The bad behavior is not limited to only singles. When I lived in mumbai, the married couple living in the flat below ours fought almost everyday. Their screaming and yelling would always be audible to us from balconies and bathroom vents. Not only that, they would occasionally smoke in the bathrooms which would bother our family all the time. It really depends on what kind of person you are rather than your relationship status.
@Muskan Singh My parents always fought a lot. To the point that my mum had to pull a knife on us. She's diagnosed as schizophrenic. When confronted her parents, it was found that she showed severe schizophrenic tendencies after she had my brother. Her condition became worse in the family. Marriage is not the key to solve anything in fact it destroys you a lot of times as it is India & it is especially demanding from couples & the whole marriage system here is just... shit. So yeah it does depend on what kind of person you are. Single or married, if you behave like sh*t then you are a sh*t
@@kdjoshi726 are bhai baat marriage ki nahi ho rahi he, karna nahi karna ye individual choice he she's saying ki agar family ko room de diya jaye to wo thode carefully rehte he.. kyunki agar kuch galat ho jaye to ek ke saath sari family evict ki jati he. Isliye thode careful rehte he. Warna young men and women duniya bhar ki masti karte he ghar se dur jab rehne jate he to
@@mhabemoyanthan4336Why??Being single is less stressful than marriage after marrying u cannot spend ur leisure time alone every single moment spend wouldn't be yours it will always be with the family
Being a girl and single at 32, I stopped going out just because I don't want to answer "why am being single at this age". Why can't the society understand that life is not just about getting married and having kids. When I say that am not interested in marriage, people keep asking me "who will take care of you when you're old?". Doesnt that mean people are having kids, only because they want someone to take care of them when they are old. Isn't selfish to have kids and asking them to take care of us in our old-age? They must have other things to do. Why bother them with our problems at that point. It's better to have some sort of savings and depend on oneself rather asking others to take care of ourselves. If India had health care system like NHS or social security pensions like developed countries, then most people wouldn't be worried about all these issues of marriage and old age care.
You will get robbed if you're home alone in your old aged. I saw a lot of reports on that. Even married old couple got robbed because they had no one to save them.
@@NeelamSharma23500 to be fair though The sole purpose of existence is to procreate And unless you are doing something greater than life Then i don't see a point in anyone staying lifelong single It's a simple as that
@@princejangra1231 i think uh got the answer... When somebody is saying that he/she will not marry... There is some strong motive behind it... Its not something like chalo av fun ka mood h to bol dete h shadi ni karenge, lifetime single rahenge... Kuch genuine reason hota he h... Or ye sab baatein procreation, gravid period, biological period, ye sab hame v pata h... But apni zindagi hum kis timeline me easy dekhate h, ussi ko choose krna chahte h.... Mental peace v to chahiye....
Being single is a choice. Being with someone is a choice. If we can't think good for anyone we should not think bad as well. I'm 27 & single and never been in a relationship. Marriage is overrated. Always remember 'Being single won't kill you & being in a relationship won't heal you. Live your life the way you want just don't regret. Thanks Mohit for making this video ✌🏻🖤
I'm a teenager and recently started attendeding college.... beleive it or not here it's like if you are single then you are doing something wrong....like nobody cares if I want to focus on my career right now or its just my personal choice to be single......i don't understand why people take relationships as an achievement...... stupid society we are living in
@@gargeebasak9648So I deduced that relationships and dating is not for me. I'm very short (5'3) for a male and balding. I'll never be attractive to anyone. So I gave up and now living in peace and focusing on myself and my passions for the plenty of time I've left.
@@gargeebasak9648there is no incel thing. It’s a personal choice always. You just don’t like the women you can get or for femcel also same. They don’t simp. So it’s not a matter of shame unlike people try to project.
Being Single in India is also difficult because nobody would let you live in peace! Be it your own family! The relatives who have not seen you in ages! Neighbours! The constant nagging question, "Shaadi kab karoge" "Shaadi karlo ab" "Settle ho jao" "Shaadi bohat important hai"
I disagree. If you are a woman and you passed your 20s and entering into your 30s the parents and relatives stop caring. But this time it's your friend who will ask you to get married. And hopefully if they are good enough they will still hangout but if not they will drop you off. Generally married people tend to hangout with married people more.
@@peteck007 Don't disimburse your personal experience as a fact. I have a lot of unmarried friends and cousins in their 30s and they are constantly nagged upon by their families and relatives and even the neighbors. So do not generalise your own experience as a one definite fact.
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In India, people are judged on their Marital status, Caste, Color, Family background and having child or being childless. The Qualifications, Character, Life choices, Ideology, Good values all other are secondary things.
As a 25 yrs old indian who doesn't wanna get married or have any children and who never did desire them either, im honestly worried about all the discrimination i might have to face. I believe this is one of the reason why many indian women desire living in foreign countries where women are given more choices and freedom. I love india but society really makes me believe otherwise.
Finally someone not only acknowledged our existence but also shared our problems in a respectful way. Thanks. This is my experience too. I did remember when I was trying to find a flat in Gurgaon, the owner blatantly asked me "do you have a boyfriend? If you do then don't search for property in this area, this is family area" I was shocked. Not because he said this, I am kind of used to these questions while searching property. I was more shocked because that whole area was full of PGs with single people, I literally found a flat just 3 houses away from his house in that cute "Family area". And this was just one of the struggles of being single. The society pressure thing is a whole another level of insanity. When you are single in your 30s, the only thing that comes to everyone's mind is that either we are hiding our relationship status or we have some kind of illness. My male colleagues also face the same judgements but it is more hard for women because society always associates it with your character (I mean they don't leave married women too, it is easy to declare someone's character wrong when you have big mouth) it is sooooo annoying. First of all I am not hiding anything. And second, if someone is in that situation, it is none of your business. They always say "you are getting old, marry soon otherwise you won't get the right partner". As we have a lack of people in this country to find the one. The family pressure, constant pokes from friends makes it hard to hang out with them. The relatives who I see maybe twice a year also poke daily saying "who will take care of you when you will get old", well NOT YOU for sure. Wow so much care! Where are these relatives when you need them? Probably busy in poking someone else's family I guess. My point is there is nothing wrong in keeping our mental peace as a priority. Maybe we are still figuring things out, maybe someone wants to focus just on their career, maybe they have family or financial problems, maybe they are still deciding, maybe they will marry in future or maybe they won't. Maybe someone doesn't have their shit together to take on new responsibility or maybe someone doesn't have any of these problems and still wants to be single. Who knows. You found your balance in marriage, I found my balance in being single. As simple as that.
Trust me I'm single and all the above you said is true.. and this discrimination is pushing me towards loneliness, because everyone makes me feel like a misfit and i don't even feel like a part of anything. People who are married are willing to fake it for society even if they are not happy or not satisfied with their lives, but being true to one self and bring Frank is totally judged
So true.. I have seen married people post lovey dovey pics on instagram and in reality they are screaming for divorces😂 Atleast i am single and happy and i am true to myself and everyone
Don't let anyone pull you down. Remember that you are independent and supporting a precious life that is you. Be proud of it. If aunties and uncles tell you to marry, ask them this "are you genuinely happy in your married life?" It usually shuts most of them.
same! but people keep telling me lakiyo ko ladke ki zarurat hoti hai. Bhai mujhe toh bas job karke apne chote se ghar mai aram se akele rehna hai 😭 isme kisi aur ki kya zarurat hai itni.
@THE ZOLDICS ranbir and alia got married bcoz alia got pregnant and child before marriage is not considered legal here...and they might have found love in each other. People will get married if they find love. And India has always been a populous country, I highly doubt if India is not considered as 3rd world country anymore
A lot of people don't realise that, after you crossed the 30 year old mark, the parents and relatives don't ask you about getting married. But this time, the friends you had start getting distanced since they have their own set of friends who are married. So the married people hangout with other married people. And at that time you basically start loosing friends or lost friends already. But you need to actively look for friendship by joining different activities and groups. Or you will more likely to end up becoming depressed.
Completely agree. It becomes quite awkward. And I have seen people ducking invitation to those parties and choosing to go for a hike more often on a weekend. But the other question is why would you not want to get married? If that's what you want, then that's what you are going to face. Too much freedom is not free. 🙂
@@letmespeakthetruth1601 Alot of people in life don't want to take responsibility of a child, a lot of them don't earn enough to support a family, a lot of them come from troubled family background (like me) who wish to stay single out of fear of redoing this drama again. Are we to force such people in marriages?
44, decided to be single for ever and ever. Don’t believe in marriage or monogamy. I dont care about society too. You need to play your games well in this world being single, be honest but not stupid.
I am a single indian woman living in Sweden. Trust me social discrimination for being single is also here. I, like many other single women here, don't get invited to family gatherings. There is no discrimination from government system per se. But married people or couples do have some more benefits. But socially one can get very excluded. People also keep asking if a single person is dating etc.
I am a single woman and faced most of the discriminations 🙄 even more than mentioned 🤷♀️🤦♀️ I have never been invited for any family or friend's functions, finally your financial and emotional support point I can agree , as I can see I am not getting it from anywhere I am now pushed to get married and have become totally mentally unstable Recently with all the insecurities coming in my mind regarding these 2 topics... and as u said I will get married to some lallu just for the marriage' sake " To feel accepted " in our rubbish society...I don't have much friends hardly any relatives have only my parents and my younger brother (sometimes as he is married)to support me and my parents are getting older now....
@@Kathakathan11 as im still living with my parents , i remeber when i was in 6 standard the society allowed bachelors to live in flats , so they were bachelors who were living right under our floor , so they used to be awake till 4 am , they used to play songs and used to smoke cigarets that smell comes to our house , this may be the reason
@@chinmaychavan4220 yes may be. I really want to throw my neighbour out who smokes entire night it seems. Cannot stand in balcony. We had Nigerians who stayed in building next to us. And they were caught kidnapping a child and illicit drug trafficking. Since then that area has stopped giving any flat for Nigerians/ any Africans
@@Kathakathan11 but why to create problems when you just solve them without going to any legal process just stop bachelors every problems solve because bachelor live in pg but families not.
As an owner of a house given for rent as well as neighbour to single people on rent. I can understand when tenants prefer only married couple and avoid single men/women. Single people have less responsibility and they have the mindset of "we are doing you a favour by renting your house". They are reckless ,keeps the house dirty most of the time and fight with other tenants frequently. This causes the other tenants who are a family to avoid our house because of bachelor's living in other floors. Worst happens when the tenants fails to pay their rent on time or absconds without paying rent, electricity bill and water bill. Single people also fall in the trap of debt,drinking and other activites which not only affects them but the neighbours as well. My neighbouring tenant throw their beer bottles into our bin in front of our house which caused our bin to break and nobody is willing to take responsibility of the same. The owner of my neighbouring house swore on his life that he would keep each house empty if need be but will never give it to a bachelor again due to repeated problems as mentioned above. What needs to change is not the "family only" trend but the mindset of single people who need to act responsibly. This is why owner take an interview to asses them.
