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I can't believe my library already has it‼️ I'm 5th in line on the holds list. I had a go-round with Jehovah's Witnesses yesterday. Usually we get along okay, but I'm good and sick of patriarchal religion, X10 right now. Patriarchy, in general. Such a crock‼️‼️‼️‼️
    I need therapy today, and you might be the therapist, Helen😘❣️
    The only Prince Charming in my life was a cat, and he earned his name.😻

    • @irishgrannytarot7379
      @irishgrannytarot7379  8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Talk about the universe having a sense of humor. They come to the door after that book?? Ha!! I hear you. I'm aware I tend to be intensely anti institutionalized religion. I always say, " show me the religion in which the women control the money and I might consider it" ...but not really. It's the patriarchal control. No thank you. Thank YOU very much for watching 💕👍☘️

  • @irenamangone
    @irenamangone 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Blessings Helen. Thank you for sharing this book. Love from Queensland Australia

  • @judysibley1066
    @judysibley1066 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    A very appropriate time for this book to come out. Thank you for reading Helen ❤

    • @irishgrannytarot7379
      @irishgrannytarot7379  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes it was. And I'm so glad she speaking everywhere. Get the message out. Thanks for watching 💕☘️✌🏼

  • @marya.8980
    @marya.8980 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Love your presentations, Helen; appreciate your optic in choosing appropriate books for these times, your summations and commentaries, your humor and verbatim. Like weekend coffeetime visits with a galPal💖
    Thank You for this channel, so helpful, inspiring, informative, current! Bless 🌹

    • @irishgrannytarot7379
      @irishgrannytarot7379  8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wow I'm astounded by your kind words. Thank you very much. It's an opportunity to let off steam with like minded people because my blood pressure is reclining. Thank you very much for watching ☘️❤️👍

  • @borabora3334
    @borabora3334 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hi Helen. Thank you. 🌻💙🙌✨

  • @wolfpowers2867
    @wolfpowers2867 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You did a wonderful job presenting this. I have already seen interviews with this author. She is amazing, however, her story made me very sad. Your presentation took some of that sad edge of this story off for me. I'm now going to listen/watch Part 2. Thank you!

    • @irishgrannytarot7379
      @irishgrannytarot7379  8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That's great to hear. And wait until you hear our chat, coming tomorrow. She us incredible. Thank you very much for your kind words ☘️💕👍

  • @cas5324
    @cas5324 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I've been reading this book and it's an amazing read.

    • @irishgrannytarot7379
      @irishgrannytarot7379  8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I. Delighted. Wait til you hear Tia...incredible. thanks for caring about this issue!👍☘️💕

  • @butterfliesrfree138
    @butterfliesrfree138 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    That is just the craziest thing!! I know that it happened, but thank God people can see the light.
    I’m glad she escaped all that!
    Thank you for reading the book & talking to the author.
    I look forward to your interview with her.💕🦋

    • @irishgrannytarot7379
      @irishgrannytarot7379  8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Be sure to watch. She's remarkable...and this insanity is ongoing and destructive. Thanks as always for watching the ☘️💕👍

  • @joyrico5989
    @joyrico5989 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I really wish the men of this system would have to really step into a day of their wives. I can’t stand this crazed way of living. It seems unbelievable something like this is happening in America, or anywhere. My sister was involved with this movement. When I was about 11 I saw my sister get spanked by her husband. It bothered me for years. It’s all about control and degrading women anyway they can. Thank you for shining the light on this disgusting situation. Not Christlike at all. Sickening really. I hope and pray for all women involved in these types of churches, wake up and get out. Much love and many blessings to you 💙✨💙✨💙✨💙✨

    • @irishgrannytarot7379
      @irishgrannytarot7379  8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      WOW...I can't imagine witnessing that. Such a humiliation. Recognizing how evil it is is the first step. Be sure to catch my chat with Tia tomorrow. She is incredible. Thank you so much for watching 💕👍☘️

  • @paulatowry5375
    @paulatowry5375 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    If it is possible, can you turn up your volume. We can always turn it down on our end. I have always watched your posts on my phone and the last few posts have been much lower in volume than they used to be. Thanks.

