habits to avoid if you want dark confidence

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  • habits to avoid if you want dark confidence
    Do you want confidence that announces itself without you having to say a word? The kind of quiet confidence that’s lethal? Confidence that makes you not only intimidating but also appealing?
    So, in this video, I’ll share with you habits to avoid if you want that dark, steely, intimidating confidence.
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  • @donallen7313
    @donallen7313 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +397

    You can’t play confidence. You simply have to learn to love yourself and accept that how you are is how you are. Then defend that, and stand up for what you want and trust that it’s right. When it’s wrong, face the consequences of your actions with humility. Stop looking at tv and movie characters as templates for how you should be. That is the very opposite of confidence.

    • @neo1675
      @neo1675 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      you should make a video

    • @slysoulja1861
      @slysoulja1861 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      real

    • @benja303
      @benja303 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      facts. this is all so 🌽y

    • @amaniet8722
      @amaniet8722 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      honestly its best to just be yourself i find these vids soo goofy because why would u take advise to be someone your not at the end of the day your true self will still show so its like just be you.

    • @briancomforti3890
      @briancomforti3890 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      yeah this only works if what you stand up for is actually right. Otherwise you're one of a million people standing up for immoral cowardly behavior because you "trust that it's right"

  • @lylyle2029
    @lylyle2029 ปีที่แล้ว +701

    just work on yourself be your personality bro like if ur nature is talkative then learn how to talk interestingly don't try to "listen more, speak less" omg confidence can't be faked

    • @officialonifans
      @officialonifans ปีที่แล้ว +90

      confidence comes from character development. not the personality you're born with.

    • @lavatr8322
      @lavatr8322 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      My nature isn't talkative and I have social anxiety but I fought it and joined the gym where I get more social anxiety, also I'm the thinnest guy ....but I fight it.

    • @lylyle2029
      @lylyle2029 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@officialonifans ofc but you have to develop around your personality, there's different kind of confident, talk less and be colder is not the only way

    • @balleraddict
      @balleraddict 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Facts bro... there are those guys who talk a lot but they know how to move their audience with their words most of the time... really extroverted individuals. They're able to talk to a multitude of people

    • @fuadhaque9417
      @fuadhaque9417 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This comment made my day, so true!!!

  • @milinddinesh7359
    @milinddinesh7359 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    Keep it simple .
    Stay fit.
    Have healthy habits.
    Work on your posture.
    Spend more time offline or with people instead of social media .
    Listen more talk less.
    Dress simple , but presentable and according to the occasion.
    Take care of general hygiene and cleanliness.

  • @xxiamlostxx_dreams_7916
    @xxiamlostxx_dreams_7916 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +141

    I really love the" fake it till you make it " confidence

    • @mustbecome
      @mustbecome 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      I hear you.
      Eventually, you no longer have game, you just BECOME game. Its never off. If you just keep practicing it, it kind of just comes.
      Think about when we sleep. We basically put our head on the pillow and pretend to be asleep until finally.... we're sleeping lol.

    • @ChrisWilliams-ls7ue
      @ChrisWilliams-ls7ue 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Holy shit I never thought of the sleep thing lol

  • @iamsubhamstark
    @iamsubhamstark ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Broooo, straight up quality content and facts. Keep them coming.

  • @ekbrownly1205
    @ekbrownly1205 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    Confidence has nothin to do with looks or how u feel
    The more u know about the universe the less u start to care about life
    People who lack confidence just don’t know much

    • @pillspotions3464
      @pillspotions3464 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm not confident...please teach me.

    • @ENZERYN
      @ENZERYN 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      "confidence has nothin to do with looks or how you feel" what's with that exaggeration.. rather misleading

  • @dylanguitarr
    @dylanguitarr 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    “if u wanna have dark confidence you need clear skin “😭 stop ittt

  • @SelfMasteryYT
    @SelfMasteryYT ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Your best video yet 👊🏻

  • @enioescauriza330
    @enioescauriza330 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Your best video! Water in my opinion is the real challenge, always being surrounded by soft drinks or alcohol

    • @mustbecome
      @mustbecome 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Honestly, try doing a 75 day challenege of avoiding things other than water. Make sure your friends know youre doing it. That way, when theres temptation, they already know youve preset that you're not touching it. Then either take a couple days to chill, or go back on another challenge. Soon enough people will just know you as the guy who doesnt drink that shit.