@@Mr.SledgeHammer Agreed Being Single= having less responsibilities and when you have less responsibilities, you don't feel much accountable for your actions as compared to someone who has more responsibilities. Of course, this is not all there is to it. There are other aspects too. Getting married is recommended and should be recommended. Traditional Asian societies which follow traditional gender values face less problems as compared to the western society where the birth rate is on a decline and depression is prevalent. However this does not mean we should start discriminating against singles.
@@fluxx9458 lol Arre bhai shaadi krna hai but kisiko 27 mee krni hai kisiko 21 mee, sbki apni choice n, ab jisko 28 mee shaadi krna hai so obviously wo 23-28 single rehke hii job krega n
@@Shradha_Dubey actually that was my doubt as I was seen in my friend circle but my intention is not get married only people those who are deserves to take responsibility only they can I think this is not my cup of tea ☺️
I have a video suggestion. Many companies don't allow female employees to add their parents to office health insurance, if they do then an extra premium is charged. According to the policy a female employee can only add her husband and kids to the policy at no extra cost, whereas as a male employee can choose to add either his parents or his wife and kids. I say this is discriminatory. I have seen this happen at TCS. A video would be appreciated.
I am single and moved to Saudi Arabia after living in Dubai for 7 years, I never faced so much discrimination even in middle East countries for renting apartments... India is full of this societal drama..... Daru badnam, single or widow hona badnam wtf..........hallelujah
@anime hi why dont you do a bit of research before you comment, there is no such law that stops you from living in a relationship, no one cares what you do in your personal life, and there is no Sharma ji next door watching your activity, women can drive, there is no need of protest, the government gives enough of support, there is no compulsory dress code for women in Dubai, they have the freedom to choose what they want to wear, you can see women walking in a bikini.
@@Salmanfarooque98 dubai only recently made it legal to have sexual relations out of marriage (unmarried couples). it was around 2020. before this women who had children out of wedlock got jailed/deported. ill tr to link if i can
I am a 24year old single and whenever I had to put my house on rent, I always preferred family because I had this stereotype that single people especially men are reckless and problem creater but recently I have changed my mind and out of my 4 places, 3 I have rented to singles,I have realised not all singles are demon and not all committed people are angels.This video was wholesome covering all aspects of problems faced by single people and how we can all contribute our bit to support every section of society.
We treat marriage as a milestone to be crossed, not something that may or may not happen depending on whether we meet the right person. The issue is too deep to be solved as such
People in the comments who are afraid of dying alone and want to marry citing that as one of the reasons.....Think about it. When you're dead, you're dead. It makes no difference to your body if it is by the roadside or being given a state funeral. It makes no difference to you whether people remember you or forget you because you don't exist anymore. All these emotional connections you make about dying surrounded by loved ones or being remembered after death....all these are pointless attachments. They matter only in your imagination. Once you're dead, there is no imagination, no emotions, nothing. It will be exactly how it was before you were born.
Your family might pressurise only if you don't live your life with sophistication. If you instill confidence in them that you will live a better life as a single, they won't force you against your wish.
Being a singal how can have absolute person,they are no person who dont, have absolute person singal or married work presure is equal to both parties,and it not means partig all day and other things is presuee can be from siblings,parentv also if it a wife it is only one if u cannot live can separate or divorce but can you over come presure of a own family
The lack of domestic skills is a major problem that in my opinion, could be made worse because of the way our families are set up these days. My theory is that, for the longest time, while growing up we are not expected to do any household chores because 'mummy is there' and you just focus on your studies. we may end up not lifting a finger in our formative years in our rather self centred bubbles of studies & career which, though important is not the only aspect of life. (Not trying to generalise here, but this is just a theory based on what I've observed. I have also seen some lovely bachelor homes so I 'm not saying these are facts) We are not taught to cook and clean, do our laundry, manage finances & time, making the house look presentable etc. Then suddenly we graduate college, and move away for jobs and we don't know how to do basic housekeeping, nor have the money in our early career to afford a housekeeper. We aren't taught at schools, because we're all being pushed to get the best marks, because the competition and pressure is so high. After school also we come back home and study or run from class to class right from 6th / 7th for that extra high level JEE class, or just tuition classes for what is already taught in school. And being in India I think this problem is worse if you're a boy.. You are not expected to do much household chores growing up, and if you move out you're left with no basic life skills and could end up falling sick because of bad eating habits or unclean living conditions, therefore affecting your work also.
I think men are faring way better than you think. Men ususally are survivors, so we fall and learn fast to survive. If you say not all men are like not many women are actually good at chores either. Most people learn by falling and learning it by themselves
100% true...... I feel I am bit different....I am a boy and I love cooking......no one taught me, self taught even when there was no jio.....I love cooking different dishes for my family members.....also maintains my own room at my own.....single at 29😂😂
This video's link was sent to me by an ex-colleague who thinks I want to remain single because I am depressed... As an almost 30 years old single male who has never been in a relationship ,I have faced most of the mentioned discriminations... Most people never understand that being distant from social life is so much liberating for me and makes me happy, not depressed.... Requesting people of "normal" society to do better. Glad I found this channel
@@clashwithfriendscolony7195 you are right, I may feel that way in future.... I personally have tried being a part of social life in the past, in my younger days... Didn't like it. And if I regret it in my 50s, i will have nobody else except myself to blame.
Mechanical engineer ho kya? Even mechanical engineers say "Royal mech is not a word it's an emotion" at the start of engineering and end up with "Bhai ,ek job dilade .. Jo kehto ho Karunga.. drilling,cutting ,coding .. kuch bhi " by the end of engineering
If you are single it doesn't mean that you are weak or unable to find a right partner but it could mean that you are strong enough to face problems by yourself.
If family is such a fundamental unit to the Indian society then why is Indian society so opposed to romance? Romantic relationship is the foundation of a strong marriage,which in turn leads to a stable family and a stable society.
bcuz if people become highly attuned to emotions they'll be harder to control. In India the older people want absolute control over the young so that they can coerce them & make them feel guilty for living a life for themselves.
I've been a single renter and I've been a home owner who considered renting a well. As you said, it's a game of probability for me. With bachelors, the biggest issue is accountability. If they make some issues, and have to be kicked out, they'll find it much easier to move out, compared to a family. This reinforces the belief that they're more likely to cause issues, as accountability is low. Family person have more restrictions, as they have to worry about kids, parents, and other norms. So, they're unlikely to cause issues compared to bachelors. Not saying that bachelors cause issues always. I was one. I was quite model person, who didn't drink, didn't have parties, and mostly helpful to neighbors and good with apartment. But, I know many of my friends who weren't. So, it's a probability game, where single are beaten in renter's market. (One way home owners offset this risk, is by asking singles to pay higher rent. But, that's again risk hedging)
For me, I can live with a girl for just sake of showing that we are in relationship. But what happens if that girl became violent and put me behind the bars in a rape case.
As an owner of a house given for rent as well as neighbour to single people on rent. I can understand when tenants prefer only married couple and avoid single men/women. Single people have less responsibility and they have the mindset of "we are doing you a favour by renting your house". They are reckless ,keeps the house dirty most of the time and fight with other tenants frequently. This causes the other tenants who are a family to avoid our house because of bachelor's living in other floors. Worst happens when the tenants fails to pay their rent on time or absconds without paying rent, electricity bill and water bill. Single people also fall in the trap of debt,drinking and other activites which not only affects them but the neighbours as well. My neighbouring tenant throw their beer bottles into our bin in front of our house which caused our bin to break and nobody is willing to take responsibility of the same. The owner of my neighbouring house swore on his life that he would keep each house empty if need be but will never give it to a bachelor again due to repeated problems as mentioned above. What needs to change is not the "family only" trend but the mindset of single people who need to act responsibly. This is why owner take an interview to asses them.
And sir you, you seem much better person who despite having that broken bin by beer bottle incident are not abusing your power of being landlord. You judge people individually and don't generalise. Need more sensible people like you. For I am a person who abide by each n every rule even when 99.99% guys of my age just do not care, I can understand how it feels
If bachelors don't pay rent on time or cause damage to your property, it can very well be recovered from the advance/security deposit that they've given. So what's the issue then?
Money isn't practical. It's there as deterrent. Home owner will have to spend time fixing things, and cause overall headache. Overall, accountable tenant (via any mechanism) is preferred. Else Home Owner loses RoI
Being single can you will get Many facilities 1-you can enjoy your life like a bosss 2-you don't have any tension 3-you can do anything in your life freely whether it's studying , travelling and other like of stuffs 4-you are king of your world Even lord Hanuman ji is single my friend so don't worry
It's not all about wealth and Shaadi is a choice not mendatory and we women very well what kind of situation we had to, go through in marriages and if i am, not, ready fo that, it's my, choice @ss0498
@@ramchandrajadhav2019 kuch nhi ignore karo common single ho k hum society ka sochenge faayda kya fir single hone ka? mera seedha maan na h unki suno jo tumhe paalega yaani maa papa bas
That's simply a parental and atmosphere issue. If u r from a place where it's common to be in relationships, everyone's in relationships. If u aren't, well then, hard luck
There needs to be a conversation that both single and married people have faults ABD we need to make people better rather than spew hate against each other
Young adults especially, 19-24 yo are nuisance. But if somebody's single and over the age of 28-30 they usually don't have this problem they get flat so easily. Because wo itna hallagulla nahi krte he
This is sooo true, i have been searching for a flat for so long in Bangalore. I have had so many owners and brokers hang up the phone the moment they heard the term "Bachelors". We finally got a 3bhk apartment, and even in that the guard said on the first day itself that girls are not allowed in the apartment because "Aap log bachelor ho". This condition was not even put before we moved in, but alas we cant do much. I talked to the president of the society, and he said that the people in association have a problem with it. Dude its my life, my room, my fucking apartment. I pay the rent, I should be able to do whatever i want, who are they to tell us what and what not to do. If people around me are having issues then they can complain and throw me out. I dont even drink or smoke. But nope, they didnt listen. Being unmarried in India sucks!
But the conundrum is how do you find the "sahi partner". You can only find after the marriage. Can't even trust on love marriages, because the love can go stale. Happens with so many "love" marriages. So what is the solution? I believe a well-calculated risk has to be taken.