    • @irishgrannytarot7379
      @irishgrannytarot7379  8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hmmm....it's always some tech thing. I don't know what it could be but I'll try to fix it. Thanks for telling me....sorry!💕👍☘️

  • @gardengenie6300
    @gardengenie6300 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My church always said @18:00 "if you are married it is NOT r@pe" no matter what...

    • @irishgrannytarot7379
      @irishgrannytarot7379  8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Yes. I have to be careful with certain words on youtube but...yes💔

    • @gardengenie6300
      @gardengenie6300 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@irishgrannytarot7379 do our comments get you in trouble? I need to be more careful, sorry!!

  • @lizinawe
    @lizinawe 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Had to stop listening. Was too much like my parents life. He was a hungarian macho peasant with PTSD from Korean War. I majored in theology to get my catholic faith straightened out as my mother went overboard pre-Vatican religiosity while looking away at the sexual abuse going on. Priest told her to pray harder. Not surprisingly, got involved with catholic charismatic healing group. When it got to turning over my finances & schedule to another husband as I was a single parent, I was done done done. Almost we t to pat roberton University for my masters. There would have been the same life but slaving to make money for him. That was years ago. Still love the mysticism of catholic faith but, the rules, well, am a skorpio. What can I say. Tragic this abuse still goes on.

    • @irishgrannytarot7379
      @irishgrannytarot7379  8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I'm sad to hear you went through that. I hope you come back to hear my conversation with the author tomo....she is a model of resilience and courage. It will give you hope. Thanks for watching 💕👍☘️

  • @boniw698
    @boniw698 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Starting this book with you. So far this sounds like the Amish. Men rule women under your heel. I just cringe when people worship the Amish lifestyle. Even though I no this book and her journey isn’t Amish or Mennonite based. Thank you for doing this book in the time of Jethro. That’s what I call Ole JD. 🎃😺🤩

    • @irishgrannytarot7379
      @irishgrannytarot7379  8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Hilarious...your name for THAT GUY..... Tia's story is tough to hear but she is remarkable. Stay tuned for our chat and thank you so much for watching ☘️👍💕

  • @andrewdangelo4263
    @andrewdangelo4263 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    My Uncle used to call his wife, my Aunt, 'woman'. He'd say "get over here woman". Geez. This was in the 70's and probable before I was born. My cousins say it was like growing up in prison. Yet they are all still voting Turnip - my my.

    • @irishgrannytarot7379
      @irishgrannytarot7379  8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Andrew....YOU escaped!! It's pervasive and terrible. Be sure to catch my chat with Tis...remarkable human being. So so so GREAT to hear from you Saturday!❤️❤️❤️

    • @andrewdangelo4263
      @andrewdangelo4263 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@irishgrannytarot7379 I did escape! Great way to put it, Helen! And we need to chat at some point. It was sooooo great to join you on Saturday too 🙂 I'm going to talk to Shari on Sunday. That will be cool too. ❣

    • @irishgrannytarot7379
      @irishgrannytarot7379  7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @andrewdangelo4263 excellent. I love Shari. Email me times....

    • @andrewdangelo4263
      @andrewdangelo4263 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@irishgrannytarot7379 she loves you too! I can't wait to meet her. Email times coming soon to a theatre near you... 🙂

    • @irishgrannytarot7379
      @irishgrannytarot7379  6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @andrewdangelo4263 all the world's a stage!!☘️👍💕

  • @gardengenie6300
    @gardengenie6300 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Often the church itself, the people, the minister and the elders are as abusive as the husband! My husband wasn't "saved" or a churchgoer, but every time I tried to leave, that b@$turd would "walk the aisle" and "get saved" (3 times!!) because he knew the church would pressure me to stay. When I finally made it out, my friends dropped me, my kids also got their hearts broken as the moms wouldn't let their kids be friends with mine any more. I moved to another town, found another church (oh when will I learn??) but it wasn't more than a year and I was DONE with that crap. My mom, however was another story. At one point she attempted to get all but my oldest kid removed from me, lying about me being a drug addict; when i asked her why she said that I was "going straight to hell and taking those kids with you" ... all because I was not going to church.