    • @ZoneTwelveOnline
      @ZoneTwelveOnline 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Water drinking is like a form of fitness the more you become able to drink in a day the more effortless it becomes.
      We were forced to drink 4 litres every day for years when I was young because of high level training.
      I didn't know at the time but it was a blessing because to this day I drink 2 litres a day as a preference, WHY?
      Because my "water drinking fitness" that benchmark was set at 4 Litres.
      The body will adjust and then expect it.
      You will look 30 when you are in your 40s

  • @bugarskisvercerduvana3436
    @bugarskisvercerduvana3436 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    I actually don't have problem with listening, but girls are nervous around me (they go silent), and I should talk more in that situations. By the way, for me, as a men, if she is too nervous, it is a turn off, but not too big turn off.

    • @jonnygraham2372
      @jonnygraham2372 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Agreed. How I got around that was by doing something when you’re exercising silence.
      Examples: walking together at night, working out, watching a movie at a theatre, or group activities with friends. Or simply pet them. I choose to be charmingly silent when in groups, though. Don’t wanna throw off the vibe
      When the girls go silent, I will wait 30-60 seconds if they’re uncomfortable, then I will ask a thought provoking question (if she’s dumb I’ll push a hot button and let them rant) and let the ominous look do it work.
      For example, I asked my girl the other night after some silence “what do you see when you look at me” and it hit hard for the mood. Last night I asked “what would it realistically take take for this summer to be everything you wanted it to be?”
      Begin questions with the 3 W’s
      1.)will you
      2.) what has
      3.) why do you think
      I hope you try this out and get back to me with what you think.

    • @ishaqbaloch5136
      @ishaqbaloch5136 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Brooo use humor and talk about things she like and do

  • @LeonardPC272
    @LeonardPC272 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You just gotta feel good inside

  • @jesuschristislord98
    @jesuschristislord98 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Confidence come from doing something and getting the desired results ..but you have to keep trying when you fail ..if you believe that you will find success through trading don't stop when you blow your acc but go back to the drawing board and learn then comeback for more ..keep getting up when you fvck it up ..eventually you'll get it and that's were the confidence will come from ..first you start and then you never stop

  • @LPrulezhard
    @LPrulezhard ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Im going monkmode starting today for the next 3 months. My goal is to get in better shape physically, workout every day and grow my business to 5-10 k a month and 5 people who i manage, coach and lead.
    Lets do this!

    • @davideddy3074
      @davideddy3074 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too bro I'm on the same mission. Let's fuckin go

    • @mustbecome
      @mustbecome 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      YES. 90 days is amazing to do something like this. I talk about this all the time. And eventually you'll just prefer yourself as monkmode and that will just become you because the results are so addictive. No other way to live.
      Keep us updated on the progress!

    • @Sallen000
      @Sallen000 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yall always be talking about doing sum shit, not keeping in mind that you need to provide real value..
      If you aint got no skills that you can cash out on, you wont learn any good enough to do so in 2-3 months. Look for something you like doing and then work on your craft instead of talking bout sum useless shit

    • @LunchWitLou
      @LunchWitLou 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What type of buisness you into ?

    • @eyespy3001
      @eyespy3001 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@LunchWitLouPyramid scheme

  • @famousintellect
    @famousintellect 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    great vid!! thanks 🙏🏿

  • @daddysirbtw3192
    @daddysirbtw3192 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    i want to stop using social medias but also want to keep self improving

    • @Ayush-li6nn
      @Ayush-li6nn 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@duncanpincushion9980 good advice.

  • @mariusgutowski8623
    @mariusgutowski8623 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    it´s so funny how patrick bateman, literally a psychopath that brutally murders people, has become some type of role model to all you alpha bros.

    • @SoSoAmazing
      @SoSoAmazing 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      lmmfaooooo for real

    • @felixlehmann6369
      @felixlehmann6369 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And thomas shelby, gangster boss and drug addict with failed relationships to his children, his wife and his brother. 😂

    • @ENZERYN
      @ENZERYN 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@felixlehmann6369and he even has so mnay mental issues. PTSD, depression, etc. He isn't seductive, isn't likeable... Just has status and wannabe-effortless attitude. Life's off with him.