@@awrjkf yes exactly! Even love marriages can be broken, but so do arranged ones. The thing is that you have to give time in a relationship. I mean I've decided if I'll find someone with the same life goals, interests & vibes then I'll date her for at least 2 years(including live in relationship) so that I'll be clear about her......then if everything goes well we'll marry. As I said you need to be clear about your requirements...... Not every relationships gonna break Mann but yes anything can happen.......some things aren't in our hands so.......do your best as you can & Good Luck 🙂
According to me singles are really responsible for the flat situation. Most singles create chaos in an apartment and flats. I had to suffer getting evicted from a flat and disrespect due to my flatmate's nuisances.
yeah i have single Neighbours and one played extremely loud music everyday whole day even at 2 am in the night so much so that my father had to go and shout at them my father is usually very patient we bore it for like a month. now that boy has moved out of the room there are some more bachelors living but they do party like once a week so it is tolerable and one of them is very shaant so we have no problem with him so i guess it also depends on the type of person
Thank u , i am actually a trainee engineer in INDIAN RAILWAYS and i faced the same thing ..thanx for raising our issue thanx mohak bhai , love from bhopal
One of my clients totally unmarried has lots of elders lots of animals plants lots of children around him because he ended up creating a community of all such people who wanted different set up. They have entire colony for themselves..so without being married he has more in multifold in all senses..even if some people leave him still he has 100s...whereas people who were married their partners left then children left them and they are all alone now..thanks for raising this imp point. So marriage is not guarantee of anything..its one of many solutions availaible to address human needs at one place
Even our PM and Chairman of the TATA group are single, and many more successful personalities, it just doesn't matter Love is amazing, it can be any form, and romantic one is also one of them
I went through all that harassment. This was one of prime reason I left India and moved to US and will never ever return. I was earning well, decent looking, had my own home in Mumbai in my early 30’s and quite successful in my life but I was only judged by people and friends around me ki shaadi nahi hui bichaare ki not on my knowledge skills independent life etc. bas jaha jaao people are obsessed with shaadi … for me, my mental peace is important. But my friends and people around literally pushed me to this level that I was like I am done with this shit. US is way better in such stuff and I peacefully belong here I feel.
@@kanakalatahembram1650 Mumbai is little better. But the bacteria of taunting on marriage is still crawling inside the people … forget about Mumbai …even in USA, If I meet Indian people, first thing they asked - are you married? And this is where I start ignoring people … some people Even lectured me (on first meeting) ki Life me akele rahne se jyada depressing kuch nhi hai shaadi life me sabse important hai … and that too in US … so in the nutshell, this virus is hardcoded in DNA of Indians. I am sorry to say but this is true fact. Americans or other people never ask me about marriage family bullshit, they are mostly interested in discussing interesting ideas or science or information or other valuable stuff.
@@ravigangani "This virus is hardcoded in DNA of Indians" this is so true and the sad part is many of the folks out there don't even know this hardcoded thing that you have mentioned exist in them, Even I did not know it existed in me and I discovered it recently and I was really shocked and terrified that most of the conversations I had with people I meet were one way or other related to meaningless relationship gossip which ultimately leads to the this question when are you getting married
Just yesterday I came back from a road trip with my college friends and they grilled me the entire trip just because I'm the only single. Sometimes people felt left out of conversation just because of this.
That's the problem for single people actually, all of these can be solved with proper laws implemented. This will not change. You'll keep losing friends unfortunately
I am 33 and will remain single. I haven't faced this problem first hand but have seen boards saying "Bachelors are not allowed". No wonder why world considers Indians to be racist.
As an owner of a house given for rent as well as neighbour to single people on rent. I can understand when tenants prefer only married couple and avoid single men/women. Single people have less responsibility and they have the mindset of "we are doing you a favour by renting your house". They are reckless ,keeps the house dirty most of the time and fight with other tenants frequently. This causes the other tenants who are a family to avoid our house because of bachelor's living in other floors. Worst happens when the tenants fails to pay their rent on time or absconds without paying rent, electricity bill and water bill. Single people also fall in the trap of debt,drinking and other activites which not only affects them but the neighbours as well. My neighbouring tenant throw their beer bottles into our bin in front of our house which caused our bin to break and nobody is willing to take responsibility of the same. The owner of my neighbouring house swore on his life that he would keep each house empty if need be but will never give it to a bachelor again due to repeated problems as mentioned above. What needs to change is not the "family only" trend but the mindset of single people who need to act responsibly. This is why owner take an interview to asses them.
Did you even watch the video? It's completely egalitarian discrimination against all bachelors. Wether it young, old, rich, poor, black or white. ALL bachelors shall be discriminated!
Being single i can confirm tenants creating drama , lacking social acceptance, pressure for marriage etc i faced all these things 😶it feels like having a fight against the whole thinking of society..but i will remain strong 🙏n self dependent always
@@lord-ww3qf don't get sad because of them tell them you are enough for yourself n you don't need anyone 😋tell them" a strong personality don't need nobody "
Whatever you do just don't get into a wrong relationship, all the problems as a single are nothing infront of problems you'll face in a wrong relationship
Exactly. I already have health problems because I became a victim of healthcare fraud, last year. I am only earning money to look for solutions to the problems even in other countries, if necessary.
Wish to god ? Oh dear. Please stop. I know you mean well and I thank you for that. However, if god really existed, he would have protected me from the crime in the first place. You need to understand reality properly. I would love to help you understand it. Only when you have understood it properly will you start caring about justice in the right way.
@@DipayanPyne94 I used "god" for formality here even I believe in nigurn bhakti and about thanking God, well you're still alive with all your senses perfectly fine and have food in your stomach so I guess god haven't been that bad to you. I agree what happened to you was bad and your situation is uncomfortable but trust me it could have gotten way worse
That is a bad philosophy of life, imo. To constantly tell people to be grateful is bad. If someone loses his or her eyes, will you then say that they should be grateful that they have their other senses intact ? If they lose most or all of them, will you then say that they should be grateful to be simply alive, even if like a vegetable ? I hope not I am glad that it didn't get any worse. But it's bad enough. I have been EXTREMELY stressed for more than 1 year now. Only one life. So much to do. Career. Savings. Family. Etc etc etc. And you say this ? I don't wanna make you feel bad. You just need to understand reality. Nobody knows how the universe began. About how life began. Let's not assume. Let's understand that humans have free will (a compatibilist one, but still) and create a system a justice system that maximizes well being.
Marriage is a trap don't fall into it. I am the one who is suffering from it. I wanted to be single but forcefully i got married but never enjoyed it. I was mean to be a married man.
I appreciate your videos about real-life problems, social problems, love, etc. These things are considered taboo in our society. But this must be acknowledged for the betterment of our society.
i am 19 in my graduation today i saw one girl and a boy sleeping on the same desk with their faces facing each other ... it was such a beautiful moment
Have you ever heard the term "single shaming"? Sure, we have heard about terms like "fat shaming," which generally refers to people shaming a certain body type. Similarly to this, "single shaming" is when people have a negative attitude towards people who are single after a certain age. This is something that is casually thrown around all the time.
Being ‘unmarried’ is the problem not being single I’m a working professional and it actually is quite difficult to find a flat on rent here in Noida. Once a after telling a broker that I’m unmarried he dropped the deal when he got to know that i had a girlfriend. He said, “don’t you know this is not allowed? Why didn’t you tell me earlier that you have a girlfriend!?” 😂
I think as the number of singles will increase the indian society will get more accepting of this, ofcourse this will probably take a decade or maybe longer
I asked my mother if I can't make my own ration card she said you are already registered on family ration card but I told her no my individual ration card . She said, everything is fine, isn't it?😂 After watching this video, I see a threat to my existence. Brother U.P govt should take some action regarding this.
Very nice. Can someone file a pition in court that "No discrimination is allowed based on Marital Status specially for renting house". More awareness is really needed on this topic and rent issues. Millions of Thanks for the video.
I am so thankful that people who are single do exist. I am preparing for government job and have often thought about this, thank you for highlighting this issue.
*YEAH SINGLE ON THE OTHER HAND IS ALSO A SITUATION WHERE ONE IS LOOKED UPON AS HAVING SOME DEFECT OR IS COWARD TO TAKE THE REAL LIFE CHALLENGE TO LEAVE A LEGACY IN THIS WORLD.*
@@dangerousmind1121 honestly people who say they want children to leave a legacy are the biggest red flags in my eyes. For example, Albert Einstein. No one knows who his parents are or if he has children because Albert Einstein has created his own legacy. His achievements and accomplishments are what his recognised by not his parents or children if he has any.
@@VARSHA_CHIRLA Yeah I know - you are " different" or "it doesn't bother you" or "you are very happy as you are" "for you children are a liability" "you may loose looks" "you may have body marks" "your body will be exhausted" "you don't want to take any responsibility as you are overwhelmed by your own desires" "why should you bring someone in this world who never wanted to come on the first place" and this will be a non ending list going on and on and on.....all power to you, so I hope you enjoy your life 😉 But for many women with such an out look are also a walking red flag because they lack empathy, compassion, ability to bond and at the end - its always a compromise, an agreement, a trade off because all they do is living "their life" and I call this "adult hood" so welcome to adulthood but to be technical - these women have abused oxytocin.
37 year old man and a proud and happy single My family doesn't bug me but once in a while some oversmart relative try to give me free advise. I usually don't engage because that's only a waste of time.
I moved to Pune back in 2015, after staying in one society for a year they kicked us out. Its been so difficult to get a decent flat because of your martial status here.
A much needed topic to be discussed..I m happily single at the age of 30..I agree here in india we singles r treated in a wierd way as if we aren't equals..come on how can marriage be a parameter to judge a person..illogical mentality
If you want to be unmarried for your lifetime then better to don't look for marriage. If you want to then do marriage as quickly as possible because after 30 mostly guys don't go for you because after 30 age to give birth to a child is difficult mostly it fails.there are many women who thinks they don't need family but when they become 34 they will look for men but at that time men don't look for you
It is also strange and sad how supreme court said live-in-relationship is our right but unmarried couple living together are not allowed either to rent an apartment and judged so much by society
After so many incidents of murder in live-in-relationship cases, now Supreme court says that being in live-in-relationship is not safe especially for womens.
Being a single I can say that the single people are also somewhat responsible for this situation. Most of the singles learn basic manners, responsibilities, financial discipline and home management only after they get married because they don’t have any other choice. I have seen single people maintain their home or room in a very shoddy or cluttered manner. No homeowner want such a tenant in their property. I was the hostel secretary of my college for two years it was very hard to find a moderately clean and organised room. Usually the singles are the most noisy and outrageous in a community. They don’t care about other peoples peace or privacy or they don’t follow the rules which are made for a common good. So it’s no wonder that singles are least preferred in a community where families peacefully live. Even I faced difficulties in finding a flat. But after I got a flat when the flat owner saw my clean room he was so happy that he even reduced the rent only for me. Now he treats me like his own son. So If we do an introspection, without doubt we can say that we are also responsible for this situation. So like Gandhi said, be the change that you want to see in this society.