    • @gardengenie6300
      @gardengenie6300 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      and i havent watch this yet but its probably going to make me want to scream...

    • @irishgrannytarot7379
      @irishgrannytarot7379  8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Your story is painful and all too common. I'm sorry. I hope you watch Tia tomorrow. She will inspire you with ger strength, resilience and hope. Hang in there. You aren't alone.💕👍☘️

  • @NanaOneAZ
    @NanaOneAZ 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I'm going to do my best to get through this, but I'm already feeling squeamish about what is implied re. treatment of women, etc., in such churches/marriages. This so correlates with the Paul Wallis writings. Re. the door-to-door people, I love Steven King's term "God bothers." Oh, I remember Marabel Morgan. Her ideas never quite made sense. Didn't her husband divorce her? Maybe she met him at the door wrapped in the wrong brand of clear wrap. 🤣 What an awful human being her husband was!!!!! How on earth did she keep her sanity?

    • @irishgrannytarot7379
      @irishgrannytarot7379  8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Oh man I remember that....I never looked at leftovers the same again. I hear your reaction to this but please do watch my chat with Tia...so strong, resilient and smart. She spreads hope. Thanks for watching 💕☘️👍

  • @mac-ju5ot
    @mac-ju5ot 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Well a lot if women answeed the call to this....its saddens me but it wss a different time

    • @gardengenie6300
      @gardengenie6300 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      no, it is still going on NOW. worse than ever. like a christian taliban.

    • @irishgrannytarot7379
      @irishgrannytarot7379  8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Moving forward if we can offer haven and support. This book is a great first step for others by showing the way. Thanks so much for watching ☘️💕👍

    • @irishgrannytarot7379
      @irishgrannytarot7379  8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Moving forward if we can offer haven and support. This book is a great first step for others by showing the way. Thanks so much for watching ☘️💕👍

    • @irishgrannytarot7379
      @irishgrannytarot7379  8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @gardengenie6300 THEY ARE THE AMERICAN TALIBAN💔

    • @gardengenie6300
      @gardengenie6300 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@irishgrannytarot7379 yes they ARE.💖

  • @irenamangone
    @irenamangone 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Good Lord its a womans worse nightmare my heart breaks for Tia. Seems its not just far right non Christian religions who have Taliban aspirations

  • @muliefriend4785
    @muliefriend4785 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I just tell them I’m Jewish, they run.

    • @boniw698
      @boniw698 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😂❤

    • @irishgrannytarot7379
      @irishgrannytarot7379  8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wait...COME BACK!!!! I have always found my Jewish friends to be eminently accepting, sensible, open and compassionate. Plus...the FOOD. ❤️❤️❤️ love tsimmis, kugel, challah......I'm convinced I was Jewish in a former life. Hey....they have their issues with patriarchy too!!!! I mean, c'mon...Abraham....Moses.....I still want to see a religion with women in charge of the money!!👍☘️❤️

  • @NancyCronk
    @NancyCronk 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Patriarchy is the root of most evil.

    • @irishgrannytarot7379
      @irishgrannytarot7379  7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'd say theocracy, using patriarchal control. But we're splitting hairs aren't we? The results are the same. Look at Iran, Afghanistan, Oklahoma andTexas....thank you so much for watching 👍☘️💕

  • @miminee4721
    @miminee4721 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I just can’t believe this exist !!!!! I’ve read the Bible and this is not in there at all !!!!!! They must have a made a sick disgusting version !!!!!!

    • @irishgrannytarot7379
      @irishgrannytarot7379  8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      They don't like the boring, whimsy Jesus part...just the old testament Yahweh, the angry God. Pretty sick. Like puritans from the 1600s💔💥💔💥

  • @SFW1964
    @SFW1964 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Programming. Cult.

    • @irishgrannytarot7379
      @irishgrannytarot7379  8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      That's what patriarchal/ theocratic / authoritarian mind control does to a brain. Believe me, I struggled with ut...not as extreme as Tia's experience. Be sure to catch our chat....witness healing and hope in action. Thanks so much for watching 💕👍☘️