  • @JustABoy98
    @JustABoy98 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love it love it broo new fan 🔥

  • @A789.
    @A789. ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you sm bro

  • @xsyllvr
    @xsyllvr 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    After watching this video, I've realized this was me all along.

  • @carltwidle9046
    @carltwidle9046 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    No one has 100 % complete confidence. I'm an old guy now. I lacked self confidence at times in my life, but so does everyone. Anyone who's says they are confident all the time are lying.

  • @marvin22blu
    @marvin22blu ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Dark confidence ? Bruh wtf y’all coming up with new shit everyday 😂😂😂

    • @obiblaster3913
      @obiblaster3913 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Real bro, wtf is an asthetic man 💀

    • @sakshamrao6581
      @sakshamrao6581 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I think it is just similar to introverted confidence

    • @glitch8445
      @glitch8445 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      fr bro , if he renamed it to just confidence it actually makes sense but tf is dark confidence

    • @VanitasTV
      @VanitasTV 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Corrupt Rizz 🤣

  • @RafYT
    @RafYT 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The song aight ngl…good marketing

  • @Flyfam11
    @Flyfam11 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wish I could give this four thumbs up!!!! Oh wait….👍👍👍👍

  • @estetiknasanextyear8440
    @estetiknasanextyear8440 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this was good

  • @rahulgudhe551
    @rahulgudhe551 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank you

  • @colemoran13
    @colemoran13 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The videos you've been making really resonate with me. Would you be willing to let me edit for you for free until the channel is at the point where you are making good money?

  • @zakilisandro9003
    @zakilisandro9003 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I thing that this dark confidence exist only in Films. And TV shows

  • @GangGang-cp3sz
    @GangGang-cp3sz ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you make one video about money management, job things for girls and yourself?

  • @donarunav7214
    @donarunav7214 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lucrative.

  • @kimoshoheeb5402
    @kimoshoheeb5402 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    To speak less when you have nothing important or effective to say.
    As long as speaking provokes you then that's the target dude.
    To make you un comfortable.
    That's what we are all working on.

    • @ENZERYN
      @ENZERYN 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're rare

  • @matthewcormier8744
    @matthewcormier8744 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes

  • @mrsugma
    @mrsugma 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Being blunt

  • @Astranoire
    @Astranoire 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I swear, people keep making up new terms and create youtube guide of them for profits.

  • @woudanborson2778
    @woudanborson2778 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    talk less and listen more - well, this can be interpreted as shyness tbh

    • @sahilutekar495
      @sahilutekar495 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If you were truly listening just maintain the eye contact with the person who's talking and then you'll not be interpreted as shy person and if still that person or any other person tries to tell u that you're shy give them straight answer ' I'm all ears to '. ' the person who's talking this helps...

  • @laughalltime_
    @laughalltime_ ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Hey can you make a video for hair routine of black men ,our hair are totally different

    • @__ActaFooL
      @__ActaFooL ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Finally someone said it💯

    • @j36793
      @j36793 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      How are you going to ask a non black guy for black advice

    • @Praise--
      @Praise-- ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@j36793💀

    • @Datboi_Av
      @Datboi_Av 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@j36793 😂nigga

    • @Datboi_Av
      @Datboi_Av 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Bro just grow that shit out or just get well braided braids or a drop fade there’s so much we can do bro if it’s grown out like our out curl it water conditioner shake boom we don’t have to a lot of shit fr fr 😂

  • @shahrulziman7752
    @shahrulziman7752 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's been 5 day, i can now finally finish the video😂

  • @kaspervaneetvemde2613
    @kaspervaneetvemde2613 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Real confident people don’t have to fake…

  • @cassius12ful
    @cassius12ful ปีที่แล้ว

    Third !!

  • @youngmoney7262
    @youngmoney7262 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ultra gigachad pro max😂😂💔

  • @VhsssTv
    @VhsssTv 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    In terms of skin care products don't listen to him. Get
    (morning)
    Cleanser/ face wash (gentle soothing)
    Niacinamide & hyaloronic acid serum
    Moisturiser & spf
    (Night)
    Salicylic acid Exfoliant
    Vitamin c serum
    Retinol
    Every 2 weeks use a derma stamp 0.75mm to help your skin produce more cologen :)
    That's the secret to perfect skin

  • @tjbenito683
    @tjbenito683 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ya no, I’m getting jacked don’t give a shit wat anybody says.