True. My family owns a building with rooms for rents. Over time from our possession of the house, we found that bachelors, and working bachelors at that, cause a lot less trouble than a family lol. As a homeowner, I can assure that families are really difficult to deal with. Bachelor boys are quite easy to deal. They don't like to create scenes. Best people. My mom gave them our rooms for rent just because I convinced her. Because a time will come when I may need to go out and get a flat in my work city. And I like to keep my room and car really neat and tidy. I reorganize my cupboard once a week. Plus, I don't like nonveg, but my family does. I don't even drink tea lol😂. My mom says that I am like a walking bank.😂
Haha! Outside India with the exception of middle eastern countries,It’s the other way round. Families with kids struggle to rent a house especially in western countries but for singles its pretty cheap and easy.
@@Invixnlty what do you think is important while finding soulmate? Happily single but want to find soulmate But scared as our society only gives one chance at relationship and that is marriage
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Being single doesn't mean you're weak, it means you're strong enough to wait for what you deserve..
Wow great Mai to zindagi bhar single rahunga
hare krrishna bro
@@mediaviper2957 satchi m kyaa??? Serious ho ap???
@@mediaviper2957 shaadi kar la bhai zimmadar ban joga parents bhi khush aap bhi khush
@@mediaviper2957 Bhai, trust me abhi yeah bolna easy hota hai jese Umar hojata tum bohat pachtaoge 🤣🤣
The bad behavior is not limited to only singles. When I lived in mumbai, the married couple living in the flat below ours fought almost everyday.
Their screaming and yelling would always be audible to us from balconies and bathroom vents. Not only that, they would occasionally smoke in the bathrooms which would bother our family all the time.
It really depends on what kind of person you are rather than your relationship status.
But, land owner became a party when any legal conflict happened with bachelor, that an issues nobody talk
@Muskan Singh My parents always fought a lot. To the point that my mum had to pull a knife on us. She's diagnosed as schizophrenic. When confronted her parents, it was found that she showed severe schizophrenic tendencies after she had my brother. Her condition became worse in the family. Marriage is not the key to solve anything in fact it destroys you a lot of times as it is India & it is especially demanding from couples & the whole marriage system here is just... shit. So yeah it does depend on what kind of person you are. Single or married, if you behave like sh*t then you are a sh*t
Exactly...families create more nuisance than bachelors
yes couples fights r louder than the dj parties of singles
@@kdjoshi726 are bhai baat marriage ki nahi ho rahi he, karna nahi karna ye individual choice he she's saying ki agar family ko room de diya jaye to wo thode carefully rehte he.. kyunki agar kuch galat ho jaye to ek ke saath sari family evict ki jati he. Isliye thode careful rehte he. Warna young men and women duniya bhar ki masti karte he ghar se dur jab rehne jate he to
Yes, Being single is better than getting married and breaking someone's heart for physical relationships.
What if it's already decided earlier ??🤔
@@somnathbanerjee_2922 karma will decide
@@Swap-dp9kf Did u Understood what I meant ??
being single isn’t something to be proud of and neither is being in a relationship
@@mhabemoyanthan4336Why??Being single is less stressful than marriage after marrying u cannot spend ur leisure time alone every single moment spend wouldn't be yours it will always be with the family
I am 34 Single who recently moved to India after 10 years in US and I can confirm life is very difficult in India for single.
Hi
*Yeah wonder why you moved to India then ?*
this is why im never moving to India
@@dangerousmind1121maybe couldn't renew their license
Don’t lie 😢
Being a girl and single at 32, I stopped going out just because I don't want to answer "why am being single at this age". Why can't the society understand that life is not just about getting married and having kids. When I say that am not interested in marriage, people keep asking me "who will take care of you when you're old?". Doesnt that mean people are having kids, only because they want someone to take care of them when they are old. Isn't selfish to have kids and asking them to take care of us in our old-age? They must have other things to do. Why bother them with our problems at that point. It's better to have some sort of savings and depend on oneself rather asking others to take care of ourselves. If India had health care system like NHS or social security pensions like developed countries, then most people wouldn't be worried about all these issues of marriage and old age care.
You will get robbed if you're home alone in your old aged. I saw a lot of reports on that. Even married old couple got robbed because they had no one to save them.
@@howyou2035 ok I'll hire two security guards from agency and two rottweiler.... And will buy dot gun alongwith licenced revolver....
@@NeelamSharma23500 to be fair though
The sole purpose of existence is to procreate
And unless you are doing something greater than life
Then i don't see a point in anyone staying lifelong single
It's a simple as that
@@princejangra1231 it's a choice. Not everyone wants to procreate.
@@princejangra1231 i think uh got the answer... When somebody is saying that he/she will not marry... There is some strong motive behind it... Its not something like chalo av fun ka mood h to bol dete h shadi ni karenge, lifetime single rahenge... Kuch genuine reason hota he h...
Or ye sab baatein procreation, gravid period, biological period, ye sab hame v pata h... But apni zindagi hum kis timeline me easy dekhate h, ussi ko choose krna chahte h.... Mental peace v to chahiye....
Being single is a choice.
Being with someone is a choice.
If we can't think good for anyone we should not think bad as well. I'm 27 & single and never been in a relationship. Marriage is overrated. Always remember 'Being single won't kill you & being in a relationship won't heal you. Live your life the way you want just don't regret.
Thanks Mohit for making this video ✌🏻🖤
True
absolutely...
Do Vipassana as taught by S N Goenka.
The power of observation comes from consistent practice.
He is Mohak
End me hagg diya 😭
@@brajeshs4487 he is just fake business guru
I'm a teenager and recently started attendeding college.... beleive it or not here it's like if you are single then you are doing something wrong....like nobody cares if I want to focus on my career right now or its just my personal choice to be single......i don't understand why people take relationships as an achievement...... stupid society we are living in
Bcz there r a lot of incels nowadays whor mostly teenagers and it's hard to deduce who is actually avoiding relationships and who can't get one
@@gargeebasak9648So I deduced that relationships and dating is not for me. I'm very short (5'3) for a male and balding. I'll never be attractive to anyone. So I gave up and now living in peace and focusing on myself and my passions for the plenty of time I've left.
Yeah study and go abroad this country sucks
@@gargeebasak9648there is no incel thing. It’s a personal choice always. You just don’t like the women you can get or for femcel also same. They don’t simp. So it’s not a matter of shame unlike people try to project.
@@Leanmachine148 lol u clearly haven't seen teenage boys. I have two brothers lol.
Being double is a problem
Being single is a problem
Then, what the heck I should do now 😅
Everything is problem
Life is a problem
Wait for few years. A.I will solve our problem. And the way climate change is happening, nothing would matter in next 25 years.
Bhajo ram ram hare hare .
Leave the country.....Just kidding, but for real though, WHAT DO WE DO? 🤔🤔😥
Being Single in India is also difficult because nobody would let you live in peace! Be it your own family! The relatives who have not seen you in ages! Neighbours! The constant nagging question, "Shaadi kab karoge" "Shaadi karlo ab" "Settle ho jao" "Shaadi bohat important hai"
I disagree. If you are a woman and you passed your 20s and entering into your 30s the parents and relatives stop caring. But this time it's your friend who will ask you to get married. And hopefully if they are good enough they will still hangout but if not they will drop you off. Generally married people tend to hangout with married people more.
@@peteck007 Don't disimburse your personal experience as a fact. I have a lot of unmarried friends and cousins in their 30s and they are constantly nagged upon by their families and relatives and even the neighbors. So do not generalise your own experience as a one definite fact.
@@enriloni वैसे मैं ज्यादातर लोगों की बात कर रहा हूँ..
@@peteck007 Q tumne global ya phir pure India ka survey kiya hai qa jo tumhe pakka pakka pata hai ki jyada tar logo k sath aisa hi hota hai?
Islam is not 1400+ years old,
Islam is the Oldest and First Religion,
Islam means "Submitting our Will to God"
Islam is their since First human (Prophet Adam)
And Prophet Muhammad ﷺ is Not the Founder of Islam, Prophet Muhammad ﷺ was just a Last Prophet Of Islam !
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“God is One and Only without second.”
[Chandogya Upanishad 6:2:1]
“He is Allah the One and Only.”
[Quran 112:1]
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“There is only One God, not the second”
[Brahma Sutra]
“There is only One Allah”
[Quran 16:51]
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“There is no image of Him.”
[Yajurveda 32:3]
“There is nothing like Him.”
[Quran 42:11]
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“There Is No Likeness Of Him”
[Svetasvatara Upanishad 4:19]
“And there is none Like unto Him.”
[Quran 112:4]
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“of Him there are no Parents"
[Svetasvatara Upanishad 6:9]
“He does not Beget nor is He Begotten.”
[Quran 112:3]
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“His form is not visible, the eyes cannot see Him.” [Svetasvatara Upanishad 4:20]
“No vision can see Him, but He see’s all vision.” [Quran 6:103]
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*[Reminder]*
*Dear Hindus,*
*You should worship only One God (Allah) and you must Stop doing Idol worshipping !*
In India, people are judged on their Marital status, Caste, Color, Family background and having child or being childless.
The Qualifications, Character, Life choices, Ideology, Good values all other are secondary things.
In India, people are judged.
They find fault to feel superior.
Sab jagah hota h bhai duniya me kahi bhi chala jaa, foreign movies me bataya vaisa jaisa nhi hota
Thats why i am about to move out and getting PR… No one can change mind set of people here… Either try to live with this or just move out😊
Because what happens in majority cases is considered instead of rare cases, think how many actually have character/good qualities in them
@@yash_kanthaliya are sab log apne aap ko hero mante ha or samne vale ko side character
As a 25 yrs old indian who doesn't wanna get married or have any children and who never did desire them either, im honestly worried about all the discrimination i might have to face. I believe this is one of the reason why many indian women desire living in foreign countries where women are given more choices and freedom. I love india but society really makes me believe otherwise.
In india women are more loved women get everything free and. Daily applause 🙌🙌🙌
@@VarunTomee-kr6nfIndia in parallel universe be like:
@@VarunTomee-kr6nf no thanks don't want free things. I just want to make a living for myself and my family that's all.
Most Indian women who go to foreign countries to stay single end up getting married to a Citizen of that country.
Just shift to Japan. I promise best country for single women.
This is the discrimination we all should be fighting against
We should fight against every discrimination..
bruh 😂
Bro khud ko na sudharo samne vale ko galat bolo
There should be reservation for single people.
@@srilaasyamoka and what's funny ?
You may be happily single, but society won't leave you alone. They will pathologize anyone who is different/unique.
Modiji laughing in corner.
Aisa kuch nahi hai. Your family is gandi
@@jinfin221 I was just stating a fact. Why are you getting defensive? Are you among the people who shame others based on Marital status?
@@s.r301 Yes.
There is a beautiful line to say to society in these scenarios which is "Maa chudae society ".
Love is psychological
Marriage is social
Sex is natural
I would prefer natural way 🤣🤣
sex without marriage is wisdom
Wow What a philosophical discussion here
@@okoptimus that's not wisdom that's big mistake
@@themulticourse2460 idc its wisdom for me
Finally someone not only acknowledged our existence but also shared our problems in a respectful way. Thanks. This is my experience too. I did remember when I was trying to find a flat in Gurgaon, the owner blatantly asked me "do you have a boyfriend? If you do then don't search for property in this area, this is family area" I was shocked. Not because he said this, I am kind of used to these questions while searching property. I was more shocked because that whole area was full of PGs with single people, I literally found a flat just 3 houses away from his house in that cute "Family area". And this was just one of the struggles of being single. The society pressure thing is a whole another level of insanity. When you are single in your 30s, the only thing that comes to everyone's mind is that either we are hiding our relationship status or we have some kind of illness. My male colleagues also face the same judgements but it is more hard for women because society always associates it with your character (I mean they don't leave married women too, it is easy to declare someone's character wrong when you have big mouth) it is sooooo annoying. First of all I am not hiding anything. And second, if someone is in that situation, it is none of your business. They always say "you are getting old, marry soon otherwise you won't get the right partner". As we have a lack of people in this country to find the one. The family pressure, constant pokes from friends makes it hard to hang out with them. The relatives who I see maybe twice a year also poke daily saying "who will take care of you when you will get old", well NOT YOU for sure. Wow so much care! Where are these relatives when you need them? Probably busy in poking someone else's family I guess. My point is there is nothing wrong in keeping our mental peace as a priority. Maybe we are still figuring things out, maybe someone wants to focus just on their career, maybe they have family or financial problems, maybe they are still deciding, maybe they will marry in future or maybe they won't. Maybe someone doesn't have their shit together to take on new responsibility or maybe someone doesn't have any of these problems and still wants to be single. Who knows. You found your balance in marriage, I found my balance in being single. As simple as that.
@thezoldics7648 L comment. Seems like a troll take. Obvious bait.
Singles - ये दुःख खत्म काहे नहीं होता बे.....
No Relationship>>> Wrong Relationship. Isliye to apan bhi offer accept nhi kiye. Better single than troubled.
@@pranavkanttripathi2971 🗿🗿 Bhai kasay pata lagta hai ki ladka/ladki kharab hai ..
Bhai Hoga dukha khatam hoga
Pkka bihari hea tu
I dont want to get married but i want to intimate atleast once and for that i have to marry
Trust me I'm single and all the above you said is true.. and this discrimination is pushing me towards loneliness, because everyone makes me feel like a misfit and i don't even feel like a part of anything. People who are married are willing to fake it for society even if they are not happy or not satisfied with their lives, but being true to one self and bring Frank is totally judged
So true.. I have seen married people post lovey dovey pics on instagram and in reality they are screaming for divorces😂 Atleast i am single and happy and i am true to myself and everyone
Hi Neha, can we become friends?
some one's gonna start flirting with you now.
Don't let anyone pull you down. Remember that you are independent and supporting a precious life that is you. Be proud of it. If aunties and uncles tell you to marry, ask them this "are you genuinely happy in your married life?" It usually shuts most of them.
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No in-depth research is done.. बंदा TH-cam से अपना घर चलाने में लगा है।
India is free cuntry ..paraud
@Rajat Gill but fun fact : mohak Mangal is married 😂
Aa gaya bheek mangne 🤣
I dont want to get married but i want to intimate atleast once and for that i have to marry😭😭
My god! I don't see myself getting married and this video just gave me anxiety about the pressure I may have to face in future. 😅
S Mitra just don't try to imagine ...and sometimes being in relationship with a right partner makes you experience the joyride of the life ......
same! but people keep telling me lakiyo ko ladke ki zarurat hoti hai. Bhai mujhe toh bas job karke apne chote se ghar mai aram se akele rehna hai 😭
isme kisi aur ki kya zarurat hai itni.
@THE ZOLDICS tum logo ke baje se india first position pe he ab poppulation me
@THE ZOLDICS ranbir and alia got married bcoz alia got pregnant and child before marriage is not considered legal here...and they might have found love in each other. People will get married if they find love. And India has always been a populous country, I highly doubt if India is not considered as 3rd world country anymore
@THE ZOLDICS forget alia and ranbir, the great scientist of india dr apj abdul kalam was single. Take inspiration from him
A lot of people don't realise that, after you crossed the 30 year old mark, the parents and relatives don't ask you about getting married. But this time, the friends you had start getting distanced since they have their own set of friends who are married. So the married people hangout with other married people. And at that time you basically start loosing friends or lost friends already. But you need to actively look for friendship by joining different activities and groups. Or you will more likely to end up becoming depressed.
Completely agree. It becomes quite awkward. And I have seen people ducking invitation to those parties and choosing to go for a hike more often on a weekend.
But the other question is why would you not want to get married? If that's what you want, then that's what you are going to face. Too much freedom is not free. 🙂
Absolutely true
Yes absolutely true I strongly agree directly or indirectly they disowned us like family gatherings
@@letmespeakthetruth1601 Alot of people in life don't want to take responsibility of a child, a lot of them don't earn enough to support a family, a lot of them come from troubled family background (like me) who wish to stay single out of fear of redoing this drama again. Are we to force such people in marriages?
True
44, decided to be single for ever and ever. Don’t believe in marriage or monogamy. I dont care about society too. You need to play your games well in this world being single, be honest but not stupid.
U are brave and have taken the right decision
@@SunLake-pr1di Thanks 🙏
Sir really you are amazing
@@Must_77785 thanks 👍🙏
you will have no legacy...stop earning, don't buy properties
I am a single indian woman living in Sweden. Trust me social discrimination for being single is also here. I, like many other single women here, don't get invited to family gatherings. There is no discrimination from government system per se. But married people or couples do have some more benefits. But socially one can get very excluded. People also keep asking if a single person is dating etc.
Do you have any plans of returning back to india
Just to know tho :o
@@Allah_is_gay Lol why would she think of Moving from One of the best countries on this planet
Don’t expect your friends to invite you in social gatherings.
@thezoldics7648 Why not ? Characterless people don't understand diversity.
Sanchi I wanna marry u
I am a single woman and faced most of the discriminations 🙄 even more than mentioned 🤷♀️🤦♀️ I have never been invited for any family or friend's functions, finally your financial and emotional support point I can agree , as I can see I am not getting it from anywhere I am now pushed to get married and have become totally mentally unstable Recently with all the insecurities coming in my mind regarding these 2 topics... and as u said I will get married to some lallu just for the marriage' sake " To feel accepted " in our rubbish society...I don't have much friends hardly any relatives have only my parents and my younger brother (sometimes as he is married)to support me and my parents are getting older now....
just take care of your parents and be with people who can understand you, it's not like everyone is forcing you to get married
It’s better to be single with high standards than in a relationship settling for less😶
Is it a quote or your own experience ? unluckily single this side
Have standards high enough that you can meet yourself.
High standards lmao yeah cuz you're the queen of India
This is only why I am single at 28 😇
@@criscrosxxxhigh standards means truth and loyalty that we can't expect from cheap people.
As living in Pune , I can confirm that most of the resdential societies have made rule to not give houses to bachelors and it has become common here
But why? What were the reasons you encountered?
@@Kathakathan11 as im still living with my parents , i remeber when i was in 6 standard the society allowed bachelors to live in flats , so they were bachelors who were living right under our floor , so they used to be awake till 4 am , they used to play songs and used to smoke cigarets that smell comes to our house , this may be the reason
@@chinmaychavan4220 yes may be. I really want to throw my neighbour out who smokes entire night it seems. Cannot stand in balcony.
We had Nigerians who stayed in building next to us. And they were caught kidnapping a child and illicit drug trafficking. Since then that area has stopped giving any flat for Nigerians/ any Africans
It's not legal. You can complain and can fight legally.
@@Kathakathan11 but why to create problems when you just solve them without going to any legal process just stop bachelors every problems solve because bachelor live in pg but families not.
Being a single I can confirm that this is true 😭
As an owner of a house given for rent as well as neighbour to single people on rent. I can understand when tenants prefer only married couple and avoid single men/women.
Single people have less responsibility and they have the mindset of "we are doing you a favour by renting your house".
They are reckless ,keeps the house dirty most of the time and fight with other tenants frequently.
This causes the other tenants who are a family to avoid our house because of bachelor's living in other floors.
Worst happens when the tenants fails to pay their rent on time or absconds without paying rent, electricity bill and water bill.
Single people also fall in the trap of debt,drinking and other activites which not only affects them but the neighbours as well.
My neighbouring tenant throw their beer bottles into our bin in front of our house which caused our bin to break and nobody is willing to take responsibility of the same.
The owner of my neighbouring house swore on his life that he would keep each house empty if need be but will never give it to a bachelor again due to repeated problems as mentioned above.
What needs to change is not the "family only" trend but the mindset of single people who need to act responsibly. This is why owner take an interview to asses them.
@@Mr.SledgeHammer your point is understandable.
Hindus say they dont wanna marry and then the same hindus blame muslims for their population getting reduced🤡🤡
@@Mr.SledgeHammer Agreed
Being Single= having less responsibilities and when you have less responsibilities, you don't feel much accountable for your actions as compared to someone who has more responsibilities. Of course, this is not all there is to it. There are other aspects too.
Getting married is recommended and should be recommended. Traditional Asian societies which follow traditional gender values face less problems as compared to the western society where the birth rate is on a decline and depression is prevalent. However this does not mean we should start discriminating against singles.
@@fluxx9458 lol Arre bhai shaadi krna hai but kisiko 27 mee krni hai kisiko 21 mee, sbki apni choice n, ab jisko 28 mee shaadi krna hai so obviously wo 23-28 single rehke hii job krega n
Toxic guys gets committed within 20 years but innocent guys remain single for 35 years
True more relevant in today's world
If you're truly innocent then you'll listen to your parents and marry the girl they tell you to marry like a good boy🙂👍
@@Shradha_Dubey actually that was my doubt as I was seen in my friend circle but my intention is not get married only people those who are deserves to take responsibility only they can I think this is not my cup of tea ☺️
I have a video suggestion. Many companies don't allow female employees to add their parents to office health insurance, if they do then an extra premium is charged. According to the policy a female employee can only add her husband and kids to the policy at no extra cost, whereas as a male employee can choose to add either his parents or his wife and kids. I say this is discriminatory. I have seen this happen at TCS. A video would be appreciated.
Nothing discriminatory women ko hire karte hai wahi badi baat hai😂
@@helo98736Hah 🤦
I was in tcs never seen this.