  • @user-nf1fo7fe3w
    @user-nf1fo7fe3w 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    working on ur physique ain’t looksmaxxing that’s gymmaxxing and looksmaxxers usually make fun of those hyper masculine guys

  • @davidignatius1
    @davidignatius1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can you have a dark confidence while also being poor? Or being rich is also a must?

  • @himmick5438
    @himmick5438 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Humanity is so confused

  • @justheretoinspireyou5803
    @justheretoinspireyou5803 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cool vid..

  • @EyuephanTuran
    @EyuephanTuran 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have a little Rock under my Bedsheets

  • @hoangphi241
    @hoangphi241 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    can i have normal confidence ?

  •  ปีที่แล้ว +2

    first

  • @Private_Account101
    @Private_Account101 ปีที่แล้ว

    W vid

  • @orhanbbeslagic-ss6pu
    @orhanbbeslagic-ss6pu ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Second its sad

  • @hemantsalaskar6004
    @hemantsalaskar6004 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Vro are u from India?

  • @Kometheus
    @Kometheus 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    After you come out as an ai voice channel or famous TH-camr can I have the channel? Lol 👀

  • @39ares
    @39ares ปีที่แล้ว +4

    the thing is.. i am a narcissist bro 😩

  • @Contagious_chap
    @Contagious_chap 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why is it label dark?

  • @ronkeli2963
    @ronkeli2963 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @Yarmox
    @Yarmox ปีที่แล้ว +14

    We need old money aesthetic confidence

    • @eyespy3001
      @eyespy3001 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Dude, get off Tik Tok…

    • @Yarmox
      @Yarmox 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@eyespy3001 we need tik tok quiet luxury aesthic. please

    • @mosey4915
      @mosey4915 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@eyespy3001hahaha fr man hate this generation

  • @pubggameplay2617
    @pubggameplay2617 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Who died and made you the authority on dark confidence

  • @obiblaster3913
    @obiblaster3913 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    How do I get light confidence? 🧐🧐

    • @Wallentino
      @Wallentino 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Is this supposed to be a joke... If it is, it's probably a good one😂😂💯 premium bro

    • @carlosreptile
      @carlosreptile 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      just play with white mage bro

  • @coldndistant6511
    @coldndistant6511 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    just be yourself bro

  • @Me-vl4vk
    @Me-vl4vk 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    As a gay guy I see a quiet confident man and the question is "do I wanna be him or do I want him"

  • @MemeYouyou-dz4yk
    @MemeYouyou-dz4yk 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I already had their confidence before there was even a name for it but it doesn't seem to work in this part of town because a lot of idiot girls and foolish followers kiss the butt or lick the boots of whoever they're afraid of instead of who they truly respect
    Instead, they're jealous envious haters while being impressed by the
    While I don't have to prove anything which is misinterpreted as I am nothing
    The truth is I'm past that something with the big mouth showing off
    I don't have to show I'm already private and I know I'm good until you find out😶
    My comfort zone does not require other people's approval especially if they're jealous haters which means a secretly admire you but wish to mislead or lie to you to sabotage you
    Never believe the hype folks don't believe the hype🤪🙃

  • @SoSoAmazing
    @SoSoAmazing 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So basically tips for 16 year olds and shit.... ok cool. Glad I stopped halfway. But I respect your work and hustle. Wish you the best in the TH-cam game.

  • @slysoulja1861
    @slysoulja1861 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    wtf is dark confidence bro

  • @balistikcious
    @balistikcious 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Pls stop the keyboard sounds

  • @tcxboz
    @tcxboz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    But i'm black😭😭

    • @SandyNiki
      @SandyNiki 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You mean ebony.

  • @themvp8922
    @themvp8922 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Cringe on god

  • @agareas333
    @agareas333 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    HAHHA cope harder

  • @Mids528
    @Mids528 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh my god😂dark confidence is the gayest shitt ive ever heard it’s just confidence people are trying to hard to be profound nowadays

  • @biggiesmalls3096
    @biggiesmalls3096 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Weird video this la

  • @BetterEveryDay947
    @BetterEveryDay947 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The first tips is pure BS, talk as much as you need. Hone your speaking skill.