Husband can have insurance of in-laws
@@helo98736Hah haha, lekin kuch ladkiyaan bahut productive hote hai,
@@helo98736Hah you should have thought about your sister while writing this comment.
I am single and moved to Saudi Arabia after living in Dubai for 7 years, I never faced so much discrimination even in middle East countries for renting apartments... India is full of this societal drama..... Daru badnam, single or widow hona badnam wtf..........hallelujah
@@howyou2035 women are your crops
@anime hi why dont you do a bit of research before you comment, there is no such law that stops you from living in a relationship, no one cares what you do in your personal life, and there is no Sharma ji next door watching your activity, women can drive, there is no need of protest, the government gives enough of support, there is no compulsory dress code for women in Dubai, they have the freedom to choose what they want to wear, you can see women walking in a bikini.
@anime Bhai kya bole ja rhe ho
@anime कम्पेयर नही कर रहा है भाई बस सच्चाई बता रहा है कि कैसे कुछ देशो में इतना प्रॉब्लम नही होता है इन सब चीजों को लेकर
@@Salmanfarooque98 dubai only recently made it legal to have sexual relations out of marriage (unmarried couples). it was around 2020. before this women who had children out of wedlock got jailed/deported. ill tr to link if i can
I am a 24year old single and whenever I had to put my house on rent, I always preferred family because I had this stereotype that single people especially men are reckless and problem creater but recently I have changed my mind and out of my 4 places, 3 I have rented to singles,I have realised not all singles are demon and not all committed people are angels.This video was wholesome covering all aspects of problems faced by single people and how we can all contribute our bit to support every section of society.
So cool that you're 24 now and already have 4 spare rented places!!
@@akrutipachpinde5766 thanks to the fem....
Inherit4 homes from 'family' or did u make it urself. If its the latter u have achieved nirvana at 24. Congrats.
Correct
@@PahadiBrothers769 bruh wtf 1M subs 💀
We treat marriage as a milestone to be crossed, not something that may or may not happen depending on whether we meet the right person. The issue is too deep to be solved as such
Finally someone who raised voice for guys like us 🥺🥺 mohk bhiya hm tumhare saath hai
'guys' he bhai gays nahi
Raise करनें?
कोई research नहीं है, सिर्फ़ content हैं channel चलाने
Guys*
Wo khud shadi shuda hai
@@sagaforever so ?
The title made me giggle since I'm single and I'm happy😂😂
Video to dekh le. Wo single relationship ki baat nai kar raha.
@@namansharma13 🤣tum v dekho hot 🥵 topic hai
@@namansharma13 arey im talking about the title
I saw the video
Yet, your username is Bored
Same
People in the comments who are afraid of dying alone and want to marry citing that as one of the reasons.....Think about it. When you're dead, you're dead. It makes no difference to your body if it is by the roadside or being given a state funeral. It makes no difference to you whether people remember you or forget you because you don't exist anymore. All these emotional connections you make about dying surrounded by loved ones or being remembered after death....all these are pointless attachments. They matter only in your imagination. Once you're dead, there is no imagination, no emotions, nothing. It will be exactly how it was before you were born.
I want to be single for whole life because I want absolute freedom and don't want any kind of pressure but I think family will pressurized me.🙂
Your family might pressurise only if you don't live your life with sophistication. If you instill confidence in them that you will live a better life as a single, they won't force you against your wish.
@@anewlife5846 parents don't generally force once you pass your 20s. They leave you on your own accordance.
Being a singal how can have absolute person,they are no person who dont, have absolute person singal or married work presure is equal to both parties,and it not means partig all day and other things is presuee can be from siblings,parentv also if it a wife it is only one if u cannot live can separate or divorce but can you over come presure of a own family
I'm 29, Single and very much happy being alive and living a fulfilling life.
keep going❤
I am 32 and i am single. Sometimes I am happy & other times i think that I would end up alone.
@@Dr.SyedSaifAbbasNaqvi you will end up alone 🙂 i listened ratan tata once he feels lonely even after everything he achieved to karlo bhaiya shadi
🥴❤️🔥
I dont want to get married but i want to intimate atleast once and for that i have to marry
The lack of domestic skills is a major problem that in my opinion, could be made worse because of the way our families are set up these days.
My theory is that, for the longest time, while growing up we are not expected to do any household chores because 'mummy is there' and you just focus on your studies. we may end up not lifting a finger in our formative years in our rather self centred bubbles of studies & career which, though important is not the only aspect of life.
(Not trying to generalise here, but this is just a theory based on what I've observed. I have also seen some lovely bachelor homes so I
'm not saying these are facts)
We are not taught to cook and clean, do our laundry, manage finances & time, making the house look presentable etc.
Then suddenly we graduate college, and move away for jobs and we don't know how to do basic housekeeping, nor have the money in our early career to afford a housekeeper.
We aren't taught at schools, because we're all being pushed to get the best marks, because the competition and pressure is so high. After school also we come back home and study or run from class to class right from 6th / 7th for that extra high level JEE class, or just tuition classes for what is already taught in school.
And being in India I think this problem is worse if you're a boy.. You are not expected to do much household chores growing up, and if you move out you're left with no basic life skills and could end up falling sick because of bad eating habits or unclean living conditions, therefore affecting your work also.
Exactly right.
that's an astute observation
I think men are faring way better than you think. Men ususally are survivors, so we fall and learn fast to survive.
If you say not all men are like not many women are actually good at chores either. Most people learn by falling and learning it by themselves
100% true...... I feel I am bit different....I am a boy and I love cooking......no one taught me, self taught even when there was no jio.....I love cooking different dishes for my family members.....also maintains my own room at my own.....single at 29😂😂
Bipolar society. They elect unmarried 70 year old leaders but will not let a bachelor Tenant in their building.
This video's link was sent to me by an ex-colleague who thinks I want to remain single because I am depressed... As an almost 30 years old single male who has never been in a relationship ,I have faced most of the mentioned discriminations... Most people never understand that being distant from social life is so much liberating for me and makes me happy, not depressed.... Requesting people of "normal" society to do better. Glad I found this channel
I am 33 and I have situations like yours.
U will realize when u'll hit ur 50s
@@clashwithfriendscolony7195 you are right, I may feel that way in future.... I personally have tried being a part of social life in the past, in my younger days... Didn't like it. And if I regret it in my 50s, i will have nobody else except myself to blame.
@@RahulSingh-pu6vv if you are religious you can join Iskcon temple
@@ankanaghosh5163 trust me I think about it often 😊😊😊😍....
Single is not a status it is word that describes a person who is strong enough to live and enjoy life without depending others
Mechanical engineer ho kya?
Even mechanical engineers say "Royal mech is not a word it's an emotion" at the start of engineering and end up with "Bhai ,ek job dilade .. Jo kehto ho Karunga.. drilling,cutting ,coding .. kuch bhi " by the end of engineering
Stay Single...Stay Happy🙂
@Shreya that's why he added "strong enough" in this world of greed and lust, can't expect love
Unreal Cope 😭
@Shreya Shreya 40s shuru hone ke bad bahut bura lagta he
If you are single it doesn't mean that you are weak or unable to find a right partner but it could mean that you are strong enough to face problems by yourself.
So true
*But on the other it also means you are coward and timid to take real life challenge where you can find a proper balance.*
Coping
If family is such a fundamental unit to the Indian society then why is Indian society so opposed to romance? Romantic relationship is the foundation of a strong marriage,which in turn leads to a stable family and a stable society.
Obligation and peer pressure makes Indian society.
They are against the casual sex that people have in name of romantic relationship
They are not against marriage of love
bcuz if people become highly attuned to emotions they'll be harder to control. In India the older people want absolute control over the young so that they can coerce them & make them feel guilty for living a life for themselves.
I've been a single renter and I've been a home owner who considered renting a well. As you said, it's a game of probability for me. With bachelors, the biggest issue is accountability. If they make some issues, and have to be kicked out, they'll find it much easier to move out, compared to a family. This reinforces the belief that they're more likely to cause issues, as accountability is low. Family person have more restrictions, as they have to worry about kids, parents, and other norms. So, they're unlikely to cause issues compared to bachelors. Not saying that bachelors cause issues always. I was one. I was quite model person, who didn't drink, didn't have parties, and mostly helpful to neighbors and good with apartment. But, I know many of my friends who weren't. So, it's a probability game, where single are beaten in renter's market. (One way home owners offset this risk, is by asking singles to pay higher rent. But, that's again risk hedging)
For me, I can live with a girl for just sake of showing that we are in relationship. But what happens if that girl became violent and put me behind the bars in a rape case.
As an owner of a house given for rent as well as neighbour to single people on rent. I can understand when tenants prefer only married couple and avoid single men/women.
Single people have less responsibility and they have the mindset of "we are doing you a favour by renting your house".
They are reckless ,keeps the house dirty most of the time and fight with other tenants frequently.
This causes the other tenants who are a family to avoid our house because of bachelor's living in other floors.
Worst happens when the tenants fails to pay their rent on time or absconds without paying rent, electricity bill and water bill.
Single people also fall in the trap of debt,drinking and other activites which not only affects them but the neighbours as well.
My neighbouring tenant throw their beer bottles into our bin in front of our house which caused our bin to break and nobody is willing to take responsibility of the same.
The owner of my neighbouring house swore on his life that he would keep each house empty if need be but will never give it to a bachelor again due to repeated problems as mentioned above.
What needs to change is not the "family only" trend but the mindset of single people who need to act responsibly. This is why owner take an interview to asses them.
And sir you, you seem much better person who despite having that broken bin by beer bottle incident are not abusing your power of being landlord. You judge people individually and don't generalise. Need more sensible people like you. For I am a person who abide by each n every rule even when 99.99% guys of my age just do not care, I can understand how it feels
If bachelors don't pay rent on time or cause damage to your property, it can very well be recovered from the advance/security deposit that they've given. So what's the issue then?
Money isn't practical. It's there as deterrent. Home owner will have to spend time fixing things, and cause overall headache. Overall, accountable tenant (via any mechanism) is preferred. Else Home Owner loses RoI
That Day will come soon when Apartments & Societies will put hoardings of " Only Singles & Unmarried " Required ⚡⚡⚡⚡
It's better.. Give them taste of their own medicine💊
YES WE WILL MAKE THAT HAPPEN
@@jayaswati1505 what taste ? Married couples has thousand different option, it won't affect them much. Maybe after 4-5 centuries.
This would never happen.
@@hehehehehehe7878 well we can make our own safe space and wont let marriage certificate maniacs to dictate our life.
I am planning to remain single throughout my life and to explore the world.
This is the only problem I am facing the most.
Keep it brother
Bruh binod moment
Ok I challenge you will regret at the age of 60 if you didn't $uside
Live abroad that's better
Bro is a SIGMA CHAD ✊
Being single can you will get
Many facilities
1-you can enjoy your life like a bosss
2-you don't have any tension
3-you can do anything in your life freely whether it's studying , travelling and other like of stuffs
4-you are king of your world
Even lord Hanuman ji is single my friend so don't worry
Yes my friend, being single and wealthy is the wet dream for most youngsters today.
It's not all about wealth and Shaadi is a choice not mendatory and we women very well what kind of situation we had to, go through in marriages and if i am, not, ready fo that, it's my, choice @ss0498
Single=Independency
That's also better when you're having money
No pressure only enjoyments
Lmaoo gonna use that line about Hanuman Ji being single whenever anyone tells me about "saving the institution of marriage"
It’s not about just being single , being in a relationship is way too hard in our country . For some reasons being married is the only way out .
Kare to kare kaya, bole to bole kya?
@@ramchandrajadhav2019 kuch nhi ignore karo
common single ho k hum society ka sochenge
faayda kya fir single hone ka?
mera seedha maan na h
unki suno jo tumhe paalega
yaani maa papa
bas
@adityaverma1298 divorce
murder ka naam suna h
That's simply a parental and atmosphere issue. If u r from a place where it's common to be in relationships, everyone's in relationships. If u aren't, well then, hard luck
@@rahulanand5801Agar shaadi kiya toh yeh mera ho jyega.
There needs to be a conversation that both single and married people have faults ABD we need to make people better rather than spew hate against each other
Young adults especially, 19-24 yo are nuisance. But if somebody's single and over the age of 28-30 they usually don't have this problem they get flat so easily. Because wo itna hallagulla nahi krte he
This is sooo true, i have been searching for a flat for so long in Bangalore. I have had so many owners and brokers hang up the phone the moment they heard the term "Bachelors". We finally got a 3bhk apartment, and even in that the guard said on the first day itself that girls are not allowed in the apartment because "Aap log bachelor ho". This condition was not even put before we moved in, but alas we cant do much. I talked to the president of the society, and he said that the people in association have a problem with it.
Dude its my life, my room, my fucking apartment. I pay the rent, I should be able to do whatever i want, who are they to tell us what and what not to do. If people around me are having issues then they can complain and throw me out. I dont even drink or smoke. But nope, they didnt listen. Being unmarried in India sucks!
I'm in 10th but I'm damn sure to be a bachelor in future I fear the society. I think I will have to marry even though I don't want to.
@@HyperMusic13 Earn so much that you can buy a home
Dont marry and ruin your entire life
@@HyperMusic13 Don't be weak☮️
@@c333-y i don't need to earn i plan to be an officer in the defence forces so i think that i will get a quarter
@@c333-y since i told my mom that i don't wanna marry SERIOUSLY. She has been just predicting all the time that how my married life will be
Told my parents loud & clear "Agar sahi life partner naa mile then ill stay single forever...... accept it or leave it"
More power to Singles 💪🏻
But the conundrum is how do you find the "sahi partner". You can only find after the marriage. Can't even trust on love marriages, because the love can go stale. Happens with so many "love" marriages. So what is the solution? I believe a well-calculated risk has to be taken.
@@awrjkf yes exactly! Even love marriages can be broken, but so do arranged ones. The thing is that you have to give time in a relationship. I mean I've decided if I'll find someone with the same life goals, interests & vibes then I'll date her for at least 2 years(including live in relationship) so that I'll be clear about her......then if everything goes well we'll marry. As I said you need to be clear about your requirements...... Not every relationships gonna break Mann but yes anything can happen.......some things aren't in our hands so.......do your best as you can & Good Luck 🙂
The exact rule i follow
According to me singles are really responsible for the flat situation. Most singles create chaos in an apartment and flats. I had to suffer getting evicted from a flat and disrespect due to my flatmate's nuisances.
Bhai shach bolne se yahi hota hai aapko like nhi mili na comment me koi meri tarah reply diya
yeah i have single Neighbours and one played extremely loud music everyday whole day even at 2 am in the night so much so that my father had to go and shout at them my father is usually very patient we bore it for like a month. now that boy has moved out of the room
there are some more bachelors living but they do party like once a week so it is tolerable and one of them is very shaant so we have no problem with him so i guess it also depends on the type of person
Thank u , i am actually a trainee engineer in INDIAN RAILWAYS and i faced the same thing ..thanx for raising our issue
thanx mohak bhai , love from bhopal
Couples be like, " Agar hum dukhe h to, singles bhi dukhe rahega". Singles ko kush koi nhi dekhna chahta.
One of my clients totally unmarried has lots of elders lots of animals plants lots of children around him because he ended up creating a community of all such people who wanted different set up. They have entire colony for themselves..so without being married he has more in multifold in all senses..even if some people leave him still he has 100s...whereas people who were married their partners left then children left them and they are all alone now..thanks for raising this imp point. So marriage is not guarantee of anything..its one of many solutions availaible to address human needs at one place
Even our PM and Chairman of the TATA group are single, and many more successful personalities, it just doesn't matter Love is amazing, it can be any form, and romantic one is also one of them
he may not born , if his parents wanted to be single [ No offence to tata , just logic]
@@Warrukbadikpapa what doesnt make sense
Pm is not single he was married before and
What happened
404 error
@@Warrukbadikpapa Remember his father was adopted
@@rain_jen257 it makes sense u have to get married it's very important issa aap bhot zimmadar banagoe aapka parents bhi khush rahenga
I went through all that harassment. This was one of prime reason I left India and moved to US and will never ever return. I was earning well, decent looking, had my own home in Mumbai in my early 30’s and quite successful in my life but I was only judged by people and friends around me ki shaadi nahi hui bichaare ki not on my knowledge skills independent life etc. bas jaha jaao people are obsessed with shaadi … for me, my mental peace is important. But my friends and people around literally pushed me to this level that I was like I am done with this shit. US is way better in such stuff and I peacefully belong here I feel.
I thought Mumbai must be the highest level progressive enough safe haven for bachelors in India!
@@kanakalatahembram1650 Mumbai is little better. But the bacteria of taunting on marriage is still crawling inside the people … forget about Mumbai …even in USA, If I meet Indian people, first thing they asked - are you married? And this is where I start ignoring people … some people
Even lectured me (on first meeting) ki Life me akele rahne se jyada depressing kuch nhi hai shaadi life me sabse important hai … and that too in US … so in the nutshell, this virus is hardcoded in DNA of Indians. I am sorry to say but this is true fact. Americans or other people never ask me about marriage family bullshit, they are mostly interested in discussing interesting ideas or science or information or other valuable stuff.
Yeah just stay away from schools if u do not want to get shot at.
Lol
@@ravigangani "This virus is hardcoded in DNA of Indians" this is so true and the sad part is many of the folks out there don't even know this hardcoded thing that you have mentioned exist in them, Even I did not know it existed in me and I discovered it recently and I was really shocked and terrified that most of the conversations I had with people I meet were one way or other related to meaningless relationship gossip which ultimately leads to the this question when are you getting married
By the how you made the switch to USA. I am also looking to move abroad. Earning decently right now. But fed up with this place.
Just yesterday I came back from a road trip with my college friends and they grilled me the entire trip just because I'm the only single.
Sometimes people felt left out of conversation just because of this.
How old are you 😂
That's a greater problem than all the ones mentioned in the video
That's the problem for single people actually, all of these can be solved with proper laws implemented. This will not change. You'll keep losing friends unfortunately
Good I have less friends but understanding ones.
I am lucky that my parents supports me & gave me the choice of being single or married 😊
My choice : single (99.9%)
Lucky ❤
👍👍👍
Amazon Prime needs to make a web series Titled
" Not a Family Man " ⚡⚡⚡
😂
😂
😁🤣🤣
I am 33 and will remain single. I haven't faced this problem first hand but have seen boards saying "Bachelors are not allowed". No wonder why world considers Indians to be racist.
How this is racism 🙄. Its more of a stereotype problem.
@@Anish-IITP stereotype and racism so interconnected bro 😣
@@__nimitjain__ that might be the case bro. But i dont think single person are of another race 😂
As an owner of a house given for rent as well as neighbour to single people on rent. I can understand when tenants prefer only married couple and avoid single men/women.
Single people have less responsibility and they have the mindset of "we are doing you a favour by renting your house".
They are reckless ,keeps the house dirty most of the time and fight with other tenants frequently.
This causes the other tenants who are a family to avoid our house because of bachelor's living in other floors.
Worst happens when the tenants fails to pay their rent on time or absconds without paying rent, electricity bill and water bill.
Single people also fall in the trap of debt,drinking and other activites which not only affects them but the neighbours as well.
My neighbouring tenant throw their beer bottles into our bin in front of our house which caused our bin to break and nobody is willing to take responsibility of the same.
The owner of my neighbouring house swore on his life that he would keep each house empty if need be but will never give it to a bachelor again due to repeated problems as mentioned above.
What needs to change is not the "family only" trend but the mindset of single people who need to act responsibly. This is why owner take an interview to asses them.
Did you even watch the video? It's completely egalitarian discrimination against all bachelors. Wether it young, old, rich, poor, black or white. ALL bachelors shall be discriminated!
Me who is single watching this video 😂😂
And ab pta chala ki koi humaari pareshaani bhi samjhta hai
As a single person in her mid-twenties, I can approve of all these points. I feel like running away from this country.
Being single i can confirm tenants creating drama , lacking social acceptance, pressure for marriage etc i faced all these things 😶it feels like having a fight against the whole thinking of society..but i will remain strong 🙏n self dependent always
@Shreya 💀 religion makes unity among a community
@lord 💀 how bro?
@@lord-ww3qf don't get sad because of them tell them you are enough for yourself n you don't need anyone 😋tell them" a strong personality don't need nobody "
No one can be single for long time he or she become depressed or just mentally disturbed
@@kavyanshsingh6381 read his whole comment
Whatever you do just don't get into a wrong relationship, all the problems as a single are nothing infront of problems you'll face in a wrong relationship
Exactly. I already have health problems because I became a victim of healthcare fraud, last year. I am only earning money to look for solutions to the problems even in other countries, if necessary.
@@DipayanPyne94 I wish to God you get well soon and find solutions to all your problems, don't loose hope brother
Wish to god ? Oh dear. Please stop. I know you mean well and I thank you for that. However, if god really existed, he would have protected me from the crime in the first place.
You need to understand reality properly. I would love to help you understand it. Only when you have understood it properly will you start caring about justice in the right way.
@@DipayanPyne94 I used "god" for formality here even I believe in nigurn bhakti and about thanking God, well you're still alive with all your senses perfectly fine and have food in your stomach so I guess god haven't been that bad to you. I agree what happened to you was bad and your situation is uncomfortable but trust me it could have gotten way worse
That is a bad philosophy of life, imo. To constantly tell people to be grateful is bad.
If someone loses his or her eyes, will you then say that they should be grateful that they have their other senses intact ? If they lose most or all of them, will you then say that they should be grateful to be simply alive, even if like a vegetable ? I hope not
I am glad that it didn't get any worse. But it's bad enough. I have been EXTREMELY stressed for more than 1 year now. Only one life. So much to do. Career. Savings. Family. Etc etc etc. And you say this ?
I don't wanna make you feel bad. You just need to understand reality. Nobody knows how the universe began. About how life began. Let's not assume. Let's understand that humans have free will (a compatibilist one, but still) and create a system a justice system that maximizes well being.
This is exactly what I've been waiting for 🗿
W pfp guts 💪🏼🐺
I'm single and I'm proud of myself I don't want any distraction until I build my career.
Jai shree Krishna ❤️
hare krishna
Jai shree krishna
Marriage is a trap don't fall into it. I am the one who is suffering from it. I wanted to be single but forcefully i got married but never enjoyed it. I was mean to be a married man.
That's my boi 💪🏻
hare krishna bro
I appreciate your videos about real-life problems, social problems, love, etc. These things are considered taboo in our society. But this must be acknowledged for the betterment of our society.
i am 19 in my graduation
today i saw one girl and a boy
sleeping on the same desk with their faces
facing each other ...
it was such a beautiful moment
LOL.
Lol 😆
😁
I dont want to get married but i want to intimate atleast once and for that i have to marry
It was me
Have you ever heard the term "single shaming"? Sure, we have heard about terms like "fat shaming," which generally refers to people shaming a certain body type. Similarly to this, "single shaming" is when people have a negative attitude towards people who are single after a certain age. This is something that is casually thrown around all the time.
Being ‘unmarried’ is the problem not being single
I’m a working professional and it actually is quite difficult to find a flat on rent here in Noida. Once a after telling a broker that I’m unmarried he dropped the deal when he got to know that i had a girlfriend. He said, “don’t you know this is not allowed? Why didn’t you tell me earlier that you have a girlfriend!?” 😂
being single is a choice and a right.
I think as the number of singles will increase the indian society will get more accepting of this, ofcourse this will probably take a decade or maybe longer
Decade ? Lol. It will take centuries.
I asked my mother if I can't make my own ration card she said you are already registered on family ration card but I told her no my individual ration card .
She said, everything is fine, isn't it?😂
After watching this video, I see a threat to my existence. Brother U.P govt should take some action regarding this.
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Very nice. Can someone file a pition in court that "No discrimination is allowed based on Marital Status specially for renting house".
More awareness is really needed on this topic and rent issues. Millions of Thanks for the video.
18 and still standing strong 💪🏿
To be honest, BEING SINGLE IS A BLESSING.
Yea, but only if it's by choice.
Single is blessing if you live in small city. Or town. But if you live in a big city away from your home it's a curse.
Many are escaping marriage because they do not want a used product.
Sex before marriage cannot be expected by future spouse.@
@@abhijeetpanchal9301 yea, feminism and most importantly, social media is fvcking up every fragments of a functioning healthy society.
@@AdityaRaj-rh4fm Do not go for so called career oriented girls who earn 20k but expect husband earning 1 lakh
"You want to be loved because you feel incomplete. Otherwise, being loved can be quite a nuisance." - Sadhguru
So true👍
Listen to Acharya Prashant 🙌
Sadhguru actually giving some words of wisdom?
@@student69741 Yeah. He is a clown. Clowns can be right sometimes.
@pranavsolanki1178 I have. I now know with 100 % certainty that he is a clown.
@pranavsolanki1178 Big fan ? Of whom ? You are a big fan of Sadhguru ? Is that what you are saying ??
Chad's don't fall for this trap, build ur own home, bring JCB and break their home, steal their gfs and stay in their home 🗿🗿
proper description of how i think when the word "love" pops up in my mind ! Chads only love their parents but don't show it
Yogi ji took this advise seriously lol
@@Sailed_away 🤣🤣🤣
bhai rehne do itna mat feko
Yeah get those strong arms not for a chick but to carry groceries for mom 🗿🍷
Cumtrillionaire grindset
Yaar single rehna bhi mushkil he , Double hona bhi mushkil he , Kare toh Kare kya Bole toh bole kya Wah re duniya wah🥲
I am so thankful that people who are single do exist. I am preparing for government job and have often thought about this, thank you for highlighting this issue.
SINGLE isn't a status. It's a word that describes a person who's strong enough to enjoy life without depending on others.
*YEAH SINGLE ON THE OTHER HAND IS ALSO A SITUATION WHERE ONE IS LOOKED UPON AS HAVING SOME DEFECT OR IS COWARD TO TAKE THE REAL LIFE CHALLENGE TO LEAVE A LEGACY IN THIS WORLD.*
Cope comment.
@@dangerousmind1121 honestly people who say they want children to leave a legacy are the biggest red flags in my eyes. For example, Albert Einstein. No one knows who his parents are or if he has children because Albert Einstein has created his own legacy. His achievements and accomplishments are what his recognised by not his parents or children if he has any.
@@VARSHA_CHIRLA Yeah I know - you are " different" or "it doesn't bother you" or "you are very happy as you are" "for you children are a liability" "you may loose looks" "you may have body marks" "your body will be exhausted"
"you don't want to take any responsibility as you are overwhelmed by your own desires" "why should you bring someone in this world who never wanted to come on the first place" and this will be a non ending list going on and on and on.....all power to you, so I hope you enjoy your life 😉
But for many women with such an out look are also a walking red flag because they lack empathy, compassion, ability to bond and at the end - its always a compromise, an agreement, a trade off because all they do is living "their life" and I call this "adult hood" so welcome to adulthood but to be technical - these women have abused oxytocin.
37 year old man and a proud and happy single
My family doesn't bug me but once in a while some oversmart relative try to give me free advise. I usually don't engage because that's only a waste of time.
Right decision taken by U sir
proud
Being single means being happy
Until you find a loyal one 🙂
@gamelian there are so less number of people who are good or loyal in this world bro😪
I moved to Pune back in 2015, after staying in one society for a year they kicked us out. Its been so difficult to get a decent flat because of your martial status here.
Love marriage is problem for society
Arrenge marriage is problem for live If you don't understand each other's feelings💔
Do to do what to do 😞😞
Arrange marriage divorce rate 0.8 persent and love marriage 7 persent and in usa 50persent why ? They all do love marriage
@@amolsonawane-um5zj do you even know why arrange marriage people can't take divorce?
@@amolsonawane-um5zj in my family all did love marriage brother Life is sweet 💝
@@aditya_AiG nice 👍 but you didn't answer my question about divorce rates specially in western countries where divorce rate is almost 50 persent
@@amolsonawane-um5zj bro i don't care about others relationship my life is going well so.....
A much needed topic to be discussed..I m happily single at the age of 30..I agree here in india we singles r treated in a wierd way as if we aren't equals..come on how can marriage be a parameter to judge a person..illogical mentality
baby krlo shadi abhi happy ho bad me nhi happy rah paogi... bde logo me sahi kha h... mentality khrab nhi achi h unki..
Bhen shadi krlo 30+ hone ke bad apko pata chalega 😛
Life is amazing for singles after 30
If you want to be unmarried for your lifetime then better to don't look for marriage. If you want to then do marriage as quickly as possible because after 30 mostly guys don't go for you because after 30 age to give birth to a child is difficult mostly it fails.there are many women who thinks they don't need family but when they become 34 they will look for men but at that time men don't look for you
enjoy life
Also as you can see, the gen-z's show off about their relationship, gf/bf, relationship, date, etc words have become common now
Thank god, I am single
Proud to be single.
I am 36 and still single.
Isme proudness kya hain
Proud to be a human
@@abhijeet4799 akele khudko sabalne me jyada mehnat lagti he, especially jab tum society me rehete ho
It is also strange and sad how supreme court said live-in-relationship is our right but unmarried couple living together are not allowed either to rent an apartment and judged so much by society
After so many incidents of murder in live-in-relationship cases, now Supreme court says that being in live-in-relationship is not safe especially for womens.
sad
Why live in relationships are bad? Married couples have higher rates of domestic violence than in live in relationships.
@@rajashashankgutta4334 agree
@@rajashashankgutta4334 yupp
It's hard when not only society but parents don't understand you
Indian education and now...Indian society
Why are they soo worse???
Being a single I can say that the single people are also somewhat responsible for this situation. Most of the singles learn basic manners, responsibilities, financial discipline and home management only after they get married because they don’t have any other choice. I have seen single people maintain their home or room in a very shoddy or cluttered manner. No homeowner want such a tenant in their property. I was the hostel secretary of my college for two years it was very hard to find a moderately clean and organised room. Usually the singles are the most noisy and outrageous in a community. They don’t care about other peoples peace or privacy or they don’t follow the rules which are made for a common good. So it’s no wonder that singles are least preferred in a community where families peacefully live. Even I faced difficulties in finding a flat. But after I got a flat when the flat owner saw my clean room he was so happy that he even reduced the rent only for me. Now he treats me like his own son. So If we do an introspection, without doubt we can say that we are also responsible for this situation. So like Gandhi said, be the change that you want to see in this society.
True. My family owns a building with rooms for rents. Over time from our possession of the house, we found that bachelors, and working bachelors at that, cause a lot less trouble than a family lol.
As a homeowner, I can assure that families are really difficult to deal with. Bachelor boys are quite easy to deal. They don't like to create scenes. Best people.
My mom gave them our rooms for rent just because I convinced her. Because a time will come when I may need to go out and get a flat in my work city.
And I like to keep my room and car really neat and tidy. I reorganize my cupboard once a week.
Plus, I don't like nonveg, but my family does. I don't even drink tea lol😂. My mom says that I am like a walking bank.😂
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Discrimination has many forms. Thank you so much for addressing this issue.
*Watching a 12 min video of Mohak 12 hours before my exam is another level of fun*
Which exam ? Did it go well ?
@@adriangaming4853 yes thanks...this is one of my other accounts for liking my commentz 😁
Haha! Outside India with the exception of middle eastern countries,It’s the other way round. Families with kids struggle to rent a house especially in western countries but for singles its pretty cheap and easy.
Staying single is a sign of wise thinking
This is one of the social issues we are facing today ...
Thanks for highlighting this !!
That's mohak for us
Our voice
And our news
No left, no right
Straight to the point
Am happy to be single...no fake love or dramas
If you are single
People think of you are not a normal male
I don't know what about the girls
Yup happy to accept my future wife instead of many fakes
Yep...stay Happy...stay Single🙂
Takea time find your soul mate
People often to andmoive together right after their first date
I think that's just stupid
@@Invixnlty what do you think is important while finding soulmate?
Happily single but want to find soulmate
But scared as our society only gives one chance at relationship and that is marriage